
hello everyone my name is a neo suwanee i am 19 years old and i’m currently
i am 19 years old and i’m currently
i am 19 years old and i’m currently studying psychology at webster
studying psychology at webster
studying psychology at webster university vienna i also have her to be
university vienna i also have her to be
university vienna i also have her to be an alumnus of Kiev International School
an alumnus of Kiev International School
an alumnus of Kiev International School where our event is being held and I
where our event is being held and I
where our event is being held and I graduated turn about almost exactly
graduated turn about almost exactly
graduated turn about almost exactly actually two years ago in 2013 I would
actually two years ago in 2013 I would
actually two years ago in 2013 I would like to thank all of you for coming out
like to thank all of you for coming out
like to thank all of you for coming out here today this is honestly and
here today this is honestly and
here today this is honestly and absolutely amazing and very very
absolutely amazing and very very
absolutely amazing and very very humbling experience for me and I’m very
humbling experience for me and I’m very
humbling experience for me and I’m very proud that everybody comes out here to
proud that everybody comes out here to
proud that everybody comes out here to actually listen to what I personally
actually listen to what I personally
actually listen to what I personally even have to say I’m here today because
even have to say I’m here today because
even have to say I’m here today because I want to talk to you about change it’s
I want to talk to you about change it’s
I want to talk to you about change it’s quite simple we’re very lucky today to
quite simple we’re very lucky today to
quite simple we’re very lucky today to have collected and absolutely amazing
have collected and absolutely amazing
have collected and absolutely amazing this plethora of people that can speak
this plethora of people that can speak
this plethora of people that can speak to you about this topic on a very wide
to you about this topic on a very wide
to you about this topic on a very wide variety of subjects and unlike them i
variety of subjects and unlike them i
variety of subjects and unlike them i haven’t really built paradigm-shifting
haven’t really built paradigm-shifting
haven’t really built paradigm-shifting droves or started new media platforms or
droves or started new media platforms or
droves or started new media platforms or created successful companies I’m pretty
created successful companies I’m pretty
created successful companies I’m pretty sure actually while they were achieving
sure actually while they were achieving
sure actually while they were achieving I was stuck on youtube watching videos
I was stuck on youtube watching videos
I was stuck on youtube watching videos of cats chasing laser pointers but you
of cats chasing laser pointers but you
of cats chasing laser pointers but you know don’t discredit me yet I think it
know don’t discredit me yet I think it
know don’t discredit me yet I think it takes a lot of effort and dedication to
takes a lot of effort and dedication to
takes a lot of effort and dedication to sit through two hours of cats falling
sit through two hours of cats falling
sit through two hours of cats falling off furniture but all jokes aside I
off furniture but all jokes aside I
off furniture but all jokes aside I think that what i have done is i
think that what i have done is i
think that what i have done is i struggled I’ve struggled with change and
struggled I’ve struggled with change and
struggled I’ve struggled with change and I struggled with acceptance of change
I struggled with acceptance of change
I struggled with acceptance of change and what i have done is I’ve learned
and what i have done is I’ve learned
and what i have done is I’ve learned I’ve learned from changing times from
I’ve learned from changing times from
I’ve learned from changing times from hard times and I think I’ve come out a
hard times and I think I’ve come out a
hard times and I think I’ve come out a learner and I have a little bit of
learner and I have a little bit of
learner and I have a little bit of experience with this my story starts out
experience with this my story starts out
experience with this my story starts out actually a little bit cliched because
actually a little bit cliched because
actually a little bit cliched because when I was graduating high school I had
when I was graduating high school I had
when I was graduating high school I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life
no idea what I wanted to do with my life
no idea what I wanted to do with my life I was confused I didn’t know where I
I was confused I didn’t know where I
I was confused I didn’t know where I wanted to go I did not know who I wanted
wanted to go I did not know who I wanted
wanted to go I did not know who I wanted to be and to be quite honest I didn’t
to be and to be quite honest I didn’t
to be and to be quite honest I didn’t even know if I wanted to do anything
even know if I wanted to do anything
even know if I wanted to do anything with my life and that was the problem I
with my life and that was the problem I
with my life and that was the problem I was perfectly content with my life here
was perfectly content with my life here
was perfectly content with my life here in Kiev I had absolutely fantastic
in Kiev I had absolutely fantastic
in Kiev I had absolutely fantastic friends I had an amazing school I had a
friends I had an amazing school I had a
friends I had an amazing school I had a house where I was completely always
house where I was completely always
house where I was completely always taken care of and comforted and nurture
taken care of and comforted and nurture
taken care of and comforted and nurture so I didn’t really have a need to leave
so I didn’t really have a need to leave
so I didn’t really have a need to leave to leave I was protected secure nurtured
to leave I was protected secure nurtured
to leave I was protected secure nurtured so when the time came to decide my
so when the time came to decide my
so when the time came to decide my future plans I hit a roadblock I didn’t
future plans I hit a roadblock I didn’t
future plans I hit a roadblock I didn’t know where I wanted to go so I remember
know where I wanted to go so I remember
know where I wanted to go so I remember dramatically storming into my house one
dramatically storming into my house one
dramatically storming into my house one day and declaring to my parents that I
day and declaring to my parents that I
day and declaring to my parents that I was going to take a gap year because I
was going to take a gap year because I
was going to take a gap year because I needed this time off and I have deserved
needed this time off and I have deserved
needed this time off and I have deserved it so I left high school with a brave
it so I left high school with a brave
it so I left high school with a brave face I was putting on a brave face for
face I was putting on a brave face for
face I was putting on a brave face for my parents who were accosted looking at
my parents who were accosted looking at
my parents who were accosted looking at me concerned but never actually asking
me concerned but never actually asking
me concerned but never actually asking because they were dedicated to the craft
because they were dedicated to the craft
because they were dedicated to the craft of letting me make my own decisions and
of letting me make my own decisions and
of letting me make my own decisions and letting me go through life independently
letting me go through life independently
letting me go through life independently I was putting on a brave face for my
I was putting on a brave face for my
I was putting on a brave face for my friends that would ask me very very
friends that would ask me very very
friends that would ask me very very worried of what I was going to do with
worried of what I was going to do with
worried of what I was going to do with my life and I actually remember I would
my life and I actually remember I would
my life and I actually remember I would constantly give them a rehearsed answer
constantly give them a rehearsed answer
constantly give them a rehearsed answer that I was rejuvenating and I needed to
that I was rejuvenating and I needed to
that I was rejuvenating and I needed to travel and see the world but worst of
travel and see the world but worst of
travel and see the world but worst of all I was putting on a brave face for
all I was putting on a brave face for
all I was putting on a brave face for myself because I was avoiding this very
myself because I was avoiding this very
myself because I was avoiding this very important decision but worst of all I
important decision but worst of all I
important decision but worst of all I was avoiding and procrastinating the
was avoiding and procrastinating the
was avoiding and procrastinating the real reason for why i did not want to
real reason for why i did not want to
real reason for why i did not want to leave and I was coming up with constant
leave and I was coming up with constant
leave and I was coming up with constant excuses to nullify my behavior which was
excuses to nullify my behavior which was
excuses to nullify my behavior which was not the right thing to do and so the
not the right thing to do and so the
not the right thing to do and so the months rolled on and I remember that
months rolled on and I remember that
months rolled on and I remember that toot started turning into 33 in 244 and
toot started turning into 33 in 244 and
toot started turning into 33 in 244 and 26 and before I knew at nine months had
26 and before I knew at nine months had
26 and before I knew at nine months had gone by and I did incredible things I
gone by and I did incredible things I
gone by and I did incredible things I cannot deny it and I’m actually very
cannot deny it and I’m actually very
cannot deny it and I’m actually very great glad that I took that time off but
great glad that I took that time off but
great glad that I took that time off but I’m not glad for why I took that time
I’m not glad for why I took that time
I’m not glad for why I took that time off my reasoning for it was flawed
off my reasoning for it was flawed
off my reasoning for it was flawed anyway um as the spring of 2014 came to
anyway um as the spring of 2014 came to
anyway um as the spring of 2014 came to an end I remember having the same
an end I remember having the same
an end I remember having the same realization over and over again and that
realization over and over again and that
realization over and over again and that I had to make my decision once more I
I had to make my decision once more I
I had to make my decision once more I had to decide where I was going to go
had to decide where I was going to go
had to decide where I was going to go and the time had come once more but this
and the time had come once more but this
and the time had come once more but this time time itself was not on my side
time time itself was not on my side
time time itself was not on my side because i could not procrastinate this
because i could not procrastinate this
because i could not procrastinate this decision any longer i was an absolute
decision any longer i was an absolute
decision any longer i was an absolute wreck to be completely honest with you
wreck to be completely honest with you
wreck to be completely honest with you because i really had no idea where i
because i really had no idea where i
because i really had no idea where i wanted to go I had no idea what I wanted
wanted to go I had no idea what I wanted
wanted to go I had no idea what I wanted to do and it was really scary it wasn’t
to do and it was really scary it wasn’t
to do and it was really scary it wasn’t actually until one night that
actually until one night that
actually until one night that issue was going to be resolved I
issue was going to be resolved I
issue was going to be resolved I remember in the middle of the night
remember in the middle of the night
remember in the middle of the night making why my way downstairs and seeing
making why my way downstairs and seeing
making why my way downstairs and seeing my mom sewing away at her table as she
my mom sewing away at her table as she
my mom sewing away at her table as she does to relieve her own stresses in life
does to relieve her own stresses in life
does to relieve her own stresses in life and I remember the way that she looked
and I remember the way that she looked
and I remember the way that she looked at me and how she ushered me over and
at me and how she ushered me over and
at me and how she ushered me over and told me to sit down and for the first
told me to sit down and for the first
told me to sit down and for the first time ever and no one had ever done
time ever and no one had ever done
time ever and no one had ever done before she just very candidly asked me a
before she just very candidly asked me a
before she just very candidly asked me a question and all she did was ask me why
question and all she did was ask me why
question and all she did was ask me why I was so afraid what was I so scared of
I was so afraid what was I so scared of
I was so afraid what was I so scared of that I did not want to move on that’s
that I did not want to move on that’s
that I did not want to move on that’s question to be completely honest caught
question to be completely honest caught
question to be completely honest caught me off guard I had no idea what to reply
me off guard I had no idea what to reply
me off guard I had no idea what to reply to her I had no idea what to say and
to her I had no idea what to say and
to her I had no idea what to say and that conversation ended with no
that conversation ended with no
that conversation ended with no resolution however I remember making my
resolution however I remember making my
resolution however I remember making my way upstairs and lying in bed and
way upstairs and lying in bed and
way upstairs and lying in bed and understanding that I could no longer run
understanding that I could no longer run
understanding that I could no longer run away from answering that question for
away from answering that question for
away from answering that question for myself as I lay in bed that night I
myself as I lay in bed that night I
myself as I lay in bed that night I realized that the answer to this
realized that the answer to this
realized that the answer to this terrifying grandiose problem was
terrifying grandiose problem was
terrifying grandiose problem was actually extremely simple of course i
actually extremely simple of course i
actually extremely simple of course i would like to blame my parents because
would like to blame my parents because
would like to blame my parents because they gave me an amazing life i went to
they gave me an amazing life i went to
they gave me an amazing life i went to an amazing school like give
an amazing school like give
an amazing school like give international school and i felt very
international school and i felt very
international school and i felt very safe very accepted here i had great
safe very accepted here i had great
safe very accepted here i had great friends teachers liked me i liked my
friends teachers liked me i liked my
friends teachers liked me i liked my teachers everything was going great i
teachers everything was going great i
teachers everything was going great i had fantastic friends from all over the
had fantastic friends from all over the
had fantastic friends from all over the world where I could always speak to them
world where I could always speak to them
world where I could always speak to them about all different kinds of topics and
about all different kinds of topics and
about all different kinds of topics and most of all I lived with my family with
most of all I lived with my family with
most of all I lived with my family with my family that loved me and accepted me
my family that loved me and accepted me
my family that loved me and accepted me and supported me and because of that I
and supported me and because of that I
and supported me and because of that I did not want to move on it was very
did not want to move on it was very
did not want to move on it was very simple I had an amazing life so I was
simple I had an amazing life so I was
simple I had an amazing life so I was afraid that if I were going to make a
afraid that if I were going to make a
afraid that if I were going to make a new change I would no longer have it and
new change I would no longer have it and
new change I would no longer have it and as I lay in bed all of these thoughts
as I lay in bed all of these thoughts
as I lay in bed all of these thoughts unraveled and I realized that this fear
unraveled and I realized that this fear
unraveled and I realized that this fear of change was actually making me scared
of change was actually making me scared
of change was actually making me scared of very trivial things about college I
of very trivial things about college I
of very trivial things about college I was afraid that if I would start doing
was afraid that if I would start doing
was afraid that if I would start doing laundry I would put it to wash detergent
laundry I would put it to wash detergent
laundry I would put it to wash detergent that the washing machine would blow up
that the washing machine would blow up
that the washing machine would blow up or that I would hit snooze too many
or that I would hit snooze too many
or that I would hit snooze too many times and nobody would wake me up and
times and nobody would wake me up and
times and nobody would wake me up and nobody would have my back or that my
nobody would have my back or that my
nobody would have my back or that my roommate was going to end up psychotic
roommate was going to end up psychotic
roommate was going to end up psychotic or worst of all that she would think I
or worst of all that she would think I
or worst of all that she would think I was psychotic that would be even worse
was psychotic that would be even worse
was psychotic that would be even worse but all in all I was just scared and I
but all in all I was just scared and I
but all in all I was just scared and I was letting my fear stop me from making
was letting my fear stop me from making
was letting my fear stop me from making a very important decision in my life and
a very important decision in my life and
a very important decision in my life and it was terrible and to be completely
it was terrible and to be completely
it was terrible and to be completely honest I am very embarrassed of myself
honest I am very embarrassed of myself
honest I am very embarrassed of myself for having gone through that from being
for having gone through that from being
for having gone through that from being scared of such simple things I was
scared of such simple things I was
scared of such simple things I was trying to avoid a change for as long as
trying to avoid a change for as long as
trying to avoid a change for as long as humanly possible that realization
humanly possible that realization
humanly possible that realization however was exactly a year ago and today
however was exactly a year ago and today
however was exactly a year ago and today I’m probably the happiest I have ever
I’m probably the happiest I have ever
I’m probably the happiest I have ever been in my life i live in study in one
been in my life i live in study in one
been in my life i live in study in one of the most beautiful cities in the
of the most beautiful cities in the
of the most beautiful cities in the world i have new and fantastic friends
world i have new and fantastic friends
world i have new and fantastic friends and my roommate did not turn out to be
and my roommate did not turn out to be
and my roommate did not turn out to be psychotic well not fully anyway but
psychotic well not fully anyway but
psychotic well not fully anyway but that’s kind of a on the point as i look
that’s kind of a on the point as i look
that’s kind of a on the point as i look back at that time i find it really silly
back at that time i find it really silly
back at that time i find it really silly i find these fears to be completely
i find these fears to be completely
i find these fears to be completely nonsensical yet back then they were so
nonsensical yet back then they were so
nonsensical yet back then they were so tangible and so terrifying today these
tangible and so terrifying today these
tangible and so terrifying today these frustrations don’t really mean anything
frustrations don’t really mean anything
frustrations don’t really mean anything anymore I decided to go to college after
anymore I decided to go to college after
anymore I decided to go to college after I realized I was being a complete
I realized I was being a complete
I realized I was being a complete hypocrite i was always telling my
hypocrite i was always telling my
hypocrite i was always telling my friends the change was something
friends the change was something
friends the change was something completely natural that you have to jump
completely natural that you have to jump
completely natural that you have to jump into the abyss of the unknown because
into the abyss of the unknown because
into the abyss of the unknown because you could come out the champion i
you could come out the champion i
you could come out the champion i remember telling my girlfriend’s to get
remember telling my girlfriend’s to get
remember telling my girlfriend’s to get out of toxic relationships even though
out of toxic relationships even though
out of toxic relationships even though they were completely terrified that this
they were completely terrified that this
they were completely terrified that this was their only shot at true love and
was their only shot at true love and
was their only shot at true love and that if they were gonna work going to
that if they were gonna work going to
that if they were gonna work going to break up with him now there would never
break up with him now there would never
break up with him now there would never be loved again and i remember my friends
be loved again and i remember my friends
be loved again and i remember my friends coming up to me with new ideas new
coming up to me with new ideas new
coming up to me with new ideas new projects new dreams new hobbies and i
projects new dreams new hobbies and i
projects new dreams new hobbies and i would always tell them and yes you
would always tell them and yes you
would always tell them and yes you should take this step forward you should
should take this step forward you should
should take this step forward you should be able to take this change as it is and
be able to take this change as it is and
be able to take this change as it is and be happy with it we are a society
be happy with it we are a society
be happy with it we are a society completely obsessed with change as a
completely obsessed with change as a
completely obsessed with change as a negative entity we assign change this
negative entity we assign change this
negative entity we assign change this role of a foe and sometimes we even
role of a foe and sometimes we even
role of a foe and sometimes we even think that change is something down out
think that change is something down out
think that change is something down out of mere desperation it’s a cookie cutter
of mere desperation it’s a cookie cutter
of mere desperation it’s a cookie cutter idea that’s pushed on to us by Hollywood
idea that’s pushed on to us by Hollywood
idea that’s pushed on to us by Hollywood and self-help books that always tells us
and self-help books that always tells us
and self-help books that always tells us that know if you’re you’re fed up with
that know if you’re you’re fed up with
that know if you’re you’re fed up with your life and your desk job sucks and
your life and your desk job sucks and
your life and your desk job sucks and you’re just this miserable little coil
you’re just this miserable little coil
you’re just this miserable little coil in the machine of life you should uphill
in the machine of life you should uphill
in the machine of life you should uphill everything uproot everything buy a
everything uproot everything buy a
everything uproot everything buy a sailboat and sail away into the horizon
sailboat and sail away into the horizon
sailboat and sail away into the horizon and
and
and is actually perhaps the only way change
is actually perhaps the only way change
is actually perhaps the only way change is positively represented in our society
is positively represented in our society
is positively represented in our society and I think that’s a problem I actually
and I think that’s a problem I actually
and I think that’s a problem I actually remember sitting in one of my psychology
remember sitting in one of my psychology
remember sitting in one of my psychology classes and being introduced to a scale
classes and being introduced to a scale
classes and being introduced to a scale the scale is called the social
the scale is called the social
the scale is called the social readjustment scale and the premise do
readjustment scale and the premise do
readjustment scale and the premise do this is actually very simple just hold
this is actually very simple just hold
this is actually very simple just hold on yelling with me you’re given a list
on yelling with me you’re given a list
on yelling with me you’re given a list of life situations and each of this life
of life situations and each of this life
of life situations and each of this life situations has a number you go through
situations has a number you go through
situations has a number you go through this list you tick off every single
this list you tick off every single
this list you tick off every single thing that applies to you and then you
thing that applies to you and then you
thing that applies to you and then you tally up your results this yields a
tally up your results this yields a
tally up your results this yields a number this number is supposed to
number this number is supposed to
number this number is supposed to represent how stressed you are in your
represent how stressed you are in your
represent how stressed you are in your life and how much of the stress is going
life and how much of the stress is going
life and how much of the stress is going to put your health into jeopardy as i
to put your health into jeopardy as i
to put your health into jeopardy as i was taking this test i realized that
was taking this test i realized that
was taking this test i realized that every single item on it pertained to
every single item on it pertained to
every single item on it pertained to some sort of life change pregnancy had
some sort of life change pregnancy had
some sort of life change pregnancy had 50 points getting married had 25 moving
50 points getting married had 25 moving
50 points getting married had 25 moving locations have 20 change in diet had 15
locations have 20 change in diet had 15
locations have 20 change in diet had 15 a change in schools had 25 in admittedly
a change in schools had 25 in admittedly
a change in schools had 25 in admittedly not all change on this list was good but
not all change on this list was good but
not all change on this list was good but not all of it was bad either the
not all of it was bad either the
not all of it was bad either the measurement of the scale runs from 150
measurement of the scale runs from 150
measurement of the scale runs from 150 points to 350 if you score 150 200
points to 350 if you score 150 200
points to 350 if you score 150 200 you’re mildly stressed probably not
you’re mildly stressed probably not
you’re mildly stressed probably not going to die anytime soon you know
going to die anytime soon you know
going to die anytime soon you know you’re doing okay if you score above a
you’re doing okay if you score above a
you’re doing okay if you score above a three hundred you are putting your life
three hundred you are putting your life
three hundred you are putting your life in jeopardy everything is going to be
in jeopardy everything is going to be
in jeopardy everything is going to be bad you will have all the diseases all
bad you will have all the diseases all
bad you will have all the diseases all the diabetes everything my score on this
the diabetes everything my score on this
the diabetes everything my score on this test was 290 so it will probably have a
test was 290 so it will probably have a
test was 290 so it will probably have a brain aneurysm like now and i genuinely
brain aneurysm like now and i genuinely
brain aneurysm like now and i genuinely in Sicily apologize in advance and thank
in Sicily apologize in advance and thank
in Sicily apologize in advance and thank you for listening to me but in all
you for listening to me but in all
you for listening to me but in all honesty and all jokes aside we are so
honesty and all jokes aside we are so
honesty and all jokes aside we are so afraid of change that we build scales to
afraid of change that we build scales to
afraid of change that we build scales to measure its effect on our health we are
measure its effect on our health we are
measure its effect on our health we are so afraid of change that we’d rather let
so afraid of change that we’d rather let
so afraid of change that we’d rather let it affect our health let it give us a
it affect our health let it give us a
it affect our health let it give us a heart attack then let it in and deal
heart attack then let it in and deal
heart attack then let it in and deal with it accordingly and this honestly is
with it accordingly and this honestly is
with it accordingly and this honestly is why I’m here today I want all of you to
why I’m here today I want all of you to
why I’m here today I want all of you to befriend change I want all of you to
befriend change I want all of you to
befriend change I want all of you to understand the change is going to come
understand the change is going to come
understand the change is going to come not
not
not come any in any case it is going to
come any in any case it is going to
come any in any case it is going to happen either way whether you want it or
happen either way whether you want it or
happen either way whether you want it or not whether you’re ready for it or not
not whether you’re ready for it or not
not whether you’re ready for it or not it is going to come knocking at your
it is going to come knocking at your
it is going to come knocking at your door and you better be ready to open up
door and you better be ready to open up
door and you better be ready to open up and welcome it into your house into an
and welcome it into your house into an
and welcome it into your house into an open embrace before it grows impatient
open embrace before it grows impatient
open embrace before it grows impatient and puts a brick through your living
and puts a brick through your living
and puts a brick through your living room window change is going to happen
room window change is going to happen
room window change is going to happen either way it’s going to happen
either way it’s going to happen
either way it’s going to happen regardless of your attitude toward it
regardless of your attitude toward it
regardless of your attitude toward it and your attitude actually is perhaps
and your attitude actually is perhaps
and your attitude actually is perhaps the only part the only variable that you
the only part the only variable that you
the only part the only variable that you have control over but the good news is
have control over but the good news is
have control over but the good news is that your attitude toward change is
that your attitude toward change is
that your attitude toward change is perhaps the only thing that can
perhaps the only thing that can
perhaps the only thing that can alleviate the negative side effects that
alleviate the negative side effects that
alleviate the negative side effects that it may bring it is the only thing that
it may bring it is the only thing that
it may bring it is the only thing that can make change better all of this is
can make change better all of this is
can make change better all of this is very inspirational and lalala but how do
very inspirational and lalala but how do
very inspirational and lalala but how do you change this attitude how what is the
you change this attitude how what is the
you change this attitude how what is the step that you can make in order to
step that you can make in order to
step that you can make in order to actually make this change in your life
actually make this change in your life
actually make this change in your life you make that change by realizing that
you make that change by realizing that
you make that change by realizing that the more you are afraid of change the
the more you are afraid of change the
the more you are afraid of change the more you avoid it the more you’ll press
more you avoid it the more you’ll press
more you avoid it the more you’ll press it the more you hide from it the more
it the more you hide from it the more
it the more you hide from it the more you prevent it from being positive being
you prevent it from being positive being
you prevent it from being positive being afraid is important and I cannot deny
afraid is important and I cannot deny
afraid is important and I cannot deny that it helps us keep ourselves safe and
that it helps us keep ourselves safe and
that it helps us keep ourselves safe and preserve ourselves but being afraid of
preserve ourselves but being afraid of
preserve ourselves but being afraid of ifs and maybes is completely
ifs and maybes is completely
ifs and maybes is completely counterproductive what if they won’t
counterproductive what if they won’t
counterproductive what if they won’t like me what if I can’t do it maybe this
like me what if I can’t do it maybe this
like me what if I can’t do it maybe this is a bad idea maybe I should just stay
is a bad idea maybe I should just stay
is a bad idea maybe I should just stay home but life does not work on ifs and
home but life does not work on ifs and
home but life does not work on ifs and maybes life works on yeses and noes life
maybes life works on yeses and noes life
maybes life works on yeses and noes life works with structure life works
works with structure life works
works with structure life works angularly life flows and changes life is
angularly life flows and changes life is
angularly life flows and changes life is a constant change and the way we do that
a constant change and the way we do that
a constant change and the way we do that is by embracing change and we do that by
is by embracing change and we do that by
is by embracing change and we do that by understanding that we have potential and
understanding that we have potential and
understanding that we have potential and our job here is that we must fulfill
our job here is that we must fulfill
our job here is that we must fulfill that potential if we try if we work if
that potential if we try if we work if
that potential if we try if we work if we persevere and choose not to be afraid
we persevere and choose not to be afraid
we persevere and choose not to be afraid of the unknown then we can indeed come
of the unknown then we can indeed come
of the unknown then we can indeed come out to be champions I will not lie to
out to be champions I will not lie to
out to be champions I will not lie to you and tell you that every single
you and tell you that every single
you and tell you that every single change in your life is going to be super
change in your life is going to be super
change in your life is going to be super positive
positive
positive it sometimes it’s going to be terrible
it sometimes it’s going to be terrible
it sometimes it’s going to be terrible sometimes it’s going to be hard
sometimes it’s going to be hard
sometimes it’s going to be hard sometimes it’s going to hurt sometimes
sometimes it’s going to hurt sometimes
sometimes it’s going to hurt sometimes you’re going to make wrong decisions and
you’re going to make wrong decisions and
you’re going to make wrong decisions and sometimes you’re going to choose the
sometimes you’re going to choose the
sometimes you’re going to choose the wrong path sometimes you’re going to
wrong path sometimes you’re going to
wrong path sometimes you’re going to wish that you did not move at all but if
wish that you did not move at all but if
wish that you did not move at all but if you don’t move it all if you choose to
you don’t move it all if you choose to
you don’t move it all if you choose to stay put and sit every single good that
stay put and sit every single good that
stay put and sit every single good that could come out of your future is going
could come out of your future is going
could come out of your future is going to be left unrealized if you choose to
to be left unrealized if you choose to
to be left unrealized if you choose to be afraid if you choose to stay if you
be afraid if you choose to stay if you
be afraid if you choose to stay if you choose to say it you’re never going to
choose to say it you’re never going to
choose to say it you’re never going to be able to experience any positive
be able to experience any positive
be able to experience any positive change if I chose to stay in bed that
change if I chose to stay in bed that
change if I chose to stay in bed that day I would have absolutely nothing to
day I would have absolutely nothing to
day I would have absolutely nothing to talk to you about today because I would
talk to you about today because I would
talk to you about today because I would have absolutely nothing to say you you
have absolutely nothing to say you you
have absolutely nothing to say you you can choose to stay home and stay cooped
can choose to stay home and stay cooped
can choose to stay home and stay cooped up in your house till the rest of your
up in your house till the rest of your
up in your house till the rest of your life no problem but I sure as well hope
life no problem but I sure as well hope
life no problem but I sure as well hope that one that one constants change the
that one that one constants change the
that one that one constants change the one that all of us are destined for
one that all of us are destined for
one that all of us are destined for comes knocking at your door to collect
comes knocking at your door to collect
comes knocking at your door to collect you at the end of your life I hope that
you at the end of your life I hope that
you at the end of your life I hope that the life that flashes before your eyes
the life that flashes before your eyes
the life that flashes before your eyes is going to be that of a man that has
is going to be that of a man that has
is going to be that of a man that has lived change is the living being it is
lived change is the living being it is
lived change is the living being it is an entity that we cannot avoid it is an
an entity that we cannot avoid it is an
an entity that we cannot avoid it is an entity that we can only be friend and
entity that we can only be friend and
entity that we can only be friend and learn how to coexist with it will bite
learn how to coexist with it will bite
learn how to coexist with it will bite sometimes but sometimes it will offer us
sometimes but sometimes it will offer us
sometimes but sometimes it will offer us a great gain great protection and great
a great gain great protection and great
a great gain great protection and great opportunity as my friend once told me as
opportunity as my friend once told me as
opportunity as my friend once told me as we were sitting and pontificating on the
we were sitting and pontificating on the
we were sitting and pontificating on the meaning of life change isn’t good or bad
meaning of life change isn’t good or bad
meaning of life change isn’t good or bad ani change simply is thank you
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