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[Applause]

[Applause] morning picture a group of students

morning picture a group of students

morning picture a group of students going out in blizzard conditions because

going out in blizzard conditions because

going out in blizzard conditions because of regardless of the weather they’re

of regardless of the weather they’re

of regardless of the weather they’re gonna go out and they’re gonna collect

gonna go out and they’re gonna collect

gonna go out and they’re gonna collect donations for a Christmas morning event

donations for a Christmas morning event

donations for a Christmas morning event then they’re gonna bring them back to

then they’re gonna bring them back to

then they’re gonna bring them back to the school and they’re going to

the school and they’re going to

the school and they’re going to carefully wrap them mark them from Santa

carefully wrap them mark them from Santa

carefully wrap them mark them from Santa Claus and have them ready for Christmas

Claus and have them ready for Christmas

Claus and have them ready for Christmas morning not all of them will be there on

morning not all of them will be there on

morning not all of them will be there on Christmas morning but those that can be

Christmas morning but those that can be

Christmas morning but those that can be will also be in a hotel on Christmas Eve

will also be in a hotel on Christmas Eve

will also be in a hotel on Christmas Eve because they have to be up at 6 a.m. and

because they have to be up at 6 a.m. and

because they have to be up at 6 a.m. and on their way to the Legion to create

on their way to the Legion to create

on their way to the Legion to create Christmas for seniors of the community

Christmas for seniors of the community

Christmas for seniors of the community seniors for whom Christmas is often a

seniors for whom Christmas is often a

seniors for whom Christmas is often a time of loss loved ones far away and

time of loss loved ones far away and

time of loss loved ones far away and long lost loved ones as well these youth

long lost loved ones as well these youth

long lost loved ones as well these youth would be amazing no matter where they

would be amazing no matter where they

would be amazing no matter where they were but now picture that their

were but now picture that their

were but now picture that their alternate school youth they are ones

alternate school youth they are ones

alternate school youth they are ones that wear stereotypes of being bad kids

that wear stereotypes of being bad kids

that wear stereotypes of being bad kids drug addicts those unable to complete

drug addicts those unable to complete

drug addicts those unable to complete school nothing could be further from the

school nothing could be further from the

school nothing could be further from the truth because there they are giving up

truth because there they are giving up

truth because there they are giving up their Christmas morning to make sure the

their Christmas morning to make sure the

their Christmas morning to make sure the seniors are looked after one grad who

seniors are looked after one grad who

seniors are looked after one grad who has been with us for a number of years

has been with us for a number of years

has been with us for a number of years and never misses an event once told me

and never misses an event once told me

and never misses an event once told me that her Christmases were awful because

that her Christmases were awful because

that her Christmases were awful because of her parents addiction these were the

of her parents addiction these were the

of her parents addiction these were the only good Christmases she had and now

only good Christmases she had and now

only good Christmases she had and now she wants her children to grow up with

she wants her children to grow up with

she wants her children to grow up with that as well hard to imagine but when I

that as well hard to imagine but when I

that as well hard to imagine but when I arrived at the school these were the

arrived at the school these were the

arrived at the school these were the outcasts of the community the community

outcasts of the community the community

outcasts of the community the community had put up a fight about the alternate

had put up a fight about the alternate

had put up a fight about the alternate school coming into town so that the

school coming into town so that the

school coming into town so that the alternate school would be in front of

alternate school would be in front of

alternate school would be in front of the high school they called trustees

the high school they called trustees

the high school they called trustees they tried to set up public meetings

they tried to set up public meetings

they tried to set up public meetings they didn’t want those kids anywhere

they didn’t want those kids anywhere

they didn’t want those kids anywhere near their kids but I came and I had a

near their kids but I came and I had a

near their kids but I came and I had a different idea I believe there’s no such

different idea I believe there’s no such

different idea I believe there’s no such thing as problem youth just youth with

thing as problem youth just youth with

thing as problem youth just youth with problems and if we can

problems and if we can

problems and if we can teach them to cope with those problems

teach them to cope with those problems

teach them to cope with those problems they can soar so we had to bring them in

they can soar so we had to bring them in

they can soar so we had to bring them in and we had to change a community

and we had to change a community

and we had to change a community perception first thing we did was we

perception first thing we did was we

perception first thing we did was we renamed the school we called it ace

renamed the school we called it ace

renamed the school we called it ace Agassiz Center for education and we

Agassiz Center for education and we

Agassiz Center for education and we changed it to a school of choice prior

changed it to a school of choice prior

changed it to a school of choice prior to that across BC I don’t know how many

to that across BC I don’t know how many

to that across BC I don’t know how many of you would know this but to get into

of you would know this but to get into

of you would know this but to get into an alternate program you had to be sent

an alternate program you had to be sent

an alternate program you had to be sent by a high school and you’d have had to

by a high school and you’d have had to

by a high school and you’d have had to have done something pretty drastic to be

have done something pretty drastic to be

have done something pretty drastic to be sent there but I thought about this and

sent there but I thought about this and

sent there but I thought about this and what message does that send it says to

what message does that send it says to

what message does that send it says to them you’re broken so we’re gonna send

them you’re broken so we’re gonna send

them you’re broken so we’re gonna send you over there and if they fix you you

you over there and if they fix you you

you over there and if they fix you you can come back to the real school the

can come back to the real school the

can come back to the real school the real school is something that I hear a

real school is something that I hear a

real school is something that I hear a lot that alternate schools are not real

lot that alternate schools are not real

lot that alternate schools are not real schools I was lucky I had a high school

schools I was lucky I had a high school

schools I was lucky I had a high school willing to work with me and we created a

willing to work with me and we created a

willing to work with me and we created a self referral process so as soon as

self referral process so as soon as

self referral process so as soon as things started going a little bit off

things started going a little bit off

things started going a little bit off kilter

kilter

kilter ace would be suggested or the students

ace would be suggested or the students

ace would be suggested or the students could come in on their own with their

could come in on their own with their

could come in on their own with their parents and we would have an intake

parents and we would have an intake

parents and we would have an intake meeting we would determine whether they

meeting we would determine whether they

meeting we would determine whether they needed an alternate program and if they

needed an alternate program and if they

needed an alternate program and if they did they were welcome to come into it

did they were welcome to come into it

did they were welcome to come into it this was the first step in changing

this was the first step in changing

this was the first step in changing perceptions we had to change perceptions

perceptions we had to change perceptions

perceptions we had to change perceptions in the community I had to convince the

in the community I had to convince the

in the community I had to convince the community that these kids were worth it

community that these kids were worth it

community that these kids were worth it and that we could do it but sadly

and that we could do it but sadly

and that we could do it but sadly because of the way they were sent

because of the way they were sent

because of the way they were sent sometimes I had to convince the kids

sometimes I had to convince the kids

sometimes I had to convince the kids themselves another misperception out

themselves another misperception out

themselves another misperception out there is that alternate schools are not

there is that alternate schools are not

there is that alternate schools are not real schools as I said I hear that quite

real schools as I said I hear that quite

real schools as I said I hear that quite often and it’s sad we are public schools

often and it’s sad we are public schools

often and it’s sad we are public schools there’s a belief that you can’t graduate

there’s a belief that you can’t graduate

there’s a belief that you can’t graduate from an alternate school nothing could

from an alternate school nothing could

from an alternate school nothing could be further from the truth

be further from the truth

be further from the truth alternate students received the exact

alternate students received the exact

alternate students received the exact same credentials as any other school but

same credentials as any other school but

same credentials as any other school but they also graduate with a perspective

they also graduate with a perspective

they also graduate with a perspective and a strength they wouldn’t get in

and a strength they wouldn’t get in

and a strength they wouldn’t get in other schools Frances for example came

other schools Frances for example came

other schools Frances for example came to us she had been an honor roll student

to us she had been an honor roll student

to us she had been an honor roll student but she’d had to miss two years because

but she’d had to miss two years because

but she’d had to miss two years because her mother was very ill

her mother was very ill

her mother was very ill her grandpa decided it was time to go

her grandpa decided it was time to go

her grandpa decided it was time to go back to school and he dragged her in

back to school and he dragged her in

back to school and he dragged her in pretty much kicking and screaming she

pretty much kicking and screaming she

pretty much kicking and screaming she had her own perception of alternate

had her own perception of alternate

had her own perception of alternate students and she believed that she

students and she believed that she

students and she believed that she wouldn’t be able to go to university and

wouldn’t be able to go to university and

wouldn’t be able to go to university and become the marine biologist that she

become the marine biologist that she

become the marine biologist that she wanted fast forward to now the loss of

wanted fast forward to now the loss of

wanted fast forward to now the loss of Francis’s mother was something we could

Francis’s mother was something we could

Francis’s mother was something we could help her deal with in an alternate

help her deal with in an alternate

help her deal with in an alternate program she is now on track she will be

program she is now on track she will be

program she is now on track she will be going to university and now she has no

going to university and now she has no

going to university and now she has no intention of leaving recently we had an

intention of leaving recently we had an

intention of leaving recently we had an interview four of our students Francis

interview four of our students Francis

interview four of our students Francis Ivy Leslie and Emma all spoke of coming

Ivy Leslie and Emma all spoke of coming

Ivy Leslie and Emma all spoke of coming to the alternate program and how they

to the alternate program and how they

to the alternate program and how they didn’t want to really come they had

didn’t want to really come they had

didn’t want to really come they had their perceptions based on these

their perceptions based on these

their perceptions based on these stereotypes that we fight every day and

stereotypes that we fight every day and

stereotypes that we fight every day and they didn’t want to be there but if you

they didn’t want to be there but if you

they didn’t want to be there but if you asked them now why they’re there they

asked them now why they’re there they

asked them now why they’re there they will tell you it’s because it’s safe

will tell you it’s because it’s safe

will tell you it’s because it’s safe it’s caring they’ll mention the supports

it’s caring they’ll mention the supports

it’s caring they’ll mention the supports but my personal favorite they’re there

but my personal favorite they’re there

but my personal favorite they’re there because they want to be in order to

because they want to be in order to

because they want to be in order to overcome a lot of the stigma of the

overcome a lot of the stigma of the

overcome a lot of the stigma of the alternate I decided that we needed to

alternate I decided that we needed to

alternate I decided that we needed to create partnerships in the community

create partnerships in the community

create partnerships in the community partnerships were going to be very

partnerships were going to be very

partnerships were going to be very important these kids had to be

important these kids had to be

important these kids had to be integrated back into the community so

integrated back into the community so

integrated back into the community so you will see the first one was the

you will see the first one was the

you will see the first one was the Legion Jim Johnson was a retired teacher

Legion Jim Johnson was a retired teacher

Legion Jim Johnson was a retired teacher he was the president at the time and he

he was the president at the time and he

he was the president at the time and he understood alternate students and what I

understood alternate students and what I

understood alternate students and what I was trying to accomplish so we created a

was trying to accomplish so we created a

was trying to accomplish so we created a partnership and he came in and you’ll

partnership and he came in and you’ll

partnership and he came in and you’ll see he brought artifacts and he let them

see he brought artifacts and he let them

see he brought artifacts and he let them try on the gas masks and he let them ask

try on the gas masks and he let them ask

try on the gas masks and he let them ask questions and he would teach them and

questions and he would teach them and

questions and he would teach them and sometimes he would stop by the school

sometimes he would stop by the school

sometimes he would stop by the school just to visit and if he wasn’t there for

just to visit and if he wasn’t there for

just to visit and if he wasn’t there for a few days the students would notice and

a few days the students would notice and

a few days the students would notice and comment on that the partnership grew we

comment on that the partnership grew we

comment on that the partnership grew we started using their Hall for a variety

started using their Hall for a variety

started using their Hall for a variety of vents which was really amazing

of vents which was really amazing

of vents which was really amazing because at the time we did not have a

because at the time we did not have a

because at the time we did not have a formal graduation but with the legion

formal graduation but with the legion

formal graduation but with the legion partnership there was a hole and it had

partnership there was a hole and it had

partnership there was a hole and it had a commercial kitchen so now we had a

a commercial kitchen so now we had a

a commercial kitchen so now we had a hole we had a kitchen and we had a grad

at the first grad am

at the first grad am named Frank approached me Frank had two

named Frank approached me Frank had two

named Frank approached me Frank had two grandchildren and my program so he

grandchildren and my program so he

grandchildren and my program so he understood what I was trying to

understood what I was trying to

understood what I was trying to accomplish and what alternate youth were

accomplish and what alternate youth were

accomplish and what alternate youth were capable of so he approached me but sadly

capable of so he approached me but sadly

capable of so he approached me but sadly the message was the seniors in the

the message was the seniors in the

the message was the seniors in the community are afraid of your students

community are afraid of your students

community are afraid of your students I found that sad and actually a little

I found that sad and actually a little

I found that sad and actually a little humorous because there was nothing to be

humorous because there was nothing to be

humorous because there was nothing to be afraid of but I talked to Frank and we

afraid of but I talked to Frank and we

afraid of but I talked to Frank and we created senior teen events and the

created senior teen events and the

created senior teen events and the vision was that they were going to have

vision was that they were going to have

vision was that they were going to have lunch together and the youth would serve

lunch together and the youth would serve

lunch together and the youth would serve the seniors and then they would spend

the seniors and then they would spend

the seniors and then they would spend the afternoon together in a variety of

the afternoon together in a variety of

the afternoon together in a variety of activities we tried a few different

activities we tried a few different

activities we tried a few different activities bingo ended up being the

activities bingo ended up being the

activities bingo ended up being the favorite by far the dance lessons not so

favorite by far the dance lessons not so

favorite by far the dance lessons not so much but in looking around the first day

much but in looking around the first day

much but in looking around the first day I realized seniors have a lot of love to

I realized seniors have a lot of love to

I realized seniors have a lot of love to give but not always people to give it to

give but not always people to give it to

give but not always people to give it to alternate youth need a lotta love and

alternate youth need a lotta love and

alternate youth need a lotta love and they haven’t always received what they

they haven’t always received what they

they haven’t always received what they needed so when we put them together

needed so when we put them together

needed so when we put them together magic happened and they started off

magic happened and they started off

magic happened and they started off small but pretty soon the hall was at

small but pretty soon the hall was at

small but pretty soon the hall was at capacity pretty soon I was having to go

capacity pretty soon I was having to go

capacity pretty soon I was having to go to the elementary school to bring

to the elementary school to bring

to the elementary school to bring students from there to help us out

students from there to help us out

students from there to help us out because we couldn’t keep up with the

because we couldn’t keep up with the

because we couldn’t keep up with the demand the seniors were talking and

demand the seniors were talking and

demand the seniors were talking and sharing their life stories and the

sharing their life stories and the

sharing their life stories and the students were excited about it and I was

students were excited about it and I was

students were excited about it and I was hearing that they were holding doors in

hearing that they were holding doors in

hearing that they were holding doors in the community and helping seniors with

the community and helping seniors with

the community and helping seniors with groceries and these great friendships

groceries and these great friendships

groceries and these great friendships came out of that gone were the days that

came out of that gone were the days that

came out of that gone were the days that the seniors saw those kids as scary

the seniors saw those kids as scary

the seniors saw those kids as scary because they now had names gone were the

because they now had names gone were the

because they now had names gone were the days that the you saw the seniors is

days that the you saw the seniors is

days that the you saw the seniors is boring because they heard the stories ah

while we were doing the senior teen we

while we were doing the senior teen we also were doing fundraising because that

also were doing fundraising because that

also were doing fundraising because that also integrated the kids into the

also integrated the kids into the

also integrated the kids into the community because we sell publicly you

community because we sell publicly you

community because we sell publicly you will see up here our famous ace burger

will see up here our famous ace burger

will see up here our famous ace burger which I’m sure will make some of you

which I’m sure will make some of you

which I’m sure will make some of you hungry but thankfully its before lunch

hungry but thankfully its before lunch

hungry but thankfully its before lunch so it’s on its way

so it’s on its way

so it’s on its way so the ACE burger barbeque was to get

so the ACE burger barbeque was to get

so the ACE burger barbeque was to get them in the community get them working

them in the community get them working

them in the community get them working with the community

with the community

with the community it went from selling 40 in about a two

it went from selling 40 in about a two

it went from selling 40 in about a two hour period to over

hour period to over

hour period to over people went crazy for the sauce we even

people went crazy for the sauce we even

people went crazy for the sauce we even had to start bottling and I’m working it

had to start bottling and I’m working it

had to start bottling and I’m working it and yes the students actually make and

and yes the students actually make and

and yes the students actually make and bottle the sauce but what was

bottle the sauce but what was

bottle the sauce but what was interesting about the barbecues wasn’t

interesting about the barbecues wasn’t

interesting about the barbecues wasn’t just that they were a success but they

just that they were a success but they

just that they were a success but they brought seniors out the seniors

brought seniors out the seniors

brought seniors out the seniors I guess partly they love the burgers I

I guess partly they love the burgers I

I guess partly they love the burgers I mean what’s not to love right so partly

mean what’s not to love right so partly

mean what’s not to love right so partly they love the burgers but they also came

they love the burgers but they also came

they love the burgers but they also came to support the students to see their

to support the students to see their

to support the students to see their friends they told their senior friends

friends they told their senior friends

friends they told their senior friends about it and pretty soon our barbecues

about it and pretty soon our barbecues

about it and pretty soon our barbecues became almost like a senior teen event

became almost like a senior teen event

became almost like a senior teen event with the two groups interacting yet

with the two groups interacting yet

with the two groups interacting yet again so from all of this exposure to

again so from all of this exposure to

again so from all of this exposure to seniors that I had I heard many times

seniors that I had I heard many times

seniors that I had I heard many times that they were sad that they didn’t

that they were sad that they didn’t

that they were sad that they didn’t complete their diplomas so being the

complete their diplomas so being the

complete their diplomas so being the somewhat unique individual that I can be

somewhat unique individual that I can be

somewhat unique individual that I can be I thought why not bring them back to

I thought why not bring them back to

I thought why not bring them back to school with the alternate youth I was

school with the alternate youth I was

school with the alternate youth I was capable of doing that thank you

capable of doing that thank you

capable of doing that thank you I was capable of doing that because I

I was capable of doing that because I

I was capable of doing that because I have adult and alternate coming out of

have adult and alternate coming out of

have adult and alternate coming out of the same school so I created and I had

the same school so I created and I had

the same school so I created and I had to come up with a funny name cuz that’s

to come up with a funny name cuz that’s

to come up with a funny name cuz that’s just how I roll high school seniors and

just how I roll high school seniors and

just how I roll high school seniors and the first year I brought in 89 and 80

the first year I brought in 89 and 80

the first year I brought in 89 and 80 and a 76 year old in and they studied

and a 76 year old in and they studied

and a 76 year old in and they studied alongside the youth and they were

alongside the youth and they were

alongside the youth and they were terrified because after that many years

terrified because after that many years

terrified because after that many years out of school there was no way they were

out of school there was no way they were

out of school there was no way they were gonna be able to do it especially math

gonna be able to do it especially math

gonna be able to do it especially math they complained bitterly about math but

they complained bitterly about math but

they complained bitterly about math but they did and all of them graduated and

they did and all of them graduated and

they did and all of them graduated and they graduated alongside the youth

[Applause]

[Applause] kay was 89 years old she was the oldest

kay was 89 years old she was the oldest

kay was 89 years old she was the oldest person in Canadian history to graduate

person in Canadian history to graduate

person in Canadian history to graduate and I think to this day we are the

and I think to this day we are the

and I think to this day we are the school that has graduated the oldest

school that has graduated the oldest

school that has graduated the oldest person I don’t think that’s changed but

person I don’t think that’s changed but

person I don’t think that’s changed but it was amazing there was there were

it was amazing there was there were

it was amazing there was there were reporters and cameras and I can’t even

reporters and cameras and I can’t even

reporters and cameras and I can’t even describe just a barrage of press

describe just a barrage of press

describe just a barrage of press everywhere and people said to me but

everywhere and people said to me but

everywhere and people said to me but it’s all about the seniors and I said

it’s all about the seniors and I said

it’s all about the seniors and I said but it’s not because the students are in

but it’s not because the students are in

but it’s not because the students are in the background of every picture they

the background of every picture they

the background of every picture they were interviewed they were on the news

were interviewed they were on the news

were interviewed they were on the news they went international as well so they

they went international as well so they

they went international as well so they still benefited how many alternate

still benefited how many alternate

still benefited how many alternate schools get that kind of coverage on

schools get that kind of coverage on

schools get that kind of coverage on their grad ever in class these are two

their grad ever in class these are two

their grad ever in class these are two others in a in a later program would now

others in a in a later program would now

others in a in a later program would now graduate at eight seniors to date so

graduate at eight seniors to date so

graduate at eight seniors to date so these were two others and you’ll see

these were two others and you’ll see

these were two others and you’ll see them interacting with the students the

them interacting with the students the

them interacting with the students the students have gifts that they can give

students have gifts that they can give

students have gifts that they can give the seniors like knowledge of technology

the seniors like knowledge of technology

the seniors like knowledge of technology that kind of thing that’s quite obvious

that kind of thing that’s quite obvious

that kind of thing that’s quite obvious and the seniors have an interesting

and the seniors have an interesting

and the seniors have an interesting perspective from their life stories

perspective from their life stories

perspective from their life stories their history their wisdom and the two

their history their wisdom and the two

their history their wisdom and the two interacting is amazing to watch it’s

interacting is amazing to watch it’s

interacting is amazing to watch it’s also interesting to watch when they’ve

also interesting to watch when they’ve

also interesting to watch when they’ve actually lived something as kay once

actually lived something as kay once

actually lived something as kay once told me she was so good at history

told me she was so good at history

told me she was so good at history because she was actually there so in

because she was actually there so in

because she was actually there so in addition to that they socialized they

addition to that they socialized they

addition to that they socialized they became friends it was like watching

became friends it was like watching

became friends it was like watching youth banter with each other we don’t

youth banter with each other we don’t

youth banter with each other we don’t allow swearing in the school and one day

allow swearing in the school and one day

allow swearing in the school and one day one of the seniors led the b-word slip

one of the seniors led the b-word slip

one of the seniors led the b-word slip so Austin started laughing and he looked

so Austin started laughing and he looked

so Austin started laughing and he looked at me to see if I was going to do

at me to see if I was going to do

at me to see if I was going to do anything about it so I looked at her and

anything about it so I looked at her and

anything about it so I looked at her and I said he’s laughing because he wants to

I said he’s laughing because he wants to

I said he’s laughing because he wants to know if I’m gonna discipline you so she

know if I’m gonna discipline you so she

know if I’m gonna discipline you so she was trying to convince me that the B

was trying to convince me that the B

was trying to convince me that the B word was not indeed swearing and then

word was not indeed swearing and then

word was not indeed swearing and then the play argument between the two of

the play argument between the two of

the play argument between the two of them began and at one point Austin even

them began and at one point Austin even

them began and at one point Austin even threatened to call the home and tell on

threatened to call the home and tell on

threatened to call the home and tell on her

and it was amazing to watch it was funny

and it was amazing to watch it was funny and I enjoyed it but it also were my

and I enjoyed it but it also were my

and I enjoyed it but it also were my heart because they were so comfortable

heart because they were so comfortable

heart because they were so comfortable with each other that they could have

with each other that they could have

with each other that they could have this kind of conversation it was like

this kind of conversation it was like

this kind of conversation it was like friends talking and I was amazing

friends talking and I was amazing

friends talking and I was amazing after that we created a big Buddy

after that we created a big Buddy

after that we created a big Buddy Program with Kent Elementary the

Program with Kent Elementary the

Program with Kent Elementary the principal approached me and wanted my

principal approached me and wanted my

principal approached me and wanted my students to kind of become the seniors

students to kind of become the seniors

students to kind of become the seniors and the role models for the youth so we

and the role models for the youth so we

and the role models for the youth so we go over there variety of activities

go over there variety of activities

go over there variety of activities sports crafts that kind of thing and

sports crafts that kind of thing and

sports crafts that kind of thing and sometimes just playing on the playground

sometimes just playing on the playground

sometimes just playing on the playground but my students take what they’ve

but my students take what they’ve

but my students take what they’ve learned from everything they’ve gone

learned from everything they’ve gone

learned from everything they’ve gone through and pass it on to the younger

through and pass it on to the younger

through and pass it on to the younger ones with behavior issues so that they

ones with behavior issues so that they

ones with behavior issues so that they can avoid the same pitfalls that my kids

can avoid the same pitfalls that my kids

can avoid the same pitfalls that my kids had to go through it is amusing because

had to go through it is amusing because

had to go through it is amusing because sometimes the behavior of the younger

sometimes the behavior of the younger

sometimes the behavior of the younger ones isn’t exemplary and my students

ones isn’t exemplary and my students

ones isn’t exemplary and my students will lose patience and come to me

will lose patience and come to me

will lose patience and come to me griping about what the younger ones are

griping about what the younger ones are

griping about what the younger ones are doing when I point out to them that that

doing when I point out to them that that

doing when I point out to them that that was them a few years ago I see the light

was them a few years ago I see the light

was them a few years ago I see the light bulb goes on and that’s quite amusing to

bulb goes on and that’s quite amusing to

bulb goes on and that’s quite amusing to watch a couple of them have said over

watch a couple of them have said over

watch a couple of them have said over the years that it’s the best birth

the years that it’s the best birth

the years that it’s the best birth control they ever had but what I like

control they ever had but what I like

control they ever had but what I like about it is it’s an excellent gauge for

about it is it’s an excellent gauge for

about it is it’s an excellent gauge for those kids those kids to see how far

those kids those kids to see how far

those kids those kids to see how far they have come another event we do as an

they have come another event we do as an

they have come another event we do as an intergenerational day not many people

intergenerational day not many people

intergenerational day not many people know it but June 1st is national

know it but June 1st is national

know it but June 1st is national intergenerational day so now we create

intergenerational day so now we create

intergenerational day so now we create an event and it can change from your

an event and it can change from your

an event and it can change from your deer depending on the business is

deer depending on the business is

deer depending on the business is involved but we have two constants and

involved but we have two constants and

involved but we have two constants and one is the wheelchair walk and the other

one is the wheelchair walk and the other

one is the wheelchair walk and the other is the ace burger BBQ of course

is the ace burger BBQ of course

is the ace burger BBQ of course so can’t elementary sends students to

so can’t elementary sends students to

so can’t elementary sends students to the home to pick up seniors who don’t

the home to pick up seniors who don’t

the home to pick up seniors who don’t normally make it to our barbecues and

normally make it to our barbecues and

normally make it to our barbecues and they push them several blocks in

they push them several blocks in

they push them several blocks in wheelchairs to the event so that they

wheelchairs to the event so that they

wheelchairs to the event so that they can participate it’s open to the

can participate it’s open to the

can participate it’s open to the community plus we have our regular so

community plus we have our regular so

community plus we have our regular so you can imagine when the wheelchair walk

you can imagine when the wheelchair walk

you can imagine when the wheelchair walk arrives the high volume and high stress

arrives the high volume and high stress

arrives the high volume and high stress of serving that many burgers because

of serving that many burgers because

of serving that many burgers because people are hungry and they want it now

people are hungry and they want it now

people are hungry and they want it now but my kids pull it off beautifully

but my kids pull it off beautifully

but my kids pull it off beautifully every year back to our Christmas event

every year back to our Christmas event

every year back to our Christmas event of all the events we do this one is

of all the events we do this one is

of all the events we do this one is probably the most endearing to the

probably the most endearing to the

probably the most endearing to the community it all began when I was not

community it all began when I was not

community it all began when I was not going to Alberta one year and that was

going to Alberta one year and that was

going to Alberta one year and that was where my family was and I was thinking

where my family was and I was thinking

where my family was and I was thinking about my invitations and everything I

about my invitations and everything I

about my invitations and everything I had to do but then I got me to thinking

had to do but then I got me to thinking

had to do but then I got me to thinking about the seniors the seniors would be

about the seniors the seniors would be

about the seniors the seniors would be alone unwrapped their gifts alone have

alone unwrapped their gifts alone have

alone unwrapped their gifts alone have breakfast alone and this is after years

breakfast alone and this is after years

breakfast alone and this is after years of looking after others and making

of looking after others and making

of looking after others and making spectacular Christmases for their own

spectacular Christmases for their own

spectacular Christmases for their own families so I thought this was wrong and

families so I thought this was wrong and

families so I thought this was wrong and I went into school and I proposed to the

I went into school and I proposed to the

I went into school and I proposed to the kids why don’t we do this event and we

kids why don’t we do this event and we

kids why don’t we do this event and we will cook them breakfast and we will

will cook them breakfast and we will

will cook them breakfast and we will give them gifts and the kids rallied

give them gifts and the kids rallied

give them gifts and the kids rallied because we only had just over a week to

because we only had just over a week to

because we only had just over a week to get it together but we did and it has

get it together but we did and it has

get it together but we did and it has become a tradition every year and then

become a tradition every year and then

become a tradition every year and then on Christmas Eve I take them to a hotel

on Christmas Eve I take them to a hotel

on Christmas Eve I take them to a hotel many of them haven’t been in a nice

many of them haven’t been in a nice

many of them haven’t been in a nice hotel they love the pool I have a hard

hotel they love the pool I have a hard

hotel they love the pool I have a hard time getting them out of the pool but

time getting them out of the pool but

time getting them out of the pool but one of my favorite memories is two girls

one of my favorite memories is two girls

one of my favorite memories is two girls coming down looking like they hadn’t

coming down looking like they hadn’t

coming down looking like they hadn’t slept at all so I asked him about it and

slept at all so I asked him about it and

slept at all so I asked him about it and they said what they couldn’t sleep

they said what they couldn’t sleep

they said what they couldn’t sleep because the electric fireplace was too

because the electric fireplace was too

because the electric fireplace was too hot

hot

hot knowing they would have been the ones to

knowing they would have been the ones to

knowing they would have been the ones to turn it on I said why didn’t you just

turn it on I said why didn’t you just

turn it on I said why didn’t you just turn it off and they said because we’ve

turn it off and they said because we’ve

turn it off and they said because we’ve never had one before and I was so nice

never had one before and I was so nice

never had one before and I was so nice and I thought wow they’ve never had or

and I thought wow they’ve never had or

and I thought wow they’ve never had or seen an electric fireplace and they’re

seen an electric fireplace and they’re

seen an electric fireplace and they’re giving up their Christmas to make sure

giving up their Christmas to make sure

giving up their Christmas to make sure others are looked after from the

others are looked after from the

others are looked after from the Christmas morning event we won an award

Christmas morning event we won an award

Christmas morning event we won an award we’ve won many awards actually and we’ve

we’ve won many awards actually and we’ve

we’ve won many awards actually and we’ve been featured in a lot of places but the

been featured in a lot of places but the

been featured in a lot of places but the Betty Urquhart award from the University

Betty Urquhart award from the University

Betty Urquhart award from the University of the Fraser Valley for community

of the Fraser Valley for community

of the Fraser Valley for community service was one of the bigger ones

service was one of the bigger ones

service was one of the bigger ones because the students were allowed to

because the students were allowed to

because the students were allowed to come with me so we rented a limo and I

come with me so we rented a limo and I

come with me so we rented a limo and I bought them all their own champagne

bought them all their own champagne

bought them all their own champagne glass we filled it with sparkling apple

glass we filled it with sparkling apple

glass we filled it with sparkling apple juice and we rode in style to the ufv

juice and we rode in style to the ufv

juice and we rode in style to the ufv campus all dressed up in our school

campus all dressed up in our school

campus all dressed up in our school colors which by the way was the students

colors which by the way was the students

colors which by the way was the students idea not mine and we piled out of the

idea not mine and we piled out of the

idea not mine and we piled out of the limousine and we turned heads and ufv

limousine and we turned heads and ufv

limousine and we turned heads and ufv treated us like VIPs and we went up and

treated us like VIPs and we went up and

treated us like VIPs and we went up and accepted that award in front of hundreds

accepted that award in front of hundreds

accepted that award in front of hundreds of people at their convocation and it

of people at their convocation and it

of people at their convocation and it was amazing and it had a lasting impact

was amazing and it had a lasting impact

was amazing and it had a lasting impact but for me this showed the community

but for me this showed the community

but for me this showed the community first of all they clean up really nicely

first of all they clean up really nicely

first of all they clean up really nicely don’t they okay

don’t they okay

don’t they okay showed them what we can do what

showed them what we can do what

showed them what we can do what alternate youth

alternate youth

alternate youth can do what overgrown alternate youth

can do what overgrown alternate youth

can do what overgrown alternate youth can do so I’m gonna leave you with this

can do so I’m gonna leave you with this

can do so I’m gonna leave you with this picture these are those kids now this is

picture these are those kids now this is

picture these are those kids now this is an important photo because it’s when I

an important photo because it’s when I

an important photo because it’s when I got my master’s degree and that for me

got my master’s degree and that for me

got my master’s degree and that for me was monumental for a variety of reasons

was monumental for a variety of reasons

was monumental for a variety of reasons but my convocation was a sad time

but my convocation was a sad time

but my convocation was a sad time because my mother was dying and my

because my mother was dying and my

because my mother was dying and my family couldn’t make it out from

family couldn’t make it out from

family couldn’t make it out from Edmonton but there’s my ace family

Edmonton but there’s my ace family

Edmonton but there’s my ace family rallying around me and making sure that

rallying around me and making sure that

rallying around me and making sure that day was special for me the outcasts are

day was special for me the outcasts are

day was special for me the outcasts are now the in casts and those kids are our

now the in casts and those kids are our

now the in casts and those kids are our kids and our entire community benefits

kids and our entire community benefits

kids and our entire community benefits from having them in our lives thank you

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