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How Our Fear of the Dark Can Lead Us to Sweet Sleep and Good Dreams | Tzivia Gover | TEDxBerkshires


[Music]

[Music] I’d like to begin by telling you a dream

I’d like to begin by telling you a dream

I’d like to begin by telling you a dream I know some of you don’t like to hear

I know some of you don’t like to hear

I know some of you don’t like to hear other people’s dreams you think they’re

other people’s dreams you think they’re

other people’s dreams you think they’re too long you don’t understand them but I

too long you don’t understand them but I

too long you don’t understand them but I am going to tell you this one anyway

am going to tell you this one anyway

am going to tell you this one anyway because it illustrates something that I

because it illustrates something that I

because it illustrates something that I believe will change your view of the

believe will change your view of the

believe will change your view of the time you spend asleep and dreaming let

time you spend asleep and dreaming let

time you spend asleep and dreaming let me set the scene first of all I didn’t

me set the scene first of all I didn’t

me set the scene first of all I didn’t just have this dream I asked for it

just have this dream I asked for it

just have this dream I asked for it before bed I intentionally prayed for a

before bed I intentionally prayed for a

before bed I intentionally prayed for a dream that would show me bliss that’s

dream that would show me bliss that’s

dream that would show me bliss that’s because I wasn’t experiencing much bliss

because I wasn’t experiencing much bliss

because I wasn’t experiencing much bliss in my life at this time my marriage had

in my life at this time my marriage had

in my life at this time my marriage had ended I had just lost my job and my

ended I had just lost my job and my

ended I had just lost my job and my teenage daughter was testing her wings

teenage daughter was testing her wings

teenage daughter was testing her wings and therefore my patients here’s what I

and therefore my patients here’s what I

and therefore my patients here’s what I dreamed i entered my daughter’s bedroom

dreamed i entered my daughter’s bedroom

dreamed i entered my daughter’s bedroom i am carrying a big basket of dirty

i am carrying a big basket of dirty

i am carrying a big basket of dirty laundry my daughter’s head room looks

laundry my daughter’s head room looks

laundry my daughter’s head room looks just as it would in waking life as a

just as it would in waking life as a

just as it would in waking life as a bomb had gone off in it not my idea of

bomb had gone off in it not my idea of

bomb had gone off in it not my idea of bliss so far but then as I stood there

bliss so far but then as I stood there

bliss so far but then as I stood there and looked across the room I could see a

and looked across the room I could see a

and looked across the room I could see a little blue light glowing on the bureau

little blue light glowing on the bureau

little blue light glowing on the bureau in the corner and as I peered at that

in the corner and as I peered at that

in the corner and as I peered at that light it began to glow brighter and grow

light it began to glow brighter and grow

light it began to glow brighter and grow bigger and more colored lights joined in

bigger and more colored lights joined in

bigger and more colored lights joined in yellows purples golds like the colors of

yellows purples golds like the colors of

yellows purples golds like the colors of a peacocks tail and then everything in

a peacocks tail and then everything in

a peacocks tail and then everything in the dream began to dissolve the laundry

the dream began to dissolve the laundry

the dream began to dissolve the laundry basket the bureau even the room itself

basket the bureau even the room itself

basket the bureau even the room itself until all I was left with was a feeling

until all I was left with was a feeling

until all I was left with was a feeling that those beautiful colors gave me as

that those beautiful colors gave me as

that those beautiful colors gave me as if I could sense their beauty from the

if I could sense their beauty from the

if I could sense their beauty from the inside out

inside out

inside out It was as if I were floating on a wave

It was as if I were floating on a wave

It was as if I were floating on a wave of divine and loved ecstasy or bliss

sadly most of us aren’t having dreams

sadly most of us aren’t having dreams like that most of the time if we were I

like that most of the time if we were I

like that most of the time if we were I wouldn’t be standing here today because

wouldn’t be standing here today because

wouldn’t be standing here today because you wouldn’t need me you would need

you wouldn’t need me you would need

you wouldn’t need me you would need anybody to tell you about the value of

anybody to tell you about the value of

anybody to tell you about the value of sleep and dreams instead despite

sleep and dreams instead despite

sleep and dreams instead despite everything we know about the benefits of

everything we know about the benefits of

everything we know about the benefits of sleep and dreams to our health and

sleep and dreams to our health and

sleep and dreams to our health and happiness we’re going to bed too late

happiness we’re going to bed too late

happiness we’re going to bed too late exhausted or we’re nodding off in front

exhausted or we’re nodding off in front

exhausted or we’re nodding off in front of the TV before we even get there the

of the TV before we even get there the

of the TV before we even get there the Centers for Disease Control and

Centers for Disease Control and

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention tell us that our problem with

Prevention tell us that our problem with

Prevention tell us that our problem with sleeplessness has reached epidemic

sleeplessness has reached epidemic

sleeplessness has reached epidemic proportions and the better sleep Council

proportions and the better sleep Council

proportions and the better sleep Council says that more than half of Americans

says that more than half of Americans

says that more than half of Americans say they would prefer to sleep more than

say they would prefer to sleep more than

say they would prefer to sleep more than have sex they tell us the problem is

have sex they tell us the problem is

have sex they tell us the problem is because we’re over scheduled too busy to

because we’re over scheduled too busy to

because we’re over scheduled too busy to attach to our phones and laptops but

attach to our phones and laptops but

attach to our phones and laptops but that’s not what I think I think we are

that’s not what I think I think we are

that’s not what I think I think we are resisting and avoiding bedtime for the

resisting and avoiding bedtime for the

resisting and avoiding bedtime for the very same reason any six-year-old avoids

very same reason any six-year-old avoids

very same reason any six-year-old avoids airs we are afraid of the dark I’m not

airs we are afraid of the dark I’m not

airs we are afraid of the dark I’m not talking about the dark of turning out

talking about the dark of turning out

talking about the dark of turning out the lights I’m talking about the

the lights I’m talking about the

the lights I’m talking about the darkness behind our closed eyes I’m

darkness behind our closed eyes I’m

darkness behind our closed eyes I’m talking of the darkness of the

talking of the darkness of the

talking of the darkness of the uncomfortable thoughts and feelings

uncomfortable thoughts and feelings

uncomfortable thoughts and feelings rattling around in our subconscious I

rattling around in our subconscious I

rattling around in our subconscious I think we’re afraid of our dreaming mind

think we’re afraid of our dreaming mind

think we’re afraid of our dreaming mind too and what that represents

too and what that represents

too and what that represents our unresolved and unexamined issues I

our unresolved and unexamined issues I

our unresolved and unexamined issues I also believe that dreams themselves can

also believe that dreams themselves can

also believe that dreams themselves can help us get back on the road not only to

help us get back on the road not only to

help us get back on the road not only to sleeping better but to falling back in

sleeping better but to falling back in

sleeping better but to falling back in love with the night and sleep when I

love with the night and sleep when I

love with the night and sleep when I meet a new acquaintance they will often

meet a new acquaintance they will often

meet a new acquaintance they will often tell me that they don’t like their

tell me that they don’t like their

tell me that they don’t like their dreams right I tell them oh I work with

dreams right I tell them oh I work with

dreams right I tell them oh I work with dreams professionally and they reply

dreams professionally and they reply

dreams professionally and they reply with an uncomfortable laugh they say

with an uncomfortable laugh they say

with an uncomfortable laugh they say dreams they’re too confusing they’re

dreams they’re too confusing they’re

dreams they’re too confusing they’re disturbing they’re scary why would I

disturbing they’re scary why would I

disturbing they’re scary why would I want to remember those right now at

want to remember those right now at

want to remember those right now at first I could not understand this

first I could not understand this

first I could not understand this attitude I have been talking about

attitude I have been talking about

attitude I have been talking about remembering celebrating my dreams since

remembering celebrating my dreams since

remembering celebrating my dreams since I was a little girl of four or five my

I was a little girl of four or five my

I was a little girl of four or five my dreams have acted like the ideal

dreams have acted like the ideal

dreams have acted like the ideal therapist my life coach my guru my best

therapist my life coach my guru my best

therapist my life coach my guru my best friend they’ve even been like a real

friend they’ve even been like a real

friend they’ve even been like a real estate agent helping me find the perfect

estate agent helping me find the perfect

estate agent helping me find the perfect place to live and a matchmaker helping

place to live and a matchmaker helping

place to live and a matchmaker helping me find true love but I get that this

me find true love but I get that this

me find true love but I get that this isn’t everybody’s view after all sleep

isn’t everybody’s view after all sleep

isn’t everybody’s view after all sleep and dreaming involves getting still and

and dreaming involves getting still and

and dreaming involves getting still and quiet in the dark and does denizens of a

quiet in the dark and does denizens of a

quiet in the dark and does denizens of a hyper-connected culture we don’t like

hyper-connected culture we don’t like

hyper-connected culture we don’t like that we like to be on the go and in

that we like to be on the go and in

that we like to be on the go and in control so we’re still and quiet in the

control so we’re still and quiet in the

control so we’re still and quiet in the dark and are sleeping and dreaming brain

dark and are sleeping and dreaming brain

dark and are sleeping and dreaming brain chemistry kicks in and that means our

chemistry kicks in and that means our

chemistry kicks in and that means our senses are muted our body temporarily

senses are muted our body temporarily

senses are muted our body temporarily paralyzed and our brain is as active or

paralyzed and our brain is as active or

paralyzed and our brain is as active or more so than it is awake into this brew

more so than it is awake into this brew

more so than it is awake into this brew the dreams meanwhile our minds our

the dreams meanwhile our minds our

the dreams meanwhile our minds our brains are low on mood boosting

brains are low on mood boosting

brains are low on mood boosting neurotransmitters like serotonin while

neurotransmitters like serotonin while

neurotransmitters like serotonin while we are free of the distraction of

we are free of the distraction of

we are free of the distraction of external stimuli we’re left alone as I

external stimuli we’re left alone as I

external stimuli we’re left alone as I mentioned before with the contents of

mentioned before with the contents of

mentioned before with the contents of our subconscious minds that could be our

our subconscious minds that could be our

our subconscious minds that could be our regrets our resentments our losses our

regrets our resentments our losses our

regrets our resentments our losses our griefs things we haven’t yet tended to

griefs things we haven’t yet tended to

griefs things we haven’t yet tended to since we don’t have a full reserves of

since we don’t have a full reserves of

since we don’t have a full reserves of serotonin in act two have very little

serotonin in act two have very little

serotonin in act two have very little negative emotions outweigh positive ones

negative emotions outweigh positive ones

negative emotions outweigh positive ones in most people’s dreams and then there

in most people’s dreams and then there

in most people’s dreams and then there are nightmares though the only account

are nightmares though the only account

are nightmares though the only account for about five to six percent of all

for about five to six percent of all

for about five to six percent of all dreams they can be so scary

dreams they can be so scary

dreams they can be so scary some people consciously or not avoid

some people consciously or not avoid

some people consciously or not avoid sleep altogether just so they don’t have

sleep altogether just so they don’t have

sleep altogether just so they don’t have any more of those which is a shame

any more of those which is a shame

any more of those which is a shame because we have to sleep to dream the

because we have to sleep to dream the

because we have to sleep to dream the more we sleep the better chance we have

more we sleep the better chance we have

more we sleep the better chance we have of having memorable and potentially

of having memorable and potentially

of having memorable and potentially meaningful dreams that’s because as we

meaningful dreams that’s because as we

meaningful dreams that’s because as we sleep our REM periods get longer and

sleep our REM periods get longer and

sleep our REM periods get longer and longer as the night progresses so that

longer as the night progresses so that

longer as the night progresses so that some six or seven hours into the night

some six or seven hours into the night

some six or seven hours into the night we have our longest REM period and

we have our longest REM period and

we have our longest REM period and that’s where most of the vivid dreams

that’s where most of the vivid dreams

that’s where most of the vivid dreams take place now if we learn to become

take place now if we learn to become

take place now if we learn to become literate in these dream and understand

literate in these dream and understand

literate in these dream and understand their language we become better for it

their language we become better for it

their language we become better for it we get in touch with the untapped

we get in touch with the untapped

we get in touch with the untapped reserves of creativity wisdom and

reserves of creativity wisdom and

reserves of creativity wisdom and guidance but unfortunately most of these

guidance but unfortunately most of these

guidance but unfortunately most of these dreams are being washed away in the

dreams are being washed away in the

dreams are being washed away in the shower before we even get to the

shower before we even get to the

shower before we even get to the breakfast table for the most part

breakfast table for the most part

breakfast table for the most part although everybody dreams several times

although everybody dreams several times

although everybody dreams several times each

each

each night in fact we’re only remembering a

night in fact we’re only remembering a

night in fact we’re only remembering a small fraction of them maybe two or

small fraction of them maybe two or

small fraction of them maybe two or three dreams a week on average when

three dreams a week on average when

three dreams a week on average when we’re having between 21 and 35 and we

we’re having between 21 and 35 and we

we’re having between 21 and 35 and we rarely talk about the dreams we do

rarely talk about the dreams we do

rarely talk about the dreams we do remember or at least talk openly about

remember or at least talk openly about

remember or at least talk openly about them

them

them I’d say we’re less likely to talk openly

I’d say we’re less likely to talk openly

I’d say we’re less likely to talk openly about our dreams than we are to talk

about our dreams than we are to talk

about our dreams than we are to talk openly about money or sex which strikes

openly about money or sex which strikes

openly about money or sex which strikes me as strange because dreams are a

me as strange because dreams are a

me as strange because dreams are a natural byproduct and a healthy

natural byproduct and a healthy

natural byproduct and a healthy byproduct of sleep scientists haven’t

byproduct of sleep scientists haven’t

byproduct of sleep scientists haven’t come to consensus yet on exactly why we

come to consensus yet on exactly why we

come to consensus yet on exactly why we dream but there are many proven benefits

dream but there are many proven benefits

dream but there are many proven benefits for example dreams help us process

for example dreams help us process

for example dreams help us process things like grief life transitions and

things like grief life transitions and

things like grief life transitions and relationship issues as well as or better

relationship issues as well as or better

relationship issues as well as or better than traditional talk therapy in most

than traditional talk therapy in most

than traditional talk therapy in most cases because the Dreaming mind is adept

cases because the Dreaming mind is adept

cases because the Dreaming mind is adept at random associations bringing together

at random associations bringing together

at random associations bringing together seemingly surprising people events and

seemingly surprising people events and

seemingly surprising people events and places from our lives they help us with

places from our lives they help us with

places from our lives they help us with problem-solving getting new perspective

problem-solving getting new perspective

problem-solving getting new perspective on stubborn problems that have been

on stubborn problems that have been

on stubborn problems that have been vexing us and even making way for

vexing us and even making way for

vexing us and even making way for epiphany inspiration you might also look

epiphany inspiration you might also look

epiphany inspiration you might also look at your dream the night janitor

at your dream the night janitor

at your dream the night janitor disposing of unnecessary memories or a

disposing of unnecessary memories or a

disposing of unnecessary memories or a librarian on the night shift

librarian on the night shift

librarian on the night shift who’s consolidating our memories to make

who’s consolidating our memories to make

who’s consolidating our memories to make room for more of them in some cases as

room for more of them in some cases as

room for more of them in some cases as what nightmares suffers doing dream work

what nightmares suffers doing dream work

what nightmares suffers doing dream work with a trained professional can even

with a trained professional can even

with a trained professional can even help them heal those nightmares so they

help them heal those nightmares so they

help them heal those nightmares so they can also heal their insomnia so they can

can also heal their insomnia so they can

can also heal their insomnia so they can actually help us sleep better dreams

actually help us sleep better dreams

actually help us sleep better dreams have also been the source of countless

have also been the source of countless

have also been the source of countless inventions discoveries and creative

inventions discoveries and creative

inventions discoveries and creative breakthroughs everything from the

breakthroughs everything from the

breakthroughs everything from the electric sewing machine to the periodic

electric sewing machine to the periodic

electric sewing machine to the periodic table to the Beatles classic yesterday

table to the Beatles classic yesterday

table to the Beatles classic yesterday most importantly dreams can help us to

most importantly dreams can help us to

most importantly dreams can help us to experience life in a more pleasurable

experience life in a more pleasurable

experience life in a more pleasurable fun and exciting way so what are we

fun and exciting way so what are we

fun and exciting way so what are we doing to get more sleep so we can dream

doing to get more sleep so we can dream

doing to get more sleep so we can dream we’re Americans we’re popping pills

we’re Americans we’re popping pills

we’re Americans we’re popping pills in fact we’re spending some 41 billion

in fact we’re spending some 41 billion

in fact we’re spending some 41 billion dollars on sleep medications and AIDS

dollars on sleep medications and AIDS

dollars on sleep medications and AIDS each year and what does that buy us

each year and what does that buy us

each year and what does that buy us about 11 to 20 minutes more sleep each

about 11 to 20 minutes more sleep each

about 11 to 20 minutes more sleep each night which might be okay except a

night which might be okay except a

night which might be okay except a Gallup poll tells us that what most

Gallup poll tells us that what most

Gallup poll tells us that what most people need is another hour or more the

people need is another hour or more the

people need is another hour or more the medications don’t have the best track

medications don’t have the best track

medications don’t have the best track record but there’s something that does

record but there’s something that does

record but there’s something that does studies have proven time and again that

studies have proven time and again that

studies have proven time and again that the most effective remedy for our sleep

the most effective remedy for our sleep

the most effective remedy for our sleep woes is sleep hygiene it’s not quite as

woes is sleep hygiene it’s not quite as

woes is sleep hygiene it’s not quite as sexy as something you might wish for but

sexy as something you might wish for but

sexy as something you might wish for but it means making better bedtime habits

it means making better bedtime habits

it means making better bedtime habits you know it you’ve read about it

you know it you’ve read about it

you know it you’ve read about it clearing the bedroom of distractions

clearing the bedroom of distractions

clearing the bedroom of distractions getting to bed at about the same time

getting to bed at about the same time

getting to bed at about the same time each night winding down in the evening

each night winding down in the evening

each night winding down in the evening with a book or a bath all those

with a book or a bath all those

with a book or a bath all those different things are more effective than

different things are more effective than

different things are more effective than the medication but we’re still not doing

the medication but we’re still not doing

the medication but we’re still not doing it which makes me think we must be more

it which makes me think we must be more

it which makes me think we must be more frightened of the darkness and

frightened of the darkness and

frightened of the darkness and surrendering to our subconscious than we

surrendering to our subconscious than we

surrendering to our subconscious than we are of the consequences we say we’re too

are of the consequences we say we’re too

are of the consequences we say we’re too busy that’s why we don’t get enough

busy that’s why we don’t get enough

busy that’s why we don’t get enough sleep

sleep

sleep we can’t even accomplish everything on

we can’t even accomplish everything on

we can’t even accomplish everything on our to-do list let alone put aside seven

our to-do list let alone put aside seven

our to-do list let alone put aside seven or eight hours to sleep which sounds

or eight hours to sleep which sounds

or eight hours to sleep which sounds plausible until you consider that

plausible until you consider that

plausible until you consider that productivity actually decreases when you

productivity actually decreases when you

productivity actually decreases when you sleep less

sleep less

sleep less we say well I want to bring more

we say well I want to bring more

we say well I want to bring more experiences out of every day and I want

experiences out of every day and I want

experiences out of every day and I want to have more and better days I don’t

to have more and better days I don’t

to have more and better days I don’t have time for sleep I can rest forever

have time for sleep I can rest forever

have time for sleep I can rest forever once I’m dead that doesn’t work either

once I’m dead that doesn’t work either

once I’m dead that doesn’t work either because we all know that sleep is one of

because we all know that sleep is one of

because we all know that sleep is one of the best things we can do for our health

the best things we can do for our health

the best things we can do for our health and what better way and to be healthy we

and what better way and to be healthy we

and what better way and to be healthy we know that none of this makes sense but

know that none of this makes sense but

know that none of this makes sense but it’s bigger than just the individual

it’s bigger than just the individual

it’s bigger than just the individual this is a collective problem we’ve

this is a collective problem we’ve

this is a collective problem we’ve banished darkness from our worlds in our

banished darkness from our worlds in our

banished darkness from our worlds in our homes every room is lit up we’ve got

homes every room is lit up we’ve got

homes every room is lit up we’ve got lights pulsing flashing everywhere step

lights pulsing flashing everywhere step

lights pulsing flashing everywhere step outside our neighborhoods and our cities

outside our neighborhoods and our cities

outside our neighborhoods and our cities are lit up so we can barely see the

are lit up so we can barely see the

are lit up so we can barely see the stars anymore

stars anymore

stars anymore not only that thanks to electricity and

not only that thanks to electricity and

not only that thanks to electricity and electronics we can dine work socialize

electronics we can dine work socialize

electronics we can dine work socialize all day long and into the night this

all day long and into the night this

all day long and into the night this problem is well known and we keep

problem is well known and we keep

problem is well known and we keep hearing the consequences in terms of

hearing the consequences in terms of

hearing the consequences in terms of risk our health right

risk our health right

risk our health right everything from Alzheimer’s disease to

everything from Alzheimer’s disease to

everything from Alzheimer’s disease to diabetes to depression to heart

diabetes to depression to heart

diabetes to depression to heart conditions are exacerbated when we don’t

conditions are exacerbated when we don’t

conditions are exacerbated when we don’t get enough sleep but there’s something

get enough sleep but there’s something

get enough sleep but there’s something we’re not talking about we’re not

we’re not talking about we’re not

we’re not talking about we’re not talking about the fact that we forfeit

talking about the fact that we forfeit

talking about the fact that we forfeit an invitation when we lose out on sleep

an invitation when we lose out on sleep

an invitation when we lose out on sleep we forfeit the gifts of the darkness we

we forfeit the gifts of the darkness we

we forfeit the gifts of the darkness we forfeit the opportunity to slow down get

forfeit the opportunity to slow down get

forfeit the opportunity to slow down get cozy and turn inward in the night we

cozy and turn inward in the night we

cozy and turn inward in the night we lose the chance to commune with our

lose the chance to commune with our

lose the chance to commune with our dreams so let me show you what just a

dreams so let me show you what just a

dreams so let me show you what just a little bit of dream work can offer us

little bit of dream work can offer us

little bit of dream work can offer us we’ll go back to that dream of bliss I

we’ll go back to that dream of bliss I

we’ll go back to that dream of bliss I talked about earlier now if I just add

talked about earlier now if I just add

talked about earlier now if I just add that dream and not reflected on it it

that dream and not reflected on it it

that dream and not reflected on it it would have been a fabulous experience

would have been a fabulous experience

would have been a fabulous experience but an isolated one instead I’m

but an isolated one instead I’m

but an isolated one instead I’m to turn toward that dream and that every

to turn toward that dream and that every

to turn toward that dream and that every part of it had some significance for

part of it had some significance for

part of it had some significance for example I had to wonder why my dream of

example I had to wonder why my dream of

example I had to wonder why my dream of lists took place not on some white sand

lists took place not on some white sand

lists took place not on some white sand beach in the Caribbean but in the

beach in the Caribbean but in the

beach in the Caribbean but in the darkest farthest corner in the messiest

darkest farthest corner in the messiest

darkest farthest corner in the messiest most chaotic room of my house my

most chaotic room of my house my

most chaotic room of my house my daughter’s room now

daughter’s room now

daughter’s room now I’d mentioned that my daughter had been

I’d mentioned that my daughter had been

I’d mentioned that my daughter had been testing my patience at the time that was

testing my patience at the time that was

testing my patience at the time that was an understatement

an understatement

an understatement she was pushing me away but hard with

she was pushing me away but hard with

she was pushing me away but hard with her angry outbursts and her rebellious

her angry outbursts and her rebellious

her angry outbursts and her rebellious behaviors and for my part I was starting

behaviors and for my part I was starting

behaviors and for my part I was starting to erect a wall inside me to protect

to erect a wall inside me to protect

to erect a wall inside me to protect myself from that pain but that dream

myself from that pain but that dream

myself from that pain but that dream showed me I needed to step into that

showed me I needed to step into that

showed me I needed to step into that difficult terrain if I wanted to find

difficult terrain if I wanted to find

difficult terrain if I wanted to find true bliss in order to be the mother I

true bliss in order to be the mother I

true bliss in order to be the mother I wanted to be and the mother I know my

wanted to be and the mother I know my

wanted to be and the mother I know my daughter needed me to be I had to risk

daughter needed me to be I had to risk

daughter needed me to be I had to risk völler ability and more hurt and

völler ability and more hurt and

völler ability and more hurt and stepped toward her and do the work that

stepped toward her and do the work that

stepped toward her and do the work that needed to be done in the end the young

needed to be done in the end the young

needed to be done in the end the young woman my daughter’s grown up to be and

woman my daughter’s grown up to be and

woman my daughter’s grown up to be and the relationship we have together are

the relationship we have together are

the relationship we have together are among my proudest accomplishments and

among my proudest accomplishments and

among my proudest accomplishments and I’ve been able to use that dream and the

I’ve been able to use that dream and the

I’ve been able to use that dream and the memorable and profound lessons I learned

memorable and profound lessons I learned

memorable and profound lessons I learned from it to help other people to work

from it to help other people to work

from it to help other people to work through their dark passages so to get

through their dark passages so to get

through their dark passages so to get there we should take a mindful approach

there we should take a mindful approach

there we should take a mindful approach to sleep and dreams set an intention at

to sleep and dreams set an intention at

to sleep and dreams set an intention at night an intention to have good dreams

night an intention to have good dreams

night an intention to have good dreams sweet sleep and to remember your dreams

sweet sleep and to remember your dreams

sweet sleep and to remember your dreams meditating for even a short period of

meditating for even a short period of

meditating for even a short period of time sometime between dinner and bedtime

time sometime between dinner and bedtime

time sometime between dinner and bedtime will help you sleep better and get more

will help you sleep better and get more

will help you sleep better and get more comfortable with the stillness and

comfortable with the stillness and

comfortable with the stillness and darkness inside you thinking positive

darkness inside you thinking positive

darkness inside you thinking positive thoughts then the evening has been

thoughts then the evening has been

thoughts then the evening has been proven to help with sleep

proven to help with sleep

proven to help with sleep so make a gratitude list

so make a gratitude list

so make a gratitude list say a prayer we’re an inspiring poem

say a prayer we’re an inspiring poem

say a prayer we’re an inspiring poem before bed and if you wake up during the

before bed and if you wake up during the

before bed and if you wake up during the night and even if you don’t remember

night and even if you don’t remember

night and even if you don’t remember your dreams be aware that you’re having

your dreams be aware that you’re having

your dreams be aware that you’re having them keep a pen and paper by the side of

them keep a pen and paper by the side of

them keep a pen and paper by the side of your bed write down your dreams if you

your bed write down your dreams if you

your bed write down your dreams if you remember one and be willing to reflect

remember one and be willing to reflect

remember one and be willing to reflect on them so I still marvel at my bliss

on them so I still marvel at my bliss

on them so I still marvel at my bliss dream it acts as a touchstone for me and

dream it acts as a touchstone for me and

dream it acts as a touchstone for me and I hope that will also be a reminder to

I hope that will also be a reminder to

I hope that will also be a reminder to you of what is possible when we turn

you of what is possible when we turn

you of what is possible when we turn toward the night when we welcome and

toward the night when we welcome and

toward the night when we welcome and befriend all of our dreams the difficult

befriend all of our dreams the difficult

befriend all of our dreams the difficult and disturbing ones the bright and

and disturbing ones the bright and

and disturbing ones the bright and beautiful ones and if we do our dreams

beautiful ones and if we do our dreams

beautiful ones and if we do our dreams can lead us to lives richer in

can lead us to lives richer in

can lead us to lives richer in connection meaning purpose and joy may

connection meaning purpose and joy may

connection meaning purpose and joy may you all sleep dream and be well thank

you all sleep dream and be well thank

you all sleep dream and be well thank you

you

you [Applause]

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