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I do deserve | Ricardo Perret | TEDxPlayaMiramar


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do not

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if I deserve

it’s just the opposite of me I do not deserve

both are a belief and beliefs

define the life of the human being

the perspective with which we see the world

ricardo ferretti took 15 years

studying the mind of the human being and if

one of the clearest things has

stayed is just that beliefs

define the life of the human being

now how beliefs are gestated and today

I did not start just studying the beliefs

of the human being to understand how it

had generated and I started studying the

human beliefs from

try to understand how the

the consumer and the user of the

client because I wanted to help my

clients to the companies that we

hired to develop products

innovative services and spaces that

will connect with the mind of being

human and had perfectly clear from

that then of 15 years that when

you connect with the mind of the human being in

all its levels and at all its levels

They start to prefer your products or

innovative services spaces

however, and still dedicating myself to this for

many years and passionate about helping the

companies to innovate

I started to get passionate about another territory

of the study of the mind of the human being

to study the minds of people

ordinary people like me or like you and

understand how their beliefs have arisen

because they are the way they are and also because

suffer when they suffer and I started to understand

that in reality beliefs what

gestate the beliefs

help me with him with the laws what

really generate the beliefs are the

imprints on the human being

we have been imprinted two scheduled as

throughout our lives since we were very young

human being is being programmed from

that we are in the womb when

we are in embryos or fetuses we already started

to do

scheduled to the ninth week it

they activate our ears and we start

listen to what is the first sound that

listen to the human being inside the

maternal belly is the heart of his

mother and then his own heart and he tries

to make a rhythm with the heart of his

mother and her own heart and when we are

children and when teenagers

we are sponges we are literally

some sponges and we absorb a lot

information from the outside and that goes

generating our beliefs but that

this one very blunt way what

they build beliefs in being

human are the imprints a mark

to say it in a very clear and

very blunt is a very experience

emotional in your life that has left a

indelible mark in your mind

unconscious and that moves you to act all

the time in an automatic way

because something that also

we discovered for many years was

that in reality what moves the being

human is not the conscious part is not

the rational part but the part

unconscious are the beliefs that are

imprints das programmed in the mind

unconscious of the human being what we

move to act all the time and that we

leads to understand that the human being does not

he is always aware all the time of

why it acts because beliefs are

sown in the unconscious mind

we all have some lenses to perceive

the reality from the beliefs

of course we have positive beliefs and

we have negative beliefs

what are the negative beliefs

after several years of searching

understand what are really the

beliefs that limit us more than more

they hinder us that prevent us from being

healthy successful successful productive

I have fallen into the account of four great

beliefs that are tremendously

limiting

the first one is I can not I can not

be good at math I can not play

a sport I can not attract a couple

I can not do something non

I can come from that you yourself planted

that belief when you were a child

teenager or that someone gives

leadership authority that really in

who really you think you believe it and

this is to say we have built our

own beliefs and we have gone

absorbing beliefs that others have

tax to the best happens until the

blackboard when you were very young and the

teacher said you can not in the

mathematics and how you believed so much the

teacher that belief that truth is

sowed in your unconscious mind by

life and today still battles with

mathematics the second negative belief

that limits us brutally is I’m not

accepted I’m not accepted and this arises

from very small in our life

believe that we are not accepted by dad

believe that we are not accepted by mom

I think we are not accepted by the world

by the school by the teachers for the

friends in a sport believe that we are not

accepted by the couple or by gender

is extremely limiting the

third negative truth that limits us

our life is I do not know who I am or not

I like who I am in familiar surroundings

sometimes we are imposed very rules

Orthodox

there is no flexibility on the part of

parents on behalf of adults and

then they are telling us exactly

what do we have to do

they give us a name they put us to a

class they put us to the class of some

sport of some cultural class we

they say who we have with quique

friends we have to go out with what not

we can go out and that starts to generate

that we start to turn from a life

very comfortable that everything is imposed on me

I do not decide anything and that in the end

leads to not knowing who you are good to know

that you like the fourth negative truth and

of which I will speak with greater

depth because it is tremendously

limiting in the life of a human being is

I do not deserve

I do not deserve is one of the truths or

negative beliefs that lives

in many millions of human beings and

that limits them in their success in their

productivity in your health in your

happiness and where does this belief come from?

I do not deserve he I do not deserve he has two

great sources

according to the hundreds of cases that could

study over the past eight

years the first source

it’s an inferiority complex when

since we were very young they compared us and we

they were always in second third

or twentieth place with others

we started to build the idea that if

we did not receive anything except us

when we compare ourselves with our

brothers when we compare ourselves with others

friends or when we compare ourselves against

television characters so if

they do not deserve anything of yours less and that

is what we think we do not deserve

happiness health success abundance

Abundant material also internal in

Sometimes we think we do not deserve a

happy couple

love we do not deserve to simply be

alive

there are many people who believe that

they deserve to be alive and the second the

second reason why it gestates

in the unconscious mind of a being

human

the negative truth of I do not deserve is a

guilt complex when from very young

we thought it was for our reason why

that something bad had happened

Somebody got sick someone died

someone left the house they did not give us

an explanation and we formulate the idea

that we had been guilty

to those children that when dads do not

They explain why the child are separated very

small the child has to give himself a

explanation if you explain it to the child

because there is a radical change in his life

dad left or mom left or both are

with different couples and I do not know

Explain

he will seek to fill the gap of the

doubt and many children when they do not

explain why mom dad left the

house is generated an idea of ​​was for me

guilt

a human being living in a state of

guilt is a human being who lives

permanently in a belief of not

I deserve he I do not deserve

not only is it an individual issue

he I do not deserve is also a subject

collective or sometimes there are cultures

there are whole nations that have a

belief an unconscious reason behind

of them I do not deserve

there are nations there are communities there

families that consider that they do not deserve

sometimes we hear phrases there

outside that descree sem I have the

rulers that we deserve for that

obviously we are not deserving something

positive we are provoking from the

collective unconscious

the rulers that we are having in

Sometimes we think we do not deserve

have a modern educational system and

efficient that really pull through

children sometimes we think that no

we deserve as Mexicans or even as

Latin Americans that we do not deserve

material abundance that we do not deserve

great jobs that we do not deserve great

couple of robert bosch clean streets and

when many people live in their

unconscious under a truth the

They project the manifest seek

unconsciously it becomes a reality

the time has come to think not only

individually but also in what

collective that it deserves, the time has come

to think that if we really deserve

that if we deserve

individually but also that

we deserve in the collective and that is what

that we deserve what we deserve

we deserve a lot of inner peace wealth

calm tranquility spiritual connection

live our spirituality and not think

that spirituality is a thing of the past

but it is a thing of the present not to think that

the spirituality of the private sector

but the territory also public

we have to know that we deserve

much to the interior but we also deserve

much abroad

that clear material that if we deserve peace

we deserve security in the streets

we deserve a good couple we deserve

love we deserve a good education and

good information from the media

of clear communication that we do have to

start to change our chip if

we deserve

from that unconscious truth that

many have I do not deserve

we need to start changing the

I deserve and how we change the

negative truths of the human being as

we change the negative truths of being

human and three great formulas for

change the mind of a human being to

From all the studies I have

made in the last 15 years what

could understand that the first formula

to change the mind of a human being

First of all, be aware of what

he lives in his unconscious and after

use the great mantra of gratitude

the great virtue of gratitude the first

formula to change a belief

negative in the unconscious mind of the

human being is to help you bring

aware what lives in your

unconscious bring to light what lives

in the dark

many people are reluctant to me

very much like making the regressions to

people

I’ve been doing the regressions for 20 years

the people to take them to their childhood to

adolescence to youth for

understand when in your life you

it created a negative belief because

only bringing it the reality

bringing the conscious one can observe the

and change it as reprograms a

negative belief as reprograms unam

negative imprint of our past that

it is an imprint an imprint its

very powerful emotional experience in

our life that left a mark

indelible one imprint becomes three

great elements the moment the

meaning and emotion of japan is a

example of how an imprint works

imagine for a moment that you are a

7 year old girl you are chosen to dance in

representation of the classroom in a

interschool dance festival in the

school to be a single ticket to

invite someone from your house who is going to

dancing the girl goes running to her house and

he says his dad daddy daddy you’re my hero

I invite you to see me dance the country

It is clear that I am going to point it out and

tip

came the long-awaited day the girl has

prepared three months to dance before his

Dad does not care about the classmates

matter the teachers do not care about the

The girl wants to dance for her

dad goes out that day a scenario like

these and the first thing that the girl does not

is to listen to the music club to

start dancing is looking for your dad was

the familiar face that expects to see the

public is your club that sign

however, he turned to see it and not what

find

it is the moment that the girl is living

the human being does not suffer for what he lives

the human being does not enjoy what the

human being suffers or enjoys the

interpretation that gives what he lives and

that girl who can not find her dad in

the public is going to formulate a belief the

interpretation of the moment and she does not

can you analyze why your dad was not

for her if dad did not come is because dad

he does not love me and that provokes a truth in

his unconscious mind that is sown that

causes a bodily reaction that your

removal and the four emotions

negative can be blame sadness fear

or courage and that girl is going to take that

true that belief of dad does not love me

I am not accepted by Dad at 35 years

is going to stop a scenario like these

again your senses will capture

signs very similar to when I was a girl

and family the sev activate was going to start

throw eye signals eye you can

suffer again as we suffer in the

past and you do not know what’s happening

but unconscious and the best way to

reprogramming the mind is bringing the

present that imprint that moment of

pain and change the meaning as you

changed the interpretation of the meaning

something from a great word a

great powerful blanket that is thanks to

that moment I’m going

my best in something I became stronger in

something when you manage to find a

positive interpretation something that happened

in the past that I interpreted it as

negative you manage to reprogram your mind and

generate a new synaptic connection

cerebral and if you repeat it for twenty one

days a connection is going to form

synaptic and if that’s what you put a great

smile thank you daddy for not having gone

because thanks to that my strongest what

better in classes or link me more to me

mother who had her so abandoned

at the beginning the smile will be difficult

but then it will be much easier

the second formula to reprogram a

belief is through the decrees

because decrees arise from a belief

the decrees are orders that you give them

your body to your mind to search

something happen if I do not think

I deserve health

I’m going to be decreeing all the time

They bet that I eat badly, I will not go

to a place where I’m going to eat pure

junk, no, I’m going to get sick

because you are thinking that you do not deserve

health and what you are looking for through

find positive decrees is to generate

good habits always remember the

discipline is made of good habits and

good habits are made of acts of

love when you do everything you do

is born of love as a good act

start eating positive because you say

I want to give an act of love to my body

and my mind I want to have an act of love

in my room fixing things not

wants to bless food as a

act of love and you start to change the

decrees around your life and the

third way to change our

Beliefs is knowing how to pray

I explain they have taught us since childhood

to pray for something we have learned to

that while they pray, they thank

best way to pray is when you

you commit to what you ask of

God or the universe in clear your request

to the universe but clear topics your three

commitments to which you commit yourself to

achieve what they gdp

and when you visualize that you are

really doing and committed to

that request

eventually your reality changes

The best way to pray is to know us

worthy of sowing all

the days positive things

the best way to attract our life

great and positive things is knowing the

deserving from committing ourselves

with great many actions

thank you very much, yes, I deserve your

you deserve all we deserve

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