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Elements for the construction of meaning | Fr Neil Frank Oblates of Mary Immaculate (OMI) | TEDxUKZN


good evening everyone and thank you to

good evening everyone and thank you to the team that organized this event when

the team that organized this event when

the team that organized this event when I was at that Institute in in India

I was at that Institute in in India

I was at that Institute in in India starting there about 10 years ago I

starting there about 10 years ago I

starting there about 10 years ago I received a letter from a very young

received a letter from a very young

received a letter from a very young friend Candida was her name and as they

friend Candida was her name and as they

friend Candida was her name and as they was because she died inexplicably a few

was because she died inexplicably a few

was because she died inexplicably a few years ago and didn’t know that I used

years ago and didn’t know that I used

years ago and didn’t know that I used her story to convey a message about

her story to convey a message about

her story to convey a message about meaning tan Vega was an altar server in

meaning tan Vega was an altar server in

meaning tan Vega was an altar server in the parish that I served I am a Catholic

the parish that I served I am a Catholic

the parish that I served I am a Catholic priest with postgraduate qualifications

priest with postgraduate qualifications

priest with postgraduate qualifications in physics and philosophy faith science

in physics and philosophy faith science

in physics and philosophy faith science rationality make me who I am and

rationality make me who I am and

rationality make me who I am and contribute to what I’m going to say in

contribute to what I’m going to say in

contribute to what I’m going to say in non contradictory ways today I wrote

non contradictory ways today I wrote

non contradictory ways today I wrote this letter and in the letter she gave

this letter and in the letter she gave

this letter and in the letter she gave me all the news about the people of the

me all the news about the people of the

me all the news about the people of the place news about the place and then she

place news about the place and then she

place news about the place and then she ended her letter with these words she

ended her letter with these words she

ended her letter with these words she said this is my message for you when you

said this is my message for you when you

said this is my message for you when you see a butterfly

see a butterfly

see a butterfly it is me checking to see if you are okay

after that letter began to notice

after that letter began to notice butterflies they were all over all

butterflies they were all over all

butterflies they were all over all colors designs shapes dancing from

colors designs shapes dancing from

colors designs shapes dancing from flower to flower and whenever I saw them

flower to flower and whenever I saw them

flower to flower and whenever I saw them they would they would leave a smile on

they would they would leave a smile on

they would they would leave a smile on my face as I felt the warmth and

my face as I felt the warmth and

my face as I felt the warmth and affection coming from miles away

sometimes I would just stop in silent

sometimes I would just stop in silent wonder staring at the bushes now the

wonder staring at the bushes now the

wonder staring at the bushes now the students at the college I was at

students at the college I was at

students at the college I was at sometimes caught me just standing and

sometimes caught me just standing and

sometimes caught me just standing and looking at the bushes and they would say

looking at the bushes and they would say

looking at the bushes and they would say father what are you looking at and I

father what are you looking at and I

father what are you looking at and I would say just the butterflies but I

would say just the butterflies but I

would say just the butterflies but I wasn’t looking just at butterflies the

wasn’t looking just at butterflies the

wasn’t looking just at butterflies the butterflies had a new significance for

butterflies had a new significance for

butterflies had a new significance for me and they for a deeper truth and after

me and they for a deeper truth and after

me and they for a deeper truth and after that experience

that experience

that experience I began to think about the words I

I began to think about the words I

I began to think about the words I listen to the words that have helped

listen to the words that have helped

listen to the words that have helped they construct the way I look at the

they construct the way I look at the

they construct the way I look at the world and construct meaning what I want

world and construct meaning what I want

world and construct meaning what I want to talk to you about is about these

to talk to you about is about these

to talk to you about is about these words it’s not about the butterflies

words it’s not about the butterflies

words it’s not about the butterflies many people who listen to the story in

many people who listen to the story in

many people who listen to the story in different contexts I lift with some

different contexts I lift with some

different contexts I lift with some romantic image about the butterflies and

romantic image about the butterflies and

romantic image about the butterflies and they happy to stay there but I want to

they happy to stay there but I want to

they happy to stay there but I want to tell you about language constructing and

tell you about language constructing and

tell you about language constructing and influencing the way you look at the

influencing the way you look at the

influencing the way you look at the world language is our greatest

world language is our greatest

world language is our greatest technology that’s the T in Ted

technology that’s the T in Ted

technology that’s the T in Ted but let’s not dismiss the butterflies

but let’s not dismiss the butterflies

but let’s not dismiss the butterflies too quickly heads

too quickly heads

too quickly heads tand agar said if you see a fly or a

tand agar said if you see a fly or a

tand agar said if you see a fly or a mosquito I probably wouldn’t be using

mosquito I probably wouldn’t be using

mosquito I probably wouldn’t be using the story you see the symbols are

the story you see the symbols are

the story you see the symbols are important too because the symbols

important too because the symbols

important too because the symbols participate in a reality they may

participate in a reality they may

participate in a reality they may present and very often that reality is

present and very often that reality is

present and very often that reality is is not visible and it’s that reality

is not visible and it’s that reality

is not visible and it’s that reality that I’m talking about I’m often going

that I’m talking about I’m often going

that I’m talking about I’m often going to throw our Christians to do to you

to throw our Christians to do to you

to throw our Christians to do to you that I’m not going to answer what are

that I’m not going to answer what are

that I’m not going to answer what are your central symbols what are symbols

your central symbols what are symbols

your central symbols what are symbols that you latch onto that help you

that you latch onto that help you

that you latch onto that help you construct hopefully some ultimate

construct hopefully some ultimate

construct hopefully some ultimate meaning meaning needs to be put into

meaning meaning needs to be put into

meaning meaning needs to be put into perspective and you’ve heard that I

perspective and you’ve heard that I

perspective and you’ve heard that I teach a module at our institutes and

teach a module at our institutes and

teach a module at our institutes and Joseph’s at Sidora called philosophy of

Joseph’s at Sidora called philosophy of

Joseph’s at Sidora called philosophy of nature and in this module I introduce

nature and in this module I introduce

nature and in this module I introduce students to the physical theories about

students to the physical theories about

students to the physical theories about the universe the Big Bang Theory etc and

the universe the Big Bang Theory etc and

the universe the Big Bang Theory etc and I take great joy in showing them a

I take great joy in showing them a

I take great joy in showing them a series of slides I received by email a

series of slides I received by email a

series of slides I received by email a few years ago I don’t know the author of

few years ago I don’t know the author of

few years ago I don’t know the author of these slides and three weeks ago I

these slides and three weeks ago I

these slides and three weeks ago I received

received

received subversion so maybe you have seen a to

subversion so maybe you have seen a to

subversion so maybe you have seen a to the slides show the earth from a

the slides show the earth from a

the slides show the earth from a geometrically increasing distance by a

geometrically increasing distance by a

geometrically increasing distance by a factor of 10 from 1 meter 10 meters 100

factor of 10 from 1 meter 10 meters 100

factor of 10 from 1 meter 10 meters 100 meters at kilometer 10 kilometers and so

meters at kilometer 10 kilometers and so

meters at kilometer 10 kilometers and so on when the distance gets to a trillion

on when the distance gets to a trillion

on when the distance gets to a trillion kilometers the Sun is seen to be just

kilometers the Sun is seen to be just

kilometers the Sun is seen to be just one star among thousands of other stars

one star among thousands of other stars

one star among thousands of other stars in our Milky Way at a light year away

in our Milky Way at a light year away

in our Milky Way at a light year away which is the next factor up the solar

which is the next factor up the solar

which is the next factor up the solar system is just a speck at ten years at

system is just a speck at ten years at

system is just a speck at ten years at ten light years away the solar system is

ten light years away the solar system is

ten light years away the solar system is not visible on that scale and without

not visible on that scale and without

not visible on that scale and without fail in my class there’s always some

fail in my class there’s always some

fail in my class there’s always some restlessness at that point sometimes a

restlessness at that point sometimes a

restlessness at that point sometimes a shifting in the seas and sometimes even

shifting in the seas and sometimes even

shifting in the seas and sometimes even some uncomfortable laughter as the

some uncomfortable laughter as the

some uncomfortable laughter as the students grasp this unfathomable reality

students grasp this unfathomable reality

students grasp this unfathomable reality of our place in this vast cosmos human

of our place in this vast cosmos human

of our place in this vast cosmos human life is insignificant apparently and

life is insignificant apparently and

life is insignificant apparently and possibly probably not unique the earth

possibly probably not unique the earth

possibly probably not unique the earth is insignificant and possibly not unique

is insignificant and possibly not unique

is insignificant and possibly not unique and the series of slides continues for a

and the series of slides continues for a

and the series of slides continues for a few more factors of ten and then it ends

few more factors of ten and then it ends

few more factors of ten and then it ends with a very provocative question are you

with a very provocative question are you

with a very provocative question are you the center of the universe makes you

the center of the universe makes you

the center of the universe makes you think doesn’t it just what is your place

think doesn’t it just what is your place

think doesn’t it just what is your place does your universe extend beyond your

does your universe extend beyond your

does your universe extend beyond your skull beyond your ego now let’s zoom

skull beyond your ego now let’s zoom

skull beyond your ego now let’s zoom right back to your place you sitting in

right back to your place you sitting in

right back to your place you sitting in this auditorium how do you construct

this auditorium how do you construct

this auditorium how do you construct your meaning in this vastness of the

your meaning in this vastness of the

your meaning in this vastness of the cosmos that we’re in or even just in the

cosmos that we’re in or even just in the

cosmos that we’re in or even just in the political system that you were in in

political system that you were in in

political system that you were in in this part of Africa

when I finished school I went to

when I finished school I went to university and I pursued studies in

university and I pursued studies in

university and I pursued studies in physics and I couldn’t imagine how

physics and I couldn’t imagine how

physics and I couldn’t imagine how anybody else could be studying anything

anybody else could be studying anything

anybody else could be studying anything else and understanding the vast cosmos

else and understanding the vast cosmos

else and understanding the vast cosmos and and it stretches understanding

and and it stretches understanding

and and it stretches understanding nature in its minutest hunting levels

nature in its minutest hunting levels

nature in its minutest hunting levels was everything for me and I had this

was everything for me and I had this

was everything for me and I had this this almost mystical sense that

this almost mystical sense that

this almost mystical sense that everything was connected and explicable

everything was connected and explicable

everything was connected and explicable through all these theories I did not see

through all these theories I did not see

through all these theories I did not see that any of the other faculties could be

that any of the other faculties could be

that any of the other faculties could be true intellectual pursuits but then I

true intellectual pursuits but then I

true intellectual pursuits but then I began to realize that studying the

began to realize that studying the

began to realize that studying the physical theories of the universe did

physical theories of the universe did

physical theories of the universe did not help me negotiate my emotions did

not help me negotiate my emotions did

not help me negotiate my emotions did not help me create better interpersonal

not help me create better interpersonal

not help me create better interpersonal relationships do not inspire me for for

relationships do not inspire me for for

relationships do not inspire me for for action towards social cohesion do not

action towards social cohesion do not

action towards social cohesion do not motivate me for a stand against

motivate me for a stand against

motivate me for a stand against apartheid was in the 80s

apartheid was in the 80s

apartheid was in the 80s unless of course I wanted to develop

unless of course I wanted to develop

unless of course I wanted to develop certain kinds of military hardware when

certain kinds of military hardware when

certain kinds of military hardware when I made these realizations I began to to

I made these realizations I began to to

I made these realizations I began to to pursue other other other fields of study

pursue other other other fields of study

pursue other other other fields of study I realized that just understanding the

I realized that just understanding the

I realized that just understanding the physical world was flat there’s no

physical world was flat there’s no

physical world was flat there’s no height a depth of meaning just insects

height a depth of meaning just insects

height a depth of meaning just insects with colorful wings so back to the

with colorful wings so back to the

with colorful wings so back to the bottle flowers what happened in that

bottle flowers what happened in that

bottle flowers what happened in that story about the butterflies what

story about the butterflies what

story about the butterflies what happened in my mind that is the words of

happened in my mind that is the words of

happened in my mind that is the words of my friend Dave helped me to give you

my friend Dave helped me to give you

my friend Dave helped me to give you significance to to the butterflies what

significance to to the butterflies what

significance to to the butterflies what happened I think I took those words and

happened I think I took those words and

happened I think I took those words and created new associations in my mind

created new associations in my mind

created new associations in my mind I’ve had other words other

I’ve had other words other

I’ve had other words other concepts other beliefs emotions

concepts other beliefs emotions

concepts other beliefs emotions prejudices and they formed a network or

prejudices and they formed a network or

prejudices and they formed a network or a net and I used this net to catch the

a net and I used this net to catch the

a net and I used this net to catch the world I could say that I constructed

world I could say that I constructed

world I could say that I constructed reality I could say that I constructed

reality I could say that I constructed

reality I could say that I constructed my meaning I could say that I used the

my meaning I could say that I used the

my meaning I could say that I used the network as verticals by which I looked

network as verticals by which I looked

network as verticals by which I looked at the world and that’s the question I’m

at the world and that’s the question I’m

at the world and that’s the question I’m throwing out to you is how are you

throwing out to you is how are you

throwing out to you is how are you constructing designing a deal in Ted

constructing designing a deal in Ted

constructing designing a deal in Ted your world your meaning what words are

your world your meaning what words are

your world your meaning what words are you taking in we do that all the time

you taking in we do that all the time

you taking in we do that all the time just think about how a piece of gossip

just think about how a piece of gossip

just think about how a piece of gossip changes the way you look at another

changes the way you look at another

changes the way you look at another person because you’ve constructed this

person because you’ve constructed this

person because you’ve constructed this network for which you’re looking at the

network for which you’re looking at the

network for which you’re looking at the world we’ve just heard stories about

world we’ve just heard stories about

world we’ve just heard stories about racism and immigration we do that for

racism and immigration we do that for

racism and immigration we do that for our sub networks about race about the

our sub networks about race about the

our sub networks about race about the politics in our country about religion

politics in our country about religion

politics in our country about religion and terrorism they all just networks for

and terrorism they all just networks for

and terrorism they all just networks for which we are having certain perspective

which we are having certain perspective

which we are having certain perspective I want to ask how what what do I need to

I want to ask how what what do I need to

I want to ask how what what do I need to listen to what do you need to listen to

listen to what do you need to listen to

listen to what do you need to listen to to get to some ultimate meaning there

to get to some ultimate meaning there

to get to some ultimate meaning there are so many words out there we are

are so many words out there we are

are so many words out there we are bombarded from the time we get up to the

bombarded from the time we get up to the

bombarded from the time we get up to the time we go to bed but social media with

time we go to bed but social media with

time we go to bed but social media with the television with our radios if

the television with our radios if

the television with our radios if there’s a never-ending stream of words

there’s a never-ending stream of words

there’s a never-ending stream of words and when we see there’s even more words

and when we see there’s even more words

and when we see there’s even more words churning and trying to work out

churning and trying to work out

churning and trying to work out everything we’ve heard there’s what that

everything we’ve heard there’s what that

everything we’ve heard there’s what that means with apparently good sayings

means with apparently good sayings

means with apparently good sayings Facebook posts with personal commitments

Facebook posts with personal commitments

Facebook posts with personal commitments tweets with with short sales much like

tweets with with short sales much like

tweets with with short sales much like my butterflies

my butterflies

my butterflies depending who you following how do you

depending who you following how do you

depending who you following how do you listen what should we be listening to

listen what should we be listening to

listen what should we be listening to you in this but as the cosmos really

you in this but as the cosmos really

you in this but as the cosmos really speaking to us and that brings me to my

speaking to us and that brings me to my

speaking to us and that brings me to my final point and it comes again with

final point and it comes again with

final point and it comes again with another anecdote which and if there’s no

another anecdote which and if there’s no

another anecdote which and if there’s no meaning in what I’m saying at least the

meaning in what I’m saying at least the

meaning in what I’m saying at least the anecdotes are entertaining the Ian Ted I

did some of my studies for the

did some of my studies for the priesthood in Rome and when we got there

priesthood in Rome and when we got there

priesthood in Rome and when we got there the first group of us together in that

the first group of us together in that

the first group of us together in that first week had no common language and we

first week had no common language and we

first week had no common language and we are too trying to learn Italian the

are too trying to learn Italian the

are too trying to learn Italian the speakers we could say we could speak to

speakers we could say we could speak to

speakers we could say we could speak to each other and our fermitas

each other and our fermitas

each other and our fermitas knew felt the tension in this group and

knew felt the tension in this group and

knew felt the tension in this group and decided to take us out for a trip on the

decided to take us out for a trip on the

decided to take us out for a trip on the trains in Rome and as we stood at the

trains in Rome and as we stood at the

trains in Rome and as we stood at the platform the dingdong of the PA system

platform the dingdong of the PA system

platform the dingdong of the PA system sounded and we all went very silent we

sounded and we all went very silent we

sounded and we all went very silent we were hoping to be the first to catch

were hoping to be the first to catch

were hoping to be the first to catch some italian word in that announcement

some italian word in that announcement

some italian word in that announcement and after about 45 seconds we all just

and after about 45 seconds we all just

and after about 45 seconds we all just burst out laughing that was the only

burst out laughing that was the only

burst out laughing that was the only language we had in common

language we had in common

language we had in common and we shouted una parola they couldn’t

and we shouted una parola they couldn’t

and we shouted una parola they couldn’t make a full sentence in Italian bin but

make a full sentence in Italian bin but

make a full sentence in Italian bin but what we were saying is the entire

what we were saying is the entire

what we were saying is the entire announcement sounded like one world did

announcement sounded like one world did

announcement sounded like one world did you have that experience distinctly of

you have that experience distinctly of

you have that experience distinctly of foreign language what I learned then is

foreign language what I learned then is

foreign language what I learned then is that when you’re learning a language you

that when you’re learning a language you

that when you’re learning a language you learn to put the spaces between the

learn to put the spaces between the

learn to put the spaces between the words you learn to be attentive to the

words you learn to be attentive to the

words you learn to be attentive to the spaces because every word begins in

spaces because every word begins in

spaces because every word begins in silence and ends in silence and when you

silence and ends in silence and when you

silence and ends in silence and when you grasp the silence then you can graphs

grasp the silence then you can graphs

grasp the silence then you can graphs the word and its meaning see listening

the word and its meaning see listening

the word and its meaning see listening and – – – meaning require silence and

and – – – meaning require silence and

and – – – meaning require silence and that’s my story three elements for the

that’s my story three elements for the

that’s my story three elements for the construction of meaning symbol that

construction of meaning symbol that

construction of meaning symbol that participates in a reality and makes that

participates in a reality and makes that

participates in a reality and makes that reality present that’s not visible word

reality present that’s not visible word

reality present that’s not visible word as as Theory enhancing and meaning

as as Theory enhancing and meaning

as as Theory enhancing and meaning investing that determines how you see

investing that determines how you see

investing that determines how you see the world and silence that you can hear

the world and silence that you can hear

the world and silence that you can hear more profoundly and see more deeply and

more profoundly and see more deeply and

more profoundly and see more deeply and hopefully rightly I am a person of faith

hopefully rightly I am a person of faith

hopefully rightly I am a person of faith of Christian faith and a Catholic priest

of Christian faith and a Catholic priest

of Christian faith and a Catholic priest and these three symbol word and silence

and these three symbol word and silence

and these three symbol word and silence converge for me in one in my encounter

converge for me in one in my encounter

converge for me in one in my encounter with Christ

with Christ

with Christ that’s a story for another context thank

that’s a story for another context thank

that’s a story for another context thank you

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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