[Applause] Tennessee Williams once told us there
Tennessee Williams once told us there
Tennessee Williams once told us there comes a time when you look into the
comes a time when you look into the
comes a time when you look into the mirror and you realize that what you see
mirror and you realize that what you see
mirror and you realize that what you see is all you’ll ever be and then you
is all you’ll ever be and then you
is all you’ll ever be and then you accept it or you kill yourself or you
accept it or you kill yourself or you
accept it or you kill yourself or you stop looking in mirrors and speaking of
stop looking in mirrors and speaking of
stop looking in mirrors and speaking of mirrors someone else once said if we
mirrors someone else once said if we
mirrors someone else once said if we spend too much time scrutinizing what’s
spend too much time scrutinizing what’s
spend too much time scrutinizing what’s in our rearview mirror we’re certain to
in our rearview mirror we’re certain to
in our rearview mirror we’re certain to crash into a light post I’ve spent the
crash into a light post I’ve spent the
crash into a light post I’ve spent the last four years of my life studying
last four years of my life studying
last four years of my life studying people who look in mirrors rearview and
people who look in mirrors rearview and
people who look in mirrors rearview and otherwise in their search for
otherwise in their search for
otherwise in their search for self-awareness I wanted to know what
self-awareness I wanted to know what
self-awareness I wanted to know what self-awareness really is where it comes
self-awareness really is where it comes
self-awareness really is where it comes from why we need it and how to get more
from why we need it and how to get more
from why we need it and how to get more of it my research team surveyed
of it my research team surveyed
of it my research team surveyed quantitatively thousands of people we
quantitatively thousands of people we
quantitatively thousands of people we analyzed nearly 800 scientific studies
analyzed nearly 800 scientific studies
analyzed nearly 800 scientific studies and we conducted dozens of in-depth
and we conducted dozens of in-depth
and we conducted dozens of in-depth interviews with people who made dramatic
interviews with people who made dramatic
interviews with people who made dramatic improvements in their self-awareness now
improvements in their self-awareness now
improvements in their self-awareness now initially we were actually so worried
initially we were actually so worried
initially we were actually so worried that we wouldn’t find any of these
that we wouldn’t find any of these
that we wouldn’t find any of these people that we called them
people that we called them
people that we called them self-awareness unicorns true but thank
self-awareness unicorns true but thank
self-awareness unicorns true but thank goodness we did find them because what
goodness we did find them because what
goodness we did find them because what these unicorns taught me would create a
these unicorns taught me would create a
these unicorns taught me would create a groundbreaking revelation for how all of
groundbreaking revelation for how all of
groundbreaking revelation for how all of us can find genuine self-awareness and
us can find genuine self-awareness and
us can find genuine self-awareness and that’s what I want to share with you
that’s what I want to share with you
that’s what I want to share with you today I want you to reflect on how
today I want you to reflect on how
today I want you to reflect on how you’re reflecting I know that’s a
you’re reflecting I know that’s a
you’re reflecting I know that’s a mouthful and to get there we’re going to
mouthful and to get there we’re going to
mouthful and to get there we’re going to need to shatter one of the most widely
need to shatter one of the most widely
need to shatter one of the most widely held beliefs about finding
held beliefs about finding
held beliefs about finding self-awareness but first things first
self-awareness but first things first
self-awareness but first things first what is this thing we call
what is this thing we call
what is this thing we call self-awareness anyway it’s the ability
self-awareness anyway it’s the ability
self-awareness anyway it’s the ability to see ourselves clearly to understand
to see ourselves clearly to understand
to see ourselves clearly to understand who we are how others see us and how we
who we are how others see us and how we
who we are how others see us and how we fit into the world
fit into the world
fit into the world self-awareness gives us power we might
self-awareness gives us power we might
self-awareness gives us power we might not always like what we see but there’s
not always like what we see but there’s
not always like what we see but there’s a comfort in knowing ourselves and
a comfort in knowing ourselves and
a comfort in knowing ourselves and there’s actually a ton of research
there’s actually a ton of research
there’s actually a ton of research showing that people who are self-aware
showing that people who are self-aware
showing that people who are self-aware are more fulfilled they have stronger
are more fulfilled they have stronger
are more fulfilled they have stronger relationships they’re more creative
relationships they’re more creative
relationships they’re more creative they’re more confident and better
they’re more confident and better
they’re more confident and better communicators they’re less likely to lie
communicators they’re less likely to lie
communicators they’re less likely to lie cheat and steal they perform better at
cheat and steal they perform better at
cheat and steal they perform better at work and are more promotable and there
work and are more promotable and there
work and are more promotable and there are more effective leaders with more
are more effective leaders with more
are more effective leaders with more profitable companies in the world of
profitable companies in the world of
profitable companies in the world of self-awareness there are two types of
self-awareness there are two types of
self-awareness there are two types of people those who think they’re
people those who think they’re
people those who think they’re self-aware and those who actually are
self-aware and those who actually are
self-aware and those who actually are it’s true my team has found that 95% of
it’s true my team has found that 95% of
it’s true my team has found that 95% of people think they’re self-aware but the
people think they’re self-aware but the
people think they’re self-aware but the real number it’s closer to 10 to 15
real number it’s closer to 10 to 15
real number it’s closer to 10 to 15 percent you know what this means don’t
percent you know what this means don’t
percent you know what this means don’t you
it means that on a good day on a good
it means that on a good day on a good day 80 percent of us are lying to
day 80 percent of us are lying to
day 80 percent of us are lying to ourselves about whether we’re lying to
ourselves about whether we’re lying to
ourselves about whether we’re lying to ourselves pretty scary right so you can
ourselves pretty scary right so you can
ourselves pretty scary right so you can imagine the challenge we had and
imagine the challenge we had and
imagine the challenge we had and figuring out who was truly self-aware
figuring out who was truly self-aware
figuring out who was truly self-aware what do you think would have happened if
what do you think would have happened if
what do you think would have happened if I had said hey how self-aware are you
I had said hey how self-aware are you
I had said hey how self-aware are you exactly
exactly
exactly so to be part of our research our
so to be part of our research our
so to be part of our research our unicorns had to clear four hurdles they
unicorns had to clear four hurdles they
unicorns had to clear four hurdles they had to believe they were self-aware as
had to believe they were self-aware as
had to believe they were self-aware as measured by an assessment my team
measured by an assessment my team
measured by an assessment my team developed and validated using that same
developed and validated using that same
developed and validated using that same assessment someone who knew them well
assessment someone who knew them well
assessment someone who knew them well had to agree they had to believe that
had to agree they had to believe that
had to agree they had to believe that they’d increase their self-awareness in
they’d increase their self-awareness in
they’d increase their self-awareness in their life and the person rating them
their life and the person rating them
their life and the person rating them had to agree we found 50 people out of
had to agree we found 50 people out of
had to agree we found 50 people out of hundreds and hundreds and hundreds who
hundreds and hundreds and hundreds who
hundreds and hundreds and hundreds who met our criteria they were professionals
met our criteria they were professionals
met our criteria they were professionals on
on
on preneur artists students stay-at-home
preneur artists students stay-at-home
preneur artists students stay-at-home parents and we didn’t find any patterns
parents and we didn’t find any patterns
parents and we didn’t find any patterns by industry age gender or any other
by industry age gender or any other
by industry age gender or any other demographic characteristic these
demographic characteristic these
demographic characteristic these unicorns help my team discover a most
unicorns help my team discover a most
unicorns help my team discover a most surprising truth that approach you’re
surprising truth that approach you’re
surprising truth that approach you’re using to examine your thoughts your
using to examine your thoughts your
using to examine your thoughts your feelings and your motives
feelings and your motives
feelings and your motives you know introspection well you’re
you know introspection well you’re
you know introspection well you’re probably doing it there’s no easy way to
probably doing it there’s no easy way to
probably doing it there’s no easy way to say this you’re probably doing it
say this you’re probably doing it
say this you’re probably doing it totally wrong yes there is a reason so
totally wrong yes there is a reason so
totally wrong yes there is a reason so few of us are self-aware so let me tell
few of us are self-aware so let me tell
few of us are self-aware so let me tell you about the evening that I first
you about the evening that I first
you about the evening that I first discovered the ugly truth about
discovered the ugly truth about
discovered the ugly truth about introspection it was about 10:00 p.m. on
introspection it was about 10:00 p.m. on
introspection it was about 10:00 p.m. on a beautiful Colorado spring evening and
a beautiful Colorado spring evening and
a beautiful Colorado spring evening and I was in my office hopped up on diet
I was in my office hopped up on diet
I was in my office hopped up on diet coke and smart food popcorn and I had
coke and smart food popcorn and I had
coke and smart food popcorn and I had just analyzed a set of data and to say
just analyzed a set of data and to say
just analyzed a set of data and to say that I was surprised would be an
that I was surprised would be an
that I was surprised would be an understatement
understatement
understatement my team and I had just run a simple
my team and I had just run a simple
my team and I had just run a simple study looking at the relationship
study looking at the relationship
study looking at the relationship between introspection and things like
between introspection and things like
between introspection and things like happiness stress and job satisfaction
happiness stress and job satisfaction
happiness stress and job satisfaction naturally the people who introspected
naturally the people who introspected
naturally the people who introspected would be better off wouldn’t you think
would be better off wouldn’t you think
would be better off wouldn’t you think so our data told the exact opposite
so our data told the exact opposite
so our data told the exact opposite story people who introspected were more
story people who introspected were more
story people who introspected were more stressed and depressed less satisfied
stressed and depressed less satisfied
stressed and depressed less satisfied with their jobs and their relationships
with their jobs and their relationships
with their jobs and their relationships less in control of their lives I had no
less in control of their lives I had no
less in control of their lives I had no idea what was going on and it got worse
idea what was going on and it got worse
idea what was going on and it got worse these negative consequences increased
these negative consequences increased
these negative consequences increased the more they introspected so I was
the more they introspected so I was
the more they introspected so I was quite confused later that week I ended
quite confused later that week I ended
quite confused later that week I ended up coming across a 20 year old study
up coming across a 20 year old study
up coming across a 20 year old study that looked at how widowers adjusted to
that looked at how widowers adjusted to
that looked at how widowers adjusted to life without their partners the
life without their partners the
life without their partners the researchers found that those who tried
researchers found that those who tried
researchers found that those who tried to understand the meaning of their loss
to understand the meaning of their loss
to understand the meaning of their loss were how
were how
were how beer less depressed one month later but
beer less depressed one month later but
beer less depressed one month later but one year later were more depressed they
one year later were more depressed they
one year later were more depressed they were fixated on what happened instead of
were fixated on what happened instead of
were fixated on what happened instead of moving forward have you been there
moving forward have you been there
moving forward have you been there I have self-analysis can trap us in a
I have self-analysis can trap us in a
I have self-analysis can trap us in a mental hell of our own making so things
mental hell of our own making so things
mental hell of our own making so things were starting to make sense now you die
were starting to make sense now you die
were starting to make sense now you die hard self-awareness fans and
hard self-awareness fans and
hard self-awareness fans and particularly introspection fans in the
particularly introspection fans in the
particularly introspection fans in the audience might be thinking sure
audience might be thinking sure
audience might be thinking sure introspection may be depressing but it’s
introspection may be depressing but it’s
introspection may be depressing but it’s worth it because of the insight it
worth it because of the insight it
worth it because of the insight it produces and you’re right I am NOT here
produces and you’re right I am NOT here
produces and you’re right I am NOT here today to tell you that the pursuit of
today to tell you that the pursuit of
today to tell you that the pursuit of self-awareness is a waste of time not at
self-awareness is a waste of time not at
self-awareness is a waste of time not at all I am here to tell you that the way
all I am here to tell you that the way
all I am here to tell you that the way you’re pursuing it doesn’t work here’s
you’re pursuing it doesn’t work here’s
you’re pursuing it doesn’t work here’s the surprising reality thinking about
the surprising reality thinking about
the surprising reality thinking about ourselves isn’t related to knowing
ourselves isn’t related to knowing
ourselves isn’t related to knowing ourselves so to understand this let’s
ourselves so to understand this let’s
ourselves so to understand this let’s look at the most common introspective
look at the most common introspective
look at the most common introspective question why we might be searching for
question why we might be searching for
question why we might be searching for the cause of a bad mood why am I so
the cause of a bad mood why am I so
the cause of a bad mood why am I so upset up to that fight with my friend or
upset up to that fight with my friend or
upset up to that fight with my friend or we might be questioning our beliefs why
we might be questioning our beliefs why
we might be questioning our beliefs why don’t I believe in the death penalty or
don’t I believe in the death penalty or
don’t I believe in the death penalty or we might be trying to understand a
we might be trying to understand a
we might be trying to understand a negative outcome why did I choke in that
negative outcome why did I choke in that
negative outcome why did I choke in that meeting unfortunately when we ask why it
meeting unfortunately when we ask why it
meeting unfortunately when we ask why it doesn’t lead us towards the truth about
doesn’t lead us towards the truth about
doesn’t lead us towards the truth about ourselves it leads us away from it there
ourselves it leads us away from it there
ourselves it leads us away from it there are so many reasons this is the case
are so many reasons this is the case
are so many reasons this is the case today I’ll give you two here’s the first
today I’ll give you two here’s the first
today I’ll give you two here’s the first reason we shouldn’t ask why researchers
reason we shouldn’t ask why researchers
reason we shouldn’t ask why researchers have found that no matter how hard we
have found that no matter how hard we
have found that no matter how hard we try we can’t excavate our unconscious
try we can’t excavate our unconscious
try we can’t excavate our unconscious thoughts feelings and motives and
thoughts feelings and motives and
thoughts feelings and motives and because so much is hidden from our
because so much is hidden from our
because so much is hidden from our conscious awareness we end up inventing
conscious awareness we end up inventing
conscious awareness we end up inventing answers that feel true but are often
answers that feel true but are often
answers that feel true but are often very wrong
very wrong
very wrong let me give you an example psychologist
let me give you an example psychologist
let me give you an example psychologist Timothy Wilson and Richard Nisbett set
Timothy Wilson and Richard Nisbett set
Timothy Wilson and Richard Nisbett set up a card table outside their local
up a card table outside their local
up a card table outside their local Myers thrifty store in Ann Arbor
Myers thrifty store in Ann Arbor
Myers thrifty store in Ann Arbor Michigan and on that card table they
Michigan and on that card table they
Michigan and on that card table they laid out four identical pairs of
laid out four identical pairs of
laid out four identical pairs of pantyhose and they asked the people
pantyhose and they asked the people
pantyhose and they asked the people walking by to pick their favorite now
walking by to pick their favorite now
walking by to pick their favorite now consumer consumer research shows that
consumer consumer research shows that
consumer consumer research shows that people tend to prefer products on the
people tend to prefer products on the
people tend to prefer products on the right and that’s exactly what happened
right and that’s exactly what happened
right and that’s exactly what happened even though every pair was identical
even though every pair was identical
even though every pair was identical people chose pair D at a rate of 4 to 1
people chose pair D at a rate of 4 to 1
people chose pair D at a rate of 4 to 1 and when asked why they had chosen the
and when asked why they had chosen the
and when asked why they had chosen the pair they had they confidently declared
pair they had they confidently declared
pair they had they confidently declared that pair D was just better and even get
that pair D was just better and even get
that pair D was just better and even get this even when the researchers told them
this even when the researchers told them
this even when the researchers told them about the effect of positioning they
about the effect of positioning they
about the effect of positioning they refused to believe it
the second reason asking why is a bad
the second reason asking why is a bad idea is that it leads us away from our
idea is that it leads us away from our
idea is that it leads us away from our true nature we like to think of our
true nature we like to think of our
true nature we like to think of our brains as super computers rationally
brains as super computers rationally
brains as super computers rationally analyzing information and arriving at
analyzing information and arriving at
analyzing information and arriving at accurate conclusions unfortunately
accurate conclusions unfortunately
accurate conclusions unfortunately that’s not what happens let’s do a quick
that’s not what happens let’s do a quick
that’s not what happens let’s do a quick exercise that’s based on another classic
exercise that’s based on another classic
exercise that’s based on another classic psychology study so if I were to ask you
psychology study so if I were to ask you
psychology study so if I were to ask you to make a list of all the reasons your
to make a list of all the reasons your
to make a list of all the reasons your romantic relationship was going the way
romantic relationship was going the way
romantic relationship was going the way it was what would you say let’s say that
it was what would you say let’s say that
it was what would you say let’s say that in general your relationship is pretty
in general your relationship is pretty
in general your relationship is pretty awesome but let’s just pretend that
awesome but let’s just pretend that
awesome but let’s just pretend that yesterday you happen to get in a huge
yesterday you happen to get in a huge
yesterday you happen to get in a huge fight about the proper way to load the
fight about the proper way to load the
fight about the proper way to load the dishwasher
dishwasher
dishwasher really bad now because of something
really bad now because of something
really bad now because of something called the recency effect this is gonna
called the recency effect this is gonna
called the recency effect this is gonna carry an unfair amount of weight you
carry an unfair amount of weight you
carry an unfair amount of weight you might start thinking of things like I am
might start thinking of things like I am
might start thinking of things like I am so sick of his mansplaining or you might
so sick of his mansplaining or you might
so sick of his mansplaining or you might think why the hell does it matter so
think why the hell does it matter so
think why the hell does it matter so much how I load the dishwasher and
much how I load the dishwasher and
much how I load the dishwasher and before you know it you’re thinking your
before you know it you’re thinking your
before you know it you’re thinking your relationship isn’t going so well
relationship isn’t going so well
relationship isn’t going so well asking why created alternative facts and
asking why created alternative facts and
asking why created alternative facts and overtime this leads us away from who we
overtime this leads us away from who we
overtime this leads us away from who we really are it clouds our self
really are it clouds our self
really are it clouds our self perceptions so you might be wondering if
perceptions so you might be wondering if
perceptions so you might be wondering if asking why makes us depress
asking why makes us depress
asking why makes us depress overconfidence and wrong it’s probably
overconfidence and wrong it’s probably
overconfidence and wrong it’s probably not going to increase our self-awareness
not going to increase our self-awareness
not going to increase our self-awareness but don’t worry I am NOT here today to
but don’t worry I am NOT here today to
but don’t worry I am NOT here today to tell you to stop thinking about
tell you to stop thinking about
tell you to stop thinking about yourselves I am here to tell you to
yourselves I am here to tell you to
yourselves I am here to tell you to start doing it just a little bit
start doing it just a little bit
start doing it just a little bit differently so if we shouldn’t ask why
differently so if we shouldn’t ask why
differently so if we shouldn’t ask why then what should we ask do you remember
then what should we ask do you remember
then what should we ask do you remember our self-awareness unicorn’s when we
our self-awareness unicorn’s when we
our self-awareness unicorn’s when we looked at how they approached
looked at how they approached
looked at how they approached introspection we found the answer
introspection we found the answer
introspection we found the answer we analyzed literally hundreds of pages
we analyzed literally hundreds of pages
we analyzed literally hundreds of pages of transcripts and we saw a very clear
of transcripts and we saw a very clear
of transcripts and we saw a very clear pattern although the word why appeared
pattern although the word why appeared
pattern although the word why appeared less than 150 times the word what
less than 150 times the word what
less than 150 times the word what appeared more than a thousand times let
appeared more than a thousand times let
appeared more than a thousand times let me give you a few examples Nathan a
me give you a few examples Nathan a
me give you a few examples Nathan a brand manager got a terrible performance
brand manager got a terrible performance
brand manager got a terrible performance review from his new boss instead of
review from his new boss instead of
review from his new boss instead of asking why are we like oil and water
asking why are we like oil and water
asking why are we like oil and water he asked what can I do to show her I’m
he asked what can I do to show her I’m
he asked what can I do to show her I’m the best person for this job it changed
the best person for this job it changed
the best person for this job it changed everything
everything
everything people now point to Nathan and his boss
people now point to Nathan and his boss
people now point to Nathan and his boss as proof that polar opposites can work
as proof that polar opposites can work
as proof that polar opposites can work together Sara
together Sara
together Sara an education leader was diagnosed with
an education leader was diagnosed with
an education leader was diagnosed with breast cancer
breast cancer
breast cancer in her late 40s and when she asked why
in her late 40s and when she asked why
in her late 40s and when she asked why me she said it felt like a death
me she said it felt like a death
me she said it felt like a death sentence so then she asked what’s most
sentence so then she asked what’s most
sentence so then she asked what’s most important to me
important to me
important to me this helped her to find what she wanted
this helped her to find what she wanted
this helped her to find what she wanted her life to look like and whatever time
her life to look like and whatever time
her life to look like and whatever time she had left
she had left
she had left she’s now cancer-free and more focused
she’s now cancer-free and more focused
she’s now cancer-free and more focused on the relationships that mean the most
on the relationships that mean the most
on the relationships that mean the most to her Jose an entertainment industry
to her Jose an entertainment industry
to her Jose an entertainment industry veteran hated his job and instead of
veteran hated his job and instead of
veteran hated his job and instead of getting stuck what most of us would do
getting stuck what most of us would do
getting stuck what most of us would do and ask why do I feel so terrible he
and ask why do I feel so terrible he
and ask why do I feel so terrible he asked what are the situations that make
asked what are the situations that make
asked what are the situations that make me feel terrible and what do they have
me feel terrible and what do they have
me feel terrible and what do they have in common he quickly realized that he
in common he quickly realized that he
in common he quickly realized that he would never be happy in his job and it
would never be happy in his job and it
would never be happy in his job and it gave him the courage to pursue a new and
gave him the courage to pursue a new and
gave him the courage to pursue a new and far more fulfilling career path as a
far more fulfilling career path as a
far more fulfilling career path as a wealth manager so these are just three
wealth manager so these are just three
wealth manager so these are just three examples of dozens of unicorns that
examples of dozens of unicorns that
examples of dozens of unicorns that asked what instead of why do I have any
asked what instead of why do I have any
asked what instead of why do I have any Nathan’s
Nathan’s
Nathan’s or Sarah’s or Jose’s in the room I’ll
or Sarah’s or Jose’s in the room I’ll
or Sarah’s or Jose’s in the room I’ll add one more Tasha
add one more Tasha
add one more Tasha so earlier this year I published a book
so earlier this year I published a book
so earlier this year I published a book about all of this which I am so proud of
about all of this which I am so proud of
about all of this which I am so proud of but one day for some unknown reason I
but one day for some unknown reason I
but one day for some unknown reason I did what every author is never supposed
did what every author is never supposed
did what every author is never supposed to do I read my Amazon reviews
and you guys it was devastating
and you guys it was devastating I asked why are people being so mean to
I asked why are people being so mean to
I asked why are people being so mean to me about a book that I spent thousands
me about a book that I spent thousands
me about a book that I spent thousands of hours researching and wrote to make
of hours researching and wrote to make
of hours researching and wrote to make their lives better right I fell into a
their lives better right I fell into a
their lives better right I fell into a spiral of self-loathing it was honestly
spiral of self-loathing it was honestly
spiral of self-loathing it was honestly one of the low points of my life a
one of the low points of my life a
one of the low points of my life a couple of weeks went by and it dawned on
couple of weeks went by and it dawned on
couple of weeks went by and it dawned on me that maybe I should take my own
me that maybe I should take my own
me that maybe I should take my own advice
so I tried a different question I asked
so I tried a different question I asked what about all those people who were
what about all those people who were
what about all those people who were telling me that my book has helped them
telling me that my book has helped them
telling me that my book has helped them change their lives what a different
change their lives what a different
change their lives what a different outcome so no I wasn’t doing it right
outcome so no I wasn’t doing it right
outcome so no I wasn’t doing it right either this is not an easy world is it
either this is not an easy world is it
either this is not an easy world is it not at all
not at all
not at all she knows what y’all know but I have
she knows what y’all know but I have
she knows what y’all know but I have seen I’ve seen so much evidence that
seen I’ve seen so much evidence that
seen I’ve seen so much evidence that self-awareness gives us a much better
self-awareness gives us a much better
self-awareness gives us a much better shot at finding happiness and success in
shot at finding happiness and success in
shot at finding happiness and success in this crazy world to start we just need
this crazy world to start we just need
this crazy world to start we just need to change one simple word change why to
to change one simple word change why to
to change one simple word change why to what why questions trap us in that
what why questions trap us in that
what why questions trap us in that rearview mirror what questions move us
rearview mirror what questions move us
rearview mirror what questions move us forward to our future as human beings we
forward to our future as human beings we
forward to our future as human beings we are blessed with the ability to
are blessed with the ability to
are blessed with the ability to understand who we are
understand who we are
understand who we are what we want to contribute and the kind
what we want to contribute and the kind
what we want to contribute and the kind of life we want to lead remember our
of life we want to lead remember our
of life we want to lead remember our self-awareness unicorn’s had nothing in
self-awareness unicorn’s had nothing in
self-awareness unicorn’s had nothing in common except a belief in the importance
common except a belief in the importance
common except a belief in the importance of self-awareness and a daily commitment
of self-awareness and a daily commitment
of self-awareness and a daily commitment to developing it that means we can all
to developing it that means we can all
to developing it that means we can all be unicorns the search for
be unicorns the search for
be unicorns the search for self-awareness never ever stops life
self-awareness never ever stops life
self-awareness never ever stops life goes on it’s up to us to choose to learn
goes on it’s up to us to choose to learn
goes on it’s up to us to choose to learn and grow from our mistakes and our
and grow from our mistakes and our
and grow from our mistakes and our tragedies and our successes one of the
tragedies and our successes one of the
tragedies and our successes one of the best quotes I’ve ever heard on this
best quotes I’ve ever heard on this
best quotes I’ve ever heard on this subject is from Rumi he said yesterday I
subject is from Rumi he said yesterday I
subject is from Rumi he said yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the
was clever so I wanted to change the
was clever so I wanted to change the world today I’m wise so I’m changing
world today I’m wise so I’m changing
world today I’m wise so I’m changing myself thank you very much
myself thank you very much
myself thank you very much [Applause]
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