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Ben je als persoon sterker na een gevecht? | Thomas Dekker | TEDxVeghel


well the

and dekker does not want to give up for the time being

knowing and staying it remains he remains

just go to the last

drop

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and all that for a foreigner

the Dutch are difficult for one

foreigner

here is now an arrival with

a cruise through it is a firm one

pace that is developed by it

thomas dekker and also look at it

difference that now runs a little too

stronger back

the damage is even more because it

first strips of white running marie

but the road surface that has been noticed

ristie very bumpy

Jan I think so and always

disbelief the beach that in a thomas

dekker there all that work for now

may take into account

chapeau to be sure

Please check his age for 22

at 23 just become then he still needs 23

and on 6 September

he has meanwhile used in adria

to come and dream of romandia

no, that has always been a talent

super talent even yes still beautiful

images

who knew something at primary school

he or she wants to become the

with me it was clear that cycling is

fired with the spoon

I got one at the age of 11

road bike and black with white

comfort was dakhla and from that moment on

I am in love

I did not want anything else and each one free

hour that I had

I spend on my bike together with my

father or only by the head of

North Holland

in the week and I had side jobs

cyclists and expensive sport and I had

my father must have the father

agreement that I would also do my bit

contributions and all animals new again

things in in north holland were for

my father and I kind of

amusement parks we looked in the showcases and we

hoped that we would one day be the most beautiful

could buy a bicycle

who will experience a lot of support from you

from the parents

I always have a lot of support

encountered with holders I am thinking on

a young age is the support of you

so essential my father already bought

young age

I allowed myself a scooter but

how do know all my scooter bought and

when he got out of work, he went on

the militia and I know in the back

it was the bike the bike and not otherwise

I was addicted to and

it worked a little every year

little better and at 16 years of age 17

age I could measure me with the

world top

like just a problem on that

age you should be right

enjoy and calm down to the future

look

but I want to become a professional as soon as possible

it was never fast enough

which of you sometimes made mistakes

Well I have, I’m a man with a man

of flesh and blood

and I made enough mistakes

I have a book about it last year

written and yes a book full of mistakes

I wanted a lot

and I also want to be quick maybe I wanted to

too much or too fast and afterwards as I do

In this way I looked back into a world

me but I was not ready for docu

blind in

and I never had the fringe business

of cycling thought hard

choices and soon in the beginning of my

career

I feel like I was turning downhill

the road was coming to me faster and faster

and I was no longer able to

brakes

in this phase of my career that is

funest

I had quietly the top of the climb in the

I had to keep an eye on it and I had it quiet

have to climb and I had my will

time to give if I now have myself there

come across

fifteen years ago

I would have been 17 years as on

this picture

then I would like to tell him thomas

what are you doing

this is the most beautiful sport out there is you

are blessed with a unique talent

cherish this you go for a courting

you have come this far by the support of

your parents

do not keep those people away

near you the way to the top

is not a straight road it is a road full

with turns writhing on and off and you

do not let yourself be dazzled

do not let yourself be blinded by the

spotlights of the apparent room

patience which of you has a patience

I take even a sip of water because I

I actually have very little patience and

it’s counterproductive for me

I was at a fairly young age

all well I was 17 when I first

the Worldcup

and from that moment was winning for me

normally works in the adult world

it generally is not so in the

big wheels world

do not work it as well if I do

think back is naïve

I thought what was within the norm quite

neighbors and actually a sport is true

almost always loses everyone

I was the big talent at that anyway

moment week to do me something

I remember a good example I can

finally doing an internship at the big one

professional team and in the Queen’s realm

for op

I believe man or six and there is another one

great Dutch cyclist

myself the team and we drive away and we

have a nice hole

we stay ahead and on the way he says

to me thomas you may be the mountain today

win points

and I remember that I thought I want to

not at all that mountain points within what

I have to go with such a mountain jersey

i want to whiter today i want today

win the race and 10 kilometers

before the end d but erik

I look back again and I come

no one back

I am with a street length lead

this match

I still see my

throwing my hands in the air I am

happy but I remember one more thing

In the evening I go to bed and I think so

to a thing

I want to win the World Cup two low

two weeks later in verona

if I look back now I just wanted to

Lake

I just wanted more more

actually I am not like that at all

brought up where does this urge come from me

come from a very normal

head of north holland

I have a sister and actually we have

a beautiful nice sweet

upbringing but still on a free

young age

I drove away from the base I did not enjoy

more but behavior became extreme

and I only had one thing I was

happiest on the bike

the physical and mental for satisfaction

Getting it out of it was my drive mine

drive to win even more

and when I look back, I suddenly see

person a person who is lost in one

maze and can not get out of it

in life

do you have different loves

for me, cycling is my big one

love

this sport is in my DNA but soon

I ended up in a negative spiral

this spiral cost me my sport

maybe not only my costs

sport the relationship with my parents with

family my sister

they saw everything from a distance and they

were worried and getting further and further

we actually got rid of it

warm family that I actually like

came from

I do not know if the boy would have thomas

listen

but the choices you make

at a young age have consequences for it

the rest of your life

the choices you can not do anymore

turn around you must be aware of you

yourself a wheels career takes a long time

you are young you are impatient and you

are restless, I remember well in 2005

my first year prof

may I round the round of Italy rows

from Italy

yes , a boy’s dream comes true

and since my first race thereon

ridden in the juniors a few years

previously I was in love with this country

the women the pastas the cars

I loved Italy instead of this one

round of italy to take as my

first big round myself patiently

ask

I let my dazzle

two months before the calculation stage

the north of france criterion

international

I won the queen stage and I know the

All day long with a big one

favorites for this jiro

at the end of the day we have to

sprint

on a climb of a kilometer or

three and I win

but two months later it looks very

differently

others apply in the round of Italy

laws I want to blow away like one

daisy in the wind

the time to go in actually

nice but I do not see it

the last week I find crying under the

shower on my own with the fever

blisters on my mouth and I wonder

What is going on here

if I could speak to Thomas now

the week before that round of Italy would

I tell Thomas when it’s come good

there are dozens of great kissing rounds

200 you are the youngest

participant who participates

you have to plan this round in the

future

Your potential is achieved than you

are only 20 years old you go in here

to grow

the end of the chiro

I am in 70th place and I am under 30

riders left behind me that more

to experience

older than me but have confidence

your time is coming too

I made a big mistake with the

choice

with which manager I surrounded myself

I should have chosen a manager who was at

quietly held that my mirror held up

you would say summer time is still coming

you have to plan a career

step by step they have to kiss

be prepared

career have to be planned and me

said to thomas you say need and the

the most beautiful sport there is

I have always dreamed of enjoying this

of this round have fun

no pants white is a first big one

round the pink sweater

listen to the people around you

people you love and who

to be patient

when I was 21 I thought it was time to get out

to fly

I left for Italy from a warm one

nest stability that I had every day

known to my parents by my sister

let me pre-set myself

I have been responsible for the

choices I made

when I look back I was a young guest

I was mature in age but I was

was not prepared for what was there

went all that came to me

I also found it very easy to me

surround the wrong people with the wrong people

people who were successful in the

cycling the people who stood guarantor

for success

they had the same vision as me

the cycling city ​​in one

transition period

and actually afterwards and maybe I

became a professional for three years

I would like to tell you thomas

it is difficult to find the wise way

choose

the sensible way is often not the

fastest way but still you find out

with the standards and values ​​where you are

grew up with

your people who are important to you

were not valid in this world

I would advise you to go home for a long time

you must continue to enjoy this

stability and love because you know

thomas

these people were there they were

close to you

your parents were true friends

as your sister

they were not interested in money

status or fame and if I think back

I hurt those people

what they did not deserve

I would also warn you that

top sport a hard world is a world

where you can easily burn

you must be careful with this love

handle

you will grow up and become a sport

if you like and where you mainly

the fun has to leave central

thomas it is a hard school for

you

I hope you can learn your wise lessons

I have fallen into all the pitfalls

wherever you can step in

have faith and have the patience

perhaps the most important thing

have fun I am already finished with it

and this is my sister give Photograph

I also think that everyone knows it

the

the midlife crisis the thirties dilemma

I am ready for the rest of my life

and the arrival is coming and in mind

physically every day

I’m just a lot more sensible now

and stronger and finally I would

to say thomas

this ready for the next step

and now look forward to the rest of your life

you are 32 years old I have one

very beautiful women and dear sister and

a great family and also a lot

good friends

thank you

[Applause]

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