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good morning my name is Lisa Freeman and

good morning my name is Lisa Freeman and I’m a self-appointed badass social

I’m a self-appointed badass social

I’m a self-appointed badass social worker I own it and I am from the city

worker I own it and I am from the city

worker I own it and I am from the city of Pittsburgh and I live in a beautiful

of Pittsburgh and I live in a beautiful

of Pittsburgh and I live in a beautiful community of Manchester and my

community of Manchester and my

community of Manchester and my discussion today will be creating

discussion today will be creating

discussion today will be creating authentic relationships so starting with

authentic relationships so starting with

authentic relationships so starting with that the topic is be authentic be you

that the topic is be authentic be you

that the topic is be authentic be you and I’m going to travel through some of

and I’m going to travel through some of

and I’m going to travel through some of my stories and hopefully bring it in and

my stories and hopefully bring it in and

my stories and hopefully bring it in and tie it in but we’re going to talk about

tie it in but we’re going to talk about

tie it in but we’re going to talk about being authentic my name is Lisa Freeman

being authentic my name is Lisa Freeman

being authentic my name is Lisa Freeman I have over 30 years maybe 35 of social

I have over 30 years maybe 35 of social

I have over 30 years maybe 35 of social work experience I have a master’s two

work experience I have a master’s two

work experience I have a master’s two master’s degree 1 in social work one in

master’s degree 1 in social work one in

master’s degree 1 in social work one in public administration I have worked in

public administration I have worked in

public administration I have worked in every type of high-risk dangerous

every type of high-risk dangerous

every type of high-risk dangerous marginalized impoverished wealthy with

marginalized impoverished wealthy with

marginalized impoverished wealthy with the elitist with problems problems

the elitist with problems problems

the elitist with problems problems problems I’ve been a social worker with

problems I’ve been a social worker with

problems I’ve been a social worker with mental health where people have called

mental health where people have called

mental health where people have called me where there’s been a shooting that

me where there’s been a shooting that

me where there’s been a shooting that gangbangers have shot somebody and

gangbangers have shot somebody and

gangbangers have shot somebody and called me to come in can you talk to the

called me to come in can you talk to the

called me to come in can you talk to the family can you go talk to the neighbors

family can you go talk to the neighbors

family can you go talk to the neighbors there’s trauma and they need some

there’s trauma and they need some

there’s trauma and they need some release I’ve worked with people who have

release I’ve worked with people who have

release I’ve worked with people who have not had I worked with food banks helping

not had I worked with food banks helping

not had I worked with food banks helping people not be evicted helping people

people not be evicted helping people

people not be evicted helping people stay in their homes helping their

stay in their homes helping their

stay in their homes helping their children stay in their homes I testified

children stay in their homes I testified

children stay in their homes I testified at court hearings I have done it all I

at court hearings I have done it all I

at court hearings I have done it all I have been in the trenches for a long

have been in the trenches for a long

have been in the trenches for a long time

time

time but that’s a job and I had outcomes I

but that’s a job and I had outcomes I

but that’s a job and I had outcomes I had things that I had to do that not

had things that I had to do that not

had things that I had to do that not wasn’t necessarily being authentic that

wasn’t necessarily being authentic that

wasn’t necessarily being authentic that was my job this is how I become

was my job this is how I become

was my job this is how I become authentic in our garden with playing in

authentic in our garden with playing in

authentic in our garden with playing in the

the

the I’m a badass through the work I was

I’m a badass through the work I was

I’m a badass through the work I was gonna say superwoman I am – I keep

gonna say superwoman I am – I keep

gonna say superwoman I am – I keep putting those names to it

putting those names to it

putting those names to it superwoman social worker this is where I

superwoman social worker this is where I

superwoman social worker this is where I get my authenticity by playing in the

get my authenticity by playing in the

get my authenticity by playing in the dirt I love being in the mud I really

dirt I love being in the mud I really

dirt I love being in the mud I really really do being in the garden and the

really do being in the garden and the

really do being in the garden and the sunshine that’s where that’s where I do

sunshine that’s where that’s where I do

sunshine that’s where that’s where I do my real work and you’d be surprised how

my real work and you’d be surprised how

my real work and you’d be surprised how many people I’ve encountered so this

many people I’ve encountered so this

many people I’ve encountered so this this where it all started I have a

this where it all started I have a

this where it all started I have a garden in Manchester it started as a

garden in Manchester it started as a

garden in Manchester it started as a community school garden and we it’s

community school garden and we it’s

community school garden and we it’s partnered with one of the poorest

partnered with one of the poorest

partnered with one of the poorest schools in the Pittsburgh Public School

schools in the Pittsburgh Public School

schools in the Pittsburgh Public School District and it was intentionally meant

District and it was intentionally meant

District and it was intentionally meant to be an outdoor learning space where

to be an outdoor learning space where

to be an outdoor learning space where kids can grow and develop and nurture

kids can grow and develop and nurture

kids can grow and develop and nurture something a plant and then take care of

something a plant and then take care of

something a plant and then take care of it and then see the reward of a plant

it and then see the reward of a plant

it and then see the reward of a plant and the fruit that it’s produced and

and the fruit that it’s produced and

and the fruit that it’s produced and that was the premise we had 14 raised

that was the premise we had 14 raised

that was the premise we had 14 raised beds and makes the city came in and put

beds and makes the city came in and put

beds and makes the city came in and put him in overnight with trucks and dirts

him in overnight with trucks and dirts

him in overnight with trucks and dirts and we were ready to go and my house is

and we were ready to go and my house is

and we were ready to go and my house is a few doors of few blocks away from that

a few doors of few blocks away from that

a few doors of few blocks away from that and will literally when I’m in my mojo

and will literally when I’m in my mojo

and will literally when I’m in my mojo I’m walking on the back of my shoes my

I’m walking on the back of my shoes my

I’m walking on the back of my shoes my heels are exposed I’m probably Ashley

heels are exposed I’m probably Ashley

heels are exposed I’m probably Ashley probably looking like this with no

probably looking like this with no

probably looking like this with no makeup on mismatched clothes I’m looking

makeup on mismatched clothes I’m looking

makeup on mismatched clothes I’m looking like god only knows what mud itself

like god only knows what mud itself

like god only knows what mud itself walking mud so it started in my

walking mud so it started in my

walking mud so it started in my community the garden is right outside

community the garden is right outside

community the garden is right outside the basketball field where people

the basketball field where people

the basketball field where people congregate and I had a garbage can with

congregate and I had a garbage can with

congregate and I had a garbage can with the wheels on it I’m trying to get the

the wheels on it I’m trying to get the

the wheels on it I’m trying to get the mulch or whatever from my house and I’m

mulch or whatever from my house and I’m

mulch or whatever from my house and I’m rolling it back back and forth and I’ve

rolling it back back and forth and I’ve

rolling it back back and forth and I’ve been there for a while and it’s hot and

been there for a while and it’s hot and

been there for a while and it’s hot and sweaty and I’m walking back through the

sweaty and I’m walking back through the

sweaty and I’m walking back through the little Center and these gentlemen men

little Center and these gentlemen men

little Center and these gentlemen men and women were standing there young

and women were standing there young

and women were standing there young adults and I knew I liked today they’re

adults and I knew I liked today they’re

adults and I knew I liked today they’re waiting for me because I build my hand I

waiting for me because I build my hand I

waiting for me because I build my hand I talk to everybody like say hey but I was

talk to everybody like say hey but I was

talk to everybody like say hey but I was tired that day and I like they’re gonna

tired that day and I like they’re gonna

tired that day and I like they’re gonna they’re gonna get me like so I got right

they’re gonna get me like so I got right

they’re gonna get me like so I got right up to him and I just looked at like you

up to him and I just looked at like you

up to him and I just looked at like you know which one y’all gonna help me

know which one y’all gonna help me

know which one y’all gonna help me because I’m old enough to be your mother

because I’m old enough to be your mother

because I’m old enough to be your mother and they were smoking weed no I don’t

and they were smoking weed no I don’t

and they were smoking weed no I don’t care no judging

care no judging

care no judging I’m old enough to be your grandmother or

I’m old enough to be your grandmother or

I’m old enough to be your grandmother or your mother which way which one y’all

your mother which way which one y’all

your mother which way which one y’all know help me and they’re looking at me

know help me and they’re looking at me

know help me and they’re looking at me because it was ready to laugh as soon as

because it was ready to laugh as soon as

because it was ready to laugh as soon as I walked by and they said yes ma’am yes

I walked by and they said yes ma’am yes

I walked by and they said yes ma’am yes ma’am I’m gonna help you and he started

ma’am I’m gonna help you and he started

ma’am I’m gonna help you and he started he took the garbage can and he started

he took the garbage can and he started

he took the garbage can and he started rolling to my house and the other his

rolling to my house and the other his

rolling to my house and the other his friends that were there they start

friends that were there they start

friends that were there they start leveling and I turned back I said don’t

leveling and I turned back I said don’t

leveling and I turned back I said don’t laugh at him cuz I got a few more trips

laugh at him cuz I got a few more trips

laugh at him cuz I got a few more trips you all determine who’s gonna help me

you all determine who’s gonna help me

you all determine who’s gonna help me next by the time he got back to the

next by the time he got back to the

next by the time he got back to the guard he got he gladly helped me got

guard he got he gladly helped me got

guard he got he gladly helped me got back to the garden his friends were gone

back to the garden his friends were gone

back to the garden his friends were gone he helped me not once not twice not

he helped me not once not twice not

he helped me not once not twice not three times he didn’t ask me if I had a

three times he didn’t ask me if I had a

three times he didn’t ask me if I had a master’s degree can you help me he

master’s degree can you help me he

master’s degree can you help me he didn’t ask me about my background I

didn’t ask me about my background I

didn’t ask me about my background I don’t know his name and he doesn’t know

don’t know his name and he doesn’t know

don’t know his name and he doesn’t know mine but when he sees me today I know he

mine but when he sees me today I know he

mine but when he sees me today I know he has a baby how your baby doing when he

has a baby how your baby doing when he

has a baby how your baby doing when he sees me I’m like how you doing that

sees me I’m like how you doing that

sees me I’m like how you doing that relationship was authentic playing in

relationship was authentic playing in

relationship was authentic playing in the dirt when they see when that was

the dirt when they see when that was

the dirt when they see when that was five years ago when they saw me like the

five years ago when they saw me like the

five years ago when they saw me like the lady with the crazy hair they know me

lady with the crazy hair they know me

lady with the crazy hair they know me like that

like that

like that the Jamaican they call me all kind of

the Jamaican they call me all kind of

the Jamaican they call me all kind of thing she’s not from Africa but when the

thing she’s not from Africa but when the

thing she’s not from Africa but when the the when they saw me over there like

the when they saw me over there like

the when they saw me over there like don’t be don’t be smoking that we cuz

don’t be don’t be smoking that we cuz

don’t be don’t be smoking that we cuz she’s over there in that garden you know

she’s over there in that garden you know

she’s over there in that garden you know turn that music down Izzie boom boom

turn that music down Izzie boom boom

turn that music down Izzie boom boom she’s over in that guard don’t do all

she’s over in that guard don’t do all

she’s over in that guard don’t do all that and they’d see me I’m like okay I’m

that and they’d see me I’m like okay I’m

that and they’d see me I’m like okay I’m sweating again I’m moving around like

sweating again I’m moving around like

sweating again I’m moving around like hey you come over here and they like who

hey you come over here and they like who

hey you come over here and they like who me oh yeah come over here cuz they’d sit

me oh yeah come over here cuz they’d sit

me oh yeah come over here cuz they’d sit on that table and they look at me as I

on that table and they look at me as I

on that table and they look at me as I yeah you come over here and he said yes

yeah you come over here and he said yes

yeah you come over here and he said yes ma’am when they talk to start talking

ma’am when they talk to start talking

ma’am when they talk to start talking yes ma’am that’s when you know you got

yes ma’am that’s when you know you got

yes ma’am that’s when you know you got him right he didn’t know me I didn’t

him right he didn’t know me I didn’t

him right he didn’t know me I didn’t know him he’s a yes ma’am I said come

know him he’s a yes ma’am I said come

know him he’s a yes ma’am I said come here hold his hose you ain’t doing

here hold his hose you ain’t doing

here hold his hose you ain’t doing nothing start walking the court held the

nothing start walking the court held the

nothing start walking the court held the hose and after a while I realized I

hose and after a while I realized I

hose and after a while I realized I didn’t hear no bumpety bumpety bumpety I

didn’t hear no bumpety bumpety bumpety I

didn’t hear no bumpety bumpety bumpety I didn’t smell no smoking I didn’t see no

didn’t smell no smoking I didn’t see no

didn’t smell no smoking I didn’t see no activity going and they started to be

activity going and they started to be

activity going and they started to be pulled into the garden they own that

pulled into the garden they own that

pulled into the garden they own that space like you know look how it was

space like you know look how it was

space like you know look how it was pristine it was beautiful

pristine it was beautiful

pristine it was beautiful nothing that’s out of place you know

nothing that’s out of place you know

nothing that’s out of place you know that was their space this is my space we

that was their space this is my space we

that was their space this is my space we respected each other there was no eye

respected each other there was no eye

respected each other there was no eye judging what y’all doing you need to

judging what y’all doing you need to

judging what y’all doing you need to stop none of that

stop none of that

stop none of that so being authentic I still don’t know

so being authentic I still don’t know

so being authentic I still don’t know their names and they don’t know mine but

their names and they don’t know mine but

their names and they don’t know mine but they know how to find me or help me like

they know how to find me or help me like

they know how to find me or help me like that’s you know the woman with that’s

that’s you know the woman with that’s

that’s you know the woman with that’s how they probably did Jamaican or they

how they probably did Jamaican or they

how they probably did Jamaican or they know my husband Wallace said that’s

know my husband Wallace said that’s

know my husband Wallace said that’s Wallace absent woman as Wallace ops girl

Wallace absent woman as Wallace ops girl

Wallace absent woman as Wallace ops girl so as we went on the kids we did all

so as we went on the kids we did all

so as we went on the kids we did all kind of things with the schools we took

kind of things with the schools we took

kind of things with the schools we took to worked with the public school

to worked with the public school

to worked with the public school everybody in that school was poor got

everybody in that school was poor got

everybody in that school was poor got 100% free lunch and they worked on it

100% free lunch and they worked on it

100% free lunch and they worked on it for a few years the mayor came back

for a few years the mayor came back

for a few years the mayor came back because initially our funding was a

because initially our funding was a

because initially our funding was a thousand dollars I think to start it the

thousand dollars I think to start it the

thousand dollars I think to start it the mayor we asked him to come and take some

mayor we asked him to come and take some

mayor we asked him to come and take some pictures and acknowledge and thank him

pictures and acknowledge and thank him

pictures and acknowledge and thank him for his work and it was former mayor

for his work and it was former mayor

for his work and it was former mayor Luke Ravenstahl he came to the school

Luke Ravenstahl he came to the school

Luke Ravenstahl he came to the school that day and the kids had never no one

that day and the kids had never no one

that day and the kids had never no one had visited that school and he was a

had visited that school and he was a

had visited that school and he was a fatigue kind of white guy I think he’s

fatigue kind of white guy I think he’s

fatigue kind of white guy I think he’s Irish I’m not sure real pale and a sea

Irish I’m not sure real pale and a sea

Irish I’m not sure real pale and a sea of black kids came out and they were in

of black kids came out and they were in

of black kids came out and they were in the garden and we have a high population

the garden and we have a high population

the garden and we have a high population of children with special needs

of children with special needs

of children with special needs they stood rounded him all these black

they stood rounded him all these black

they stood rounded him all these black faces of kids all the white teachers

faces of kids all the white teachers

faces of kids all the white teachers engaged wheelchairs in front and he was

engaged wheelchairs in front and he was

engaged wheelchairs in front and he was standing in the middle those kids were

standing in the middle those kids were

standing in the middle those kids were so grateful they made that mayor feel

so grateful they made that mayor feel

so grateful they made that mayor feel like a rockstar and he was like yes this

like a rockstar and he was like yes this

like a rockstar and he was like yes this is what this is how it should be and our

is what this is how it should be and our

is what this is how it should be and our garden received his acclamations and he

garden received his acclamations and he

garden received his acclamations and he we were the model garden for all school

we were the model garden for all school

we were the model garden for all school schoolyard Gardens they use our garden

schoolyard Gardens they use our garden

schoolyard Gardens they use our garden as the model I was so happy and we built

as the model I was so happy and we built

as the model I was so happy and we built up that garden for years and we had

up that garden for years and we had

up that garden for years and we had programming going on we reached out to

programming going on we reached out to

programming going on we reached out to the community we brought in the Y and we

the community we brought in the Y and we

the community we brought in the Y and we had children’s cooking table they would

had children’s cooking table they would

had children’s cooking table they would learn in the garden how to cook and eat

learn in the garden how to cook and eat

learn in the garden how to cook and eat nutritiously and then the garden was

nutritiously and then the garden was

nutritiously and then the garden was pristine it looked like a Garden of Eden

pristine it looked like a Garden of Eden

pristine it looked like a Garden of Eden when you’re trying to do something

when you’re trying to do something

when you’re trying to do something authentic we didn’t put out any

authentic we didn’t put out any

authentic we didn’t put out any words there was no advertising no

words there was no advertising no

words there was no advertising no nothing nobody knew my name I didn’t

nothing nobody knew my name I didn’t

nothing nobody knew my name I didn’t know their name but people excuse me

know their name but people excuse me

know their name but people excuse me people started to tell her story when

people started to tell her story when

people started to tell her story when you’re being authentic

you’re being authentic

you’re being authentic sometimes it cost you one day after five

sometimes it cost you one day after five

sometimes it cost you one day after five years of hard work or sweat equity my

years of hard work or sweat equity my

years of hard work or sweat equity my husband is gone out there five o’clock

husband is gone out there five o’clock

husband is gone out there five o’clock in the morning to cut the grass or what

in the morning to cut the grass or what

in the morning to cut the grass or what have you

have you

have you weeding tending and open son 14 raised

weeding tending and open son 14 raised

weeding tending and open son 14 raised beds program when we got we did not we

beds program when we got we did not we

beds program when we got we did not we do not get funding even to this day we

do not get funding even to this day we

do not get funding even to this day we do it as a service back to the community

do it as a service back to the community

do it as a service back to the community I got a phone call and I’m really

I got a phone call and I’m really

I got a phone call and I’m really totally new they say I’ve been in my

totally new they say I’ve been in my

totally new they say I’ve been in my community for ten years I got a phone

community for ten years I got a phone

community for ten years I got a phone call actually my neighbor got the phone

call actually my neighbor got the phone

call actually my neighbor got the phone call and said Miss Lee said Miss Lisa

call and said Miss Lee said Miss Lisa

call and said Miss Lee said Miss Lisa somebody’s down there in the garden with

somebody’s down there in the garden with

somebody’s down there in the garden with a laundry basket and she got all the

a laundry basket and she got all the

a laundry basket and she got all the tomatoes so and so called me and told

tomatoes so and so called me and told

tomatoes so and so called me and told call Miss Lisa when you’re trying to be

call Miss Lisa when you’re trying to be

call Miss Lisa when you’re trying to be authentic there’s some people that don’t

authentic there’s some people that don’t

authentic there’s some people that don’t understand it’s not about a green tomato

understand it’s not about a green tomato

understand it’s not about a green tomato it’s not about a red tomato

it’s not about a red tomato

it’s not about a red tomato it’s how about we help each other so I

it’s how about we help each other so I

it’s how about we help each other so I kind of upset like all this that we

kind of upset like all this that we

kind of upset like all this that we invest it people just don’t understand

invest it people just don’t understand

invest it people just don’t understand it’s freely there’s no fence so I kind

it’s freely there’s no fence so I kind

it’s freely there’s no fence so I kind of got mad and this is part of being

of got mad and this is part of being

of got mad and this is part of being authentic it happens we moved from that

authentic it happens we moved from that

authentic it happens we moved from that guard and I quit sometimes you get tired

guard and I quit sometimes you get tired

guard and I quit sometimes you get tired and I just quit I had enough five years

and I just quit I had enough five years

and I just quit I had enough five years of my time my labor and my sweat equity

of my time my labor and my sweat equity

of my time my labor and my sweat equity my husband cutting this doing free

my husband cutting this doing free

my husband cutting this doing free program everything was free making these

program everything was free making these

program everything was free making these relationships I just said that’s it I

relationships I just said that’s it I

relationships I just said that’s it I quit everybody covered it this garden

quit everybody covered it this garden

quit everybody covered it this garden anyway because it was always beautiful

anyway because it was always beautiful

anyway because it was always beautiful and I was someone will take it over

and I was someone will take it over

and I was someone will take it over before I could really quit another

before I could really quit another

before I could really quit another position or another location came

position or another location came

position or another location came available and it had a fence and I put a

available and it had a fence and I put a

available and it had a fence and I put a lock on it and we someone said hurt hurt

lock on it and we someone said hurt hurt

lock on it and we someone said hurt hurt about me

about me

about me cuz when you when you’re authentic

cuz when you when you’re authentic

cuz when you when you’re authentic people tell your story when you’re doing

people tell your story when you’re doing

people tell your story when you’re doing it from the heart

it from the heart

it from the heart other people broadcast we never

other people broadcast we never

other people broadcast we never advertise we always think the ones who

advertise we always think the ones who

advertise we always think the ones who helped us in our new garden we have 41

helped us in our new garden we have 41

helped us in our new garden we have 41 raised beds and they’re octagon-shaped

raised beds and they’re octagon-shaped

so many corners and then there’s so many

so many corners and then there’s so many heights so many feet up one feet two

heights so many feet up one feet two

heights so many feet up one feet two feet three feet so it has like an

feet three feet so it has like an

feet three feet so it has like an artistic element to it and I worked at

artistic element to it and I worked at

artistic element to it and I worked at that time I work forty hour week jobs

that time I work forty hour week jobs

that time I work forty hour week jobs most people thought this was my hobby

most people thought this was my hobby

most people thought this was my hobby but again we planted a full farmers

but again we planted a full farmers

but again we planted a full farmers market and it was three

market and it was three

market and it was three we provided community healthy eating

we provided community healthy eating

we provided community healthy eating people we partnered with someone free

people we partnered with someone free

people we partnered with someone free they came out and cooked healthy meals

they came out and cooked healthy meals

they came out and cooked healthy meals and taught us how to cook and then gave

and taught us how to cook and then gave

and taught us how to cook and then gave the families who participated the full

the families who participated the full

the families who participated the full meal and recipe to go home and cook for

meal and recipe to go home and cook for

meal and recipe to go home and cook for their children we had some of these

their children we had some of these

their children we had some of these gentlemen are my neighbors and they had

gentlemen are my neighbors and they had

gentlemen are my neighbors and they had their little band that they came

their little band that they came

their little band that they came together we have community events we

together we have community events we

together we have community events we have celebrations we had a Jamaican and

have celebrations we had a Jamaican and

have celebrations we had a Jamaican and we had a Rasta van we had light night

we had a Rasta van we had light night

we had a Rasta van we had light night out we had the police we had we partner

out we had the police we had we partner

out we had the police we had we partner that’s how we work and and we partner

that’s how we work and and we partner

that’s how we work and and we partner and one story that I just want to make

and one story that I just want to make

and one story that I just want to make sure I don’t forget being authentic

sure I don’t forget being authentic

sure I don’t forget being authentic sometimes what caught whoa cost you and

sometimes what caught whoa cost you and

sometimes what caught whoa cost you and when you call yourself authentic I’m

when you call yourself authentic I’m

when you call yourself authentic I’m getting a little head I’ll wait a little

getting a little head I’ll wait a little

getting a little head I’ll wait a little bit this is my friend Kenneth and

bit this is my friend Kenneth and

bit this is my friend Kenneth and Kenneth has some challenges and kids

Kenneth has some challenges and kids

Kenneth has some challenges and kids just love coming to the garden when I

just love coming to the garden when I

just love coming to the garden when I open those doors to the gate people just

open those doors to the gate people just

open those doors to the gate people just come in

come in

come in Kenneth came in Kenneth just wanted to

Kenneth came in Kenneth just wanted to

Kenneth came in Kenneth just wanted to plant basil my bouquet couldn’t plant

plant basil my bouquet couldn’t plant

plant basil my bouquet couldn’t plant your basil because miss Lisa I love

your basil because miss Lisa I love

your basil because miss Lisa I love pesto and we got to have some pesto I

pesto and we got to have some pesto I

pesto and we got to have some pesto I want my own pesto Kenneth came in and

want my own pesto Kenneth came in and

want my own pesto Kenneth came in and planned his pesto and he brought another

planned his pesto and he brought another

planned his pesto and he brought another friend and then that friend bought

friend and then that friend bought

friend and then that friend bought another friend and it was time to

another friend and it was time to

another friend and it was time to harvest pesto

harvest pesto

harvest pesto Kenneth’s made the pesto and there a

Kenneth’s made the pesto and there a

Kenneth’s made the pesto and there a friend came and wrote an article they

friend came and wrote an article they

friend came and wrote an article they became a support group and published

became a support group and published

became a support group and published several articles about the health and

several articles about the health and

several articles about the health and the benefits of this garden that article

the benefits of this garden that article

the benefits of this garden that article brought more attention now again we

brought more attention now again we

brought more attention now again we don’t broadcast we’re being truly

don’t broadcast we’re being truly

don’t broadcast we’re being truly authentic whoever so whoever so lil

authentic whoever so whoever so lil

authentic whoever so whoever so lil comes in where we’re located at it’s a

comes in where we’re located at it’s a

comes in where we’re located at it’s a bus stop and

bus stop and

bus stop and pregnant addicted women have to go and

pregnant addicted women have to go and

pregnant addicted women have to go and get methadone treatment and that bus

get methadone treatment and that bus

get methadone treatment and that bus stop is right outside our fence when the

stop is right outside our fence when the

stop is right outside our fence when the fence is open they just naturally come

fence is open they just naturally come

fence is open they just naturally come in I’m not doing any therapeutic

in I’m not doing any therapeutic

in I’m not doing any therapeutic counseling I’m not doing my MSW my let

counseling I’m not doing my MSW my let

counseling I’m not doing my MSW my let me talk about how political or let me

me talk about how political or let me

me talk about how political or let me tell you how that we’re just talking I

tell you how that we’re just talking I

tell you how that we’re just talking I see you you see me I don’t know their

see you you see me I don’t know their

see you you see me I don’t know their names they don’t know mine they know me

names they don’t know mine they know me

names they don’t know mine they know me by the hair and the one this is two

by the hair and the one this is two

by the hair and the one this is two story one lady like I didn’t ask her

story one lady like I didn’t ask her

story one lady like I didn’t ask her where but I know there’s pregnant women

where but I know there’s pregnant women

where but I know there’s pregnant women there she says I just want to come in I

there she says I just want to come in I

there she says I just want to come in I want to come in I just I just need to be

want to come in I just I just need to be

want to come in I just I just need to be by the dirt like oh this is so beautiful

by the dirt like oh this is so beautiful

by the dirt like oh this is so beautiful and it’s so calming and there’s just

and it’s so calming and there’s just

and it’s so calming and there’s just being her and this oh the plants are so

being her and this oh the plants are so

being her and this oh the plants are so luscious just me and her and then she

luscious just me and her and then she

luscious just me and her and then she begins to eat the dirt oh I just love

begins to eat the dirt oh I just love

begins to eat the dirt oh I just love dirt there are some things where when

dirt there are some things where when

dirt there are some things where when you’re pregnant you eat kind of strange

you’re pregnant you eat kind of strange

you’re pregnant you eat kind of strange things but she started eating the dirt

things but she started eating the dirt

things but she started eating the dirt I’m looking at all right please don’t

I’m looking at all right please don’t

I’m looking at all right please don’t eat that dirt but I just need that dirt

eat that dirt but I just need that dirt

eat that dirt but I just need that dirt she’s got mud all over her face like

she’s got mud all over her face like

she’s got mud all over her face like please don’t eat that dirt but I just

please don’t eat that dirt but I just

please don’t eat that dirt but I just need this dirt like oh god I’m over my

need this dirt like oh god I’m over my

need this dirt like oh god I’m over my head with this one all right please

head with this one all right please

head with this one all right please don’t eat that dirt because more likely

don’t eat that dirt because more likely

don’t eat that dirt because more likely this cow manure in there and we start

this cow manure in there and we start

this cow manure in there and we start talking about real issues and you know

talking about real issues and you know

talking about real issues and you know like okay like you need your children

like okay like you need your children

like okay like you need your children people are methadone and their support

people are methadone and their support

people are methadone and their support systems are broken they don’t have

systems are broken they don’t have

systems are broken they don’t have family support soon that’s why methadone

family support soon that’s why methadone

family support soon that’s why methadone treatment goes on it’s not meant to cure

treatment goes on it’s not meant to cure

treatment goes on it’s not meant to cure it just sustains people the people my

it just sustains people the people my

it just sustains people the people my authenticity I see you people on the

authenticity I see you people on the

authenticity I see you people on the margins are badass kids I lovingly call

margins are badass kids I lovingly call

margins are badass kids I lovingly call them that with the ankle bracelets there

them that with the ankle bracelets there

them that with the ankle bracelets there there we sit there we talk my husband

there we sit there we talk my husband

there we sit there we talk my husband and I were Ward and Lisa we had the

and I were Ward and Lisa we had the

and I were Ward and Lisa we had the grown men from the penn state

grown men from the penn state

grown men from the penn state correctional penn state the state

correctional penn state the state

correctional penn state the state correctional office

correctional office

correctional office grown men i was warden lisa on the

grown men i was warden lisa on the

grown men i was warden lisa on the weekend I had to keep them in line I was

weekend I had to keep them in line I was

weekend I had to keep them in line I was there like okay I’m getting off track

there like okay I’m getting off track

there like okay I’m getting off track back to my family when you start doing

back to my family when you start doing

back to my family when you start doing things authentic people recognize you we

things authentic people recognize you we

things authentic people recognize you we talked about the weed smoking mr. Willie

talked about the weed smoking mr. Willie

talked about the weed smoking mr. Willie Nelson himself and I didn’t even know

Nelson himself and I didn’t even know

Nelson himself and I didn’t even know that mr. marijuana man himself called me

that mr. marijuana man himself called me

that mr. marijuana man himself called me and said oh I want you to present with

and said oh I want you to present with

and said oh I want you to present with me and for me

me and for me

me and for me 2017 me how do you even know me someone

2017 me how do you even know me someone

2017 me how do you even know me someone had given me given him my contact Who am

had given me given him my contact Who am

had given me given him my contact Who am I I’m just playing in the dirt so that

I I’m just playing in the dirt so that

I I’m just playing in the dirt so that marijuana people smoking weed I went to

marijuana people smoking weed I went to

marijuana people smoking weed I went to the top of the line and he baptized me

the top of the line and he baptized me

the top of the line and he baptized me as an urban farmer and now I am somebody

as an urban farmer and now I am somebody

as an urban farmer and now I am somebody and here I actually am somebody put it

and here I actually am somebody put it

and here I actually am somebody put it out there I didn’t put it out there now

out there I didn’t put it out there now

out there I didn’t put it out there now when you’re a badass and when you’re

when you’re a badass and when you’re

when you’re a badass and when you’re authentic you start to move into a place

authentic you start to move into a place

authentic you start to move into a place where it’s not what your job is it’s not

where it’s not what your job is it’s not

where it’s not what your job is it’s not to be seen nobody knows you but it’s a

to be seen nobody knows you but it’s a

to be seen nobody knows you but it’s a spiritual thing and some things that

spiritual thing and some things that

spiritual thing and some things that you’re doing inside of yourself and

you’re doing inside of yourself and

you’re doing inside of yourself and everybody here has some gifts some

everybody here has some gifts some

everybody here has some gifts some talents and most people don’t even know

talents and most people don’t even know

talents and most people don’t even know what those gifts and talents are only

what those gifts and talents are only

what those gifts and talents are only you and you only do it that’s you know

you and you only do it that’s you know

you and you only do it that’s you know you do it but think about that and this

you do it but think about that and this

you do it but think about that and this is where you get bold and you come up

is where you get bold and you come up

is where you get bold and you come up with big dreams this was a dream a

with big dreams this was a dream a

with big dreams this was a dream a building I bought this building because

building I bought this building because

building I bought this building because I wanted it for some children who are

I wanted it for some children who are

I wanted it for some children who are autistic so they could be in a place

autistic so they could be in a place

autistic so they could be in a place that would had four walls and it could

that would had four walls and it could

that would had four walls and it could be you safe for them to be out to play

be you safe for them to be out to play

be you safe for them to be out to play but the building had did a slow rot for

but the building had did a slow rot for

but the building had did a slow rot for 10 years and we couldn’t save it this

10 years and we couldn’t save it this

10 years and we couldn’t save it this building I post it because it’s 10,000

building I post it because it’s 10,000

building I post it because it’s 10,000 square feet and it was the biggest piece

square feet and it was the biggest piece

square feet and it was the biggest piece of blight where I lived

of blight where I lived

of blight where I lived I had my intensional thought was you

I had my intensional thought was you

I had my intensional thought was you know I’ll just kind of refigure it

know I’ll just kind of refigure it

know I’ll just kind of refigure it because um you know I like to save

because um you know I like to save

because um you know I like to save things and I just couldn’t save it and

things and I just couldn’t save it and

things and I just couldn’t save it and then I I don’t know what to do this is a

then I I don’t know what to do this is a

then I I don’t know what to do this is a fire truck if it went up I’m gonna be

fire truck if it went up I’m gonna be

fire truck if it went up I’m gonna be responsible somebody can get hurt this

responsible somebody can get hurt this

responsible somebody can get hurt this picture just threw relationships

picture just threw relationships

picture just threw relationships I made one call never met the person and

I made one call never met the person and

I made one call never met the person and I have to call their names out today

I have to call their names out today

I have to call their names out today mystic construction

mystic construction

mystic construction Job Corps of Allegheny County came and

Job Corps of Allegheny County came and

Job Corps of Allegheny County came and said Miss Lisa I’ll help you I’ve never

said Miss Lisa I’ll help you I’ve never

said Miss Lisa I’ll help you I’ve never met the people or job corps in passing

met the people or job corps in passing

met the people or job corps in passing like oh yeah we could do that we bring

like oh yeah we could do that we bring

like oh yeah we could do that we bring our kids out there we’ll do that

our kids out there we’ll do that

our kids out there we’ll do that and we had to cut through a lot of

and we had to cut through a lot of

and we had to cut through a lot of bureaucracy because things wasn’t

bureaucracy because things wasn’t

bureaucracy because things wasn’t working this is me young man he said I

working this is me young man he said I

working this is me young man he said I don’t know how we’re going to get to

don’t know how we’re going to get to

don’t know how we’re going to get to this we’re almost at the end but we got

this we’re almost at the end but we got

this we’re almost at the end but we got this one hang up that’s one person a

this one hang up that’s one person a

this one hang up that’s one person a black man probably younger than me we

black man probably younger than me we

black man probably younger than me we met in the office and he said he put his

met in the office and he said he put his

met in the office and he said he put his contracting license his bread-and-butter

contracting license his bread-and-butter

contracting license his bread-and-butter his livelihood his children’s future on

his livelihood his children’s future on

his livelihood his children’s future on stake on the line for me I had not ever

stake on the line for me I had not ever

stake on the line for me I had not ever met him in my life oh I’ll do this for

met him in my life oh I’ll do this for

met him in my life oh I’ll do this for you

you

you yes ma’am again when you hear that yes

yes ma’am again when you hear that yes

yes ma’am again when you hear that yes ma’am yes ma’am if anything would have

ma’am yes ma’am if anything would have

ma’am yes ma’am if anything would have went wrong that man would have been out

went wrong that man would have been out

went wrong that man would have been out of business his whole life would have

of business his whole life would have

of business his whole life would have been over but he said yes ma’am we I

been over but he said yes ma’am we I

been over but he said yes ma’am we I hear your mission I know what you’re

hear your mission I know what you’re

hear your mission I know what you’re talking about yes ma’am I’ll do that for

talking about yes ma’am I’ll do that for

talking about yes ma’am I’ll do that for you

you

you so today thank you to them people who

so today thank you to them people who

so today thank you to them people who are CENTAC my last slide building

are CENTAC my last slide building

are CENTAC my last slide building authentic relationships if you’re

authentic relationships if you’re

authentic relationships if you’re looking at the word authentic look at it

looking at the word authentic look at it

looking at the word authentic look at it cuz I’m learning now I’m grandma here

cuz I’m learning now I’m grandma here

cuz I’m learning now I’m grandma here and thank God I made it through the

and thank God I made it through the

and thank God I made it through the slide that I’m over time look at the

slide that I’m over time look at the

slide that I’m over time look at the word authentic au th en TI authentic you

word authentic au th en TI authentic you

word authentic au th en TI authentic you have to look at the eye because in order

have to look at the eye because in order

have to look at the eye because in order to be authentic you yourself it has to

to be authentic you yourself it has to

to be authentic you yourself it has to start with you your gifts and your

start with you your gifts and your

start with you your gifts and your talents they start with you those things

talents they start with you those things

talents they start with you those things that you’re doing and in secret those

that you’re doing and in secret those

that you’re doing and in secret those things that bring you joy that’s what

things that bring you joy that’s what

things that bring you joy that’s what you should be doing not to make money

you should be doing not to make money

you should be doing not to make money but to be authentic and to do something

but to be authentic and to do something

but to be authentic and to do something wonderful and courageous and when you

wonderful and courageous and when you

wonderful and courageous and when you start doing your authentic thing things

start doing your authentic thing things

start doing your authentic thing things just happen people recognize you you

just happen people recognize you you

just happen people recognize you you don’t have to promote it

don’t have to promote it

don’t have to promote it we’re not that I is not authentic and

we’re not that I is not authentic and

we’re not that I is not authentic and where it’s located don’t wait until you

where it’s located don’t wait until you

where it’s located don’t wait until you get to my age in life do this early be

get to my age in life do this early be

get to my age in life do this early be bad be bold have big thoughts have big

bad be bold have big thoughts have big

bad be bold have big thoughts have big dreams do it conquer it because you our

dreams do it conquer it because you our

dreams do it conquer it because you our younger generation is

younger generation is

younger generation is what is going to change our future my

what is going to change our future my

what is going to change our future my name is Lisa Freeman and I proudly am a

name is Lisa Freeman and I proudly am a

name is Lisa Freeman and I proudly am a badass social worker

badass social worker

badass social worker [Applause]

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