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J’arrete de surconsommer | Marie Lefèvre & Herveline Verbeken | TEDxDunkerque


[Applause]

four years ago my husband nearly got

kill on the way to work because of

our consumer ideal then I

am sure you are wondering how

he was able to get there

we were a fairly classic family

a couple two children and then a project

real estate in progress

and I’m part of this

precarious generation that connects the cdd

not very well paid

despite my diplomas and him in cdi

he was putting tremendous pressure on

ensure financial continuity in fact

family and also to ensure a

normal consumption some objects

technological some pleasure objects

a vacation and in short he has fired so much

on the rope that one morning our life has

suddenly rocked because of this ideal

unattainable actually burn out

game over face consequences

financial

my first instinct was to turn

to promotions and products

discount

and then I thought and I thought

that this consumption was not without

consequence on the other

at the end of the chain the other one after

the production line for example

and then finally we are always

the other of someone and suddenly I

searched for solutions radically

different and my life has radically

exchange

zero waste ethical consumption and

ecological

we realized how much

respectful consumption of ourselves

and respectful of others and

planet

two years ago with herveline we created

facebook group budget management

mutual help and minimalism otherwise called

the group of unicorns do you ask

not why that counts so a hundred thousand

members

because if there were on one side

eco groups minimalist zero waste

etc and on the other management groups

pure budget there was nothing that

corresponded to our deep message

who is

you can change the world even if

you are a Sunday ecologist even though

you have no time even if you

are poor you can change the

world

even if you are two girls like us

who are addicted mnm under a varnish to

nails you can change the world even

if you are not a scientist even

if you are not an expert even if

you are not a journalist even though

you are not credible or even if

you are not consistent or even if you

are not perfectly perfect and that’s

it’s rather good news so

how do we do that because that’s what

we are interested a little bit in fact

when we are interviewed with herveline

we are always asked the question of

Why

why we must stop overconsumption

and then why else

then, there are plenty of people

super skilled actually one who will

answer all these questions and in

the more we think that ben you know

already if I speak to you for example one of

pharmaceutical lobbies

if I tell you about bears who die on

sea ​​ice due to warming

climate if I talk to you about the

deforestation

all this in fact you already know you

already know it and yet you do not

do not change in lower you are in

do not plug what does it make you

feel guilty but then suddenly when we

feel guilty that we do not feel well we have

tendency to enter even more into the

consumption

it’s a little bit like a snake

bite the tail so we decided to

take the problem on the other side we have

decided to tackle how so

how do you change your

consumption on a daily basis

durable

our goal is actually you

raise awareness that change

your consumption will have an impact

about you on your life on your

functioning right now and our

proposal to get there is to leave

of your concrete problems

so that can be your budget

actually the food budget your

concrete problems and to invent

together effective solutions

ecological and ethical but that is

adapted to your life then we

fits everyone you are

rich whether you are poor you

be green as you get them

ovary

that you are unemployed that you

work 50 hours a week each

of you can be a unicorn

so we finished the blah, yes we go

to the solutions ok so we prepared you

a list of four steps to become

a free and happy consumer then

the first step is to choose

only one thing but of you

throw in the water and you know why

it’s because often the first

posed and liberating action and opens the

path

and the good news is that there is

so much alternative that you will not have

just that the embarrassment of choice

for example you can decide to

manufacture your cleaning product at

base of bicarbonate vinegar

you can take a thing that you

consume industrial and do it

now home you can even heavy

and your cosmetics and you

quays make up with a single oil

vegetable

the only rule is to take a

thing but who is talking to you the second

step to become a free consumer

and happy is to say that we have

all the brakes and that’s ok we got

all in the lead yes but I can

not because nani we have you listed a

little podium makes of the three

main brakes that come back the most

often on the third step of this

podium we have the entourage

refractory yes this is your

spouse for example who did you follow

not at all in the process and suddenly

you say but what’s the point of doing

things alone in my corner

we are all worried about a loved one in

our entourage who tells us that bio

it’s a mega scam because of

anyway it’s never 100% organic or

while these three times too expensive we have

all in our entourage of a grandma or

a beautiful mother or even a mother who

cover our children with gifts made in

china on packed and there we say but

how am I going to do so cool runway

cool we breathe we can already maybe

to say two things first is

the change you want to see in

the world we can start with us

we can do things alone

Well it’s better than nothing and the

second, let’s be benevolent with

our entourage who is a little bit

incredulous

me for example you would have told me there is

three four years that I was going to become

minimalist vegan green I was going

even write a book about the

deconsumption and that I will be there this

evening talking to you frankly

frankly no I would not have believed you

and yet I’m here so let’s be

benevolent with our surroundings

the second brake the second brake on

our podium is the lack of time

yes yes there your thing there it takes 20

way of time and me my days

after she is so 24 hours so so

here I am, I do not have enough time

maybe you’re part of

this population category and that’s

of the lived who works and 50 hours per

week

transport not included and that they

had absolutely no time to

run four different stores on

weekend to cook everything so when

even the good news is that the

change does not only go through the

cooking there are plenty of things you

will already be able to change in your

daily and that will take you 0 time

additional for example the know the

menstrual cup or the

washable wipes will not take you

one more second in your

operation

and then especially there is a second

way of approaching things get bigger

you life yes because today we

tends to really do everything at the

map of varied menus of new toys

even if it’s at the credit price or

multiply activities even if you have

already crazy days

so entrenched in us in fact this

requirement for perfection always

to do more beautiful more better here if we

start in the process and we

not succeed all the first time

it looks like it’s a failure

staff we are not good but actually

the key is not to succeed in doing more

it’s accepting to do less by

example if your problem and management

linen

why not consider stopping

iron your panties or tea towels or

again for your next purchases of

choose materials that does not require

no ironing is simply

so the first brake on our podium

the sinews of war I named the

budget is yes the bio is always

three times too expensive so we panic

we will not ask you tomorrow

morning to buy everything bio us

what you are told is rather alesi

little by little for example for the budget

food what we often advise

it’s starting to predict what we’re going

eat based on what we already have

on his cupboards in his cupboards it is

better it’s better and so once

did that we make a list of what

we miss

and this list we try to encrypt it

so it may sound weird but

that’s okay if you ‘re not at

the euro almost once we have encrypted

see if it fits in our budget and

if it does not make it right, we go back to the

case menu it is in this sense that it

walk for the overall budget this is a

little bit the same thing in fact we’re going

ask you to list all your

loads and even the stuff you

think never like for example the

barber the vet

the fines the car expenses the

gifts the stuff like that you list

all you smoothed over the year

especially you stop doing the ostrich

and you watch your budget between

Cadieux once you’ve done that

you will really see what

looks like your budget and who knows you

maybe even go power and baskets

spared to realize your dreams

then the third step to become a

free consumer and happy it’s

dropped your guilt

maybe you are in the

situation where disruptive

endocrine worries you

but you can not stop

smoke maybe too that you have

want to eat a local maximum but

that banana is just not possible

to remove it from your diet

ultimate washer of the world

well it does not matter you have the

right to have your own contradictions

in our gardens

it’s called a little bit

the reverse of the bitch then there

know you know it’s the one that has

always the complexion bursting the hair

dream that has managed to fluff

his kids steamed broccoli this is the

yes organic bio that before whom we feel

always all void

well I’ll tell you a scoop this

bitch she does not exist so you

can immediately release the pressure

remained benevolent with myself

there will be times you will be at

background and there will be moments too

you’ll want to drop everything and that’s

just normal and finally the fourth step

to become a free consumer and

happy it’s surrounded you I you

will not learn anything if I tell you that the

group dynamics it’s an engine

powerful so find your place

somewhere an association a

citizen grouping a community

virtual like ours, but

do not stay alone so maybe that

you still have doubts or that you

think it’s a little utopia

and that’s why we wanted to

tell you what’s going on a little

little when people start to follow

these few tips

because you see it done now

over two years we share all that

with nearly a hundred thousand people

we should welcome our 100,000th

nobody normally today and with

the help of 200 volunteers absolutely

wonderful that gives a lot of

their time well you see in fact one

is not there to do a study

sociological it is not at all our

time our job is to create the

conditions of change so we will not

present you with statistical studies of

average duration of the overdraft and

it’s not our job not our taste but

we know it works we know it

walk why we know it works

because we read over the days of

hundreds and hundreds of

testimonials from people who have

completely changed of life change of

job change region

we see people who, for example, were able to

take parental leave while they

did not even imagine being able to live with

a single salary a few months ago we

sees families that have managed to

save enough to bring their

waves their kids on vacation for the

first time and that’s it we did not

no need for numbers to see that

because it’s contagious people

invite their friends their family our

community grows so

exponentially even as the

promotions are banned and that saw the

current economic context I can you

to say that it is an excellent indicator

because hope is palpable

draws us a little bit by the

budget but in fact when we see the

path that do after in their

ecological awareness

they call themselves six months as far as

I left in his concerns there

today I feel concerned it is

that really it can concern all the

world

because in reality we are

tens of thousands of people we

but mostly you have the same dream

we dream of a more just society

we dream of being able to do things to

our scale despite our constraints and

well you know what it’s really not

a dream

you have the power you have the

power to finance the world you

want to see with your purchases and we will

do all together from the inside with

our constraints and leaving aside

the guilt of all that remains

still to do because we are everywhere

of all ages from all walks of life

men of women of all professions

all layers of society and that

that’s our strength

we are the key then to conclude

and because others speak well

better than we would like to read you a

testimony of a unicorn called

Thai and who answered the question

what is laly body neither for you at

bottom a scream of the heart a scream without

noise a look that wants to heal from

the love that still wants to come out of

the life energy that is struggling

undeniably against despair the

fear incoherence ignorance

insensitivity while trying to

to perpetuate the carefree thank you

a lot

and now up you and change the

world

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