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[Music] [Laughter]

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[Applause] speaking debate has been a

speaking debate has been a

speaking debate has been a quintessential part of my life for all

quintessential part of my life for all

quintessential part of my life for all of high school as a member I have made

of high school as a member I have made

of high school as a member I have made innumerable friends and learned even

innumerable friends and learned even

innumerable friends and learned even more lessons

more lessons

more lessons many of these lessons come from fellow

many of these lessons come from fellow

many of these lessons come from fellow competitors and rounds I compete in an

competitors and rounds I compete in an

competitors and rounds I compete in an event called original oratory where I

event called original oratory where I

event called original oratory where I write and perform an original speech now

write and perform an original speech now

write and perform an original speech now imagine being a competitor sitting in a

imagine being a competitor sitting in a

imagine being a competitor sitting in a high school on a Saturday here in

high school on a Saturday here in

high school on a Saturday here in calvess Beach on any number of subjects

calvess Beach on any number of subjects

calvess Beach on any number of subjects like you are here today so without

like you are here today so without

like you are here today so without further ado an original oratory

further ado an original oratory

further ado an original oratory competitive humility so my friend and I

competitive humility so my friend and I

competitive humility so my friend and I are rapidly approaching the end of the

are rapidly approaching the end of the

are rapidly approaching the end of the unit two biology tests being fairly

unit two biology tests being fairly

unit two biology tests being fairly confident in the material we were both

confident in the material we were both

confident in the material we were both hoping for high scores but which would

hoping for high scores but which would

hoping for high scores but which would be higher I turn in my scantron and wait

be higher I turn in my scantron and wait

be higher I turn in my scantron and wait for it to be graded sooner than expected

for it to be graded sooner than expected

for it to be graded sooner than expected it’s back at my desk

it’s back at my desk

it’s back at my desk ready to be viewed and so is his quickly

ready to be viewed and so is his quickly

ready to be viewed and so is his quickly glancing in both papers I feel my heart

glancing in both papers I feel my heart

glancing in both papers I feel my heart swell by just one point I got the higher

swell by just one point I got the higher

swell by just one point I got the higher score I tended to stay calm I looked

score I tended to stay calm I looked

score I tended to stay calm I looked down at my desk a smile pulling at the

down at my desk a smile pulling at the

down at my desk a smile pulling at the corners of my mouth when I next look up

corners of my mouth when I next look up

corners of my mouth when I next look up my teacher is standing right before me

my teacher is standing right before me

my teacher is standing right before me wearing a smile just as wide now he is

wearing a smile just as wide now he is

wearing a smile just as wide now he is your average teacher and what he would

your average teacher and what he would

your average teacher and what he would next declare was perhaps the weirdest

next declare was perhaps the weirdest

next declare was perhaps the weirdest statement I have ever heard he said I

statement I have ever heard he said I

statement I have ever heard he said I love it when hard work is aptly rewarded

love it when hard work is aptly rewarded

love it when hard work is aptly rewarded congratulations but do you know it’s

congratulations but do you know it’s

congratulations but do you know it’s incredibly sexy and he handed me a

incredibly sexy and he handed me a

incredibly sexy and he handed me a sticky note with one word written on it

sticky note with one word written on it

sticky note with one word written on it humility naturally I was confused and

humility naturally I was confused and

humility naturally I was confused and later he and I discussed the out

later he and I discussed the out

later he and I discussed the out statement his use of the word sexy

statement his use of the word sexy

statement his use of the word sexy taught me completely off-guard it

taught me completely off-guard it

taught me completely off-guard it provided ample amounts of hilarity but

provided ample amounts of hilarity but

provided ample amounts of hilarity but also acted as the catalyst for analysis

also acted as the catalyst for analysis

also acted as the catalyst for analysis around the idea of being humble I myself

around the idea of being humble I myself

around the idea of being humble I myself am a very competitive person and find

am a very competitive person and find

am a very competitive person and find ways to compete about anything under the

ways to compete about anything under the

ways to compete about anything under the Sun anyone interested in a race to the

Sun anyone interested in a race to the

Sun anyone interested in a race to the cafeteria my teacher on the other hand

cafeteria my teacher on the other hand

cafeteria my teacher on the other hand does not support such mentality your

does not support such mentality your

does not support such mentality your favor of a more cooperative and humble

favor of a more cooperative and humble

favor of a more cooperative and humble path both stars alone leads to various

path both stars alone leads to various

path both stars alone leads to various benefits but why should we settle for

benefits but why should we settle for

benefits but why should we settle for just one

just one

just one we so often set competition and humility

we so often set competition and humility

we so often set competition and humility at odds with each other

at odds with each other

at odds with each other treating them as though we are only

treating them as though we are only

treating them as though we are only permitted to possess one at a time when

permitted to possess one at a time when

permitted to possess one at a time when this is sim

this is sim

this is sim not true let’s first examine competition

not true let’s first examine competition

not true let’s first examine competition and the benefits of having a competitive

and the benefits of having a competitive

and the benefits of having a competitive spirit

spirit

spirit we will then explore the concept of

we will then explore the concept of

we will then explore the concept of humility in its many advantages and

humility in its many advantages and

humility in its many advantages and finally we can combine these two

finally we can combine these two

finally we can combine these two qualities because at the end of the day

qualities because at the end of the day

qualities because at the end of the day competition and humility are not

competition and humility are not

competition and humility are not mutually exclusive

mutually exclusive

mutually exclusive rather they mutually inclusive once we

rather they mutually inclusive once we

rather they mutually inclusive once we learn this we walk away from every

learn this we walk away from every

learn this we walk away from every victory or defeat as true winners

victory or defeat as true winners

victory or defeat as true winners competition now the activity or

competition now the activity or

competition now the activity or condition of competing or the person are

condition of competing or the person are

condition of competing or the person are people with whom when it’s competing the

people with whom when it’s competing the

people with whom when it’s competing the opposition speeching debate is the

opposition speeching debate is the

opposition speeching debate is the quintessential example of a competition

quintessential example of a competition

quintessential example of a competition and a very difficult one at that yet

and a very difficult one at that yet

and a very difficult one at that yet many of us still go why as Gianni

many of us still go why as Gianni

many of us still go why as Gianni Versace stated it is nice to have valid

Versace stated it is nice to have valid

Versace stated it is nice to have valid competition it pushes you to do better

competition it pushes you to do better

competition it pushes you to do better competition brings out the best we can

competition brings out the best we can

competition brings out the best we can offer when faced with opponents that

offer when faced with opponents that

offer when faced with opponents that prove especially difficult to take on

prove especially difficult to take on

prove especially difficult to take on one was put in their best effort for

one was put in their best effort for

one was put in their best effort for example every speech that’s given in

example every speech that’s given in

example every speech that’s given in original oratory and every other event

original oratory and every other event

original oratory and every other event at a speech meet is a product solely of

at a speech meet is a product solely of

at a speech meet is a product solely of the competitors best work after all

the competitors best work after all

the competitors best work after all I’m gonna win this remains true for

I’m gonna win this remains true for

I’m gonna win this remains true for competitions of any and all magnitude

competitions of any and all magnitude

competitions of any and all magnitude take the race to space for instance in

take the race to space for instance in

take the race to space for instance in the 20th century two superpower nations

the 20th century two superpower nations

the 20th century two superpower nations and Cold War rivals the United States

and Cold War rivals the United States

and Cold War rivals the United States and Soviet Union were engaged in a tight

and Soviet Union were engaged in a tight

and Soviet Union were engaged in a tight competition for superior spaceflight

competition for superior spaceflight

competition for superior spaceflight capability now this was literally rocket

capability now this was literally rocket

capability now this was literally rocket science

science

science so achieving such a feat could have

so achieving such a feat could have

so achieving such a feat could have taken a very long time but the looming

taken a very long time but the looming

taken a very long time but the looming threat that the other country might

threat that the other country might

threat that the other country might succeed first pushed both nations to

succeed first pushed both nations to

succeed first pushed both nations to work as quickly and efficiently as

work as quickly and efficiently as

work as quickly and efficiently as possible

possible

possible thus they both gained space light

thus they both gained space light

thus they both gained space light technology and the fuel that powered

technology and the fuel that powered

technology and the fuel that powered these space shuttles was not liquid

these space shuttles was not liquid

these space shuttles was not liquid hydrogen the competition in the end

hydrogen the competition in the end

hydrogen the competition in the end competition is about you after all life

competition is about you after all life

competition is about you after all life is competitive we are constantly

is competitive we are constantly

is competitive we are constantly striving to provide for ourselves to get

striving to provide for ourselves to get

striving to provide for ourselves to get the best opportunities and achieve as

the best opportunities and achieve as

the best opportunities and achieve as high as possible whether we are

high as possible whether we are

high as possible whether we are searching for a job engaging in sports

searching for a job engaging in sports

searching for a job engaging in sports are applying to college we are

are applying to college we are

are applying to college we are surrounded by competition a driving

surrounded by competition a driving

surrounded by competition a driving force to do our best so that we might

force to do our best so that we might

force to do our best so that we might finish on top but a competitive spirit

finish on top but a competitive spirit

finish on top but a competitive spirit can rapidly evolving to Eakins

can rapidly evolving to Eakins

can rapidly evolving to Eakins see that spirit while being focused on

see that spirit while being focused on

see that spirit while being focused on ourselves may help us get ahead in the

ourselves may help us get ahead in the

ourselves may help us get ahead in the absence of humility it can easily become

absence of humility it can easily become

absence of humility it can easily become an excess of arrogance and a lack of

an excess of arrogance and a lack of

an excess of arrogance and a lack of compassion for others through

compassion for others through

compassion for others through competition I managed to score highly on

competition I managed to score highly on

competition I managed to score highly on my biology test but how I acted after I

my biology test but how I acted after I

my biology test but how I acted after I received my score was just as important

received my score was just as important

received my score was just as important if not more than the score itself

if not more than the score itself

if not more than the score itself humility is the highest virtue the

humility is the highest virtue the

humility is the highest virtue the mother of them all has said that poet

mother of them all has said that poet

mother of them all has said that poet Alfred Tennyson and it’s very basic

Alfred Tennyson and it’s very basic

Alfred Tennyson and it’s very basic humility is possessing a modest or low

humility is possessing a modest or low

humility is possessing a modest or low view of one’s own importance easier said

view of one’s own importance easier said

view of one’s own importance easier said than done right my mom always told me

than done right my mom always told me

than done right my mom always told me the ink conversation people like to talk

the ink conversation people like to talk

the ink conversation people like to talk about themselves instead of provoked

about themselves instead of provoked

about themselves instead of provoked conversation asked about them and let

conversation asked about them and let

conversation asked about them and let them do the work for you simple except

them do the work for you simple except

them do the work for you simple except I’m the person to you I like to talk

I’m the person to you I like to talk

I’m the person to you I like to talk about me finding a balance between

about me finding a balance between

about me finding a balance between focusing on ourselves and focusing on

focusing on ourselves and focusing on

focusing on ourselves and focusing on others proves an internal struggle but

others proves an internal struggle but

others proves an internal struggle but putting in the effort is more than worth

putting in the effort is more than worth

putting in the effort is more than worth it dr. Jeremy Dean on his popular web

it dr. Jeremy Dean on his popular web

it dr. Jeremy Dean on his popular web page beside log lists eight

page beside log lists eight

page beside log lists eight psychological benefits of being humble

psychological benefits of being humble

psychological benefits of being humble among these are better work performance

among these are better work performance

among these are better work performance and relationships higher grades and less

and relationships higher grades and less

and relationships higher grades and less prejudice these stem from a lower sense

prejudice these stem from a lower sense

prejudice these stem from a lower sense of entitlement and high regard and

of entitlement and high regard and

of entitlement and high regard and acceptance of others and the concept of

acceptance of others and the concept of

acceptance of others and the concept of humility is far from hidden or obscure

humility is far from hidden or obscure

humility is far from hidden or obscure in today’s society the Christian faith

in today’s society the Christian faith

in today’s society the Christian faith uses humility as a vehicle to God’s

uses humility as a vehicle to God’s

uses humility as a vehicle to God’s forgiveness is one of the five pillars

forgiveness is one of the five pillars

forgiveness is one of the five pillars of Islam and in Buddhism is the core

of Islam and in Buddhism is the core

of Islam and in Buddhism is the core Avenue of the Four Noble Truths the

Avenue of the Four Noble Truths the

Avenue of the Four Noble Truths the major religions of the world all preach

major religions of the world all preach

major religions of the world all preach the central message that humility is of

the central message that humility is of

the central message that humility is of the utmost importance outside of

the utmost importance outside of

the utmost importance outside of religious practice modesty’s Ali died as

religious practice modesty’s Ali died as

religious practice modesty’s Ali died as well but perhaps one of the greatest

well but perhaps one of the greatest

well but perhaps one of the greatest examples of a humble person comes from

examples of a humble person comes from

examples of a humble person comes from religion Siddhartha Gautama

religion Siddhartha Gautama

religion Siddhartha Gautama better known as the Buddha was raised in

better known as the Buddha was raised in

better known as the Buddha was raised in the palace never leaving its walls or

the palace never leaving its walls or

the palace never leaving its walls or traveling the world thus he was ignorant

traveling the world thus he was ignorant

traveling the world thus he was ignorant of the pain that peasants around him

of the pain that peasants around him

of the pain that peasants around him relentlessly endured when he finally

relentlessly endured when he finally

relentlessly endured when he finally witnessed all his pain and suffering and

witnessed all his pain and suffering and

witnessed all his pain and suffering and hardship and death he gave up all

hardship and death he gave up all

hardship and death he gave up all worldly possessions in favor of teaching

worldly possessions in favor of teaching

worldly possessions in favor of teaching others the path to enlightenment the

others the path to enlightenment the

others the path to enlightenment the Buddha left behind not only lasting

Buddha left behind not only lasting

Buddha left behind not only lasting impacts on this world but also a model

impacts on this world but also a model

impacts on this world but also a model of what Jaime

of what Jaime

of what Jaime humility might look like a focus on

humility might look like a focus on

humility might look like a focus on others valuing of himself is equal or

others valuing of himself is equal or

others valuing of himself is equal or even below though is with which

even below though is with which

even below though is with which interacted and yet being too humble can

interacted and yet being too humble can

interacted and yet being too humble can be a detriment as well someone who is

be a detriment as well someone who is

be a detriment as well someone who is excessively modest cares so much for

excessively modest cares so much for

excessively modest cares so much for others that their own agenda is never

others that their own agenda is never

others that their own agenda is never attended to they become shy unimpacted a

attended to they become shy unimpacted a

attended to they become shy unimpacted a doormat on which other people can walk

doormat on which other people can walk

doormat on which other people can walk all over no one wants to be you on that

all over no one wants to be you on that

all over no one wants to be you on that and no one wants to be overly arrogant

and no one wants to be overly arrogant

and no one wants to be overly arrogant through competition either that’s the

through competition either that’s the

through competition either that’s the best way to avoid these two extremes is

best way to avoid these two extremes is

best way to avoid these two extremes is to combine competition and humility to

to combine competition and humility to

to combine competition and humility to become the humble competitor this past

become the humble competitor this past

become the humble competitor this past August Olympic swimmer Katie ledecky

August Olympic swimmer Katie ledecky

August Olympic swimmer Katie ledecky obliterated the world record and the

obliterated the world record and the

obliterated the world record and the women’s 800 meter freestyle finishing

women’s 800 meter freestyle finishing

women’s 800 meter freestyle finishing more than six and a half seconds ahead

more than six and a half seconds ahead

more than six and a half seconds ahead of her competition a very impressive

of her competition a very impressive

of her competition a very impressive margin but immediately after the race

margin but immediately after the race

margin but immediately after the race the Decker did not brag about her

the Decker did not brag about her

the Decker did not brag about her victory she focused on others in her

victory she focused on others in her

victory she focused on others in her interviews one that you spoke only of

interviews one that you spoke only of

interviews one that you spoke only of her teammates and of the experience in

her teammates and of the experience in

her teammates and of the experience in Rio I just had a lot of fun this week

Rio I just had a lot of fun this week

Rio I just had a lot of fun this week she said not only in the pool which is

she said not only in the pool which is

she said not only in the pool which is with my teammates the memories mean more

with my teammates the memories mean more

with my teammates the memories mean more than the medals to me here I’m just so

than the medals to me here I’m just so

than the medals to me here I’m just so proud of my teammates and all that we

proud of my teammates and all that we

proud of my teammates and all that we have accomplished this last week latexes

have accomplished this last week latexes

have accomplished this last week latexes humility is just as inspiring as her

humility is just as inspiring as her

humility is just as inspiring as her ability to swim in the same way humility

ability to swim in the same way humility

ability to swim in the same way humility was the name of the game at the Academy

was the name of the game at the Academy

was the name of the game at the Academy Awards for the final Oscar a mistake was

Awards for the final Oscar a mistake was

Awards for the final Oscar a mistake was made and the wrong movie was announced

made and the wrong movie was announced

made and the wrong movie was announced as the winner the team behind this movie

as the winner the team behind this movie

as the winner the team behind this movie made their way to the stage and the

made their way to the stage and the

made their way to the stage and the producers began to speak but there was

producers began to speak but there was

producers began to speak but there was commotion in the background soon word

commotion in the background soon word

commotion in the background soon word got out a different movie titled

got out a different movie titled

got out a different movie titled moonlight had won the award but the

moonlight had won the award but the

moonlight had won the award but the losing group did not salt off the stage

losing group did not salt off the stage

losing group did not salt off the stage instead this man Jordan Horowitz went up

instead this man Jordan Horowitz went up

instead this man Jordan Horowitz went up to the microphone and said I’m going to

to the microphone and said I’m going to

to the microphone and said I’m going to be really thrilled to hand this to my

be really thrilled to hand this to my

be really thrilled to hand this to my friends at Mike Horowitz had just lost

friends at Mike Horowitz had just lost

friends at Mike Horowitz had just lost the award but regardless he showed the

the award but regardless he showed the

the award but regardless he showed the power and the grace behind true humility

power and the grace behind true humility

power and the grace behind true humility on the other hand good competitors who

on the other hand good competitors who

on the other hand good competitors who lack you believe are difficult for us to

lack you believe are difficult for us to

lack you believe are difficult for us to support because while they may be good

support because while they may be good

support because while they may be good at their craft putting up with their

at their craft putting up with their

at their craft putting up with their arrogance is no easy

arrogance is no easy

arrogance is no easy tasks take my song-song for instance

tasks take my song-song for instance

tasks take my song-song for instance this road racing cyclist was found to be

this road racing cyclist was found to be

this road racing cyclist was found to be using performance-enhancing drugs and

using performance-enhancing drugs and

using performance-enhancing drugs and was the stripped of his seven Tour de

was the stripped of his seven Tour de

was the stripped of his seven Tour de France victories reporter Julie McCoy of

France victories reporter Julie McCoy of

France victories reporter Julie McCoy of the New York Times frequently covered

the New York Times frequently covered

the New York Times frequently covered Armstrong’s races and stated that the

Armstrong’s races and stated that the

Armstrong’s races and stated that the bicyclist was arrogance itself there’s

bicyclist was arrogance itself there’s

bicyclist was arrogance itself there’s an obvious difference here between

an obvious difference here between

an obvious difference here between Armstrong’s competitiveness alone

Armstrong’s competitiveness alone

Armstrong’s competitiveness alone focusing only on himself and the humble

focusing only on himself and the humble

focusing only on himself and the humble yet competitive spirit of Horowitz and

yet competitive spirit of Horowitz and

yet competitive spirit of Horowitz and Levesque be focusing on others as well

Levesque be focusing on others as well

Levesque be focusing on others as well as themselves in moderation these two

as themselves in moderation these two

as themselves in moderation these two qualities can be beneficial but without

qualities can be beneficial but without

qualities can be beneficial but without the other competition can evolve into

the other competition can evolve into

the other competition can evolve into conceitedness and humility can evolve

conceitedness and humility can evolve

conceitedness and humility can evolve into obscurity

into obscurity

into obscurity hence balancing the two is not only

hence balancing the two is not only

hence balancing the two is not only beneficial but necessary because in the

beneficial but necessary because in the

beneficial but necessary because in the end you say both wants to run the

end you say both wants to run the

end you say both wants to run the fastest Tom Brady wants to win the

fastest Tom Brady wants to win the

fastest Tom Brady wants to win the Superbowl Leonardo DiCaprio wants to win

Superbowl Leonardo DiCaprio wants to win

Superbowl Leonardo DiCaprio wants to win another oscar hillary clinton wanted to

another oscar hillary clinton wanted to

another oscar hillary clinton wanted to win the election and I want to win

win the election and I want to win

win the election and I want to win original oratory we are all driven to

original oratory we are all driven to

original oratory we are all driven to succeed the desire to come out

succeed the desire to come out

succeed the desire to come out victorious motivates competitors to do

victorious motivates competitors to do

victorious motivates competitors to do their best but when we win staying

their best but when we win staying

their best but when we win staying humble is the true mark of not only a

humble is the true mark of not only a

humble is the true mark of not only a great competitor but of a great person

great competitor but of a great person

great competitor but of a great person by not bragging accepting our own

by not bragging accepting our own

by not bragging accepting our own weaknesses and valuing the strengths and

weaknesses and valuing the strengths and

weaknesses and valuing the strengths and opinions of others we can better

opinions of others we can better

opinions of others we can better ourselves through humility we gain

ourselves through humility we gain

ourselves through humility we gain something we gain perspective both out

something we gain perspective both out

something we gain perspective both out of ourselves and the perspective of

of ourselves and the perspective of

of ourselves and the perspective of others how we perceive a situation

others how we perceive a situation

others how we perceive a situation enriched with an understanding of how

enriched with an understanding of how

enriched with an understanding of how others are affected by it imagine what

others are affected by it imagine what

others are affected by it imagine what the world can be like not if but when we

the world can be like not if but when we

the world can be like not if but when we combine a sense of self-worth in

combine a sense of self-worth in

combine a sense of self-worth in competition and a sense of others within

competition and a sense of others within

competition and a sense of others within humility I may have gotten the better

humility I may have gotten the better

humility I may have gotten the better test form biology and that felt pretty

test form biology and that felt pretty

test form biology and that felt pretty awesome but staying humble about my

awesome but staying humble about my

awesome but staying humble about my success difficult – it was a lot of my

success difficult – it was a lot of my

success difficult – it was a lot of my friend to feel confident about his own

friend to feel confident about his own

friend to feel confident about his own score and now I am learning the most

score and now I am learning the most

score and now I am learning the most valuable lesson that has nothing to do

valuable lesson that has nothing to do

valuable lesson that has nothing to do with biology the lesson that the best

with biology the lesson that the best

with biology the lesson that the best victories are those are some carry your

victories are those are some carry your

victories are those are some carry your peers along with yourself the lesson but

peers along with yourself the lesson but

peers along with yourself the lesson but being the humble competitor is

being the humble competitor is

being the humble competitor is incredibly sexy thank you

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