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¿Cómo transformar el disgusto en buen humor? | Bruno Ferrante | TEDxColegioCatólicoDonBosco


ever happened to you from being in the middle of

a moment of fury in which you

you knock out the chain and

things happened that you later

You regret I had an experience

a very soccer player

I like football to play it and win it

We join with friends to play once

a week and the idea came out to play a

championship because we thought we had

the possibility of doing it and we

we registered the parties in the beginning

this championship were complicated for

we lost we lost we lost

we lost until something happened that changed

everything

I left my house ten minutes before

of the start of the game and all

that adrenaline and that discharge is what

attributed to me generated an attitude of

Warrior comes to the match to love

eat me the other team

literal and it seems that contagious

partner if we win the match

and since I am a person of Kabbalah in

football

I said by finish the thing from today

I’m going to leave ten minutes before my

house before the match starts

change I say to arrive and eat the

court and it worked to the point that

we got to play the final of the championship

unbelievably we reached the end of the

championship it was crazy and just like

he did it in the previous matches in

what we won with my team was

ten minutes before leaving my house

changing me and for those things in life

it seems that he made a medium maneuver

strangely pulls the short and the

pita that came out this side got

imagine, it was already a concern

get to the court 10 minute mante and was

the final and all the emotional charge that

I had uncontrolled I got the

chain because I got the pita and

try one thing try another for a

side by another etc. etcetera etcetera

the thing is that you desperately

I ended up doing the south with a scissor

I stayed senior and on purpose

human beings we share certain

things with animals and

for example let’s imagine a situation

honda discovery channel is the servant

grazing and feels the threat of the tiger

that what the deer does and when the

deer does and begins to segregate in his

organism a hormone called

cortisol that hormone allows the

deer can get out of danger

that is all the energy you have in this

moment is bound to get out of danger

that is, an extra energy and how is it

extra energy of the organism have to

you have to prioritize your organism some

things for example the system energy

Immune be bound to leave Seba

danger or that the defenses go down from

zero because at that time your system did not

needs defense then it ‘s coming out

of danger

once you get out of danger once you

disappeared the tiger returns to continue

agreeing and everything normal

that kind of thing like the hormone

cortisol us humans

we also have it

unlike the animals we

we have something called mind and the

mind is

peace of projecting reality is that no

there are for example my tiger in that in

he at the time of going to the game was the

short that thesis operation

that danger that anxiety that I burned

generated the whole situation

there was the tiger tiger can be you

boss

you tiger can be the invoice that

they will have to pay at the end of the month

tiger may be your dream was the pip hour

of your mother-in-law or your partner José and the subject

is with him with the matter be of

cortisol that when we are living that

reality when we are living next

of the tiger all our energy is

doomed to get out of a shot a danger

that does not exist that is only in the

head

then imagine there comes the famous

stress because I’m worried about

leave the invoice I’m worried

because my boss does not hit me on this or that

way I’m worried about this so

other

and where are my energies are

doomed to get out of danger and my

defense gets low and there comes the series of

gastritis problem diseases 15 13 13

13 3 good so this way working this is

our system

accompanied by the mind I would like

speak to them of a word that is called

transmutation this word is referred

a process a process of change that is

change something

one thing in another then it will be transmuted

is to transform one thing into another so that

we have it more clearly

imagine a coal that by means of a

effort process is transformed into

diamond the process of transmutation of

carbon to diamond transforms

I’m going to tell you another anecdote

my mother does not live in Bolivia she lives in

united states and every one that we can with my

brother

We are going to visit her for the party because

I do not know I like Christmas more than

united states I guess they say has

something to do with that but good we go

every we can and we are there and it happened

something very very interesting one of the

Christmas we had because my mother

lives near a mold a shopping and

every time we went to that moll she passed

for a purse shop

I do not know what women have with

theme of purses and shoes but

men or at least I do not

I understand but it’s fine but there’s a

lady that this smiling smile is

well the women there seems to be

identify with the wallet and the shoes

no problem the issue that the portfolio

that gives me that I looked at my mother was

very clear not expensive expensive thing that no

we understood with my brother but every

my mother was going through that store

the eyes light up the wallet and

I found out, came in, went out, etc.

etc. etcetera e

obviously she was not going to buy it

I did not even have the intention of

buy it for that very reason and the possibility

my brother and I said let’s stockings

and the purchase of the beauty mom portfolio

we bought the portfolio is alive

we give away and the moment in which she

opened the gift and saw the portfolio more

beyond the material subject the emotion that

generated was very intense in a kind of

joy that surely you in

certain similar experiences have

I felt that kind of acts in force you

for giving someone something

generate another type of chemical process in

the body a hormone called

oxytocin that I like to say that the

oxytocin is the hormone of happiness

the hormone of life

obviously to be able to segregate the

you need to make an effort an effort

but it is much more pleasant is the

hormone of harmony when you’re with

your friends sharing without any kind

of concern there is oxytocin a mother

who gives birth to a child is segregating

oxytocin all that effort so that the

Boy come out and be able to see it and enjoy it

there is life there is oxytocin then

let’s return to the subject of transmutation

let’s grab our coal and let’s say

the charge is cortisol be the danger

Be the tiger or that I want to leave

this moment I want to leave this

danger of this stress that is

eating good I need to transmute

I need an effort to get there

to the diamond that would come to be the

cortisol that would come to be harmony the

life I tell you for those who do not

you know I am an artist or at least to me

I like to say that I am an artist

I have two university degrees but

when they tell me that for what technique is

to say that I am an artist because I have

in some book maybe on the internet

I know I did not find a phrase that

used as my header phrase that

says art is the way to carry

happiness beauty to the soul connect the

soul through beauty and I stayed

with that and I like to say that I’m an artist

so I am comedian and humorist am

I’m going to propose an exercise that to me

It helps me a lot to be able to transmit

this kind of situations to be able

get out of this three issue and be able

find harmony and exercise you

it’s so funny because I’m an artist every

letter has a meaning art the ad

he noted that what vigo scored scored because

the act of writing something down is more logical

that emotional when I’m

writing something I’m describing the

situation then we go to the example of

short that what you scored scored the

situation that I am in which I am

immersed in that moment that I am

desperate I can do it mentally

also the thing that there is not

emotional identification I am

desperate because outside of the

hippie culture of benghazi all the bad

word that comes to mind is

It has eaten me up and over I’ll get

late and in the final

that third set now lies the description

and write down the respite

at this moment I am going to ask you to

leave your cell phones to serve me and

share with me a network a kind of

recovery that we do a lot

in the theater and it’s about getting the air

up to the diaphragm in 4 seconds and then

He expelled the air, I put it through his nose and

he expelled him by the mouth in four

seconds I put in and in three seconds what

expelled and this we do it three times

ok let’s go with the first

that peace that tranquility they are

feeling is the present moment is the

awareness of this present moment no

there’s tiger in chief there’s absolutely

nothing in the experience that I have in this

red circle in this room and I give myself

account that there is no danger and I realized

that everything is fine because there is peace of

help me away stc tiger and the last

letter t to transmute this process

finish the process of effort because I

I want to get out of this conflict and to

to be able to get out of the conflict I need

put a little effort to change

situations in my situation that what

happened with my reality I wanted the

life at that moment the short wanted that

life send me a short by art of

magic or that a taxi arrives sir

own good lord here

Look, it seemed a lot clever

gave away that kind of things are not going to happen

we are usually used to that

people life things where they do not

and sometimes it gives us but as it is not what

we are waiting there too

there are breaks

then what would be the opposite act

what would be the effort at that time the

short instead of asking will give that is the

effort and what was my effort in that

moment nothing ready to forget melchor

forget the situation and I ‘ll see what

happens in the match and effort with

all that emotional charge because I am very

gentleman

I’m good many cabals said the

short of luck I will not use it

because I broke it but

and I got to the edge of the game for those

Life things

a partner who was suspended and

half all uniform and I played with his

Very cute uniform very match

exciting typical final match

we do not remove the leather we do not remove the dirt

so much so that we arrived at the 93rd minute of

match with the score 0 to 0

last corner kick play and I

I want to tell all of you that

when i play football i am carles puyol

for those who do not know carles puyol

the captain of fcbarcelona good ex

capital that also played in the selection

Spanish and champion in South Africa

and that moment in that corner shot I

I remembered a semifinal play of the

world South Africa afterwards can not

google will make i and ii of the play of

corner kick was Spain against

Germany

and that corner shot

carles puyol got his head made the goal

and with that goal they won the match

I focused and said this is the play

it’s the same situation and what was the

same situation

then I concentrated and for him everything

who has ever played football and have

done goal they will not let me lie but

when the ball comes out and you are very

confident you know what will happen I

I projected myself with that play and I said this

is the friend came out the ball connect with

the head and it was the most poetic the most

glorious the most beautiful own goal I made

in my life

and good if we lost the championship

so on and so what I want

let all this that life for

win in life to lose in the

life is going to get thing in life you

will remove other things but what I

highlight of all this is that living the

present moment and realize what

what is happening to you is very important

because if you realize what is

happening and what is happening to you

conflictive that is happening to you

they involve stress have the possibility of

Apply the art to convert your

situation

ego diamond thank you very much

[Applause]

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