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[Applause]

[Applause] it’s mr. Morgan sitting down now is

it’s mr. Morgan sitting down now is

it’s mr. Morgan sitting down now is either okay good hello my name is Emma

either okay good hello my name is Emma

either okay good hello my name is Emma almond I’m a high school senior at Kiev

almond I’m a high school senior at Kiev

almond I’m a high school senior at Kiev international school I’m really nervous

international school I’m really nervous

international school I’m really nervous and I’ll be surprised if my speech isn’t

and I’ll be surprised if my speech isn’t

and I’ll be surprised if my speech isn’t a little shaky so sorry about that in

a little shaky so sorry about that in

a little shaky so sorry about that in advance anyway this events theme is

advance anyway this events theme is

advance anyway this events theme is change so I’m going to talk about how

change so I’m going to talk about how

change so I’m going to talk about how change can happen I think that it’s

change can happen I think that it’s

change can happen I think that it’s easier to think about things on the

easier to think about things on the

easier to think about things on the small scale and expand outwards so I’m

small scale and expand outwards so I’m

small scale and expand outwards so I’m going to look at change in the frame of

going to look at change in the frame of

going to look at change in the frame of the LGBT community LGBT for

the LGBT community LGBT for

the LGBT community LGBT for clarification is not a sandwich it’s an

clarification is not a sandwich it’s an

clarification is not a sandwich it’s an acronym where L stands for lesbian g for

acronym where L stands for lesbian g for

acronym where L stands for lesbian g for gay be for bisexual and T for

gay be for bisexual and T for

gay be for bisexual and T for transgender there is usually a whole

transgender there is usually a whole

transgender there is usually a whole slew of other letters after those but I

slew of other letters after those but I

slew of other letters after those but I really don’t know enough to do it and do

really don’t know enough to do it and do

really don’t know enough to do it and do them any justice so I’m just going to

them any justice so I’m just going to

them any justice so I’m just going to overlook that for now before we entrench

overlook that for now before we entrench

overlook that for now before we entrench ourselves in the particulars of the

ourselves in the particulars of the

ourselves in the particulars of the community and why change in the LGBT

community and why change in the LGBT

community and why change in the LGBT community make a good match I’d like to

community make a good match I’d like to

community make a good match I’d like to tell you a story to provide some context

tell you a story to provide some context

tell you a story to provide some context the year I turned nine years old my

the year I turned nine years old my

the year I turned nine years old my family and I bounced between seven

family and I bounced between seven

family and I bounced between seven houses it felt like we were moving every

houses it felt like we were moving every

houses it felt like we were moving every other week we lost two whole cats and

other week we lost two whole cats and

other week we lost two whole cats and probably broke at least an entire set of

probably broke at least an entire set of

probably broke at least an entire set of dinner plates and yeah sure occasionally

dinner plates and yeah sure occasionally

dinner plates and yeah sure occasionally I had my own room and once we ended up

I had my own room and once we ended up

I had my own room and once we ended up in a house with the yard at least as big

in a house with the yard at least as big

in a house with the yard at least as big as a football field but I loved my cats

as a football field but I loved my cats

as a football field but I loved my cats more than I love my personal space a

more than I love my personal space a

more than I love my personal space a potential case of Stockholm Syndrome and

potential case of Stockholm Syndrome and

potential case of Stockholm Syndrome and we were in that house with a big yard

we were in that house with a big yard

we were in that house with a big yard for like two months before we had to

for like two months before we had to

for like two months before we had to haul off in the middle of the night we

haul off in the middle of the night we

haul off in the middle of the night we did eventually stagger to a momentary

did eventually stagger to a momentary

did eventually stagger to a momentary halt in Texas but by then my opinion of

halt in Texas but by then my opinion of

halt in Texas but by then my opinion of change had soured so completely that I

change had soured so completely that I

change had soured so completely that I was resistant even to the smallest

was resistant even to the smallest

was resistant even to the smallest changes in my routine this was because

changes in my routine this was because

changes in my routine this was because at nine years old every change felt so

at nine years old every change felt so

at nine years old every change felt so agonizingly monumental that I was sure

agonizingly monumental that I was sure

agonizingly monumental that I was sure that’s how change was supposed to be

that’s how change was supposed to be

that’s how change was supposed to be change was at the default a horrible

change was at the default a horrible

change was at the default a horrible ordeal you had to slog through of course

ordeal you had to slog through of course

ordeal you had to slog through of course despite my newfound loathing of all

despite my newfound loathing of all

despite my newfound loathing of all things non sedentary my family and I

things non sedentary my family and I

things non sedentary my family and I moved to Kiev Ukraine two years later

moved to Kiev Ukraine two years later

moved to Kiev Ukraine two years later and I had never even heard of Ukraine

and I had never even heard of Ukraine

and I had never even heard of Ukraine Thanks American centric geographical

Thanks American centric geographical

Thanks American centric geographical education I couldn’t make heads or tails

education I couldn’t make heads or tails

education I couldn’t make heads or tails of Russian and half my extended family

of Russian and half my extended family

of Russian and half my extended family was positive I was going to come back a

was positive I was going to come back a

was positive I was going to come back a communist we had to ditch three whole

communist we had to ditch three whole

communist we had to ditch three whole cats again and half of everything we

cats again and half of everything we

cats again and half of everything we owned we arrived in the dead of night to

owned we arrived in the dead of night to

owned we arrived in the dead of night to what might as well have been the moon

what might as well have been the moon

what might as well have been the moon for all the places I’d been and I

for all the places I’d been and I

for all the places I’d been and I thought moving from I thought moving

thought moving from I thought moving

thought moving from I thought moving from one County to another was painful

from one County to another was painful

from one County to another was painful the me right now loves Ukraine but 12

the me right now loves Ukraine but 12

the me right now loves Ukraine but 12 year old me was unconvinced even the

year old me was unconvinced even the

year old me was unconvinced even the whole snow in the winter thing was novel

whole snow in the winter thing was novel

whole snow in the winter thing was novel for a hot minute before i realized that

for a hot minute before i realized that

for a hot minute before i realized that texas had us woefully unprepared for

texas had us woefully unprepared for

texas had us woefully unprepared for that nonsense i met people from all over

that nonsense i met people from all over

that nonsense i met people from all over the world but i was so culture shocked

the world but i was so culture shocked

the world but i was so culture shocked by the notion that it seemed endlessly

by the notion that it seemed endlessly

by the notion that it seemed endlessly difficult instead of wondrous and knew i

difficult instead of wondrous and knew i

difficult instead of wondrous and knew i had no intention of letting things in my

had no intention of letting things in my

had no intention of letting things in my life change ever again when I came to

life change ever again when I came to

life change ever again when I came to Ukraine by the way the minute you decide

Ukraine by the way the minute you decide

Ukraine by the way the minute you decide that something is never ever going to

that something is never ever going to

that something is never ever going to happen to you again you may as well ask

happen to you again you may as well ask

happen to you again you may as well ask the universe for the kick in the pants

the universe for the kick in the pants

the universe for the kick in the pants that’s headed your way I wanted to

that’s headed your way I wanted to

that’s headed your way I wanted to continue stomping through life with my

continue stomping through life with my

continue stomping through life with my eyes closed and avoid all things new and

eyes closed and avoid all things new and

eyes closed and avoid all things new and potentially change inducing something

potentially change inducing something

potentially change inducing something was bound to give and of course it did

was bound to give and of course it did

was bound to give and of course it did right about when I turned 13 puberty am

right about when I turned 13 puberty am

right about when I turned 13 puberty am i right I was cruising along enduring

i right I was cruising along enduring

i right I was cruising along enduring what most prepubescence do acne body

what most prepubescence do acne body

what most prepubescence do acne body odor unfortunately not growth spurts and

oh hey I was gay of course I am still

oh hey I was gay of course I am still gay and that is something of a problem

gay and that is something of a problem

gay and that is something of a problem not my problem I’m gay and that’s more

not my problem I’m gay and that’s more

not my problem I’m gay and that’s more or less the end of things on my end but

or less the end of things on my end but

or less the end of things on my end but it’s not all rainbows and sunshine if

it’s not all rainbows and sunshine if

it’s not all rainbows and sunshine if you’re here in your queer I mean I’m

you’re here in your queer I mean I’m

you’re here in your queer I mean I’m proud to be a member of the LGBT

proud to be a member of the LGBT

proud to be a member of the LGBT community communities are great they put

community communities are great they put

community communities are great they put a bunch of like people under the same

a bunch of like people under the same

a bunch of like people under the same umbrella a rainbow umbrella so they can

umbrella a rainbow umbrella so they can

umbrella a rainbow umbrella so they can hang out with similar people with

hang out with similar people with

hang out with similar people with similar interests problem is when you

similar interests problem is when you

similar interests problem is when you put a bunch of people all together it

put a bunch of people all together it

put a bunch of people all together it makes them a much easier target and LGBT

makes them a much easier target and LGBT

makes them a much easier target and LGBT folks are definitely akin to punching

folks are definitely akin to punching

folks are definitely akin to punching bags in the global community we could

bags in the global community we could

bags in the global community we could look for instance at how they’re treated

look for instance at how they’re treated

look for instance at how they’re treated right here in Ukraine every country that

right here in Ukraine every country that

right here in Ukraine every country that enters into an agreement with the

enters into an agreement with the

enters into an agreement with the European Union trade-related or

European Union trade-related or

European Union trade-related or otherwise has to meet a few conditions

otherwise has to meet a few conditions

otherwise has to meet a few conditions the folding of certainty

the folding of certainty

the folding of certainty existing laws into their to boot into

existing laws into their to boot into

existing laws into their to boot into their justice system for instance among

their justice system for instance among

their justice system for instance among those are laws which prevent the

those are laws which prevent the

those are laws which prevent the discrimination of minority groups which

discrimination of minority groups which

discrimination of minority groups which includes LGBT folks the EU is pretty

includes LGBT folks the EU is pretty

includes LGBT folks the EU is pretty strict about these things with a sort of

strict about these things with a sort of

strict about these things with a sort of accept these conditions or find another

accept these conditions or find another

accept these conditions or find another trade union kind of attitude a list of

trade union kind of attitude a list of

trade union kind of attitude a list of countries who have folded such laws into

countries who have folded such laws into

countries who have folded such laws into their own includes georgia albania

their own includes georgia albania

their own includes georgia albania serbia mexico and even iraq but not

serbia mexico and even iraq but not

serbia mexico and even iraq but not Ukraine so cultural sensitivities and

Ukraine so cultural sensitivities and

Ukraine so cultural sensitivities and even religious proclivities are put by

even religious proclivities are put by

even religious proclivities are put by the roadside when it comes to the e use

the roadside when it comes to the e use

the roadside when it comes to the e use trade agreements and political

trade agreements and political

trade agreements and political agreements but Ukraine was an exception

agreements but Ukraine was an exception

agreements but Ukraine was an exception to the rule for the sake of encouraging

to the rule for the sake of encouraging

to the rule for the sake of encouraging Ukraine to enter into the agreement and

Ukraine to enter into the agreement and

Ukraine to enter into the agreement and make governmental transition a little

make governmental transition a little

make governmental transition a little easier now knowing the climate now

easier now knowing the climate now

easier now knowing the climate now knowing what the climate for LGBT folks

knowing what the climate for LGBT folks

knowing what the climate for LGBT folks is in a country which could even be

is in a country which could even be

is in a country which could even be contained which could even be considered

contained which could even be considered

contained which could even be considered tame in comparison to other countries

tame in comparison to other countries

tame in comparison to other countries like say Nigeria where I have cheese

like say Nigeria where I have cheese

like say Nigeria where I have cheese where I’d have been sentenced to death

where I’d have been sentenced to death

where I’d have been sentenced to death by now it hopefully is understandable

by now it hopefully is understandable

by now it hopefully is understandable that I’d like to shake things up a

that I’d like to shake things up a

that I’d like to shake things up a little which brings me back to the

little which brings me back to the

little which brings me back to the overarching topic of this talk change

overarching topic of this talk change

overarching topic of this talk change I’m of the opinion that how we think

I’m of the opinion that how we think

I’m of the opinion that how we think about change is not always conducive to

about change is not always conducive to

about change is not always conducive to progress we like to talk about change in

progress we like to talk about change in

progress we like to talk about change in uncomfortably broad terms burdened by

uncomfortably broad terms burdened by

uncomfortably broad terms burdened by connotation it’s heroic and triumphant

connotation it’s heroic and triumphant

connotation it’s heroic and triumphant or it’s agonizing but inspiring always

or it’s agonizing but inspiring always

or it’s agonizing but inspiring always though it’s big change has got to be big

though it’s big change has got to be big

though it’s big change has got to be big and exciting and important the year I

and exciting and important the year I

and exciting and important the year I was nine and moving all over the place I

was nine and moving all over the place I

was nine and moving all over the place I hated change with a burning passion to

hated change with a burning passion to

hated change with a burning passion to the point that I began to hate to the

the point that I began to hate to the

the point that I began to hate to the point that I began to hate the idea of

point that I began to hate the idea of

point that I began to hate the idea of change I thought that because the

change I thought that because the

change I thought that because the changes that had happened in my life had

changes that had happened in my life had

changes that had happened in my life had all seems so colossal that all changed

all seems so colossal that all changed

all seems so colossal that all changed afterwards was going to be just as

afterwards was going to be just as

afterwards was going to be just as horrific I even expected some

horrific I even expected some

horrific I even expected some earth-shaking change when I stumbled

earth-shaking change when I stumbled

earth-shaking change when I stumbled over my sexuality nothing was ever going

over my sexuality nothing was ever going

over my sexuality nothing was ever going to be the same I figured that the next

to be the same I figured that the next

to be the same I figured that the next day I was going to get up go to school

day I was going to get up go to school

day I was going to get up go to school and somehow everyone would know as it

and somehow everyone would know as it

and somehow everyone would know as it turns out life just goes on I got

turns out life just goes on I got

turns out life just goes on I got dressed the next morning I went to my

dressed the next morning I went to my

dressed the next morning I went to my classes struggled to meth ate a peanut

classes struggled to meth ate a peanut

classes struggled to meth ate a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and the whole

butter and jelly sandwich and the whole

butter and jelly sandwich and the whole time I was gay and doing the same stuff

time I was gay and doing the same stuff

time I was gay and doing the same stuff I always do

I always do

I always do there weren’t any extra rainbows or

there weren’t any extra rainbows or

there weren’t any extra rainbows or glitter involved and that awkward

glitter involved and that awkward

glitter involved and that awkward juxtaposition of that frightened fantasy

juxtaposition of that frightened fantasy

juxtaposition of that frightened fantasy and the really Monday in reality helped

and the really Monday in reality helped

and the really Monday in reality helped me understand that we’re thinking of

me understand that we’re thinking of

me understand that we’re thinking of things mm-hmm not things we’re thinking

things mm-hmm not things we’re thinking

things mm-hmm not things we’re thinking of change like it’s a mountain when

of change like it’s a mountain when

of change like it’s a mountain when really it’s a molehill which is that

really it’s a molehill which is that

really it’s a molehill which is that little pile of dirt you get when moles

little pile of dirt you get when moles

little pile of dirt you get when moles poke their heads up above ground they’re

poke their heads up above ground they’re

poke their heads up above ground they’re small and mountains are babe guess what

small and mountains are babe guess what

small and mountains are babe guess what I’m getting at and if we’re assuming

I’m getting at and if we’re assuming

I’m getting at and if we’re assuming that mole hills or mountains nothing is

that mole hills or mountains nothing is

that mole hills or mountains nothing is getting done the thing about change is

getting done the thing about change is

getting done the thing about change is that it rarely ever starts out as more

that it rarely ever starts out as more

that it rarely ever starts out as more than a molehill or really as one mole

than a molehill or really as one mole

than a molehill or really as one mole one person who gets to thinking or makes

one person who gets to thinking or makes

one person who gets to thinking or makes one unintentional or perhaps even

one unintentional or perhaps even

one unintentional or perhaps even deliberate shift in routine or diet or

deliberate shift in routine or diet or

deliberate shift in routine or diet or behavior it doesn’t immediately feel

behavior it doesn’t immediately feel

behavior it doesn’t immediately feel like anything has happened moles aren’t

like anything has happened moles aren’t

like anything has happened moles aren’t usually aware that they’re moles in the

usually aware that they’re moles in the

usually aware that they’re moles in the first place but they do what they do and

first place but they do what they do and

first place but they do what they do and they leave a mole hill behind maybe your

they leave a mole hill behind maybe your

they leave a mole hill behind maybe your mole hill is saying hello to that quiet

mole hill is saying hello to that quiet

mole hill is saying hello to that quiet girl in class or trying a new sugar-free

girl in class or trying a new sugar-free

girl in class or trying a new sugar-free diet for a while it’s going to be

diet for a while it’s going to be

diet for a while it’s going to be uninteresting and run of the mill but

uninteresting and run of the mill but

uninteresting and run of the mill but that’s just the beginning I’m the mole

that’s just the beginning I’m the mole

that’s just the beginning I’m the mole and gay rights or my mole hill and of

and gay rights or my mole hill and of

and gay rights or my mole hill and of course things have started to change

course things have started to change

course things have started to change little by little I got comfortable

little by little I got comfortable

little by little I got comfortable expressing myself in ways I thought

expressing myself in ways I thought

expressing myself in ways I thought would be incriminating before I cut my

would be incriminating before I cut my

would be incriminating before I cut my hair short and we’re masculine clothes

hair short and we’re masculine clothes

hair short and we’re masculine clothes and you know I’ve taken a few blows in

and you know I’ve taken a few blows in

and you know I’ve taken a few blows in consequence but it’s still nothing like

consequence but it’s still nothing like

consequence but it’s still nothing like the mountain I had thought it would be

the mountain I had thought it would be

the mountain I had thought it would be when I was 13 I had a horror story all

when I was 13 I had a horror story all

when I was 13 I had a horror story all mapped out in my head getting lynched

mapped out in my head getting lynched

mapped out in my head getting lynched never finding a loyal or loving partner

never finding a loyal or loving partner

never finding a loyal or loving partner and never being able to build a family

and never being able to build a family

and never being able to build a family because change is supposed to be

because change is supposed to be

because change is supposed to be agonizing big and exciting and important

agonizing big and exciting and important

agonizing big and exciting and important because that’s easy it’s easy to think

because that’s easy it’s easy to think

because that’s easy it’s easy to think that one thing happens and it builds and

that one thing happens and it builds and

that one thing happens and it builds and builds and builds all on its own to

builds and builds all on its own to

builds and builds all on its own to something remarkable because of that one

something remarkable because of that one

something remarkable because of that one initial action we think of change like

initial action we think of change like

initial action we think of change like some sort of inertia we implement that

some sort of inertia we implement that

some sort of inertia we implement that initial push and sit back and watch the

initial push and sit back and watch the

initial push and sit back and watch the rest happen and of course that’s how we

rest happen and of course that’s how we

rest happen and of course that’s how we want change to work i wish i could give

want change to work i wish i could give

want change to work i wish i could give this speech and let it snowball out of

this speech and let it snowball out of

this speech and let it snowball out of control well I look on maybe in a year’s

control well I look on maybe in a year’s

control well I look on maybe in a year’s time LGBT rights will have improved but

time LGBT rights will have improved but

time LGBT rights will have improved but that’s just pretty thinking and it’s not

that’s just pretty thinking and it’s not

that’s just pretty thinking and it’s not going to get me to the places I want to

going to get me to the places I want to

going to get me to the places I want to be the trouble is that we can’t change

be the trouble is that we can’t change

be the trouble is that we can’t change the world

the world

the world a molehill isn’t a mountain sometimes it

a molehill isn’t a mountain sometimes it

a molehill isn’t a mountain sometimes it feels like a mountain I have people I

feels like a mountain I have people I

feels like a mountain I have people I love who will watch this video and our

love who will watch this video and our

love who will watch this video and our relationship is going to change because

relationship is going to change because

relationship is going to change because of what I’ve said here today it feels

of what I’ve said here today it feels

of what I’ve said here today it feels like a mountain but for all the enormity

like a mountain but for all the enormity

like a mountain but for all the enormity it only really matters that much to me

it only really matters that much to me

it only really matters that much to me for now we all have people and things in

for now we all have people and things in

for now we all have people and things in our lives that we can reach out and

our lives that we can reach out and

our lives that we can reach out and change right then and there these are

change right then and there these are

change right then and there these are our spheres of influence and I’ll reach

our spheres of influence and I’ll reach

our spheres of influence and I’ll reach out to everyone I can even if it feels

out to everyone I can even if it feels

out to everyone I can even if it feels big even if it hurts despite my best

big even if it hurts despite my best

big even if it hurts despite my best efforts though I can only reach so many

efforts though I can only reach so many

efforts though I can only reach so many people I have a relatively small sphere

people I have a relatively small sphere

people I have a relatively small sphere of influence and no one in this room

of influence and no one in this room

of influence and no one in this room sorry has a sphere of influence big

sorry has a sphere of influence big

sorry has a sphere of influence big enough that they alone could make the

enough that they alone could make the

enough that they alone could make the monumental change we all like to think

monumental change we all like to think

monumental change we all like to think about instead we have to content

about instead we have to content

about instead we have to content ourselves with making mole hills which

ourselves with making mole hills which

ourselves with making mole hills which isn’t as bad as it seems it’s not as

isn’t as bad as it seems it’s not as

isn’t as bad as it seems it’s not as though mole hills can’t become mountains

though mole hills can’t become mountains

though mole hills can’t become mountains but making mole hills into mountains is

but making mole hills into mountains is

but making mole hills into mountains is hard work it’s arduous and tedious it

hard work it’s arduous and tedious it

hard work it’s arduous and tedious it takes integrity and endurance it takes

takes integrity and endurance it takes

takes integrity and endurance it takes wherewithal and patience and a heap of

wherewithal and patience and a heap of

wherewithal and patience and a heap of other synonymous s80 words but more than

other synonymous s80 words but more than

other synonymous s80 words but more than anything it takes commitment we have to

anything it takes commitment we have to

anything it takes commitment we have to make our molehill into a mountain and

make our molehill into a mountain and

make our molehill into a mountain and not everybody likes to think that your

not everybody likes to think that your

not everybody likes to think that your mole hill deserves to be a mountain and

mole hill deserves to be a mountain and

mole hill deserves to be a mountain and that’s why it’s a molehill in the first

that’s why it’s a molehill in the first

that’s why it’s a molehill in the first place that’s where the grip comes in

place that’s where the grip comes in

place that’s where the grip comes in it’s going to start unremarkable

it’s going to start unremarkable

it’s going to start unremarkable unattractive and so small you can barely

unattractive and so small you can barely

unattractive and so small you can barely tell it’s there you have to pack dirt

tell it’s there you have to pack dirt

tell it’s there you have to pack dirt into that little mole hill until you’ve

into that little mole hill until you’ve

into that little mole hill until you’ve got something that passes for a mountain

got something that passes for a mountain

got something that passes for a mountain and you might have to drag all your

and you might have to drag all your

and you might have to drag all your friends to come and see what you’ve made

friends to come and see what you’ve made

friends to come and see what you’ve made it’s not going to be easy and it might

it’s not going to be easy and it might

it’s not going to be easy and it might take a while but it can be done I think

take a while but it can be done I think

take a while but it can be done I think that if more people could face the music

that if more people could face the music

that if more people could face the music and start approaching change with mole

and start approaching change with mole

and start approaching change with mole hills in mind we’d get a lot more done

hills in mind we’d get a lot more done

hills in mind we’d get a lot more done that’s not to say there’s not a lot

that’s not to say there’s not a lot

that’s not to say there’s not a lot being done gay rights are on the up and

being done gay rights are on the up and

being done gay rights are on the up and up and we’ve seen right here in Ukraine

up and we’ve seen right here in Ukraine

up and we’ve seen right here in Ukraine what happens when somebody turns some

what happens when somebody turns some

what happens when somebody turns some other molehill into a mountain one of

other molehill into a mountain one of

other molehill into a mountain one of those protestors in my dawn sat down did

those protestors in my dawn sat down did

those protestors in my dawn sat down did their bit and waited for the ripple

their bit and waited for the ripple

their bit and waited for the ripple effect to do the rest they hunkered down

effect to do the rest they hunkered down

effect to do the rest they hunkered down and they started packing in dirt every

and they started packing in dirt every

and they started packing in dirt every way they could they called friends they

way they could they called friends they

way they could they called friends they rented billboards and they raised a

rented billboards and they raised a

rented billboards and they raised a stink about unfair government where

stink about unfair government where

stink about unfair government where everybody could see they wanted

everybody could see they wanted

everybody could see they wanted something to happen and they made it

something to happen and they made it

something to happen and they made it happen they

happen they

happen they made it a big deal they made that

made it a big deal they made that

made it a big deal they made that molehill a mountain it’s easy to feel

molehill a mountain it’s easy to feel

molehill a mountain it’s easy to feel defeatist when you think this way I’m

defeatist when you think this way I’m

defeatist when you think this way I’m just making little changes look at my

just making little changes look at my

just making little changes look at my sad little mole hill or to feel like

sad little mole hill or to feel like

sad little mole hill or to feel like you’re not making enough of a difference

you’re not making enough of a difference

you’re not making enough of a difference so you might as well not make one at all

so you might as well not make one at all

so you might as well not make one at all the world is too big and I’m too small

the world is too big and I’m too small

the world is too big and I’m too small why try to make something happen when

why try to make something happen when

why try to make something happen when it’s so hard that was definitely me like

it’s so hard that was definitely me like

it’s so hard that was definitely me like three years ago but the LGBT community

three years ago but the LGBT community

three years ago but the LGBT community here needs that kind of change and I’m

here needs that kind of change and I’m

here needs that kind of change and I’m not a networking speech giving kind of

not a networking speech giving kind of

not a networking speech giving kind of gal usually but I’m willing to get on a

gal usually but I’m willing to get on a

gal usually but I’m willing to get on a stage in front of a sea of almost

stage in front of a sea of almost

stage in front of a sea of almost strangers because gay rights my rights

strangers because gay rights my rights

strangers because gay rights my rights matter to me they matter enough that I’m

matter to me they matter enough that I’m

matter to me they matter enough that I’m willing to do just about anything that I

willing to do just about anything that I

willing to do just about anything that I can do to make things a little bit

can do to make things a little bit

can do to make things a little bit better real change is a lot less

better real change is a lot less

better real change is a lot less stoicism and heroic suffering and a lot

stoicism and heroic suffering and a lot

stoicism and heroic suffering and a lot more network King and shameless slogging

more network King and shameless slogging

more network King and shameless slogging through the mud but if it matters if

through the mud but if it matters if

through the mud but if it matters if it’s worth doing then it’s worth the

it’s worth doing then it’s worth the

it’s worth doing then it’s worth the tedious task of piling the effort up and

tedious task of piling the effort up and

tedious task of piling the effort up and up and up until your mole hill is a

up and up until your mole hill is a

up and up until your mole hill is a mountain thank

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