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Become the leader that they are searching for. | Ken Nwadike Jr. | TEDxFurmanU


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[Music] [Applause]

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[Applause] Wow so the first time that I was ever

Wow so the first time that I was ever

Wow so the first time that I was ever here in the Carolinas I found my way to

here in the Carolinas I found my way to

here in the Carolinas I found my way to the frontlines of protests that were

the frontlines of protests that were

the frontlines of protests that were unfolding in Charlotte and I knew that

unfolding in Charlotte and I knew that

unfolding in Charlotte and I knew that there was going to be a need for a

there was going to be a need for a

there was going to be a need for a peacekeeper and someone to step in as a

peacekeeper and someone to step in as a

peacekeeper and someone to step in as a leader in the midst of such a volatile

leader in the midst of such a volatile

leader in the midst of such a volatile situation that was unfolding there and

situation that was unfolding there and

situation that was unfolding there and you know it’s very difficult going in

you know it’s very difficult going in

you know it’s very difficult going in especially being from California and

especially being from California and

especially being from California and showing up in Charlotte on the front

showing up in Charlotte on the front

showing up in Charlotte on the front lines and not knowing anyone there and

lines and not knowing anyone there and

lines and not knowing anyone there and there’s hundreds of protesters all

there’s hundreds of protesters all

there’s hundreds of protesters all downtown and the police had set up their

downtown and the police had set up their

downtown and the police had set up their their lines and you know as I was

their lines and you know as I was

their lines and you know as I was running in to the the protest everyone

running in to the the protest everyone

running in to the the protest everyone was running out because a protester had

was running out because a protester had

was running out because a protester had just been shot in the face by another

just been shot in the face by another

just been shot in the face by another protestor and so the anger and the

protestor and so the anger and the

protestor and so the anger and the tension that was unfolding there that

tension that was unfolding there that

tension that was unfolding there that night it was unlike any other protest I

night it was unlike any other protest I

night it was unlike any other protest I had ever been to before and so right

had ever been to before and so right

had ever been to before and so right away I tried to create a barrier between

away I tried to create a barrier between

away I tried to create a barrier between the police and the protesters because

the police and the protesters because

the police and the protesters because people were throwing bottles and rocks

people were throwing bottles and rocks

people were throwing bottles and rocks and bricks at the police officers and so

and bricks at the police officers and so

and bricks at the police officers and so I decided well I’ll try to open up and

I decided well I’ll try to open up and

I decided well I’ll try to open up and engage in some dialogue with some people

engage in some dialogue with some people

engage in some dialogue with some people and stand there on the front lines and

and stand there on the front lines and

and stand there on the front lines and so you know that night there were a

so you know that night there were a

so you know that night there were a number of police lines like that they

number of police lines like that they

number of police lines like that they were blocking a number of the

were blocking a number of the

were blocking a number of the intersections and it became very tough

intersections and it became very tough

intersections and it became very tough to communicate when you have hundreds of

to communicate when you have hundreds of

to communicate when you have hundreds of people not only shouting but throwing

people not only shouting but throwing

people not only shouting but throwing things and so I decided I was going to

things and so I decided I was going to

things and so I decided I was going to try to lead by recruiting other

try to lead by recruiting other

try to lead by recruiting other peacekeepers there on the front lines

peacekeepers there on the front lines

peacekeepers there on the front lines and so oftentimes when I show up at

and so oftentimes when I show up at

and so oftentimes when I show up at these things I try and identify who’s

these things I try and identify who’s

these things I try and identify who’s the biggest scariest looking guy that’s

the biggest scariest looking guy that’s

the biggest scariest looking guy that’s there on the front lines and say hey I’m

there on the front lines and say hey I’m

there on the front lines and say hey I’m going to need you on my side just in

going to need you on my side just in

going to need you on my side just in case things get really out of hand I’m a

case things get really out of hand I’m a

case things get really out of hand I’m a slim guy but together you know enough of

slim guy but together you know enough of

slim guy but together you know enough of us can keep the peace out here

us can keep the peace out here

us can keep the peace out here and so there was a gentleman who was

and so there was a gentleman who was

and so there was a gentleman who was standing on the side I watched that

standing on the side I watched that

standing on the side I watched that someone bumped into him and he said hey

someone bumped into him and he said hey

someone bumped into him and he said hey and then the guy he apologized the

and then the guy he apologized the

and then the guy he apologized the number of times and he just stood there

number of times and he just stood there

number of times and he just stood there I figured okay that’s the guy that I

I figured okay that’s the guy that I

I figured okay that’s the guy that I want on my side because they they

want on my side because they they

want on my side because they they respect this guy and so I went and found

respect this guy and so I went and found

respect this guy and so I went and found him and I got him to throw up the peace

him and I got him to throw up the peace

him and I got him to throw up the peace sign as well and try to call the crowd

sign as well and try to call the crowd

sign as well and try to call the crowd and in doing so if you notice we’re

and in doing so if you notice we’re

and in doing so if you notice we’re standing under an overpass there and as

standing under an overpass there and as

standing under an overpass there and as he’s got his peace sign up I noticed

he’s got his peace sign up I noticed

he’s got his peace sign up I noticed that there were a number of protesters

that there were a number of protesters

that there were a number of protesters three guys that had picked up one of

three guys that had picked up one of

three guys that had picked up one of those cement parking stops when you go

those cement parking stops when you go

those cement parking stops when you go to park a car and they were going up to

to park a car and they were going up to

to park a car and they were going up to the overpass and they were planning to

the overpass and they were planning to

the overpass and they were planning to drop the cement block down on the row of

drop the cement block down on the row of

drop the cement block down on the row of officers that were beneath us and so I

officers that were beneath us and so I

officers that were beneath us and so I rush over there and I’m shouting at them

rush over there and I’m shouting at them

rush over there and I’m shouting at them saying hey man you guys know that if you

saying hey man you guys know that if you

saying hey man you guys know that if you drop that on the cops down there you’re

drop that on the cops down there you’re

drop that on the cops down there you’re probably going to kill a couple of

probably going to kill a couple of

probably going to kill a couple of officers and they said that’s right they

officers and they said that’s right they

officers and they said that’s right they took one of ours so we’re going to take

took one of ours so we’re going to take

took one of ours so we’re going to take two of theirs

two of theirs

two of theirs and it really made me realize that this

and it really made me realize that this

and it really made me realize that this whole back and forth violence we’re

whole back and forth violence we’re

whole back and forth violence we’re never going to be able to solve anything

never going to be able to solve anything

never going to be able to solve anything without open dialog of peacekeepers

without open dialog of peacekeepers

without open dialog of peacekeepers being there on the front lines and so

being there on the front lines and so

being there on the front lines and so the entire night I’m running around

the entire night I’m running around

the entire night I’m running around trying to put out small fires literally

trying to put out small fires literally

trying to put out small fires literally – they were actually fires being set as

– they were actually fires being set as

– they were actually fires being set as well as just the things that were

well as just the things that were

well as just the things that were unfolding there and you know it was

unfolding there and you know it was

unfolding there and you know it was difficult being a stranger in that town

difficult being a stranger in that town

difficult being a stranger in that town and trying to have a voice but I was

and trying to have a voice but I was

and trying to have a voice but I was surprised that it worked out and

surprised that it worked out and

surprised that it worked out and fortunately there was a police officer

fortunately there was a police officer

fortunately there was a police officer who recognized me as I was walking by

who recognized me as I was walking by

who recognized me as I was walking by and he had asked me for a hug and that

and he had asked me for a hug and that

and he had asked me for a hug and that moment kind of turned things around

moment kind of turned things around

moment kind of turned things around where the protesters who were

where the protesters who were

where the protesters who were cooperating with me and listening to me

cooperating with me and listening to me

cooperating with me and listening to me for some time they saw me as a traitor

for some time they saw me as a traitor

for some time they saw me as a traitor because I hugged this riot police

because I hugged this riot police

because I hugged this riot police officer that was in full gear and in

officer that was in full gear and in

officer that was in full gear and in doing so you know they start shouting

doing so you know they start shouting

doing so you know they start shouting back and forth at at the cops they’re

back and forth at at the cops they’re

back and forth at at the cops they’re disrespecting me calling me a sellout

disrespecting me calling me a sellout

disrespecting me calling me a sellout and all sorts of things and I knew that

and all sorts of things and I knew that

and all sorts of things and I knew that at that moment I could either rush back

at that moment I could either rush back

at that moment I could either rush back to my car and hurry up

to my car and hurry up

to my car and hurry up out of there I can stand and fight for

out of there I can stand and fight for

out of there I can stand and fight for peace and so in doing so I really I’d

peace and so in doing so I really I’d

peace and so in doing so I really I’d well I had to match their voice level so

well I had to match their voice level so

well I had to match their voice level so I wouldn’t necessarily say I was

I wouldn’t necessarily say I was

I wouldn’t necessarily say I was shouting at them but whatever was

shouting at them but whatever was

shouting at them but whatever was shouting at you you can’t be very timid

shouting at you you can’t be very timid

shouting at you you can’t be very timid in trying to respond to them so as I’m

in trying to respond to them so as I’m

in trying to respond to them so as I’m responding to them I was able to

responding to them I was able to

responding to them I was able to actually deescalate that situation and

actually deescalate that situation and

actually deescalate that situation and get them to stop throwing rocks and

get them to stop throwing rocks and

get them to stop throwing rocks and things at the police officers and so you

things at the police officers and so you

things at the police officers and so you know so we hugged it out things were

know so we hugged it out things were

know so we hugged it out things were cool between myself and the officer but

cool between myself and the officer but

cool between myself and the officer but actually even these protesters who

actually even these protesters who

actually even these protesters who wanted to fight me at a point we

wanted to fight me at a point we

wanted to fight me at a point we eventually shook hands and hugged it out

eventually shook hands and hugged it out

eventually shook hands and hugged it out as well and I was able to bring the

as well and I was able to bring the

as well and I was able to bring the peace to that situation and I realized

peace to that situation and I realized

peace to that situation and I realized that you know it doesn’t take much to be

that you know it doesn’t take much to be

that you know it doesn’t take much to be a leader when you show up in the

a leader when you show up in the

a leader when you show up in the situation just being able to really turn

situation just being able to really turn

situation just being able to really turn people around through dialogue and

people around through dialogue and

people around through dialogue and positive interaction and communication

positive interaction and communication

positive interaction and communication and so I always encourage people to you

and so I always encourage people to you

and so I always encourage people to you know when you’re in a situation where

know when you’re in a situation where

know when you’re in a situation where there’s a leader that’s needed never

there’s a leader that’s needed never

there’s a leader that’s needed never hesitate to rise up and be that person I

hesitate to rise up and be that person I

hesitate to rise up and be that person I think we often look around trying to

think we often look around trying to

think we often look around trying to find well is someone going to step up

find well is someone going to step up

find well is someone going to step up and try to calm this down oh the police

and try to calm this down oh the police

and try to calm this down oh the police are here is someone going to calm this

are here is someone going to calm this

are here is someone going to calm this situation down and you know so this

situation down and you know so this

situation down and you know so this situation that took place here it always

situation that took place here it always

situation that took place here it always reminds me of a story that I heard back

reminds me of a story that I heard back

reminds me of a story that I heard back at September 11th actually and we all

at September 11th actually and we all

at September 11th actually and we all remember the images of the planes that

remember the images of the planes that

remember the images of the planes that hit the two towers and the plane that

hit the two towers and the plane that

hit the two towers and the plane that hit the the Pentagon but what we don’t

hit the the Pentagon but what we don’t

hit the the Pentagon but what we don’t see is a plane that hit the Capitol

see is a plane that hit the Capitol

see is a plane that hit the Capitol building and the reason why we don’t see

building and the reason why we don’t see

building and the reason why we don’t see that is because of a leader in a hero

that is because of a leader in a hero

that is because of a leader in a hero who stepped up that was on one of the

who stepped up that was on one of the

who stepped up that was on one of the planes as he took a phone call from his

planes as he took a phone call from his

planes as he took a phone call from his wife and some of you may know this story

wife and some of you may know this story

wife and some of you may know this story and for those of you that don’t

and for those of you that don’t

and for those of you that don’t there was a gentleman or a number of

there was a gentleman or a number of

there was a gentleman or a number of gentlemen that were on flight 93 that

gentlemen that were on flight 93 that

gentlemen that were on flight 93 that was headed for either the Capitol

was headed for either the Capitol

was headed for either the Capitol building or the White House and there

building or the White House and there

building or the White House and there was a gentleman on the phone who called

was a gentleman on the phone who called

was a gentleman on the phone who called his wife in the uim nor he let her know

his wife in the uim nor he let her know

his wife in the uim nor he let her know that his plane had been hijacked and she

that his plane had been hijacked and she

that his plane had been hijacked and she said yeah and they’re using those planes

said yeah and they’re using those planes

said yeah and they’re using those planes to hit targets and he said well they

to hit targets and he said well they

to hit targets and he said well they turned our plane around that was headed

turned our plane around that was headed

turned our plane around that was headed for San Francisco and their enroute back

for San Francisco and their enroute back

for San Francisco and their enroute back to the east

to the east

to the east host and they told us that there’s a

host and they told us that there’s a

host and they told us that there’s a bomb on board and they’ve already

bomb on board and they’ve already

bomb on board and they’ve already stabbed someone on the plane and so you

stabbed someone on the plane and so you

stabbed someone on the plane and so you know she had let him know well

know she had let him know well

know she had let him know well don’t draw any attention to yourself

don’t draw any attention to yourself

don’t draw any attention to yourself just have a seat be quiet and you know

just have a seat be quiet and you know

just have a seat be quiet and you know things would be okay and he realized at

things would be okay and he realized at

things would be okay and he realized at that moment that things aren’t going to

that moment that things aren’t going to

that moment that things aren’t going to be okay and he needed to step up as a

be okay and he needed to step up as a

be okay and he needed to step up as a leader to make sure that that plane

leader to make sure that that plane

leader to make sure that that plane wasn’t going to hit the target and you

wasn’t going to hit the target and you

wasn’t going to hit the target and you know as I read through the telephone

know as I read through the telephone

know as I read through the telephone transcripts of what that call was like

transcripts of what that call was like

transcripts of what that call was like it broke my heart as he asked his wife

it broke my heart as he asked his wife

it broke my heart as he asked his wife where are the kids and she said they’re

where are the kids and she said they’re

where are the kids and she said they’re having breakfast and she said they’d

having breakfast and she said they’d

having breakfast and she said they’d like to talk to you and he said no not

like to talk to you and he said no not

like to talk to you and he said no not right now we’re going to take this plane

right now we’re going to take this plane

right now we’re going to take this plane back and in doing so he rallied up the

back and in doing so he rallied up the

back and in doing so he rallied up the support of a few other men that were

support of a few other men that were

support of a few other men that were there on the plane and the recorder one

there on the plane and the recorder one

there on the plane and the recorder one of the the last things that they heard

of the the last things that they heard

of the the last things that they heard was the as the guys had rallied up and

was the as the guys had rallied up and

was the as the guys had rallied up and they were trying to get through the

they were trying to get through the

they were trying to get through the doors to fight the terrorists and you

doors to fight the terrorists and you

doors to fight the terrorists and you can hear the terrorists shouting hold

can hear the terrorists shouting hold

can hear the terrorists shouting hold the doors because there’s men trying to

the doors because there’s men trying to

the doors because there’s men trying to get in here and then you hear the

get in here and then you hear the

get in here and then you hear the fighting and then you know they were

fighting and then you know they were

fighting and then you know they were able to prevent that plane from hitting

able to prevent that plane from hitting

able to prevent that plane from hitting the Capitol building there and you know

the Capitol building there and you know

the Capitol building there and you know the the famous words that I always

the the famous words that I always

the the famous words that I always remember from them was the okay you guys

remember from them was the okay you guys

remember from them was the okay you guys ready let’s roll and it took that

ready let’s roll and it took that

ready let’s roll and it took that leadership of someone being able to step

leadership of someone being able to step

leadership of someone being able to step up and say these planes are being used

up and say these planes are being used

up and say these planes are being used as weapons to kill people and thousands

as weapons to kill people and thousands

as weapons to kill people and thousands of people were killed there but a leader

of people were killed there but a leader

of people were killed there but a leader was able to step up and not only fight

was able to step up and not only fight

was able to step up and not only fight for peace and be brave but to make sure

for peace and be brave but to make sure

for peace and be brave but to make sure that they were saving the lives of other

that they were saving the lives of other

that they were saving the lives of other Americans and so in recent weeks now I

Americans and so in recent weeks now I

Americans and so in recent weeks now I found myself out on the front lines of

found myself out on the front lines of

found myself out on the front lines of protests again in Washington DC that

protests again in Washington DC that

protests again in Washington DC that were taking place outside the

were taking place outside the

were taking place outside the inauguration and same thing now I

inauguration and same thing now I

inauguration and same thing now I figured okay now I’m here in Washington

figured okay now I’m here in Washington

figured okay now I’m here in Washington DC and that was my first time ever in my

DC and that was my first time ever in my

DC and that was my first time ever in my life being in Washington DC and same

life being in Washington DC and same

life being in Washington DC and same thing people are throwing rocks and

thing people are throwing rocks and

thing people are throwing rocks and bottles and bricks actually at the

bottles and bricks actually at the

bottles and bricks actually at the police officers there and I knew a

police officers there and I knew a

police officers there and I knew a peacekeeper is going to be needed and

peacekeeper is going to be needed and

peacekeeper is going to be needed and someone’s going to have to take charge

someone’s going to have to take charge

someone’s going to have to take charge and be a leader at these protests where

and be a leader at these protests where

and be a leader at these protests where things are just out of

things are just out of

things are just out of and so same thing that day I rallied up

and so same thing that day I rallied up

and so same thing that day I rallied up the support of other men that were

the support of other men that were

the support of other men that were standing around in Washington DC and let

standing around in Washington DC and let

standing around in Washington DC and let them know you know all these bricks that

them know you know all these bricks that

them know you know all these bricks that were seen on the ground and trash cans

were seen on the ground and trash cans

were seen on the ground and trash cans and bottles that are being thrown at

and bottles that are being thrown at

and bottles that are being thrown at these police officers we can stand as a

these police officers we can stand as a

these police officers we can stand as a barrier to prevent things from being

barrier to prevent things from being

barrier to prevent things from being thrown at the police and we can go and

thrown at the police and we can go and

thrown at the police and we can go and talk to the protesters as well to try to

talk to the protesters as well to try to

talk to the protesters as well to try to bring peace and deescalate that

bring peace and deescalate that

bring peace and deescalate that situation and you know I’m just one slim

situation and you know I’m just one slim

situation and you know I’m just one slim guy if it shows up at these things and

guy if it shows up at these things and

guy if it shows up at these things and I’m able to sometimes turn the situation

I’m able to sometimes turn the situation

I’m able to sometimes turn the situation around just by not only opening up

around just by not only opening up

around just by not only opening up dialogue and communication but rising to

dialogue and communication but rising to

dialogue and communication but rising to the call when a leader is needed and

the call when a leader is needed and

the call when a leader is needed and someone needed to be able to bring peace

someone needed to be able to bring peace

someone needed to be able to bring peace to these situations and you know I look

to these situations and you know I look

to these situations and you know I look at all of the people around not only in

at all of the people around not only in

at all of the people around not only in this room but across the nation and I

this room but across the nation and I

this room but across the nation and I see how much we’re all calling for

see how much we’re all calling for

see how much we’re all calling for change and it just seems like we’re all

change and it just seems like we’re all

change and it just seems like we’re all waiting for that leader to rise up

waiting for that leader to rise up

waiting for that leader to rise up everyone as certain is in search of a

everyone as certain is in search of a

everyone as certain is in search of a leader but we’re not looking within

leader but we’re not looking within

leader but we’re not looking within ourselves to be that leader and there’s

ourselves to be that leader and there’s

ourselves to be that leader and there’s a countless amount of followers of very

a countless amount of followers of very

a countless amount of followers of very few leaders in this world that are

few leaders in this world that are

few leaders in this world that are really willing to step up and create

really willing to step up and create

really willing to step up and create change and so now when I travel around I

change and so now when I travel around I

change and so now when I travel around I always encourage people you know you can

always encourage people you know you can

always encourage people you know you can change the world and you can create the

change the world and you can create the

change the world and you can create the change that you want to see rather than

change that you want to see rather than

change that you want to see rather than saying I wish that guy would step up and

saying I wish that guy would step up and

saying I wish that guy would step up and do something or being in a situation and

do something or being in a situation and

do something or being in a situation and saying I hope that woman is going to say

saying I hope that woman is going to say

saying I hope that woman is going to say something why not you be that person and

something why not you be that person and

something why not you be that person and step up and do it and we can make this

step up and do it and we can make this

step up and do it and we can make this world a better place thank you

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