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How talking about sex could end STIs | Teodora Elvira Wi | TEDxMonteCarlo


to stay alive we breathe eat and drink

to stay alive we breathe eat and drink to sustain our existence in this world

to sustain our existence in this world

to sustain our existence in this world we have sex most of us here are a

we have sex most of us here are a

we have sex most of us here are a consequence of two people having sex

having sex is part of Numan of human

having sex is part of Numan of human nature we have sex that only to have

nature we have sex that only to have

nature we have sex that only to have babies we have sex to express our love

babies we have sex to express our love

babies we have sex to express our love and affection we have sex to feel

and affection we have sex to feel

and affection we have sex to feel pleasure and intimacy but living within

pleasure and intimacy but living within

pleasure and intimacy but living within us are a range of microbes that are

us are a range of microbes that are

us are a range of microbes that are associated with our different body

associated with our different body

associated with our different body functions some microbes are essential to

functions some microbes are essential to

functions some microbes are essential to our health some microbes are harmful

our health some microbes are harmful

our health some microbes are harmful like microbes that cause sore throat

like microbes that cause sore throat

like microbes that cause sore throat diarrhea or skin infection some microbes

diarrhea or skin infection some microbes

diarrhea or skin infection some microbes we get when we have when we have sex

we get when we have when we have sex

we get when we have when we have sex this can cause discomfort and discharges

this can cause discomfort and discharges

this can cause discomfort and discharges in our genitals

in our genitals

in our genitals there are about 40 different microbes

there are about 40 different microbes

there are about 40 different microbes that can be transmitted sexually it is

that can be transmitted sexually it is

that can be transmitted sexually it is estimated that there are about 350 seven

estimated that there are about 350 seven

estimated that there are about 350 seven million SDI’s acquired every year and

million SDI’s acquired every year and

million SDI’s acquired every year and this is only for gonorrhea syphilis

this is only for gonorrhea syphilis

this is only for gonorrhea syphilis trichomonas and chlamydia there can be

trichomonas and chlamydia there can be

trichomonas and chlamydia there can be many more sti’s acquired do you know

many more sti’s acquired do you know

many more sti’s acquired do you know that in 200 2016 this SDI’s were

that in 200 2016 this SDI’s were

that in 200 2016 this SDI’s were all-time high in the US alone

all-time high in the US alone

all-time high in the US alone 1 million sti’s are acquired every day

1 million sti’s are acquired every day

1 million sti’s are acquired every day in the time that I have been speaking

in the time that I have been speaking

in the time that I have been speaking there about half a million people having

there about half a million people having

there about half a million people having sex sadly they’re not here

sex sadly they’re not here

sex sadly they’re not here but sadly

suddenly about 2,000 of them have now a

suddenly about 2,000 of them have now a new STI sti’s can be very serious and

new STI sti’s can be very serious and

new STI sti’s can be very serious and sometimes we don’t even know that we

sometimes we don’t even know that we

sometimes we don’t even know that we have them this sti’s can cause pelvic

have them this sti’s can cause pelvic

have them this sti’s can cause pelvic infections infertility fetal and newborn

infections infertility fetal and newborn

infections infertility fetal and newborn deaths complications in childbirth and

deaths complications in childbirth and

deaths complications in childbirth and pregnancy and cervical cancer to name a

pregnancy and cervical cancer to name a

pregnancy and cervical cancer to name a few

few

few STI s– should not be treated

STI s– should not be treated

STI s– should not be treated differently like any other infection and

differently like any other infection and

differently like any other infection and most importantly we cannot sweep them

most importantly we cannot sweep them

most importantly we cannot sweep them under the carpet and pretend that they

under the carpet and pretend that they

under the carpet and pretend that they don’t exist they’re all around us and

don’t exist they’re all around us and

don’t exist they’re all around us and they’re more common than you think

they’re more common than you think

they’re more common than you think but we don’t give them enough attention

but we don’t give them enough attention

but we don’t give them enough attention instead we stigmatize people with sti’s

instead we stigmatize people with sti’s

instead we stigmatize people with sti’s we neglect their care and what’s more we

we neglect their care and what’s more we

we neglect their care and what’s more we fail in prevention this is a serious

fail in prevention this is a serious

fail in prevention this is a serious problem there is a case a documented

problem there is a case a documented

problem there is a case a documented case of a pregnant woman in Haiti she

case of a pregnant woman in Haiti she

case of a pregnant woman in Haiti she was screened for HIV which is part of a

was screened for HIV which is part of a

was screened for HIV which is part of a routine prenatal care and he was managed

routine prenatal care and he was managed

routine prenatal care and he was managed appropriately

appropriately

appropriately however she wasn’t screened for syphilis

however she wasn’t screened for syphilis

however she wasn’t screened for syphilis although it can be done at the same time

although it can be done at the same time

although it can be done at the same time with the same blood sample the mother

with the same blood sample the mother

with the same blood sample the mother gave birth to a baby that is HIV free

gave birth to a baby that is HIV free

gave birth to a baby that is HIV free but the baby died a few days later due

but the baby died a few days later due

but the baby died a few days later due to complications of congenital syphilis

to complications of congenital syphilis

to complications of congenital syphilis if only syphilis test was done with HIV

if only syphilis test was done with HIV

if only syphilis test was done with HIV test the mother could have been treated

test the mother could have been treated

test the mother could have been treated for syphilis and the baby could have

for syphilis and the baby could have

for syphilis and the baby could have been born free of HIV and syphilis and

been born free of HIV and syphilis and

been born free of HIV and syphilis and the baby could have survived HIV is a

the baby could have survived HIV is a

the baby could have survived HIV is a sexually transmitted infection but it’s

sexually transmitted infection but it’s

sexually transmitted infection but it’s the only sti’s that we talked about in

the only sti’s that we talked about in

the only sti’s that we talked about in the 90s there are plenty of information

the 90s there are plenty of information

the 90s there are plenty of information and education to reduce the stigma

and education to reduce the stigma

and education to reduce the stigma against HIV do you remember the film of

against HIV do you remember the film of

against HIV do you remember the film of Philadelphia

Philadelphia

Philadelphia yes that’s you know Tom Hanks played the

yes that’s you know Tom Hanks played the

yes that’s you know Tom Hanks played the role of a person living with HIV

role of a person living with HIV

role of a person living with HIV he even got an Oscar Award for this

he even got an Oscar Award for this

he even got an Oscar Award for this those of you who belong in this era

those of you who belong in this era

those of you who belong in this era could also recall the massive sex

could also recall the massive sex

could also recall the massive sex education and condom promotion so what

education and condom promotion so what

education and condom promotion so what change

change

change sti’s are increasing why aren’t we

sti’s are increasing why aren’t we

sti’s are increasing why aren’t we making headlines about SDI’s should we

making headlines about SDI’s should we

making headlines about SDI’s should we do anything any less for SDI’s we cannot

do anything any less for SDI’s we cannot

do anything any less for SDI’s we cannot have proper prevention diagnosis and

have proper prevention diagnosis and

have proper prevention diagnosis and treatment if we pretend that sti’s do

treatment if we pretend that sti’s do

treatment if we pretend that sti’s do not exist or we don’t talk about said

not exist or we don’t talk about said

not exist or we don’t talk about said about sex I was once in a clinic in Asia

about sex I was once in a clinic in Asia

about sex I was once in a clinic in Asia a patient came to me because he was

a patient came to me because he was

a patient came to me because he was worried he had an STI he took some

worried he had an STI he took some

worried he had an STI he took some medication which is which his friend

medication which is which his friend

medication which is which his friend suggested but the symptoms did not go

suggested but the symptoms did not go

suggested but the symptoms did not go away initially he was so hesitant to

away initially he was so hesitant to

away initially he was so hesitant to talk about his sexual partners I

talk about his sexual partners I

talk about his sexual partners I examined his penis and there was nothing

examined his penis and there was nothing

examined his penis and there was nothing wrong then I examined his anus and there

wrong then I examined his anus and there

wrong then I examined his anus and there was an anal discharge thank God he came

was an anal discharge thank God he came

was an anal discharge thank God he came to me I was able to treat him we discuss

to me I was able to treat him we discuss

to me I was able to treat him we discuss about healthy sexual practices his

about healthy sexual practices his

about healthy sexual practices his barriers on condom use and how to do

barriers on condom use and how to do

barriers on condom use and how to do about to address these barriers and then

about to address these barriers and then

about to address these barriers and then he was determined to use the condom when

he was determined to use the condom when

he was determined to use the condom when having sex many patients with STI eyes

having sex many patients with STI eyes

having sex many patients with STI eyes are so ashamed to seek care and many

are so ashamed to seek care and many

are so ashamed to seek care and many health care providers do not openly talk

health care providers do not openly talk

health care providers do not openly talk about SD eyes and healthy sexual

about SD eyes and healthy sexual

about SD eyes and healthy sexual practices because we’ve been neglecting

practices because we’ve been neglecting

practices because we’ve been neglecting sti’s for a long time they are not

sti’s for a long time they are not

sti’s for a long time they are not getting difficult to treat gonorrhea a

getting difficult to treat gonorrhea a

getting difficult to treat gonorrhea a very common STI is becoming resistant to

very common STI is becoming resistant to

very common STI is becoming resistant to the last antibiotic treatment if we

the last antibiotic treatment if we

the last antibiotic treatment if we don’t develop new drugs it’s gonna be an

don’t develop new drugs it’s gonna be an

don’t develop new drugs it’s gonna be an issue because then you’ll have so many

issue because then you’ll have so many

issue because then you’ll have so many side effects and consequence of this

side effects and consequence of this

side effects and consequence of this this is an urgent issue

imagine a world where sti’s are treated

imagine a world where sti’s are treated like any other infection this is the

like any other infection this is the

like any other infection this is the world I want to live in wouldn’t you to

world I want to live in wouldn’t you to

world I want to live in wouldn’t you to make this world we now need to have an

make this world we now need to have an

make this world we now need to have an open and a stigma free discussion about

open and a stigma free discussion about

open and a stigma free discussion about sex think about driving we want to be

sex think about driving we want to be

sex think about driving we want to be safe in the road we learned the basics

safe in the road we learned the basics

safe in the road we learned the basics of driving and how to drive safely we

of driving and how to drive safely we

of driving and how to drive safely we put on the seat belt we follow certain

put on the seat belt we follow certain

put on the seat belt we follow certain rules and we obtain a driver’s license

rules and we obtain a driver’s license

rules and we obtain a driver’s license why can’t we not do the same for sex if

why can’t we not do the same for sex if

why can’t we not do the same for sex if we want to be safe and – how to enjoy a

we want to be safe and – how to enjoy a

we want to be safe and – how to enjoy a fulfilling sex life we need to know the

fulfilling sex life we need to know the

fulfilling sex life we need to know the basics be comfortable with our sexuality

basics be comfortable with our sexuality

basics be comfortable with our sexuality and we need to know how to be safe and

and we need to know how to be safe and

and we need to know how to be safe and to be responsible being responsible will

to be responsible being responsible will

to be responsible being responsible will allow us better health and better

allow us better health and better

allow us better health and better relationship think about the many TV

relationship think about the many TV

relationship think about the many TV programs and radio shows out there that

programs and radio shows out there that

programs and radio shows out there that talk about food many talk about what to

talk about food many talk about what to

talk about food many talk about what to eat how to eat how to cook it wouldn’t

eat how to eat how to cook it wouldn’t

eat how to eat how to cook it wouldn’t it be great if we had more TV shows and

it be great if we had more TV shows and

it be great if we had more TV shows and programs that talk about sexuality and

programs that talk about sexuality and

programs that talk about sexuality and healthy sexual practice in a more

healthy sexual practice in a more

healthy sexual practice in a more positive way

positive way

positive way so what can you yes you and I can do

so what can you yes you and I can do

so what can you yes you and I can do about it we are all in this together I

about it we are all in this together I

about it we are all in this together I am a healthcare provider

am a healthcare provider

am a healthcare provider for us it is important to normalize the

for us it is important to normalize the

for us it is important to normalize the discussion about sex and to reduce the

discussion about sex and to reduce the

discussion about sex and to reduce the stigma I may be a patient too and as

stigma I may be a patient too and as

stigma I may be a patient too and as patients we need to be more open about

patients we need to be more open about

patients we need to be more open about our sexuality so that we can receive

our sexuality so that we can receive

our sexuality so that we can receive appropriate care I am a mother too and

appropriate care I am a mother too and

appropriate care I am a mother too and as parents we can help our children

as parents we can help our children

as parents we can help our children understand the basics of sex but I can

understand the basics of sex but I can

understand the basics of sex but I can tell you it’s not easy you know I’m a

tell you it’s not easy you know I’m a

tell you it’s not easy you know I’m a professional I know about STI

professional I know about STI

professional I know about STI I know about safer sex but to talk about

I know about safer sex but to talk about

I know about safer sex but to talk about sex to my children is difficult I had to

sex to my children is difficult I had to

sex to my children is difficult I had to watch a video to learn how to talk about

watch a video to learn how to talk about

watch a video to learn how to talk about sex to them my son when he was 10 he

sex to them my son when he was 10 he

sex to them my son when he was 10 he approached me he was so worried he was

approached me he was so worried he was

approached me he was so worried he was holding this condom

holding this condom

holding this condom I had several boxes in my house and he

I had several boxes in my house and he

I had several boxes in my house and he said to me ma why is this condom big and

said to me ma why is this condom big and

said to me ma why is this condom big and my private part is small and it is not

my private part is small and it is not

my private part is small and it is not freaking and I said to my son don’t

freaking and I said to my son don’t

freaking and I said to my son don’t worry my son time will come your private

worry my son time will come your private

worry my son time will come your private part will grow and the condom will fit

part will grow and the condom will fit

part will grow and the condom will fit and you will make someone very happy it

and you will make someone very happy it

and you will make someone very happy it can save your life

can save your life

can save your life if you use this condom properly it can

if you use this condom properly it can

if you use this condom properly it can prevent you from having babies having

prevent you from having babies having

prevent you from having babies having sti’s and having HIV sex is part of life

sti’s and having HIV sex is part of life

sti’s and having HIV sex is part of life and so our SDI’s together all of us here

and so our SDI’s together all of us here

and so our SDI’s together all of us here can do something to reduce SDI’s and at

can do something to reduce SDI’s and at

can do something to reduce SDI’s and at the same time have fun and pleasure in

the same time have fun and pleasure in

the same time have fun and pleasure in our sex life policy maker

our sex life policy maker

our sex life policy maker all over the world just like driving

all over the world just like driving

all over the world just like driving makes sex safe please make sure to

makes sex safe please make sure to

makes sex safe please make sure to reduce the stigma do not cut the budget

reduce the stigma do not cut the budget

reduce the stigma do not cut the budget on STI and HIV prevention and sex

on STI and HIV prevention and sex

on STI and HIV prevention and sex education better still increase it for

education better still increase it for

education better still increase it for pepper doctors nurses and midwives treat

pepper doctors nurses and midwives treat

pepper doctors nurses and midwives treat STI is just like any other infection do

STI is just like any other infection do

STI is just like any other infection do not be the source of stigma people in

not be the source of stigma people in

not be the source of stigma people in the media you can really make a

the media you can really make a

the media you can really make a difference give us more shoes on sex

difference give us more shoes on sex

difference give us more shoes on sex education parents and teachers wherever

education parents and teachers wherever

education parents and teachers wherever you are

you are

you are be open and ready to talk to your

be open and ready to talk to your

be open and ready to talk to your children and students

children and students

children and students you’d rather be the people talking about

you’d rather be the people talking about

you’d rather be the people talking about sex to them rather than them learning it

sex to them rather than them learning it

sex to them rather than them learning it from pornography and in the Internet

from pornography and in the Internet

from pornography and in the Internet educate yourselves on the latest trends

educate yourselves on the latest trends

educate yourselves on the latest trends in teen ain’t among teenager so that you

in teen ain’t among teenager so that you

in teen ain’t among teenager so that you can speak their language you read the

can speak their language you read the

can speak their language you read the news right isn’t it news do you know the

news right isn’t it news do you know the

news right isn’t it news do you know the latest trend among teenagers it’s called

latest trend among teenagers it’s called

latest trend among teenagers it’s called sleeping sleeping is when at the middle

sleeping sleeping is when at the middle

sleeping sleeping is when at the middle of having sex they remove the condom you

of having sex they remove the condom you

of having sex they remove the condom you know this can be harmful and it can be

know this can be harmful and it can be

know this can be harmful and it can be violating some of your rights all of us

violating some of your rights all of us

violating some of your rights all of us for those who choose to have sex be

for those who choose to have sex be

for those who choose to have sex be rational be responsible be safe and have

rational be responsible be safe and have

rational be responsible be safe and have fun use a condom correctly for those who

fun use a condom correctly for those who

fun use a condom correctly for those who have SD eyes and who think they have an

have SD eyes and who think they have an

have SD eyes and who think they have an STI don’t be ashamed go to your doctor

STI don’t be ashamed go to your doctor

STI don’t be ashamed go to your doctor you should not be the one and make sure

you should not be the one and make sure

you should not be the one and make sure that you don’t transmit the infection to

that you don’t transmit the infection to

that you don’t transmit the infection to others I am now at the end of my talk by

others I am now at the end of my talk by

others I am now at the end of my talk by now there are about 2 million people who

now there are about 2 million people who

now there are about 2 million people who have had sex sadly sadly the people who

have had sex sadly sadly the people who

have had sex sadly sadly the people who have an STI have increased from two

have an STI have increased from two

have an STI have increased from two thousand to eight thousand let us stop

thousand to eight thousand let us stop

thousand to eight thousand let us stop the pain and suffering let us stop the

the pain and suffering let us stop the

the pain and suffering let us stop the serious consequences and death let us

serious consequences and death let us

serious consequences and death let us stop the stigma and discrimination

stop the stigma and discrimination

stop the stigma and discrimination caused by SD eyes but let us have a fun

caused by SD eyes but let us have a fun

caused by SD eyes but let us have a fun fulfilling safer sex life thank you

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