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La Mentalidad de Ausencia | Andrés Spyker | TEDxCamelinasAve


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the conferences elsewhere and I

agreement is the first night just makes

a couple of nights

I bolt like every night to hug my

wife and kiss him good

nights and hug her just to give me

mind that he was not there

Now I knew that I was not there but

instinctively I turned to embrace her

it’s only happened once that you feel

that you have something and you know it is there

but it’s not there you lack you have that

absence that need as some of

soon they do not know where their cell phone is and

they come back and but anxious they need

they need even pills for that

anxiety because the cell phone is not

you know this need or absence or feel

charge you lack can be something very

deep I also see it in children

orphans

I have three children, two of them are my

biological children

my daughter the youngest is my daughter by

adoption and when we met her makes

some years

we visited the home and you could see

the face of so many children there that although

they had roof they had food they had some

careful in your eyes you could see a

absence a lack a need like

that they know is needed to make me

miss mom and although orphans and maybe

live with a family member with a small ball

even so they need and you can see it

in their eyes and their conversations

they need daddy they need mom and a

universal need that all beings

humans we have this need to be

happy we want to be happy and we are

looking for a lot of things to

make us happy

we say if I’m successful that’s going to be

happy and then you have maybe he achieved the

success that you wanted and you’re not happy to

index

if that girl were my girlfriend I would be happy

but it’s already his good girlfriend if I marry

she would be happy

those of good house if I had children would be

happy then have children if he was single

now I would be happy it’s like always

there is an honoring

yes yes if my company out of that

size and then we move the range

the doctor e core his psychologist sony created

he says that we have the formula of the

happiness upside down that we want

achieve happiness by achieving success

but that really is the other way around that for

succeed we have to first be

happy that we first have to

feel happy is more studies

they show that we are 37 percent more

productive more effective more creative

if we feel happy or if it is

this idea that one day I will be

happy as I have that house I have that

car in the sixth is not going to happen because

you’re always going to want something more than you

make happy and then first we have

to be happy to produce success

what we want in our marriage

our family our career

whatever we want to achieve but for

what do we have this feeling this idea is

hunger for happiness know our body

it tells us that we need to eat and how

He tells us that we are hungry

our mind tells us that we need

information or that we’re not

entertainment because soon our

mind is bored and our body

needs to feed our mind

he also needs food but this

happiness because we feel it because

we want to be happy

there is an absence a longing to want

to be happy is like that paradise

lost that we seek and it escapes us is

something that we can not catch because

we feel that lack of need

I propose that as human beings

we have a body we have a mind but

we also have a spirit and our

spirit is telling us I’m hungry

there is something beyond that apart from what

we can see and what we can know

and achieve our spirit is hungry

of another thing

the problem is that we do not know how

nourish our spirit we know how

feed the body

we know how to feed our mind

but we do not know how to feed our

spirit and it took like 20 years working

help

people from our point of

work and we are part of a church and

we help many people we advise to

Many people and I have noticed

through the years that there are three things

that nourish your spirit

there are things that make you feel pleasure

but there are three things that feed your

spirit and we confuse pleasure with

happiness

that’s why many get into

very difficult problems for us

that is going to have people who are in a

iu problem of failure and have

need to get out of there and there are people

very successfully that is also miserable

because the two are hungry in their

spirit but there are three ways to

nourish your number one spirit what

feed your spirit is faith and this faith

I do not know it’s not about my religion or

even if you believe what I believe but

faith is to believe in something greater is

believe that there is an origin and there is a destiny

of our lives that what we’re not

here by accident and everyone has their

own belief system and I think that

should bring but in my case I believe in

god and that the way to my connection

with God is through faith in Christ

Jesus and that fills my spirit and you have

than looking for what you believe and for

this origin and what is its end and have

that communion or conversation with that

you have faith but faith fills you

spirit do one thing that already our

spirit is unconditional love

we all need to feel that we are

loved as we are with or without hair

with or without effect we all have something and

we all want to feel that we are good

loved well accepted well that god such

and how we are and that heals our lives

but also unconditional love

we have to learn to give it to others

people and I again saw people who

He is very successful but if he has no faith

but experimental unconditional love

if you do not have someone to love

unconditionally

there is a void that your spirit is

saying I’m hungry there’s something more

espe amorin count

to number three a purpose is very

different have a job have a

career have a family have friends to

purposeful purpose is the cause

bigger by which you have friends

career money family things purpose

I believe that all of us have the

purpose of making life better for the

that surround us to improve our world

to improve our environment

in other words maybe your vocation is

once being a doctor but your purpose is

help and improve people’s lives

maybe he had occasion is teacher maybe

vocations in the area of ​​science and

technology or art design is its

work and your vocation but your purpose

is to improve the lives of the people who

surrounds you around and how do we find

faith when we find love when

we find purpose our spirit

start to experience happiness or a

feel satisfaction

you imagine what would happen in Mexico without

Mexico we were 37% more productive

if in our work we can 37% more

more productive more effective cash

in what we do we could change

our families but starting with the

feel of satisfaction and happiness that

our spirit is searching and finished

with this thought I do not know how many of

you when you are hungry you put

Very bad

You know someone who gets really bad

When have hungry

my literal wife is transformed into the

beast of the apocalypse when it has

hungry do not do not tell her I said that

but but it really gets really bad

distorts his emotions he gets

bad is angry and gets very frustrated when

is hungry and out of joke like you

sometimes somewhere sometimes in our

Mexico sometimes in another country

when you see a child a bad person

Nourished in shape even your body

then a hunger can form your

emotions but a deep hunger can

form even your body

maybe a lot of the frustrations and

deformities of our character and the

brake our success our

cap productivity that

we experience for a full life

Maybe it’s because there is hunger in our

spirit is what I propose the day of

today you have to feed him thank you very much

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