
there was something i never truly understood and that was her tendency to
understood and that was her tendency to
understood and that was her tendency to follow ministry i remember i would see
follow ministry i remember i would see
follow ministry i remember i would see people on my school wearing the same
people on my school wearing the same
people on my school wearing the same types of genes the same brand of shoes
types of genes the same brand of shoes
types of genes the same brand of shoes the same type of shirts i even happened
the same type of shirts i even happened
the same type of shirts i even happened to be one of those girls and when i look
to be one of those girls and when i look
to be one of those girls and when i look back at the situation i wish i would
back at the situation i wish i would
back at the situation i wish i would have done something different and i wish
have done something different and i wish
have done something different and i wish i would have been more original in the
i would have been more original in the
i would have been more original in the way I dressed and after realizing about
way I dressed and after realizing about
way I dressed and after realizing about something that has been so part of my
something that has been so part of my
something that has been so part of my life something else daily as wearing
life something else daily as wearing
life something else daily as wearing clothes I realized I had been wrong for
clothes I realized I had been wrong for
clothes I realized I had been wrong for most of my life and then I came up with
most of my life and then I came up with
most of my life and then I came up with three main reasons why we follow
three main reasons why we follow
three main reasons why we follow mainstream number one because guidance
mainstream number one because guidance
mainstream number one because guidance it is a fact that most of us look up to
it is a fact that most of us look up to
it is a fact that most of us look up to celebrities on what to wear celebrities
celebrities on what to wear celebrities
celebrities on what to wear celebrities are role models or are supposed to be
are role models or are supposed to be
are role models or are supposed to be celebrities represent who we want to be
celebrities represent who we want to be
celebrities represent who we want to be they represent the perfect faces the
they represent the perfect faces the
they represent the perfect faces the perfect bodies the perfect way to dress
perfect bodies the perfect way to dress
perfect bodies the perfect way to dress it is okay to look up to celebrities as
it is okay to look up to celebrities as
it is okay to look up to celebrities as a form of inspiration but how much is
a form of inspiration but how much is
a form of inspiration but how much is too much number two because we want to
too much number two because we want to
too much number two because we want to look before anything i would like to
look before anything i would like to
look before anything i would like to show you this pyramid this is the
show you this pyramid this is the
show you this pyramid this is the hierarchy of values by max shalour a
hierarchy of values by max shalour a
hierarchy of values by max shalour a german philosopher the pyramid has six
german philosopher the pyramid has six
german philosopher the pyramid has six categories which are vital values
categories which are vital values
categories which are vital values aesthetics pleasure intellectual ethics
aesthetics pleasure intellectual ethics
aesthetics pleasure intellectual ethics and spirituality they are used to
and spirituality they are used to
and spirituality they are used to explain the way we dress and who we are
explain the way we dress and who we are
explain the way we dress and who we are we may dress in a way that’s ethical we
we may dress in a way that’s ethical we
we may dress in a way that’s ethical we know a that’s intellectual such as Dalai
know a that’s intellectual such as Dalai
know a that’s intellectual such as Dalai Lama
and after all I would say the thing that
and after all I would say the thing that we value the most as human beings would
we value the most as human beings would
we value the most as human beings would be aesthetics and why aesthetics because
be aesthetics and why aesthetics because
be aesthetics and why aesthetics because we often value things if they’re pretty
we often value things if they’re pretty
we often value things if they’re pretty or not if they’re good or bad and
or not if they’re good or bad and
or not if they’re good or bad and they’re all based on aesthetics
they’re all based on aesthetics
they’re all based on aesthetics [Music]
[Music]
[Music] aesthetics equal to cool that is what we
aesthetics equal to cool that is what we
aesthetics equal to cool that is what we have decided to give importance to inner
have decided to give importance to inner
have decided to give importance to inner life that what we have decided to give
life that what we have decided to give
life that what we have decided to give importance to as a society aesthetics
importance to as a society aesthetics
importance to as a society aesthetics are not wrong but what it is wrong is
are not wrong but what it is wrong is
are not wrong but what it is wrong is trying to send our lives uniquely on one
trying to send our lives uniquely on one
trying to send our lives uniquely on one of these values and this this leads me
of these values and this this leads me
of these values and this this leads me to my third reason which is because we
to my third reason which is because we
to my third reason which is because we want to fit in according to Henry Tasha
want to fit in according to Henry Tasha
want to fit in according to Henry Tasha and John Turner every single one of us
and John Turner every single one of us
and John Turner every single one of us have a social identity which is a person
have a social identity which is a person
have a social identity which is a person we portray to be the person we show
we portray to be the person we show
we portray to be the person we show others we are and with social identity
others we are and with social identity
others we are and with social identity comes the fact that characterization
comes the fact that characterization
comes the fact that characterization occurs and that’s when we give a rank or
occurs and that’s when we give a rank or
occurs and that’s when we give a rank or give it a status people and why do we
give it a status people and why do we
give it a status people and why do we give these shadows to people because we
give these shadows to people because we
give these shadows to people because we do not want to generate judgment also
do not want to generate judgment also
do not want to generate judgment also during our teenage years comes a fact
during our teenage years comes a fact
during our teenage years comes a fact that we have an incredible Boyd within
that we have an incredible Boyd within
that we have an incredible Boyd within us and that and that void would be
us and that and that void would be
us and that and that void would be caused because ever since we were little
caused because ever since we were little
caused because ever since we were little we have a figure which often our parents
we have a figure which often our parents
we have a figure which often our parents and as we grow we start to grow away
and as we grow we start to grow away
and as we grow we start to grow away from that figure and that when a void is
from that figure and that when a void is
from that figure and that when a void is developed that void is trying to fill
developed that void is trying to fill
developed that void is trying to fill with various things but one of the
with various things but one of the
with various things but one of the things we try to fill it with would be
things we try to fill it with would be
things we try to fill it with would be acceptance as an acceptance of remorse
acceptance as an acceptance of remorse
acceptance as an acceptance of remorse acceptance of our personalities
acceptance of our personalities
acceptance of our personalities acceptance of who we are but i would say
acceptance of who we are but i would say
acceptance of who we are but i would say that type of acceptance we look up to
that type of acceptance we look up to
that type of acceptance we look up to the most would be acceptance in the way
the most would be acceptance in the way
the most would be acceptance in the way we look and acceptance in the way we
we look and acceptance in the way we
we look and acceptance in the way we dress and why acceptance in the way we
dress and why acceptance in the way we
dress and why acceptance in the way we dress and the way we
dress and the way we
dress and the way we because I think we value the most is
because I think we value the most is
because I think we value the most is aesthetics going back to the hierarchy
aesthetics going back to the hierarchy
aesthetics going back to the hierarchy of values every single one of your
of values every single one of your
of values every single one of your actions can be explained by one of these
actions can be explained by one of these
actions can be explained by one of these values either you dress in an ethical
values either you dress in an ethical
values either you dress in an ethical way are you acting an aesthetic way and
way are you acting an aesthetic way and
way are you acting an aesthetic way and I think fashion is a way of showing the
I think fashion is a way of showing the
I think fashion is a way of showing the values to give importance in your life
values to give importance in your life
values to give importance in your life the values you think are important in
the values you think are important in
the values you think are important in your life and yes as a 14 year old girl
your life and yes as a 14 year old girl
your life and yes as a 14 year old girl I have followed mainstream after all
I have followed mainstream after all
I have followed mainstream after all every single one of us have and it’s not
every single one of us have and it’s not
every single one of us have and it’s not wrong but what we should do is make a
wrong but what we should do is make a
wrong but what we should do is make a conscious decision of what you wear and
conscious decision of what you wear and
conscious decision of what you wear and which values you portray portray by the
which values you portray portray by the
which values you portray portray by the way will you address so this is my
way will you address so this is my
way will you address so this is my invitation to you have an open mind to
invitation to you have an open mind to
invitation to you have an open mind to originality be original dress in an
originality be original dress in an
originality be original dress in an original way think reading and be
original way think reading and be
original way think reading and be different because if I do not show Who I
different because if I do not show Who I
different because if I do not show Who I am by the way I dress is there any way
am by the way I dress is there any way
am by the way I dress is there any way people will know the real me thank you
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