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A Year’s (Gap) Worth of Change | Ani Yoseliani | TEDxYouth@KIS


hello everyone my name is a neo suwanee

hello everyone my name is a neo suwanee i am 19 years old and i’m currently

i am 19 years old and i’m currently

i am 19 years old and i’m currently studying psychology at webster

studying psychology at webster

studying psychology at webster university vienna i also have her to be

university vienna i also have her to be

university vienna i also have her to be an alumnus of Kiev International School

an alumnus of Kiev International School

an alumnus of Kiev International School where our event is being held and I

where our event is being held and I

where our event is being held and I graduated turn about almost exactly

graduated turn about almost exactly

graduated turn about almost exactly actually two years ago in 2013 I would

actually two years ago in 2013 I would

actually two years ago in 2013 I would like to thank all of you for coming out

like to thank all of you for coming out

like to thank all of you for coming out here today this is honestly and

here today this is honestly and

here today this is honestly and absolutely amazing and very very

absolutely amazing and very very

absolutely amazing and very very humbling experience for me and I’m very

humbling experience for me and I’m very

humbling experience for me and I’m very proud that everybody comes out here to

proud that everybody comes out here to

proud that everybody comes out here to actually listen to what I personally

actually listen to what I personally

actually listen to what I personally even have to say I’m here today because

even have to say I’m here today because

even have to say I’m here today because I want to talk to you about change it’s

I want to talk to you about change it’s

I want to talk to you about change it’s quite simple we’re very lucky today to

quite simple we’re very lucky today to

quite simple we’re very lucky today to have collected and absolutely amazing

have collected and absolutely amazing

have collected and absolutely amazing this plethora of people that can speak

this plethora of people that can speak

this plethora of people that can speak to you about this topic on a very wide

to you about this topic on a very wide

to you about this topic on a very wide variety of subjects and unlike them i

variety of subjects and unlike them i

variety of subjects and unlike them i haven’t really built paradigm-shifting

haven’t really built paradigm-shifting

haven’t really built paradigm-shifting droves or started new media platforms or

droves or started new media platforms or

droves or started new media platforms or created successful companies I’m pretty

created successful companies I’m pretty

created successful companies I’m pretty sure actually while they were achieving

sure actually while they were achieving

sure actually while they were achieving I was stuck on youtube watching videos

I was stuck on youtube watching videos

I was stuck on youtube watching videos of cats chasing laser pointers but you

of cats chasing laser pointers but you

of cats chasing laser pointers but you know don’t discredit me yet I think it

know don’t discredit me yet I think it

know don’t discredit me yet I think it takes a lot of effort and dedication to

takes a lot of effort and dedication to

takes a lot of effort and dedication to sit through two hours of cats falling

sit through two hours of cats falling

sit through two hours of cats falling off furniture but all jokes aside I

off furniture but all jokes aside I

off furniture but all jokes aside I think that what i have done is i

think that what i have done is i

think that what i have done is i struggled I’ve struggled with change and

struggled I’ve struggled with change and

struggled I’ve struggled with change and I struggled with acceptance of change

I struggled with acceptance of change

I struggled with acceptance of change and what i have done is I’ve learned

and what i have done is I’ve learned

and what i have done is I’ve learned I’ve learned from changing times from

I’ve learned from changing times from

I’ve learned from changing times from hard times and I think I’ve come out a

hard times and I think I’ve come out a

hard times and I think I’ve come out a learner and I have a little bit of

learner and I have a little bit of

learner and I have a little bit of experience with this my story starts out

experience with this my story starts out

experience with this my story starts out actually a little bit cliched because

actually a little bit cliched because

actually a little bit cliched because when I was graduating high school I had

when I was graduating high school I had

when I was graduating high school I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life

no idea what I wanted to do with my life

no idea what I wanted to do with my life I was confused I didn’t know where I

I was confused I didn’t know where I

I was confused I didn’t know where I wanted to go I did not know who I wanted

wanted to go I did not know who I wanted

wanted to go I did not know who I wanted to be and to be quite honest I didn’t

to be and to be quite honest I didn’t

to be and to be quite honest I didn’t even know if I wanted to do anything

even know if I wanted to do anything

even know if I wanted to do anything with my life and that was the problem I

with my life and that was the problem I

with my life and that was the problem I was perfectly content with my life here

was perfectly content with my life here

was perfectly content with my life here in Kiev I had absolutely fantastic

in Kiev I had absolutely fantastic

in Kiev I had absolutely fantastic friends I had an amazing school I had a

friends I had an amazing school I had a

friends I had an amazing school I had a house where I was completely always

house where I was completely always

house where I was completely always taken care of and comforted and nurture

taken care of and comforted and nurture

taken care of and comforted and nurture so I didn’t really have a need to leave

so I didn’t really have a need to leave

so I didn’t really have a need to leave to leave I was protected secure nurtured

to leave I was protected secure nurtured

to leave I was protected secure nurtured so when the time came to decide my

so when the time came to decide my

so when the time came to decide my future plans I hit a roadblock I didn’t

future plans I hit a roadblock I didn’t

future plans I hit a roadblock I didn’t know where I wanted to go so I remember

know where I wanted to go so I remember

know where I wanted to go so I remember dramatically storming into my house one

dramatically storming into my house one

dramatically storming into my house one day and declaring to my parents that I

day and declaring to my parents that I

day and declaring to my parents that I was going to take a gap year because I

was going to take a gap year because I

was going to take a gap year because I needed this time off and I have deserved

needed this time off and I have deserved

needed this time off and I have deserved it so I left high school with a brave

it so I left high school with a brave

it so I left high school with a brave face I was putting on a brave face for

face I was putting on a brave face for

face I was putting on a brave face for my parents who were accosted looking at

my parents who were accosted looking at

my parents who were accosted looking at me concerned but never actually asking

me concerned but never actually asking

me concerned but never actually asking because they were dedicated to the craft

because they were dedicated to the craft

because they were dedicated to the craft of letting me make my own decisions and

of letting me make my own decisions and

of letting me make my own decisions and letting me go through life independently

letting me go through life independently

letting me go through life independently I was putting on a brave face for my

I was putting on a brave face for my

I was putting on a brave face for my friends that would ask me very very

friends that would ask me very very

friends that would ask me very very worried of what I was going to do with

worried of what I was going to do with

worried of what I was going to do with my life and I actually remember I would

my life and I actually remember I would

my life and I actually remember I would constantly give them a rehearsed answer

constantly give them a rehearsed answer

constantly give them a rehearsed answer that I was rejuvenating and I needed to

that I was rejuvenating and I needed to

that I was rejuvenating and I needed to travel and see the world but worst of

travel and see the world but worst of

travel and see the world but worst of all I was putting on a brave face for

all I was putting on a brave face for

all I was putting on a brave face for myself because I was avoiding this very

myself because I was avoiding this very

myself because I was avoiding this very important decision but worst of all I

important decision but worst of all I

important decision but worst of all I was avoiding and procrastinating the

was avoiding and procrastinating the

was avoiding and procrastinating the real reason for why i did not want to

real reason for why i did not want to

real reason for why i did not want to leave and I was coming up with constant

leave and I was coming up with constant

leave and I was coming up with constant excuses to nullify my behavior which was

excuses to nullify my behavior which was

excuses to nullify my behavior which was not the right thing to do and so the

not the right thing to do and so the

not the right thing to do and so the months rolled on and I remember that

months rolled on and I remember that

months rolled on and I remember that toot started turning into 33 in 244 and

toot started turning into 33 in 244 and

toot started turning into 33 in 244 and 26 and before I knew at nine months had

26 and before I knew at nine months had

26 and before I knew at nine months had gone by and I did incredible things I

gone by and I did incredible things I

gone by and I did incredible things I cannot deny it and I’m actually very

cannot deny it and I’m actually very

cannot deny it and I’m actually very great glad that I took that time off but

great glad that I took that time off but

great glad that I took that time off but I’m not glad for why I took that time

I’m not glad for why I took that time

I’m not glad for why I took that time off my reasoning for it was flawed

off my reasoning for it was flawed

off my reasoning for it was flawed anyway um as the spring of 2014 came to

anyway um as the spring of 2014 came to

anyway um as the spring of 2014 came to an end I remember having the same

an end I remember having the same

an end I remember having the same realization over and over again and that

realization over and over again and that

realization over and over again and that I had to make my decision once more I

I had to make my decision once more I

I had to make my decision once more I had to decide where I was going to go

had to decide where I was going to go

had to decide where I was going to go and the time had come once more but this

and the time had come once more but this

and the time had come once more but this time time itself was not on my side

time time itself was not on my side

time time itself was not on my side because i could not procrastinate this

because i could not procrastinate this

because i could not procrastinate this decision any longer i was an absolute

decision any longer i was an absolute

decision any longer i was an absolute wreck to be completely honest with you

wreck to be completely honest with you

wreck to be completely honest with you because i really had no idea where i

because i really had no idea where i

because i really had no idea where i wanted to go I had no idea what I wanted

wanted to go I had no idea what I wanted

wanted to go I had no idea what I wanted to do and it was really scary it wasn’t

to do and it was really scary it wasn’t

to do and it was really scary it wasn’t actually until one night that

actually until one night that

actually until one night that issue was going to be resolved I

issue was going to be resolved I

issue was going to be resolved I remember in the middle of the night

remember in the middle of the night

remember in the middle of the night making why my way downstairs and seeing

making why my way downstairs and seeing

making why my way downstairs and seeing my mom sewing away at her table as she

my mom sewing away at her table as she

my mom sewing away at her table as she does to relieve her own stresses in life

does to relieve her own stresses in life

does to relieve her own stresses in life and I remember the way that she looked

and I remember the way that she looked

and I remember the way that she looked at me and how she ushered me over and

at me and how she ushered me over and

at me and how she ushered me over and told me to sit down and for the first

told me to sit down and for the first

told me to sit down and for the first time ever and no one had ever done

time ever and no one had ever done

time ever and no one had ever done before she just very candidly asked me a

before she just very candidly asked me a

before she just very candidly asked me a question and all she did was ask me why

question and all she did was ask me why

question and all she did was ask me why I was so afraid what was I so scared of

I was so afraid what was I so scared of

I was so afraid what was I so scared of that I did not want to move on that’s

that I did not want to move on that’s

that I did not want to move on that’s question to be completely honest caught

question to be completely honest caught

question to be completely honest caught me off guard I had no idea what to reply

me off guard I had no idea what to reply

me off guard I had no idea what to reply to her I had no idea what to say and

to her I had no idea what to say and

to her I had no idea what to say and that conversation ended with no

that conversation ended with no

that conversation ended with no resolution however I remember making my

resolution however I remember making my

resolution however I remember making my way upstairs and lying in bed and

way upstairs and lying in bed and

way upstairs and lying in bed and understanding that I could no longer run

understanding that I could no longer run

understanding that I could no longer run away from answering that question for

away from answering that question for

away from answering that question for myself as I lay in bed that night I

myself as I lay in bed that night I

myself as I lay in bed that night I realized that the answer to this

realized that the answer to this

realized that the answer to this terrifying grandiose problem was

terrifying grandiose problem was

terrifying grandiose problem was actually extremely simple of course i

actually extremely simple of course i

actually extremely simple of course i would like to blame my parents because

would like to blame my parents because

would like to blame my parents because they gave me an amazing life i went to

they gave me an amazing life i went to

they gave me an amazing life i went to an amazing school like give

an amazing school like give

an amazing school like give international school and i felt very

international school and i felt very

international school and i felt very safe very accepted here i had great

safe very accepted here i had great

safe very accepted here i had great friends teachers liked me i liked my

friends teachers liked me i liked my

friends teachers liked me i liked my teachers everything was going great i

teachers everything was going great i

teachers everything was going great i had fantastic friends from all over the

had fantastic friends from all over the

had fantastic friends from all over the world where I could always speak to them

world where I could always speak to them

world where I could always speak to them about all different kinds of topics and

about all different kinds of topics and

about all different kinds of topics and most of all I lived with my family with

most of all I lived with my family with

most of all I lived with my family with my family that loved me and accepted me

my family that loved me and accepted me

my family that loved me and accepted me and supported me and because of that I

and supported me and because of that I

and supported me and because of that I did not want to move on it was very

did not want to move on it was very

did not want to move on it was very simple I had an amazing life so I was

simple I had an amazing life so I was

simple I had an amazing life so I was afraid that if I were going to make a

afraid that if I were going to make a

afraid that if I were going to make a new change I would no longer have it and

new change I would no longer have it and

new change I would no longer have it and as I lay in bed all of these thoughts

as I lay in bed all of these thoughts

as I lay in bed all of these thoughts unraveled and I realized that this fear

unraveled and I realized that this fear

unraveled and I realized that this fear of change was actually making me scared

of change was actually making me scared

of change was actually making me scared of very trivial things about college I

of very trivial things about college I

of very trivial things about college I was afraid that if I would start doing

was afraid that if I would start doing

was afraid that if I would start doing laundry I would put it to wash detergent

laundry I would put it to wash detergent

laundry I would put it to wash detergent that the washing machine would blow up

that the washing machine would blow up

that the washing machine would blow up or that I would hit snooze too many

or that I would hit snooze too many

or that I would hit snooze too many times and nobody would wake me up and

times and nobody would wake me up and

times and nobody would wake me up and nobody would have my back or that my

nobody would have my back or that my

nobody would have my back or that my roommate was going to end up psychotic

roommate was going to end up psychotic

roommate was going to end up psychotic or worst of all that she would think I

or worst of all that she would think I

or worst of all that she would think I was psychotic that would be even worse

was psychotic that would be even worse

was psychotic that would be even worse but all in all I was just scared and I

but all in all I was just scared and I

but all in all I was just scared and I was letting my fear stop me from making

was letting my fear stop me from making

was letting my fear stop me from making a very important decision in my life and

a very important decision in my life and

a very important decision in my life and it was terrible and to be completely

it was terrible and to be completely

it was terrible and to be completely honest I am very embarrassed of myself

honest I am very embarrassed of myself

honest I am very embarrassed of myself for having gone through that from being

for having gone through that from being

for having gone through that from being scared of such simple things I was

scared of such simple things I was

scared of such simple things I was trying to avoid a change for as long as

trying to avoid a change for as long as

trying to avoid a change for as long as humanly possible that realization

humanly possible that realization

humanly possible that realization however was exactly a year ago and today

however was exactly a year ago and today

however was exactly a year ago and today I’m probably the happiest I have ever

I’m probably the happiest I have ever

I’m probably the happiest I have ever been in my life i live in study in one

been in my life i live in study in one

been in my life i live in study in one of the most beautiful cities in the

of the most beautiful cities in the

of the most beautiful cities in the world i have new and fantastic friends

world i have new and fantastic friends

world i have new and fantastic friends and my roommate did not turn out to be

and my roommate did not turn out to be

and my roommate did not turn out to be psychotic well not fully anyway but

psychotic well not fully anyway but

psychotic well not fully anyway but that’s kind of a on the point as i look

that’s kind of a on the point as i look

that’s kind of a on the point as i look back at that time i find it really silly

back at that time i find it really silly

back at that time i find it really silly i find these fears to be completely

i find these fears to be completely

i find these fears to be completely nonsensical yet back then they were so

nonsensical yet back then they were so

nonsensical yet back then they were so tangible and so terrifying today these

tangible and so terrifying today these

tangible and so terrifying today these frustrations don’t really mean anything

frustrations don’t really mean anything

frustrations don’t really mean anything anymore I decided to go to college after

anymore I decided to go to college after

anymore I decided to go to college after I realized I was being a complete

I realized I was being a complete

I realized I was being a complete hypocrite i was always telling my

hypocrite i was always telling my

hypocrite i was always telling my friends the change was something

friends the change was something

friends the change was something completely natural that you have to jump

completely natural that you have to jump

completely natural that you have to jump into the abyss of the unknown because

into the abyss of the unknown because

into the abyss of the unknown because you could come out the champion i

you could come out the champion i

you could come out the champion i remember telling my girlfriend’s to get

remember telling my girlfriend’s to get

remember telling my girlfriend’s to get out of toxic relationships even though

out of toxic relationships even though

out of toxic relationships even though they were completely terrified that this

they were completely terrified that this

they were completely terrified that this was their only shot at true love and

was their only shot at true love and

was their only shot at true love and that if they were gonna work going to

that if they were gonna work going to

that if they were gonna work going to break up with him now there would never

break up with him now there would never

break up with him now there would never be loved again and i remember my friends

be loved again and i remember my friends

be loved again and i remember my friends coming up to me with new ideas new

coming up to me with new ideas new

coming up to me with new ideas new projects new dreams new hobbies and i

projects new dreams new hobbies and i

projects new dreams new hobbies and i would always tell them and yes you

would always tell them and yes you

would always tell them and yes you should take this step forward you should

should take this step forward you should

should take this step forward you should be able to take this change as it is and

be able to take this change as it is and

be able to take this change as it is and be happy with it we are a society

be happy with it we are a society

be happy with it we are a society completely obsessed with change as a

completely obsessed with change as a

completely obsessed with change as a negative entity we assign change this

negative entity we assign change this

negative entity we assign change this role of a foe and sometimes we even

role of a foe and sometimes we even

role of a foe and sometimes we even think that change is something down out

think that change is something down out

think that change is something down out of mere desperation it’s a cookie cutter

of mere desperation it’s a cookie cutter

of mere desperation it’s a cookie cutter idea that’s pushed on to us by Hollywood

idea that’s pushed on to us by Hollywood

idea that’s pushed on to us by Hollywood and self-help books that always tells us

and self-help books that always tells us

and self-help books that always tells us that know if you’re you’re fed up with

that know if you’re you’re fed up with

that know if you’re you’re fed up with your life and your desk job sucks and

your life and your desk job sucks and

your life and your desk job sucks and you’re just this miserable little coil

you’re just this miserable little coil

you’re just this miserable little coil in the machine of life you should uphill

in the machine of life you should uphill

in the machine of life you should uphill everything uproot everything buy a

everything uproot everything buy a

everything uproot everything buy a sailboat and sail away into the horizon

sailboat and sail away into the horizon

sailboat and sail away into the horizon and

and

and is actually perhaps the only way change

is actually perhaps the only way change

is actually perhaps the only way change is positively represented in our society

is positively represented in our society

is positively represented in our society and I think that’s a problem I actually

and I think that’s a problem I actually

and I think that’s a problem I actually remember sitting in one of my psychology

remember sitting in one of my psychology

remember sitting in one of my psychology classes and being introduced to a scale

classes and being introduced to a scale

classes and being introduced to a scale the scale is called the social

the scale is called the social

the scale is called the social readjustment scale and the premise do

readjustment scale and the premise do

readjustment scale and the premise do this is actually very simple just hold

this is actually very simple just hold

this is actually very simple just hold on yelling with me you’re given a list

on yelling with me you’re given a list

on yelling with me you’re given a list of life situations and each of this life

of life situations and each of this life

of life situations and each of this life situations has a number you go through

situations has a number you go through

situations has a number you go through this list you tick off every single

this list you tick off every single

this list you tick off every single thing that applies to you and then you

thing that applies to you and then you

thing that applies to you and then you tally up your results this yields a

tally up your results this yields a

tally up your results this yields a number this number is supposed to

number this number is supposed to

number this number is supposed to represent how stressed you are in your

represent how stressed you are in your

represent how stressed you are in your life and how much of the stress is going

life and how much of the stress is going

life and how much of the stress is going to put your health into jeopardy as i

to put your health into jeopardy as i

to put your health into jeopardy as i was taking this test i realized that

was taking this test i realized that

was taking this test i realized that every single item on it pertained to

every single item on it pertained to

every single item on it pertained to some sort of life change pregnancy had

some sort of life change pregnancy had

some sort of life change pregnancy had 50 points getting married had 25 moving

50 points getting married had 25 moving

50 points getting married had 25 moving locations have 20 change in diet had 15

locations have 20 change in diet had 15

locations have 20 change in diet had 15 a change in schools had 25 in admittedly

a change in schools had 25 in admittedly

a change in schools had 25 in admittedly not all change on this list was good but

not all change on this list was good but

not all change on this list was good but not all of it was bad either the

not all of it was bad either the

not all of it was bad either the measurement of the scale runs from 150

measurement of the scale runs from 150

measurement of the scale runs from 150 points to 350 if you score 150 200

points to 350 if you score 150 200

points to 350 if you score 150 200 you’re mildly stressed probably not

you’re mildly stressed probably not

you’re mildly stressed probably not going to die anytime soon you know

going to die anytime soon you know

going to die anytime soon you know you’re doing okay if you score above a

you’re doing okay if you score above a

you’re doing okay if you score above a three hundred you are putting your life

three hundred you are putting your life

three hundred you are putting your life in jeopardy everything is going to be

in jeopardy everything is going to be

in jeopardy everything is going to be bad you will have all the diseases all

bad you will have all the diseases all

bad you will have all the diseases all the diabetes everything my score on this

the diabetes everything my score on this

the diabetes everything my score on this test was 290 so it will probably have a

test was 290 so it will probably have a

test was 290 so it will probably have a brain aneurysm like now and i genuinely

brain aneurysm like now and i genuinely

brain aneurysm like now and i genuinely in Sicily apologize in advance and thank

in Sicily apologize in advance and thank

in Sicily apologize in advance and thank you for listening to me but in all

you for listening to me but in all

you for listening to me but in all honesty and all jokes aside we are so

honesty and all jokes aside we are so

honesty and all jokes aside we are so afraid of change that we build scales to

afraid of change that we build scales to

afraid of change that we build scales to measure its effect on our health we are

measure its effect on our health we are

measure its effect on our health we are so afraid of change that we’d rather let

so afraid of change that we’d rather let

so afraid of change that we’d rather let it affect our health let it give us a

it affect our health let it give us a

it affect our health let it give us a heart attack then let it in and deal

heart attack then let it in and deal

heart attack then let it in and deal with it accordingly and this honestly is

with it accordingly and this honestly is

with it accordingly and this honestly is why I’m here today I want all of you to

why I’m here today I want all of you to

why I’m here today I want all of you to befriend change I want all of you to

befriend change I want all of you to

befriend change I want all of you to understand the change is going to come

understand the change is going to come

understand the change is going to come not

not

not come any in any case it is going to

come any in any case it is going to

come any in any case it is going to happen either way whether you want it or

happen either way whether you want it or

happen either way whether you want it or not whether you’re ready for it or not

not whether you’re ready for it or not

not whether you’re ready for it or not it is going to come knocking at your

it is going to come knocking at your

it is going to come knocking at your door and you better be ready to open up

door and you better be ready to open up

door and you better be ready to open up and welcome it into your house into an

and welcome it into your house into an

and welcome it into your house into an open embrace before it grows impatient

open embrace before it grows impatient

open embrace before it grows impatient and puts a brick through your living

and puts a brick through your living

and puts a brick through your living room window change is going to happen

room window change is going to happen

room window change is going to happen either way it’s going to happen

either way it’s going to happen

either way it’s going to happen regardless of your attitude toward it

regardless of your attitude toward it

regardless of your attitude toward it and your attitude actually is perhaps

and your attitude actually is perhaps

and your attitude actually is perhaps the only part the only variable that you

the only part the only variable that you

the only part the only variable that you have control over but the good news is

have control over but the good news is

have control over but the good news is that your attitude toward change is

that your attitude toward change is

that your attitude toward change is perhaps the only thing that can

perhaps the only thing that can

perhaps the only thing that can alleviate the negative side effects that

alleviate the negative side effects that

alleviate the negative side effects that it may bring it is the only thing that

it may bring it is the only thing that

it may bring it is the only thing that can make change better all of this is

can make change better all of this is

can make change better all of this is very inspirational and lalala but how do

very inspirational and lalala but how do

very inspirational and lalala but how do you change this attitude how what is the

you change this attitude how what is the

you change this attitude how what is the step that you can make in order to

step that you can make in order to

step that you can make in order to actually make this change in your life

actually make this change in your life

actually make this change in your life you make that change by realizing that

you make that change by realizing that

you make that change by realizing that the more you are afraid of change the

the more you are afraid of change the

the more you are afraid of change the more you avoid it the more you’ll press

more you avoid it the more you’ll press

more you avoid it the more you’ll press it the more you hide from it the more

it the more you hide from it the more

it the more you hide from it the more you prevent it from being positive being

you prevent it from being positive being

you prevent it from being positive being afraid is important and I cannot deny

afraid is important and I cannot deny

afraid is important and I cannot deny that it helps us keep ourselves safe and

that it helps us keep ourselves safe and

that it helps us keep ourselves safe and preserve ourselves but being afraid of

preserve ourselves but being afraid of

preserve ourselves but being afraid of ifs and maybes is completely

ifs and maybes is completely

ifs and maybes is completely counterproductive what if they won’t

counterproductive what if they won’t

counterproductive what if they won’t like me what if I can’t do it maybe this

like me what if I can’t do it maybe this

like me what if I can’t do it maybe this is a bad idea maybe I should just stay

is a bad idea maybe I should just stay

is a bad idea maybe I should just stay home but life does not work on ifs and

home but life does not work on ifs and

home but life does not work on ifs and maybes life works on yeses and noes life

maybes life works on yeses and noes life

maybes life works on yeses and noes life works with structure life works

works with structure life works

works with structure life works angularly life flows and changes life is

angularly life flows and changes life is

angularly life flows and changes life is a constant change and the way we do that

a constant change and the way we do that

a constant change and the way we do that is by embracing change and we do that by

is by embracing change and we do that by

is by embracing change and we do that by understanding that we have potential and

understanding that we have potential and

understanding that we have potential and our job here is that we must fulfill

our job here is that we must fulfill

our job here is that we must fulfill that potential if we try if we work if

that potential if we try if we work if

that potential if we try if we work if we persevere and choose not to be afraid

we persevere and choose not to be afraid

we persevere and choose not to be afraid of the unknown then we can indeed come

of the unknown then we can indeed come

of the unknown then we can indeed come out to be champions I will not lie to

out to be champions I will not lie to

out to be champions I will not lie to you and tell you that every single

you and tell you that every single

you and tell you that every single change in your life is going to be super

change in your life is going to be super

change in your life is going to be super positive

positive

positive it sometimes it’s going to be terrible

it sometimes it’s going to be terrible

it sometimes it’s going to be terrible sometimes it’s going to be hard

sometimes it’s going to be hard

sometimes it’s going to be hard sometimes it’s going to hurt sometimes

sometimes it’s going to hurt sometimes

sometimes it’s going to hurt sometimes you’re going to make wrong decisions and

you’re going to make wrong decisions and

you’re going to make wrong decisions and sometimes you’re going to choose the

sometimes you’re going to choose the

sometimes you’re going to choose the wrong path sometimes you’re going to

wrong path sometimes you’re going to

wrong path sometimes you’re going to wish that you did not move at all but if

wish that you did not move at all but if

wish that you did not move at all but if you don’t move it all if you choose to

you don’t move it all if you choose to

you don’t move it all if you choose to stay put and sit every single good that

stay put and sit every single good that

stay put and sit every single good that could come out of your future is going

could come out of your future is going

could come out of your future is going to be left unrealized if you choose to

to be left unrealized if you choose to

to be left unrealized if you choose to be afraid if you choose to stay if you

be afraid if you choose to stay if you

be afraid if you choose to stay if you choose to say it you’re never going to

choose to say it you’re never going to

choose to say it you’re never going to be able to experience any positive

be able to experience any positive

be able to experience any positive change if I chose to stay in bed that

change if I chose to stay in bed that

change if I chose to stay in bed that day I would have absolutely nothing to

day I would have absolutely nothing to

day I would have absolutely nothing to talk to you about today because I would

talk to you about today because I would

talk to you about today because I would have absolutely nothing to say you you

have absolutely nothing to say you you

have absolutely nothing to say you you can choose to stay home and stay cooped

can choose to stay home and stay cooped

can choose to stay home and stay cooped up in your house till the rest of your

up in your house till the rest of your

up in your house till the rest of your life no problem but I sure as well hope

life no problem but I sure as well hope

life no problem but I sure as well hope that one that one constants change the

that one that one constants change the

that one that one constants change the one that all of us are destined for

one that all of us are destined for

one that all of us are destined for comes knocking at your door to collect

comes knocking at your door to collect

comes knocking at your door to collect you at the end of your life I hope that

you at the end of your life I hope that

you at the end of your life I hope that the life that flashes before your eyes

the life that flashes before your eyes

the life that flashes before your eyes is going to be that of a man that has

is going to be that of a man that has

is going to be that of a man that has lived change is the living being it is

lived change is the living being it is

lived change is the living being it is an entity that we cannot avoid it is an

an entity that we cannot avoid it is an

an entity that we cannot avoid it is an entity that we can only be friend and

entity that we can only be friend and

entity that we can only be friend and learn how to coexist with it will bite

learn how to coexist with it will bite

learn how to coexist with it will bite sometimes but sometimes it will offer us

sometimes but sometimes it will offer us

sometimes but sometimes it will offer us a great gain great protection and great

a great gain great protection and great

a great gain great protection and great opportunity as my friend once told me as

opportunity as my friend once told me as

opportunity as my friend once told me as we were sitting and pontificating on the

we were sitting and pontificating on the

we were sitting and pontificating on the meaning of life change isn’t good or bad

meaning of life change isn’t good or bad

meaning of life change isn’t good or bad ani change simply is thank you

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