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FORMAR EN EL AFECTO Y CRECER EN EL RESPETO | DORA RUBY MARTINEZ ARISTIZABAL | TEDxManizalesED


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how you feel afraid I was the

I will write from my perception

sweating in the hands

butterflies in the stomach knot in the

throat a feeling of wanting the

earth swallows us we forget how

we call ourselves is what happens when

we are in the classroom and the teacher

Call us to make an exhibition

orally or when we are in the auditorium

our name pronounced because the

time to get on stage

some of you who are here

tonight he has experienced some of

those feelings

well then they identify

with me I learned to be afraid from

very small

I think that was one of my first

learn the fear and I learned it in

home

I was born and grew in Manizales

I am the fifth in a family of ten

children and it turns out that we had a dad

pretty hard

that dad was the one with whom

answering was bad but not doing it

as well

then we did not know and then I went to the

school and at school I do not

I found a very different picture

because it was that letter school with

Blood enters the school where otherwise

was the correct answer was the

teacher to say he has his hand and takes

or quietly give us the pinch

I remember very especially in my

third year of elementary school

a teacher I remember her face I remember her

first name

I remember his last name and he marked me very

especially in that learning and medium

of fear because it was the one that always

first he had his gesture his

gathered was the one that was ready to

call us fools and I remember events that

they scored a lot when I did not have

silver to buy expensive

lina to make the maps sketch

that at that time he touched us and he carries

on paper in my presence

broke the map without even checking what

thrown into the trash basket because no

It was made on cardboard

the day we had to do the

gift for mother’s day very day

special for children and we’re going to do

some cats and it turns out that the fabric that I

I took an old cloth because I did not have

to buy a new fabric and I do not

they allowed to make the gift for me

mom and it was a big frustration

apart from the fear then it was the

frustration those years

I passed it from school to home and

house the school begging God that I

made invisible because I did not want

to be seen I did not want to be exposed

I did not want to be embarrassed of any

impasse way 11 years of my life five

years of primary school six years of

high school being invisible

behind a desk

I think my classmates not

they remind me because I was that partner

invisible

and ended it when the

school can not go to university

because my family did not have the means

economic to pay it

then there appeared on my way a great

opportunity and it was an institution

state education that provides

Free training and it ‘s dinner

I started at dinner to study a

general secretariat and it turns out that

I knew that philosophy of this

institution that training

integral professional

but apart from knowing that philosophy

I had the opportunity to meet with

an instructor who marked me

already from the positive side was a

instructor that made me visible that I

moved from the back seat to the

I linked with her, I learned that

inside me there was much more than

fear was more than fear there was

illusions that there were projects that

there were goals to fulfill and I set out to

fulfill them

I dreamed of working in this institution

and I had the opportunity to do it that way

which is an entity that has accompanied me

in a whole process of being apprenticed to be

secretary to be an instructor

academic coordinator and in this

dynamising moment of the technopark I

when I had the opportunity to be

teacher was the moment where I told myself

good if there was someone in my life in

a time difference marked as

I am obliged to return it

then I will do with those

students the same thing that this

instructor with me I’m going to start

make the invisible visible

I’m going to start learning stories from

life I’ll see in those thirty

students that come to me every morning

what happens to you and forget

also that I do not agree I do not

I know who came up with some

moment to think and say that the problems

that personal situations remain

outside when one comes to work

when he arrives at school or when

I arrived at the school when it reaches the

university because it is that we are

one and in that unit we have everything

then I am the daughter but I am the

Mom, I’m the sister

I am the person who works and before

be the professional I am the human being in

essence that we all are and that was what

I thought here what I have is 30

people are 30 being humans with whom

I have to do work

all my class sessions

independent that my areas were

techniques because my profession

then it was systems engineering

they started with a reflection with a

awareness and the first day of

class with groups

we talked about topics that are very

transcendental and if they are very important

topics like love themes like affection

issues like that fear of doing

ridiculous and that fear of making the bear and

from that experience that I brought from

have lived that school and that

experience in the house and having had

that change because he invited them to that with

the greatest of the affects but also the

greater respect

respect for difference respect

for that person who did not have the same

rhythm nor took things so fast

like the other companions because it is

that the truth is that we are subject to

an educational system where the successes

are shown by the achievements of those

students that from the beginning already

are demonstrating advances that

they are already more advanced and it turns out that

we have to change that

We have to start teaching success

to show by the results we have

with those trainees that we lag behind

with the students who are left behind

with students who ask to be

invisible but with the background of his

heart has a lot to give and what

they want is to be visible is

my teaching experience and it was a job

that I did alone and having those

institutional principles of the dinner that

They are very cute and they were the first

in forming me but already when I had the

opportunity to be a coordinator

academic well I said good is the

moment to transfer this to an entire

working team and looking for this

work is not only done by one person

by two by three by four by five

but it is the work of a collective

also that those principles

institutional that that training

integral professional that he had in

It counts both knowing how being and

as doing so they do not stay in the

paper that was worked by

absolutely everyone was the moment where

we coin the phrase form in affection and

grow in respect

that phrase became our

slogan and we did all a few activities

of awareness to make all

we appropriated them and started

live it on a day-to-day basis and in each

opportunity that we had there something that

it’s called evaluation committee and

follow-up that I think all the

educational institutions do not have and is

that mechanism to look at the cases of

those students that presents frequent

absences that presents delays that

they have low performance here

micó that they have disciplinary faults and

What we set out to do was to find

those evaluation committees and

follow-up transcended the

compliance with the regulation and that we

they converted in that instance where

we will know life stories where

we knew what was behind a

late arrival behind the

I had frequent absences

behind the disciplinary offenses of

our apprentices and so we started to

know a number of stories from

apprentices that needed to be

rescued they needed was a hand

lying to return them to the process

we have the case among many that we

caused immense satisfactions of one

of our students a young man of 18

years that he was about to retire from

a technology and we discover looking

his story that he was a young man who was

little had lost his mom that

he lived alone in a room and

before arriving at dinner was ago or

in family homes to survive

we find the case of an apprentice who

for his shyness and for that fear that

still brought he went to the company and the

company returned it two three weeks

after saying that it did not serve him

nothing and thinking about that of the

eclectic wisdom and that in this

world there is nothing and nobody so bad so

bad that does not have something good nor so

well so good that I do not have something bad

We said good we will give you the

opportunity we are going to invite you to

work with us and do your practice

as an internship because he was an apprentice

who stayed to work with us and

has already been in the

institution and our young man who

mentioned earlier he finished his

technology made a successful practice

in a major company in the city and

at this moment is taking place in

Medellin your life project like these

apprentices

there are lots of infinity and not only in

we have them in schools in

schools have them in the

colleges

the issue is not

What are young people like

transformation and for young people

be transformation engines

we need committed teachers

Engaged in touching the soul the heart

and being determined to make visible

the invisible ones bent on bringing

forward to the stragglers

I read a sentence a couple of days ago

directed to the dads that said peace

treat your children carefully because

They are made of dreams

I want to bring that phrase that night

I only bring it for dads for

people who are in charge of other

people but I bring it very

especially for teacher teachers

our young people are made of

dreams are made of illusions

they are made of hope and

we depend that your dreams

hopes those illusions flourish or

that those dreams

those hopes and illusions die and

they go out how life goes off

how many life transformations

we could do if we formed in the

Affection and we grew the respect

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