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Calling the Lifeguards | Brandon Rainey | TEDxCrenshaw


okay you know I mean like you really can

okay you know I mean like you really can swim raise hands okay that’s definitely

swim raise hands okay that’s definitely

swim raise hands okay that’s definitely not my reality but let me paint the

not my reality but let me paint the

not my reality but let me paint the scene on one side you had all of the

scene on one side you had all of the

scene on one side you had all of the swimmers they had their wristbands they

swimmers they had their wristbands they

swimmers they had their wristbands they were jumping and diving inside of the

were jumping and diving inside of the

were jumping and diving inside of the water basketball court was over here

water basketball court was over here

water basketball court was over here having a great time this particular day

having a great time this particular day

having a great time this particular day as I went swimming with my cousin I’m

as I went swimming with my cousin I’m

as I went swimming with my cousin I’m here in the shallow end with the non

here in the shallow end with the non

here in the shallow end with the non swimmers they tried to give me this

swimmers they tried to give me this

swimmers they tried to give me this floaty device but I felt like I was a

floaty device but I felt like I was a

floaty device but I felt like I was a little too cool for that so you know I

little too cool for that so you know I

little too cool for that so you know I said I got this as time went on I found

said I got this as time went on I found

said I got this as time went on I found myself starting to get a little more

myself starting to get a little more

myself starting to get a little more confident a little more comfortable I’m

confident a little more comfortable I’m

confident a little more comfortable I’m like swim walking you know I said

like swim walking you know I said

like swim walking you know I said something happened worse somehow I lost

something happened worse somehow I lost

something happened worse somehow I lost track of where I was the water started

track of where I was the water started

track of where I was the water started to become really really really tall and

to become really really really tall and

to become really really really tall and I started to panic and the words that I

I started to panic and the words that I

I started to panic and the words that I panicked I started to sink and I find

panicked I started to sink and I find

panicked I started to sink and I find myself screaming for help but they

myself screaming for help but they

myself screaming for help but they jumping in the water diving playing

jumping in the water diving playing

jumping in the water diving playing basketball over here over here that with

basketball over here over here that with

basketball over here over here that with the little floaty devices and the

the little floaty devices and the

the little floaty devices and the singing of this no one can see me or

singing of this no one can see me or

singing of this no one can see me or hear me and there’s no lifeguard on duty

hear me and there’s no lifeguard on duty

hear me and there’s no lifeguard on duty screaming for help

screaming for help

screaming for help my cousin he ends up seeing me and he

my cousin he ends up seeing me and he

my cousin he ends up seeing me and he makes a very big sacrifice and he jumps

makes a very big sacrifice and he jumps

makes a very big sacrifice and he jumps in the water and he saves my life he’s

in the water and he saves my life he’s

in the water and he saves my life he’s hot

hot

hot I mean he was like fully dressed French

I mean he was like fully dressed French

I mean he was like fully dressed French shoes pager on his uh his waist watch on

shoes pager on his uh his waist watch on

shoes pager on his uh his waist watch on his wrist but I think he made the right

his wrist but I think he made the right

his wrist but I think he made the right decision and jump in in save my life in

decision and jump in in save my life in

decision and jump in in save my life in our communities there are young people

our communities there are young people

our communities there are young people who

who

who found themselves in situations where all

found themselves in situations where all

found themselves in situations where all hail has started to break loose what

hail has started to break loose what

hail has started to break loose what used to be safe isn’t safe anymore and

used to be safe isn’t safe anymore and

used to be safe isn’t safe anymore and sometimes the water of life can seem so

sometimes the water of life can seem so

sometimes the water of life can seem so much that they find themselves in a

much that they find themselves in a

much that they find themselves in a situation where they’re drowning and

situation where they’re drowning and

situation where they’re drowning and they’re silently screaming but it seems

they’re silently screaming but it seems

they’re silently screaming but it seems as if no one can hear them see them or

as if no one can hear them see them or

as if no one can hear them see them or sometimes even care

repeat after me say where are the

repeat after me say where are the lifeguards fast for elementary school I

lifeguards fast for elementary school I

lifeguards fast for elementary school I was a terror you know Mom just got laid

was a terror you know Mom just got laid

was a terror you know Mom just got laid off so we had to wear pay less for a

off so we had to wear pay less for a

off so we had to wear pay less for a little bit I have a list and a little

little bit I have a list and a little

little bit I have a list and a little socially introverted so to get in

socially introverted so to get in

socially introverted so to get in trouble was my way to fit in got kicked

trouble was my way to fit in got kicked

trouble was my way to fit in got kicked out of one school gave another teacher a

out of one school gave another teacher a

out of one school gave another teacher a nervous breakdown

nervous breakdown

nervous breakdown then fourth grade Miss Kono’s class she

then fourth grade Miss Kono’s class she

then fourth grade Miss Kono’s class she gave us this writing assignment to

gave us this writing assignment to

gave us this writing assignment to create a story and share it with the

create a story and share it with the

create a story and share it with the class typically did my work so I did it

class typically did my work so I did it

class typically did my work so I did it and that’s when she realized that I had

and that’s when she realized that I had

and that’s when she realized that I had a gift for writing from then on instead

a gift for writing from then on instead

a gift for writing from then on instead of kicking me out of the class instead

of kicking me out of the class instead

of kicking me out of the class instead of sending me home so it forced me

of sending me home so it forced me

of sending me home so it forced me literally forced me to sit inside of the

literally forced me to sit inside of the

literally forced me to sit inside of the corner in the right stories and at the

corner in the right stories and at the

corner in the right stories and at the end I would have to share it to the

end I would have to share it to the

end I would have to share it to the class by the end of the school year I

class by the end of the school year I

class by the end of the school year I found myself begging her to write more

found myself begging her to write more

found myself begging her to write more and to share my stories with the rest of

and to share my stories with the rest of

and to share my stories with the rest of the class she ended up opening the doors

the class she ended up opening the doors

the class she ended up opening the doors that others would soon water that

that others would soon water that

that others would soon water that ingrained a statement that’s more than a

ingrained a statement that’s more than a

ingrained a statement that’s more than a cliche to me

cliche to me

cliche to me but it’s my reality that the arts saved

but it’s my reality that the arts saved

but it’s my reality that the arts saved my life Here I am typical young man

my life Here I am typical young man

my life Here I am typical young man single parent home amazing mother well

single parent home amazing mother well

single parent home amazing mother well friend system never met my dad I have

friend system never met my dad I have

friend system never met my dad I have this gift and I have this talent inside

this gift and I have this talent inside

this gift and I have this talent inside of me but I find myself afraid

of me but I find myself afraid

of me but I find myself afraid find myself insecure find myself going

find myself insecure find myself going

find myself insecure find myself going through certain moments of drowning and

through certain moments of drowning and

through certain moments of drowning and I needed something fast for 2007 21 year

I needed something fast for 2007 21 year

I needed something fast for 2007 21 year old teacher and out of all of the

old teacher and out of all of the

old teacher and out of all of the amazing students that I met along the

amazing students that I met along the

amazing students that I met along the journey one particular student comes to

journey one particular student comes to

journey one particular student comes to mind Kimberly I was introduced to her as

mind Kimberly I was introduced to her as

mind Kimberly I was introduced to her as a student who will wear all black she

a student who will wear all black she

a student who will wear all black she wasn’t eating and had cuts on our arms I

wasn’t eating and had cuts on our arms I

wasn’t eating and had cuts on our arms I really got to know her when hiding her

really got to know her when hiding her

really got to know her when hiding her in the auditorium from her abusive

in the auditorium from her abusive

in the auditorium from her abusive boyfriend because she refused to put out

boyfriend because she refused to put out

boyfriend because she refused to put out taking her home one day I met her mom

taking her home one day I met her mom

taking her home one day I met her mom because she pointed outside to her on

because she pointed outside to her on

because she pointed outside to her on the streets from there I learned her

the streets from there I learned her

the streets from there I learned her story of being a drug baby to group home

story of being a drug baby to group home

story of being a drug baby to group home to being adopted by her grandmother to

to being adopted by her grandmother to

to being adopted by her grandmother to her abusive boyfriend to being raped all

her abusive boyfriend to being raped all

her abusive boyfriend to being raped all before high school she had a gift she

before high school she had a gift she

before high school she had a gift she had a talent she took to the stage like

had a talent she took to the stage like

had a talent she took to the stage like fish to water

fish to water

fish to water and she didn’t perform to entertain but

and she didn’t perform to entertain but

and she didn’t perform to entertain but it was survival for her so here we are

it was survival for her so here we are

it was survival for her so here we are 2017 I ponder these questions in my mind

2017 I ponder these questions in my mind

2017 I ponder these questions in my mind as I think of all the businesses and

as I think of all the businesses and

as I think of all the businesses and corporations looking at the Millennials

corporations looking at the Millennials

corporations looking at the Millennials we’re studying how they would they eat

we’re studying how they would they eat

we’re studying how they would they eat we study how they dress we study what it

we study how they dress we study what it

we study how they dress we study what it is that they like and we’re building our

is that they like and we’re building our

is that they like and we’re building our brands on these young people but we’re

brands on these young people but we’re

brands on these young people but we’re not taking the time to notice that this

not taking the time to notice that this

not taking the time to notice that this fatherless generation is hurting in a

fatherless generation is hurting in a

fatherless generation is hurting in a time when our educational system is

time when our educational system is

time when our educational system is under attack when budgets are being

under attack when budgets are being

under attack when budgets are being ments when administrators teachers and

ments when administrators teachers and

ments when administrators teachers and programs are being eliminated to

programs are being eliminated to

programs are being eliminated to mitigate financial shortfalls thriving

mitigate financial shortfalls thriving

mitigate financial shortfalls thriving educational program that after-school

educational program that after-school

educational program that after-school programs barely exists these days and

programs barely exists these days and

programs barely exists these days and the ones that do typically cater to

the ones that do typically cater to

the ones that do typically cater to elementary and sometimes middle school

elementary and sometimes middle school

elementary and sometimes middle school but a lot of our high school and

but a lot of our high school and

but a lot of our high school and wandering young adults find themselves

wandering young adults find themselves

wandering young adults find themselves with no mentors no lifeguards

with no mentors no lifeguards

with no mentors no lifeguards after graduating from Morehouse College

after graduating from Morehouse College

after graduating from Morehouse College I made a commitment when I came back

I made a commitment when I came back

I made a commitment when I came back home that I would answer that call and

home that I would answer that call and

home that I would answer that call and be able to be sensitive enough to care

be able to be sensitive enough to care

be able to be sensitive enough to care but just like my teacher did just like

but just like my teacher did just like

but just like my teacher did just like my cousin when he jumped in the water to

my cousin when he jumped in the water to

my cousin when he jumped in the water to reach out and help with literally no

reach out and help with literally no

reach out and help with literally no money in my pocket I started a

money in my pocket I started a

money in my pocket I started a non-profit CBG arts our goal was to use

non-profit CBG arts our goal was to use

non-profit CBG arts our goal was to use the arts to change young people’s lives

the arts to change young people’s lives

the arts to change young people’s lives we stand on our commitment to use the

we stand on our commitment to use the

we stand on our commitment to use the arts to give them enriching and engaging

arts to give them enriching and engaging

arts to give them enriching and engaging experiences in the arts we believe that

experiences in the arts we believe that

experiences in the arts we believe that the arts serve as a mirror to society

the arts serve as a mirror to society

the arts serve as a mirror to society but also should serve as is conscience

but also should serve as is conscience

but also should serve as is conscience and we wanted to foster a community in a

and we wanted to foster a community in a

and we wanted to foster a community in a world where they could grow to be the

world where they could grow to be the

world where they could grow to be the Giants that they have been called to be

Giants that they have been called to be

Giants that they have been called to be currently serving over 200 young people

currently serving over 200 young people

currently serving over 200 young people we’ve been able to see them grow but

we’ve been able to see them grow but

we’ve been able to see them grow but then also not only graduate from high

then also not only graduate from high

then also not only graduate from high school college and go on to do stuff in

school college and go on to do stuff in

school college and go on to do stuff in TV Broadway and in educational world but

TV Broadway and in educational world but

TV Broadway and in educational world but to also give back one of the most

to also give back one of the most

to also give back one of the most humbling and most rewarding parts of the

humbling and most rewarding parts of the

humbling and most rewarding parts of the job is that 90% of our staff are former

job is that 90% of our staff are former

job is that 90% of our staff are former students who’ve now grown to be

students who’ve now grown to be

students who’ve now grown to be exceptional leaders and are giving back

exceptional leaders and are giving back

exceptional leaders and are giving back in our program and of course we’re not

in our program and of course we’re not

in our program and of course we’re not the only ones doing it on the community

the only ones doing it on the community

the only ones doing it on the community there are many nonprofits such as

there are many nonprofits such as

there are many nonprofits such as Brotherhood crusade young black scholars

Brotherhood crusade young black scholars

Brotherhood crusade young black scholars Pullum center all types of people who

Pullum center all types of people who

Pullum center all types of people who are giving back but what is more would

are giving back but what is more would

are giving back but what is more would have more leaders what if more

have more leaders what if more

have more leaders what if more politicians what if more church leaders

politicians what if more church leaders

politicians what if more church leaders made the decision to be sensitive enough

made the decision to be sensitive enough

made the decision to be sensitive enough to care and wanted to reach back and

to care and wanted to reach back and

to care and wanted to reach back and give but finally be patient enough for

give but finally be patient enough for

give but finally be patient enough for the harvest and oh boy is it a harvest I

the harvest and oh boy is it a harvest I

the harvest and oh boy is it a harvest I ended up adopting Kimberly as the

ended up adopting Kimberly as the

ended up adopting Kimberly as the daughter that I never had she graduated

daughter that I never had she graduated

daughter that I never had she graduated from college she’s currently on a

from college she’s currently on a

from college she’s currently on a full-ride scholarship in graduate school

she’s teaching undergrad writing and

she’s teaching undergrad writing and directing her own plays and traveling

directing her own plays and traveling

directing her own plays and traveling speaking to foster youth telling them a

speaking to foster youth telling them a

speaking to foster youth telling them a very familiar and story old story that I

very familiar and story old story that I

very familiar and story old story that I once shared with her then I was drowning

once shared with her then I was drowning

once shared with her then I was drowning but someone saw me and the arts

but someone saw me and the arts

but someone saw me and the arts saved my life she’s now able to tell

saved my life she’s now able to tell

saved my life she’s now able to tell them tell them those things she’s able

them tell them those things she’s able

them tell them those things she’s able to be able to spit those quotes like

to be able to spit those quotes like

to be able to spit those quotes like failure is not sin low aim is she’s able

failure is not sin low aim is she’s able

failure is not sin low aim is she’s able to tell those things like in what so

to tell those things like in what so

to tell those things like in what so everything you do strive to do it so

everything you do strive to do it so

everything you do strive to do it so well that no man living no man dead no

well that no man living no man dead no

well that no man living no man dead no man yet to be born can do it better and

man yet to be born can do it better and

man yet to be born can do it better and she and many other young people in our

she and many other young people in our

she and many other young people in our program will be able to reach far more

program will be able to reach far more

program will be able to reach far more people than I ever will but isn’t that

people than I ever will but isn’t that

people than I ever will but isn’t that isn’t that’s how supposed to be my

isn’t that’s how supposed to be my

isn’t that’s how supposed to be my ceiling should be their floor ladies and

ceiling should be their floor ladies and

ceiling should be their floor ladies and gentlemen boys and girls seething and

gentlemen boys and girls seething and

gentlemen boys and girls seething and the young I am begging you I am pleading

the young I am begging you I am pleading

the young I am begging you I am pleading to you today to be the lifeguards and

to you today to be the lifeguards and

to you today to be the lifeguards and other young people’s lives

other young people’s lives

other young people’s lives repeat after me if not me then who it’s

repeat after me if not me then who it’s

repeat after me if not me then who it’s not now then when I take the pledge to

not now then when I take the pledge to

not now then when I take the pledge to be the lifeguard on duty thank you

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