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How to be in Control over your own Happiness | Maurice Zondag | TEDxTârguMureș


so how are you all yeah be quite an

so how are you all yeah be quite an amazing day isn’t it

amazing day isn’t it

amazing day isn’t it lots of speakers adults with different

lots of speakers adults with different

lots of speakers adults with different subjects did we learn something was it

subjects did we learn something was it

subjects did we learn something was it inspiring Johansen inspiring it was

inspiring Johansen inspiring it was

inspiring Johansen inspiring it was inspired good that’s fast did we feel

inspired good that’s fast did we feel

inspired good that’s fast did we feel emotion Johansen lots of emotion good

emotion Johansen lots of emotion good

emotion Johansen lots of emotion good good emotion bad emotion good emotion

good emotion bad emotion good emotion

good emotion bad emotion good emotion bad abortion awesome that emotion that

bad abortion awesome that emotion that

bad abortion awesome that emotion that was good

was good

was good well that’s interesting I’d like to

well that’s interesting I’d like to

well that’s interesting I’d like to share a story with you and it all began

share a story with you and it all began

share a story with you and it all began five years ago I was standing there at a

five years ago I was standing there at a

five years ago I was standing there at a crossroad and right in front of me there

crossroad and right in front of me there

crossroad and right in front of me there was this very well delete path with

was this very well delete path with

was this very well delete path with straight pavement and nice white lines

straight pavement and nice white lines

straight pavement and nice white lines very well clear not very clear

very well clear not very clear

very well clear not very clear straight not very exciting were

straight not very exciting were

straight not very exciting were inspiring but it was very clear on the

inspiring but it was very clear on the

inspiring but it was very clear on the left there was this forest you could

left there was this forest you could

left there was this forest you could hear the wind blowing through the leaves

hear the wind blowing through the leaves

hear the wind blowing through the leaves hear the sounds of nature whispering in

hear the sounds of nature whispering in

hear the sounds of nature whispering in your ear and there was this dirt road

your ear and there was this dirt road

your ear and there was this dirt road that went straight into the forest with

that went straight into the forest with

that went straight into the forest with rocks sand and mud it’s kind of a scary

rocks sand and mud it’s kind of a scary

rocks sand and mud it’s kind of a scary road it wasn’t 3d mystifying and there

road it wasn’t 3d mystifying and there

road it wasn’t 3d mystifying and there was the brightest flickering lights

was the brightest flickering lights

was the brightest flickering lights shining through the leaves I could see

shining through the leaves I could see

shining through the leaves I could see it right over there and while I was

it right over there and while I was

it right over there and while I was comparing this dirt road into the forest

comparing this dirt road into the forest

comparing this dirt road into the forest to my well paved road ahead I told my

to my well paved road ahead I told my

to my well paved road ahead I told my wife about this cross road and the funny

wife about this cross road and the funny

wife about this cross road and the funny thing is it was quite amazing what

thing is it was quite amazing what

thing is it was quite amazing what happened when she was standing next to

happened when she was standing next to

happened when she was standing next to me on the growth road it was terrifying

me on the growth road it was terrifying

me on the growth road it was terrifying at first but would later be my most

at first but would later be my most

at first but would later be my most important moment in life we decided to

important moment in life we decided to

important moment in life we decided to go our own way

go our own way

go our own way so we got divorced and there I was in

so we got divorced and there I was in

so we got divorced and there I was in the forest this is thick leaves and rain

the forest this is thick leaves and rain

the forest this is thick leaves and rain and storm and dirt I felt it on my face

and storm and dirt I felt it on my face

and storm and dirt I felt it on my face I felt a red face on my face going down

I felt a red face on my face going down

I felt a red face on my face going down and the that’s shimmering the light was

and the that’s shimmering the light was

and the that’s shimmering the light was long gone it wasn’t not there anymore

long gone it wasn’t not there anymore

long gone it wasn’t not there anymore and suddenly the well paved road I was

and suddenly the well paved road I was

and suddenly the well paved road I was just standing there didn’t seem so bad

just standing there didn’t seem so bad

just standing there didn’t seem so bad at all but there I was in this forest

at all but there I was in this forest

at all but there I was in this forest alone scared

and I knew I had to dig deep

and I knew I had to dig deep so I read many books I watched hours of

so I read many books I watched hours of

so I read many books I watched hours of videos even some you might even know

videos even some you might even know

videos even some you might even know from something and I talked to a lot of

from something and I talked to a lot of

from something and I talked to a lot of people a lot of people and on one day it

people a lot of people and on one day it

people a lot of people and on one day it kind of cabled together and I realized

kind of cabled together and I realized

kind of cabled together and I realized it’s just just so simple all I want is

it’s just just so simple all I want is

it’s just just so simple all I want is to be happy I was that too much to ask

to be happy I was that too much to ask

to be happy I was that too much to ask for I mean I know and we’ve heard today

for I mean I know and we’ve heard today

for I mean I know and we’ve heard today that being happy is part of life

that being happy is part of life

that being happy is part of life just like unhappy is being part of life

just like unhappy is being part of life

just like unhappy is being part of life so we we know we have both but I wanted

so we we know we have both but I wanted

so we we know we have both but I wanted to find a way that I was able to control

to find a way that I was able to control

to find a way that I was able to control my happiness and not be affected of my

my happiness and not be affected of my

my happiness and not be affected of my own unhappiness so I realized I wasn’t

own unhappiness so I realized I wasn’t

own unhappiness so I realized I wasn’t alone in my search

alone in my search

alone in my search matter of fact we all strive for that

matter of fact we all strive for that

matter of fact we all strive for that feeling of happiness right gallon old

feeling of happiness right gallon old

feeling of happiness right gallon old man female woman we all want that

man female woman we all want that

man female woman we all want that feeling of thoughts with happiness even

feeling of thoughts with happiness even

feeling of thoughts with happiness even if you live in Holland or

if you live in Holland or

if you live in Holland or Romania I mean the perspective of what

Romania I mean the perspective of what

Romania I mean the perspective of what happiness should be that should be

happiness should be that should be

happiness should be that should be different

different

different we’ll be different but we all want a

we’ll be different but we all want a

we’ll be different but we all want a bill turbit feeling of creating our own

bill turbit feeling of creating our own

bill turbit feeling of creating our own happiness but tell you the funny thing

happiness but tell you the funny thing

happiness but tell you the funny thing is and we’ve heard that today as well

is and we’ve heard that today as well

is and we’ve heard that today as well we’ve never learned how to be a creator

we’ve never learned how to be a creator

we’ve never learned how to be a creator of our happiness there’s is a happiness

of our happiness there’s is a happiness

of our happiness there’s is a happiness class at school

class at school

class at school you were University now instead to get

you were University now instead to get

you were University now instead to get to here I have to go to school you have

to here I have to go to school you have

to here I have to go to school you have to go to university get a good job

to go to university get a good job

to go to university get a good job find a good career start a family and

find a good career start a family and

find a good career start a family and you will be happy

standing in my forest that was pretty

standing in my forest that was pretty hard to believe so I knew I had to dig

hard to believe so I knew I had to dig

hard to believe so I knew I had to dig deeper I had to go to the fundamentals

deeper I had to go to the fundamentals

deeper I had to go to the fundamentals of what is there in our system that

of what is there in our system that

of what is there in our system that makes us happy I had to go to the core

makes us happy I had to go to the core

makes us happy I had to go to the core of our system to find out what was

of our system to find out what was

of our system to find out what was making us so happy so I without wanting

making us so happy so I without wanting

making us so happy so I without wanting to fill in the blanks for everyone else

to fill in the blanks for everyone else

to fill in the blanks for everyone else went on the search for the source of

went on the search for the source of

went on the search for the source of what makes us happy and these five

what makes us happy and these five

what makes us happy and these five sources are the ones I discovered and I

sources are the ones I discovered and I

sources are the ones I discovered and I would love to share them with you so the

would love to share them with you so the

would love to share them with you so the first source let’s place it over here

first source let’s place it over here

first source let’s place it over here that the first source the first horse I

that the first source the first horse I

that the first source the first horse I found was love of course love I mean we

found was love of course love I mean we

found was love of course love I mean we did we all want to be loved right and we

did we all want to be loved right and we

did we all want to be loved right and we don’t want to give the love is so

don’t want to give the love is so

don’t want to give the love is so fundamental that is part of our core

fundamental that is part of our core

fundamental that is part of our core system it’s burnt in our poor and if I

system it’s burnt in our poor and if I

system it’s burnt in our poor and if I will be able to find a way to learn how

will be able to find a way to learn how

will be able to find a way to learn how to find my love or how to give love

to find my love or how to give love

to find my love or how to give love that’ll make me happy so the second

that’ll make me happy so the second

that’ll make me happy so the second source of love a second sort of

source of love a second sort of

source of love a second sort of happiness was communication effective

happiness was communication effective

happiness was communication effective communication because you know we want

communication because you know we want

communication because you know we want to connect to the world around us and we

to connect to the world around us and we

to connect to the world around us and we connect to the world around us but I’m

connect to the world around us but I’m

connect to the world around us but I’m communicating I mean with our words

communicating I mean with our words

communicating I mean with our words language if I were talking Dutch now you

language if I were talking Dutch now you

language if I were talking Dutch now you probably won’t understand

probably won’t understand

probably won’t understand a couple maybe but so we couldn’t

a couple maybe but so we couldn’t

a couple maybe but so we couldn’t connect so if I could learn the skills

connect so if I could learn the skills

connect so if I could learn the skills to make an effective connection to the

to make an effective connection to the

to make an effective connection to the world around me that would make me happy

world around me that would make me happy

world around me that would make me happy so the third source I found was an

so the third source I found was an

so the third source I found was an interesting one it was actually finding

interesting one it was actually finding

interesting one it was actually finding my own masculinity or finding your

my own masculinity or finding your

my own masculinity or finding your femininity I mean if you are able to

femininity I mean if you are able to

femininity I mean if you are able to find your own system your own sort of

find your own system your own sort of

find your own system your own sort of way of being you’re a better capable of

way of being you’re a better capable of

way of being you’re a better capable of giving the world that needs if you can

giving the world that needs if you can

giving the world that needs if you can learn how to embrace yourself as a woman

learn how to embrace yourself as a woman

learn how to embrace yourself as a woman you are where a man you are that would

you are where a man you are that would

you are where a man you are that would make you happy it made me happy the

make you happy it made me happy the

make you happy it made me happy the fourth source I found was personal

fourth source I found was personal

fourth source I found was personal growth I mean the world around us is

growth I mean the world around us is

growth I mean the world around us is changing all the time right and with

changing all the time right and with

changing all the time right and with personal growth you can find a way to

personal growth you can find a way to

personal growth you can find a way to place your own spot in the world to

place your own spot in the world to

place your own spot in the world to create your own world it’s right here so

create your own world it’s right here so

create your own world it’s right here so personal growth and finally the last

personal growth and finally the last

personal growth and finally the last book the fifth one was balance of course

book the fifth one was balance of course

book the fifth one was balance of course balance I mean balance is a law of

balance I mean balance is a law of

balance I mean balance is a law of nature right

nature right

nature right that’s balanced everywhere but there’s a

that’s balanced everywhere but there’s a

that’s balanced everywhere but there’s a funny thing about balance because it’s

funny thing about balance because it’s

funny thing about balance because it’s never in a clear state you’re never

never in a clear state you’re never

never in a clear state you’re never there it’s nothing I’ve never finished

there it’s nothing I’ve never finished

there it’s nothing I’ve never finished because what you are thinking you’re

because what you are thinking you’re

because what you are thinking you’re imbalanced I mean that’s not something

imbalanced I mean that’s not something

imbalanced I mean that’s not something might happen it kick you in get you off

might happen it kick you in get you off

might happen it kick you in get you off earth together so searching for your

earth together so searching for your

earth together so searching for your balance will give you potential to

balance will give you potential to

balance will give you potential to connect to yourself to focus to be sure

connect to yourself to focus to be sure

connect to yourself to focus to be sure and to be in the present of today so

and to be in the present of today so

and to be in the present of today so there are these five sources of

there are these five sources of

there are these five sources of but next what’s next how to use them

but next what’s next how to use them

but next what’s next how to use them so how can you be happy then how can you

so how can you be happy then how can you

so how can you be happy then how can you use this to be happy well let me give

use this to be happy well let me give

use this to be happy well let me give you an example I discovered them in this

you an example I discovered them in this

you an example I discovered them in this area of happiness of love there’s one

area of happiness of love there’s one

area of happiness of love there’s one particular area that a lot of men are

particular area that a lot of men are

particular area that a lot of men are searching for the way to find their love

searching for the way to find their love

searching for the way to find their love and we can call it how earth do I

and we can call it how earth do I

and we can call it how earth do I seduced a woman I mean it was my first

seduced a woman I mean it was my first

seduced a woman I mean it was my first question when I arrived in my forest

question when I arrived in my forest

question when I arrived in my forest again so I decided to study men that

again so I decided to study men that

again so I decided to study men that were mastering that skill to study how

were mastering that skill to study how

were mastering that skill to study how to seduce a woman and it was an

to seduce a woman and it was an

to seduce a woman and it was an interesting search I can’t tell you that

interesting search I can’t tell you that

interesting search I can’t tell you that but once I learned that skill the funny

but once I learned that skill the funny

but once I learned that skill the funny thing was it didn’t only help me with my

thing was it didn’t only help me with my

thing was it didn’t only help me with my finding my love but it also helped me

finding my love but it also helped me

finding my love but it also helped me knowing who I am as a man and it also

knowing who I am as a man and it also

knowing who I am as a man and it also helped me in my personal growth so

helped me in my personal growth so

helped me in my personal growth so finding a skill in one of these areas

finding a skill in one of these areas

finding a skill in one of these areas can have effect on other areas as well

can have effect on other areas as well

can have effect on other areas as well now I don’t know where you are you

now I don’t know where you are you

now I don’t know where you are you vomiting your life right I don’t know

vomiting your life right I don’t know

vomiting your life right I don’t know what makes you happy

what makes you happy

what makes you happy you only you yourself can make yourself

you only you yourself can make yourself

you only you yourself can make yourself happen and you have to find a way to

happen and you have to find a way to

happen and you have to find a way to learn the right skills that you will

learn the right skills that you will

learn the right skills that you will need to make you happy so how does that

need to make you happy so how does that

need to make you happy so how does that work well let me tell you in the darkest

work well let me tell you in the darkest

work well let me tell you in the darkest days of your life you will find that you

days of your life you will find that you

days of your life you will find that you have a scarcity of these tools so the

have a scarcity of these tools so the

have a scarcity of these tools so the answer is simply you have to create

answer is simply you have to create

answer is simply you have to create abundance e abundance is a tool that

abundance e abundance is a tool that

abundance e abundance is a tool that will help you to create your happiness

will help you to create your happiness

will help you to create your happiness which can be learning how to give a

which can be learning how to give a

which can be learning how to give a kick-ass presentation at work learning

kick-ass presentation at work learning

kick-ass presentation at work learning how to seduce a woman how to be the

how to seduce a woman how to be the

how to seduce a woman how to be the woman you are and let it go out in this

woman you are and let it go out in this

woman you are and let it go out in this still masculine world these are the

still masculine world these are the

still masculine world these are the skills that I’ve learned myself

skills that I’ve learned myself

skills that I’ve learned myself not being the woman I am but the skills

not being the woman I am but the skills

not being the woman I am but the skills are there that help me understand what

are there that help me understand what

are there that help me understand what makes me happy and of course every day

makes me happy and of course every day

makes me happy and of course every day it could be an unhappy day something can

it could be an unhappy day something can

it could be an unhappy day something can happen to you but now at least I have

happen to you but now at least I have

happen to you but now at least I have abundancy of skills that can make me

abundancy of skills that can make me

abundancy of skills that can make me happy so back to the story there was

happy so back to the story there was

happy so back to the story there was wandering through my forest looking for

wandering through my forest looking for

wandering through my forest looking for that flickering lights in the farm

that flickering lights in the farm

that flickering lights in the farm I seen on the crossroad that day I’ve

I seen on the crossroad that day I’ve

I seen on the crossroad that day I’ve been there like for two years in that

been there like for two years in that

been there like for two years in that forest I’ve learned so much of nature of

forest I’ve learned so much of nature of

forest I’ve learned so much of nature of myself finding new friends finding love

myself finding new friends finding love

myself finding new friends finding love crushing love putting seeds in the

crushing love putting seeds in the

crushing love putting seeds in the ground and seed flourished with

ground and seed flourished with

ground and seed flourished with beautiful flowers two seasons and all of

beautiful flowers two seasons and all of

beautiful flowers two seasons and all of a sudden on one day I discovered this

a sudden on one day I discovered this

a sudden on one day I discovered this clear puff right there in the forest it

clear puff right there in the forest it

clear puff right there in the forest it was straight on to the border of my

was straight on to the border of my

was straight on to the border of my forest

forest

forest so there are us standing at the border

so there are us standing at the border

so there are us standing at the border of my big big forest it was a famine it

of my big big forest it was a famine it

of my big big forest it was a famine it was a failed belly with the greenest

was a failed belly with the greenest

was a failed belly with the greenest grass you’ve ever seen as far as the eye

grass you’ve ever seen as far as the eye

grass you’ve ever seen as far as the eye could see and there was a blue clear

could see and there was a blue clear

could see and there was a blue clear blue sky just like today with the sun

blue sky just like today with the sun

blue sky just like today with the sun shining flickering bright inviting me

shining flickering bright inviting me

shining flickering bright inviting me into the new chance of the new future so

into the new chance of the new future so

into the new chance of the new future so the only thing I had to do was lift my

the only thing I had to do was lift my

the only thing I had to do was lift my foot and step into the light and my

foot and step into the light and my

foot and step into the light and my future one step at a time if you learn

future one step at a time if you learn

future one step at a time if you learn the skills you need to discover yourself

the skills you need to discover yourself

the skills you need to discover yourself in these five areas you will be able to

in these five areas you will be able to

in these five areas you will be able to create abundance in these skills and

create abundance in these skills and

create abundance in these skills and therefore be able

therefore be able

therefore be able create your own happiness get out of

create your own happiness get out of

create your own happiness get out of your comfort zone just like I was in my

your comfort zone just like I was in my

your comfort zone just like I was in my forest and let that comfort zone build

forest and let that comfort zone build

forest and let that comfort zone build to a new future let yourself grow to the

to a new future let yourself grow to the

to a new future let yourself grow to the person you want to be and you can be

person you want to be and you can be

person you want to be and you can be using the right skills that only you can

using the right skills that only you can

using the right skills that only you can decide are the right skills within these

decide are the right skills within these

decide are the right skills within these fun then I discovered for myself and

fun then I discovered for myself and

fun then I discovered for myself and hopefully will work for you too if you

hopefully will work for you too if you

hopefully will work for you too if you are able to find these tools you will be

are able to find these tools you will be

are able to find these tools you will be able to find and create happiness

able to find and create happiness

able to find and create happiness in every day of your life

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