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Connection: the key to mentally healthy communities? | Emma Lawrance | TEDxOxford


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[Applause] our friends are the people we can talk

our friends are the people we can talk

our friends are the people we can talk to about well pretty much anything

to about well pretty much anything

to about well pretty much anything what’s frustrating or great about our

what’s frustrating or great about our

what’s frustrating or great about our jobs our partner our lecturer about that

jobs our partner our lecturer about that

jobs our partner our lecturer about that new movie that’s just come out well the

new movie that’s just come out well the

new movie that’s just come out well the hike we did last weekend the trip we’re

hike we did last weekend the trip we’re

hike we did last weekend the trip we’re dreaming of taking or how about silly

dreaming of taking or how about silly

dreaming of taking or how about silly scene from friends makes us laugh so

scene from friends makes us laugh so

scene from friends makes us laugh so hard but what would we do if a friend

hard but what would we do if a friend

hard but what would we do if a friend came to us and told us that they were

came to us and told us that they were

came to us and told us that they were struggling to get out of bed in the

struggling to get out of bed in the

struggling to get out of bed in the morning or that they’d been up all night

morning or that they’d been up all night

morning or that they’d been up all night having panic attacks what do you feel

having panic attacks what do you feel

having panic attacks what do you feel discomfort at this revelation because

discomfort at this revelation because

discomfort at this revelation because he’d be uncertain about how to respond

he’d be uncertain about how to respond

he’d be uncertain about how to respond or worried about saying the wrong thing

or worried about saying the wrong thing

or worried about saying the wrong thing or just a bit annoyed that they’re

or just a bit annoyed that they’re

or just a bit annoyed that they’re throwing off your mojo when you’d rather

throwing off your mojo when you’d rather

throwing off your mojo when you’d rather to talk about other things or what would

to talk about other things or what would

to talk about other things or what would you do if you were going through

you do if you were going through

you do if you were going through something yourself do you think you’d be

something yourself do you think you’d be

something yourself do you think you’d be okay to speak to someone about it well

okay to speak to someone about it well

okay to speak to someone about it well might you to feel worried worried about

might you to feel worried worried about

might you to feel worried worried about being a burden on someone or worried

being a burden on someone or worried

being a burden on someone or worried that if you said something you’d be put

that if you said something you’d be put

that if you said something you’d be put in a box labeled crazy with your

in a box labeled crazy with your

in a box labeled crazy with your identity forever altered these are some

identity forever altered these are some

identity forever altered these are some of the thoughts that I had when I was 14

of the thoughts that I had when I was 14

of the thoughts that I had when I was 14 years old and freshly diagnosed with OCD

years old and freshly diagnosed with OCD

years old and freshly diagnosed with OCD obsessive-compulsive disorder

obsessive-compulsive disorder

obsessive-compulsive disorder I grew up in the bushland in the

I grew up in the bushland in the

I grew up in the bushland in the Adelaide Hills the eldest of five girls

Adelaide Hills the eldest of five girls

Adelaide Hills the eldest of five girls enjoying playing with my pets doing well

enjoying playing with my pets doing well

enjoying playing with my pets doing well in school and you know dreaming of

in school and you know dreaming of

in school and you know dreaming of becoming a vet or an author and saving

becoming a vet or an author and saving

becoming a vet or an author and saving the environment in my perception back

the environment in my perception back

the environment in my perception back then mental illness was for someone in a

then mental illness was for someone in a

then mental illness was for someone in a straightjacket in an asylum seeing a

straightjacket in an asylum seeing a

straightjacket in an asylum seeing a psychiatrist was for the irredeemably

psychiatrist was for the irredeemably

psychiatrist was for the irredeemably insane not for a 14 year old girl and

insane not for a 14 year old girl and

insane not for a 14 year old girl and certainly not for perfectionist me and

certainly not for perfectionist me and

certainly not for perfectionist me and hence in my worldview this diagnosis was

hence in my worldview this diagnosis was

hence in my worldview this diagnosis was shattering it was identity shattering

shattering it was identity shattering

shattering it was identity shattering for not only was i living in this hell

for not only was i living in this hell

for not only was i living in this hell in my own head and struggling with the

in my own head and struggling with the

in my own head and struggling with the symptoms but I had to live with the fear

symptoms but I had to live with the fear

symptoms but I had to live with the fear and a certainty that people might treat

and a certainty that people might treat

and a certainty that people might treat me differently if they found out to feel

me differently if they found out to feel

me differently if they found out to feel like I was put in this box with a crazy

like I was put in this box with a crazy

like I was put in this box with a crazy label on it I thought I might never

label on it I thought I might never

label on it I thought I might never escape from it I thought that all these

escape from it I thought that all these

escape from it I thought that all these other things that made me

other things that made me

other things that made me mo we’re just lost in a world where

mo we’re just lost in a world where

mo we’re just lost in a world where psychiatrists focus solely on my

psychiatrists focus solely on my

psychiatrists focus solely on my symptoms going through this at a young

symptoms going through this at a young

symptoms going through this at a young age actually also made me realize a

age actually also made me realize a

age actually also made me realize a couple of things it made me realize that

couple of things it made me realize that

couple of things it made me realize that you never know what someone’s going

you never know what someone’s going

you never know what someone’s going through just by looking at them to see

through just by looking at them to see

through just by looking at them to see past their wood behaviors to know what’s

past their wood behaviors to know what’s

past their wood behaviors to know what’s really happening inside it made me

really happening inside it made me

really happening inside it made me realize how important it is for us to be

realize how important it is for us to be

realize how important it is for us to be gentle and accepting with each other

gentle and accepting with each other

gentle and accepting with each other because what got me through this was the

because what got me through this was the

because what got me through this was the support of a community it was the

support of a community it was the

support of a community it was the community of people like my doctor who I

community of people like my doctor who I

community of people like my doctor who I finally found who saw all the other

finally found who saw all the other

finally found who saw all the other things that I am and helped me see a

things that I am and helped me see a

things that I am and helped me see a future in an identity beyond my illness

future in an identity beyond my illness

future in an identity beyond my illness enough to work to recover and manage it

enough to work to recover and manage it

enough to work to recover and manage it for those who don’t know OCD involves

for those who don’t know OCD involves

for those who don’t know OCD involves space obsessions or these thoughts and

space obsessions or these thoughts and

space obsessions or these thoughts and ideas and worries that go round and

ideas and worries that go round and

ideas and worries that go round and round your head in an endless cycle and

round your head in an endless cycle and

round your head in an endless cycle and compulsions or the rituals and things

compulsions or the rituals and things

compulsions or the rituals and things you do to try and relieve some of the

you do to try and relieve some of the

you do to try and relieve some of the stress of these obsessions and prevent

stress of these obsessions and prevent

stress of these obsessions and prevent something bad happening no matter how

something bad happening no matter how

something bad happening no matter how unlikely that might be so for me

unlikely that might be so for me

unlikely that might be so for me something simple like say touching a bus

something simple like say touching a bus

something simple like say touching a bus Pole there was potentially no matter how

Pole there was potentially no matter how

Pole there was potentially no matter how unlikely contaminated with something

unlikely contaminated with something

unlikely contaminated with something could potentially no matter how unlikely

could potentially no matter how unlikely

could potentially no matter how unlikely go on to get someone else sick and hence

go on to get someone else sick and hence

go on to get someone else sick and hence I had to prevent this at all costs even

I had to prevent this at all costs even

I had to prevent this at all costs even if this meant crazy and over-the-top

if this meant crazy and over-the-top

if this meant crazy and over-the-top cleaning rituals so how did I get

cleaning rituals so how did I get

cleaning rituals so how did I get through this how do I stand here today

through this how do I stand here today

through this how do I stand here today without suffering from OCD anymore it

without suffering from OCD anymore it

without suffering from OCD anymore it was the help of this community the

was the help of this community the

was the help of this community the community of my family who stuck by me

community of my family who stuck by me

community of my family who stuck by me even when it took hours of their coaxing

even when it took hours of their coaxing

even when it took hours of their coaxing and hard work to get through a simple

and hard work to get through a simple

and hard work to get through a simple morning routine and get me to school who

morning routine and get me to school who

morning routine and get me to school who helped me find a doctor that would give

helped me find a doctor that would give

helped me find a doctor that would give me the treatment I needed even when this

me the treatment I needed even when this

me the treatment I needed even when this was wreaking havoc with their lives –

was wreaking havoc with their lives –

was wreaking havoc with their lives – and they didn’t really understand my

and they didn’t really understand my

and they didn’t really understand my behavior the community of a few friends

behavior the community of a few friends

behavior the community of a few friends who stuck by me who treated me the same

who stuck by me who treated me the same

who stuck by me who treated me the same even when my behavior was odd at times I

even when my behavior was odd at times I

even when my behavior was odd at times I can’t tell you how grateful I am to

can’t tell you how grateful I am to

can’t tell you how grateful I am to those people who did something

those people who did something

those people who did something remarkable in the unremarkable by

remarkable in the unremarkable by

remarkable in the unremarkable by connecting and caring in a very normal

connecting and caring in a very normal

connecting and caring in a very normal way when I wasn’t sure I’d still receive

way when I wasn’t sure I’d still receive

way when I wasn’t sure I’d still receive that from the world this was all half my

that from the world this was all half my

that from the world this was all half my lifetime ago now but I wouldn’t have

lifetime ago now but I wouldn’t have

lifetime ago now but I wouldn’t have made it through without this care and

made it through without this care and

made it through without this care and support but this wasn’t guaranteed in

support but this wasn’t guaranteed in

support but this wasn’t guaranteed in fact

fact

fact the traditional mental health services I

the traditional mental health services I

the traditional mental health services I originally saw I found that this was

originally saw I found that this was

originally saw I found that this was lacking the psychiatrists I thought saw

lacking the psychiatrists I thought saw

lacking the psychiatrists I thought saw me just merely as a number and it was

me just merely as a number and it was

me just merely as a number and it was hard for a lot of the people in my

hard for a lot of the people in my

hard for a lot of the people in my community to really be there for me in

community to really be there for me in

community to really be there for me in the way that I needed because of the

the way that I needed because of the

the way that I needed because of the lack of awareness and understanding

lack of awareness and understanding

lack of awareness and understanding about mental illness because I never

about mental illness because I never

about mental illness because I never told anyone about my diagnosis or what I

told anyone about my diagnosis or what I

told anyone about my diagnosis or what I was going through internally because of

was going through internally because of

was going through internally because of the stigma attached hence I could

the stigma attached hence I could

the stigma attached hence I could already see as a 14 year old that we

already see as a 14 year old that we

already see as a 14 year old that we needed a radical shift in our mental

needed a radical shift in our mental

needed a radical shift in our mental health systems there was a need for a

health systems there was a need for a

health systems there was a need for a radical shift in how we’re given tools

radical shift in how we’re given tools

radical shift in how we’re given tools and support to connect to ourselves and

and support to connect to ourselves and

and support to connect to ourselves and each other but I couldn’t see back then

each other but I couldn’t see back then

each other but I couldn’t see back then how we could do this at a systems level

how we could do this at a systems level

how we could do this at a systems level how we could put programs in place that

how we could put programs in place that

how we could put programs in place that enabled everyone to get the community of

enabled everyone to get the community of

enabled everyone to get the community of care that they needed for the opposite

care that they needed for the opposite

care that they needed for the opposite of this fear is love however all these

of this fear is love however all these

of this fear is love however all these years later despite some progress being

years later despite some progress being

years later despite some progress being made we’re still at a crisis point with

made we’re still at a crisis point with

made we’re still at a crisis point with mental health systems strained around

mental health systems strained around

mental health systems strained around the world this is especially true in low

the world this is especially true in low

the world this is especially true in low and middle income countries where

and middle income countries where

and middle income countries where there’s 90 percent of the need and only

there’s 90 percent of the need and only

there’s 90 percent of the need and only 10 percent of the resources available by

10 percent of the resources available by

10 percent of the resources available by 2030 depression is set to be the leading

2030 depression is set to be the leading

2030 depression is set to be the leading cause of disease burden globally one in

cause of disease burden globally one in

cause of disease burden globally one in four University UK undergrads will go

four University UK undergrads will go

four University UK undergrads will go through a mental illness is assumed that

through a mental illness is assumed that

through a mental illness is assumed that forty five percent of us will go through

forty five percent of us will go through

forty five percent of us will go through some mental health issue in our lifetime

some mental health issue in our lifetime

some mental health issue in our lifetime and hence through our relationships all

and hence through our relationships all

and hence through our relationships all of us are affected and so it might be

of us are affected and so it might be

of us are affected and so it might be odd that despite this ubiquity many feet

odd that despite this ubiquity many feet

odd that despite this ubiquity many feet people still feel alone when they go

people still feel alone when they go

people still feel alone when they go through a struggle and I believe this is

through a struggle and I believe this is

through a struggle and I believe this is because despite this ubiquity there’s

because despite this ubiquity there’s

because despite this ubiquity there’s still enormous discomfort for many of us

still enormous discomfort for many of us

still enormous discomfort for many of us to talk about or even think about mental

to talk about or even think about mental

to talk about or even think about mental illness so what can we do research by

illness so what can we do research by

illness so what can we do research by the palek foundation has found that many

the palek foundation has found that many

the palek foundation has found that many people still see mental illness as a

people still see mental illness as a

people still see mental illness as a character flaw the sufferers just need

character flaw the sufferers just need

character flaw the sufferers just need to pull themselves up by their

to pull themselves up by their

to pull themselves up by their bootstraps and get on with it this was

bootstraps and get on with it this was

bootstraps and get on with it this was supported by the movies watch as

supported by the movies watch as

supported by the movies watch as children where an individual hero’s

children where an individual hero’s

children where an individual hero’s struggles to rise above their

struggles to rise above their

struggles to rise above their circumstances through their sheer

circumstances through their sheer

circumstances through their sheer willpower alone

willpower alone

willpower alone I think sufferers of many chronic

I think sufferers of many chronic

I think sufferers of many chronic illnesses will recognize these comments

illnesses will recognize these comments

illnesses will recognize these comments and perceptions but I believe sufferers

and perceptions but I believe sufferers

and perceptions but I believe sufferers of mental illness

of mental illness

of mental illness ticular because it can be really hard

ticular because it can be really hard

ticular because it can be really hard for people to separate the person from

for people to separate the person from

for people to separate the person from the illness and this associated stigma

the illness and this associated stigma

the illness and this associated stigma and discrimination can really exacerbate

and discrimination can really exacerbate

and discrimination can really exacerbate symptoms and make recovery harder for

symptoms and make recovery harder for

symptoms and make recovery harder for people going through it so we have some

people going through it so we have some

people going through it so we have some challenges and as a society how are we

challenges and as a society how are we

challenges and as a society how are we going to manage these challenges and

going to manage these challenges and

going to manage these challenges and what are we going to do when they affect

what are we going to do when they affect

what are we going to do when they affect us on a personal level fortunately there

us on a personal level fortunately there

us on a personal level fortunately there is a revolution going on and that

is a revolution going on and that

is a revolution going on and that revolution has connection at its heart

revolution has connection at its heart

revolution has connection at its heart science is showing that having healthy

science is showing that having healthy

science is showing that having healthy relationships during development

relationships during development

relationships during development actually helps build the foundation of a

actually helps build the foundation of a

actually helps build the foundation of a healthy brain but feeling accepted being

healthy brain but feeling accepted being

healthy brain but feeling accepted being seen being loved being good enough

seen being loved being good enough

seen being loved being good enough actually shapes our brains and can save

actually shapes our brains and can save

actually shapes our brains and can save lives it is increasingly apparent it’s

lives it is increasingly apparent it’s

lives it is increasingly apparent it’s not this individual hero struggling to

not this individual hero struggling to

not this individual hero struggling to rise above their circumstances through

rise above their circumstances through

rise above their circumstances through willpower alone or snapping out of it

willpower alone or snapping out of it

willpower alone or snapping out of it that’s needed to conquer addiction and

that’s needed to conquer addiction and

that’s needed to conquer addiction and mental illness instead it’s this power

mental illness instead it’s this power

mental illness instead it’s this power of community it’s the power of

of community it’s the power of

of community it’s the power of connection this is what helps us heal

connection this is what helps us heal

connection this is what helps us heal and moreover this is what helps us build

and moreover this is what helps us build

and moreover this is what helps us build brains that are resilient to life

brains that are resilient to life

brains that are resilient to life challenges and help us succeed in all

challenges and help us succeed in all

challenges and help us succeed in all measurable life outcomes so how are we

measurable life outcomes so how are we

measurable life outcomes so how are we going to build these connected

going to build these connected

going to build these connected communities well there’s three key ways

communities well there’s three key ways

communities well there’s three key ways that I can see first of all we can start

that I can see first of all we can start

that I can see first of all we can start to invest in physical communities we can

to invest in physical communities we can

to invest in physical communities we can start to build programs that educate

start to build programs that educate

start to build programs that educate that challenge misconceptions about

that challenge misconceptions about

that challenge misconceptions about mental illness and also start to build

mental illness and also start to build

mental illness and also start to build the tools and enable young people to be

the tools and enable young people to be

the tools and enable young people to be able to help themselves and others

able to help themselves and others

able to help themselves and others secondly we can use the scalable power

secondly we can use the scalable power

secondly we can use the scalable power of technology to start to bring

of technology to start to bring

of technology to start to bring resources and a community of care to

resources and a community of care to

resources and a community of care to those who might not be able to access it

those who might not be able to access it

those who might not be able to access it in their immediate environment and

in their immediate environment and

in their immediate environment and thirdly we can use our individual power

thirdly we can use our individual power

thirdly we can use our individual power we can start to educate ourselves to see

we can start to educate ourselves to see

we can start to educate ourselves to see Beyond and second question when we see

Beyond and second question when we see

Beyond and second question when we see someone with odd behaviors to start to

someone with odd behaviors to start to

someone with odd behaviors to start to wonder what’s going on inside and start

wonder what’s going on inside and start

wonder what’s going on inside and start to equip ourselves with the tools so

to equip ourselves with the tools so

to equip ourselves with the tools so that we can help them if they reach out

that we can help them if they reach out

that we can help them if they reach out to us so I want to give you some

to us so I want to give you some

to us so I want to give you some examples now of organizations that are

examples now of organizations that are

examples now of organizations that are already doing some of these things to

already doing some of these things to

already doing some of these things to show you how important it is and what

show you how important it is and what

show you how important it is and what more we can do sir connection huh we’re

more we can do sir connection huh we’re

more we can do sir connection huh we’re humans most of us know naturally how to

humans most of us know naturally how to

humans most of us know naturally how to connect it’s part of what makes us human

connect it’s part of what makes us human

connect it’s part of what makes us human but these are also skills that can be

but these are also skills that can be

but these are also skills that can be taught we can teach people how to

taught we can teach people how to

taught we can teach people how to articulate their internal experiences

articulate their internal experiences

articulate their internal experiences manage their emotions and be there for

manage their emotions and be there for

manage their emotions and be there for others when they’re doing the same we

others when they’re doing the same we

others when they’re doing the same we can start to demystify mental illness

can start to demystify mental illness

can start to demystify mental illness and the brain science behind it show you

and the brain science behind it show you

and the brain science behind it show you people that they’re more than a

people that they’re more than a

people that they’re more than a diagnosis and that this is not a

diagnosis and that this is not a

diagnosis and that this is not a sentence to a life of fewer suffering we

sentence to a life of fewer suffering we

sentence to a life of fewer suffering we can also start to build what we call

can also start to build what we call

can also start to build what we call executive function skills in children

executive function skills in children

executive function skills in children these are the cognitive toolkits of

these are the cognitive toolkits of

these are the cognitive toolkits of working memory stop and think skills

working memory stop and think skills

working memory stop and think skills inhibition control and flexible thinking

inhibition control and flexible thinking

inhibition control and flexible thinking that predict our success in a range of

that predict our success in a range of

that predict our success in a range of things across our lifespan from

things across our lifespan from

things across our lifespan from relationships career and health so

relationships career and health so

relationships career and health so there’s some organizations that are

there’s some organizations that are

there’s some organizations that are doing just this in our local environment

doing just this in our local environment

doing just this in our local environment one of them is the dot B project by the

one of them is the dot B project by the

one of them is the dot B project by the oxford mindfulness Center they work to

oxford mindfulness Center they work to

oxford mindfulness Center they work to teach mindfulness in schools to give

teach mindfulness in schools to give

teach mindfulness in schools to give kids some of the skills that they can

kids some of the skills that they can

kids some of the skills that they can stop and sink and take control when

stop and sink and take control when

stop and sink and take control when something’s happening in their life

something’s happening in their life

something’s happening in their life another program that I’ve worked with is

another program that I’ve worked with is

another program that I’ve worked with is place to be place to be an amazing

place to be place to be an amazing

place to be place to be an amazing organization who provides specialists

organization who provides specialists

organization who provides specialists highly trained independent counselors to

highly trained independent counselors to

highly trained independent counselors to school sometimes in really disadvantaged

school sometimes in really disadvantaged

school sometimes in really disadvantaged areas so some of the kids in these

areas so some of the kids in these

areas so some of the kids in these schools come from backgrounds where

schools come from backgrounds where

schools come from backgrounds where there’s neglect family breakdown

there’s neglect family breakdown

there’s neglect family breakdown violence bullying and other traumas and

violence bullying and other traumas and

violence bullying and other traumas and this creates complex behavioral and

this creates complex behavioral and

this creates complex behavioral and social and mental health issues and we

social and mental health issues and we

social and mental health issues and we know that kids in some of these

know that kids in some of these

know that kids in some of these situations then tend to go on to develop

situations then tend to go on to develop

situations then tend to go on to develop other issues that lead to a downward

other issues that lead to a downward

other issues that lead to a downward spiral they can end up in our prisons

spiral they can end up in our prisons

spiral they can end up in our prisons and our hospitals and we can deal with

and our hospitals and we can deal with

and our hospitals and we can deal with these problems later on we can deal with

these problems later on we can deal with

these problems later on we can deal with them then or in the next generation

them then or in the next generation

them then or in the next generation well what place to be does is by having

well what place to be does is by having

well what place to be does is by having this early intervention by giving

this early intervention by giving

this early intervention by giving independently the parents the children

independently the parents the children

independently the parents the children and the teachers someone dependable to

and the teachers someone dependable to

and the teachers someone dependable to talk to you by normalizing the process

talk to you by normalizing the process

talk to you by normalizing the process of seeking help and support by giving

of seeking help and support by giving

of seeking help and support by giving kids these place to talk slips where

kids these place to talk slips where

kids these place to talk slips where they can ask to have a chat to someone

they can ask to have a chat to someone

they can ask to have a chat to someone and they do the take up is huge by doing

and they do the take up is huge by doing

and they do the take up is huge by doing this that

this that

this that changing things for this generation I

changing things for this generation I

changing things for this generation I went to one of their schools last year

went to one of their schools last year

went to one of their schools last year and was really blown away that there was

and was really blown away that there was

and was really blown away that there was these little kids running up to me and

these little kids running up to me and

these little kids running up to me and when I chatted to them they were really

when I chatted to them they were really

when I chatted to them they were really excited to tell me how talking to

excited to tell me how talking to

excited to tell me how talking to Angelica had helped them be able to

Angelica had helped them be able to

Angelica had helped them be able to share their feelings with their friends

share their feelings with their friends

share their feelings with their friends now these were seven year old boys who

now these were seven year old boys who

now these were seven year old boys who were really excited and proud to be

were really excited and proud to be

were really excited and proud to be telling me they were talking about their

telling me they were talking about their

telling me they were talking about their feelings and this is the kind of shift

feelings and this is the kind of shift

feelings and this is the kind of shift that could make a real change in their

that could make a real change in their

that could make a real change in their difficult young lives and we see this in

difficult young lives and we see this in

difficult young lives and we see this in the evidence too so for place to be 74%

the evidence too so for place to be 74%

the evidence too so for place to be 74% of parents using the service say it

of parents using the service say it

of parents using the service say it significantly improves their home lives

significantly improves their home lives

significantly improves their home lives well 76 percent of teachers and 88

well 76 percent of teachers and 88

well 76 percent of teachers and 88 percent of children say that it’s

percent of children say that it’s

percent of children say that it’s shifted their behavioral and social and

shifted their behavioral and social and

shifted their behavioral and social and learning issues in the classroom and

learning issues in the classroom and

learning issues in the classroom and this flows on into the rest of their

this flows on into the rest of their

this flows on into the rest of their lives an independent analysis showed

lives an independent analysis showed

lives an independent analysis showed that for every one pounds that they

that for every one pounds that they

that for every one pounds that they place to be today there’s an estimated

place to be today there’s an estimated

place to be today there’s an estimated saving of six pounds to society later on

saving of six pounds to society later on

saving of six pounds to society later on savings in our education or criminal

savings in our education or criminal

savings in our education or criminal justice systems and when we have

justice systems and when we have

justice systems and when we have straining mental health budgets and

straining mental health budgets and

straining mental health budgets and straining budgets in general these kind

straining budgets in general these kind

straining budgets in general these kind of early interventions these investments

of early interventions these investments

of early interventions these investments in community or something that’s really

in community or something that’s really

in community or something that’s really underutilized as one final example of

underutilized as one final example of

underutilized as one final example of what we can do in physical communities

what we can do in physical communities

what we can do in physical communities the Alberta family wellness initiative

the Alberta family wellness initiative

the Alberta family wellness initiative starts to translate some of the brain

starts to translate some of the brain

starts to translate some of the brain science I was talking about about how we

science I was talking about about how we

science I was talking about about how we can build healthy brains through human

can build healthy brains through human

can build healthy brains through human connection they teach this to whole

connection they teach this to whole

connection they teach this to whole communities policymakers families

communities policymakers families

communities policymakers families teachers and this has been so successful

teachers and this has been so successful

teachers and this has been so successful at transforming these communities giving

at transforming these communities giving

at transforming these communities giving them emotional resilience and giving

them emotional resilience and giving

them emotional resilience and giving them the tools to embrace people

them the tools to embrace people

them the tools to embrace people suffering rather than shutting them away

suffering rather than shutting them away

suffering rather than shutting them away with stigmatization that just

with stigmatization that just

with stigmatization that just exacerbates issues rather than heals and

exacerbates issues rather than heals and

exacerbates issues rather than heals and because of this now the Alberta

because of this now the Alberta

because of this now the Alberta government has enshrined this in policy

government has enshrined this in policy

government has enshrined this in policy so they’re saying that this is so

so they’re saying that this is so

so they’re saying that this is so successful that every human service

successful that every human service

successful that every human service provider has to be fluent in this brain

provider has to be fluent in this brain

provider has to be fluent in this brain science or at least how to translate it

science or at least how to translate it

science or at least how to translate it into their work to enable human

into their work to enable human

into their work to enable human connection in their communities so what

connection in their communities so what

connection in their communities so what can we do with our online communities

can we do with our online communities

can we do with our online communities well one example comes from an

well one example comes from an

well one example comes from an organization that I’ve been working with

organization that I’ve been working with

organization that I’ve been working with and helping to establish with fellow

and helping to establish with fellow

and helping to establish with fellow Oxford students it’s called it gets

Oxford students it’s called it gets

Oxford students it’s called it gets brighter and it’s a charity dead

brighter and it’s a charity dead

brighter and it’s a charity dead to sharing messages of hope and support

to sharing messages of hope and support

to sharing messages of hope and support to young people struggling with mental

to young people struggling with mental

to young people struggling with mental health issues it’s the kind of thing I

health issues it’s the kind of thing I

health issues it’s the kind of thing I might have wanted when I was 14 and just

might have wanted when I was 14 and just

might have wanted when I was 14 and just showing me that I’m not alone and to

showing me that I’m not alone and to

showing me that I’m not alone and to show me that there was genuine cause for

show me that there was genuine cause for

show me that there was genuine cause for hope even if I didn’t feel that at the

hope even if I didn’t feel that at the

hope even if I didn’t feel that at the time we’ve had video messages come from

time we’ve had video messages come from

time we’ve had video messages come from all over the world from Egypt China

all over the world from Egypt China

all over the world from Egypt China Australia the US Canada Lebanon and many

Australia the US Canada Lebanon and many

Australia the US Canada Lebanon and many others as well as indigenous communities

others as well as indigenous communities

others as well as indigenous communities we’ve had people reaching out to us to

we’ve had people reaching out to us to

we’ve had people reaching out to us to thank us for what a difference either

thank us for what a difference either

thank us for what a difference either sharing their story or watching these

sharing their story or watching these

sharing their story or watching these video messages has had on their lives

video messages has had on their lives

video messages has had on their lives I’m always so blown away by these people

I’m always so blown away by these people

I’m always so blown away by these people showing their strength in their

showing their strength in their

showing their strength in their vulnerability something else we can do

vulnerability something else we can do

vulnerability something else we can do with the increasing ubiquity of mobile

with the increasing ubiquity of mobile

with the increasing ubiquity of mobile phone technologies in vulnerable

phone technologies in vulnerable

phone technologies in vulnerable communities like refugees and low and

communities like refugees and low and

communities like refugees and low and middle-income countries is that we can

middle-income countries is that we can

middle-income countries is that we can use this technology to enable us to

use this technology to enable us to

use this technology to enable us to provide them with mental health

provide them with mental health

provide them with mental health resources that they might not otherwise

resources that they might not otherwise

resources that they might not otherwise be able to access so there are people

be able to access so there are people

be able to access so there are people now working to provide ways to monitor

now working to provide ways to monitor

now working to provide ways to monitor people’s health and to give them the

people’s health and to give them the

people’s health and to give them the resources they might need to educate

resources they might need to educate

resources they might need to educate community aid workers so then when they

community aid workers so then when they

community aid workers so then when they go into communities they have the stuff

go into communities they have the stuff

go into communities they have the stuff on their phones so they can help

on their phones so they can help

on their phones so they can help diagnose and help support people and

diagnose and help support people and

diagnose and help support people and also educate them through these kind of

also educate them through these kind of

also educate them through these kind of video messages of hope so I’m really

video messages of hope so I’m really

video messages of hope so I’m really excited about the power of technology to

excited about the power of technology to

excited about the power of technology to help create these communities around the

help create these communities around the

help create these communities around the world but what can we do everyone

world but what can we do everyone

world but what can we do everyone sitting here everyone watching online as

sitting here everyone watching online as

sitting here everyone watching online as individuals I know it’s gonna sound

individuals I know it’s gonna sound

individuals I know it’s gonna sound really cliche now but you really do

really cliche now but you really do

really cliche now but you really do never know your power as an individual

never know your power as an individual

never know your power as an individual to be able to connect to someone and

to be able to connect to someone and

to be able to connect to someone and change their life as an example in 2008

change their life as an example in 2008

change their life as an example in 2008 my friend Johnny Benjamin was diagnosed

my friend Johnny Benjamin was diagnosed

my friend Johnny Benjamin was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder at the

with schizoaffective disorder at the

with schizoaffective disorder at the time he then felt that his situation was

time he then felt that his situation was

time he then felt that his situation was so hopeless there was so little chance

so hopeless there was so little chance

so hopeless there was so little chance of him having a good life and him being

of him having a good life and him being

of him having a good life and him being anything other than a burden on society

anything other than a burden on society

anything other than a burden on society so he was standing on a bridge in London

so he was standing on a bridge in London

so he was standing on a bridge in London ready to jump his story could well have

ready to jump his story could well have

ready to jump his story could well have ended there but a man walking by a

ended there but a man walking by a

ended there but a man walking by a stranger did the hard but simple act of

stranger did the hard but simple act of

stranger did the hard but simple act of stopping to chat so Johnny

stopping to chat so Johnny

stopping to chat so Johnny he reached out when others might have

he reached out when others might have

he reached out when others might have walked by and he made a connection he

walked by and he made a connection he

walked by and he made a connection he invited Johnny to have a coffee with him

invited Johnny to have a coffee with him

invited Johnny to have a coffee with him this simple act is what Johnny credits

this simple act is what Johnny credits

this simple act is what Johnny credits were saving his life today Johnny is an

were saving his life today Johnny is an

were saving his life today Johnny is an incredible video producer and wonderful

incredible video producer and wonderful

incredible video producer and wonderful human being and I’m so glad that he’s

human being and I’m so glad that he’s

human being and I’m so glad that he’s still with us if we can do all of these

still with us if we can do all of these

still with us if we can do all of these things if we can invest in our physical

things if we can invest in our physical

things if we can invest in our physical communities our online communities and

communities our online communities and

communities our online communities and his work as individuals we’re not only

his work as individuals we’re not only

his work as individuals we’re not only going to create a generation that cares

going to create a generation that cares

going to create a generation that cares about mental illness but also

about mental illness but also

about mental illness but also revolutionize mental health the World

revolutionize mental health the World

revolutionize mental health the World Health Organization Constitution

Health Organization Constitution

Health Organization Constitution preamble states that health is not

preamble states that health is not

preamble states that health is not merely the absence of illness but rather

merely the absence of illness but rather

merely the absence of illness but rather a state of complete social mental and

a state of complete social mental and

a state of complete social mental and physical well-being and hence it’s not

physical well-being and hence it’s not

physical well-being and hence it’s not really merely the absence of illness

really merely the absence of illness

really merely the absence of illness that promotes and provides mental health

that promotes and provides mental health

that promotes and provides mental health the science is showing that we’ve invest

the science is showing that we’ve invest

the science is showing that we’ve invest in teaching and equipping kids with the

in teaching and equipping kids with the

in teaching and equipping kids with the skills of emotional resilience of

skills of emotional resilience of

skills of emotional resilience of developing their executive function

developing their executive function

developing their executive function skills not only will we build brains

skills not only will we build brains

skills not only will we build brains that are more resilient to these life

that are more resilient to these life

that are more resilient to these life challenges but also do better in all

challenges but also do better in all

challenges but also do better in all measureable life outcomes and this is

measureable life outcomes and this is

measureable life outcomes and this is backed up by things like the Harvard

backed up by things like the Harvard

backed up by things like the Harvard grant study many of you might have heard

grant study many of you might have heard

grant study many of you might have heard of it because they look for 75 years at

of it because they look for 75 years at

of it because they look for 75 years at 268 men so overall their their whole

268 men so overall their their whole

268 men so overall their their whole life basically and measured all aspects

life basically and measured all aspects

life basically and measured all aspects of their life to try and understand what

of their life to try and understand what

of their life to try and understand what made a good healthy happy long life and

made a good healthy happy long life and

made a good healthy happy long life and what they found their secret for you’re

what they found their secret for you’re

what they found their secret for you’re down to one thing

down to one thing

down to one thing meaningful human connection and I also

meaningful human connection and I also

meaningful human connection and I also argue that if we equip people to be able

argue that if we equip people to be able

argue that if we equip people to be able to internalize their experiences manage

to internalize their experiences manage

to internalize their experiences manage their emotions and know that others will

their emotions and know that others will

their emotions and know that others will be there for them when they do then we

be there for them when they do then we

be there for them when they do then we might be able to start to tackle some of

might be able to start to tackle some of

might be able to start to tackle some of the higher rates of male suicide and

the higher rates of male suicide and

the higher rates of male suicide and violence in our communities as an aside

violence in our communities as an aside

violence in our communities as an aside I’m a DPhil student here in clinical

I’m a DPhil student here in clinical

I’m a DPhil student here in clinical neuroscience and I look at trying to

neuroscience and I look at trying to

neuroscience and I look at trying to understand the brain basis for anxiety

understand the brain basis for anxiety

understand the brain basis for anxiety disorders so when I argue for this

disorders so when I argue for this

disorders so when I argue for this community basis for mental health of

community basis for mental health of

community basis for mental health of educated and inspiring people in this

educated and inspiring people in this

educated and inspiring people in this way I’m not saying we shouldn’t invest

way I’m not saying we shouldn’t invest

way I’m not saying we shouldn’t invest in more research and better treatments

in more research and better treatments

in more research and better treatments we definitely should we definitely need

we definitely should we definitely need

we definitely should we definitely need that

that

that but I think that they go hand in hand

but I think that they go hand in hand

but I think that they go hand in hand it’s my hope that as we start to

it’s my hope that as we start to

it’s my hope that as we start to understand the biological basis of

understand the biological basis of

understand the biological basis of mental illness if we’re able to educate

mental illness if we’re able to educate

mental illness if we’re able to educate and spread that through our communities

and spread that through our communities

and spread that through our communities we’ll start to reduce the stigma in the

we’ll start to reduce the stigma in the

we’ll start to reduce the stigma in the way we did with cancer so people used to

way we did with cancer so people used to

way we did with cancer so people used to think of cancer as this moral failing

think of cancer as this moral failing

think of cancer as this moral failing but people might have got it because

but people might have got it because

but people might have got it because there was something a bit wrong with

there was something a bit wrong with

there was something a bit wrong with their character and that it might be

their character and that it might be

their character and that it might be contagious so you better stay away once

contagious so you better stay away once

contagious so you better stay away once we understood the biological basis we

we understood the biological basis we

we understood the biological basis we started to change this misconception and

started to change this misconception and

started to change this misconception and be able to start to celebrate people who

be able to start to celebrate people who

be able to start to celebrate people who struggled with us for their strength and

struggled with us for their strength and

struggled with us for their strength and support them much better and I hope we

support them much better and I hope we

support them much better and I hope we can do this with mental illness too so I

can do this with mental illness too so I

can do this with mental illness too so I think they go hand in hand but even if

think they go hand in hand but even if

think they go hand in hand but even if we have better treatments that’s not

we have better treatments that’s not

we have better treatments that’s not enough we need to create this community

enough we need to create this community

enough we need to create this community that can care for people going through

that can care for people going through

that can care for people going through it because if we have a great treatment

it because if we have a great treatment

it because if we have a great treatment but someone comes out of it and doesn’t

but someone comes out of it and doesn’t

but someone comes out of it and doesn’t feel like their identity is more than

feel like their identity is more than

feel like their identity is more than their illness or they’re not accepted by

their illness or they’re not accepted by

their illness or they’re not accepted by their society we still will have failed

their society we still will have failed

their society we still will have failed if we have a great treatment but we

if we have a great treatment but we

if we have a great treatment but we can’t get someone to go to it because of

can’t get someone to go to it because of

can’t get someone to go to it because of the stigma attached we still will have

the stigma attached we still will have

the stigma attached we still will have failed to do this we need you we need

failed to do this we need you we need

failed to do this we need you we need you to start to advocate for better

you to start to advocate for better

you to start to advocate for better programs in our physical communities to

programs in our physical communities to

programs in our physical communities to teach people and equip them with the

teach people and equip them with the

teach people and equip them with the skills they need to manage their own and

skills they need to manage their own and

skills they need to manage their own and others mental health we need you to

others mental health we need you to

others mental health we need you to invest in online communities spread

invest in online communities spread

invest in online communities spread these messages of hope and support and

these messages of hope and support and

these messages of hope and support and work as an individual to educate

work as an individual to educate

work as an individual to educate yourself to start to question people’s

yourself to start to question people’s

yourself to start to question people’s behavior start to look past and trying

behavior start to look past and trying

behavior start to look past and trying to understand their experiences to know

to understand their experiences to know

to understand their experiences to know what to do if someone comes to you with

what to do if someone comes to you with

what to do if someone comes to you with a problem if you can try and share your

a problem if you can try and share your

a problem if you can try and share your story – I know it’s tricky all the

story – I know it’s tricky all the

story – I know it’s tricky all the barriers that existed – talking about my

barriers that existed – talking about my

barriers that existed – talking about my mental illness back then still exists

mental illness back then still exists

mental illness back then still exists for me today concerns over future career

for me today concerns over future career

for me today concerns over future career prospects or people treating you or

prospects or people treating you or

prospects or people treating you or thinking of you differently when they

thinking of you differently when they

thinking of you differently when they find out but research shows that the

find out but research shows that the

find out but research shows that the best tool we have at the moment to

best tool we have at the moment to

best tool we have at the moment to challenge misconceptions and change

challenge misconceptions and change

challenge misconceptions and change people’s minds is by people being open

people’s minds is by people being open

people’s minds is by people being open about them into illness so it’s hard but

about them into illness so it’s hard but

about them into illness so it’s hard but I believe it’s worth it

I believe it’s worth it

I believe it’s worth it it is weird for me to be standing here

it is weird for me to be standing here

it is weird for me to be standing here not only because I’m giving a TEDx talk

not only because I’m giving a TEDx talk

not only because I’m giving a TEDx talk for crying out loud

for crying out loud

for crying out loud but also because

but also because

but also because talking about mental illness like this

talking about mental illness like this

talking about mental illness like this isn’t something I ever thought I would

isn’t something I ever thought I would

isn’t something I ever thought I would do when I was younger and not only

do when I was younger and not only

do when I was younger and not only because of this potential embarrassment

because of this potential embarrassment

because of this potential embarrassment in fact now I think we should celebrate

in fact now I think we should celebrate

in fact now I think we should celebrate people for their strengths but also

people for their strengths but also

people for their strengths but also because it’s not part of my identity

because it’s not part of my identity

because it’s not part of my identity anymore and I don’t want it to be I feel

anymore and I don’t want it to be I feel

anymore and I don’t want it to be I feel like I should be talking about how to

like I should be talking about how to

like I should be talking about how to save the Great Barrier Reef or the

save the Great Barrier Reef or the

save the Great Barrier Reef or the neuroscience of attention and I think

neuroscience of attention and I think

neuroscience of attention and I think this is what anyone going through any

this is what anyone going through any

this is what anyone going through any illness wants to in my experience to be

illness wants to in my experience to be

illness wants to in my experience to be seen as well for all the other things

seen as well for all the other things

seen as well for all the other things that they are to know that it’s okay to

that they are to know that it’s okay to

that they are to know that it’s okay to not be okay that we are enough the

not be okay that we are enough the

not be okay that we are enough the evidence is increasingly clear is there

evidence is increasingly clear is there

evidence is increasingly clear is there in the science and it’s there in the

in the science and it’s there in the

in the science and it’s there in the success of community-based mental health

success of community-based mental health

success of community-based mental health interventions what the world needs now

interventions what the world needs now

interventions what the world needs now is perhaps indeed just a little more

is perhaps indeed just a little more

is perhaps indeed just a little more love thank you

love thank you

love thank you [Applause]

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