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Caregivers are the Real Superheroes | Alex Catchings | TEDxToledo


I have a question for the audience has

I have a question for the audience has anybody ever met a superhero as a matter

anybody ever met a superhero as a matter

anybody ever met a superhero as a matter of fact when you say the word superhero

of fact when you say the word superhero

of fact when you say the word superhero what’s the first image that comes to

what’s the first image that comes to

what’s the first image that comes to mind Superman

mind Superman

mind Superman superwoman flash but what if I told you

superwoman flash but what if I told you

superwoman flash but what if I told you that in our communities today or even

that in our communities today or even

that in our communities today or even within our churches we live and interact

within our churches we live and interact

within our churches we live and interact with superheroes every day as a matter

with superheroes every day as a matter

with superheroes every day as a matter of fact there’s many heroes in this room

parents your child views you regardless

parents your child views you regardless of the age regardless as a scenario they

of the age regardless as a scenario they

of the age regardless as a scenario they view you as that’s superhero if a child

view you as that’s superhero if a child

view you as that’s superhero if a child is incurring bullying in school they may

is incurring bullying in school they may

is incurring bullying in school they may go they will go home to you and ask for

go they will go home to you and ask for

go they will go home to you and ask for your advice if a kid is is enduring

your advice if a kid is is enduring

your advice if a kid is is enduring college and needs some assistance with

college and needs some assistance with

college and needs some assistance with from a financial perspective wherever it

from a financial perspective wherever it

from a financial perspective wherever it may be a parent provides that and we

may be a parent provides that and we

may be a parent provides that and we know as society that a solid foundation

know as society that a solid foundation

know as society that a solid foundation that a parent and a family is life can

that a parent and a family is life can

that a parent and a family is life can provide to a kid is absolutely essential

provide to a kid is absolutely essential

provide to a kid is absolutely essential and we know that by being the parent

and we know that by being the parent

and we know that by being the parent naturally you’re signing that contract

naturally you’re signing that contract

naturally you’re signing that contract that you’re going to be providing the

that you’re going to be providing the

that you’re going to be providing the most nurturing love and support for that

most nurturing love and support for that

most nurturing love and support for that individual and we know that a parent and

individual and we know that a parent and

individual and we know that a parent and with these younger kids that this

with these younger kids that this

with these younger kids that this develops and builds a better society

develops and builds a better society

develops and builds a better society which equates to a better world for all

which equates to a better world for all

which equates to a better world for all of us but let’s let’s look at our

of us but let’s let’s look at our

of us but let’s let’s look at our professional lives does your work

professional lives does your work

professional lives does your work understand when your child is sick do

understand when your child is sick do

understand when your child is sick do they understand that they have a

they understand that they have a

they understand that they have a sporting event that one may

sporting event that one may

sporting event that one may need to attend or support and some cases

need to attend or support and some cases

need to attend or support and some cases yes in many cases no but as a society or

yes in many cases no but as a society or

yes in many cases no but as a society or as an employer or as an employee

as an employer or as an employee

as an employer or as an employee we truly grasp this concept but although

we truly grasp this concept but although

we truly grasp this concept but although parents are very important and they are

parents are very important and they are

parents are very important and they are super hero this is not the superhero

super hero this is not the superhero

super hero this is not the superhero that I’m specifically speaking about

that I’m specifically speaking about

that I’m specifically speaking about today you see the superhero that I’m

today you see the superhero that I’m

today you see the superhero that I’m specifically referencing is invisible

specifically referencing is invisible

specifically referencing is invisible although they do live within our

although they do live within our

although they do live within our communities they may attend church with

communities they may attend church with

communities they may attend church with us we may even work with them we don’t

us we may even work with them we don’t

us we may even work with them we don’t acknowledge them because we don’t know

acknowledge them because we don’t know

acknowledge them because we don’t know simply who they are the superhero that

simply who they are the superhero that

simply who they are the superhero that I’m referencing is a caregiver a

I’m referencing is a caregiver a

I’m referencing is a caregiver a caregiver can take care of anyone that’s

caregiver can take care of anyone that’s

caregiver can take care of anyone that’s in their elders age all the way down to

in their elders age all the way down to

in their elders age all the way down to their youth but these individuals in

their youth but these individuals in

their youth but these individuals in many cases are invisible to us there’s

many cases are invisible to us there’s

many cases are invisible to us there’s one specific caregiver that I want to

one specific caregiver that I want to

one specific caregiver that I want to focus on today this caregiver has to do

focus on today this caregiver has to do

focus on today this caregiver has to do with something called Alzheimer’s and

with something called Alzheimer’s and

with something called Alzheimer’s and have to provide for someone who is

have to provide for someone who is

have to provide for someone who is diagnosed with this disease you see alls

diagnosed with this disease you see alls

diagnosed with this disease you see alls timers happens to be happens to be

timers happens to be happens to be

timers happens to be happens to be something that touches my life

something that touches my life

something that touches my life personally I myself am a caregiver and I

personally I myself am a caregiver and I

personally I myself am a caregiver and I know that unlike a parent where you’re

know that unlike a parent where you’re

know that unlike a parent where you’re assisting someone that is progressing in

assisting someone that is progressing in

assisting someone that is progressing in their life I’m assisting and take care

their life I’m assisting and take care

their life I’m assisting and take care of someone that is actually digressing

of someone that is actually digressing

of someone that is actually digressing in life but I also know that I’m not the

in life but I also know that I’m not the

in life but I also know that I’m not the norm

norm

norm you see majority of your caregivers

you see majority of your caregivers

you see majority of your caregivers unfortunately cannot hold their

unfortunately cannot hold their

unfortunately cannot hold their professional job majority of your

professional job majority of your

professional job majority of your caregivers either can die before and/or

caregivers either can die before and/or

caregivers either can die before and/or shortly after the individual that

shortly after the individual that

shortly after the individual that they’re taking care of that may have

they’re taking care of that may have

they’re taking care of that may have Alzheimer’s one of the most challenging

Alzheimer’s one of the most challenging

Alzheimer’s one of the most challenging pieces for me to be able to wrap my mind

pieces for me to be able to wrap my mind

pieces for me to be able to wrap my mind around is

around is

around is that with the disease such as

that with the disease such as

that with the disease such as Alzheimer’s it’s taking the most

Alzheimer’s it’s taking the most

Alzheimer’s it’s taking the most precious part that make you and I us we

precious part that make you and I us we

precious part that make you and I us we as a community people Homo sapiens

as a community people Homo sapiens

as a community people Homo sapiens however you wanted to find it unique but

however you wanted to find it unique but

however you wanted to find it unique but yet when we truly think about it what

yet when we truly think about it what

yet when we truly think about it what makes a difference or what is the

makes a difference or what is the

makes a difference or what is the difference between someone that is

difference between someone that is

difference between someone that is elderly and someone that’s young again

elderly and someone that’s young again

elderly and someone that’s young again you’re taking you’re developing for a

you’re taking you’re developing for a

you’re taking you’re developing for a child who is further developing it to

child who is further developing it to

child who is further developing it to our society to contribute while you have

our society to contribute while you have

our society to contribute while you have someone that has Alzheimer’s or dementia

someone that has Alzheimer’s or dementia

someone that has Alzheimer’s or dementia and they’re slowly digressing right but

and they’re slowly digressing right but

and they’re slowly digressing right but they had that experience of being once

they had that experience of being once

they had that experience of being once an adult they’re within their physical

an adult they’re within their physical

an adult they’re within their physical body as an adult but yet their minds are

body as an adult but yet their minds are

body as an adult but yet their minds are slipping back to a child what a lot of

slipping back to a child what a lot of

slipping back to a child what a lot of people don’t realize is that this

people don’t realize is that this

people don’t realize is that this actually equates to real cost I’m in a

actually equates to real cost I’m in a

actually equates to real cost I’m in a very unique perspective which I’m in the

very unique perspective which I’m in the

very unique perspective which I’m in the business world and in the business world

business world and in the business world

business world and in the business world I understand numbers in detail you see

I understand numbers in detail you see

I understand numbers in detail you see there’s over 40 3.5 million caregivers

there’s over 40 3.5 million caregivers

there’s over 40 3.5 million caregivers that provide unpaid unpaid care each

that provide unpaid unpaid care each

that provide unpaid unpaid care each year and by the way these numbers are

year and by the way these numbers are

year and by the way these numbers are all conservative in 2015 there is a

all conservative in 2015 there is a

all conservative in 2015 there is a study ramp and it equates to four

study ramp and it equates to four

study ramp and it equates to four hundred and twenty billion dollars as

hundred and twenty billion dollars as

hundred and twenty billion dollars as far as an effect on our economy

alzheimer’s alone affects our economy

alzheimer’s alone affects our economy two hundred and sixty nine billion

two hundred and sixty nine billion

two hundred and sixty nine billion dollars and again this number is growing

dollars and again this number is growing

dollars and again this number is growing so what can we do you hear in the media

so what can we do you hear in the media

so what can we do you hear in the media you see it in the news we may have a

you see it in the news we may have a

you see it in the news we may have a cure or when it comes down the kids or

cure or when it comes down the kids or

cure or when it comes down the kids or anybody we want to solve world hunger

anybody we want to solve world hunger

anybody we want to solve world hunger although these are very important to

although these are very important to

although these are very important to focus on the big picture the big ideas

focus on the big picture the big ideas

focus on the big picture the big ideas while we’re focusing on this we’re

while we’re focusing on this we’re

while we’re focusing on this we’re forgetting about then the visuals that

forgetting about then the visuals that

forgetting about then the visuals that are truly providing that care on the

are truly providing that care on the

are truly providing that care on the local level

so geared with this additional knowledge

so geared with this additional knowledge what can I do as individual as a

what can I do as individual as a

what can I do as individual as a caregiver one of the most beneficial

caregiver one of the most beneficial

caregiver one of the most beneficial things is just simple acknowledgement

things is just simple acknowledgement

things is just simple acknowledgement acknowledgement that I’m not alone

acknowledgement that I’m not alone

acknowledgement that I’m not alone because you know a lot of my day to day

because you know a lot of my day to day

because you know a lot of my day to day operations its business it’s puppy

operations its business it’s puppy

operations its business it’s puppy communications with my puppy and or it’s

communications with my puppy and or it’s

communications with my puppy and or it’s 1950s to 1960s conversation with the

1950s to 1960s conversation with the

1950s to 1960s conversation with the person that I have a lot of respect for

person that I have a lot of respect for

person that I have a lot of respect for and then the visual that I love but that

and then the visual that I love but that

and then the visual that I love but that I know is not caught that I know is not

I know is not caught that I know is not

I know is not caught that I know is not caught up to the day to day a simple hug

caught up to the day to day a simple hug

caught up to the day to day a simple hug a simple listening ear and clear

a simple listening ear and clear

a simple listening ear and clear communications with your employer a lot

communications with your employer a lot

communications with your employer a lot of times as I’m visiting several

of times as I’m visiting several

of times as I’m visiting several different corporations I simply just

different corporations I simply just

different corporations I simply just have the conversation of what would

have the conversation of what would

have the conversation of what would occur if your top talent was a was to

occur if your top talent was a was to

occur if your top talent was a was to come down with this deadly disease maybe

come down with this deadly disease maybe

come down with this deadly disease maybe they don’t come down with this deadly

they don’t come down with this deadly

they don’t come down with this deadly disease what if your top talent or the

disease what if your top talent or the

disease what if your top talent or the middle or any of your talent had to

middle or any of your talent had to

middle or any of your talent had to actually become the caregiver how would

actually become the caregiver how would

actually become the caregiver how would that affect your actual organization for

that affect your actual organization for

that affect your actual organization for me I feel that although it’s okay to

me I feel that although it’s okay to

me I feel that although it’s okay to focus on the big picture

focus on the big picture

focus on the big picture I am confident though that where it

I am confident though that where it

I am confident though that where it really truly makes a difference is that

really truly makes a difference is that

really truly makes a difference is that if we start in our local community and

if we start in our local community and

if we start in our local community and what I mean by our local community is

what I mean by our local community is

what I mean by our local community is supporting not just our fellow neighbors

supporting not just our fellow neighbors

supporting not just our fellow neighbors our fellow parents that may be going

our fellow parents that may be going

our fellow parents that may be going through challenges or difficulty by

through challenges or difficulty by

through challenges or difficulty by providing care but by actually getting

providing care but by actually getting

providing care but by actually getting involved in a local organization that

involved in a local organization that

involved in a local organization that truly speaks and contributes to that

truly speaks and contributes to that

truly speaks and contributes to that local community you see because why

local community you see because why

local community you see because why while a lot of people like to focus on

while a lot of people like to focus on

while a lot of people like to focus on the big picture I truly believe the true

the big picture I truly believe the true

the big picture I truly believe the true change true change starts on the local

change true change starts on the local

change true change starts on the local level between you and I thank you

level between you and I thank you

level between you and I thank you [Applause]

you

you [Applause]

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