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Leaving No One Behind | Kim Katrin Milan | TEDxWesternU


hey uh thanks so much for having me I

hey uh thanks so much for having me I just came in from New York actually

just came in from New York actually

just came in from New York actually we’ve been flying around all over the

we’ve been flying around all over the

we’ve been flying around all over the place my husband is here and he just

place my husband is here and he just

place my husband is here and he just came in from Harvard so it’s been a

came in from Harvard so it’s been a

came in from Harvard so it’s been a really long long travel to be here but

really long long travel to be here but

really long long travel to be here but thank you so much for having me I want

thank you so much for having me I want

thank you so much for having me I want to talk today about intersectionality

to talk today about intersectionality

to talk today about intersectionality and maps to justice and I’m gonna start

and maps to justice and I’m gonna start

and maps to justice and I’m gonna start just from earlier this year I went to

just from earlier this year I went to

just from earlier this year I went to afropunk and it’s um a festival in New

afropunk and it’s um a festival in New

afropunk and it’s um a festival in New York City and when I walked in the first

York City and when I walked in the first

York City and when I walked in the first thing I saw was this amazing sign no

thing I saw was this amazing sign no

thing I saw was this amazing sign no sexism no racism no ableism no

sexism no racism no ableism no

sexism no racism no ableism no homophobia I know fatphobia no

homophobia I know fatphobia no

homophobia I know fatphobia no transphobia no hatefulness and I wasn’t

transphobia no hatefulness and I wasn’t

transphobia no hatefulness and I wasn’t excited because I assumed that the place

excited because I assumed that the place

excited because I assumed that the place would be devoid of any of these things

would be devoid of any of these things

would be devoid of any of these things but rather it was the fact that this

but rather it was the fact that this

but rather it was the fact that this organization this company recognized

organization this company recognized

organization this company recognized that these are real issues and these are

that these are real issues and these are

that these are real issues and these are real systemic problems and they’re

real systemic problems and they’re

real systemic problems and they’re engaged in a discourse both within

engaged in a discourse both within

engaged in a discourse both within themselves and with their audience about

themselves and with their audience about

themselves and with their audience about what it would look like to eliminate

what it would look like to eliminate

what it would look like to eliminate these things or address these things in

these things or address these things in

these things or address these things in the space that we’re creating and when

the space that we’re creating and when

the space that we’re creating and when we talk about intersectionality we’re

we talk about intersectionality we’re

we talk about intersectionality we’re not just talking about how those issues

not just talking about how those issues

not just talking about how those issues individually impact people but rather

individually impact people but rather

individually impact people but rather how they collectively impact people

how they collectively impact people

how they collectively impact people especially those of us who are

especially those of us who are

especially those of us who are particularly vulnerable who sit at the

particularly vulnerable who sit at the

particularly vulnerable who sit at the intersections of many of those systems

intersections of many of those systems

intersections of many of those systems I’m someone who’s mixed race and so

I’m someone who’s mixed race and so

I’m someone who’s mixed race and so often people will ask me to quantify the

often people will ask me to quantify the

often people will ask me to quantify the exact percentage of how much of a thing

exact percentage of how much of a thing

exact percentage of how much of a thing I am and often you know the way that I

I am and often you know the way that I

I am and often you know the way that I respond to that is with some wisdom a

respond to that is with some wisdom a

respond to that is with some wisdom a friend of mine you me Tom she gave me

friend of mine you me Tom she gave me

friend of mine you me Tom she gave me which is that you know I am NOT

which is that you know I am NOT

which is that you know I am NOT fractions

fractions

fractions I’m layers so I’m South Asian I’m

I’m layers so I’m South Asian I’m

I’m layers so I’m South Asian I’m African I’m Native I’m Venezuelan all of

African I’m Native I’m Venezuelan all of

African I’m Native I’m Venezuelan all of these things are all happening at the

these things are all happening at the

these things are all happening at the same time and I can’t separate these

same time and I can’t separate these

same time and I can’t separate these conversations I grew up listening to

conversations I grew up listening to

conversations I grew up listening to Spanish and Hindi and both of those

Spanish and Hindi and both of those

Spanish and Hindi and both of those things are in me all at the same time

things are in me all at the same time

things are in me all at the same time and similarly when we talk about matters

and similarly when we talk about matters

and similarly when we talk about matters of justice around women’s work or around

of justice around women’s work or around

of justice around women’s work or around ableism all of those things have to

ableism all of those things have to

ableism all of those things have to happen at the same time and for me it is

happen at the same time and for me it is

happen at the same time and for me it is also a really important recognition that

also a really important recognition that

also a really important recognition that being an ally is not an identity it’s a

being an ally is not an identity it’s a

being an ally is not an identity it’s a process so often with the way that we

process so often with the way that we

process so often with the way that we have access to education we believe that

have access to education we believe that

have access to education we believe that there are things that we can master

there are things that we can master

there are things that we can master that’s literally a thing people get

that’s literally a thing people get

that’s literally a thing people get master’s degrees but this is not the

master’s degrees but this is not the

master’s degrees but this is not the thing you master

thing you master

thing you master this is about developing relationships

this is about developing relationships

this is about developing relationships and building humility and working

and building humility and working

and building humility and working collectively over periods of times to

collectively over periods of times to

collectively over periods of times to shift systems and make change so

shift systems and make change so

shift systems and make change so researchers have estimated the total

researchers have estimated the total

researchers have estimated the total wealth of the world at two hundred and

wealth of the world at two hundred and

wealth of the world at two hundred and twenty three billion two hundred twenty

twenty three billion two hundred twenty

twenty three billion two hundred twenty three trillion dollars and I named this

three trillion dollars and I named this

three trillion dollars and I named this because I think this is a context to

because I think this is a context to

because I think this is a context to start to understand global ideas of

start to understand global ideas of

start to understand global ideas of inequity now we know that forty three

inequity now we know that forty three

inequity now we know that forty three percent of the world’s population

percent of the world’s population

percent of the world’s population percentage wealth is owned by 1% of the

percentage wealth is owned by 1% of the

percentage wealth is owned by 1% of the world population and another way of

world population and another way of

world population and another way of thinking about this is that three the

thinking about this is that three the

thinking about this is that three the three hundred richest people have as

three hundred richest people have as

three hundred richest people have as much as the three billion poorest people

much as the three billion poorest people

much as the three billion poorest people and so often the kind of rhetoric that

and so often the kind of rhetoric that

and so often the kind of rhetoric that we hear about poverty is that those

we hear about poverty is that those

we hear about poverty is that those three billion people are gree are are

three billion people are gree are are

three billion people are gree are are lazy as opposed to those three hundred

lazy as opposed to those three hundred

lazy as opposed to those three hundred people are greedy that we have a minimum

people are greedy that we have a minimum

people are greedy that we have a minimum wage but we don’t have a maximum wage

wage but we don’t have a maximum wage

wage but we don’t have a maximum wage that would impact the way that wealth is

that would impact the way that wealth is

that would impact the way that wealth is distributed we know that prior to

distributed we know that prior to

distributed we know that prior to colonization a few rich countries were

colonization a few rich countries were

colonization a few rich countries were only about three times richer than poor

only about three times richer than poor

only about three times richer than poor countries an after colonization in the

countries an after colonization in the

countries an after colonization in the 1950s in the 1960s there were 35 times

1950s in the 1960s there were 35 times

1950s in the 1960s there were 35 times richer and now they’re eighty times

richer and now they’re eighty times

richer and now they’re eighty times richer and rich countries often like to

richer and rich countries often like to

richer and rich countries often like to compensate for this with the idea of aid

compensate for this with the idea of aid

compensate for this with the idea of aid and so about a hundred and fifty billion

and so about a hundred and fifty billion

and so about a hundred and fifty billion dollars flows from rich countries to

dollars flows from rich countries to

dollars flows from rich countries to poor countries annually but what is

poor countries annually but what is

poor countries annually but what is actually happening is two trillion

actually happening is two trillion

actually happening is two trillion dollars is flowing in the opposite

dollars is flowing in the opposite

dollars is flowing in the opposite direction from poor countries to rich

direction from poor countries to rich

direction from poor countries to rich countries and that is why I don’t like

countries and that is why I don’t like

countries and that is why I don’t like to use the term underdeveloped but

to use the term underdeveloped but

to use the term underdeveloped but rather over exploited to describe the

rather over exploited to describe the

rather over exploited to describe the accuracy of the relationship that’s

accuracy of the relationship that’s

accuracy of the relationship that’s happening between the global north and

happening between the global north and

happening between the global north and the global south and part of the reason

the global south and part of the reason

the global south and part of the reason why we don’t get to hear these stories

why we don’t get to hear these stories

why we don’t get to hear these stories is because as long as there is a

is because as long as there is a

is because as long as there is a monopoly around money there’s also a

monopoly around money there’s also a

monopoly around money there’s also a monopoly around culture and media making

monopoly around culture and media making

monopoly around culture and media making 3% of the decision-making in media comes

3% of the decision-making in media comes

3% of the decision-making in media comes from women that means 97% of how women

from women that means 97% of how women

from women that means 97% of how women are portrayed is decided on by men and

are portrayed is decided on by men and

are portrayed is decided on by men and men have a particular class and of a

men have a particular class and of a

men have a particular class and of a particular experience and it’s not that

particular experience and it’s not that

particular experience and it’s not that these men are not valuable or their

these men are not valuable or their

these men are not valuable or their stories are not important but their

stories are not important but their

stories are not important but their stories can’t be the only ones we need

stories can’t be the only ones we need

stories can’t be the only ones we need multiple narratives and multiple

multiple narratives and multiple

multiple narratives and multiple experiences of people’s truths so we can

experiences of people’s truths so we can

experiences of people’s truths so we can build something that is substantially

build something that is substantially

build something that is substantially more accurate than having one unilateral

more accurate than having one unilateral

more accurate than having one unilateral perspective

perspective

perspective speak on behalf of everyone else in the

speak on behalf of everyone else in the

speak on behalf of everyone else in the entire world and this is something that

entire world and this is something that

entire world and this is something that has historical truth – I love this from

has historical truth – I love this from

has historical truth – I love this from recess so much and it’s this take these

recess so much and it’s this take these

recess so much and it’s this take these history books with a grain of salt as

history books with a grain of salt as

history books with a grain of salt as they focus primarily on white Western

they focus primarily on white Western

they focus primarily on white Western males and I remember when I was in

males and I remember when I was in

males and I remember when I was in school and I was so frustrated because I

school and I was so frustrated because I

school and I was so frustrated because I felt like we never talked about anyone

felt like we never talked about anyone

felt like we never talked about anyone else what were women doing what were

else what were women doing what were

else what were women doing what were disabled people doing what were people

disabled people doing what were people

disabled people doing what were people in so many different aspects of lives

in so many different aspects of lives

in so many different aspects of lives doing so often what we do is focus on

doing so often what we do is focus on

doing so often what we do is focus on the soldiers and the wars and the times

the soldiers and the wars and the times

the soldiers and the wars and the times of incredible strife in our history as

of incredible strife in our history as

of incredible strife in our history as opposed to the hundreds of years that

opposed to the hundreds of years that

opposed to the hundreds of years that Christians and Jews and Muslims have

Christians and Jews and Muslims have

Christians and Jews and Muslims have actually lived side by side and worked

actually lived side by side and worked

actually lived side by side and worked and built community together and the

and built community together and the

and built community together and the absence of hearing those narratives

absence of hearing those narratives

absence of hearing those narratives constructs an idea around what the human

constructs an idea around what the human

constructs an idea around what the human condition is and we really want to shift

condition is and we really want to shift

condition is and we really want to shift that and I think it’s important for us

that and I think it’s important for us

that and I think it’s important for us to talk about the different things that

to talk about the different things that

to talk about the different things that contribute to global inequity and I

contribute to global inequity and I

contribute to global inequity and I think that a lot of the time we get

think that a lot of the time we get

think that a lot of the time we get distracted by this issue and I think

distracted by this issue and I think

distracted by this issue and I think this is really deeply important because

this is really deeply important because

this is really deeply important because even maps are a choice in politics that

even maps are a choice in politics that

even maps are a choice in politics that there are more people living inside of

there are more people living inside of

there are more people living inside of this circle than outside of it I hate

this circle than outside of it I hate

this circle than outside of it I hate the term minority because seven out of

the term minority because seven out of

the term minority because seven out of ten people in the world are people of

ten people in the world are people of

ten people in the world are people of color so the idea of suggesting that my

color so the idea of suggesting that my

color so the idea of suggesting that my issues are somehow minor are is silly

issues are somehow minor are is silly

issues are somehow minor are is silly and in truth it’s really reflective of

and in truth it’s really reflective of

and in truth it’s really reflective of the fact of a lot of people in the world

the fact of a lot of people in the world

the fact of a lot of people in the world and truthfully we are all interconnected

and truthfully we are all interconnected

and truthfully we are all interconnected in our actions and our in actions impact

in our actions and our in actions impact

in our actions and our in actions impact each other powerfully and that is why we

each other powerfully and that is why we

each other powerfully and that is why we want to be intentional about the way

want to be intentional about the way

want to be intentional about the way that we act with each other and the way

that we act with each other and the way

that we act with each other and the way that we do that is by learning more

that we do that is by learning more

that we do that is by learning more about each other from each other I often

about each other from each other I often

about each other from each other I often tell this story of when I was in my

tell this story of when I was in my

tell this story of when I was in my first year class of anthropology and a

first year class of anthropology and a

first year class of anthropology and a friend of mine who was Mayan we were

friend of mine who was Mayan we were

friend of mine who was Mayan we were listening to someone interpret the text

listening to someone interpret the text

listening to someone interpret the text in a way that she knew was inaccurate so

in a way that she knew was inaccurate so

in a way that she knew was inaccurate so I invited I told I was like you know you

I invited I told I was like you know you

I invited I told I was like you know you should say something so this person um

should say something so this person um

should say something so this person um and she put up her hand and she said you

and she put up her hand and she said you

and she put up her hand and she said you know this is a common misinterpretation

know this is a common misinterpretation

know this is a common misinterpretation of the text I get this a lot and the

of the text I get this a lot and the

of the text I get this a lot and the professor was like you know I’ve been

professor was like you know I’ve been

professor was like you know I’ve been studying my theology for seven years and

studying my theology for seven years and

studying my theology for seven years and it’s my focus and she’s like that’s cute

it’s my focus and she’s like that’s cute

it’s my focus and she’s like that’s cute I’ve been my in my whole life and for me

I’ve been my in my whole life and for me

I’ve been my in my whole life and for me it was just this realization that

it was just this realization that

it was just this realization that there’s so much knowledge and wisdom

there’s so much knowledge and wisdom

there’s so much knowledge and wisdom around us and if we continue to only

around us and if we continue to only

around us and if we continue to only look at the people with a whole bunch of

look at the people with a whole bunch of

look at the people with a whole bunch of letters after their name

letters after their name

letters after their name missing out on so much of that wisdom

missing out on so much of that wisdom

missing out on so much of that wisdom and so often what we have seen is that

and so often what we have seen is that

and so often what we have seen is that the strategy is not to talk about these

the strategy is not to talk about these

the strategy is not to talk about these difficult issues but not talking about

difficult issues but not talking about

difficult issues but not talking about them has not made them go away we know

them has not made them go away we know

them has not made them go away we know now that Millennials are just as racist

now that Millennials are just as racist

now that Millennials are just as racist as the baby boomers or a Generation X

as the baby boomers or a Generation X

as the baby boomers or a Generation X there’s really only marginal differences

there’s really only marginal differences

there’s really only marginal differences so this strategy of ignoring a problem

so this strategy of ignoring a problem

so this strategy of ignoring a problem and hoping it’s gonna go away is not

and hoping it’s gonna go away is not

and hoping it’s gonna go away is not effective and that racism doesn’t always

effective and that racism doesn’t always

effective and that racism doesn’t always look like shouting slurs it often looks

look like shouting slurs it often looks

look like shouting slurs it often looks like looking for a reason why a black

like looking for a reason why a black

like looking for a reason why a black boy deserves to die or why a black girl

boy deserves to die or why a black girl

boy deserves to die or why a black girl deserves to get assaulted by a police

deserves to get assaulted by a police

deserves to get assaulted by a police officer it’s a deeper kind of

officer it’s a deeper kind of

officer it’s a deeper kind of conversation that the three women who

conversation that the three women who

conversation that the three women who created black lives matter in the

created black lives matter in the

created black lives matter in the movement have been really trying to

movement have been really trying to

movement have been really trying to engender in a lot of different spaces I

engender in a lot of different spaces I

engender in a lot of different spaces I think it’s also talking about the way

think it’s also talking about the way

think it’s also talking about the way that in Canada we actually have one of

that in Canada we actually have one of

that in Canada we actually have one of the lowest crime rates we’ve had in

the lowest crime rates we’ve had in

the lowest crime rates we’ve had in years but we’re undergoing the largest

years but we’re undergoing the largest

years but we’re undergoing the largest prison expansion since the 1930s prisons

prison expansion since the 1930s prisons

prison expansion since the 1930s prisons disappear people but do not disappear

disappear people but do not disappear

disappear people but do not disappear social problems and we know certain

social problems and we know certain

social problems and we know certain people are over-represented in the

people are over-represented in the

people are over-represented in the prison system indigenous people only

prison system indigenous people only

prison system indigenous people only make up six percent of the population

make up six percent of the population

make up six percent of the population but thirty percent of the prison

but thirty percent of the prison

but thirty percent of the prison population and these issues persists

population and these issues persists

population and these issues persists outside of prisons we know with enormous

outside of prisons we know with enormous

outside of prisons we know with enormous lehigh food cost in men of it heads of

lehigh food cost in men of it heads of

lehigh food cost in men of it heads of lettuce at twenty eight dollars and 54

lettuce at twenty eight dollars and 54

lettuce at twenty eight dollars and 54 cents packages of water for a hundred

cents packages of water for a hundred

cents packages of water for a hundred and ten dollars and people will often

and ten dollars and people will often

and ten dollars and people will often get caught up in this my new show of

get caught up in this my new show of

get caught up in this my new show of shipping costs but alcohol is being

shipping costs but alcohol is being

shipping costs but alcohol is being priced exactly the same way that since

priced exactly the same way that since

priced exactly the same way that since 1978 over fourteen billion dollars have

1978 over fourteen billion dollars have

1978 over fourteen billion dollars have come of so many territories and those

come of so many territories and those

come of so many territories and those communities still remain without running

communities still remain without running

communities still remain without running water this is unethical and as Canadian

water this is unethical and as Canadian

water this is unethical and as Canadian citizens we have a responsibility to

citizens we have a responsibility to

citizens we have a responsibility to investigate that and similarly so often

investigate that and similarly so often

investigate that and similarly so often certain labor is invisible eyes in order

certain labor is invisible eyes in order

certain labor is invisible eyes in order for us to feel as though were

for us to feel as though were

for us to feel as though were independent so much of the food in

independent so much of the food in

independent so much of the food in canada is produced by migrant workers

canada is produced by migrant workers

canada is produced by migrant workers coming in from jamaica and Thailand kept

coming in from jamaica and Thailand kept

coming in from jamaica and Thailand kept in southwestern Ontario not even able to

in southwestern Ontario not even able to

in southwestern Ontario not even able to eat the food that they’re growing and

eat the food that they’re growing and

eat the food that they’re growing and producing for us and this happens in

producing for us and this happens in

producing for us and this happens in ways there are large and in small I

ways there are large and in small I

ways there are large and in small I think about the way that sexism

think about the way that sexism

think about the way that sexism impacts women but also men who are

impacts women but also men who are

impacts women but also men who are police for having any sorts of attitudes

police for having any sorts of attitudes

police for having any sorts of attitudes that may be conceived as feminine that

that may be conceived as feminine that

that may be conceived as feminine that we are not interested in encouraging

we are not interested in encouraging

we are not interested in encouraging these ideas of nurturing and kindness in

these ideas of nurturing and kindness in

these ideas of nurturing and kindness in masking

masking

masking leti or allowing there to be enough

leti or allowing there to be enough

leti or allowing there to be enough space for us to be the people that we

space for us to be the people that we

space for us to be the people that we genuinely are or watching the way that

genuinely are or watching the way that

genuinely are or watching the way that women’s bodies are getting police you

women’s bodies are getting police you

women’s bodies are getting police you know young women are getting sent home

know young women are getting sent home

know young women are getting sent home at exams for having too much shoulders

at exams for having too much shoulders

at exams for having too much shoulders showing if we’re saying that having boys

showing if we’re saying that having boys

showing if we’re saying that having boys have a distraction-free learning

have a distraction-free learning

have a distraction-free learning environment is more valuable than women

environment is more valuable than women

environment is more valuable than women being at school like if a girl is too

being at school like if a girl is too

being at school like if a girl is too young to be wearing that then she’s too

young to be wearing that then she’s too

young to be wearing that then she’s too young to be sexualized and we see that

young to be sexualized and we see that

young to be sexualized and we see that this is happening on the other end this

this is happening on the other end this

this is happening on the other end this young woman was she was deemed that her

young woman was she was deemed that her

young woman was she was deemed that her clothes were was a provocation against

clothes were was a provocation against

clothes were was a provocation against secularism so they were too long and too

secularism so they were too long and too

secularism so they were too long and too modest and made her seem too religious

modest and made her seem too religious

modest and made her seem too religious and we have to recognize that you know

and we have to recognize that you know

and we have to recognize that you know even though women have this experience

even though women have this experience

even though women have this experience of collectively experiencing

of collectively experiencing

of collectively experiencing gender-based oppression it looks

gender-based oppression it looks

gender-based oppression it looks different in different contexts but

different in different contexts but

different in different contexts but ultimately what we’re looking for as an

ultimately what we’re looking for as an

ultimately what we’re looking for as an increased amount of agency when I think

increased amount of agency when I think

increased amount of agency when I think about gender diversity I can’t not think

about gender diversity I can’t not think

about gender diversity I can’t not think about sexual diversity and gender

about sexual diversity and gender

about sexual diversity and gender diversity that there are more than two

diversity that there are more than two

diversity that there are more than two sexualities and that there are more than

sexualities and that there are more than

sexualities and that there are more than two genders and that we can’t allow

two genders and that we can’t allow

two genders and that we can’t allow institutions to be the ones who

institutions to be the ones who

institutions to be the ones who determine gender for folks it has to be

determine gender for folks it has to be

determine gender for folks it has to be a self-determined process that we allow

a self-determined process that we allow

a self-determined process that we allow to that we allow that we also respect

to that we allow that we also respect

to that we allow that we also respect when it comes out of other people’s

when it comes out of other people’s

when it comes out of other people’s mouths and this doesn’t just look like

mouths and this doesn’t just look like

mouths and this doesn’t just look like one end being masculine in one end being

one end being masculine in one end being

one end being masculine in one end being feminine but a recognition that some

feminine but a recognition that some

feminine but a recognition that some folks are also doing really gender

folks are also doing really gender

folks are also doing really gender diverse things and maybe genderqueer or

diverse things and maybe genderqueer or

diverse things and maybe genderqueer or mouche or Hedra there is a cultural

mouche or Hedra there is a cultural

mouche or Hedra there is a cultural context for gender difference all over

context for gender difference all over

context for gender difference all over the world and diversity is actually the

the world and diversity is actually the

the world and diversity is actually the rule and not the exception that in fact

rule and not the exception that in fact

rule and not the exception that in fact the problem with gender is that it

the problem with gender is that it

the problem with gender is that it prescribes how we should be as opposed

prescribes how we should be as opposed

prescribes how we should be as opposed to respecting and recognizing how and

to respecting and recognizing how and

to respecting and recognizing how and who we are and I think once we hear

who we are and I think once we hear

who we are and I think once we hear about all these things it can be really

about all these things it can be really

about all these things it can be really difficult to get stuck in a place to

difficult to get stuck in a place to

difficult to get stuck in a place to feeling like how could I not been aware

feeling like how could I not been aware

feeling like how could I not been aware of this or how have I not been engaged

of this or how have I not been engaged

of this or how have I not been engaged in this process but it’s really

in this process but it’s really

in this process but it’s really important to remember that there’s no

important to remember that there’s no

important to remember that there’s no such thing as reverse ableism or reverse

such thing as reverse ableism or reverse

such thing as reverse ableism or reverse sexism that the problem with

sexism that the problem with

sexism that the problem with marginalization is that these

marginalization is that these

marginalization is that these communities don’t actually have systemic

communities don’t actually have systemic

communities don’t actually have systemic power with which to oppress other people

power with which to oppress other people

power with which to oppress other people so the reverse of ableism the reverse of

so the reverse of ableism the reverse of

so the reverse of ableism the reverse of sexism is liberation and actually that’s

sexism is liberation and actually that’s

sexism is liberation and actually that’s what we’re here for

what we’re here for

what we’re here for so what does it look like for us to be

so what does it look like for us to be

so what does it look like for us to be transforming large and small ecosystems

transforming large and small ecosystems

transforming large and small ecosystems what does this change making work

what does this change making work

what does this change making work looking like all around the world and I

looking like all around the world and I

looking like all around the world and I always say this to people start where

always say this to people start where

always say this to people start where you are use what you have and do what

you are use what you have and do what

you are use what you have and do what you can the grass is greener where you

you can the grass is greener where you

you can the grass is greener where you water it so often we think that we have

water it so often we think that we have

water it so often we think that we have to go somewhere else to another

to go somewhere else to another

to go somewhere else to another community to make really powerful change

community to make really powerful change

community to make really powerful change but some of the most powerful change

but some of the most powerful change

but some of the most powerful change happens in our own homes and our own

happens in our own homes and our own

happens in our own homes and our own communities around people that we know

communities around people that we know

communities around people that we know really well and I think that we don’t

really well and I think that we don’t

really well and I think that we don’t often recognize that we are cooler than

often recognize that we are cooler than

often recognize that we are cooler than we think we are I watch people go

we think we are I watch people go

we think we are I watch people go through great strides to avoid looking

through great strides to avoid looking

through great strides to avoid looking critically at themselves to avoid saying

critically at themselves to avoid saying

critically at themselves to avoid saying I was sorry and I’m wrong I’ve seen

I was sorry and I’m wrong I’ve seen

I was sorry and I’m wrong I’ve seen people throw away love to avoid facing

people throw away love to avoid facing

people throw away love to avoid facing their insecurities and fears if you love

their insecurities and fears if you love

their insecurities and fears if you love me and you see me doing that please Rabb

me and you see me doing that please Rabb

me and you see me doing that please Rabb me hold me tight remind me that I’m

me hold me tight remind me that I’m

me hold me tight remind me that I’m great and I just serve opportunities to

great and I just serve opportunities to

great and I just serve opportunities to grow and ascend even if they hurt and

grow and ascend even if they hurt and

grow and ascend even if they hurt and even if I’m ashamed that ability to

even if I’m ashamed that ability to

even if I’m ashamed that ability to acknowledge when we’ve hurt someone and

acknowledge when we’ve hurt someone and

acknowledge when we’ve hurt someone and say I’m sorry for what I did not the way

say I’m sorry for what I did not the way

say I’m sorry for what I did not the way you feel but I’m sorry for what I did

you feel but I’m sorry for what I did

you feel but I’m sorry for what I did and I want to do better and I think it

and I want to do better and I think it

and I want to do better and I think it has a lot to do with the kind of culture

has a lot to do with the kind of culture

has a lot to do with the kind of culture that we’re encouraging around us for

that we’re encouraging around us for

that we’re encouraging around us for young folks and folks around us but so

young folks and folks around us but so

young folks and folks around us but so often what we get asked is you know like

often what we get asked is you know like

often what we get asked is you know like what do you do for a living like how are

what do you do for a living like how are

what do you do for a living like how are you gonna contribute to capitalism like

you gonna contribute to capitalism like

you gonna contribute to capitalism like what’s your hustle and that’s a good

what’s your hustle and that’s a good

what’s your hustle and that’s a good question it’s totally irrelevant one but

question it’s totally irrelevant one but

question it’s totally irrelevant one but I also want to know like what kind of

I also want to know like what kind of

I also want to know like what kind of person are you like what does integrity

person are you like what does integrity

person are you like what does integrity look like for you how do you grow

look like for you how do you grow

look like for you how do you grow yourself up into someone that you’re

yourself up into someone that you’re

yourself up into someone that you’re proud of and this is something that has

proud of and this is something that has

proud of and this is something that has to be just as intentional we go to

to be just as intentional we go to

to be just as intentional we go to school to learn a whole bunch of

school to learn a whole bunch of

school to learn a whole bunch of different things but what does that mean

different things but what does that mean

different things but what does that mean about the kind of human that you are

about the kind of human that you are

about the kind of human that you are what does that mean about your

what does that mean about your

what does that mean about your accountability to other humans that are

accountability to other humans that are

accountability to other humans that are like you and particularly other humans

like you and particularly other humans

like you and particularly other humans who are completely not like you and I

who are completely not like you and I

who are completely not like you and I think about it really as a superpower

think about it really as a superpower

think about it really as a superpower sort of thing so I have this thing where

sort of thing so I have this thing where

sort of thing so I have this thing where a lot of little kids in the world and

a lot of little kids in the world and

a lot of little kids in the world and they don’t totally know where this is

they don’t totally know where this is

they don’t totally know where this is ask me why I’m a superhero or they asked

ask me why I’m a superhero or they asked

ask me why I’m a superhero or they asked me if I’m a superhero and I think

me if I’m a superhero and I think

me if I’m a superhero and I think normally it’s because I’m usually

normally it’s because I’m usually

normally it’s because I’m usually wearing like really brightly colored

wearing like really brightly colored

wearing like really brightly colored tights and like I have a lot going on

tights and like I have a lot going on

tights and like I have a lot going on like the tattoos and there’s I’m usually

like the tattoos and there’s I’m usually

like the tattoos and there’s I’m usually doing a lot more than this

doing a lot more than this

doing a lot more than this so you know at first I’d be like no I’m

so you know at first I’d be like no I’m

so you know at first I’d be like no I’m not but eventually I was like you know

not but eventually I was like you know

not but eventually I was like you know what yeah I am and so are you and so

what yeah I am and so are you and so

what yeah I am and so are you and so what’s your superpower because what is

what’s your superpower because what is

what’s your superpower because what is the superhero if not someone who

the superhero if not someone who

the superhero if not someone who recognizes the kind of abject poverty

recognizes the kind of abject poverty

recognizes the kind of abject poverty and injustice in their communities and

and injustice in their communities and

and injustice in their communities and decides to commit themselves to changing

decides to commit themselves to changing

decides to commit themselves to changing it everyone has that within them

it everyone has that within them

it everyone has that within them everyone has the capacity to do that and

everyone has the capacity to do that and

everyone has the capacity to do that and for me my superpower is really around

for me my superpower is really around

for me my superpower is really around the way that I bring people together to

the way that I bring people together to

the way that I bring people together to help them access new opportunities and

help them access new opportunities and

help them access new opportunities and articulate the issues that are happening

articulate the issues that are happening

articulate the issues that are happening in their communities and I encourage you

in their communities and I encourage you

in their communities and I encourage you to figure out what your superpower is

to figure out what your superpower is

to figure out what your superpower is and these are so many different people

and these are so many different people

and these are so many different people all around the world who are engaging in

all around the world who are engaging in

all around the world who are engaging in some kind of superhero work and I think

some kind of superhero work and I think

some kind of superhero work and I think that we can learn from this in a

that we can learn from this in a

that we can learn from this in a multitude of different ways this young

multitude of different ways this young

multitude of different ways this young woman Gabi Rodriguez challenging

woman Gabi Rodriguez challenging

woman Gabi Rodriguez challenging stereotypes she’s a 17 year old high

stereotypes she’s a 17 year old high

stereotypes she’s a 17 year old high school student and she decided to

school student and she decided to

school student and she decided to pretend to be pregnant for seven months

pretend to be pregnant for seven months

pretend to be pregnant for seven months at her high school to draw attention to

at her high school to draw attention to

at her high school to draw attention to the way that young teen mothers were

the way that young teen mothers were

the way that young teen mothers were being shamed and stigmatized she

being shamed and stigmatized she

being shamed and stigmatized she collected all of the different things

collected all of the different things

collected all of the different things that people said about her and to her

that people said about her and to her

that people said about her and to her and then had teachers and students get

and then had teachers and students get

and then had teachers and students get up in the assembly and read them all in

up in the assembly and read them all in

up in the assembly and read them all in front of the entire school to talk about

front of the entire school to talk about

front of the entire school to talk about what it would look like to actually

what it would look like to actually

what it would look like to actually support these women to be here as

support these women to be here as

support these women to be here as opposed to pushing them out of their

opposed to pushing them out of their

opposed to pushing them out of their education I think about the work of

education I think about the work of

education I think about the work of generational work you know we’re really

generational work you know we’re really

generational work you know we’re really borrowing this world from our kids and

borrowing this world from our kids and

borrowing this world from our kids and so it’s really important that we think

so it’s really important that we think

so it’s really important that we think about how we’re taking good care of it

about how we’re taking good care of it

about how we’re taking good care of it and making sure we’re planting seeds

and making sure we’re planting seeds

and making sure we’re planting seeds that will yield growth in generations to

that will yield growth in generations to

that will yield growth in generations to come I think about generation five and

come I think about generation five and

come I think about generation five and the amazing work that they’re doing

the amazing work that they’re doing

the amazing work that they’re doing there in Oakland and they’re committed

there in Oakland and they’re committed

there in Oakland and they’re committed to eradicating sexual violence and

to eradicating sexual violence and

to eradicating sexual violence and gender-based violence within five

gender-based violence within five

gender-based violence within five generations their work on transformative

generations their work on transformative

generations their work on transformative justice is powerful and really involves

justice is powerful and really involves

justice is powerful and really involves so many different indigenous practices

so many different indigenous practices

so many different indigenous practices of healing sharing resources as often as

of healing sharing resources as often as

of healing sharing resources as often as we possibly can when there was that the

we possibly can when there was that the

we possibly can when there was that the beginning of the refugee crisis was

beginning of the refugee crisis was

beginning of the refugee crisis was folks coming from Syria people created

folks coming from Syria people created

folks coming from Syria people created an Airbnb for refugees when governments

an Airbnb for refugees when governments

an Airbnb for refugees when governments were saying no people were saying yes we

were saying no people were saying yes we

were saying no people were saying yes we have space and we can make it work and

have space and we can make it work and

have space and we can make it work and you’re going to find a way to do that

you’re going to find a way to do that

you’re going to find a way to do that recently in France they just passed a

recently in France they just passed a

recently in France they just passed a law that made it illegal for

law that made it illegal for

law that made it illegal for supermarkets to destroy edible food in

supermarkets to destroy edible food in

supermarkets to destroy edible food in an effort to cut waste still in Canada

an effort to cut waste still in Canada

an effort to cut waste still in Canada grocery stores and restaurants all have

grocery stores and restaurants all have

grocery stores and restaurants all have to throw away their food in places they

to throw away their food in places they

to throw away their food in places they literally will lock them into dumpsters

literally will lock them into dumpsters

literally will lock them into dumpsters to prevent people from eating like we

to prevent people from eating like we

to prevent people from eating like we have a responsibility to change those

have a responsibility to change those

have a responsibility to change those kinds of systems and structures we have

kinds of systems and structures we have

kinds of systems and structures we have to make this world a more ethical one

to make this world a more ethical one

to make this world a more ethical one than the one that we were born into it’s

than the one that we were born into it’s

than the one that we were born into it’s not sufficient for us to just say it’s

not sufficient for us to just say it’s

not sufficient for us to just say it’s always been this way all of these

always been this way all of these

always been this way all of these systems were made by people and they can

systems were made by people and they can

systems were made by people and they can be and will be I made by people in Peru

be and will be I made by people in Peru

be and will be I made by people in Peru University they invented a billboard

University they invented a billboard

University they invented a billboard that makes 100 litres of drinking water

that makes 100 litres of drinking water

that makes 100 litres of drinking water per day out of thin air respecting

per day out of thin air respecting

per day out of thin air respecting agency I think so often we talked about

agency I think so often we talked about

agency I think so often we talked about this honey before but this image for me

this honey before but this image for me

this honey before but this image for me is really really special so these are a

is really really special so these are a

is really really special so these are a group of women scientists who last year

group of women scientists who last year

group of women scientists who last year sent a satellite to Mars and so often

sent a satellite to Mars and so often

sent a satellite to Mars and so often what we’re used to seeing is like a

what we’re used to seeing is like a

what we’re used to seeing is like a bunch of dudes in like lab coats and

bunch of dudes in like lab coats and

bunch of dudes in like lab coats and these are women in saris with flowers in

these are women in saris with flowers in

these are women in saris with flowers in their hair

their hair

their hair and I think that it is really important

and I think that it is really important

and I think that it is really important that we create the space for people to

that we create the space for people to

that we create the space for people to show up as they are and culturally

show up as they are and culturally

show up as they are and culturally sensitive and culturally reflective ways

sensitive and culturally reflective ways

sensitive and culturally reflective ways knowing that these women are geniuses

knowing that these women are geniuses

knowing that these women are geniuses and can do that in a skirt I can wear

and can do that in a skirt I can wear

and can do that in a skirt I can wear eyeliner and talk about

eyeliner and talk about

eyeliner and talk about intersectionality at the same time it’s

intersectionality at the same time it’s

intersectionality at the same time it’s completely possible and I think

completely possible and I think

completely possible and I think increasing accessibility making sure we

increasing accessibility making sure we

increasing accessibility making sure we have things like interpreters and

have things like interpreters and

have things like interpreters and producing things in Braille having

producing things in Braille having

producing things in Braille having childcare thinking about all the people

childcare thinking about all the people

childcare thinking about all the people who often don’t get to access the spaces

who often don’t get to access the spaces

who often don’t get to access the spaces that we create we don’t want to speak on

that we create we don’t want to speak on

that we create we don’t want to speak on behalf of others we want to make more

behalf of others we want to make more

behalf of others we want to make more space at the table for them to speak on

space at the table for them to speak on

space at the table for them to speak on behalf of themselves and starting young

behalf of themselves and starting young

behalf of themselves and starting young I love the radical monarch if you decide

I love the radical monarch if you decide

I love the radical monarch if you decide to follow them on Instagram tell them I

to follow them on Instagram tell them I

to follow them on Instagram tell them I sent you because I think that they’re

sent you because I think that they’re

sent you because I think that they’re amazing they’re kind of live Girl Guides

amazing they’re kind of live Girl Guides

amazing they’re kind of live Girl Guides but turns up and they are a group of

but turns up and they are a group of

but turns up and they are a group of under the age of 12 young girls who are

under the age of 12 young girls who are

under the age of 12 young girls who are committed to social justice work and are

committed to social justice work and are

committed to social justice work and are doing that in a little pack and they’re

doing that in a little pack and they’re

doing that in a little pack and they’re going around really connecting to other

going around really connecting to other

going around really connecting to other people in their communities and doing

people in their communities and doing

people in their communities and doing really profound the awesome work they’re

really profound the awesome work they’re

really profound the awesome work they’re also hiring right now in case anyone is

also hiring right now in case anyone is

also hiring right now in case anyone is interested maybe why I had to Oakland um

interested maybe why I had to Oakland um

interested maybe why I had to Oakland um and I think that that’s a really great

and I think that that’s a really great

and I think that that’s a really great way we often we don’t believe that young

way we often we don’t believe that young

way we often we don’t believe that young people can handle these difficult

people can handle these difficult

people can handle these difficult conversation

conversation

conversation but not only are they handling them

but not only are they handling them

but not only are they handling them they’re leading them and I think media

they’re leading them and I think media

they’re leading them and I think media that speaks to generations and reminds

that speaks to generations and reminds

that speaks to generations and reminds us about our responsibility and our

us about our responsibility and our

us about our responsibility and our accountability to each other that’s the

accountability to each other that’s the

accountability to each other that’s the way that we love each other is a good

way that we love each other is a good

way that we love each other is a good thing and a powerful thing that unless

thing and a powerful thing that unless

thing and a powerful thing that unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot

someone like you cares a whole awful lot

someone like you cares a whole awful lot nothing is going to get better it’s not

nothing is going to get better it’s not

nothing is going to get better it’s not we need each other deeply in this work

we need each other deeply in this work

we need each other deeply in this work and I think it’s so important for us to

and I think it’s so important for us to

and I think it’s so important for us to connect to that process and these are a

connect to that process and these are a

connect to that process and these are a whole bunch of strategies for solidarity

whole bunch of strategies for solidarity

whole bunch of strategies for solidarity I like to leave it in here because my

I like to leave it in here because my

I like to leave it in here because my prezi’s are public and free and

prezi’s are public and free and

prezi’s are public and free and shareable but there’s one thing I want

shareable but there’s one thing I want

shareable but there’s one thing I want to leave you with so often the golden

to leave you with so often the golden

to leave you with so often the golden rule is to treat other people the way

rule is to treat other people the way

rule is to treat other people the way that you want to be treated and I think

that you want to be treated and I think

that you want to be treated and I think it is really important to treat other

it is really important to treat other

it is really important to treat other people the way that they want to be

people the way that they want to be

people the way that they want to be treated we can’t assume that we’re the

treated we can’t assume that we’re the

treated we can’t assume that we’re the standard for other people’s experiences

standard for other people’s experiences

standard for other people’s experiences so it means we have to ask we have to

so it means we have to ask we have to

so it means we have to ask we have to ask what gender pronouns are we have to

ask what gender pronouns are we have to

ask what gender pronouns are we have to ask what cultural sensitivity looks like

ask what cultural sensitivity looks like

ask what cultural sensitivity looks like we have to ask what safety looks like

we have to ask what safety looks like

we have to ask what safety looks like and it’s in the way that we ask and we

and it’s in the way that we ask and we

and it’s in the way that we ask and we talk to each other and we create those

talk to each other and we create those

talk to each other and we create those kinds of discourses that we create

kinds of discourses that we create

kinds of discourses that we create communities where none of us are left

communities where none of us are left

communities where none of us are left behind because that is ultimately the

behind because that is ultimately the

behind because that is ultimately the goal even though this is hard the hard

goal even though this is hard the hard

goal even though this is hard the hard work is part of what tells us that we’re

work is part of what tells us that we’re

work is part of what tells us that we’re doing it right so we don’t want to turn

doing it right so we don’t want to turn

doing it right so we don’t want to turn away from each other when things get

away from each other when things get

away from each other when things get difficult we actually want to turn

difficult we actually want to turn

difficult we actually want to turn towards each other with courage and keep

towards each other with courage and keep

towards each other with courage and keep moving forward together

moving forward together

moving forward together [Applause]

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