hello my name is stefani allison
serious I am a trans person in
transition that is very involved in
the lgbt community and more
especially with an organism
who cares for trans people who
is called secu I’m here
today to talk to you about trans
identity
but before you talk about trans
identity I would like to tell you how
you and I grew up to become the
people we have today when
you were born there was a doctor a
his room
and when others who signed you a
like it was either a boy or
a girl according to what this
no one has to notice from your organs
genital
then we give you a first name
and then the pronouns that were
consistent with that was the
first leader in the united combes on the
head for you too as a
person in society
when you arrived at school to
primary
you’re seeing that when we came back
in a school group comply with
beliefs to the ideas of this group there
to have chances of success in
the beds a puck wrong when you are
arrived at adolescence
you noticed that there are
things start to settle in your
life in coaches be it language
anything else but also
gender identity
for example the m for males then the f
for feminine returned to adulthood
these rules have become for you
completely perfectly internalized
so much that it is extremely
difficult to think the world differently
that without these rules there I was born
in the seventies in these
years ago it was very difficult
to be a person with a
sexual orientation an identity of
kind or a representation his kind
different from the names the people who
was displayed differently was quickly
are often mac
or even in some cases of violence
since the most disturbing is that
that had been strengthened by the family
by the school and then by the
aliens then these people we
made the addip difficult life
without even noticing the trance
nativity is difficult to assume in
our society because it does exist
not it causes in people
trans that’s called the dysphoria of
kind 10 forest comes from the Greek and wants
say difficult to bear if the book
of a person becomes too difficult to
bear because of his kind that can
to turn into what’s called the
transphobia internalized transphobia
it’s being afraid of people
trans or to be uncomfortable in their
presence
so a person who lives from the
internalized transphobia that sense
extremely bad with herself and
Chathuant generate consequences
extremely serious
the strangest thing in all of this is that
trans people are not so
different from you it’s just that
it’s like a false start the kind
that he would have been assigned to the
defense they are like you these are
graduates of blue-collar workers
employees
employer employers month
mind I am parents of three children
and then I have outin metro job dodo
as maybe the majority of them
you
I listen to the same movies as you
possibly the same series
maybe with preferences
different and also I do little
near the same activities that you the
a trans person’s life is really
similar to your life when we do a
coming out
that is to say, we decide
to externalize what we are
interior
the trans person must be
aware that she needs to learn
to redefine itself in society
she knows very well that society
did not necessarily have the kind
of existence she wants to have
it’s really a reboot at all
levels be it level
financial
it can lead to serious losses
job losses and that
it’s at the administrative level like the
change no more all the paperwork
that it may imply that it is at
social level via some of our friends
the closest ones who can we
reject because we ‘ve become trans
even that can be the same thing
also at the family level and in full
other levels
it’s not a choice to be years old we are
then the only choice we have as
trans people
it’s smoke or not often the
coming out
it’s an ultimate choice between life and
dead for the trans person now
it’s really difficult for a
person who is not transmitted from
imagine or get our
square
in fact it’s unimaginable all the
problems the little things in life
that can become complicated just
because we are trans for example me if
I decide to call the bank for
check my account
bank
it may be that the attendant who is
the bank
when I say my name is stefania
leeson with the voice that I have
the checks a little bit
excessive extra wells if I
want to go on a trip to customs
it can be the same thing I can
even in the worst case make me
accuse of over identity passion more
daily
if I decide to go out
from a full day to
outside I have to plan
destroyed as banal as toilets
neutral to avoid going into
gender toilets and because he
could happen a guardian of
security that get me out of the toilet
feminine even though I am a woman but
of trance origin
so how does that happen with
our company is that France does not
quote is not part
in fact not part of our society
it’s something that is not managing
at all in society so how
we must act before a person
trans cancon and not on how
to address in fact that ‘s what
you ask him tell him you have to I
to address you to the feminine at
masculine or otherwise
forget the identity papers keep
in the head that the trans person in front
do not try to fool you or to
hide anything hr game that’s
projected on the outside this case the to
inside so nature does not do
of difference between the culture the
class where the language the trans people
are not strictly defined by
their gender identity
they are as diverse as the
majority of the population
when you know on earth there are
several threats to humanity the
wars the social inequities and
climate change can reassure you
that transidentity is not a
threat to humanity itself
personally I think it’s a
part of the solution accepted even
measure is integrated the difference
in our society can only us
enrich
as a society always kept
in mind that in the end we and your
coworkers and your neighbors
you and your cousins cousins your brothers
your senses your parents your children one is
like you because so much
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