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Der Weg zum passenden Leben | Remo Largo | TEDxMünchen


they all know that

creation story in the old

will be described

the conclusion and thus the

crowning the creation is the

creation of man

He takes it among all living beings

a special position

He is very close to God and very far

away from the other creatures this

human image will have about 2500 years

shaped human beings

It is profound about 150 years ago

shaken

In 1863, the biologist Thomas Huxley has one

writing published with the title

demenz place in nature

in it he has for the public

the evolutionary biology of charles

darwin described

the outcry was huge it was

Unthinkable for the people that we have

could descend from the monkeys

Charles Darwin was convinced that all

livestock plants animals as well as the

human beings have common ancestors and

had directions

we know today with certainty that

we are related to all living things

have common heritage

so it is for example so that the

so-called protein coding genes

at the mold also to 18 percent

perfect we have at the

Vine even 24 percent at the bieler

44 percent in a beak and 69

places in the fish are already 73

percent and then you know for sure

all of them even with the primates 98 14

but we are not ready

our human image of reality

to adapt to biological reality

we prefer to imagine how

we want to be and not like us

the fit principle tries the essence of the

to get closer to people and it is

already mentioned

it is based on the experiences we have

have done in the zürchern

killed from studies in these studies

We have about 700 children of the birth

until the age of two

watched generations and all

important development areas

So, for example, did social behavior speak the

motor growth and what we think about it

Everybody has learned, among other things

child and every adult is unique

and whatever they have learned that is

that is really every child and everyone

man tries with his characteristics

to survive in this world and that

It is all in front of everyone that you just in one

consistency comes with hunger

Now what that means I want them

in the following we will explain something

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one’s needs is the physical one

integrity so food health

fitness and so on

important for the children

security

they want to be accepted unconditionally

feel

another social recognition and

social position that already starts at

the toddlers and is yes then at

adult age very pronounced all

Children want their skills

unfold

also who as adults we want

also provide services and not

only for a living but the

meaning make us happy and the

also for the society of use

and finally we want

of course the existential security

ensure our loved ones for us

now it is so that each of these

basic needs from human to human

are designed very different

you can see an example here

politician who is very interested in

the performance and the existential

Security for trust and social

recognition and social position

which he occupies in society

The teacher has a completely different profile

Another rose is her main concern

for security and social recognition

self-development so that they are the

skills she has that she has

The children can continue to give and

She can promote it

and then

we still have the tennis player

there it is different again so the

physical integrity plays one

very big role

the self-development, of course, and

the performance so if you now the

three roses in a comparative

realize they are whole

differently formed and it is

unlikely that, for example, the

politics becomes a professional tennis player

or maybe that the teacher

hardly a politician will be like this

Politics tore ours now

basic needs we satisfy questions

with our expertise with ours

Skills

they are social, they can be one

empathize other people

we can read your facial expressions we are

As a precaution we have the

language we have the ability to

to read and write

musical skills figures

spatial logical mathematical

temporal planning motor and

physical and that are in ours

society very important to it

meant for example the size so

we react to people

different if she and little or

are big

but also that look and finally

Also the clothes are playing a lot

major role

and there it is again so that all these

skills are different

So most people can

about eight are in germany

not even if they are in the new

year in school

we are different musically

capable

we have different spatial

competences

There are also orientation runners

therefore in a very impassable area

still get along and then we have

quite a lot of people are themselves in the

own city then need the gps

also to come to the right place

Now here it is again

these competencies are human

human being trained very differently

and they are the same with the individual

people again with our politicians

he has a very good social sense

knows exactly what the wave of him

want what you have for needs

how your living conditions are

Linguistic is also pretty good, but then

it is also possible to schedule it very much

well organize his election campaign and

he is also good at it

Sponsors can be very good with the

handle money

when emptying the profile is again

very different so very special

it develops the musical ones

skills she loves with the kids

to sing or to play music

she also has spatial figures

skills as for example in

Draw or paint

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Basta and of course at

athletes play the motor

skills play a big role as well

for example, the laterally planning

and friends spatial as he must have one

have very well-developed perceptions

for example, a trajectory of the ball

estimate and the most they

maybe a bit he needs too

Social skills is very important

that he is the body language and the facial expressions

the other can read well

because this also ahead of what the opponent

so now if we do now

from both together take the

basic needs and competencies

then we see that these three people

have very different patterns and

that’s not easily replaceable

that is the unthinkable that the

be a professional tennis player

could and even the teacher can do that

Not

In principle , it is therefore about this

different individual

basic needs competencies so durchs

to live that it is possible for us

goes well and that requires one

match between us below

environment if that happens then feel

we are physically and mentally where we are

have a good sense of self and

a good self-efficacy that is

we are convinced that we can do it

now it may be that the

not agree as it has then

we are in a situation and that can

of course, the individual lie to the

example that it is in a very

unfortunate work situation is and

if that finds a certain

expansion then gets

it comes to symptoms so you have head

or abdominal pain

one has insomnia one takes

maybe more medication brings

maybe more alcohol too

you become depressed and if you are completely

left and then you have a burn out so

it depends on how we feel

what we have for work what

we for a partner relationship his

have partners like the existential ones

situation of the family is and so on

and so on

But that’s not just the individual

but it is also under the environment

Environment can be like that

individual has no chance so

that a match does not work

can do more and I think that

because we have a huge problem in the

society and also in the economy

in society because you are

must remember that from

have our ancestors during

at least 200,000 years in nature

lived and cohabited with

familiar people that was

communities of perhaps 50 to 100

People all trust each other all

Interdependent with each other was that

Guaranteed survival much better

as if the individual through the

life is fighting so that’s a social one

structure very much to survive

mankind has contributed to humanity

and now the following happens we have

in no time we have this

totally changed environment and that has

Impact mainly with regard to

emotional and social needs

but also on the self-development and

the need to perform

In short, we are not for one

mass society ie one

collection of people anonymous we

they do not really know us for us

without meaning but we want

actually living in a community

where we are all familiar with each other

and the consequences are that the humans

more and more lonely the older

people that they did not recover enough

feel that is especially true for the

Children to that they have no recognition

I do not get a social position

have in small but also in big

So in the society what I then

as we see with peggy for example

have political impact and now

there are concentration mechanisms in

the sense that we help ourselves with here

Consumption entertainment and social media

but we can actually do it with ours

social and emotional needs

do not satisfy but that is one

Replacement behavior does not affect us

happy but what we can do

need are really stable

relationships with trusting

people another problem is the

economy and I think there is that

digitization and the the

mechanization of production and also

to take services is not

only the problem of unemployment

but a big problem

is also that the action makes no sense

More is done so you get from the top

you get the orders hauptmann

fill

you are in a high degree

For example, if you are determined by the outside

on a bench

So you have to somehow one

activity outside the household

find work that can satisfy one

So I think that’s really big

problems and the ones we have in the future

the frequency of

mental illness in adults

is more and more to be accepted at the

adolescents on even the children

we now have 25 percent of the personnel

Children in Switzerland at school age

have some mental problems

the one on these factors

can lead back

what is the conclusion of the fit principle in

We have to relate to the human image

assume that everyone is human

unique is there is already so on

the world and he will always be more

own knowledge and so he can not

lead some life but only be

own and that by just in

Consistency lives with the environment

are not arbitrarily arbitrary

adaptable that is a joke

we have an inheritance and that comes from

this last 200,000 years and us

Can not just be nature

You can see that for example

if you are with them in the children

But the forest is needed above all

we are the living community we are

not for one

made of society that only exists

and of course we can in terms of

the life community also not

return

to the pale peasants but we have to

find a form of the community of life

which is contemporary and I think so

is one of the big tasks for the

future generations

thanks for your

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