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Evoca, invoca y provoca LA VIDA | Sonia Díez | TEDxSevilla


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I have a hobby that fascinates me is

something that drives me crazy and that also

can practice continuously because what

you can practice at my job I would

I dedicate to education I can

practice in my leisure time when

I go to the movies when I read when I go out with

friends when I travel a lot and sometimes

I can even practice it when I’m

sleeping

few people have hobbies that can

practice when they sleep

it’s about discovering people

there are two types of learning in life

some of us who are usually

familiar with the educational world

are the ones that are set so that

produce a certain result

those are learnings that normally

during a stage they are organized by others

for us and then later the

we organize ourselves and we put ourselves in

third-party hands to help us or

ourselves to what we can do

even online but then there is another type

of learnings that are those of life

they are learnings that seem almost

always incidental things that happen

randomly then the possibility

to learn to enjoy through

Third party testimony

of what his life and power has been

invoke it later is a true

luxury and a privilege

so I bring here with me

vite curriculum

this is my CV vite because the

another one that you have been given out there if it is

that someone has it is the one that I call

the curriculum mortis is the curriculum

that says everything I’ve done and says

very little of what I can do

so with this curriculum vite equal

I can get some of you

animéis weighs a little but it is not of the

larger ones are more bulky

like any of you you encourage

uncles become amateurs like me

and create a partnership for

amateurs to share the life of

and summoned learning

well here in mine first thing

that appears is a very interesting stage

that came with a very

similar to what you have had

I’m sure that if it was not

same because there is my tribe’s worth

in my tribe we had a shield that

comes here represented and well then

this is the battle they put on us all

the children that as you obviously know

we are born with two fundamental qualities

one is the ability to learn and the

another is the sense of belonging

since we are born we are desperate

for being loved for being loved for being

accepted

so our society the people

that they want us more dad mom

teachers do everything that is in their

hand so that we are people

well adapted and they start to make us

support us in learnings that have the

same process as the process of

training a domestic animal

I’m sorry but it ‘s the way I

we educate our children from ages

very early

we give them rewards or punishments in the

as they are doing behaviors that

we consider adapted that we put the

letrita in the writing pattern a

star that we help our little hands

to grandma another who differentiates and enters

that and what we do many times as

I say with our animals and without

However, it is not wrong, it happens in

all cultures happen in all

cultures

in this way after a while

we understand that this person is a

person who is adapted and we can

well let’s say continue in our

learnings in life but it’s true

that there is a time when

we understand what it is to feel

belonging to something is not enough for us

that is only from the

authority

We also want to feel members of

something that are our equals and in the

fijaros adolescence is coming

prepared the human being

in adolescence gives us the opportunity

instead of stars try to have

experiences a little bit more nocturnal and

young adolescents more than

young but we also started doing

such interesting things with this battle

that has been given to us like this that I am

sure that in any street of

sevilla de madriz or wherever

you have come you see it true

Well, in an identity of a young woman

there is also a weapon that is fundamental

that some call a lethal weapon from

very early ages

we women get some heels and with

they

we compose the identity from a

position of power

although it may seem like a position

pretty ridiculous

there are many people who establish their

identity only from this moment and

if not watching realities look at the

television to see how it is constituted nor

how those identities are created that

we have there in the media, well, I

I was lucky I did not stay there anchored

why people who stay anchored and

can give way to the next phase

the next phase is a very phase

interesting because we no longer need that

nobody domesticates us that we have now

learned what is good and what is not

good to grow and be accepted and

loved ones in that society and the gown that

we put ourselves that it is also according to

tribe the civilization in which we live

a fairly standard robe and if you do not look

around is a gown that makes us

feel good and also sabella who

determines what is good and what

it is wrong what is beautiful what is ugly

is no longer a third party with authority now

It’s me

And from this moment on, it’s me who

I establish the guidelines that I will follow

to be a successful woman in life

and I say woman because I’m counting the

mine but good one race to another

I’m a master since we’re a

business school

a PhD and there’s always some

experience of ode’s first job

some kind of entrepreneurship

but in life a woman besides this

It’s the moment when you have to

pose if you really want to be everything

even being a mother or not I decided that if

I could and I was going to be a mother so

I had a son lucas a daughter julia another

daughter luisa and my first company in this

moment

there are also many people who stay

here and it constitutes the rest of his life

strictly from this position and it is

a very interesting moment because it is the

The moment of duty to be is a career

keep going

nothing is enough I was lucky

tremendous because usually from here

usually out very differently but

always with some surprise

I received a huge surprise

I got the big prize

with this pint and these heels

what nobody imagined is that it is not that

the charity raffle that touched me

medical checkup is going to touch me a cancer

of pancreas

he was the same steve himself

jobs the one of pavarotti the one of dew sworn

and along with pancreatic cancer and its

diagnosis

it seemed that a sentence of

death

however it was hard to believe in this

position that was going to happen so

I told my good doctor and what happens

if he did not treat me and he told me I do not feel a

little time and with very poor quality of

life so I incorporate in this my a

play the full peace team

of pancreatic cancer and although not what

believe in that moment in which one and

this is the part of the striptease stays

without anything

learn a lot because you know that

There is life before cancer and I can

ensure that there is life after

cancer but there is a lot of life during

cancer at that time when one

receives sits before the abyss and receives

the surgical gown the funny robe that

always has rear opening and the

autonomous team for 52 hours

consecutive chemotherapy

understands that what scares him is not

maurice that what he fears most in the

life is not having lived and in that moment

understands that having lived under

expectations of others as we said a

principle or live exclusively from

He must be

it does not compensate to feel insufficient not

compensates also understands that we are

gives a whole life and that

generally what we do is

plan we think about it but not the

we practice

It is curious that at that time also

does not understand that it does not only belong

to a group of equals as in the

adolescence or of close people like

in your family but it also belongs

a huge group that is wonderful that

it is the whole humanity that is the one

allows me to be here and that

the doctors save my life so

at that moment at that precise moment

you decide that at the moment you

is without the dressing gown and if the chemo goes to

want to live in a very different way

you will want to choose from your feet

barefoot where it ‘s usually in

the dock what kind of life do you want to have

if the certainties false certainties

those of those that make us feel that

while I’m on the dock myself

I control it, I see that boat is going

very bad way

that one seems to me bosé fatal the latex and

as you do not see the storm from the control

of the dock is not live is also true

that many other people who try

live life with one foot on the dock in

the securities and the other on the ship and

in this position know what happens the

people have illusions that they believe that

it controls that it dominates but it is the worst

the positions because here is not

continuously out of balance ni

enjoy or is not able to submit to that

he is not brave enough to

leap

so I decided that I would want

live the life that is how I live from

a very simple easy position

which is the lack of sufficiency of

what living the life of sonia does not require

nothing but being because another of the

fundamental learning is that the

life is lived exclusively at first

person of the singular and that living is a

verb that can only be conjugated in

finite time

so I put the cap am

enough

I do not have to be anything else to be

sonia am enough and can give a

jump and put me on the boat and with what

took me to the idea that I’m from

trip because when we go on a trip

when we are with our friends with

our partner

we enjoy everything in a way

special anybody would say that we have

seen a sunset ever

well, we always know when

we are on vacation that sunset

prettier and took pictures and

We upload to instagram and send them to

our relatives

Well , the sun comes out every day

everyday

sunset we have a sunset all the

days we are able to enjoy

of the smell and taste of the food all

the days and why we do it when

we’re on vacation because we know that

probably after we can not go back

to enjoy with that intensity until a

year or whatever time

ie we see it temporarily

life is exactly the same

so I’m already on my boat and I

I will say that you really need very little

usual call because how do I go

With what’s in it, I do not need

put on the gown of nobody but is that

I also noticed one thing that is

very important and I do not want to leave

I do not want to lose sight of the origin of

where I come

I do not care about seeing the dock, not what

looked with contempt

that’s my life that’s my resume

I come from there but I also want

When you are browsing, do not lose

seen the referents of my affections of

the people that are important to

my

Of course there will be times when

there will be people who accompany me and who

of other boats that maneuver nearby with

more or less successful but during a

time are part of my life but I

I want to know or have the perception of

where are the people to whom

I want my children my friends without having

to be all day watching the I go

in my boat uncles in his but I have

the stars the sun and the moon that are

my values and I am sure that the

life continuously gives me things that

I can invoke and then provoke the

life that I want to have for example

dolphins often accompany me

the way and from time to time they appear

some very interesting animals

that make me think and that cause

want to look at the horizon in a way

different beings that were born with a

very clear condition of being

exclusively fish and be able to live anything

more in the aquatic environment and that without

However, they dare to leave the zone of

comfort and fly

that’s exactly what I’m doing

today here because I do not give talks like that

that I feel very lucky is for me

a privilege to have been able to share

with you this moment and hopefully

along my way in those waters in the

that sometimes we have waves and sometimes

we have gusty wind

but on many sunny days and it does not give me

afraid that when I have someone else

moment that is not as easy as

that you have seen them have to face

so I thank you from the heart

and I wish you a happy trip

evoking invoking and provoking

experiences of change because the change

it’s life and I practiced a lot of life

Thank you

and

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