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[Applause]

[Applause] hi Emma jidoka now if you don’t know

hi Emma jidoka now if you don’t know

hi Emma jidoka now if you don’t know what that is

what that is

what that is the term judoka is used to describe

the term judoka is used to describe

the term judoka is used to describe someone who practices the martial art of

someone who practices the martial art of

someone who practices the martial art of Judo and even though if how the number

Judo and even though if how the number

Judo and even though if how the number of different roles and titles throughout

of different roles and titles throughout

of different roles and titles throughout my lifetime identifies a judoka because

my lifetime identifies a judoka because

my lifetime identifies a judoka because the life lessons I’ve learned in judo

the life lessons I’ve learned in judo

the life lessons I’ve learned in judo are responsible for everything good in

are responsible for everything good in

are responsible for everything good in my life and continue to guide my actions

my life and continue to guide my actions

my life and continue to guide my actions today you see as a child I needed help

today you see as a child I needed help

today you see as a child I needed help my mother who is a wonderful person has

my mother who is a wonderful person has

my mother who is a wonderful person has battled mental illness my entire life

battled mental illness my entire life

battled mental illness my entire life bipolar disorder and illness as cruel as

bipolar disorder and illness as cruel as

bipolar disorder and illness as cruel as it is unpredictable

it is unpredictable

it is unpredictable growing up bipolar disorder or the

growing up bipolar disorder or the

growing up bipolar disorder or the illness as I like to call it dominated

illness as I like to call it dominated

illness as I like to call it dominated our lives there was no space for me at

our lives there was no space for me at

our lives there was no space for me at all so over time and without any sort of

all so over time and without any sort of

all so over time and without any sort of positive outlet I began to build up

positive outlet I began to build up

positive outlet I began to build up feelings of anger and frustration by the

feelings of anger and frustration by the

feelings of anger and frustration by the age of 10 I had so much rage built up

age of 10 I had so much rage built up

age of 10 I had so much rage built up inside of me that I physically wanted to

inside of me that I physically wanted to

inside of me that I physically wanted to break something so one day when I was

break something so one day when I was

break something so one day when I was watching television and saw kids my own

watching television and saw kids my own

watching television and saw kids my own age practicing karate and breaking

age practicing karate and breaking

age practicing karate and breaking boards with their bare hands I knew this

boards with their bare hands I knew this

boards with their bare hands I knew this was something I had to do fortunately

was something I had to do fortunately

was something I had to do fortunately when I talked to my dad about it he said

when I talked to my dad about it he said

when I talked to my dad about it he said there was a karate dojo located right

there was a karate dojo located right

there was a karate dojo located right across the street from his work but when

across the street from his work but when

across the street from his work but when we went down to register the head

we went down to register the head

we went down to register the head instructor said I had to be at least 16

instructor said I had to be at least 16

instructor said I had to be at least 16 years old before I could join karate so

years old before I could join karate so

years old before I could join karate so he suggested that I try judo instead now

he suggested that I try judo instead now

he suggested that I try judo instead now as 10 years old at the time so waiting

as 10 years old at the time so waiting

as 10 years old at the time so waiting six years to do something that I really

six years to do something that I really

six years to do something that I really wanted to do seem like an eternity so

wanted to do seem like an eternity so

wanted to do seem like an eternity so reluctantly I decided to give judo a try

reluctantly I decided to give judo a try

reluctantly I decided to give judo a try lesson one

lesson one

lesson one clear your mind at first you don’t seem

clear your mind at first you don’t seem

clear your mind at first you don’t seem to be the exact opposite of what I

to be the exact opposite of what I

to be the exact opposite of what I wanted to be doing for example we had

wanted to be doing for example we had

wanted to be doing for example we had begin every practice with a ritual

begin every practice with a ritual

begin every practice with a ritual called muxo this involved us kneeling

called muxo this involved us kneeling

called muxo this involved us kneeling down closing our eyes and taking several

down closing our eyes and taking several

down closing our eyes and taking several slow deep breaths for what seemed like

slow deep breaths for what seemed like

slow deep breaths for what seemed like forever

forever

forever apparently it was the intention of this

apparently it was the intention of this

apparently it was the intention of this practice for us

practice for us

practice for us to clear our minds and refocus our

to clear our minds and refocus our

to clear our minds and refocus our attention towards judo prior to the

attention towards judo prior to the

attention towards judo prior to the start of every session now this was

start of every session now this was

start of every session now this was incredibly difficult for me at first

incredibly difficult for me at first

incredibly difficult for me at first plus I thought it was totally ridiculous

plus I thought it was totally ridiculous

plus I thought it was totally ridiculous hey but if this is what needed to happen

hey but if this is what needed to happen

hey but if this is what needed to happen before they were gonna let me be people

before they were gonna let me be people

before they were gonna let me be people up then fine now at first I merely just

up then fine now at first I merely just

up then fine now at first I merely just tolerated this practice but then one day

tolerated this practice but then one day

tolerated this practice but then one day something happened that completely

something happened that completely

something happened that completely changed my perspective on it I was

changed my perspective on it I was

changed my perspective on it I was sitting at home in my living room when

sitting at home in my living room when

sitting at home in my living room when suddenly and for no rational or apparent

suddenly and for no rational or apparent

suddenly and for no rational or apparent reason my mother came up to me and

reason my mother came up to me and

reason my mother came up to me and completely lost it on me which if you’re

completely lost it on me which if you’re

completely lost it on me which if you’re at all familiar with bipolar disorder

at all familiar with bipolar disorder

at all familiar with bipolar disorder can be a pretty common occurrence

can be a pretty common occurrence

can be a pretty common occurrence however in past when I’ve been attacked

however in past when I’ve been attacked

however in past when I’ve been attacked by her illness it would leave me feeling

by her illness it would leave me feeling

by her illness it would leave me feeling devastated and I’d retreat upstairs to

devastated and I’d retreat upstairs to

devastated and I’d retreat upstairs to my bedroom where I’d often spend the

my bedroom where I’d often spend the

my bedroom where I’d often spend the rest the day up there alone in tears but

rest the day up there alone in tears but

rest the day up there alone in tears but on this particular occasion I remember

on this particular occasion I remember

on this particular occasion I remember getting up going to my room closing the

getting up going to my room closing the

getting up going to my room closing the door kneeling down closing my eyes and

door kneeling down closing my eyes and

door kneeling down closing my eyes and taking several slow deep breaths I

taking several slow deep breaths I

taking several slow deep breaths I cleared my mind of my interaction with

cleared my mind of my interaction with

cleared my mind of my interaction with her and then decided to refocus on how I

her and then decided to refocus on how I

her and then decided to refocus on how I was gonna spend the rest of my day

was gonna spend the rest of my day

was gonna spend the rest of my day then I opened my eyes got up and went

then I opened my eyes got up and went

then I opened my eyes got up and went outside to play with my friends and that

outside to play with my friends and that

outside to play with my friends and that was the moment where I truly understood

was the moment where I truly understood

was the moment where I truly understood the value of this practice that by

the value of this practice that by

the value of this practice that by engaging in muxo I could not only clear

engaging in muxo I could not only clear

engaging in muxo I could not only clear my mind of any unpleasant experiences

my mind of any unpleasant experiences

my mind of any unpleasant experiences that I might have but I could also then

that I might have but I could also then

that I might have but I could also then choose what I wanted to focus on now

choose what I wanted to focus on now

choose what I wanted to focus on now this was quite a revelation for me

this was quite a revelation for me

this was quite a revelation for me because up to that point in my life I’d

because up to that point in my life I’d

because up to that point in my life I’d been a total prisoner to my interactions

been a total prisoner to my interactions

been a total prisoner to my interactions with others how they treated me

with others how they treated me

with others how they treated me determine whether or not it was going to

determine whether or not it was going to

determine whether or not it was going to be a good day or a bad day but in that

be a good day or a bad day but in that

be a good day or a bad day but in that moment I learned that by engaging in

moment I learned that by engaging in

moment I learned that by engaging in muxo I could control the way in which I

muxo I could control the way in which I

muxo I could control the way in which I would experience the world lesson to go

would experience the world lesson to go

would experience the world lesson to go with the flow okay so maybe muxo was not

with the flow okay so maybe muxo was not

with the flow okay so maybe muxo was not so bad but I still wasn’t sure about

so bad but I still wasn’t sure about

so bad but I still wasn’t sure about judo because the next thing I learned

judo because the next thing I learned

judo because the next thing I learned was completely contrary to the idea that

was completely contrary to the idea that

was completely contrary to the idea that I would one

I would one

I would one turn my body into a lethal weapon

turn my body into a lethal weapon

turn my body into a lethal weapon believe it or not I learned that the

believe it or not I learned that the

believe it or not I learned that the literal meaning of the word judo was get

literal meaning of the word judo was get

literal meaning of the word judo was get this the gentle way I know right that

this the gentle way I know right that

this the gentle way I know right that the basic principle of judo was not one

the basic principle of judo was not one

the basic principle of judo was not one of aggression but one of flowing with

of aggression but one of flowing with

of aggression but one of flowing with things now in Japanese this is referred

things now in Japanese this is referred

things now in Japanese this is referred to as say do Kazan yo or maximum

to as say do Kazan yo or maximum

to as say do Kazan yo or maximum efficiency minimum effort that just as

efficiency minimum effort that just as

efficiency minimum effort that just as water flows effortlessly through around

water flows effortlessly through around

water flows effortlessly through around obstacles when it meets resistance in

obstacles when it meets resistance in

obstacles when it meets resistance in nature when a judo throw is properly

nature when a judo throw is properly

nature when a judo throw is properly executed that too feels effortless okay

executed that too feels effortless okay

executed that too feels effortless okay sure

sure

sure needless to say I was totally skeptical

needless to say I was totally skeptical

needless to say I was totally skeptical about this at first but then I had that

about this at first but then I had that

about this at first but then I had that one moment the moment that anyone who

one moment the moment that anyone who

one moment the moment that anyone who has ever fallen in love with judo has

has ever fallen in love with judo has

has ever fallen in love with judo has experienced the very first time you

experienced the very first time you

experienced the very first time you successfully throw someone with a judo

successfully throw someone with a judo

successfully throw someone with a judo technique I remember it like it was

technique I remember it like it was

technique I remember it like it was yesterday I was practicing with my

yesterday I was practicing with my

yesterday I was practicing with my partner and then suddenly and completely

partner and then suddenly and completely

partner and then suddenly and completely accidentally I turned in at exactly the

accidentally I turned in at exactly the

accidentally I turned in at exactly the right moment the next thing I knew my

right moment the next thing I knew my

right moment the next thing I knew my partner was flying high over my head and

partner was flying high over my head and

partner was flying high over my head and crash landed down hard on their back

crash landed down hard on their back

crash landed down hard on their back beside me it was awesome

beside me it was awesome

beside me it was awesome a joy like I’d never experienced before

a joy like I’d never experienced before

a joy like I’d never experienced before in my entire life and it didn’t require

in my entire life and it didn’t require

in my entire life and it didn’t require strength or force and it felt like I’d

strength or force and it felt like I’d

strength or force and it felt like I’d done nothing to make it happen

done nothing to make it happen

done nothing to make it happen except move in exactly the right way at

except move in exactly the right way at

except move in exactly the right way at exactly the right time sadiel Kazan no

exactly the right time sadiel Kazan no

exactly the right time sadiel Kazan no maximum efficiency minimum effort I now

maximum efficiency minimum effort I now

maximum efficiency minimum effort I now truly understood what this meant I had

truly understood what this meant I had

truly understood what this meant I had no idea how to make it happen again but

no idea how to make it happen again but

no idea how to make it happen again but that didn’t matter because I was hooked

that didn’t matter because I was hooked

that didn’t matter because I was hooked now and determined to try and master

now and determined to try and master

now and determined to try and master this principle my commitment to going

this principle my commitment to going

this principle my commitment to going with the flow began to help me at home

with the flow began to help me at home

with the flow began to help me at home too I began to notice the difference

too I began to notice the difference

too I began to notice the difference between whether or not I was dealing

between whether or not I was dealing

between whether or not I was dealing with my mother or the illness and was

with my mother or the illness and was

with my mother or the illness and was able to respond accordingly when the

able to respond accordingly when the

able to respond accordingly when the illness was there I just stayed away

illness was there I just stayed away

illness was there I just stayed away but when my mother was herself we began

but when my mother was herself we began

but when my mother was herself we began spending time together

spending time together

spending time together through this I got to experience her

through this I got to experience her

through this I got to experience her warmth the compassion humor and the

warmth the compassion humor and the

warmth the compassion humor and the wonderful mother and woman that she was

wonderful mother and woman that she was

wonderful mother and woman that she was without judo I’m not sure that I ever

without judo I’m not sure that I ever

without judo I’m not sure that I ever would have been able to experience this

would have been able to experience this

would have been able to experience this gift and for that I will be eternally

gift and for that I will be eternally

gift and for that I will be eternally grateful

lesson three effort is accomplishment

lesson three effort is accomplishment okay so now I was totally committed to

okay so now I was totally committed to

okay so now I was totally committed to judo but I still wasn’t very good at in

judo but I still wasn’t very good at in

judo but I still wasn’t very good at in in fact for the first two and a half

in fact for the first two and a half

in fact for the first two and a half years of my judo career I lost every

years of my judo career I lost every

years of my judo career I lost every single match in competition then when I

single match in competition then when I

single match in competition then when I turned 13 I was offered the opportunity

turned 13 I was offered the opportunity

turned 13 I was offered the opportunity to play soccer for a pretty high-level

to play soccer for a pretty high-level

to play soccer for a pretty high-level team but when I learned that making that

team but when I learned that making that

team but when I learned that making that team would mean I’d have to quit judo I

team would mean I’d have to quit judo I

team would mean I’d have to quit judo I felt torn so I went to talk to my coach

felt torn so I went to talk to my coach

felt torn so I went to talk to my coach about it and even though that

about it and even though that

about it and even though that conversation took place over 30 years

conversation took place over 30 years

conversation took place over 30 years ago today I can still see a vividly in

ago today I can still see a vividly in

ago today I can still see a vividly in my mind I remember going up to her after

my mind I remember going up to her after

my mind I remember going up to her after practice and explaining my dilemma to

practice and explaining my dilemma to

practice and explaining my dilemma to her in great detail she listened

her in great detail she listened

her in great detail she listened intently and then at the end looked me

intently and then at the end looked me

intently and then at the end looked me straight in the eyes and said I think

straight in the eyes and said I think

straight in the eyes and said I think that you should choose soccer because

that you should choose soccer because

that you should choose soccer because you have no natural ability in judo ouch

you have no natural ability in judo ouch

you have no natural ability in judo ouch now I feel like I need to say that she

now I feel like I need to say that she

now I feel like I need to say that she was not at all being cruel

was not at all being cruel

was not at all being cruel she was actually thoughtfully commenting

she was actually thoughtfully commenting

she was actually thoughtfully commenting on what she’d observed for me up until

on what she’d observed for me up until

on what she’d observed for me up until that moment still I was mad and I wanted

that moment still I was mad and I wanted

that moment still I was mad and I wanted to prove her wrong but a part of me

to prove her wrong but a part of me

to prove her wrong but a part of me wondered if maybe she was right that was

wondered if maybe she was right that was

wondered if maybe she was right that was probably the part of me that had lost

probably the part of me that had lost

probably the part of me that had lost every single match up until that moment

every single match up until that moment

every single match up until that moment anyways I left our conversation feeling

anyways I left our conversation feeling

anyways I left our conversation feeling even more confused than when I’d arrived

even more confused than when I’d arrived

even more confused than when I’d arrived but as it was quietly exiting the dojo

but as it was quietly exiting the dojo

but as it was quietly exiting the dojo on that day a poster with a picture of

on that day a poster with a picture of

on that day a poster with a picture of the founder of Judo on it dr. jiguro

the founder of Judo on it dr. jiguro

the founder of Judo on it dr. jiguro Cano caught my eye on it was a quote

Cano caught my eye on it was a quote

Cano caught my eye on it was a quote which read with effort there is always

which read with effort there is always

which read with effort there is always accomplishment and I don’t know but

accomplishment and I don’t know but

accomplishment and I don’t know but something about those words in that

something about those words in that

something about those words in that moment resonated so deeply within me

moment resonated so deeply within me

moment resonated so deeply within me it didn’t matter whether or not I was

it didn’t matter whether or not I was

it didn’t matter whether or not I was winning or losing at judo

winning or losing at judo

winning or losing at judo I was already accomplishing things just

I was already accomplishing things just

I was already accomplishing things just by trying inspired by those words I

by trying inspired by those words I

by trying inspired by those words I decided that I was gonna continue to try

decided that I was gonna continue to try

decided that I was gonna continue to try and not just try I was gonna work hard

and not just try I was gonna work hard

and not just try I was gonna work hard harder than anyone and that was the

harder than anyone and that was the

harder than anyone and that was the moment when I chose judo or should I say

moment when I chose judo or should I say

moment when I chose judo or should I say when judo chose me lesson for always

when judo chose me lesson for always

when judo chose me lesson for always seek help I awoke the next morning with

seek help I awoke the next morning with

seek help I awoke the next morning with a renewed hope in my ability to be

a renewed hope in my ability to be

a renewed hope in my ability to be successful at judo in fact I got up

successful at judo in fact I got up

successful at judo in fact I got up every morning early after that and did

every morning early after that and did

every morning early after that and did push-ups sit-ups and went running for

push-ups sit-ups and went running for

push-ups sit-ups and went running for five kilometres no matter what the

five kilometres no matter what the

five kilometres no matter what the weather I never missed a judo practice

weather I never missed a judo practice

weather I never missed a judo practice and sought out every opportunity I could

and sought out every opportunity I could

and sought out every opportunity I could to get extra help and guess what

to get extra help and guess what

to get extra help and guess what slowly gradually I started winning

slowly gradually I started winning

slowly gradually I started winning matches in competition at first one

matches in competition at first one

matches in competition at first one match at a time but then one competition

match at a time but then one competition

match at a time but then one competition at a time I finished that season in the

at a time I finished that season in the

at a time I finished that season in the finals of the Canadian Championships for

finals of the Canadian Championships for

finals of the Canadian Championships for my age and weight category all because I

my age and weight category all because I

my age and weight category all because I had been able to see the accomplishments

had been able to see the accomplishments

had been able to see the accomplishments in my efforts then shortly after that I

in my efforts then shortly after that I

in my efforts then shortly after that I received some incredible news women’s

received some incredible news women’s

received some incredible news women’s judo had been named a demonstration

judo had been named a demonstration

judo had been named a demonstration sport at the 1988 Olympics in Seoul

sport at the 1988 Olympics in Seoul

sport at the 1988 Olympics in Seoul Korea as a result several of the top

Korea as a result several of the top

Korea as a result several of the top Canadian female judoka we’re gonna be

Canadian female judoka we’re gonna be

Canadian female judoka we’re gonna be training regularly at my judo club and

training regularly at my judo club and

training regularly at my judo club and some were actually gonna even moved

some were actually gonna even moved

some were actually gonna even moved there with their arrival we began doing

there with their arrival we began doing

there with their arrival we began doing judo six days a week

judo six days a week

judo six days a week these women were amazing the 14 year old

these women were amazing the 14 year old

these women were amazing the 14 year old version of myself idolized them and

version of myself idolized them and

version of myself idolized them and dreamt of one day being able to

dreamt of one day being able to

dreamt of one day being able to represent Canada on the world stage as

represent Canada on the world stage as

represent Canada on the world stage as they did plus they all had these really

they did plus they all had these really

they did plus they all had these really cool nicknames like lizard blaze zip and

cool nicknames like lizard blaze zip and

cool nicknames like lizard blaze zip and Andre the Giant and even though these

Andre the Giant and even though these

Andre the Giant and even though these women were much older than I was and

women were much older than I was and

women were much older than I was and much further along in their judo career

much further along in their judo career

much further along in their judo career they immediately embraced me and

they immediately embraced me and

they immediately embraced me and accepted me as a part of their group

accepted me as a part of their group

accepted me as a part of their group well

well

well embrace me or started beating me up

embrace me or started beating me up

embrace me or started beating me up regularly embossing me around either way

regularly embossing me around either way

regularly embossing me around either way I was a part of it seriously though I

I was a part of it seriously though I

I was a part of it seriously though I could tell that these women really cared

could tell that these women really cared

could tell that these women really cared for me and appreciated how hard I was

for me and appreciated how hard I was

for me and appreciated how hard I was working because soon I too had a

working because soon I too had a

working because soon I too had a nickname they called me rocky

nickname they called me rocky

nickname they called me rocky I loved my new nickname I immediately

I loved my new nickname I immediately

I loved my new nickname I immediately embraced it and felt empowered by it

embraced it and felt empowered by it

embraced it and felt empowered by it because for those of you who are

because for those of you who are

because for those of you who are familiar with the story of rocky it

familiar with the story of rocky it

familiar with the story of rocky it involves an unknown underdog who worked

involves an unknown underdog who worked

involves an unknown underdog who worked hard harder than anyone and when given

hard harder than anyone and when given

hard harder than anyone and when given the chance to shine shock the world was

the chance to shine shock the world was

the chance to shine shock the world was that they were able to accomplish so for

that they were able to accomplish so for

that they were able to accomplish so for me the nickname Rocky meant far more

me the nickname Rocky meant far more

me the nickname Rocky meant far more than just these women cared about me and

than just these women cared about me and

than just these women cared about me and accepted me it meant that they believed

accepted me it meant that they believed

accepted me it meant that they believed in me their belief in me at a time when

in me their belief in me at a time when

in me their belief in me at a time when I did not yet fully believe in myself

I did not yet fully believe in myself

I did not yet fully believe in myself fueled my purpose to achieve my

fueled my purpose to achieve my

fueled my purpose to achieve my competitive dreams and less than 2 years

competitive dreams and less than 2 years

competitive dreams and less than 2 years later because of the hope empowerment

later because of the hope empowerment

later because of the hope empowerment love and purpose that I received from

love and purpose that I received from

love and purpose that I received from these women on a daily basis I made

these women on a daily basis I made

these women on a daily basis I made history becoming Canada’s youngest

history becoming Canada’s youngest

history becoming Canada’s youngest senior Canadian champion ironically one

senior Canadian champion ironically one

senior Canadian champion ironically one of the first people to come up and

of the first people to come up and

of the first people to come up and congratulate me after my win was my

congratulate me after my win was my

congratulate me after my win was my coach who just three years earlier

coach who just three years earlier

coach who just three years earlier suggested that I quit judo but this time

suggested that I quit judo but this time

suggested that I quit judo but this time when she approached me she looked me

when she approached me she looked me

when she approached me she looked me straight in the eyes and said today you

straight in the eyes and said today you

straight in the eyes and said today you have taught me any kid can win and this

have taught me any kid can win and this

have taught me any kid can win and this will change the way that I work with

will change the way that I work with

will change the way that I work with athletes from now on and it did and that

athletes from now on and it did and that

athletes from now on and it did and that was the moment I learned through her

was the moment I learned through her

was the moment I learned through her ability to make herself vulnerable to me

ability to make herself vulnerable to me

ability to make herself vulnerable to me in that moment that teaching and

in that moment that teaching and

in that moment that teaching and coaching was not a one-way street it was

coaching was not a one-way street it was

coaching was not a one-way street it was a collaborative partnership and that

a collaborative partnership and that

a collaborative partnership and that even though you may know a whole lot

even though you may know a whole lot

even though you may know a whole lot about something you never stop learning

about something you never stop learning

about something you never stop learning and that sometimes when we seek help we

and that sometimes when we seek help we

and that sometimes when we seek help we end up inadvertently helping others in

end up inadvertently helping others in

end up inadvertently helping others in the most unlikely and unexpected of ways

less than five contribute to society

less than five contribute to society following the 1988 Olympics we all

following the 1988 Olympics we all

following the 1988 Olympics we all decided to relocate to the new National

decided to relocate to the new National

decided to relocate to the new National Training Centre in Montreal there I met

Training Centre in Montreal there I met

Training Centre in Montreal there I met my new coach a Japanese guy who everyone

my new coach a Japanese guy who everyone

my new coach a Japanese guy who everyone respectfully referred to as sensei at

respectfully referred to as sensei at

respectfully referred to as sensei at all times at first I was afraid of

all times at first I was afraid of

all times at first I was afraid of sensei

sensei

sensei despite his serious exterior and

despite his serious exterior and

despite his serious exterior and incredibly hard training practices I

incredibly hard training practices I

incredibly hard training practices I soon came to realize just how much this

soon came to realize just how much this

soon came to realize just how much this man cared about each and every one of us

man cared about each and every one of us

man cared about each and every one of us the final principle of Judo is to strive

the final principle of Judo is to strive

the final principle of Judo is to strive to perfect oneself and contribute to

to perfect oneself and contribute to

to perfect oneself and contribute to society

society

society no one exemplified this principle more

no one exemplified this principle more

no one exemplified this principle more than sensei sensei received everyone

than sensei sensei received everyone

than sensei sensei received everyone with an open heart and an open mind no

with an open heart and an open mind no

with an open heart and an open mind no matter where you came from or what your

matter where you came from or what your

matter where you came from or what your skill level wasn’t judo but his

skill level wasn’t judo but his

skill level wasn’t judo but his commitment and dedication to us went far

commitment and dedication to us went far

commitment and dedication to us went far beyond anything that happened on the

beyond anything that happened on the

beyond anything that happened on the mats

mats

mats he and his partner who we affectionately

he and his partner who we affectionately

he and his partner who we affectionately nicknamed mrs. sensei would routinely

nicknamed mrs. sensei would routinely

nicknamed mrs. sensei would routinely have us over for dinner and to celebrate

have us over for dinner and to celebrate

have us over for dinner and to celebrate the holidays with them he gave up the

the holidays with them he gave up the

the holidays with them he gave up the top level of their home to house judoka

top level of their home to house judoka

top level of their home to house judoka who otherwise would not have had a place

who otherwise would not have had a place

who otherwise would not have had a place to live and when I was personally

to live and when I was personally

to live and when I was personally struggling financially since they got me

struggling financially since they got me

struggling financially since they got me a job and when he saw that my working

a job and when he saw that my working

a job and when he saw that my working was interfering with my ability to

was interfering with my ability to

was interfering with my ability to perform at judo he helped to secure me a

perform at judo he helped to secure me a

perform at judo he helped to secure me a full corporate sponsorship in Japan it

full corporate sponsorship in Japan it

full corporate sponsorship in Japan it was through his example that I found my

was through his example that I found my

was through his example that I found my true purpose in life I wanted to teach

true purpose in life I wanted to teach

true purpose in life I wanted to teach inspire and help others I want it to be

inspire and help others I want it to be

inspire and help others I want it to be like sensei so many years later after

like sensei so many years later after

like sensei so many years later after retiring from competitive judo I began a

retiring from competitive judo I began a

retiring from competitive judo I began a lifelong career in public education and

lifelong career in public education and

lifelong career in public education and of course began coaching judo in my

of course began coaching judo in my

of course began coaching judo in my spare time and just like my wonderful

spare time and just like my wonderful

spare time and just like my wonderful sensei and my teammates did for me all

sensei and my teammates did for me all

sensei and my teammates did for me all those years ago I have always tried to

those years ago I have always tried to

those years ago I have always tried to lead with compassion and instill

lead with compassion and instill

lead with compassion and instill feelings of hope empowerment love and

feelings of hope empowerment love and

feelings of hope empowerment love and purpose in everyone I meet embrace the

purpose in everyone I meet embrace the

purpose in everyone I meet embrace the gentle way so now many years later

gentle way so now many years later

gentle way so now many years later as I contemplate the future of learning

as I contemplate the future of learning

as I contemplate the future of learning I can’t help but reflect on these

I can’t help but reflect on these

I can’t help but reflect on these lessons learned in past because the

lessons learned in past because the

lessons learned in past because the lessons I’ve learned in judo are

lessons I’ve learned in judo are

lessons I’ve learned in judo are timeless and would benefit anyone I

timeless and would benefit anyone I

timeless and would benefit anyone I believe that by actively teaching our

believe that by actively teaching our

believe that by actively teaching our children how to clear their minds

children how to clear their minds

children how to clear their minds refocus their attention go with the flow

refocus their attention go with the flow

refocus their attention go with the flow and see the accomplishments and their

and see the accomplishments and their

and see the accomplishments and their efforts we are providing them with the

efforts we are providing them with the

efforts we are providing them with the essential skills needed to navigate our

essential skills needed to navigate our

essential skills needed to navigate our complex and ever-changing world that by

complex and ever-changing world that by

complex and ever-changing world that by gravitating toward the things or people

gravitating toward the things or people

gravitating toward the things or people that fill us with feelings of hope

that fill us with feelings of hope

that fill us with feelings of hope empowerment love and purpose we are

empowerment love and purpose we are

empowerment love and purpose we are laying the foundation for inner peace

laying the foundation for inner peace

laying the foundation for inner peace and that educating others to lead with

and that educating others to lead with

and that educating others to lead with compassion and contribute to society

compassion and contribute to society

compassion and contribute to society through our own example is crucial to

through our own example is crucial to

through our own example is crucial to the survival of our planet for me this

the survival of our planet for me this

the survival of our planet for me this is the future of learning because the

is the future of learning because the

is the future of learning because the final lesson I’ve learned from judo is

final lesson I’ve learned from judo is

final lesson I’ve learned from judo is that by embracing the gentle way we can

that by embracing the gentle way we can

that by embracing the gentle way we can all help to make the world a better

all help to make the world a better

all help to make the world a better place thank you

place thank you

place thank you [Applause]

[Applause]

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