Learning to Read… Between the Lines | Amy Yoon | TEDxYouth@iPoly

good evening

good evening communication is a term that describes

communication is a term that describes

communication is a term that describes the ways we talk discuss and interact

the ways we talk discuss and interact

the ways we talk discuss and interact with each other

with each other

with each other however as I have started to observe

however as I have started to observe

however as I have started to observe people around me on how humans including

people around me on how humans including

people around me on how humans including myself communicate I have started to

myself communicate I have started to

myself communicate I have started to realize like the word communication is

realize like the word communication is

realize like the word communication is often misunderstood or even exploited

often misunderstood or even exploited

often misunderstood or even exploited although the verbal communication the

although the verbal communication the

although the verbal communication the ways we talk which is the typical way we

ways we talk which is the typical way we

ways we talk which is the typical way we tend to communicate thus placed a great

tend to communicate thus placed a great

tend to communicate thus placed a great value on our life it does not define the

value on our life it does not define the

value on our life it does not define the truth of communication no matter how we

truth of communication no matter how we

truth of communication no matter how we speak and what I speak and the ways we

speak and what I speak and the ways we

speak and what I speak and the ways we speak it cannot define the truth of

speak it cannot define the truth of

speak it cannot define the truth of communication because the ways we

communication because the ways we

communication because the ways we communicate are just small branch of

communicate are just small branch of

communicate are just small branch of communication and it is not a big

communication and it is not a big

communication and it is not a big picture at the heart of communication I

picture at the heart of communication I

picture at the heart of communication I believe there should be the

believe there should be the

believe there should be the understanding of one’s intention for

understanding of one’s intention for

understanding of one’s intention for that will what lead you to the success

that will what lead you to the success

that will what lead you to the success of communication one of the plays I have

of communication one of the plays I have

of communication one of the plays I have worked with is called one holography

worked with is called one holography

worked with is called one holography play written by Deborah Hoover the play

play written by Deborah Hoover the play

play written by Deborah Hoover the play is about a married couple who’ve lost

is about a married couple who’ve lost

is about a married couple who’ve lost their child from Lockerbie bombing

their child from Lockerbie bombing

their child from Lockerbie bombing Lockerbie bombing was a serious

Lockerbie bombing was a serious

Lockerbie bombing was a serious terrorist attack that was real um that

terrorist attack that was real um that

terrorist attack that was real um that mert the American plane an m1 a tree was

mert the American plane an m1 a tree was

mert the American plane an m1 a tree was bombed and crushed into the city of

bombed and crushed into the city of

bombed and crushed into the city of Lockerbie Scotland the play ends with a

Lockerbie Scotland the play ends with a

Lockerbie Scotland the play ends with a very significant scene where the local

very significant scene where the local

very significant scene where the local resident women of Lockerbie and the

resident women of Lockerbie and the

resident women of Lockerbie and the mother who lost her child washed their

mother who lost her child washed their

mother who lost her child washed their remains of victims together and overcome

remains of victims together and overcome

remains of victims together and overcome the trauma

the trauma

the trauma well the theater production is not

well the theater production is not

well the theater production is not really a usual way that you’re going to

really a usual way that you’re going to

really a usual way that you’re going to encounter to communicate

encounter to communicate

encounter to communicate however the play really dispelled

however the play really dispelled

however the play really dispelled clearly – lots and lots of audience the

clearly – lots and lots of audience the

clearly – lots and lots of audience the message was that if you have a trauma to

message was that if you have a trauma to

message was that if you have a trauma to overcome you need to confront the trauma

overcome you need to confront the trauma

overcome you need to confront the trauma for yourself

for yourself

for yourself and if you have someone who shares the

and if you have someone who shares the

and if you have someone who shares the same trauma or assault who’s gonna walk

same trauma or assault who’s gonna walk

same trauma or assault who’s gonna walk you to that pathway it’s a lot easier

you to that pathway it’s a lot easier

you to that pathway it’s a lot easier for you to walk through that process of

for you to walk through that process of

for you to walk through that process of overcoming the trauma and it is also for

overcoming the trauma and it is also for

overcoming the trauma and it is also for the audience and public to intention and

the audience and public to intention and

the audience and public to intention and responsibilities to aware to be aware of

responsibilities to aware to be aware of

responsibilities to aware to be aware of such issue and make voice out to the

such issue and make voice out to the

such issue and make voice out to the society just like this ARP is there are

society just like this ARP is there are

society just like this ARP is there are a lot of different artistic

a lot of different artistic

a lot of different artistic interpretations

interpretations

interpretations that’s just thrown out there and it is

that’s just thrown out there and it is

that’s just thrown out there and it is for the public and viewers

for the public and viewers

for the public and viewers interpretation to respond to that

interpretation to respond to that

interpretation to respond to that communication one of the painting I want

communication one of the painting I want

communication one of the painting I want you to look at is this without any

you to look at is this without any

you to look at is this without any information about this painting what do

information about this painting what do

information about this painting what do you see do you see just lines or shapes

you see do you see just lines or shapes

you see do you see just lines or shapes that are formed there where do you see

that are formed there where do you see

that are formed there where do you see like people animals some kind of

like people animals some kind of

like people animals some kind of creations mingling around well this

creations mingling around well this

creations mingling around well this painting is called Garrincha by Pablo

painting is called Garrincha by Pablo

painting is called Garrincha by Pablo Picasso

Picasso

Picasso and it was painted as a response to the

and it was painted as a response to the

and it was painted as a response to the carrion kabooming in 1937 and Pablo when

carrion kabooming in 1937 and Pablo when

carrion kabooming in 1937 and Pablo when when the Pablo Picasso was asked on this

when the Pablo Picasso was asked on this

when the Pablo Picasso was asked on this painting he left all the interpretations

painting he left all the interpretations

painting he left all the interpretations up to the viewers

up to the viewers

up to the viewers this indicates that once the artist is

this indicates that once the artist is

this indicates that once the artist is published it is all up to the audience

published it is all up to the audience

published it is all up to the audience and public’s and someone who’s watching

and public’s and someone who’s watching

and public’s and someone who’s watching it to interpret respond to this

it to interpret respond to this

it to interpret respond to this communication that the artist is drawing

communication that the artist is drawing

communication that the artist is drawing out to you and actually take it into

out to you and actually take it into

out to you and actually take it into your life but such a such way of

your life but such a such way of

your life but such a such way of communication where you’re not actually

communication where you’re not actually

communication where you’re not actually given the intention of one like in a

given the intention of one like in a

given the intention of one like in a direct way may not seem usual to you but

direct way may not seem usual to you but

direct way may not seem usual to you but I swear you have encountered this type

I swear you have encountered this type

I swear you have encountered this type of communication for your entire life

of communication for your entire life

of communication for your entire life animal communication when you see a dog

animal communication when you see a dog

animal communication when you see a dog wagging its tail what do you see what in

wagging its tail what do you see what in

wagging its tail what do you see what in what emotion is this conveying he’s

what emotion is this conveying he’s

what emotion is this conveying he’s happy right and when you see the dog is

happy right and when you see the dog is

happy right and when you see the dog is hiding his tail and like shivering what

hiding his tail and like shivering what

hiding his tail and like shivering what do you see what Cleary is fearing

do you see what Cleary is fearing

do you see what Cleary is fearing something right

something right

something right as humans who we also communicate with

as humans who we also communicate with

as humans who we also communicate with gestures or signals I should say to

gestures or signals I should say to

gestures or signals I should say to convey our emotion when someone thank

convey our emotion when someone thank

convey our emotion when someone thank you to smile emoji or when someone

you to smile emoji or when someone

you to smile emoji or when someone actually crosses their armies what are

actually crosses their armies what are

actually crosses their armies what are they conveying their emotions well you’d

they conveying their emotions well you’d

they conveying their emotions well you’d say that the one with smiley emoji there

say that the one with smiley emoji there

say that the one with smiley emoji there in the good mood and the one with their

in the good mood and the one with their

in the good mood and the one with their arms crossed they’re in bad or annoyed

arms crossed they’re in bad or annoyed

arms crossed they’re in bad or annoyed frustrated or even mad emotions well

frustrated or even mad emotions well

frustrated or even mad emotions well let’s take another scenario into it

let’s take another scenario into it

let’s take another scenario into it well what let’s say that the one who’s

well what let’s say that the one who’s

well what let’s say that the one who’s crossing their arms just got fired from

crossing their arms just got fired from

crossing their arms just got fired from work

work

work what can you think of maybe you can

what can you think of maybe you can

what can you think of maybe you can think of that he is mad at his boss for

think of that he is mad at his boss for

think of that he is mad at his boss for firing him simple right just like this

firing him simple right just like this

firing him simple right just like this you got the point right away once you

you got the point right away once you

you got the point right away once you see this a lot of humans and myself too

see this a lot of humans and myself too

see this a lot of humans and myself too often do this and take the

often do this and take the

often do this and take the interpretations as they’re expressed

interpretations as they’re expressed

interpretations as they’re expressed right away and go for our first instant

right away and go for our first instant

right away and go for our first instant instinct that although it is a valid

instinct that although it is a valid

instinct that although it is a valid choice and valid choice of communicating

choice and valid choice of communicating

choice and valid choice of communicating that can often lead to the

that can often lead to the

that can often lead to the miscommunication another way that all

miscommunication another way that all

miscommunication another way that all that alters and contributes to our ways

that alters and contributes to our ways

that alters and contributes to our ways of thinking and communicating is the

of thinking and communicating is the

of thinking and communicating is the light that we have been living in in

light that we have been living in in

light that we have been living in in other words the language we speak the

other words the language we speak the

other words the language we speak the culture we’ve been in the environment

culture we’ve been in the environment

culture we’ve been in the environment within were even a mood of the day

within were even a mood of the day

within were even a mood of the day affects us on how we think and how we

affects us on how we think and how we

affects us on how we think and how we communicate culture is the tradition

communicate culture is the tradition

communicate culture is the tradition belief tradition belief and attitude our

belief tradition belief and attitude our

belief tradition belief and attitude our behavior that is going through

behavior that is going through

behavior that is going through generations and culture really really

generations and culture really really

generations and culture really really affects our ways of talking and the

affects our ways of talking and the

affects our ways of talking and the language we speak it affects our tone

language we speak it affects our tone

language we speak it affects our tone voice pitch mood and everything I to

voice pitch mood and everything I to

voice pitch mood and everything I to experience that every single day in my

experience that every single day in my

experience that every single day in my daily life I am a fluent Korean speaker

daily life I am a fluent Korean speaker

daily life I am a fluent Korean speaker and I was grown up in the typical Korean

and I was grown up in the typical Korean

and I was grown up in the typical Korean culture and as I’ve been taking Korean

culture and as I’ve been taking Korean

culture and as I’ve been taking Korean to one and English to another I have

to one and English to another I have

to one and English to another I have realized that my tone of speaking and

realized that my tone of speaking and

realized that my tone of speaking and the ways I approach of speaking differs

the ways I approach of speaking differs

the ways I approach of speaking differs when I speak Korean I tend to speak in

when I speak Korean I tend to speak in

when I speak Korean I tend to speak in more lower

more lower

more lower and monotone way because the Koreans I

and monotone way because the Koreans I

and monotone way because the Koreans I believe they do not like to enter they

believe they do not like to enter they

believe they do not like to enter they do not like to express their emotions

do not like to express their emotions

do not like to express their emotions more we’re talking a lot in contrast

more we’re talking a lot in contrast

more we’re talking a lot in contrast when Americans I believe this is

when Americans I believe this is

when Americans I believe this is something I observed like to express

something I observed like to express

something I observed like to express their emotions or opinions a lot and

their emotions or opinions a lot and

their emotions or opinions a lot and more opened way so as a result when I

more opened way so as a result when I

more opened way so as a result when I speak Korean I speak more monotone and

speak Korean I speak more monotone and

speak Korean I speak more monotone and when I speak English I tend to speak in

when I speak English I tend to speak in

when I speak English I tend to speak in the higher pitch with little more

the higher pitch with little more

the higher pitch with little more exaggerated gestures or tone or voice

exaggerated gestures or tone or voice

exaggerated gestures or tone or voice well yes this is why we come this can

well yes this is why we come this can

well yes this is why we come this can also lead to another form of

also lead to another form of

also lead to another form of miscommunication because our cultures

miscommunication because our cultures

miscommunication because our cultures are different so what do we do it is

are different so what do we do it is

are different so what do we do it is very easy for us to create the illusions

very easy for us to create the illusions

very easy for us to create the illusions of communication it is very important

of communication it is very important

of communication it is very important for us to think about what the

for us to think about what the

for us to think about what the communication really means I think we

communication really means I think we

communication really means I think we should start up the conversation with

should start up the conversation with

should start up the conversation with the intention of understanding the

the intention of understanding the

the intention of understanding the communication first of all we should

communication first of all we should

communication first of all we should start up to active conversation

start up to active conversation

start up to active conversation considering the intention of one that

considering the intention of one that

considering the intention of one that you’re speaking to you should start off

you’re speaking to you should start off

you’re speaking to you should start off with conversation with your mind and

with conversation with your mind and

with conversation with your mind and your purpose on understanding one’s

your purpose on understanding one’s

your purpose on understanding one’s intention and not just to take what you

intention and not just to take what you

intention and not just to take what you want to speak or express your own

want to speak or express your own

want to speak or express your own opinion you need to first hear what the

opinion you need to first hear what the

opinion you need to first hear what the other person is saying to correctly

other person is saying to correctly

other person is saying to correctly respond and correctly communicate and

respond and correctly communicate and

respond and correctly communicate and understand their intention because that

understand their intention because that

understand their intention because that is what matters right now as we’re

is what matters right now as we’re

is what matters right now as we’re living in the society globalized society

living in the society globalized society

living in the society globalized society where a lot of cultures come in and

where a lot of cultures come in and

where a lot of cultures come in and blend in it is very easy for us to miss

blend in it is very easy for us to miss

blend in it is very easy for us to miss communicate and misinterpret so we I

communicate and misinterpret so we I

communicate and misinterpret so we I think it is time for us to rethink about

think it is time for us to rethink about

think it is time for us to rethink about communication and the core meaning of

communication and the core meaning of

communication and the core meaning of communication because I also believe

communication because I also believe

communication because I also believe that as much as this communication is

that as much as this communication is

that as much as this communication is emphasized on our society we also seem

emphasized on our society we also seem

emphasized on our society we also seem to less value the actual meaning and

to less value the actual meaning and

to less value the actual meaning and actual value of communication I hope you

actual value of communication I hope you

actual value of communication I hope you understand that the ways of

understand that the ways of

understand that the ways of communication is not just all there is

communication is not just all there is

communication is not just all there is more greater there’s

more greater there’s

more greater there’s better meaning to it communication is

better meaning to it communication is

better meaning to it communication is about understanding it is understanding

about understanding it is understanding

about understanding it is understanding of interpretation understanding of

of interpretation understanding of

of interpretation understanding of perspective worldview and opinions about

perspective worldview and opinions about

perspective worldview and opinions about each other and if you start to realize

each other and if you start to realize

each other and if you start to realize it and remind that into your mind as you

it and remind that into your mind as you

it and remind that into your mind as you start to communicate I believe that our

start to communicate I believe that our

start to communicate I believe that our society can be more accepted and open

society can be more accepted and open

society can be more accepted and open society where more people’s voices can

society where more people’s voices can

society where more people’s voices can be valued and heard thank you