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hello everyone before I tell you about

hello everyone before I tell you about my few I’d actually like to lick here

my few I’d actually like to lick here

my few I’d actually like to lick here yours so please raise your hand if you

yours so please raise your hand if you

yours so please raise your hand if you agree with the following who would like

agree with the following who would like

agree with the following who would like a world in which we care for each other

a world in which we care for each other

a world in which we care for each other and who would like a world with more

and who would like a world with more

and who would like a world with more equality and who would like everyone in

equality and who would like everyone in

equality and who would like everyone in this world to get a chance to develop

this world to get a chance to develop

this world to get a chance to develop themselves well you know what we have a

themselves well you know what we have a

themselves well you know what we have a chance to make that happen right here

chance to make that happen right here

chance to make that happen right here because there were actually hundreds of

because there were actually hundreds of

because there were actually hundreds of people on the wait list and 50 of them

people on the wait list and 50 of them

people on the wait list and 50 of them have never joined such an event before

have never joined such an event before

have never joined such an event before so we want to give them a chance to have

so we want to give them a chance to have

so we want to give them a chance to have one of the good spots at this event and

one of the good spots at this event and

one of the good spots at this event and are actually standing outside in the

are actually standing outside in the

are actually standing outside in the lobby right now so we put some cards

lobby right now so we put some cards

lobby right now so we put some cards under your seats and if you find one we

under your seats and if you find one we

under your seats and if you find one we ask you to stand up and please give up

ask you to stand up and please give up

ask you to stand up and please give up your spots so please check your seats

so there are no cards so that wasn’t

so there are no cards so that wasn’t true but the relief I spotted over here

true but the relief I spotted over here

true but the relief I spotted over here was very true though and and how can we

was very true though and and how can we

was very true though and and how can we blame you because who doesn’t want a

blame you because who doesn’t want a

blame you because who doesn’t want a better world and keep their entitlements

better world and keep their entitlements

better world and keep their entitlements keep their good chair at the same time

keep their good chair at the same time

keep their good chair at the same time but think about it do our entitlements

but think about it do our entitlements

but think about it do our entitlements sometimes stand in the way of seeing the

sometimes stand in the way of seeing the

sometimes stand in the way of seeing the other perspective and therefore maybe

other perspective and therefore maybe

other perspective and therefore maybe stand in the way of change well knowing

stand in the way of change well knowing

stand in the way of change well knowing we always see the world from our own

we always see the world from our own

we always see the world from our own perspectives from our seated position so

perspectives from our seated position so

perspectives from our seated position so to say it almost seems impossible to

to say it almost seems impossible to

to say it almost seems impossible to know what is truly fair right well my

know what is truly fair right well my

know what is truly fair right well my mother she found a way she didn’t

mother she found a way she didn’t

mother she found a way she didn’t exactly create world peace but she did

exactly create world peace but she did

exactly create world peace but she did create peace at home because as a child

create peace at home because as a child

create peace at home because as a child I had quite a strong focus for fairness

I had quite a strong focus for fairness

I had quite a strong focus for fairness but mostly fairness for me

but mostly fairness for me

but mostly fairness for me so in competition with my two year older

so in competition with my two year older

so in competition with my two year older brother whenever there was something to

brother whenever there was something to

brother whenever there was something to split I was always checking if I wasn’t

split I was always checking if I wasn’t

split I was always checking if I wasn’t getting the lesser option so when I was

getting the lesser option so when I was

getting the lesser option so when I was something to share let’s say a cake my

something to share let’s say a cake my

something to share let’s say a cake my mom would say one of you gets to cut the

mom would say one of you gets to cut the

mom would say one of you gets to cut the cake and the other one gets to pick

cake and the other one gets to pick

cake and the other one gets to pick simple as that because if you don’t know

simple as that because if you don’t know

simple as that because if you don’t know what piece you’ll end up having you

what piece you’ll end up having you

what piece you’ll end up having you better make sure you split it fairly and

better make sure you split it fairly and

better make sure you split it fairly and imagine the world working like this if I

imagine the world working like this if I

imagine the world working like this if I don’t know whether I will end up in the

don’t know whether I will end up in the

don’t know whether I will end up in the Western world or end up having a head

Western world or end up having a head

Western world or end up having a head start or not I’m going to make sure

start or not I’m going to make sure

start or not I’m going to make sure there’s great health care and great

there’s great health care and great

there’s great health care and great education for everyone right I better

education for everyone right I better

education for everyone right I better make sure there’s cake for everyone and

make sure there’s cake for everyone and

make sure there’s cake for everyone and as long as questioning ourselves like

as long as questioning ourselves like

as long as questioning ourselves like this it’s not a common practice we

this it’s not a common practice we

this it’s not a common practice we should stimulate dialogue and creativity

should stimulate dialogue and creativity

should stimulate dialogue and creativity on how to make fair the new normal

on how to make fair the new normal

on how to make fair the new normal because just like normal it’s not a

because just like normal it’s not a

because just like normal it’s not a fixed thing nor is fairness so as the

fixed thing nor is fairness so as the

fixed thing nor is fairness so as the world keeps on changing

world keeps on changing

world keeps on changing let’s explore what we want this thing to

let’s explore what we want this thing to

let’s explore what we want this thing to be now Roenick lee in the real world

be now Roenick lee in the real world

be now Roenick lee in the real world aren’t the people who get to cut first

aren’t the people who get to cut first

aren’t the people who get to cut first usually also the ones who get to pick

usually also the ones who get to pick

usually also the ones who get to pick first people with power how can we deal

first people with power how can we deal

first people with power how can we deal with this how can we make sure that

with this how can we make sure that

with this how can we make sure that anyone can take part in exploring how we

anyone can take part in exploring how we

anyone can take part in exploring how we want society to work for exactly this I

want society to work for exactly this I

want society to work for exactly this I designed a discussion tool together with

designed a discussion tool together with

designed a discussion tool together with hundreds of children and t-shirts and

hundreds of children and t-shirts and

hundreds of children and t-shirts and it’s called Terra Nova mini mass obey

it’s called Terra Nova mini mass obey

it’s called Terra Nova mini mass obey the mini society works like this along

the mini society works like this along

the mini society works like this along the storyline of an island players

the storyline of an island players

the storyline of an island players discuss solutions for societal issues

discuss solutions for societal issues

discuss solutions for societal issues and the game asks you to let go of the

and the game asks you to let go of the

and the game asks you to let go of the world as we know it just imagine if

world as we know it just imagine if

world as we know it just imagine if anything were to be possible how would

anything were to be possible how would

anything were to be possible how would you want it to work but you sit around

you want it to work but you sit around

you want it to work but you sit around this game with other people and we’re

this game with other people and we’re

this game with other people and we’re all trying to apply our own ideals on

all trying to apply our own ideals on

all trying to apply our own ideals on this little piece of land so I’m curious

this little piece of land so I’m curious

this little piece of land so I’m curious what happens then let’s see what happens

what happens then let’s see what happens

what happens then let’s see what happens then let’s imagine that with the

then let’s imagine that with the

then let’s imagine that with the thousands people in this room so look

thousands people in this room so look

thousands people in this room so look around you with all these people here

around you with all these people here

around you with all these people here we’re going to start a new society so

we’re going to start a new society so

we’re going to start a new society so are we going to group ourselves look

are we going to group ourselves look

are we going to group ourselves look around are your neighbors are those the

around are your neighbors are those the

around are your neighbors are those the people that you’re going to live with or

people that you’re going to live with or

people that you’re going to live with or are we free to mingle and moreover who

are we free to mingle and moreover who

are we free to mingle and moreover who is deciding this for us which one of us

is deciding this for us which one of us

is deciding this for us which one of us will become the new leaders of the group

will become the new leaders of the group

will become the new leaders of the group and then daily life starts can I ask you

and then daily life starts can I ask you

and then daily life starts can I ask you for your what’s your name Oh Hank over

for your what’s your name Oh Hank over

for your what’s your name Oh Hank over here has got two large fish really large

here has got two large fish really large

here has got two large fish really large so it’s Hank going to split his fish

so it’s Hank going to split his fish

so it’s Hank going to split his fish with all of you or can you keep them and

with all of you or can you keep them and

with all of you or can you keep them and then everyone wearing something blue

then everyone wearing something blue

then everyone wearing something blue right now becomes ill for a long time

right now becomes ill for a long time

right now becomes ill for a long time who’s going to take care of them and

who’s going to take care of them and

who’s going to take care of them and then for how long are you going to

then for how long are you going to

then for how long are you going to support these people

so these are the exact questions that

so these are the exact questions that players of Terranova whether it’s teams

players of Terranova whether it’s teams

players of Terranova whether it’s teams of nine-year-olds at school or adults of

of nine-year-olds at school or adults of

of nine-year-olds at school or adults of local government the exact question that

local government the exact question that

local government the exact question that they get to deal with on their islands

they get to deal with on their islands

they get to deal with on their islands let’s get an impression of what that

let’s get an impression of what that

let’s get an impression of what that looks like

except on a look for day don’t doubt the

except on a look for day don’t doubt the record of salmon know it kept about this

record of salmon know it kept about this

record of salmon know it kept about this is you’ve got it’ll become a pair of

is you’ve got it’ll become a pair of

is you’ve got it’ll become a pair of somehow two fifties and the andhra

somehow two fifties and the andhra

somehow two fifties and the andhra health rejoice your videos well here you

health rejoice your videos well here you

health rejoice your videos well here you see kids at school and it’s true in two

see kids at school and it’s true in two

see kids at school and it’s true in two weeks a thousand of these games will be

weeks a thousand of these games will be

weeks a thousand of these games will be spread among schools in the netherlands

spread among schools in the netherlands

spread among schools in the netherlands but I’m sure that the adults in this

but I’m sure that the adults in this

but I’m sure that the adults in this room like challenge just as well so

room like challenge just as well so

room like challenge just as well so let’s play one of these ident questions

let’s play one of these ident questions

let’s play one of these ident questions shall we I’m going to read it out and

shall we I’m going to read it out and

shall we I’m going to read it out and then I want to see hands for option A or

then I want to see hands for option A or

then I want to see hands for option A or option B okay here we go

option B okay here we go

option B okay here we go so you’re Orange Islanders want to trade

so you’re Orange Islanders want to trade

so you’re Orange Islanders want to trade their coconuts

their coconuts

their coconuts for these blue people’s fish an equal

for these blue people’s fish an equal

for these blue people’s fish an equal trade is one to one but we know that the

trade is one to one but we know that the

trade is one to one but we know that the blue people’s fish will rot at some

blue people’s fish will rot at some

blue people’s fish will rot at some points and therefore if we wait two

points and therefore if we wait two

points and therefore if we wait two weeks who actually gets twice as much

weeks who actually gets twice as much

weeks who actually gets twice as much and then the blue people did that work

and then the blue people did that work

and then the blue people did that work equally hard for their fish but they

equally hard for their fish but they

equally hard for their fish but they just get less back so these are the

just get less back so these are the

just get less back so these are the options I’d like to see Han so who’s for

options I’d like to see Han so who’s for

options I’d like to see Han so who’s for option a an equal trade right now one to

option a an equal trade right now one to

option a an equal trade right now one to one and who’s for option B way two weeks

one and who’s for option B way two weeks

one and who’s for option B way two weeks but receive more I see so there’s mostly

but receive more I see so there’s mostly

but receive more I see so there’s mostly a minded people in this room and maybe

a minded people in this room and maybe

a minded people in this room and maybe you might also wonder what does it even

you might also wonder what does it even

you might also wonder what does it even matter what we want

matter what we want

matter what we want in the end isn’t it’s the big companies

in the end isn’t it’s the big companies

in the end isn’t it’s the big companies or governments who decide these things

or governments who decide these things

or governments who decide these things and that’s where I’d like to like you

and that’s where I’d like to like you

and that’s where I’d like to like you and and children and anyone who plays

and and children and anyone who plays

and and children and anyone who plays terranova to experience that we decide

terranova to experience that we decide

terranova to experience that we decide every day here you go a can of fish and

every day here you go a can of fish and

every day here you go a can of fish and the second one is free recognize that so

the second one is free recognize that so

the second one is free recognize that so we decide with our choices and someone

we decide with our choices and someone

we decide with our choices and someone pays the price whether it’s fishermen or

pays the price whether it’s fishermen or

pays the price whether it’s fishermen or the environment so we decide what is

the environment so we decide what is

the environment so we decide what is normal in society and therefore there

normal in society and therefore there

normal in society and therefore there are also no right and wrong answers in

are also no right and wrong answers in

are also no right and wrong answers in Terranova but you are challenged to

Terranova but you are challenged to

Terranova but you are challenged to think about what is normal because we

think about what is normal because we

think about what is normal because we give them to keep on viewing something

give them to keep on viewing something

give them to keep on viewing something as normal we seem to just accept it

as normal we seem to just accept it

as normal we seem to just accept it right

right

right we no longer wonder about it or question

we no longer wonder about it or question

we no longer wonder about it or question it and if we do not question we do not

it and if we do not question we do not

it and if we do not question we do not change now you might have noticed in

change now you might have noticed in

change now you might have noticed in practice when it comes to controversial

practice when it comes to controversial

practice when it comes to controversial topics if you’re talking to someone with

topics if you’re talking to someone with

topics if you’re talking to someone with a different opinion and you don’t agree

a different opinion and you don’t agree

a different opinion and you don’t agree the conversation stops we declare that

the conversation stops we declare that

the conversation stops we declare that the other one doesn’t understand the

the other one doesn’t understand the

the other one doesn’t understand the world like we do and that’s that and

world like we do and that’s that and

world like we do and that’s that and then if we talk to someone who we do

then if we talk to someone who we do

then if we talk to someone who we do agree with well actually the more we

agree with well actually the more we

agree with well actually the more we agree the more we want to talk to them

agree the more we want to talk to them

agree the more we want to talk to them and maybe secretly enjoy that feeling of

and maybe secretly enjoy that feeling of

and maybe secretly enjoy that feeling of being right but I was wondering what a

being right but I was wondering what a

being right but I was wondering what a game situation would add to this

game situation would add to this

game situation would add to this equation what if we could talk about

equation what if we could talk about

equation what if we could talk about societal topics in a game play let’s see

societal topics in a game play let’s see

societal topics in a game play let’s see how kids handle the next situations

how kids handle the next situations

how kids handle the next situations newcomers arriving on their islands

yeah those are kids but then the

yeah those are kids but then the ultimate test what happens if we get

ultimate test what happens if we get

ultimate test what happens if we get voters for a right-wing populist party a

voters for a right-wing populist party a

voters for a right-wing populist party a Labour Party and social liberalists to

Labour Party and social liberalists to

Labour Party and social liberalists to figure the same question out together

figure the same question out together

figure the same question out together can they form a society on a new piece

can they form a society on a new piece

can they form a society on a new piece of land let’s check it out yeah so

of land let’s check it out yeah so

of land let’s check it out yeah so anything fell out and Terra Nova and so

anything fell out and Terra Nova and so

anything fell out and Terra Nova and so there’s a lot of diversity in these

there’s a lot of diversity in these

there’s a lot of diversity in these things but there’s actually one thing

things but there’s actually one thing

things but there’s actually one thing that often happens in these mini

that often happens in these mini

that often happens in these mini societies and that’s like one of the

societies and that’s like one of the

societies and that’s like one of the boys in the kids video what he says is

boys in the kids video what he says is

boys in the kids video what he says is the orange people were here first

the orange people were here first

the orange people were here first so they get to decide the rules and then

so they get to decide the rules and then

so they get to decide the rules and then they do say that the blue and orange

they do say that the blue and orange

they do say that the blue and orange people are equals

people are equals

people are equals but then if later on in the game if the

but then if later on in the game if the

but then if later on in the game if the blue people want to host a noisy ritual

blue people want to host a noisy ritual

blue people want to host a noisy ritual or if they make a mistake it’s the

or if they make a mistake it’s the

or if they make a mistake it’s the orange people on their Island who

orange people on their Island who

orange people on their Island who decides who has to leave or what the

decides who has to leave or what the

decides who has to leave or what the rules are even so are they then truly

rules are even so are they then truly

rules are even so are they then truly equals and if they’re not in the

equals and if they’re not in the

equals and if they’re not in the beginning can blue and orange ever

beginning can blue and orange ever

beginning can blue and orange ever become equals then I’ve literally asked

become equals then I’ve literally asked

become equals then I’ve literally asked them like can the blue people ever

them like can the blue people ever

them like can the blue people ever become orange so these are the exact

become orange so these are the exact

become orange so these are the exact questions that I wanted to design

questions that I wanted to design

questions that I wanted to design something for

something for

something for societal challenges and I want to do to

societal challenges and I want to do to

societal challenges and I want to do to do so together with the champions of

do so together with the champions of

do so together with the champions of imagination and also the champions of

imagination and also the champions of

imagination and also the champions of questioning why together with children

questioning why together with children

questioning why together with children and I want to stress not so much for

and I want to stress not so much for

and I want to stress not so much for children but rather with children

children but rather with children

children but rather with children because they are the ones who showed me

because they are the ones who showed me

because they are the ones who showed me that this should be a game because of

that this should be a game because of

that this should be a game because of the game all players are equal

the game all players are equal

the game all players are equal you don’t need prior knowledge so anyone

you don’t need prior knowledge so anyone

you don’t need prior knowledge so anyone can join and if you materialize these

can join and if you materialize these

can join and if you materialize these abstract issues you can actually show

abstract issues you can actually show

abstract issues you can actually show your ideas and another thing kids also

your ideas and another thing kids also

your ideas and another thing kids also never asked me the question of how can I

never asked me the question of how can I

never asked me the question of how can I win this game only adults do in that

win this game only adults do in that

win this game only adults do in that question in that voice so then I like to

question in that voice so then I like to

question in that voice so then I like to ask them back how can you win at society

ask them back how can you win at society

ask them back how can you win at society and are you winning yet are we there yes

and are you winning yet are we there yes

and are you winning yet are we there yes so it’s the exploring that matters and

so it’s the exploring that matters and

so it’s the exploring that matters and then the last thing about kids I admire

then the last thing about kids I admire

then the last thing about kids I admire their openness and sometimes she’s

their openness and sometimes she’s

their openness and sometimes she’s saying huh that’s really weird that I

saying huh that’s really weird that I

saying huh that’s really weird that I thought this how often do we still do

thought this how often do we still do

thought this how often do we still do this so what’s the solution then for a

this so what’s the solution then for a

this so what’s the solution then for a better society a little more empathy

better society a little more empathy

better society a little more empathy well beware because the research says

well beware because the research says

well beware because the research says that we empathize more with people from

that we empathize more with people from

that we empathize more with people from our own social group people who are like

our own social group people who are like

our own social group people who are like us

us

us so our empathy is actually prejudice and

so our empathy is actually prejudice and

so our empathy is actually prejudice and that means it’s not enough to sit on our

that means it’s not enough to sit on our

that means it’s not enough to sit on our chairs and then imagine from there what

chairs and then imagine from there what

chairs and then imagine from there what other people might want we actually have

other people might want we actually have

other people might want we actually have to work to see the other perspective

to work to see the other perspective

to work to see the other perspective well here’s the last example of how that

well here’s the last example of how that

well here’s the last example of how that could work three years ago I was at a

could work three years ago I was at a

could work three years ago I was at a school with kids for mostly higher

school with kids for mostly higher

school with kids for mostly higher educated parents and clearly they were

educated parents and clearly they were

educated parents and clearly they were all very aware of the social accepted

all very aware of the social accepted

all very aware of the social accepted norms so when newcomers came to their

norms so when newcomers came to their

norms so when newcomers came to their islands they said sure we will take care

islands they said sure we will take care

islands they said sure we will take care of them here you go here’s your camp and

of them here you go here’s your camp and

of them here you go here’s your camp and a fish in a tree all set

a fish in a tree all set

a fish in a tree all set so they thought until one girl said what

so they thought until one girl said what

so they thought until one girl said what could be the downsides and she said if

could be the downsides and she said if

could be the downsides and she said if you put them over here separately with

you put them over here separately with

you put them over here separately with their own things they will never get to

their own things they will never get to

their own things they will never get to know each other

know each other

know each other and if you don’t know each other you

and if you don’t know each other you

and if you don’t know each other you could war later on because you can

could war later on because you can

could war later on because you can understand each other well go 11

understand each other well go 11

understand each other well go 11 year-olds but there’s a serious notion

year-olds but there’s a serious notion

year-olds but there’s a serious notion behind this so if we do not organize

behind this so if we do not organize

behind this so if we do not organize something we don’t get to know each

something we don’t get to know each

something we don’t get to know each other because you know what is normal

other because you know what is normal

other because you know what is normal it’s not universal and what is normal is

it’s not universal and what is normal is

it’s not universal and what is normal is also not for a forever so let’s

also not for a forever so let’s

also not for a forever so let’s challenge our own and each other’s

challenge our own and each other’s

challenge our own and each other’s normals and we can start right now

normals and we can start right now

normals and we can start right now think of something you found normal and

think of something you found normal and

think of something you found normal and then go find one person who things

then go find one person who things

then go find one person who things differently talk to them hear their

differently talk to them hear their

differently talk to them hear their perspective maybe you change your ideas

perspective maybe you change your ideas

perspective maybe you change your ideas maybe you don’t but you leave knowing

maybe you don’t but you leave knowing

maybe you don’t but you leave knowing there’s other normals out there and

there’s other normals out there and

there’s other normals out there and that’s relevant anywhere citizens of the

that’s relevant anywhere citizens of the

that’s relevant anywhere citizens of the world but also in the smaller societies

world but also in the smaller societies

world but also in the smaller societies we know at our neighborhoods at work and

we know at our neighborhoods at work and

we know at our neighborhoods at work and at home so next time let’s invite

at home so next time let’s invite

at home so next time let’s invite someone else to cut a cake thank you

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