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gentlemen in the next eight

gentlemen in the next eight it’s 2844 children will be born in the

it’s 2844 children will be born in the

it’s 2844 children will be born in the next 18 minutes 2,000 people will die in

next 18 minutes 2,000 people will die in

next 18 minutes 2,000 people will die in the same amount of time of those 2,000

the same amount of time of those 2,000

the same amount of time of those 2,000 people who died four hundred and forty

people who died four hundred and forty

people who died four hundred and forty five of them will die because of

five of them will die because of

five of them will die because of communicable diseases 383 due to hunger

58 because of HIV and AIDS 30 of them

58 because of HIV and AIDS 30 of them will be because of contaminated water

will be because of contaminated water

will be because of contaminated water and eleven women shall die at childbirth

and eleven women shall die at childbirth

and eleven women shall die at childbirth in the next 18 minutes half this room

in the next 18 minutes half this room

in the next 18 minutes half this room will die every single minute of

will die every single minute of

will die every single minute of contaminated water communicable diseases

contaminated water communicable diseases

contaminated water communicable diseases hunger all these reasons are reasons

hunger all these reasons are reasons

hunger all these reasons are reasons that we can solve for and these people

that we can solve for and these people

that we can solve for and these people shouldn’t have to die so look up the

shouldn’t have to die so look up the

shouldn’t have to die so look up the person next to you and think which of

person next to you and think which of

person next to you and think which of you is going to die in the next minute

so extreme poverty was defined by the

so extreme poverty was defined by the United Nations as a condition of severe

United Nations as a condition of severe

United Nations as a condition of severe deprivation of basic human needs

deprivation of basic human needs

deprivation of basic human needs including water sanitation access to

including water sanitation access to

including water sanitation access to health etc all of these things are not

health etc all of these things are not

health etc all of these things are not just about access to income but also

just about access to income but also

just about access to income but also access to basic services I am Charles

access to basic services I am Charles

access to basic services I am Charles Marita a pragmatic idealist and in the

Marita a pragmatic idealist and in the

Marita a pragmatic idealist and in the next 18 minutes I want to share with you

next 18 minutes I want to share with you

next 18 minutes I want to share with you why we all have a moral obligation to

why we all have a moral obligation to

why we all have a moral obligation to help all those who are less fortunate

help all those who are less fortunate

help all those who are less fortunate than we have if for nothing else so that

than we have if for nothing else so that

than we have if for nothing else so that we who have more can be able to live in

we who have more can be able to live in

we who have more can be able to live in a more secure more happy more peaceful

a more secure more happy more peaceful

a more secure more happy more peaceful place I am also hoping that in the next

place I am also hoping that in the next

place I am also hoping that in the next 18 minutes none of you actually die

18 minutes none of you actually die

18 minutes none of you actually die before I finish talking so over the last

before I finish talking so over the last

before I finish talking so over the last few years I have spent every single

few years I have spent every single

few years I have spent every single November going to Cape Town for work

November going to Cape Town for work

November going to Cape Town for work every November the first week of

every November the first week of

every November the first week of November all people from the

November all people from the

November all people from the telecommunications industry converge on

telecommunications industry converge on

telecommunications industry converge on Cape Town for Africa comm one of the

Cape Town for Africa comm one of the

Cape Town for Africa comm one of the largest technology and

largest technology and

largest technology and telecommunications conferences around

telecommunications conferences around

telecommunications conferences around the world in addition to this particular

the world in addition to this particular

the world in addition to this particular conference we also have people who have

conference we also have people who have

conference we also have people who have a lot of site meetings from different

a lot of site meetings from different

a lot of site meetings from different companies talking about different

companies talking about different

companies talking about different emerging trends and topics from subject

emerging trends and topics from subject

emerging trends and topics from subject matters arm experts so a few years ago

matters arm experts so a few years ago

matters arm experts so a few years ago for the first time I was invited to Cape

for the first time I was invited to Cape

for the first time I was invited to Cape Town and I vividly remember my first

Town and I vividly remember my first

Town and I vividly remember my first trip my flight from jo’burg was

trip my flight from jo’burg was

trip my flight from jo’burg was relatively uneventful

relatively uneventful

relatively uneventful and as we descended into Cape Town I

and as we descended into Cape Town I

and as we descended into Cape Town I could not help notice the vineyards

could not help notice the vineyards

could not help notice the vineyards below the beautiful landscapes and also

below the beautiful landscapes and also

below the beautiful landscapes and also Table Mountain it was everything you

Table Mountain it was everything you

Table Mountain it was everything you think and you’ve been told it is

think and you’ve been told it is

think and you’ve been told it is absolutely mesmerizing so I walk out of

absolutely mesmerizing so I walk out of

absolutely mesmerizing so I walk out of the baggage claim TURN RIGHT pick up my

the baggage claim TURN RIGHT pick up my

the baggage claim TURN RIGHT pick up my luggage and go into the arrivals hall

luggage and go into the arrivals hall

luggage and go into the arrivals hall while I’m there there’s a car waiting

while I’m there there’s a car waiting

while I’m there there’s a car waiting for me and we get on the highway and

for me and we get on the highway and

for me and we get on the highway and drive out shocked on me not far from the

drive out shocked on me not far from the

drive out shocked on me not far from the airport to the right and to the left was

airport to the right and to the left was

airport to the right and to the left was a glaring there was a glaring sign of

a glaring there was a glaring sign of

a glaring there was a glaring sign of poverty juxtaposed against this

poverty juxtaposed against this

poverty juxtaposed against this incredible beauty and the pragmatic

incredible beauty and the pragmatic

incredible beauty and the pragmatic idealist that I am I had to struggle to

idealist that I am I had to struggle to

idealist that I am I had to struggle to really put these two things together

really put these two things together

really put these two things together unfortunately this is not an isolated

unfortunately this is not an isolated

unfortunately this is not an isolated case this right here is an image of

case this right here is an image of

case this right here is an image of Masafumi Lele

Masafumi Lele

Masafumi Lele on your left it is a community 20

on your left it is a community 20

on your left it is a community 20 kilometers southwest of Cape Town city

kilometers southwest of Cape Town city

kilometers southwest of Cape Town city where 40,000 people live in extremely

where 40,000 people live in extremely

where 40,000 people live in extremely tough conditions amenities are scarce

tough conditions amenities are scarce

tough conditions amenities are scarce and overcrowded school no police station

and overcrowded school no police station

and overcrowded school no police station and an understaffed clinic yet over 30

and an understaffed clinic yet over 30

and an understaffed clinic yet over 30 to 40% of the population of Masafumi

to 40% of the population of Masafumi

to 40% of the population of Masafumi Lele are actually infected with HIV and

Lele are actually infected with HIV and

Lele are actually infected with HIV and AIDS over the weekend the University of

AIDS over the weekend the University of

AIDS over the weekend the University of Cape Town students health organization

Cape Town students health organization

Cape Town students health organization comes to staff it hardly sufficient and

comes to staff it hardly sufficient and

comes to staff it hardly sufficient and here’s the irony of massif Mlle

here’s the irony of massif Mlle

here’s the irony of massif Mlle it’s actually a casa word that means let

it’s actually a casa word that means let

it’s actually a casa word that means let us succeed next to my Sifu Mallan lay

us succeed next to my Sifu Mallan lay

us succeed next to my Sifu Mallan lay less than 20 second – is the beautiful

less than 20 second – is the beautiful

less than 20 second – is the beautiful gated community of Lake Michelle

multimillion-dollar houses multi storeys

multimillion-dollar houses multi storeys overlooking this amazing lake surrounded

overlooking this amazing lake surrounded

overlooking this amazing lake surrounded by an electric fence but this is not

by an electric fence but this is not

by an electric fence but this is not just a challenge in South Africa let’s

just a challenge in South Africa let’s

just a challenge in South Africa let’s come back closer to home someone told me

come back closer to home someone told me

come back closer to home someone told me that behind every single affluent suburb

that behind every single affluent suburb

that behind every single affluent suburb in Nairobi is a slum deep sea how many

in Nairobi is a slum deep sea how many

in Nairobi is a slum deep sea how many of you know about deep sea how many of

of you know about deep sea how many of

of you know about deep sea how many of you have heard of deep sea I see some

you have heard of deep sea I see some

you have heard of deep sea I see some hands going up for those who don’t know

hands going up for those who don’t know

hands going up for those who don’t know it’s actually smack in the middle of

it’s actually smack in the middle of

it’s actually smack in the middle of Messiah and parklands but it’s not the

Messiah and parklands but it’s not the

Messiah and parklands but it’s not the only one

only one

only one so even further away is Mexico City

so even further away is Mexico City

so even further away is Mexico City whereby the vastness of the disparity

whereby the vastness of the disparity

whereby the vastness of the disparity just across the road is absolutely

just across the road is absolutely

just across the road is absolutely shocking when you look at these images

shocking when you look at these images

shocking when you look at these images by Johnny Miller of unequal scenes he

by Johnny Miller of unequal scenes he

by Johnny Miller of unequal scenes he does such a great job bringing to life

does such a great job bringing to life

does such a great job bringing to life this big challenge that we’re facing

this big challenge that we’re facing

this big challenge that we’re facing around the world it’s absolutely

around the world it’s absolutely

around the world it’s absolutely fascinating as well as surreal to look

fascinating as well as surreal to look

fascinating as well as surreal to look at the wealth inequality between the two

at the wealth inequality between the two

at the wealth inequality between the two sides and it stretches as far as the eye

sides and it stretches as far as the eye

sides and it stretches as far as the eye can see according to the latest World

can see according to the latest World

can see according to the latest World Bank estimates poverty rates have fallen

Bank estimates poverty rates have fallen

Bank estimates poverty rates have fallen 50 from 56% in 1990 to about 43% in 2012

50 from 56% in 1990 to about 43% in 2012

50 from 56% in 1990 to about 43% in 2012 now this is a great thing unfortunately

now this is a great thing unfortunately

now this is a great thing unfortunately the number of absolute poor people

the number of absolute poor people

the number of absolute poor people across Africa has actually risen from

across Africa has actually risen from

across Africa has actually risen from 280 million people in 1990 to 330

280 million people in 1990 to 330

280 million people in 1990 to 330 million in 2012 and what’s crazy about

million in 2012 and what’s crazy about

million in 2012 and what’s crazy about that is that that’s the entire

that is that that’s the entire

that is that that’s the entire population of Kenya poverty and

population of Kenya poverty and

population of Kenya poverty and education has actually been going down

education has actually been going down

education has actually been going down but and unfortunately it’s actually been

but and unfortunately it’s actually been

but and unfortunately it’s actually been hard to reduce it in the more rural

hard to reduce it in the more rural

hard to reduce it in the more rural areas whereby this still exists the

areas whereby this still exists the

areas whereby this still exists the picture of inequality across Africa is

picture of inequality across Africa is

picture of inequality across Africa is incredibly complex ten seven out of the

incredibly complex ten seven out of the

incredibly complex ten seven out of the ten most unequal countries in the world

ten most unequal countries in the world

ten most unequal countries in the world are actually here in Africa in addition

are actually here in Africa in addition

are actually here in Africa in addition to that most of them are from southern

to that most of them are from southern

to that most of them are from southern Africa and South Africa itself is

Africa and South Africa itself is

Africa and South Africa itself is actually the most unequal country in the

actually the most unequal country in the

actually the most unequal country in the world and when this inequality hits

world and when this inequality hits

world and when this inequality hits disproportionate levels the worst

disproportionate levels the worst

disproportionate levels the worst manifests itself so we have to solve for

manifests itself so we have to solve for

manifests itself so we have to solve for inequality and speaking of inequality

inequality and speaking of inequality

inequality and speaking of inequality the worst that manifests itself the case

the worst that manifests itself the case

the worst that manifests itself the case in point is history and looking back so

in point is history and looking back so

in point is history and looking back so I’m sure most of you know about the

I’m sure most of you know about the

I’m sure most of you know about the French Revolution the French Revolution

French Revolution the French Revolution

French Revolution the French Revolution was one of the darkest times of France’s

was one of the darkest times of France’s

was one of the darkest times of France’s history it was about ten years between

history it was about ten years between

history it was about ten years between 1789 and 1799 it kicked off with

1789 and 1799 it kicked off with

1789 and 1799 it kicked off with Bastille Day when the people actually

Bastille Day when the people actually

Bastille Day when the people actually stormed into Bastille prison and what

stormed into Bastille prison and what

stormed into Bastille prison and what happened was at this particular time

happened was at this particular time

happened was at this particular time France was going through an economic

France was going through an economic

France was going through an economic depression whereby most people were

depression whereby most people were

depression whereby most people were hungry there was no food to go around

hungry there was no food to go around

hungry there was no food to go around and unfortunately for the upper class

and unfortunately for the upper class

and unfortunately for the upper class who was stable comfortable they did not

who was stable comfortable they did not

who was stable comfortable they did not know what was happening beyond the doors

know what was happening beyond the doors

know what was happening beyond the doors or the gates of their homes worse off in

or the gates of their homes worse off in

or the gates of their homes worse off in Versailles at the Royal Court

Versailles at the Royal Court

Versailles at the Royal Court they were completely oblivious of the

they were completely oblivious of the

they were completely oblivious of the challenge that was happening

challenge that was happening

challenge that was happening most people were so destitute at this

most people were so destitute at this

most people were so destitute at this particular point that they had to resort

particular point that they had to resort

particular point that they had to resort to prostitution and theft just to put

to prostitution and theft just to put

to prostitution and theft just to put food on the table what happened was with

food on the table what happened was with

food on the table what happened was with this level of indifference the popular

this level of indifference the popular

this level of indifference the popular people actually arose and in this

people actually arose and in this

people actually arose and in this escalating crisis they revolted and they

escalating crisis they revolted and they

escalating crisis they revolted and they captured the king king louis xvi

captured the king king louis xvi

captured the king king louis xvi decapitated his head and it took this

decapitated his head and it took this

decapitated his head and it took this great cost to actually transform france

great cost to actually transform france

great cost to actually transform france into a republic unfortunately for the

into a republic unfortunately for the

into a republic unfortunately for the next ten years as I mentioned it was one

next ten years as I mentioned it was one

next ten years as I mentioned it was one of the worst and darkest periods of

of the worst and darkest periods of

of the worst and darkest periods of France’s history whereby it was known as

France’s history whereby it was known as

France’s history whereby it was known as the reign of terror but out of this

the reign of terror but out of this

the reign of terror but out of this ideals of Inuk out of this the ideal of

ideals of Inuk out of this the ideal of

ideals of Inuk out of this the ideal of liberation equality and fraternity were

liberation equality and fraternity were

liberation equality and fraternity were born now what’s interesting is that this

born now what’s interesting is that this

born now what’s interesting is that this notion of fraternity is the essence of

notion of fraternity is the essence of

notion of fraternity is the essence of Ubuntu which most of us as Africans know

Ubuntu which most of us as Africans know

Ubuntu which most of us as Africans know very well about what do we say it takes

very well about what do we say it takes

very well about what do we say it takes a village right at the end of the day we

a village right at the end of the day we

a village right at the end of the day we have to think about what we do for each

have to think about what we do for each

have to think about what we do for each other

other

other to make sure that we’re taking care of

to make sure that we’re taking care of

to make sure that we’re taking care of each other so this is tale my godson

each other so this is tale my godson

each other so this is tale my godson he’s under about two and a half years

he’s under about two and a half years

he’s under about two and a half years old and he’s one of my foger children

old and he’s one of my foger children

old and he’s one of my foger children who I absolutely love to death I’m sure

who I absolutely love to death I’m sure

who I absolutely love to death I’m sure each and every one of you here has a

each and every one of you here has a

each and every one of you here has a tale in their lives now I know that you

tale in their lives now I know that you

tale in their lives now I know that you want the best for your tale you want to

want the best for your tale you want to

want the best for your tale you want to make sure that the loved ones that you

make sure that the loved ones that you

make sure that the loved ones that you have have the best quality life that

have have the best quality life that

have have the best quality life that they can have over time however as long

they can have over time however as long

they can have over time however as long as these inequality crime goes up in

as these inequality crime goes up in

as these inequality crime goes up in security increases etc and at the end of

security increases etc and at the end of

security increases etc and at the end of the day how high can your walls be how

the day how high can your walls be how

the day how high can your walls be how much security are you going to hire to

much security are you going to hire to

much security are you going to hire to protect your family your loved ones and

protect your family your loved ones and

protect your family your loved ones and those that you really care about for

those that you really care about for

those that you really care about for those of us who have we’re continuing to

those of us who have we’re continuing to

those of us who have we’re continuing to find ourselves in our own prisons and

find ourselves in our own prisons and

find ourselves in our own prisons and the reality is there’s the prophet that

the reality is there’s the prophet that

the reality is there’s the prophet that says that if you want to go fast you fly

says that if you want to go fast you fly

says that if you want to go fast you fly alone but if you want to go far you fly

alone but if you want to go far you fly

alone but if you want to go far you fly together there’s also a Kikuyu saying

together there’s also a Kikuyu saying

together there’s also a Kikuyu saying that goes this way go today with Naqada

that goes this way go today with Naqada

that goes this way go today with Naqada what that means is that nobody berries

what that means is that nobody berries

what that means is that nobody berries themselves we therefore must give each

themselves we therefore must give each

themselves we therefore must give each other a hand with this in mind I want to

other a hand with this in mind I want to

other a hand with this in mind I want to close by telling you of how you can do

close by telling you of how you can do

close by telling you of how you can do this in your own simple way which

this in your own simple way which

this in your own simple way which doesn’t cost much but makes such a big

doesn’t cost much but makes such a big

doesn’t cost much but makes such a big difference in other people’s lives so

difference in other people’s lives so

difference in other people’s lives so I’ll give you a story about a few years

I’ll give you a story about a few years

I’ll give you a story about a few years back when I moved back to Kenya when I

back when I moved back to Kenya when I

back when I moved back to Kenya when I started interacting with a lot of

started interacting with a lot of

started interacting with a lot of artists I discovered that

artists I discovered that

artists I discovered that it was really hard for up-and-coming

it was really hard for up-and-coming

it was really hard for up-and-coming artists to be able to showcase their

artists to be able to showcase their

artists to be able to showcase their work and their talent and for those

work and their talent and for those

work and their talent and for those established ones it was hard for them to

established ones it was hard for them to

established ones it was hard for them to actually earn a decent living and the

actually earn a decent living and the

actually earn a decent living and the reality of it was such for those

reality of it was such for those

reality of it was such for those established ones they had to pay

established ones they had to pay

established ones they had to pay somewhere between 30 and 70 percent of

somewhere between 30 and 70 percent of

somewhere between 30 and 70 percent of the proceeds from their work to the

the proceeds from their work to the

the proceeds from their work to the gallery owners so what happened was I

gallery owners so what happened was I

gallery owners so what happened was I met an artist who had been looking for

met an artist who had been looking for

met an artist who had been looking for for quite some time and this artist his

for quite some time and this artist his

for quite some time and this artist his work is incredible

work is incredible

work is incredible Patrick Kanodia I don’t know if any of

Patrick Kanodia I don’t know if any of

Patrick Kanodia I don’t know if any of you know him and Patrick had a studio in

you know him and Patrick had a studio in

you know him and Patrick had a studio in banana and when I was with a group of

banana and when I was with a group of

banana and when I was with a group of friends of mine they were talking about

friends of mine they were talking about

friends of mine they were talking about how much they were trying to find this

how much they were trying to find this

how much they were trying to find this guy and I said I know him so we

guy and I said I know him so we

guy and I said I know him so we organized that they would go to

organized that they would go to

organized that they would go to Patrick’s studio and once I spoke to

Patrick’s studio and once I spoke to

Patrick’s studio and once I spoke to Patrick it was a bit too far for most of

Patrick it was a bit too far for most of

Patrick it was a bit too far for most of the people to actually go so what I did

the people to actually go so what I did

the people to actually go so what I did was I told Patrick how about you bring

was I told Patrick how about you bring

was I told Patrick how about you bring your work to an apartment that I was

your work to an apartment that I was

your work to an apartment that I was renovating and basically we cleaned this

renovating and basically we cleaned this

renovating and basically we cleaned this place on a Saturday afternoon at 12

place on a Saturday afternoon at 12

place on a Saturday afternoon at 12 o’clock as you can see there are no

o’clock as you can see there are no

o’clock as you can see there are no lights the flow is bare barely a place

lights the flow is bare barely a place

lights the flow is bare barely a place where you can have what historically

where you can have what historically

where you can have what historically people think of as an art gallery but

people think of as an art gallery but

people think of as an art gallery but what happened was that while people came

what happened was that while people came

what happened was that while people came the first one Patrick actually sold

the first one Patrick actually sold

the first one Patrick actually sold about 18 pieces of work that was in

about 18 pieces of work that was in

about 18 pieces of work that was in December 2014 in January 2015 a whole

December 2014 in January 2015 a whole

December 2014 in January 2015 a whole bunch of people kept asking me are you

bunch of people kept asking me are you

bunch of people kept asking me are you doing that odd thing again I hadn’t

doing that odd thing again I hadn’t

doing that odd thing again I hadn’t intended to do it but I called Patrick

intended to do it but I called Patrick

intended to do it but I called Patrick and he said I’ll actually get a few more

and he said I’ll actually get a few more

and he said I’ll actually get a few more artists to do this

artists to do this

artists to do this with me so they brought their work and

with me so they brought their work and

with me so they brought their work and someone else actually came in and his

someone else actually came in and his

someone else actually came in and his name is Sal so what happened with some

name is Sal so what happened with some

name is Sal so what happened with some is that he sold two pieces of painting

is that he sold two pieces of painting

is that he sold two pieces of painting that afternoon and while he was working

that afternoon and while he was working

that afternoon and while he was working out at the end of the day he pulled me

out at the end of the day he pulled me

out at the end of the day he pulled me aside and said Charles I just want to

aside and said Charles I just want to

aside and said Charles I just want to thank you for having this given us this

thank you for having this given us this

thank you for having this given us this opportunity and for the work that I’ve

opportunity and for the work that I’ve

opportunity and for the work that I’ve sold the money and the process that I

sold the money and the process that I

sold the money and the process that I have made will go towards finishing up

have made will go towards finishing up

have made will go towards finishing up the roofing of a house that I’m building

the roofing of a house that I’m building

the roofing of a house that I’m building and buying doors and windows for my new

and buying doors and windows for my new

and buying doors and windows for my new home seven months later he sent me a

home seven months later he sent me a

home seven months later he sent me a photo of himself his wife and twin boys

photo of himself his wife and twin boys

photo of himself his wife and twin boys sitting in front of their newly finished

sitting in front of their newly finished

sitting in front of their newly finished home from that moment on every single

home from that moment on every single

home from that moment on every single time that I think that I’m not going to

time that I think that I’m not going to

time that I think that I’m not going to do these archers again

do these archers again

do these archers again I remember him how such a seemingly

I remember him how such a seemingly

I remember him how such a seemingly small thing that was on my part had such

small thing that was on my part had such

small thing that was on my part had such a big deal to do with him and what

a big deal to do with him and what

a big deal to do with him and what happened is that that has now become a

happened is that that has now become a

happened is that that has now become a fully-fledged exhibition every last

fully-fledged exhibition every last

fully-fledged exhibition every last Saturday of the month in fact today we

Saturday of the month in fact today we

Saturday of the month in fact today we had one and now we hold it at dusit

had one and now we hold it at dusit

had one and now we hold it at dusit Capital FM kids club promoted we have a

Capital FM kids club promoted we have a

Capital FM kids club promoted we have a nice kids corner and that is what keeps

nice kids corner and that is what keeps

nice kids corner and that is what keeps me going every single month that we do

me going every single month that we do

me going every single month that we do this so what I want to say is that each

this so what I want to say is that each

this so what I want to say is that each one of you have to think about what is

one of you have to think about what is

one of you have to think about what is your small act that you can do that will

your small act that you can do that will

your small act that you can do that will change someone’s life and what is your

change someone’s life and what is your

change someone’s life and what is your small act that you can do that will help

small act that you can do that will help

small act that you can do that will help reduce the inequality because at the end

reduce the inequality because at the end

reduce the inequality because at the end of the day it is our moral obligation to

of the day it is our moral obligation to

of the day it is our moral obligation to help those who have less than we do

help those who have less than we do

help those who have less than we do and again if for no other reason because

and again if for no other reason because

and again if for no other reason because for those who will of if we’re going to

for those who will of if we’re going to

for those who will of if we’re going to make sure that they live in an equal

make sure that they live in an equal

make sure that they live in an equal safe society we have to make sure that

safe society we have to make sure that

safe society we have to make sure that we all rise together thank you very much

we all rise together thank you very much

we all rise together thank you very much [Applause]

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