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How to build a new tomorrow for yourself | Sidra Iqbal | TEDxIslamabad


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we often know how a story begins and

we often know how a story begins and along the line we forget it so today I’d

along the line we forget it so today I’d

along the line we forget it so today I’d like to begin from the beginning this

like to begin from the beginning this

like to begin from the beginning this happy photograph was actually taken on

happy photograph was actually taken on

happy photograph was actually taken on 14th May 1999 that is the day when I won

14th May 1999 that is the day when I won

14th May 1999 that is the day when I won the english-speaking union’s

the english-speaking union’s

the english-speaking union’s international public speaking

international public speaking

international public speaking championship this was taken in London

championship this was taken in London

championship this was taken in London I’m wearing a royal blue velvet shalwar

I’m wearing a royal blue velvet shalwar

I’m wearing a royal blue velvet shalwar kameez that my mom specially made for

kameez that my mom specially made for

kameez that my mom specially made for the day and I’m smiling silly me 15 year

the day and I’m smiling silly me 15 year

the day and I’m smiling silly me 15 year old smiling ear-to-ear

old smiling ear-to-ear

old smiling ear-to-ear in spite of my braces that used to make

in spite of my braces that used to make

in spite of my braces that used to make me very very conscious it is the day

me very very conscious it is the day

me very very conscious it is the day when I became the first and the only

when I became the first and the only

when I became the first and the only Pakistani to have won this competition

Pakistani to have won this competition

Pakistani to have won this competition amongst 48 participants from 26

amongst 48 participants from 26

amongst 48 participants from 26 different countries and the same year in

different countries and the same year in

different countries and the same year in December I was invited to the Buckingham

December I was invited to the Buckingham

December I was invited to the Buckingham Palace to receive my winner’s

Palace to receive my winner’s

Palace to receive my winner’s certificate by His Royal Highness the

certificate by His Royal Highness the

certificate by His Royal Highness the Duke of Edinburgh Prince Bella

Duke of Edinburgh Prince Bella

Duke of Edinburgh Prince Bella not a lot of people get to remember but

not a lot of people get to remember but

not a lot of people get to remember but I can remember it vividly that this is

I can remember it vividly that this is

I can remember it vividly that this is the day and this is the achievement that

the day and this is the achievement that

the day and this is the achievement that transformed my life it transformed my

transformed my life it transformed my

transformed my life it transformed my life because for the first time I got to

life because for the first time I got to

life because for the first time I got to feel my purpose my power my voice the

feel my purpose my power my voice the

feel my purpose my power my voice the impact I can have in moving minds and in

impact I can have in moving minds and in

impact I can have in moving minds and in connecting hearts and then there was no

connecting hearts and then there was no

connecting hearts and then there was no looking back because this opportunity

looking back because this opportunity

looking back because this opportunity opened a number of new gates for me new

opened a number of new gates for me new

opened a number of new gates for me new opportunities for me and more

opportunities for me and more

opportunities for me and more importantly it gave me wings but that’s

importantly it gave me wings but that’s

importantly it gave me wings but that’s only half of the story the other half is

only half of the story the other half is

only half of the story the other half is where I’d like to take you I had my own

where I’d like to take you I had my own

where I’d like to take you I had my own unique set of challenges I am the eldest

unique set of challenges I am the eldest

unique set of challenges I am the eldest sister I have to do other sisters it’s

sister I have to do other sisters it’s

sister I have to do other sisters it’s an all-girls household an upper

an all-girls household an upper

an all-girls household an upper middle-class family and for my parents

middle-class family and for my parents

middle-class family and for my parents the biggest life investment is not land

the biggest life investment is not land

the biggest life investment is not land gold or saving bones but quality

gold or saving bones but quality

gold or saving bones but quality education for the three of us therefore

education for the three of us therefore

education for the three of us therefore I’m lucky that my family believed more

I’m lucky that my family believed more

I’m lucky that my family believed more in me than the societal stereotypes and

in me than the societal stereotypes and

in me than the societal stereotypes and the fears

the fears

the fears the people put in us but that came with

the people put in us but that came with

the people put in us but that came with the heavy responsibility of always being

the heavy responsibility of always being

the heavy responsibility of always being vigilant I needed to look out for myself

vigilant I needed to look out for myself

vigilant I needed to look out for myself and as I need that transition from my

and as I need that transition from my

and as I need that transition from my student life to my professional life the

student life to my professional life the

student life to my professional life the stakes got higher the barriers got

stakes got higher the barriers got

stakes got higher the barriers got tougher and of course the judgment

tougher and of course the judgment

tougher and of course the judgment became harsher when I look back I

became harsher when I look back I

became harsher when I look back I sometimes wonder what life had become

sometimes wonder what life had become

sometimes wonder what life had become you know the life that I knew then and I

you know the life that I knew then and I

you know the life that I knew then and I still do is riddled with with mind games

still do is riddled with with mind games

still do is riddled with with mind games with office politics with nepotism and

with office politics with nepotism and

with office politics with nepotism and heartbreaks

heartbreaks

heartbreaks I learned the hard way that some doors

I learned the hard way that some doors

I learned the hard way that some doors are going to close but through

are going to close but through

are going to close but through persistence and hard work many more will

persistence and hard work many more will

persistence and hard work many more will open life has continued to bless me I

open life has continued to bless me I

open life has continued to bless me I have had Fame abundance growth come my

have had Fame abundance growth come my

have had Fame abundance growth come my way alhamdulillah and today you know me

way alhamdulillah and today you know me

way alhamdulillah and today you know me as a as a well-known broadcast

as a as a well-known broadcast

as a as a well-known broadcast journalist as a successful professional

journalist as a successful professional

journalist as a successful professional as somebody who can who you deem worthy

as somebody who can who you deem worthy

as somebody who can who you deem worthy enough to invite to TEDx Islamabad so I

enough to invite to TEDx Islamabad so I

enough to invite to TEDx Islamabad so I can speak to you but let me divorce

can speak to you but let me divorce

can speak to you but let me divorce myself from the shiny success you know

myself from the shiny success you know

myself from the shiny success you know this is my store Stream Li proud of it I

this is my store Stream Li proud of it I

this is my store Stream Li proud of it I would never do anything another way the

would never do anything another way the

would never do anything another way the way I have done it but more importantly

way I have done it but more importantly

way I have done it but more importantly when I look around I see that success

when I look around I see that success

when I look around I see that success stories are doing something detrimental

stories are doing something detrimental

stories are doing something detrimental success stories us are you ignite in you

success stories us are you ignite in you

success stories us are you ignite in you this this go-getter attitude but you

this this go-getter attitude but you

this this go-getter attitude but you want to just break the barriers live

want to just break the barriers live

want to just break the barriers live your dreams and be the person the shiny

your dreams and be the person the shiny

your dreams and be the person the shiny person that you want you’re you know

person that you want you’re you know

person that you want you’re you know that you’ve seen your role model to

that you’ve seen your role model to

that you’ve seen your role model to become but in that quest in that mission

become but in that quest in that mission

become but in that quest in that mission we sometimes gloss over the struggles

we sometimes gloss over the struggles

we sometimes gloss over the struggles and the pains you don’t tell you about

and the pains you don’t tell you about

and the pains you don’t tell you about them and to the point that we sometimes

them and to the point that we sometimes

them and to the point that we sometimes glorify them to be superhuman none of us

glorify them to be superhuman none of us

glorify them to be superhuman none of us are superhumans we’ve all had our

are superhumans we’ve all had our

are superhumans we’ve all had our struggles but what is this culture the

struggles but what is this culture the

struggles but what is this culture the culture that we are breathing in

culture that we are breathing in

culture that we are breathing in Pakistan is all about irresponsible

Pakistan is all about irresponsible

Pakistan is all about irresponsible glorification of imbalanced work lives

glorification of imbalanced work lives

glorification of imbalanced work lives you are asked to become risk-averse this

you are asked to become risk-averse this

you are asked to become risk-averse this personality worship you are too

personality worship you are too

personality worship you are too over and over again about personal

over and over again about personal

over and over again about personal choices being the most glorious of

choices being the most glorious of

choices being the most glorious of sacrifices and you can’t really match up

sacrifices and you can’t really match up

sacrifices and you can’t really match up this is a culture where unfortunately

this is a culture where unfortunately

this is a culture where unfortunately personal happiness has come laughs now

personal happiness has come laughs now

personal happiness has come laughs now passion has taken a backseat to duty and

passion has taken a backseat to duty and

passion has taken a backseat to duty and duty as leaving no room for mistake in

duty as leaving no room for mistake in

duty as leaving no room for mistake in fact mistakes and failure become

fact mistakes and failure become

fact mistakes and failure become lifelong shame so what does that do for

lifelong shame so what does that do for

lifelong shame so what does that do for young people I feel that you’re pushed

young people I feel that you’re pushed

young people I feel that you’re pushed into this really unfair delusional race

into this really unfair delusional race

into this really unfair delusional race to success in equipping you to actually

to success in equipping you to actually

to success in equipping you to actually harness risks you’re unable to actually

harness risks you’re unable to actually

harness risks you’re unable to actually face fear and failure so in my talk

face fear and failure so in my talk

face fear and failure so in my talk today dear friend like to focus exactly

today dear friend like to focus exactly

today dear friend like to focus exactly on that the new tomorrow that you and I

on that the new tomorrow that you and I

on that the new tomorrow that you and I both have to face after a setback what

both have to face after a setback what

both have to face after a setback what happened is an taste failure do you give

happened is an taste failure do you give

happened is an taste failure do you give up how do you put yourself up again how

up how do you put yourself up again how

up how do you put yourself up again how do you pick up the broken pieces of your

do you pick up the broken pieces of your

do you pick up the broken pieces of your shattered self glue them together and

shattered self glue them together and

shattered self glue them together and become functional how do you go back to

become functional how do you go back to

become functional how do you go back to being your inspired self when you’re

being your inspired self when you’re

being your inspired self when you’re lost in this is all else doubt pain and

lost in this is all else doubt pain and

lost in this is all else doubt pain and loneliness well that’s the topic that’s

loneliness well that’s the topic that’s

loneliness well that’s the topic that’s the subject but I feel that at the heart

the subject but I feel that at the heart

the subject but I feel that at the heart of all these questions are two

of all these questions are two

of all these questions are two fundamental elements the elements of

fundamental elements the elements of

fundamental elements the elements of success and happiness and then I say

success and happiness and then I say

success and happiness and then I say that as a society we have actually

that as a society we have actually

that as a society we have actually misunderstood the relationship between

misunderstood the relationship between

misunderstood the relationship between the two we believe and we you are

the two we believe and we you are

the two we believe and we you are actually propagated to believe that

actually propagated to believe that

actually propagated to believe that success is going to make you happen a

success is going to make you happen a

success is going to make you happen a success creates happiness that is

success creates happiness that is

success creates happiness that is floored my friends happiness on the

floored my friends happiness on the

floored my friends happiness on the other hand does have a chance in

other hand does have a chance in

other hand does have a chance in creating success I’ll give you an

creating success I’ll give you an

creating success I’ll give you an example winning a championship backing a

example winning a championship backing a

example winning a championship backing a big project being famous or buying a new

big project being famous or buying a new

big project being famous or buying a new car and all this can make me happy but

car and all this can make me happy but

car and all this can make me happy but yes if I’m relaxed if I’m joyful if I’m

yes if I’m relaxed if I’m joyful if I’m

yes if I’m relaxed if I’m joyful if I’m Pleasant if I really enjoy what I do

Pleasant if I really enjoy what I do

Pleasant if I really enjoy what I do I have a better chance of winning all

I have a better chance of winning all

I have a better chance of winning all these things of achieving them and

these things of achieving them and

these things of achieving them and actually enjoying them so somewhere

actually enjoying them so somewhere

actually enjoying them so somewhere along the line Society came up with this

along the line Society came up with this

along the line Society came up with this really faulty equation that wealth Fame

really faulty equation that wealth Fame

really faulty equation that wealth Fame and success equals to happiness what did

and success equals to happiness what did

and success equals to happiness what did it learn does is it creates a lot of

it learn does is it creates a lot of

it learn does is it creates a lot of pressure on you it creates the pressure

pressure on you it creates the pressure

pressure on you it creates the pressure to seek acceptance to seek security and

to seek acceptance to seek security and

to seek acceptance to seek security and to gain control another question comes

to gain control another question comes

to gain control another question comes to mind when you are pressured like that

to mind when you are pressured like that

to mind when you are pressured like that as normal human beings you’re more prone

as normal human beings you’re more prone

as normal human beings you’re more prone to falter when you are pressurized and

to falter when you are pressurized and

to falter when you are pressurized and we see examples of that every day

we see examples of that every day

we see examples of that every day pilots crash divers drown leaders take

pilots crash divers drown leaders take

pilots crash divers drown leaders take detrimental decisions such as going to

detrimental decisions such as going to

detrimental decisions such as going to war all of this and then we turn around

war all of this and then we turn around

war all of this and then we turn around and we say you know what they panicked

and we say you know what they panicked

and we say you know what they panicked they chose one of the key questions that

they chose one of the key questions that

they chose one of the key questions that comes to mind is what about the way they

comes to mind is what about the way they

comes to mind is what about the way they failed does that not say something about

failed does that not say something about

failed does that not say something about us it’s all failure alike or the way we

us it’s all failure alike or the way we

us it’s all failure alike or the way we fail actually tells us something about

fail actually tells us something about

fail actually tells us something about who we are and how we think ladies and

who we are and how we think ladies and

who we are and how we think ladies and gentlemen when you talk about failure it

gentlemen when you talk about failure it

gentlemen when you talk about failure it is easy to club it and say that’s it but

is easy to club it and say that’s it but

is easy to club it and say that’s it but more importantly I would like to take

more importantly I would like to take

more importantly I would like to take you to one of my most favorite sayings

you to one of my most favorite sayings

you to one of my most favorite sayings about success this is by Winston

about success this is by Winston

about success this is by Winston Churchill somebody I think one operator

Churchill somebody I think one operator

Churchill somebody I think one operator and he say his success is stumbling from

and he say his success is stumbling from

and he say his success is stumbling from failure to failure without the loss of

failure to failure without the loss of

failure to failure without the loss of enthusiasm how do you do that the

enthusiasm how do you do that the

enthusiasm how do you do that the mystery question is that I think even

mystery question is that I think even

mystery question is that I think even before we get to how we do it let’s

before we get to how we do it let’s

before we get to how we do it let’s stick to one part and perhaps agree on

stick to one part and perhaps agree on

stick to one part and perhaps agree on it the agreement I seek is that when we

it the agreement I seek is that when we

it the agreement I seek is that when we talk about failure we have misunderstood

talk about failure we have misunderstood

talk about failure we have misunderstood it we see it to be the opposite of

it we see it to be the opposite of

it we see it to be the opposite of success failure in fact is part of the

success failure in fact is part of the

success failure in fact is part of the journey you fail when you are trying to

journey you fail when you are trying to

journey you fail when you are trying to avoid failure so therefore it’s really

avoid failure so therefore it’s really

avoid failure so therefore it’s really important to come up with a with a

important to come up with a with a

important to come up with a with a strategy where you’re able to actually

strategy where you’re able to actually

strategy where you’re able to actually bounce back and I in my life have been

bounce back and I in my life have been

bounce back and I in my life have been helped by three three ways of doing that

helped by three three ways of doing that

helped by three three ways of doing that and I’d like to share them with

and I’d like to share them with

and I’d like to share them with the three remain are reminders must try

the three remain are reminders must try

the three remain are reminders must try and your mind to I think the hardest

and your mind to I think the hardest

and your mind to I think the hardest thing is breaking yourself up but these

thing is breaking yourself up but these

thing is breaking yourself up but these reminders can really help the first one

reminders can really help the first one

reminders can really help the first one if you live the people’s acceptance you

if you live the people’s acceptance you

if you live the people’s acceptance you are going to die of their rejection the

are going to die of their rejection the

are going to die of their rejection the first question to ask yourselves when

first question to ask yourselves when

first question to ask yourselves when you fail or when you think you are a

you fail or when you think you are a

you fail or when you think you are a failure is what did is exactly fail at

failure is what did is exactly fail at

failure is what did is exactly fail at is it even my own dream or is it a

is it even my own dream or is it a

is it even my own dream or is it a borrowed belief system that I have

borrowed belief system that I have

borrowed belief system that I have acquired and I’m trying to live up to it

acquired and I’m trying to live up to it

acquired and I’m trying to live up to it because you’re most likely to fail and

because you’re most likely to fail and

because you’re most likely to fail and hurt yourself when you are trying to

hurt yourself when you are trying to

hurt yourself when you are trying to please people when you’re trying to cut

please people when you’re trying to cut

please people when you’re trying to cut yourself up to try and fit their

yourself up to try and fit their

yourself up to try and fit their definition of success are you slogging

definition of success are you slogging

definition of success are you slogging away in a corporate prison not getting

away in a corporate prison not getting

away in a corporate prison not getting your promotion not getting the right

your promotion not getting the right

your promotion not getting the right opportunity when in your heart of hearts

opportunity when in your heart of hearts

opportunity when in your heart of hearts you have a wonderful idea and in your

you have a wonderful idea and in your

you have a wonderful idea and in your free time your mind wanders to that and

free time your mind wanders to that and

free time your mind wanders to that and you wish that you could put it in action

you wish that you could put it in action

you wish that you could put it in action are you trying to be rich enough thin

are you trying to be rich enough thin

are you trying to be rich enough thin enough fair enough gray low enough or

enough fair enough gray low enough or

enough fair enough gray low enough or whatever enough it may be because people

whatever enough it may be because people

whatever enough it may be because people tell you that’s how you’re going to be

tell you that’s how you’re going to be

tell you that’s how you’re going to be accepted that’s what’s going to make you

accepted that’s what’s going to make you

accepted that’s what’s going to make you more worthy the big question my friends

more worthy the big question my friends

more worthy the big question my friends is to know the difference that’s not

is to know the difference that’s not

is to know the difference that’s not failure that is self-sabotage because

failure that is self-sabotage because

failure that is self-sabotage because you’re trying to please people and

you’re trying to please people and

you’re trying to please people and that’s an uphill task you’re bound to

that’s an uphill task you’re bound to

that’s an uphill task you’re bound to fail at the second reminder we’re more

fail at the second reminder we’re more

fail at the second reminder we’re more frightened than we are hurt we suffer

frightened than we are hurt we suffer

frightened than we are hurt we suffer more often in imagination than in

more often in imagination than in

more often in imagination than in reality

reality

reality please remember this you know perception

please remember this you know perception

please remember this you know perception is everything

is everything

is everything perspective is everything when you look

perspective is everything when you look

perspective is everything when you look around and you’re feeling down in the

around and you’re feeling down in the

around and you’re feeling down in the dumps and you’re like okay I feel like a

dumps and you’re like okay I feel like a

dumps and you’re like okay I feel like a failure I feel stressed I feel

failure I feel stressed I feel

failure I feel stressed I feel frustrated I feel trapped

frustrated I feel trapped

frustrated I feel trapped please remember that what you have

please remember that what you have

please remember that what you have recognized is that this is a habit of

recognized is that this is a habit of

recognized is that this is a habit of emotion it’s just like working out what

emotion it’s just like working out what

emotion it’s just like working out what you get used to what you tolerate you

you get used to what you tolerate you

you get used to what you tolerate you get more of it and you will become used

get more of it and you will become used

get more of it and you will become used to a bit words my friends are very very

to a bit words my friends are very very

to a bit words my friends are very very powerful they’re magically powerful they

powerful they’re magically powerful they

powerful they’re magically powerful they can make you love or hate laugh or cry

can make you love or hate laugh or cry

can make you love or hate laugh or cry fight or run away so you can either be

fight or run away so you can either be

fight or run away so you can either be stressed or you be strong

stressed or you be strong

stressed or you be strong you can either be frustrated or you be

you can either be frustrated or you be

you can either be frustrated or you be passionate it’s like working out going

passionate it’s like working out going

passionate it’s like working out going to the gym it’s like a muscle so

to the gym it’s like a muscle so

to the gym it’s like a muscle so practice it harness it as much as you

practice it harness it as much as you

practice it harness it as much as you can

can

can the third reminder it’s not failure but

the third reminder it’s not failure but

the third reminder it’s not failure but the low aim that is the crime very

the low aim that is the crime very

the low aim that is the crime very important reminder when you look around

important reminder when you look around

important reminder when you look around and if you if you look at what exactly

and if you if you look at what exactly

and if you if you look at what exactly have you failed you need to understand

have you failed you need to understand

have you failed you need to understand how personal it is to you is it

how personal it is to you is it

how personal it is to you is it something that you set out to do for

something that you set out to do for

something that you set out to do for yourself because if you’re only focused

yourself because if you’re only focused

yourself because if you’re only focused on your personal gain you’re more likely

on your personal gain you’re more likely

on your personal gain you’re more likely to have bad days you’re more likely to

to have bad days you’re more likely to

to have bad days you’re more likely to look back and say oh that didn’t work

look back and say oh that didn’t work

look back and say oh that didn’t work out I didn’t win that contract but when

out I didn’t win that contract but when

out I didn’t win that contract but when you’re trying to serve something much

you’re trying to serve something much

you’re trying to serve something much larger than yourself when you attach

larger than yourself when you attach

larger than yourself when you attach yourself to that divine post when you’re

yourself to that divine post when you’re

yourself to that divine post when you’re trying to serve your community when

trying to serve your community when

trying to serve your community when you’re trying to serve humanity when

you’re trying to serve humanity when

you’re trying to serve humanity when you’re trying to make a dent in the

you’re trying to make a dent in the

you’re trying to make a dent in the market or in the universe at large

market or in the universe at large

market or in the universe at large that’s when you tap into this infinite

that’s when you tap into this infinite

that’s when you tap into this infinite resource of zeal or insight of

resource of zeal or insight of

resource of zeal or insight of inspiration and even if you fail at that

inspiration and even if you fail at that

inspiration and even if you fail at that whether whether aim that high with an

whether whether aim that high with an

whether whether aim that high with an attempt that glorious even failing is

attempt that glorious even failing is

attempt that glorious even failing is amazing so I want you to remember these

amazing so I want you to remember these

amazing so I want you to remember these three points which have helped me and I

three points which have helped me and I

three points which have helped me and I feel that it’s an ongoing journey

feel that it’s an ongoing journey

feel that it’s an ongoing journey sometimes people turn around and ask me

sometimes people turn around and ask me

sometimes people turn around and ask me said oh do you not have a bad day do you

said oh do you not have a bad day do you

said oh do you not have a bad day do you not have a frustrated day where you just

not have a frustrated day where you just

not have a frustrated day where you just want to quit it all of course I do but

want to quit it all of course I do but

want to quit it all of course I do but that used to be my address that way I’ve

that used to be my address that way I’ve

that used to be my address that way I’ve moved and I urge you all to move as well

moved and I urge you all to move as well

moved and I urge you all to move as well be a go-getter

be a go-getter

be a go-getter and not be the person who gets bogged

and not be the person who gets bogged

and not be the person who gets bogged down by failure in the end I want you to

down by failure in the end I want you to

down by failure in the end I want you to take a look at this magnificent picture

take a look at this magnificent picture

take a look at this magnificent picture it’s that of a solar eclipse and this

it’s that of a solar eclipse and this

it’s that of a solar eclipse and this was taken on the 21st of August 2:17 big

was taken on the 21st of August 2:17 big

was taken on the 21st of August 2:17 big event you know people started to talk

event you know people started to talk

event you know people started to talk about it and it got me thinking it got

about it and it got me thinking it got

about it and it got me thinking it got me thinking that every failure every

me thinking that every failure every

me thinking that every failure every heartbreak every setback is actually

heartbreak every setback is actually

heartbreak every setback is actually like a solar eclipse

like a solar eclipse

like a solar eclipse imagine this in the sky of our being the

imagine this in the sky of our being the

imagine this in the sky of our being the Sun represents our passions our dreams

Sun represents our passions our dreams

Sun represents our passions our dreams our true desires and suddenly it’s dark

our true desires and suddenly it’s dark

our true desires and suddenly it’s dark it’s all goes away

it’s all goes away

it’s all goes away but you remember that glimpse that light

but you remember that glimpse that light

but you remember that glimpse that light which basically illuminates all these

which basically illuminates all these

which basically illuminates all these wonderful things to your imagination and

wonderful things to your imagination and

wonderful things to your imagination and you want to go for it the intensity of

you want to go for it the intensity of

you want to go for it the intensity of your desire is also exactly like the Sun

your desire is also exactly like the Sun

your desire is also exactly like the Sun it can burn you it can blind you it can

it can burn you it can blind you it can

it can burn you it can blind you it can give you the unquenchable thirst and it

give you the unquenchable thirst and it

give you the unquenchable thirst and it can also builder you to a point where

can also builder you to a point where

can also builder you to a point where you start seeing mirages just like a

you start seeing mirages just like a

you start seeing mirages just like a madman but more importantly do you know

madman but more importantly do you know

madman but more importantly do you know that the word Eclipse in English

that the word Eclipse in English

that the word Eclipse in English actually has a descendant in Greek

actually has a descendant in Greek

actually has a descendant in Greek eclipses see and amongst all the words

eclipses see and amongst all the words

eclipses see and amongst all the words that Eclipse he can mean one of the

that Eclipse he can mean one of the

that Eclipse he can mean one of the things and inant so when you have failed

things and inant so when you have failed

things and inant so when you have failed or you feel that your face has said bad

or you feel that your face has said bad

or you feel that your face has said bad it’s that abandonment your son has gone

it’s that abandonment your son has gone

it’s that abandonment your son has gone away and that Sun is that fireball that

away and that Sun is that fireball that

away and that Sun is that fireball that nut that anchors in an otherwise cold

nut that anchors in an otherwise cold

nut that anchors in an otherwise cold cosmic world of course it’s gonna hurt

cosmic world of course it’s gonna hurt

cosmic world of course it’s gonna hurt but in that moment I just want you to

but in that moment I just want you to

but in that moment I just want you to remember this analogy and know that you

remember this analogy and know that you

remember this analogy and know that you have not been doomed you have not been

have not been doomed you have not been

have not been doomed you have not been banished to a horrific permanent kind of

banished to a horrific permanent kind of

banished to a horrific permanent kind of darkness but in fact it’s a temporary

darkness but in fact it’s a temporary

darkness but in fact it’s a temporary shadow oh wait the murky Gray’s are

shadow oh wait the murky Gray’s are

shadow oh wait the murky Gray’s are going to live the only thing you need to

going to live the only thing you need to

going to live the only thing you need to remember is in that moment with all the

remember is in that moment with all the

remember is in that moment with all the devotion that you can muster with all

devotion that you can muster with all

devotion that you can muster with all the reverence that you can have with all

the reverence that you can have with all

the reverence that you can have with all the dedication that you can have commit

the dedication that you can have commit

the dedication that you can have commit yourself to something that you love

yourself to something that you love

yourself to something that you love because when we talk about success you

because when we talk about success you

because when we talk about success you think of bright and shiny things

think of bright and shiny things

think of bright and shiny things if you want to shine like the Sun you

if you want to shine like the Sun you

if you want to shine like the Sun you first have to burn like the Sun thank

first have to burn like the Sun thank

first have to burn like the Sun thank you

you

you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] you

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