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Choices, Chances & Change | Samantha Beynon | TEDxPortElizabethSalon


it’s a modern D help me write if you

it’s a modern D help me write if you listen and take evasive action action

listen and take evasive action action

listen and take evasive action action that’s deliberate action that’s

that’s deliberate action that’s

that’s deliberate action that’s intentional you can shape your future

intentional you can shape your future

intentional you can shape your future for the better

for the better

for the better it’s your choice these next few moments

it’s your choice these next few moments

it’s your choice these next few moments this talk may very well change your life

this talk may very well change your life

this talk may very well change your life it’s your choice I wish I had listened

it’s your choice I wish I had listened

it’s your choice I wish I had listened to you and not just listen to you but

to you and not just listen to you but

to you and not just listen to you but had acted out of the subconscious

had acted out of the subconscious

had acted out of the subconscious whisper that I had when I was ten eleven

whisper that I had when I was ten eleven

whisper that I had when I was ten eleven nineteen twenty and twenty-one very

nineteen twenty and twenty-one very

nineteen twenty and twenty-one very significant ages and moments in my life

significant ages and moments in my life

significant ages and moments in my life but I’m less than at this age in my

but I’m less than at this age in my

but I’m less than at this age in my mid-20s are now do listen to the inner

mid-20s are now do listen to the inner

mid-20s are now do listen to the inner voice that channels its way through this

voice that channels its way through this

voice that channels its way through this vessel that I won’t have to realize what

vessel that I won’t have to realize what

vessel that I won’t have to realize what I know now only when I’m eight years old

I know now only when I’m eight years old

I know now only when I’m eight years old because about one mean this missile

because about one mean this missile

because about one mean this missile plans on living a whole life we’re all

plans on living a whole life we’re all

plans on living a whole life we’re all time but ask yourselves how many of us

time but ask yourselves how many of us

time but ask yourselves how many of us are actually truly living no matter how

are actually truly living no matter how

are actually truly living no matter how challenging your specific destiny is or

challenging your specific destiny is or

challenging your specific destiny is or world meeting this country and this

world meeting this country and this

world meeting this country and this world could actually do

world could actually do

world could actually do right now the future isn’t going to

right now the future isn’t going to

right now the future isn’t going to shape itself in fact the future is

shape itself in fact the future is

shape itself in fact the future is waiting to be shaped by yourselves today

waiting to be shaped by yourselves today

waiting to be shaped by yourselves today someone like yourself who made a

someone like yourself who made a

someone like yourself who made a critical choice to take a chance on

critical choice to take a chance on

critical choice to take a chance on change and sometimes that changes

change and sometimes that changes

change and sometimes that changes unwarranted sometimes it’s unexpected

unwarranted sometimes it’s unexpected

unwarranted sometimes it’s unexpected sometimes it’s change that you don’t

sometimes it’s change that you don’t

sometimes it’s change that you don’t necessarily welcome unexpected changes

necessarily welcome unexpected changes

necessarily welcome unexpected changes happen to all of us and were not

happen to all of us and were not

happen to all of us and were not necessarily designed to naturally

necessarily designed to naturally

necessarily designed to naturally embrace change if were honest right we

embrace change if were honest right we

embrace change if were honest right we often tell ourselves to defend limit and

often tell ourselves to defend limit and

often tell ourselves to defend limit and protect ourselves from and resists

protect ourselves from and resists

protect ourselves from and resists change it’s our natural instinct to do

change it’s our natural instinct to do

change it’s our natural instinct to do so because we want security stability

so because we want security stability

so because we want security stability and control in our very designer makeup

and control in our very designer makeup

and control in our very designer makeup as human beings we don’t immediately

as human beings we don’t immediately

as human beings we don’t immediately embrace anything that’s difficult scary

embrace anything that’s difficult scary

embrace anything that’s difficult scary uncertain and uncomfortable and in our

uncertain and uncomfortable and in our

uncertain and uncomfortable and in our minds at least unnecessarily disrupts

minds at least unnecessarily disrupts

minds at least unnecessarily disrupts yet with unexpected changes comes

yet with unexpected changes comes

yet with unexpected changes comes chances and choices the darkness isn’t

chances and choices the darkness isn’t

chances and choices the darkness isn’t always a punishment sometimes it’s an

always a punishment sometimes it’s an

always a punishment sometimes it’s an opportunity at the age of 10 my father

opportunity at the age of 10 my father

opportunity at the age of 10 my father passed away one minute he was there the

passed away one minute he was there the

passed away one minute he was there the next he was gone and let me tell you

next he was gone and let me tell you

next he was gone and let me tell you this if you haven’t yet been through it

this if you haven’t yet been through it

this if you haven’t yet been through it yourselves no one can prepare you for

yourselves no one can prepare you for

yourselves no one can prepare you for the loss of a loved one particularly at

the loss of a loved one particularly at

the loss of a loved one particularly at a young age and people often treated

a young age and people often treated

a young age and people often treated like a moment but it isn’t a moment it’s

like a moment but it isn’t a moment it’s

like a moment but it isn’t a moment it’s a journey that you have to walk every

a journey that you have to walk every

a journey that you have to walk every single day and death remains a

single day and death remains a

single day and death remains a unexpected change if it’s not us it’s

unexpected change if it’s not us it’s

unexpected change if it’s not us it’s someone that we know and love between

someone that we know and love between

someone that we know and love between the ages of 11 and 20 hours with my

the ages of 11 and 20 hours with my

the ages of 11 and 20 hours with my single mother what a wonderful so if

surrounded by financial instability

surrounded by financial instability unemployment substance abuse domestic

unemployment substance abuse domestic

unemployment substance abuse domestic violence sexism and mental health

violence sexism and mental health

violence sexism and mental health conditions you name it

conditions you name it

conditions you name it that is the story that my mother my

that is the story that my mother my

that is the story that my mother my siblings and I lived at that particular

siblings and I lived at that particular

siblings and I lived at that particular time and dream that age it’s what

time and dream that age it’s what

time and dream that age it’s what Krypton in and out of my life in

Krypton in and out of my life in

Krypton in and out of my life in episodes throughout my animations once

episodes throughout my animations once

episodes throughout my animations once again change after the death of my

again change after the death of my

again change after the death of my father had knocked on my door stable

father had knocked on my door stable

father had knocked on my door stable when not hearing about incidents from a

when not hearing about incidents from a

when not hearing about incidents from a distance I would personally witness or

distance I would personally witness or

distance I would personally witness or become victim to some of the most

become victim to some of the most

become victim to some of the most violent acts

my mother was once thrown out of a car

my mother was once thrown out of a car bloodied disorientated and injured she

bloodied disorientated and injured she

bloodied disorientated and injured she still found the courage to walk herself

still found the courage to walk herself

still found the courage to walk herself her it’s a choice that she took in the

her it’s a choice that she took in the

her it’s a choice that she took in the five seconds after having been thrown

five seconds after having been thrown

five seconds after having been thrown out of the car the tension between the

out of the car the tension between the

out of the car the tension between the truth of what was happening in my life

truth of what was happening in my life

truth of what was happening in my life throughout my adolescence and the art of

throughout my adolescence and the art of

throughout my adolescence and the art of mastering false pretense in the public

mastering false pretense in the public

mastering false pretense in the public and in society is what kept me

and in society is what kept me

and in society is what kept me preoccupied

preoccupied

preoccupied zion.t a society in denial does the

zion.t a society in denial does the

zion.t a society in denial does the stream particular unequal society it

stream particular unequal society it

stream particular unequal society it waives the privileged person and

waives the privileged person and

waives the privileged person and privilege comes in many different forms

privilege comes in many different forms

privilege comes in many different forms there’s no single form of resolution

there’s no single form of resolution

there’s no single form of resolution masters the art of pretending not to

masters the art of pretending not to

masters the art of pretending not to have too much and the disadvantaged

have too much and the disadvantaged

have too much and the disadvantaged person masters the art of pretending to

person masters the art of pretending to

person masters the art of pretending to have just enough when it’s baby enough

have just enough when it’s baby enough

have just enough when it’s baby enough and they have to be strong about it as

and they have to be strong about it as

and they have to be strong about it as well we literally master the art of

well we literally master the art of

well we literally master the art of false pretense and it’s a conscious

false pretense and it’s a conscious

false pretense and it’s a conscious choice that we take like a society in

choice that we take like a society in

choice that we take like a society in denial waiting for change as an

denial waiting for change as an

denial waiting for change as an individual

individual

individual absolutely checked out I made a

absolutely checked out I made a

absolutely checked out I made a conscious choice to avoid taking a

conscious choice to avoid taking a

conscious choice to avoid taking a chance on unwarranted change could not

chance on unwarranted change could not

chance on unwarranted change could not understand that what was happening in my

understand that what was happening in my

understand that what was happening in my life was not just a punishment as I knew

life was not just a punishment as I knew

life was not just a punishment as I knew it and understood it at the time but in

it and understood it at the time but in

it and understood it at the time but in fact was an opportunity an opportunity

fact was an opportunity an opportunity

fact was an opportunity an opportunity to be to do and to have better for

to be to do and to have better for

to be to do and to have better for myself and for others you see you can

myself and for others you see you can

myself and for others you see you can use your life experiences and your pain

use your life experiences and your pain

use your life experiences and your pain as an instrument for your greatest

as an instrument for your greatest

as an instrument for your greatest growth you can make a choice to embrace

growth you can make a choice to embrace

growth you can make a choice to embrace the darkness to embrace unwarranted to

the darkness to embrace unwarranted to

the darkness to embrace unwarranted to change actually realize the small

change actually realize the small

change actually realize the small outside of the deaths in violence I

outside of the deaths in violence I

outside of the deaths in violence I experienced in 2009 I was 19 I was in a

experienced in 2009 I was 19 I was in a

experienced in 2009 I was 19 I was in a terrible mood – bike accident and a

terrible mood – bike accident and a

terrible mood – bike accident and a speeding double cab but he hit me on the

speeding double cab but he hit me on the

speeding double cab but he hit me on the right rear side and I flew literally

right rear side and I flew literally

right rear side and I flew literally flew a few meters and landed on hot top

flew a few meters and landed on hot top

flew a few meters and landed on hot top and strangely enough my homeland was not

and strangely enough my homeland was not

and strangely enough my homeland was not scratched there was a simple stretch of

scratched there was a simple stretch of

scratched there was a simple stretch of moment but my head was cut and the white

moment but my head was cut and the white

moment but my head was cut and the white stitches I think it was about 13

stitches I think it was about 13

stitches I think it was about 13 stitches and for moment I could not feel

stitches and for moment I could not feel

stitches and for moment I could not feel safe in my lips and if you’ve ever been

safe in my lips and if you’ve ever been

safe in my lips and if you’ve ever been through that if you ever question the

through that if you ever question the

through that if you ever question the loss of feeling in your limb before oh I

loss of feeling in your limb before oh I

loss of feeling in your limb before oh I want to bump you don’t want to go

want to bump you don’t want to go

want to bump you don’t want to go through that because in those seconds

through that because in those seconds

through that because in those seconds you have a choice you have a choice to

you have a choice you have a choice to

you have a choice you have a choice to say okay irrespective of what’s

say okay irrespective of what’s

say okay irrespective of what’s happening right now I can conquer and

happening right now I can conquer and

happening right now I can conquer and fight or I can just give in and say look

fight or I can just give in and say look

fight or I can just give in and say look I’ve just netted one some top of the

I’ve just netted one some top of the

I’ve just netted one some top of the fried off to you and that’s not an

fried off to you and that’s not an

fried off to you and that’s not an option

option

option don’t check out and there was this

don’t check out and there was this

don’t check out and there was this five-second gap between my last

five-second gap between my last

five-second gap between my last conscious boat and the shutting of my

conscious boat and the shutting of my

conscious boat and the shutting of my whilst I’m a dominant on mood and an

whilst I’m a dominant on mood and an

whilst I’m a dominant on mood and an inner voice whispered to me to no longer

inner voice whispered to me to no longer

inner voice whispered to me to no longer waste time to no longer wait on life to

waste time to no longer wait on life to

waste time to no longer wait on life to be reminded once again because they

be reminded once again because they

be reminded once again because they whispered to you those reminders are

whispered to you those reminders are

whispered to you those reminders are whispers to all the time that life is

whispers to all the time that life is

whispers to all the time that life is waiting on you to act too instead of

waiting on you to act too instead of

waiting on you to act too instead of waiting like a half person who waits for

waiting like a half person who waits for

waiting like a half person who waits for another hot person to make them feel

another hot person to make them feel

another hot person to make them feel whole again I had to make a subconscious

whole again I had to make a subconscious

whole again I had to make a subconscious choice to just be my fullest RISM think

choice to just be my fullest RISM think

choice to just be my fullest RISM think of it like this it’s always a

of it like this it’s always a

of it like this it’s always a five-second window period the smallest

five-second window period the smallest

five-second window period the smallest moment when you move from an idea you’re

moment when you move from an idea you’re

moment when you move from an idea you’re having your head to acting on the right

having your head to acting on the right

having your head to acting on the right there think of the monkey bars used to

there think of the monkey bars used to

there think of the monkey bars used to play on or the trees you you might have

play on or the trees you you might have

play on or the trees you you might have climbed during your childhood as you

climbed during your childhood as you

climbed during your childhood as you transition from one bar or branch on the

transition from one bar or branch on the

transition from one bar or branch on the tree you reach up for another and there

tree you reach up for another and there

tree you reach up for another and there are a few seconds between them that you

are a few seconds between them that you

are a few seconds between them that you have a choice to make a choice to let go

have a choice to make a choice to let go

have a choice to make a choice to let go or a choice to persist it’s your choice

or a choice to persist it’s your choice

or a choice to persist it’s your choice if we want to shape our future we can’t

if we want to shape our future we can’t

if we want to shape our future we can’t afford to wait constantly on hold by the

afford to wait constantly on hold by the

afford to wait constantly on hold by the way how has automotive been working for

way how has automotive been working for

way how has automotive been working for you so far we have to make the conscious

you so far we have to make the conscious

you so far we have to make the conscious choice of acting now and realizing the

choice of acting now and realizing the

choice of acting now and realizing the change that we want to see in this

change that we want to see in this

change that we want to see in this country in our world in order to do that

country in our world in order to do that

country in our world in order to do that we have to take chances chances to have

we have to take chances chances to have

we have to take chances chances to have the conversations we’ve never taken the

the conversations we’ve never taken the

the conversations we’ve never taken the chance to have difficult but honest and

chance to have difficult but honest and

chance to have difficult but honest and open conversations between each other

open conversations between each other

open conversations between each other and in this nation and I learned that

and in this nation and I learned that

and in this nation and I learned that lesson when my mother passed

lesson when my mother passed

lesson when my mother passed when I was 21 I’ll never forget that the

when I was 21 I’ll never forget that the

when I was 21 I’ll never forget that the final moments I had with her alongside

final moments I had with her alongside

final moments I had with her alongside her bed in the hospital and I knew that

her bed in the hospital and I knew that

her bed in the hospital and I knew that she was eating and I had a choice to

she was eating and I had a choice to

she was eating and I had a choice to weep and be angry and to say why are you

weep and be angry and to say why are you

weep and be angry and to say why are you going with a gun on me and I said no

going with a gun on me and I said no

going with a gun on me and I said no let’s have that DMC that’s longer with

let’s have that DMC that’s longer with

let’s have that DMC that’s longer with you that deep meaningful conversation

you that deep meaningful conversation

you that deep meaningful conversation and it’s a DMC who’s country has been

and it’s a DMC who’s country has been

and it’s a DMC who’s country has been waiting to have my mother’s death had an

waiting to have my mother’s death had an

waiting to have my mother’s death had an impact on me because make me realize how

impact on me because make me realize how

impact on me because make me realize how easily you can do someone like this and

easily you can do someone like this and

easily you can do someone like this and the privilege that comes with heavy

the privilege that comes with heavy

the privilege that comes with heavy people like that the privilege that

people like that the privilege that

people like that the privilege that comes with having the kind of country we

comes with having the kind of country we

comes with having the kind of country we have that we so take for granted

have that we so take for granted

have that we so take for granted particular has privileged people that is

particular has privileged people that is

particular has privileged people that is why we must not take the prison for

why we must not take the prison for

why we must not take the prison for granted our prison informs us and shapes

granted our prison informs us and shapes

granted our prison informs us and shapes us the same can be said for our country

us the same can be said for our country

us the same can be said for our country perhaps the shapers of the future we

perhaps the shapers of the future we

perhaps the shapers of the future we need to take the chance to fix our

need to take the chance to fix our

need to take the chance to fix our broken homes to uplift our communities

broken homes to uplift our communities

broken homes to uplift our communities and develop the relationships between

and develop the relationships between

and develop the relationships between and amongst each other South Africans

and amongst each other South Africans

and amongst each other South Africans from all walks of life perhaps this is

from all walks of life perhaps this is

from all walks of life perhaps this is our assignment as individuals and as a

our assignment as individuals and as a

our assignment as individuals and as a nation I believe that you personal

nation I believe that you personal

nation I believe that you personal identity and your story is part of the

identity and your story is part of the

identity and your story is part of the bigger picture and a collective story

bigger picture and a collective story

bigger picture and a collective story and by a number of things there’s no

and by a number of things there’s no

and by a number of things there’s no single thing that informs you press my

single thing that informs you press my

single thing that informs you press my identity it could be your geographical

identity it could be your geographical

identity it could be your geographical location it could be your ancestry it

location it could be your ancestry it

location it could be your ancestry it could be your history it could be your

could be your history it could be your

could be your history it could be your nationality or socialization but it’s

nationality or socialization but it’s

nationality or socialization but it’s also the personal choices you make as

also the personal choices you make as

also the personal choices you make as individual as a self-proclaimed

individual as a self-proclaimed

individual as a self-proclaimed non-water Docs young white South African

non-water Docs young white South African

non-water Docs young white South African I’m always by choice attempt to live and

I’m always by choice attempt to live and

I’m always by choice attempt to live and pink definitely because I’m a parent of

pink definitely because I’m a parent of

pink definitely because I’m a parent of personal choice and difference

personal choice and difference

personal choice and difference I was socialized to be conservative and

I was socialized to be conservative and

I was socialized to be conservative and to think and feel a certain way about

to think and feel a certain way about

to think and feel a certain way about other groups of people but I made a

other groups of people but I made a

other groups of people but I made a conscious decision to be liberal and to

conscious decision to be liberal and to

conscious decision to be liberal and to embrace people from different walks of

embrace people from different walks of

embrace people from different walks of life to respect them and treat them as

life to respect them and treat them as

life to respect them and treat them as my equal

my equal

my equal it was a choice a choice to unlearn

it was a choice a choice to unlearn

it was a choice a choice to unlearn relearn and learn constantly have you

relearn and learn constantly have you

relearn and learn constantly have you grown up around difficulty I’ve come to

grown up around difficulty I’ve come to

grown up around difficulty I’ve come to believe that we can’t just accept people

believe that we can’t just accept people

believe that we can’t just accept people do what is easy because to who much is

do what is easy because to who much is

do what is easy because to who much is given much is required

given much is required

given much is required people have a question how do you do

people have a question how do you do

people have a question how do you do what you do why are you the way about

what you do why are you the way about

what you do why are you the way about and I often see this in the facial

and I often see this in the facial

and I often see this in the facial expression of my fellow indigenous

expression of my fellow indigenous

expression of my fellow indigenous African brothers and sisters in the

African brothers and sisters in the

African brothers and sisters in the township when instead of greeting them

township when instead of greeting them

township when instead of greeting them in English I greet them in the

in English I greet them in the

in English I greet them in the indigenous language so I’ll be walking

indigenous language so I’ll be walking

indigenous language so I’ll be walking or walking instead of hello men it’s one

or walking instead of hello men it’s one

or walking instead of hello men it’s one of my old I need one of man and it a

of my old I need one of man and it a

of my old I need one of man and it a creeper Morrises and in a box they walk

creeper Morrises and in a box they walk

creeper Morrises and in a box they walk a few meters they turn around just to

a few meters they turn around just to

a few meters they turn around just to check as the little things like that and

check as the little things like that and

check as the little things like that and I’ve learned through those experiences

I’ve learned through those experiences

I’ve learned through those experiences not just betraying myself my unique self

weatherman occipital unaccepted I’m a

weatherman occipital unaccepted I’m a man and I’m a Trinity not only learning

man and I’m a Trinity not only learning

man and I’m a Trinity not only learning in the shadows someone actually awaits

in the shadows someone actually awaits

in the shadows someone actually awaits inspiration through myself

so let me tell you this you’ll know when

so let me tell you this you’ll know when you on the right path when you don’t

you on the right path when you don’t

you on the right path when you don’t betray yourself when you don’t have to

betray yourself when you don’t have to

betray yourself when you don’t have to negotiate your sense of integrity or

negotiate your sense of integrity or

negotiate your sense of integrity or compromise who you are when you’re

compromise who you are when you’re

compromise who you are when you’re taking on a conscious choice to take a

taking on a conscious choice to take a

taking on a conscious choice to take a chance to do to yourself

chance to do to yourself

chance to do to yourself by the way to work in the area of your

by the way to work in the area of your

by the way to work in the area of your destiny you can’t be limited to working

destiny you can’t be limited to working

destiny you can’t be limited to working with people who look only like you if

with people who look only like you if

with people who look only like you if only the exclusionists the sixes the

only the exclusionists the sixes the

only the exclusionists the sixes the racists in our country actually

racists in our country actually

racists in our country actually understood that we’re so easily

understood that we’re so easily

understood that we’re so easily distracted by comparisons the

distracted by comparisons the

distracted by comparisons the comparisons we make and it changed let

comparisons we make and it changed let

comparisons we make and it changed let me resist there will be a life being and

me resist there will be a life being and

me resist there will be a life being and doing nothing and so because we don’t

doing nothing and so because we don’t

doing nothing and so because we don’t have potential or tenant but the

have potential or tenant but the

have potential or tenant but the potential and Italian life changes there

potential and Italian life changes there

potential and Italian life changes there it’s waiting on us to act wait it was to

it’s waiting on us to act wait it was to

it’s waiting on us to act wait it was to pay attention waiting for us to make a

pay attention waiting for us to make a

pay attention waiting for us to make a choice to act it which used to wait

choice to act it which used to wait

choice to act it which used to wait anyway for the why or where to live you

anyway for the why or where to live you

anyway for the why or where to live you are not quite sure the talent you

are not quite sure the talent you

are not quite sure the talent you possess is not to be just disregarded

possess is not to be just disregarded

possess is not to be just disregarded over a little bit or ever in mind in

over a little bit or ever in mind in

over a little bit or ever in mind in effect whilst you are busy always

effect whilst you are busy always

effect whilst you are busy always wondering about the day what will they

wondering about the day what will they

wondering about the day what will they do or say or think have you ever

do or say or think have you ever

do or say or think have you ever considered that what you possess is a

considered that what you possess is a

considered that what you possess is a unique individual is actually what they

unique individual is actually what they

unique individual is actually what they need to find peace you have to give go

need to find peace you have to give go

need to find peace you have to give go of the armor that you so dearly hold on

of the armor that you so dearly hold on

of the armor that you so dearly hold on to to defend and protect yourself from

to to defend and protect yourself from

to to defend and protect yourself from change you need that this means that you

change you need that this means that you

change you need that this means that you always have to feel accepted will make

always have to feel accepted will make

always have to feel accepted will make you so invisible in this world and if

you so invisible in this world and if

you so invisible in this world and if you are invisible in then to this room

you are invisible in then to this room

you are invisible in then to this room how will you shake the moocher never lie

how will you shake the moocher never lie

how will you shake the moocher never lie to people who are acceptance because you

to people who are acceptance because you

to people who are acceptance because you haven’t yet

haven’t yet

haven’t yet accepted yourself nothing runs deeper

accepted yourself nothing runs deeper

accepted yourself nothing runs deeper than the pain of not letting yourself

than the pain of not letting yourself

than the pain of not letting yourself know that when you’ve made your choice

know that when you’ve made your choice

know that when you’ve made your choice it is Providence that is your guide

it is Providence that is your guide

it is Providence that is your guide we’re very different your fate lies in

we’re very different your fate lies in

we’re very different your fate lies in that and that with choices there’s no

that and that with choices there’s no

that and that with choices there’s no in-between you have to live your

in-between you have to live your

in-between you have to live your teaching by the way the world has enough

teaching by the way the world has enough

teaching by the way the world has enough preachers and masquerades what we need

preachers and masquerades what we need

preachers and masquerades what we need are people who actually live what they

are people who actually live what they

are people who actually live what they teach to be hesitant or silent is a

teach to be hesitant or silent is a

teach to be hesitant or silent is a choice traced back all the times way you

choice traced back all the times way you

choice traced back all the times way you hesitated or you remain quiet when you

hesitated or you remain quiet when you

hesitated or you remain quiet when you should attempt and see how we define

should attempt and see how we define

should attempt and see how we define change changing your life and changing

change changing your life and changing

change changing your life and changing the lives of others unless something

the lives of others unless something

the lives of others unless something drastic happens to us we seem to take

drastic happens to us we seem to take

drastic happens to us we seem to take for granted that tomorrow may not come

for granted that tomorrow may not come

for granted that tomorrow may not come that we may just a pass out on the

that we may just a pass out on the

that we may just a pass out on the chance to make a choice that could have

chance to make a choice that could have

chance to make a choice that could have brought about positive change

brought about positive change

brought about positive change you are one choice away from a totally

you are one choice away from a totally

you are one choice away from a totally different circumstance life is painful

different circumstance life is painful

different circumstance life is painful we all live painful experiences in our

we all live painful experiences in our

we all live painful experiences in our lives

lives

lives Matthew quietly you might speak openly

Matthew quietly you might speak openly

Matthew quietly you might speak openly about it but today everyone’s gone

about it but today everyone’s gone

about it but today everyone’s gone through something but suffering is a

through something but suffering is a

through something but suffering is a choice if you change some of your

choice if you change some of your

choice if you change some of your choices you might just change everything

choices you might just change everything

choices you might just change everything including the responses to the pain we

including the responses to the pain we

including the responses to the pain we experience not another although there

experience not another although there

experience not another although there will be people who despise you for your

will be people who despise you for your

will be people who despise you for your courage your strength your success your

courage your strength your success your

courage your strength your success your tenacity you constantly choose how you

tenacity you constantly choose how you

tenacity you constantly choose how you use your energy space and time to

use your energy space and time to

use your energy space and time to respond to that if you keep letting

respond to that if you keep letting

respond to that if you keep letting people treat you the way they do to

people treat you the way they do to

people treat you the way they do to become a culture if we keep leading

become a culture if we keep leading

become a culture if we keep leading racist and sexist treats our country the

racist and sexist treats our country the

racist and sexist treats our country the way they do it will become culture if we

way they do it will become culture if we

way they do it will become culture if we allow others to do what they want it

allow others to do what they want it

allow others to do what they want it will become normalized it will become

will become normalized it will become

will become normalized it will become toxic have no doubt that your personal

toxic have no doubt that your personal

toxic have no doubt that your personal story with fire nation

story with fire nation

story with fire nation and shake this future that’s your power

and shake this future that’s your power

and shake this future that’s your power that’s your weapon we’re and we’re all

that’s your weapon we’re and we’re all

that’s your weapon we’re and we’re all human beings at the end of the day we

human beings at the end of the day we

human beings at the end of the day we all need confidence confidence are there

all need confidence confidence are there

all need confidence confidence are there for you they pick you up they lift you

for you they pick you up they lift you

for you they pick you up they lift you they want you to succeed let me share us

they want you to succeed let me share us

they want you to succeed let me share us with you

with you

with you be wary of those who remain silent when

be wary of those who remain silent when

be wary of those who remain silent when you share good news because those are

you share good news because those are

you share good news because those are not your confidence but when last we you

not your confidence but when last we you

not your confidence but when last we you our country learned another when last if

our country learned another when last if

our country learned another when last if we make a choice to be confidence for

we make a choice to be confidence for

we make a choice to be confidence for South Africa take a chance on caring for

South Africa take a chance on caring for

South Africa take a chance on caring for yourself you’ll never be in the prime

yourself you’ll never be in the prime

yourself you’ll never be in the prime position to take care of others unless

position to take care of others unless

position to take care of others unless you take care of yourself align himself

you take care of yourself align himself

you take care of yourself align himself with your purpose

with your purpose

with your purpose take a chance from your dream it’s scary

take a chance from your dream it’s scary

take a chance from your dream it’s scary because you might think you will fail

because you might think you will fail

because you might think you will fail but how many dreams like the graveyard

but how many dreams like the graveyard

but how many dreams like the graveyard because people gave up on it you can

because people gave up on it you can

because people gave up on it you can make more money but you can’t make more

make more money but you can’t make more

make more money but you can’t make more time stop wishing start doing leave the

time stop wishing start doing leave the

time stop wishing start doing leave the change we need the bigger the chance you

change we need the bigger the chance you

change we need the bigger the chance you take the bigger change you move Eve make

take the bigger change you move Eve make

take the bigger change you move Eve make that bigger choice

that bigger choice

that bigger choice [Applause]

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