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Los miedos como brújula en la vida | José María Ramos Rodríguez Arana | TEDxUDLAP


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we are all very happy to be

here as a former student

I want to start with a confession

not very much and a very insecure person with

many fears

even complicated what happened was

very ingrained itself and comfort through

of a series of very emotional events

I faced my fears decided

enter fully to my fears

recognize them with this talk them

sought to leave with the idea that

recognize those fears admit them and

enter fully

no one likes to feel scared fear

It is a situation that makes us feel the

closeness to pain to a situation

unexpected to danger

this situation that tells you hey deers

village and it will not happen to you surely not

imagined being in a dark alley

for example nobody around walking from

poinsettia a forest full of fog

before dawn without knowing that the

wait from the side of the trees

that’s where it comes in surely is

in other room and I fear tazo and this

it’s not chance we basically have no

I explain it to you

evolutionarily we have on the chip as

recognize mine

if you have a feeling of danger

vital or not and it’s not for nothing that they give us

our ancestors used fear

to lead pyrex running search

tests look for weapons seize fire

take refuge from groups not to be able to leave

of these fears use their fears to

get out of these dangers and so

survive with this context that seems

a little bit bobo I want to talk about what

that I think we all have

implanted in the chip our chip

evolutionary what I call the program

of the reptilian huevón

this is the retirement huevón that lives

inside of all one of us who does

the pumping removal basically avoid

suffering pain and seek the

pleasure is your function in life that is

for what moves

imagine now a thirty-something

thirty-something than with his peace to which he

iron longed for leko cooked him

They pay you collect everything all everything

all

here is the scope to call it

fernandito and his mother in areas of

thirty-something who is in this area of

comfort like why would I want

fernandito leave this situation so

uncomfortable not reptile reptiles is very

taste when the roe is terrific because

one of the great weaknesses of the

reptile reptile program is that this

It is not seeking pleasure and pain

short term moves today

right now if it saves my survival

it is insured

ready I’ll enjoy tomorrow morning already

we will see

today I’m cool

that is invariably our reptilian

takes us to the dangerously dangerous

comfort zone invariably its

work for that exists to ensure

our survival and who needs

to leave the comfort zone to the

whatever it is that you find yourself in is a

push our our world our

Willpower will take us

certain starting point if in the long run

we are going to be more than that

a ginés pushing this heavy stone

uphill for more enthusiasm and

let him motivation to reach

a point where we say to the

fuck

we play below and passing

we return to the area where we feel

comfortable

what is needed is not a Chinese push

it’s a jale what I mean with a jale

it’s with that idea that wakes us up

in the morning and we get out of bed not

pull out the bed because we already have that

purpose is not that we’re you’re

determined to do it but already in

automatic takes us is the jale

look no further than the difference

effort that involve a push

very nice everything but how rays get to

that

as usual to comfort find that

basically so priceless

to get to have your jale you need

get to knock down the emotional what the hell

is the emotional threshold is at the point

where bottoming bottoming and

you are experiencing an emotional situation

not favorable where you say enough is no longer

more I can not tolerate it anymore I will not live

well and does not tolerate a quality of life for

below which I deserve this is the

quality of life that I deserve

– it is intolerable that it happens in general

we found by the situation

a despair for inspiration

that’s how we got to this point

remember that life we ​​do not have what

we want

we get live we experience what

we tolerate melting huevón

he does not live anything that he does not tolerate and

your place of comfort to be insured

because it is going to move to move sky sea and

Earth

to guarantee that point how many times

elderly people who say you have to be

abusive weave complaint

a partner who mistreats her works in a

toxic environment that lives in a neighborhood

dangerous a housing dwelling

depressing that he does not earn what he wants

especially that justifies saying

things like here we had to live better

that nothing

that’s how it has to be we are poor

Better bad for known than good

to know

because we live because they live or because

we live like this for a simple reason

because we tolerate it which is our

state and our way of life

we are where we are because what

we tolerate but to talk about the story

when I touched bottom I made some

years worked for the oil company more

world’s largest in Saudi Arabia in

Middle East

after a few years in refinery in

the plant moved me to corporate

he worked in the newest tower of

white and its number on the 13th floor in

house with an office for me only

ocean view but the desert so

I was in glory myself, winning what

that I would like a very nice office

basic I went out of costume every day not

was my dream job but what

I was passing

I was not happy I was not

doing work I considered valuable

I was not adding value anymore

I knew why I woke up in the

morning half lost distressed

I really wanted to put in

return to Mexico for a company to

afraid friends came out that comfort zone

super super comfortable that happened to the

few months disposition pregnant women

very happy but plans

five months later we lost salve

in this moment I found shadow

emotional one day I was alone

reflecting work time for

reflect when this happens I would

I said you already lost what you love most based on

life is gone

will not come back now you want to put

a company you want to undertake recognizes

you’re afraid but again and

you lost what you love most in life

what are you afraid of creating a

company to break the can be another

but what are you afraid of in that

moment I fell twenty and villa

so far what can win or the

Amenities you may have are not worth it

then when I decided and soon

time the company resigns returns to

mexico found the honey

what I want to leave very briefly

the things that have left me more

satisfaction and greater pride in my life

It has been those which identified

my fear the center full

you have to say with that everyone called them

that they do an introspection and recognize

your fears your insecurities

we all have the recognition and make

them an objective that put them as

objective they were like when they do that they go

to spend extraordinary things and his life

it’s going to change completely as they say

there when you put on big shoes you

grows on the feet

Thank you

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