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Le sourire du facteur | Naccache BOURHANE | TEDxRéunion


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we are present

on this little pebble that is the meeting

memory I come from a smaller pebble

still a pebble six times smaller

that meeting located in the ocean

Indian name is called in June in

january it is and turquoise sea a

beautiful landscape a population

welcoming

at that time my father and my mother and

work my mother was working for a

family store and my father him for the

Comorian Government

I too was born on this same small

pebble this little gem called in June

after my baccalaureate I go to France in the

city ​​of Toulouse where my studies

higher at the end of studies

I get a summer job in a bank

a callus tissue bone I am offered a

trainee contract to integrate

definitely the bank but some

time before the end of this internship I get

a call from my father from comoros who me

urge a return to

to be at his side

very attached to my parents and knowing

that it’s con old, so I decide to

to return Thursday to lormont to my boss and

I accept and use the government

Comorian and that I leave the band

it was disappointed and surprised but tell me

what are you going to do in this

small country in 1988

I leave this little country with

parents and we’re leaving for paris

my father is assigned to the embassy of

comoros as a counselor precisely

so I remember that embassy

I was a kid she was beautiful but

I remembered especially the super fact

beautiful look is all red was glowing

and which decorated the corridors a little

like this carpet the memories

I have my father as a diplomat

it’s the travels that made it but

especially I was small it was mostly

they do not travel especially bardot them

gifts they bring me back at his

trips like for example he was

income a player from new york

he brought me back the game boy ones

of you who know this

known kilo console do not include

surely and then there was also this

car with its green and orange plate

know symbol of diplomatic plates

so some memories here and there

end of 1989 an event takes place

tragic comoros party in this end

1989 the infamous mercenary

bob denard who had already been to his credit

two coup d’etat in the killer comoros

the president the cobras the government

comorian so organizes new

elections

a new president is elected following these

elections

the new authorities decide to

send some of the staff

diplomat stationed in Paris whose – I

so I find myself overnight at

unemployed unemployment facing this

situation as brutal as unexpected

and it will happen three years before

that I find a new job one day

I was about 9 10 years old I’m in

bottom of the building and have invited I am

having fun with friends and there

I see the factor come down with his

scooter and his coat yellow and blue and

when he approaches, I realize that

This is my father

I understand nothing my father he is not

factor he is diplomat

he’s still driving he’s thinking

couturiere I make you a confidence

in front of my friends I was embarrassed I had

even a little ashamed and actually I got

said that if I felt that but

what was it for him

had to be stone but that day there is

something that has more marked me

it made you smile and smile that

postman

he stayed with me and influenced me

all my life the smile of this

factor is actually that of this man

my father actually it was such a policeman

it became after three years of

permanent search for jobs killed

going back and forth incessantly and very

often and fruitful between offices

sometimes I asked you is what a

day I will see the end will not

see the end of the tunnel and the light is

finally appeared when I was able to land

my first job that of factors at

it’s easy to imagine that I do not

I could not hear two to be omitted

factors

however there were advantages to

to be a factor for example when the

guest legs at home to have tea

or coffee for a little break in

mail delivery

it’s a benefit and privileges had

never had as a diplomat

this will help me also allows to have some

fruitful exchanges is really rich and

varied with people of origins

various

that day whose halal to distribute the

mail for the first time to my

own residence

I saw my son playing with his friends

at the bottom of the building

accounts long launched the Mount of

world nor even embarrassed I approached

and I smiled at them

and believe me I have so much and

to imagine but then really far that

this simple doctor stories go to exercise

such an influence on my son and by

ricochet on his little brothers

today still when I think back to

this event I tell myself that maybe

subconsciously get drunk that was me

came naturally to reflect my

state of mind of the times

in fact share that smile I wanted without

doubt signify to my son in front of his

friends and this without having to pronounce them

words that I kept my head up despite

this new and unexpected situation

this smile I do it but also from my

father who had taught me to always

face to face and always

always get up

when I stumble on a on the obstacle

in fact to stay sales

all the circumstances and so my

just father with the attitude he had

with that simple smile and always has me

learned with that simple smile always

and always stay positive

and you know that postman smile I

had to reuse it myself

other moments of my life

for example I was 22 years old I mounted my

first company with my best

friend so you know at 22 when you

put a company you have a

incredible crowd

we had dreams full of head

should already multimillionaire us in

two years

and when a few years later this

same best friend my best friend

is a low blow fortunately I

not expect at all for me it was

a betrayal

that day I remembered the smile

of the postman and there from there I

am relieved and today I run my

own company and I’m even on the

point to launch a second room is

behind every attitude that

you adopt is first to

the origin the perception you make

an event or situation

take the example of the lion, that’s it

my favorite animal know why

any other animal when

faced with an elephant what

that he sees a huge template a tithe

a huge terrifying beast not the lion

the lion him what he will see if his

next meal a it’s an opportunity to

eat well while the elephant him at

contrary that yet made more than 30

times the weight of the lion will see itself already

like prey

and from there precisely the attitude

will ensue the lion will eat

the elephant and the elephant not getting

find directly in the plate of the

wolf so if you get to change the

perception that you have things

another attitude will follow

automatically and you will get this

that you want in life our asset

of your attitude affect the

people who are around you and

without even having to talk

look at my grandfather influenced my

father by his attitude my father with this

smile and with his attitude

influenced today myself I’m doing

the maximum for really impacted from

positive way

my daughter only by the actions and

you think that will hold

child of you what impact and she

borrows you want to leave them if

you listen

and looking at the rates the story of

my father and I learn that

happy children just hold of

their parents as much as they hear

but also those who saw and two

so

2 they will accomplish

prune the way you

show the difficulties the way in which

you will face an obstacle

you will leave them this legacy

for all their lives

that you have small children

children or even I tell you that you

work with children remember

not one thing is that you are

models for them but above all the

first person you impacted and

that you influence positively

or negative by your attitude it’s

you even then I would like you

a question

today when you do not do a

obstacle

what attitude

and you

we would like to leave you now

with

a wisdom emanating from the fishermen

comorians a proverb that we

it seems and the luster perfectly

the spirit of our purpose today

allow me to quote you this proverb

in colonial language he says it’s so true

voices of the voices we go where there is

waves

that’s where there is a door

thank you

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