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Jumana and I met on the green grass of

Jumana and I met on the green grass of America it was a family potluck she was

America it was a family potluck she was

America it was a family potluck she was holding her baby boy I was holding mine

holding her baby boy I was holding mine

holding her baby boy I was holding mine she had the kind of dark beauty that I

she had the kind of dark beauty that I

she had the kind of dark beauty that I recognized from home so I walked up to

recognized from home so I walked up to

recognized from home so I walked up to her what’s his name

her what’s his name

her what’s his name Tamara and yours he died were you from

Tamara and yours he died were you from

Tamara and yours he died were you from Jerusalem near amel actually I’m from

Jerusalem near amel actually I’m from

Jerusalem near amel actually I’m from Jerusalem – her American has been

Jerusalem – her American has been

Jerusalem – her American has been stepped right in my wife is a

stepped right in my wife is a

stepped right in my wife is a Palestinian you know as if I didn’t know

Palestinian you know as if I didn’t know

Palestinian you know as if I didn’t know but I didn’t know if she’d want to talk

but I didn’t know if she’d want to talk

but I didn’t know if she’d want to talk to me you see I grew up in Jerusalem a

to me you see I grew up in Jerusalem a

to me you see I grew up in Jerusalem a proud Israeli Jew when my grandmother

proud Israeli Jew when my grandmother

proud Israeli Jew when my grandmother would hear the word Arab she’d say who

would hear the word Arab she’d say who

would hear the word Arab she’d say who he must mum may their name be erased her

he must mum may their name be erased her

he must mum may their name be erased her son my uncle was killed in the 1948 war

son my uncle was killed in the 1948 war

son my uncle was killed in the 1948 war for our independence I come from a place

for our independence I come from a place

for our independence I come from a place where the news is on the radio every

where the news is on the radio every

where the news is on the radio every hour and on the buses the drivers turned

hour and on the buses the drivers turned

hour and on the buses the drivers turned the volume up and all conversations

the volume up and all conversations

the volume up and all conversations stopped there’s always something bombs

stopped there’s always something bombs

stopped there’s always something bombs in the marketplace buses blowing up Wars

in the marketplace buses blowing up Wars

in the marketplace buses blowing up Wars but jimana and I watched our children

but jimana and I watched our children

but jimana and I watched our children grow up together on that green grass

grow up together on that green grass

grow up together on that green grass without the fear no one put it in words

without the fear no one put it in words

without the fear no one put it in words but each of us knew back home my son

but each of us knew back home my son

but each of us knew back home my son would grow up to go to the army and

would grow up to go to the army and

would grow up to go to the army and check IDs at roadblocks her son would

check IDs at roadblocks her son would

check IDs at roadblocks her son would grow up to arrive at the checkpoint and

grow up to arrive at the checkpoint and

grow up to arrive at the checkpoint and throw stones at the oppressor over the

throw stones at the oppressor over the

throw stones at the oppressor over the years jimana and I did start to talk but

years jimana and I did start to talk but

years jimana and I did start to talk but it was mostly mom stuff until one day as

it was mostly mom stuff until one day as

it was mostly mom stuff until one day as a storyteller I was creating a story

a storyteller I was creating a story

a storyteller I was creating a story from my memories of 3rd grade in the

from my memories of 3rd grade in the

from my memories of 3rd grade in the 1967 war when I realized I’ve known this

1967 war when I realized I’ve known this

1967 war when I realized I’ve known this woman now for seven years we both grew

woman now for seven years we both grew

woman now for seven years we both grew up in the same city not even five miles

up in the same city not even five miles

up in the same city not even five miles apart and I never heard

apart and I never heard

apart and I never heard what that war was like for her did she

what that war was like for her did she

what that war was like for her did she sleep with all the neighbors in the

sleep with all the neighbors in the

sleep with all the neighbors in the furnace room like I did did Palestinians

furnace room like I did did Palestinians

furnace room like I did did Palestinians even have a bomb shelter so I called her

even have a bomb shelter so I called her

even have a bomb shelter so I called her and she said the only memory I have for

and she said the only memory I have for

and she said the only memory I have for my childhood is fear

my childhood is fear

my childhood is fear I grew up under occupation I never met

I grew up under occupation I never met

I grew up under occupation I never met an Israeli who wasn’t a soldier or a

an Israeli who wasn’t a soldier or a

an Israeli who wasn’t a soldier or a settler until I met you she said I don’t

settler until I met you she said I don’t

settler until I met you she said I don’t have a story to tell

have a story to tell

have a story to tell look I’m not a typical case our house

look I’m not a typical case our house

look I’m not a typical case our house wasn’t demolished our trees were not

wasn’t demolished our trees were not

wasn’t demolished our trees were not approved and listen my people are being

approved and listen my people are being

approved and listen my people are being killed every single day and my life is

killed every single day and my life is

killed every single day and my life is sheltered I’m here I’m not a typical

sheltered I’m here I’m not a typical

sheltered I’m here I’m not a typical case why would you want to hear my story

case why would you want to hear my story

case why would you want to hear my story I said I never had a friend who was a

I said I never had a friend who was a

I said I never had a friend who was a Palestinian before I just want to know

Palestinian before I just want to know

Palestinian before I just want to know how it is so she said all right I don’t

how it is so she said all right I don’t

how it is so she said all right I don’t have a story but I’ll answer questions

have a story but I’ll answer questions

have a story but I’ll answer questions and so I asked questions about her

and so I asked questions about her

and so I asked questions about her school and her home and her family in

school and her home and her family in

school and her home and her family in the neighborhood and the stories came

the neighborhood and the stories came

the neighborhood and the stories came pouring out and for the first time in my

pouring out and for the first time in my

pouring out and for the first time in my life I heard what it actually feels like

life I heard what it actually feels like

life I heard what it actually feels like to be a Palestinian growing up under

to be a Palestinian growing up under

to be a Palestinian growing up under Israeli occupation she told me that when

Israeli occupation she told me that when

Israeli occupation she told me that when she was 10 she saw a 14 year old boy

she was 10 she saw a 14 year old boy

she was 10 she saw a 14 year old boy being beaten by soldiers and that was

being beaten by soldiers and that was

being beaten by soldiers and that was the first time in her life she

the first time in her life she

the first time in her life she understood the meaning of the word hate

understood the meaning of the word hate

understood the meaning of the word hate hearing this felt like someone just

hearing this felt like someone just

hearing this felt like someone just kicked me in the gut because those

kicked me in the gut because those

kicked me in the gut because those soldiers that terrified and haunted her

soldiers that terrified and haunted her

soldiers that terrified and haunted her entire childhood or our symbol of

entire childhood or our symbol of

entire childhood or our symbol of security our heroes everyone that I knew

security our heroes everyone that I knew

security our heroes everyone that I knew that turned 18 and went to the army

that turned 18 and went to the army

that turned 18 and went to the army including my brother my people were the

including my brother my people were the

including my brother my people were the vehm it was painful but I kept listening

vehm it was painful but I kept listening

vehm it was painful but I kept listening because she was telling me her story and

because she was telling me her story and

because she was telling me her story and eventually we began to talk about

eventually we began to talk about

eventually we began to talk about history and I said something that was

history and I said something that was

history and I said something that was the truth a historical fact and she said

the truth a historical fact and she said

the truth a historical fact and she said that’s not

that’s not

that’s not that Zionist propaganda and then she

that Zionist propaganda and then she

that Zionist propaganda and then she said something that was the truth a

said something that was the truth a

said something that was the truth a historical fact and I said that’s not

historical fact and I said that’s not

historical fact and I said that’s not the way it was that’s Arab propaganda we

the way it was that’s Arab propaganda we

the way it was that’s Arab propaganda we found ourselves arguing then she said

found ourselves arguing then she said

found ourselves arguing then she said look at us we’re becoming defensive we

look at us we’re becoming defensive we

look at us we’re becoming defensive we laughed I picked up the baby so she

laughed I picked up the baby so she

laughed I picked up the baby so she could make a soft-boiled egg for the

could make a soft-boiled egg for the

could make a soft-boiled egg for the other kids and we continued to talk and

other kids and we continued to talk and

other kids and we continued to talk and this experience our ability to continue

this experience our ability to continue

this experience our ability to continue to talk and hold on to our compassion in

to talk and hold on to our compassion in

to talk and hold on to our compassion in spite of differences it was so powerful

spite of differences it was so powerful

spite of differences it was so powerful it propelled me to create a live

it propelled me to create a live

it propelled me to create a live performance called

performance called

performance called and land twice promised where I tell our

and land twice promised where I tell our

and land twice promised where I tell our personal stories and the stories of our

personal stories and the stories of our

personal stories and the stories of our mothers that echo those contradicting

mothers that echo those contradicting

mothers that echo those contradicting national narratives of our people and

national narratives of our people and

national narratives of our people and soon after I began touring this show I

soon after I began touring this show I

soon after I began touring this show I realized that what I learned from this

realized that what I learned from this

realized that what I learned from this process could be useful for others and

process could be useful for others and

process could be useful for others and that my story is not just about two

that my story is not just about two

that my story is not just about two mothers meeting on the playground it’s

mothers meeting on the playground it’s

mothers meeting on the playground it’s not even about Israelis and Palestinians

not even about Israelis and Palestinians

not even about Israelis and Palestinians it’s about the power of storytelling and

it’s about the power of storytelling and

it’s about the power of storytelling and the power of listening to the story of

the power of listening to the story of

the power of listening to the story of the other even and especially when

the other even and especially when

the other even and especially when they’re different and their story

they’re different and their story

they’re different and their story difficult so I became interested in

difficult so I became interested in

difficult so I became interested in using storytelling as a peace building

using storytelling as a peace building

using storytelling as a peace building tool with a definition of peace expanded

tool with a definition of peace expanded

tool with a definition of peace expanded to include issues of diversity and

to include issues of diversity and

to include issues of diversity and bridging differences in our workplace

bridging differences in our workplace

bridging differences in our workplace and communities so what is it about

and communities so what is it about

and communities so what is it about storytelling that makes it useful to

storytelling that makes it useful to

storytelling that makes it useful to connect the cross differences we know

connect the cross differences we know

connect the cross differences we know that diverse voices and diverse

that diverse voices and diverse

that diverse voices and diverse abilities be it in the workplace or

abilities be it in the workplace or

abilities be it in the workplace or community contribute to greater

community contribute to greater

community contribute to greater performance and greater resilience but

performance and greater resilience but

performance and greater resilience but we all know that it is not easy to work

we all know that it is not easy to work

we all know that it is not easy to work or get along with those who are

or get along with those who are

or get along with those who are different who do not share our

different who do not share our

different who do not share our preferences and values it’s difficult

preferences and values it’s difficult

preferences and values it’s difficult because our brain is wired our brain is

because our brain is wired our brain is

because our brain is wired our brain is wired to keep us safe we have a

wired to keep us safe we have a

wired to keep us safe we have a biological inclination to seek belonging

biological inclination to seek belonging

biological inclination to seek belonging and bond with those who are most from

and bond with those who are most from

and bond with those who are most from failure the way a person looks speaks

failure the way a person looks speaks

failure the way a person looks speaks and even smells unconsciously alerts us

and even smells unconsciously alerts us

and even smells unconsciously alerts us to whether or not they are from our

to whether or not they are from our

to whether or not they are from our tribe and therefore safe and the more

tribe and therefore safe and the more

tribe and therefore safe and the more different someone seems the less real

different someone seems the less real

different someone seems the less real they become and the easier it is to

they become and the easier it is to

they become and the easier it is to label them and shut them out and because

label them and shut them out and because

label them and shut them out and because our brain is wired to keep us safe

our brain is wired to keep us safe

our brain is wired to keep us safe we are also attached to our cognitive

we are also attached to our cognitive

we are also attached to our cognitive constructs of the world our opinions our

constructs of the world our opinions our

constructs of the world our opinions our worldview it’s part of how we navigate

worldview it’s part of how we navigate

worldview it’s part of how we navigate life it’s part of our identity so in my

life it’s part of our identity so in my

life it’s part of our identity so in my way of looking at things is challenged

way of looking at things is challenged

way of looking at things is challenged by someone else’s it can feel

by someone else’s it can feel

by someone else’s it can feel threatening we either argue or we shut

threatening we either argue or we shut

threatening we either argue or we shut down and don’t engage but imagine if we

down and don’t engage but imagine if we

down and don’t engage but imagine if we could look at our differences not as a

could look at our differences not as a

could look at our differences not as a threat but as an opportunity what if we

threat but as an opportunity what if we

threat but as an opportunity what if we could bring people to listen not to

could bring people to listen not to

could bring people to listen not to concepts and opinions but to experience

concepts and opinions but to experience

concepts and opinions but to experience you see story is based in experience and

you see story is based in experience and

you see story is based in experience and when we open up to the experience the

when we open up to the experience the

when we open up to the experience the story of another human things begin to

story of another human things begin to

story of another human things begin to shift the first thing that shifts is the

shift the first thing that shifts is the

shift the first thing that shifts is the emotional connection in a very short

emotional connection in a very short

emotional connection in a very short time there’s a sense of trust and

time there’s a sense of trust and

time there’s a sense of trust and intimacy now we’re not talking becoming

intimacy now we’re not talking becoming

intimacy now we’re not talking becoming best friends forever but intimacy in the

best friends forever but intimacy in the

best friends forever but intimacy in the sense that you you know more about the

sense that you you know more about the

sense that you you know more about the person than the sum of the words

person than the sum of the words

person than the sum of the words exchanged between you I remember an

exchanged between you I remember an

exchanged between you I remember an interfaith workshop where a Jewish woman

interfaith workshop where a Jewish woman

interfaith workshop where a Jewish woman was partnered with a Muslim man and I

was partnered with a Muslim man and I

was partnered with a Muslim man and I watched at first her arms were like

watched at first her arms were like

watched at first her arms were like armor and her face a harsh resolve and

armor and her face a harsh resolve and

armor and her face a harsh resolve and as she listened her arms came down her

as she listened her arms came down her

as she listened her arms came down her face softened and then she turned to us

face softened and then she turned to us

face softened and then she turned to us and she said I can’t believe that was a

and she said I can’t believe that was a

and she said I can’t believe that was a three minute story I feel like I know

three minute story I feel like I know

three minute story I feel like I know this person and it’s the first time in

this person and it’s the first time in

this person and it’s the first time in my life I sat and talked face to face

my life I sat and talked face to face

my life I sat and talked face to face with an Islamic person it changed my

with an Islamic person it changed my

with an Islamic person it changed my life so this sense of into

life so this sense of into

life so this sense of into see and Trust is created not just by the

see and Trust is created not just by the

see and Trust is created not just by the content of the story at the process of

content of the story at the process of

content of the story at the process of being together in the same space and

being together in the same space and

being together in the same space and time sharing stories and this this

time sharing stories and this this

time sharing stories and this this process is the core attribute that sets

process is the core attribute that sets

process is the core attribute that sets storytelling apart because you see it’s

storytelling apart because you see it’s

storytelling apart because you see it’s not just about the story it’s about us

not just about the story it’s about us

not just about the story it’s about us that human connection that happens when

that human connection that happens when

that human connection that happens when we are in the same space face-to-face

we are in the same space face-to-face

we are in the same space face-to-face listening and being listened to is what

listening and being listened to is what

listening and being listened to is what creates transformation the second thing

creates transformation the second thing

creates transformation the second thing that happens when we open up to the

that happens when we open up to the

that happens when we open up to the experience of another human is the shift

experience of another human is the shift

experience of another human is the shift in the cognitive connection when we

in the cognitive connection when we

in the cognitive connection when we argue we present our opinions and we

argue we present our opinions and we

argue we present our opinions and we naturally become defensive because

naturally become defensive because

naturally become defensive because accepting your point of view means I

accepting your point of view means I

accepting your point of view means I have to change or invalidate mine but

have to change or invalidate mine but

have to change or invalidate mine but when we listen to a story we use the

when we listen to a story we use the

when we listen to a story we use the imagination I get to temporarily suspend

imagination I get to temporarily suspend

imagination I get to temporarily suspend disbelief and look at the world in a way

disbelief and look at the world in a way

disbelief and look at the world in a way that is not mine there’s no need to

that is not mine there’s no need to

that is not mine there’s no need to become defensive because imagining or

become defensive because imagining or

become defensive because imagining or understanding your point of view doesn’t

understanding your point of view doesn’t

understanding your point of view doesn’t mean I have to adopt it or invalidate my

mean I have to adopt it or invalidate my

mean I have to adopt it or invalidate my own there was a time in another workshop

own there was a time in another workshop

own there was a time in another workshop that I was very nervous that a

that I was very nervous that a

that I was very nervous that a participant was gonna get up and walk

participant was gonna get up and walk

participant was gonna get up and walk away she was a deeply religious woman

away she was a deeply religious woman

away she was a deeply religious woman with fundamental views and her partner

with fundamental views and her partner

with fundamental views and her partner was sharing a story about getting an

was sharing a story about getting an

was sharing a story about getting an abortion but she didn’t walk away and at

abortion but she didn’t walk away and at

abortion but she didn’t walk away and at the end this is what she said that was

the end this is what she said that was

the end this is what she said that was the first time in my life I was able to

the first time in my life I was able to

the first time in my life I was able to consider something that completely

consider something that completely

consider something that completely contradicted everything I believed in

contradicted everything I believed in

contradicted everything I believed in because she was telling me her story I

because she was telling me her story I

because she was telling me her story I found myself being able to accept that

found myself being able to accept that

found myself being able to accept that an abortion could be a valid option even

an abortion could be a valid option even

an abortion could be a valid option even essential for someone else so listening

essential for someone else so listening

essential for someone else so listening to a story allows us to suspend judgment

to a story allows us to suspend judgment

to a story allows us to suspend judgment and open up to different points of view

and open up to different points of view

and open up to different points of view but it’s not just the listening that

but it’s not just the listening that

but it’s not just the listening that creates transformation a fascinating

creates transformation a fascinating

creates transformation a fascinating scientific study in the Journal of

scientific study in the Journal of

scientific study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology shows

Personality and Social Psychology shows

Personality and Social Psychology shows that self affirmation reduces

that self affirmation reduces

that self affirmation reduces ideological closed mindedness apparently

ideological closed mindedness apparently

ideological closed mindedness apparently we do our best when our self integrity

we do our best when our self integrity

we do our best when our self integrity our need to see ourselves as good is

our need to see ourselves as good is

our need to see ourselves as good is affirmed when individuals first recall

affirmed when individuals first recall

affirmed when individuals first recall the personal strengths or a treasured

the personal strengths or a treasured

the personal strengths or a treasured memory large differences and rigid

memory large differences and rigid

memory large differences and rigid ideological views were transcended the

ideological views were transcended the

ideological views were transcended the study shows that sharing a story

study shows that sharing a story

study shows that sharing a story prompted respect and openness to

prompted respect and openness to

prompted respect and openness to information that otherwise wouldn’t be

information that otherwise wouldn’t be

information that otherwise wouldn’t be considered my Palestinian friend shared

considered my Palestinian friend shared

considered my Palestinian friend shared the story of finding courage in fifth

the story of finding courage in fifth

the story of finding courage in fifth grade running through the alleys of the

grade running through the alleys of the

grade running through the alleys of the old city to get her little sister to

old city to get her little sister to

old city to get her little sister to safety during a demonstration I shared

safety during a demonstration I shared

safety during a demonstration I shared the story of my mother

the story of my mother

the story of my mother and the pride of my family in the uncle

and the pride of my family in the uncle

and the pride of my family in the uncle who sacrificed his life for our

who sacrificed his life for our

who sacrificed his life for our independence because we shared these

independence because we shared these

independence because we shared these memories we affirmed our sense of self

memories we affirmed our sense of self

memories we affirmed our sense of self integrity and it became possible to hear

integrity and it became possible to hear

integrity and it became possible to hear the historical narrative of the other so

the historical narrative of the other so

the historical narrative of the other so arguing contributes to fortifying

arguing contributes to fortifying

arguing contributes to fortifying opinions and polarizing points of view

opinions and polarizing points of view

opinions and polarizing points of view but storytelling offers a space for

but storytelling offers a space for

but storytelling offers a space for sharing self affirming treasured

sharing self affirming treasured

sharing self affirming treasured memories that reduce inflexibility and

memories that reduce inflexibility and

memories that reduce inflexibility and ideological closed mindedness now in my

ideological closed mindedness now in my

ideological closed mindedness now in my work I’ve been inspired by the great

work I’ve been inspired by the great

work I’ve been inspired by the great religion scholar Karen Armstrong to take

religion scholar Karen Armstrong to take

religion scholar Karen Armstrong to take this emotional and cognitive shift

this emotional and cognitive shift

this emotional and cognitive shift another step Armstrong talks about the

another step Armstrong talks about the

another step Armstrong talks about the centrality of compassion to all the

centrality of compassion to all the

centrality of compassion to all the world’s religions compassion she says

world’s religions compassion she says

world’s religions compassion she says doesn’t mean pity feeling sorry for

doesn’t mean pity feeling sorry for

doesn’t mean pity feeling sorry for another compassion means putting

another compassion means putting

another compassion means putting yourself in the position of another

yourself in the position of another

yourself in the position of another person learning about their pain so I

person learning about their pain so I

person learning about their pain so I made a choice

made a choice

made a choice not just to listen to my friends stories

not just to listen to my friends stories

not just to listen to my friends stories but to publicly tell her stories and the

but to publicly tell her stories and the

but to publicly tell her stories and the stories of our mothers from their points

stories of our mothers from their points

stories of our mothers from their points of view for that I had to put myself in

of view for that I had to put myself in

of view for that I had to put myself in the position of the other tell the story

the position of the other tell the story

the position of the other tell the story as if it was me who felt that hate for

as if it was me who felt that hate for

as if it was me who felt that hate for Israeli soldiers as if it was me who lay

Israeli soldiers as if it was me who lay

Israeli soldiers as if it was me who lay on top of three babies during a night of

on top of three babies during a night of

on top of three babies during a night of non-stop bombing like her mother in 1967

non-stop bombing like her mother in 1967

non-stop bombing like her mother in 1967 as if it was me who lost a beloved

as if it was me who lost a beloved

as if it was me who lost a beloved brother like my mother in 1948 and

brother like my mother in 1948 and

brother like my mother in 1948 and telling the stories in this way gave me

telling the stories in this way gave me

telling the stories in this way gave me a deeper experience of compassion so in

a deeper experience of compassion so in

a deeper experience of compassion so in my workshops participants learn not just

my workshops participants learn not just

my workshops participants learn not just to listen to the story of that of the

to listen to the story of that of the

to listen to the story of that of the other but to tell the story of another

other but to tell the story of another

other but to tell the story of another person from that person’s point of view

using storytelling as a peace building

using storytelling as a peace building tool is not about changing opinions it’s

tool is not about changing opinions it’s

tool is not about changing opinions it’s about changing our response to

about changing our response to

about changing our response to differences and learning how to accept

differences and learning how to accept

differences and learning how to accept multiple points of view simultaneously

multiple points of view simultaneously

multiple points of view simultaneously and live with paradox because you see

and live with paradox because you see

and live with paradox because you see living with complexity an understanding

living with complexity an understanding

living with complexity an understanding or accepting the paradoxes around us is

or accepting the paradoxes around us is

or accepting the paradoxes around us is the hardest thing for all of us we all

the hardest thing for all of us we all

the hardest thing for all of us we all want answers we want clear views we all

want answers we want clear views we all

want answers we want clear views we all need validation but as long as I insist

need validation but as long as I insist

need validation but as long as I insist on one answer

on one answer

on one answer only my story reflected in everything

only my story reflected in everything

only my story reflected in everything I’m not open to change the key to the

I’m not open to change the key to the

I’m not open to change the key to the future is understanding that reality is

future is understanding that reality is

future is understanding that reality is so complex that accepting paradox can

so complex that accepting paradox can

so complex that accepting paradox can have positive value when we make room

have positive value when we make room

have positive value when we make room for paradox we make room for change

for paradox we make room for change

for paradox we make room for change jimana and I listened to each other’s

jimana and I listened to each other’s

jimana and I listened to each other’s stories it allowed us to expand our mind

stories it allowed us to expand our mind

stories it allowed us to expand our mind and make room for paradox so we could

and make room for paradox so we could

and make room for paradox so we could hold a perception that was different and

hold a perception that was different and

hold a perception that was different and even

even

even threatening to our own it led us to

threatening to our own it led us to

threatening to our own it led us to insight and compassion but I don’t

insight and compassion but I don’t

insight and compassion but I don’t pretend that it’s easy many times when I

pretend that it’s easy many times when I

pretend that it’s easy many times when I listen to her and her version of truth

listen to her and her version of truth

listen to her and her version of truth was so different the temptation was huge

was so different the temptation was huge

was so different the temptation was huge to just label her oh those Palestinians

to just label her oh those Palestinians

to just label her oh those Palestinians and walk away and I had to make a choice

and walk away and I had to make a choice

and walk away and I had to make a choice do I stay safe in my familiar shelter of

do I stay safe in my familiar shelter of

do I stay safe in my familiar shelter of us versus them or do I stay present to

us versus them or do I stay present to

us versus them or do I stay present to this human story and allow myself the

this human story and allow myself the

this human story and allow myself the uneasy territory of paradox the choice

uneasy territory of paradox the choice

uneasy territory of paradox the choice to let go of our fears and trust stories

to let go of our fears and trust stories

to let go of our fears and trust stories is ours and I’d like to invite you to

is ours and I’d like to invite you to

is ours and I’d like to invite you to make that choice it isn’t an easy one

make that choice it isn’t an easy one

make that choice it isn’t an easy one but choose to listen and to tell seek

but choose to listen and to tell seek

but choose to listen and to tell seek out the other cultivate an attitude of

out the other cultivate an attitude of

out the other cultivate an attitude of curiosity and open heart and use

curiosity and open heart and use

curiosity and open heart and use storytelling to create bridges in our

storytelling to create bridges in our

storytelling to create bridges in our polarized communities and workplaces I

polarized communities and workplaces I

polarized communities and workplaces I invite you to choose to become

invite you to choose to become

invite you to choose to become ambassadors of peace

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