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Inside GenerNATION: Ideas changing the way we connect with elders | Remy Lovett | TEDxYouth@Vail


[Music]

[Music] [Laughter]

[Applause]

[Applause] there is something that every person and

there is something that every person and

there is something that every person and creature on this planet I think can

creature on this planet I think can

creature on this planet I think can relate to something as common as

relate to something as common as

relate to something as common as breathing and that each one of you is

breathing and that each one of you is

breathing and that each one of you is doing in your seats right now so any

doing in your seats right now so any

doing in your seats right now so any guesses aging i’m talking about aging so

guesses aging i’m talking about aging so

guesses aging i’m talking about aging so some of you in the audience are probably

some of you in the audience are probably

some of you in the audience are probably thinking why is this 20 17 year-old girl

thinking why is this 20 17 year-old girl

thinking why is this 20 17 year-old girl up on stage reminding me that I’m aging

up on stage reminding me that I’m aging

up on stage reminding me that I’m aging I mean shoot I’ve got wrinkles that are

I mean shoot I’ve got wrinkles that are

I mean shoot I’ve got wrinkles that are gonna do that please just stop but it’s

gonna do that please just stop but it’s

gonna do that please just stop but it’s true whether you want to admit it or not

true whether you want to admit it or not

true whether you want to admit it or not whether it’s a baby taking their first

whether it’s a baby taking their first

whether it’s a baby taking their first few breasts in the world

few breasts in the world

few breasts in the world or a person taking the very last every

or a person taking the very last every

or a person taking the very last every second we’re all getting just a little

second we’re all getting just a little

second we’re all getting just a little bit older now granted as I mentioned I’m

bit older now granted as I mentioned I’m

bit older now granted as I mentioned I’m in my 20s so hopefully I have a couple

in my 20s so hopefully I have a couple

in my 20s so hopefully I have a couple more years before I start seeing some

more years before I start seeing some

more years before I start seeing some gray hairs but considering the

gray hairs but considering the

gray hairs but considering the experience that I just saw my

experience that I just saw my

experience that I just saw my grandparents go through the nursing home

grandparents go through the nursing home

grandparents go through the nursing home it really got me thinking what that

it really got me thinking what that

it really got me thinking what that stage of life was going to look like for

stage of life was going to look like for

stage of life was going to look like for my parents and eventually myself and

my parents and eventually myself and

my parents and eventually myself and maybe some of you in the audience right

maybe some of you in the audience right

maybe some of you in the audience right now are thinking wow I really connect

now are thinking wow I really connect

now are thinking wow I really connect with that because I’m going through that

with that because I’m going through that

with that because I’m going through that with my mom or my dad right now or my

with my mom or my dad right now or my

with my mom or my dad right now or my grandpa and my grandma it’s just really

grandpa and my grandma it’s just really

grandpa and my grandma it’s just really hard for us so what are we doing to

hard for us so what are we doing to

hard for us so what are we doing to improve the system though when people

improve the system though when people

improve the system though when people find out that this is where I’m

find out that this is where I’m

find out that this is where I’m interested in going with my career I was

interested in going with my career I was

interested in going with my career I was get a lot of funny looks like why are

get a lot of funny looks like why are

get a lot of funny looks like why are you interested in this and how did you

you interested in this and how did you

you interested in this and how did you even start thinking about this I’m

even start thinking about this I’m

even start thinking about this I’m pretty sure you’re one of the few

pretty sure you’re one of the few

pretty sure you’re one of the few Millennials who has this on their radar

Millennials who has this on their radar

Millennials who has this on their radar and it’s true I do feel like that and it

and it’s true I do feel like that and it

and it’s true I do feel like that and it doesn’t sound like a very glamorous job

doesn’t sound like a very glamorous job

doesn’t sound like a very glamorous job but I really think it could be so if

but I really think it could be so if

but I really think it could be so if you’re wondering where my journey

you’re wondering where my journey

you’re wondering where my journey started and why I’m doing this it all

started and why I’m doing this it all

started and why I’m doing this it all started with an idea I had this summer

started with an idea I had this summer

started with an idea I had this summer that got me excited to think I could be

that got me excited to think I could be

that got me excited to think I could be a part of the solution this summer I was

a part of the solution this summer I was

a part of the solution this summer I was in Atlanta having dinner at an old Sears

in Atlanta having dinner at an old Sears

in Atlanta having dinner at an old Sears warehouse that had been completely

warehouse that had been completely

warehouse that had been completely restored good at out restored tour you

restored good at out restored tour you

restored good at out restored tour you could see the original structure except

could see the original structure except

could see the original structure except now it was this really cool trendy hip

now it was this really cool trendy hip

now it was this really cool trendy hip mixed-use space that was for coffee

mixed-use space that was for coffee

mixed-use space that was for coffee shops and restaurants and bars and

shops and restaurants and bars and

shops and restaurants and bars and breweries and you know artisan

breweries and you know artisan

breweries and you know artisan crafts and stuff like that there was

crafts and stuff like that there was

crafts and stuff like that there was Mini Putt Putt on top four people and an

Mini Putt Putt on top four people and an

Mini Putt Putt on top four people and an indoor outdoor spaces for families to

indoor outdoor spaces for families to

indoor outdoor spaces for families to enjoy and so I’m as I’m taking all of

enjoy and so I’m as I’m taking all of

enjoy and so I’m as I’m taking all of this and I’m thinking wow this is just

this and I’m thinking wow this is just

this and I’m thinking wow this is just so cool there’s such a life and vibrancy

so cool there’s such a life and vibrancy

so cool there’s such a life and vibrancy here and then an idea hit me what if we

here and then an idea hit me what if we

here and then an idea hit me what if we took the concept of a mixed-use space

took the concept of a mixed-use space

took the concept of a mixed-use space and the life and vibrancy that comes

and the life and vibrancy that comes

and the life and vibrancy that comes from that and apply it to senior living

from that and apply it to senior living

from that and apply it to senior living and long-term care create the idea right

and long-term care create the idea right

and long-term care create the idea right so actually take the assisted living the

so actually take the assisted living the

so actually take the assisted living the independent living the nursing homes and

independent living the nursing homes and

independent living the nursing homes and place them above or next to all the

place them above or next to all the

place them above or next to all the actions that they too can enjoy it and

actions that they too can enjoy it and

actions that they too can enjoy it and we have opportunities for the whole

we have opportunities for the whole

we have opportunities for the whole family to come and enjoy the Botanical

family to come and enjoy the Botanical

family to come and enjoy the Botanical Gardens around but also there’s

Gardens around but also there’s

Gardens around but also there’s opportunities for residents to volunteer

opportunities for residents to volunteer

opportunities for residents to volunteer maybe there’s a coffee shop there where

maybe there’s a coffee shop there where

maybe there’s a coffee shop there where students like to go and study and hang

students like to go and study and hang

students like to go and study and hang out and it’s open to the public but now

out and it’s open to the public but now

out and it’s open to the public but now that coffee shop becomes a big part of

that coffee shop becomes a big part of

that coffee shop becomes a big part of an elders day who lives around the area

an elders day who lives around the area

an elders day who lives around the area who gets up in the morning and has a

who gets up in the morning and has a

who gets up in the morning and has a reason to go have coffee around other

reason to go have coffee around other

reason to go have coffee around other people maybe it isn’t a mixed-use space

people maybe it isn’t a mixed-use space

people maybe it isn’t a mixed-use space but just a neighborhood so just imagine

but just a neighborhood so just imagine

but just a neighborhood so just imagine a neighborhood here you have houses here

a neighborhood here you have houses here

a neighborhood here you have houses here in houses your house is here and you

in houses your house is here and you

in houses your house is here and you have parks and places and playgrounds

have parks and places and playgrounds

have parks and places and playgrounds for kids to play and you also have a

for kids to play and you also have a

for kids to play and you also have a community for seniors in the same

community for seniors in the same

community for seniors in the same neighborhood so it’s not a place for

neighborhood so it’s not a place for

neighborhood so it’s not a place for seniors but a place that just has seen

seniors but a place that just has seen

seniors but a place that just has seen it there we as a society are guilty of

it there we as a society are guilty of

it there we as a society are guilty of warehousing our greatest generation that

warehousing our greatest generation that

warehousing our greatest generation that has contributed so much to our own

has contributed so much to our own

has contributed so much to our own upbringing country we put them in places

upbringing country we put them in places

upbringing country we put them in places that literally accelerate their aging to

that literally accelerate their aging to

that literally accelerate their aging to where they can’t see their relevance in

where they can’t see their relevance in

where they can’t see their relevance in the world anymore they lose their sense

the world anymore they lose their sense

the world anymore they lose their sense of purpose their day’s monotonous the

of purpose their day’s monotonous the

of purpose their day’s monotonous the games are the same and in some cases

games are the same and in some cases

games are the same and in some cases feel a sense of elder abuse and neglect

feel a sense of elder abuse and neglect

feel a sense of elder abuse and neglect I know this because I saw my grandparent

I know this because I saw my grandparent

I know this because I saw my grandparent go through this the last four years of

go through this the last four years of

go through this the last four years of his life when he was home elder neglect

his life when he was home elder neglect

his life when he was home elder neglect is a serious issue in our community 60%

is a serious issue in our community 60%

is a serious issue in our community 60% of elders don’t in nursing homes don’t

of elders don’t in nursing homes don’t

of elders don’t in nursing homes don’t receive visitors and those that do

receive visitors and those that do

receive visitors and those that do receive visitors only get visited about

receive visitors only get visited about

receive visitors only get visited about once a year you just imagine that

once a year you just imagine that

once a year you just imagine that imagine getting visited once a year

to make matters worse this is only going

to make matters worse this is only going to get worse in our country our country

to get worse in our country our country

to get worse in our country our country is just one of many around the world

is just one of many around the world

is just one of many around the world that is going to see a brink in a huge

that is going to see a brink in a huge

that is going to see a brink in a huge surge in their senior population of

surge in their senior population of

surge in their senior population of people turning over the age of 65 with

people turning over the age of 65 with

people turning over the age of 65 with the baby boomer generation in our

the baby boomer generation in our

the baby boomer generation in our country turning over 65 our country’s

country turning over 65 our country’s

country turning over 65 our country’s population and aging is going to double

population and aging is going to double

population and aging is going to double so we’re gonna see it go from 43 point 1

so we’re gonna see it go from 43 point 1

so we’re gonna see it go from 43 point 1 million to an estimated eighty three

million to an estimated eighty three

million to an estimated eighty three point seven million by 2050 and by 2060

point seven million by 2050 and by 2060

point seven million by 2050 and by 2060 this is going to be 1/4 of our

this is going to be 1/4 of our

this is going to be 1/4 of our population crazy so what are we doing to

population crazy so what are we doing to

population crazy so what are we doing to improve the system I fixated in on this

improve the system I fixated in on this

improve the system I fixated in on this one solution and it’s intergenerational

one solution and it’s intergenerational

one solution and it’s intergenerational connected a connection intergenerational

connected a connection intergenerational

connected a connection intergenerational communities are defined as communities

communities are defined as communities

communities are defined as communities that promote interaction and cooperation

that promote interaction and cooperation

that promote interaction and cooperation between individuals of different ages

between individuals of different ages

between individuals of different ages and that focus on the needs of all

and that focus on the needs of all

and that focus on the needs of all residents so to give you an example of

residents so to give you an example of

residents so to give you an example of this there are nursing homes that are

this there are nursing homes that are

this there are nursing homes that are putting preschools in date or putting

putting preschools in date or putting

putting preschools in date or putting daycares and preschools in nursing homes

daycares and preschools in nursing homes

daycares and preschools in nursing homes now so that the residents in these

now so that the residents in these

now so that the residents in these places can volunteer with the kids and

places can volunteer with the kids and

places can volunteer with the kids and read to them and watch them play outside

read to them and watch them play outside

read to them and watch them play outside in the playground and it just brings a

in the playground and it just brings a

in the playground and it just brings a new cool interaction between them

new cool interaction between them

new cool interaction between them likewise there are some nice assisted

likewise there are some nice assisted

likewise there are some nice assisted living communities that have beautiful

living communities that have beautiful

living communities that have beautiful apartments that they’re opening up to

apartments that they’re opening up to

apartments that they’re opening up to college students for free or subsidised

college students for free or subsidised

college students for free or subsidised rent and in exchange their volunteer

rent and in exchange their volunteer

rent and in exchange their volunteer time to be a companion to an elder

time to be a companion to an elder

time to be a companion to an elder neighbor and help them with some

neighbor and help them with some

neighbor and help them with some groceries or help them maybe cook a meal

groceries or help them maybe cook a meal

groceries or help them maybe cook a meal or play a game or – one of my favorites

or play a game or – one of my favorites

or play a game or – one of my favorites is a university in Seattle that decided

is a university in Seattle that decided

is a university in Seattle that decided to start eating dormitories near long

to start eating dormitories near long

to start eating dormitories near long term care and then actually offer meal

term care and then actually offer meal

term care and then actually offer meal plans to college students to encourage

plans to college students to encourage

plans to college students to encourage them to eat in the same dining halls as

them to eat in the same dining halls as

them to eat in the same dining halls as their elders now I think these are all

their elders now I think these are all

their elders now I think these are all wonderful ideas but I believe we can do

wonderful ideas but I believe we can do

wonderful ideas but I believe we can do more of it and I believe we can do it

more of it and I believe we can do it

more of it and I believe we can do it better we have the opportunity to be on

better we have the opportunity to be on

better we have the opportunity to be on the brink of changing the status quo and

the brink of changing the status quo and

the brink of changing the status quo and how we break down age segregation now

how we break down age segregation now

how we break down age segregation now this is really important I don’t want

this is really important I don’t want

this is really important I don’t want you to get caught up in how we’re going

you to get caught up in how we’re going

you to get caught up in how we’re going to do this but rather why we should

to do this but rather why we should

to do this but rather why we should believe in it in the first place we

believe in it in the first place we

believe in it in the first place we should believe in intergenerational

should believe in intergenerational

should believe in intergenerational connection as this

connection as this

connection as this because we can all be a part of it and

because we can all be a part of it and

because we can all be a part of it and by doing so and by believing this we

by doing so and by believing this we

by doing so and by believing this we will naturally achieve how we’ll do it

will naturally achieve how we’ll do it

will naturally achieve how we’ll do it too now studies show the

too now studies show the

too now studies show the intergenerational connection benefit

intergenerational connection benefit

intergenerational connection benefit many groups in our communities our youth

many groups in our communities our youth

many groups in our communities our youth and our older adults just to give you an

and our older adults just to give you an

and our older adults just to give you an example civic engagement a sharing of

example civic engagement a sharing of

example civic engagement a sharing of stories and culture and attitude towards

stories and culture and attitude towards

stories and culture and attitude towards our older adults positively affects our

our older adults positively affects our

our older adults positively affects our community in our youth there’s academic

community in our youth there’s academic

community in our youth there’s academic growth

growth

growth there’s empathy there’s self esteem and

there’s empathy there’s self esteem and

there’s empathy there’s self esteem and better health and well-being with our

better health and well-being with our

better health and well-being with our elders as well as their cognitive

elders as well as their cognitive

elders as well as their cognitive functioning and improved quality of

functioning and improved quality of

functioning and improved quality of living so what I want you to do it

living so what I want you to do it

living so what I want you to do it there’s a lot of kids in this room who

there’s a lot of kids in this room who

there’s a lot of kids in this room who are going to college soon and I want you

are going to college soon and I want you

are going to college soon and I want you to look about this list of majors now I

to look about this list of majors now I

to look about this list of majors now I just told you about a huge market

just told you about a huge market

just told you about a huge market opportunity here in a group of people

opportunity here in a group of people

opportunity here in a group of people we’re gonna really need your help in an

we’re gonna really need your help in an

we’re gonna really need your help in an area where your skill set the talents

area where your skill set the talents

area where your skill set the talents are going to really be needed so what

are going to really be needed so what

are going to really be needed so what way to see those connection points then

way to see those connection points then

way to see those connection points then by actually going down this list of

by actually going down this list of

by actually going down this list of majors at a university and seeing where

majors at a university and seeing where

majors at a university and seeing where your interests apply so medical field is

your interests apply so medical field is

your interests apply so medical field is a given but what about business or legal

a given but what about business or legal

a given but what about business or legal or social work or hospitality or tech

or social work or hospitality or tech

or social work or hospitality or tech you want to build apps work in a cool

you want to build apps work in a cool

you want to build apps work in a cool startup community then great do that

startup community then great do that

startup community then great do that this is my 91 year old grandma playing

this is my 91 year old grandma playing

this is my 91 year old grandma playing on her iPad words with friends so maybe

on her iPad words with friends so maybe

on her iPad words with friends so maybe you’re working in the startup and you’re

you’re working in the startup and you’re

you’re working in the startup and you’re doing all that cool stuff with the apps

doing all that cool stuff with the apps

doing all that cool stuff with the apps but you’re thinking about her and how

but you’re thinking about her and how

but you’re thinking about her and how she can connect with other elders around

she can connect with other elders around

she can connect with other elders around the world there’s people who are

the world there’s people who are

the world there’s people who are bringing virtual reality technology into

bringing virtual reality technology into

bringing virtual reality technology into the nursing homes to where people who

the nursing homes to where people who

the nursing homes to where people who haven’t been able to leave homes for a

haven’t been able to leave homes for a

haven’t been able to leave homes for a while to now put on those glasses and

while to now put on those glasses and

while to now put on those glasses and actually feel like they’re walking down

actually feel like they’re walking down

actually feel like they’re walking down the streets of Italy pretty cool there’s

the streets of Italy pretty cool there’s

the streets of Italy pretty cool there’s actually hearing aids now too that are

actually hearing aids now too that are

actually hearing aids now too that are Bluetooth enabled so you can all operate

Bluetooth enabled so you can all operate

Bluetooth enabled so you can all operate it on your phone so what I want you to

it on your phone so what I want you to

it on your phone so what I want you to do then I want you to get caught up in

do then I want you to get caught up in

do then I want you to get caught up in in how we’re going to do this but why

in how we’re going to do this but why

in how we’re going to do this but why it’s going to be important then from

it’s going to be important then from

it’s going to be important then from there your ideas will start to think we

there your ideas will start to think we

there your ideas will start to think we are all relevant in this

are all relevant in this

are all relevant in this a Shinto maybe it’s the English majors

a Shinto maybe it’s the English majors

a Shinto maybe it’s the English majors here who can actually a class credit and

here who can actually a class credit and

here who can actually a class credit and partner with the universities to where

partner with the universities to where

partner with the universities to where they’re actually getting class credit to

they’re actually getting class credit to

they’re actually getting class credit to help write memoirs with our seniors and

help write memoirs with our seniors and

help write memoirs with our seniors and then also film and journalism students

then also film and journalism students

then also film and journalism students can get together and leave they’re

can get together and leave they’re

can get together and leave they’re filming these stories of our seniors and

filming these stories of our seniors and

filming these stories of our seniors and them preserving them for families in

them preserving them for families in

them preserving them for families in modern ways that they can be passed down

modern ways that they can be passed down

modern ways that they can be passed down to other generations I just want your

to other generations I just want your

to other generations I just want your mom wheels to get turning on how you are

mom wheels to get turning on how you are

mom wheels to get turning on how you are relevant in this and how you can apply

relevant in this and how you can apply

relevant in this and how you can apply your skillset to this group of people

your skillset to this group of people

your skillset to this group of people who are desperately going to need our

who are desperately going to need our

who are desperately going to need our help and how we can reintegrate this

help and how we can reintegrate this

help and how we can reintegrate this group into our society so what I want to

group into our society so what I want to

group into our society so what I want to cause off with is a problem an old

cause off with is a problem an old

cause off with is a problem an old African proverb that a friend of mine

African proverb that a friend of mine

African proverb that a friend of mine shared with me once it says when a man

shared with me once it says when a man

shared with me once it says when a man dies an entire library burns so I wanted

dies an entire library burns so I wanted

dies an entire library burns so I wanted to show you what this looked like to me

to show you what this looked like to me

to show you what this looked like to me to do that I took my grandpa’s timeline

to do that I took my grandpa’s timeline

to do that I took my grandpa’s timeline and put it up here he’s 91 years old

and put it up here he’s 91 years old

and put it up here he’s 91 years old today and he is doing great loving life

today and he is doing great loving life

today and he is doing great loving life living with his wife on their piece of

living with his wife on their piece of

living with his wife on their piece of land five acres with their two dogs and

land five acres with their two dogs and

land five acres with their two dogs and very happy but just to show you and get

very happy but just to show you and get

very happy but just to show you and get to Indian idea of what all these

to Indian idea of what all these

to Indian idea of what all these chapters in his life look like in the

chapters in his life look like in the

chapters in his life look like in the importance of preserving his stories and

importance of preserving his stories and

importance of preserving his stories and also interaction with our elders and

also interaction with our elders and

also interaction with our elders and appreciating them and integrating them

appreciating them and integrating them

appreciating them and integrating them back into societies that they’re not all

back into societies that they’re not all

back into societies that they’re not all placed somewhere else from serving our

placed somewhere else from serving our

placed somewhere else from serving our country in World War two to taking his

country in World War two to taking his

country in World War two to taking his RV down the coast of Central America he

RV down the coast of Central America he

RV down the coast of Central America he has so much wisdom and insights and life

has so much wisdom and insights and life

has so much wisdom and insights and life stories to offer play people like us and

stories to offer play people like us and

stories to offer play people like us and unfortunately my grandpa is just one

unfortunately my grandpa is just one

unfortunately my grandpa is just one example of someone who is still living

example of someone who is still living

example of someone who is still living on his life the way he wants but there

on his life the way he wants but there

on his life the way he wants but there are so many out there who still have

are so many out there who still have

are so many out there who still have minds sharp as attacked and stories to

minds sharp as attacked and stories to

minds sharp as attacked and stories to tell and yet can’t because their current

tell and yet can’t because their current

tell and yet can’t because their current care situation puts them somewhere else

so it’s time to break down those silos

so it’s time to break down those silos that segregate our community by age and

that segregate our community by age and

that segregate our community by age and it’s time to think how we can take our

it’s time to think how we can take our

it’s time to think how we can take our neighbors and community and integrate

neighbors and community and integrate

neighbors and community and integrate these people back into our society

these people back into our society

these people back into our society because by doing so we’ll become one

because by doing so we’ll become one

because by doing so we’ll become one generation thank you

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