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How to break the cycle of period poverty | Laura Niehorster | TEDxSwanseaWomen


I bet most of the people in this room

I bet most of the people in this room have come on your period unexpectedly

have come on your period unexpectedly

have come on your period unexpectedly I ran at a period products while even

I ran at a period products while even

I ran at a period products while even out at some point in your lives I know I

out at some point in your lives I know I

out at some point in your lives I know I have men in the room before you stripped

have men in the room before you stripped

have men in the room before you stripped off because you think this doesn’t apply

off because you think this doesn’t apply

off because you think this doesn’t apply to you I can almost guarantee that

to you I can almost guarantee that

to you I can almost guarantee that someone that you care about has been

someone that you care about has been

someone that you care about has been affected by something like this whether

affected by something like this whether

affected by something like this whether it was your sister daughter wife

it was your sister daughter wife

it was your sister daughter wife girlfriend friend or colleague and the

girlfriend friend or colleague and the

girlfriend friend or colleague and the worst fit for them was probably that

worst fit for them was probably that

worst fit for them was probably that they were suffering in silence I

they were suffering in silence I

they were suffering in silence I couldn’t talk to you about that sir

couldn’t talk to you about that sir

couldn’t talk to you about that sir so back to the women what did you do in

so back to the women what did you do in

so back to the women what did you do in that situation when you realized you out

that situation when you realized you out

that situation when you realized you out without any period product so if you in

without any period product so if you in

without any period product so if you in work I’m guessing you would have asked a

work I’m guessing you would have asked a

work I’m guessing you would have asked a colleague but probably not just any

colleague but probably not just any

colleague but probably not just any colleague probably one you could trust

colleague probably one you could trust

colleague probably one you could trust to be discreet sir and then did you call

to be discreet sir and then did you call

to be discreet sir and then did you call you a period buy it from your name or

you a period buy it from your name or

you a period buy it from your name or did you use euphemism and then did you

did you use euphemism and then did you

did you use euphemism and then did you hide them out store product up your

hide them out store product up your

hide them out store product up your sleeve when you went to the toilet sir

sleeve when you went to the toilet sir

sleeve when you went to the toilet sir but what about if you out by yourself

but what about if you out by yourself

but what about if you out by yourself did you just use some tissue as an

did you just use some tissue as an

did you just use some tissue as an emergency matter how did you feel

emergency matter how did you feel

emergency matter how did you feel differently when you’re using that

differently when you’re using that

differently when you’re using that tissue did you feel as safe and secure

tissue did you feel as safe and secure

tissue did you feel as safe and secure as you normally do or did you just leave

as you normally do or did you just leave

as you normally do or did you just leave a few of your jobs unfinished and

a few of your jobs unfinished and

a few of your jobs unfinished and washing a bit quicker than normal what

washing a bit quicker than normal what

washing a bit quicker than normal what if that tissue wasn’t for emergencies

if that tissue wasn’t for emergencies

if that tissue wasn’t for emergencies what if you had to use tissue every time

what if you had to use tissue every time

what if you had to use tissue every time you had your period because you couldn’t

you had your period because you couldn’t

you had your period because you couldn’t afford menstral products would you still

afford menstral products would you still

afford menstral products would you still see your friends while you’re on your

see your friends while you’re on your

see your friends while you’re on your period soon or would you be too worried

period soon or would you be too worried

period soon or would you be too worried that you smell orally what about work in

that you smell orally what about work in

that you smell orally what about work in school would you be tempted to just call

school would you be tempted to just call

school would you be tempted to just call in sick for a few days a month so you

in sick for a few days a month so you

in sick for a few days a month so you didn’t have that extra stress but just a

didn’t have that extra stress but just a

didn’t have that extra stress but just a person’s example a little bit further

person’s example a little bit further

person’s example a little bit further have you ever had to choose between up

have you ever had to choose between up

have you ever had to choose between up buying food and buying mental products

buying food and buying mental products

buying food and buying mental products what if you had to

what if you had to

what if you had to between buying food for your children

between buying food for your children

between buying food for your children and buying Metzler products for yourself

and buying Metzler products for yourself

and buying Metzler products for yourself it’s pretty obvious which one you pick

it’s pretty obvious which one you pick

it’s pretty obvious which one you pick isn’t that sir

isn’t that sir

isn’t that sir there are some women in the UK you have

there are some women in the UK you have

there are some women in the UK you have to make that choice every month so every

to make that choice every month so every

to make that choice every month so every time an article about period poverty is

time an article about period poverty is

time an article about period poverty is published the comments underneath show

published the comments underneath show

published the comments underneath show that we still have a huge lack of

that we still have a huge lack of

that we still have a huge lack of understanding of the reality of period

understanding of the reality of period

understanding of the reality of period poverty because the reality is that

poverty because the reality is that

poverty because the reality is that these women aren’t spending their money

these women aren’t spending their money

these women aren’t spending their money on cigarettes and hair dye that’s not

on cigarettes and hair dye that’s not

on cigarettes and hair dye that’s not why they can’t afford menstrual products

why they can’t afford menstrual products

why they can’t afford menstrual products but I think this is symptomatic of a

but I think this is symptomatic of a

but I think this is symptomatic of a larger issue because when we don’t talk

larger issue because when we don’t talk

larger issue because when we don’t talk about something we don’t understand it

about something we don’t understand it

about something we don’t understand it and when we don’t understand something

and when we don’t understand something

and when we don’t understand something we make assumptions because we’re still

we make assumptions because we’re still

we make assumptions because we’re still not talking about period poverty enough

not talking about period poverty enough

not talking about period poverty enough we don’t know things like why it’s such

we don’t know things like why it’s such

we don’t know things like why it’s such a big problem or the number of people

a big problem or the number of people

a big problem or the number of people that are affected by it so because if

that are affected by it so because if

that are affected by it so because if you’re not if a minimum of 300,000 women

you’re not if a minimum of 300,000 women

you’re not if a minimum of 300,000 women couldn’t afford food at some point last

couldn’t afford food at some point last

couldn’t afford food at some point last year they probably couldn’t afford

year they probably couldn’t afford

year they probably couldn’t afford menstrual products either these 300,000

menstrual products either these 300,000

menstrual products either these 300,000 women are all over the UK and you meet

women are all over the UK and you meet

women are all over the UK and you meet them every day their children go to

them every day their children go to

them every day their children go to school with your children they scan your

school with your children they scan your

school with your children they scan your shopping in the supermarket so they

shopping in the supermarket so they

shopping in the supermarket so they drink in the same pub as you and they

drink in the same pub as you and they

drink in the same pub as you and they walk my dog in the same park as you

walk my dog in the same park as you

walk my dog in the same park as you because period poverty’s are hidden

because period poverty’s are hidden

because period poverty’s are hidden indeed we don’t know who is affected sir

indeed we don’t know who is affected sir

indeed we don’t know who is affected sir but these women have normal lives with

but these women have normal lives with

but these women have normal lives with houses jobs and Families they just find

houses jobs and Families they just find

houses jobs and Families they just find it difficult to afford the everyday

it difficult to afford the everyday

it difficult to afford the everyday essentials like food rent and bills so

essentials like food rent and bills so

essentials like food rent and bills so but the problem with period poverty is

but the problem with period poverty is

but the problem with period poverty is that it makes them even more hidden

that it makes them even more hidden

that it makes them even more hidden while they’re on their period they’re

while they’re on their period they’re

while they’re on their period they’re missing out on school work and seeing

missing out on school work and seeing

missing out on school work and seeing their friends because they don’t feel

their friends because they don’t feel

their friends because they don’t feel safe leaving the house without proper

safe leaving the house without proper

safe leaving the house without proper mental

mental

mental products they’re missing out on creating

products they’re missing out on creating

products they’re missing out on creating connections they’re missing out on an

connections they’re missing out on an

connections they’re missing out on an education and a chance for a better

education and a chance for a better

education and a chance for a better future they’re missing out on earning a

future they’re missing out on earning a

future they’re missing out on earning a living and progressing in their careers

living and progressing in their careers

living and progressing in their careers not having regular access to proper

not having regular access to proper

not having regular access to proper mental products is taking their

mental products is taking their

mental products is taking their independence away from them I think the

independence away from them I think the

independence away from them I think the long-term solution to period poverty is

long-term solution to period poverty is

long-term solution to period poverty is a little-known product that’s only

a little-known product that’s only

a little-known product that’s only really used by the very environmentally

really used by the very environmentally

really used by the very environmentally conscious at the moment I discovered

conscious at the moment I discovered

conscious at the moment I discovered reusable sanitary pads when I was

reusable sanitary pads when I was

reusable sanitary pads when I was preparing to go backpacking around Asia

preparing to go backpacking around Asia

preparing to go backpacking around Asia I wanted a product like a trust to use

I wanted a product like a trust to use

I wanted a product like a trust to use for the whole year but I was away

for the whole year but I was away

for the whole year but I was away reusable sign actually pads no can work

reusable sign actually pads no can work

reusable sign actually pads no can work like disposables

like disposables

like disposables but they’re made of fabric and you can

but they’re made of fabric and you can

but they’re made of fabric and you can wash them reuse them they’re much more

wash them reuse them they’re much more

wash them reuse them they’re much more sustainable than disposable because they

sustainable than disposable because they

sustainable than disposable because they last three to five years so once you

last three to five years so once you

last three to five years so once you have a whole set you don’t need to buy

have a whole set you don’t need to buy

have a whole set you don’t need to buy anymore period products for five years

anymore period products for five years

anymore period products for five years that sounds pretty good doesn’t matter

reusable sanitary pads are better for

reusable sanitary pads are better for everyone they can help us reduce our

everyone they can help us reduce our

everyone they can help us reduce our period waste way up to 97% so they’re

period waste way up to 97% so they’re

period waste way up to 97% so they’re much more comfortable to wear than

much more comfortable to wear than

much more comfortable to wear than disposables because they’re not made

disposables because they’re not made

disposables because they’re not made with chemicals or plastic they can get

with chemicals or plastic they can get

with chemicals or plastic they can get into our bodies they make us all more

into our bodies they make us all more

into our bodies they make us all more self-reliant and put our money into more

self-reliant and put our money into more

self-reliant and put our money into more ethical local businesses reusable

ethical local businesses reusable

ethical local businesses reusable sanitary pads a rebellion against

sanitary pads a rebellion against

sanitary pads a rebellion against commercial disposable pads which

commercial disposable pads which

commercial disposable pads which teachers to be ashamed of our periods

teachers to be ashamed of our periods

teachers to be ashamed of our periods and that our priority should be hiding

and that our priority should be hiding

and that our priority should be hiding them

them

them reusable sanitary pads can be a tool for

reusable sanitary pads can be a tool for

reusable sanitary pads can be a tool for us to get more comfortable with our

us to get more comfortable with our

us to get more comfortable with our bodies and understand them better access

bodies and understand them better access

bodies and understand them better access to donations of reusable sanitary pads

to donations of reusable sanitary pads

to donations of reusable sanitary pads could give women in poverty a chance to

could give women in poverty a chance to

could give women in poverty a chance to save that five pounds of medicine and at

save that five pounds of medicine and at

save that five pounds of medicine and at the end of the year they’d have the

the end of the year they’d have the

the end of the year they’d have the equivalent of nectar food shot left

but reusable sanitary pads are a big

but reusable sanitary pads are a big leap of faith for some people I had a

leap of faith for some people I had a

leap of faith for some people I had a lot of concerns about the ones I bought

lot of concerns about the ones I bought

lot of concerns about the ones I bought for myself two years ago I didn’t know

for myself two years ago I didn’t know

for myself two years ago I didn’t know if they’d be comfortable if they’d

if they’d be comfortable if they’d

if they’d be comfortable if they’d actually absorb everything and I was

actually absorb everything and I was

actually absorb everything and I was kind of worried I’d feel like I was

kind of worried I’d feel like I was

kind of worried I’d feel like I was wearing a nappy between my legs so I

wearing a nappy between my legs so I

wearing a nappy between my legs so I created my social enterprise pride paths

created my social enterprise pride paths

created my social enterprise pride paths to bring reusable sanitary pads to the

to bring reusable sanitary pads to the

to bring reusable sanitary pads to the mainstream and to address the worry is

mainstream and to address the worry is

mainstream and to address the worry is that anyone who’s new to reusables might

that anyone who’s new to reusables might

that anyone who’s new to reusables might have I’ve used the skills I learned from

have I’ve used the skills I learned from

have I’ve used the skills I learned from working in the fashion industry to

working in the fashion industry to

working in the fashion industry to create every year for sanitary pad

create every year for sanitary pad

create every year for sanitary pad that’s easy to use easy to wash and easy

that’s easy to use easy to wash and easy

that’s easy to use easy to wash and easy to understand but women like me who I’ve

to understand but women like me who I’ve

to understand but women like me who I’ve been privileged who have financially

been privileged who have financially

been privileged who have financially privileged they’ve had a good education

privileged they’ve had a good education

privileged they’ve had a good education and I have supported family and friends

and I have supported family and friends

and I have supported family and friends I wanted to give them another way to

I wanted to give them another way to

I wanted to give them another way to reduce their effect on the environment

reduce their effect on the environment

reduce their effect on the environment and who women in poverty I wanted to

and who women in poverty I wanted to

and who women in poverty I wanted to show them that reusable sanitary pads

show them that reusable sanitary pads

show them that reusable sanitary pads like so many other ethical and

like so many other ethical and

like so many other ethical and eco-friendly products aren’t just an

eco-friendly products aren’t just an

eco-friendly products aren’t just an elitist product for the middle class but

elitist product for the middle class but

elitist product for the middle class but they can help them too so if we look at

they can help them too so if we look at

they can help them too so if we look at the amount of people but access to

the amount of people but access to

the amount of people but access to donations are reusable sanitary pads

donations are reusable sanitary pads

donations are reusable sanitary pads could help it might seem like a small

could help it might seem like a small

could help it might seem like a small slice of the population but if we step

slice of the population but if we step

slice of the population but if we step back a little bit and look at the bigger

back a little bit and look at the bigger

back a little bit and look at the bigger picture and look at the look at how

picture and look at the look at how

picture and look at the look at how that’s more slice of the population can

that’s more slice of the population can

that’s more slice of the population can affect the rest of society then we’ll

affect the rest of society then we’ll

affect the rest of society then we’ll see the real affects reasonable sanitary

see the real affects reasonable sanitary

see the real affects reasonable sanitary pads can help because what reusable

pads can help because what reusable

pads can help because what reusable sanitary pads are really doing is

sanitary pads are really doing is

sanitary pads are really doing is empowering women in poverty and the

empowering women in poverty and the

empowering women in poverty and the effective empowered women can be massive

effective empowered women can be massive

effective empowered women can be massive when women are more active in the

when women are more active in the

when women are more active in the workforce and society they’re more

workforce and society they’re more

workforce and society they’re more likely to get involved in politics

likely to get involved in politics

likely to get involved in politics and fight for local issues and the

and fight for local issues and the

and fight for local issues and the economy grows at a faster rate empowered

economy grows at a faster rate empowered

economy grows at a faster rate empowered educated mothers and more likely to

educated mothers and more likely to

educated mothers and more likely to spend more the household income and

spend more the household income and

spend more the household income and their children and they’re more likely

their children and they’re more likely

their children and they’re more likely to raise healthy children who stay in

to raise healthy children who stay in

to raise healthy children who stay in school longer and the cycle will

school longer and the cycle will

school longer and the cycle will continue they’re healthy educated

continue they’re healthy educated

continue they’re healthy educated children who’ve had a good family life

children who’ve had a good family life

children who’ve had a good family life and more likely to boost the economy

and more likely to boost the economy

and more likely to boost the economy themselves and less likely to end up in

themselves and less likely to end up in

themselves and less likely to end up in poverty or a teenage parents so so the

poverty or a teenage parents so so the

poverty or a teenage parents so so the effects that we use for Santi pads could

effects that we use for Santi pads could

effects that we use for Santi pads could have could be massive right sir but

have could be massive right sir but

have could be massive right sir but what’s the point in knowing all this if

what’s the point in knowing all this if

what’s the point in knowing all this if we can’t actually put it into practice

we can’t actually put it into practice

we can’t actually put it into practice because we fought the first hurdle just

because we fought the first hurdle just

because we fought the first hurdle just talking about periods because we have to

talking about periods because we have to

talking about periods because we have to admit we’re not very good at that

admit we’re not very good at that

admit we’re not very good at that this can be especially hard if you’re a

this can be especially hard if you’re a

this can be especially hard if you’re a man but the more you talk about it the

man but the more you talk about it the

man but the more you talk about it the easier it gets so I’ve come up with a

easier it gets so I’ve come up with a

easier it gets so I’ve come up with a few tips to make the conversation a bit

few tips to make the conversation a bit

few tips to make the conversation a bit easier the first is to go into the

easier the first is to go into the

easier the first is to go into the conversation sideways so there’s been a

conversation sideways so there’s been a

conversation sideways so there’s been a lot in the news recently about periods

lot in the news recently about periods

lot in the news recently about periods of menstral products like did you see

of menstral products like did you see

of menstral products like did you see that ad which used the red liquid

that ad which used the red liquid

that ad which used the red liquid instead of that mysterious blue let

instead of that mysterious blue let

instead of that mysterious blue let Kuerten talk about something like that

Kuerten talk about something like that

Kuerten talk about something like that and then transition into asking people

and then transition into asking people

and then transition into asking people about their experiences and be honest if

about their experiences and be honest if

about their experiences and be honest if you’re embarrassed acknowledging the

you’re embarrassed acknowledging the

you’re embarrassed acknowledging the elephant in the room will probably help

elephant in the room will probably help

elephant in the room will probably help the person you’re talking to you feel a

the person you’re talking to you feel a

the person you’re talking to you feel a little bit more relaxed as well and

little bit more relaxed as well and

little bit more relaxed as well and finally be practical no one’s expecting

finally be practical no one’s expecting

finally be practical no one’s expecting you to find it really easy to talk about

you to find it really easy to talk about

you to find it really easy to talk about the biology of periods and it’s normal

the biology of periods and it’s normal

the biology of periods and it’s normal to be a bit squeamish about that so so

to be a bit squeamish about that so so

to be a bit squeamish about that so so talk about the practical side like the

talk about the practical side like the

talk about the practical side like the products they can use the features they

products they can use the features they

products they can use the features they have how those products can benefit them

have how those products can benefit them

have how those products can benefit them and fit into their lives so go home

and fit into their lives so go home

and fit into their lives so go home tonight and talk to someone about

tonight and talk to someone about

tonight and talk to someone about periods

periods

periods I love if you talk to me you can find in

I love if you talk to me you can find in

I love if you talk to me you can find in all social media pride paths thank you

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