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Basta che un uomo solo sogni | Silvia Paoli Tacchini | TEDxUdine


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hey hi rabbit hello rest leave me

enter the fabulous world of

ordinary wonders auction everyone

good morning

Well you all know the story I hope

that of the fabulous world of alice

wonders of the witch of the palms for

i of the mad white hatter

you have seen it building naturally

Well I’m not like that to surprise you either

on amaze you with spells and spells that

not belong to me at all but

simply to tell you mine

history that is very close to that of

alice and at the time of the fairy tales for

I would like to start so much

again to make you more involved in doing

come back into this world me

would like a show of hands since

you have seen this video understand among the

those who recognize themselves in the hall

daily in alice and who in

white rabbit let’s see how many

white rabbits are there

enough and how many alice ok says poker

the rabbit is also present in the room

white to its why so alice

because fairy tales are fairy tales because

because I could tell you that I like Alice

I have always been a child since I was a child

that incurable disease that of

daydreaming and always and

this daydreaming with time

he then led me to radical choices

very important like that of a year

make me give up and give up a job

sure a job in a company

structured I had a fabulous contract

of indefinite work but that

today it gives a lot of security and to put it

I was also very good at this

job but it was not mine anymore

world was no longer my fabulous world

that I have always dreamed of

so this continuous dreaming since

little girl brought me over time to

take this choice to root a year

do and for what to achieve mine

biggest dream that is the one after

to have become a mother because I am

become a mother

in almost eight years ago it was that of

open a multi-purpose center that me

I define the polyfunctional center of the

wonders why this is at all

multifunctional center effects what

is meant by what today when the

I still see that people make one

face a little strange center

multifunctional is a workplace in

primis that brings people together for

let them work

puts together more planning puts

together adult children puts together

the profit and non-profit world brings together the

dreams creates contacts because life is

made of contacts between the

people even with things if this

touching at times is so magical and

so fantastic that it’s like a touch

between stars and sparks occur

really and so in my space

multifunctional what happens every

day and wonder and wonder at the state

pure and all this certainly happens

because because the spaces and therefore not

only people and ideas really are

perfect are spaces that have long since not

they were waiting for this because everything

it happens in a house it always helps I dreamed

to do what I’m doing in one

home and I had the greatest fortune

to find a perfect home that’s right

it is perfectly suited to everything

what I had in mind is a house

that here is the capital c and beauty

wherever you look , I do not say it

say the texts because this house is on

all the architectural texts were

built immediately after the war

a great architect from Friuli

angel dealers in 49 completed in 51

when still in udine around there were

the ruins of the war

this house for many years was the

home of a family and then

things have changed over time

situations have changed at this house

for about three years it was uninhabited and I

by chance the fabulous case what

sometimes it does not happen

I was lucky to meet this

If you met me, we are here

just met at the right time

that then things happen when they have to

come amaze wonder wherever you are

look, I will show you some

image but believe me the images do not

make the beauty of this place that

what allows allows that the

people arrive to come to work

freelancers of different kinds

or come to stay together

simply among adults and

children together or simply come

why do we make proposals for

growth paths and paths of

well-being to make people feel good

because people need to

feel good and in a place of beauty

all this is even simpler and

so we have a kitchen like all the others

houses that a bit the heart of the house where

when we want we can give ourselves

prepare to eat and have a coffee and

being together and out outside then it’s one

splendor even outside so there was so much

green there are trees that have trees

over 60 years also tell them only

who knows how many things do not want you too

just watch and so it really is

so it is just amazing wonder

wherever you look at it all helps

It helps a lot to feel good among them

people that was what I wanted

always create a container to make

be good people to make them work

well in harmony and so is we there every

we are fine together

among the people among us united together

all with this belief that the

being together is the difference

difference here is this photo then the

leave a moment of background because it is

also significant of a choice that I have

would

face in this house and that already there

gives the input of what it means to be

in this house and the conception of the

time there is in this house that a

place of work we are in slippers or

barefoot

in the first rule when you enter

home this not just for one so for

a respect for the place and for a rule

hygienic because it does not serve you

explain I have everything we bring

under the shoes no but also but

basically because because it’s the

first signal that here inside

in this place of work the space the

time expands so much and this

it is also allowed by the simple

gesture to take off your shoes that time

he expands, he does not realize it

how much time is passing

I actually imagine that all of you

all of you tonight when you get to

home the first thing you will do there

take off your shoes

who knows how many among those present in the hall

they do not already see the time to do it because

in short, keep a foot forced in these

shoes is not so pleasant then

imagine in a work environment

should try maybe some company

because certainly not in all environments

of work this is possible however in

many are an education that can be

acquire first of all at home and then in the

own work environment is a choice

as I chose precisely because the

fairy tales have always belonged to mine

personal nourishment to have

within this house images that

belong to the world of fairy tales

belong to the world of

illustrations of the stories and are

images that communicate much more than

many beautiful words

this above all is an image that

inside the house and communicating

just what we want to bring in

this work space as a concept

fundamental because the people who come

in this workspace it is arrives for

take time and take care

of itself whether it is to work in a

extremely pleasant environment both

either simply to unplug

I come there because I need it

I need to unplug and

arrive in this little haven of peace

which has right in the heart of udine e

so this image that leads right

the hand towards the heart is what it is

we are doing concretely after years and

years and years of so much fantasizing

dream six years to be exact and

I can guarantee you as an anchovy too

that I felt I found myself like

she confused but did not know where to go that

road to take and especially nobody

found me too as an alice many times

to cry and cry because

basically because I insisted on

wanting to make people understand what

I had it in my head and make people understand

such a complex project is not much

simple especially when this

project is only still in my head

it was still in my head and it is not

still tangible you can not see,

I get angry I got to die

so many cries until I said

just enough fine roses irmi enough everything

this wanting to make people understand

others what in my head

so what does it take?

change and this change can

take place only after a period of calm

a period of silence in which one is

at least I understood that mine

fabulous world that was that of the

fairy tales can be carried out then

in real life and this image that

the image that there is the entrance of the

image house that better

conveys this concept is that much

also refers to the world of alice where

everything is upside down and in the mirror where

the logic and analogy where the adult e

the child the high and low small e

great are opposed but also if

match this is possible

to realize it concretely we must

you want to start looking at it

world with eyes different from one

different perspective

how clearly communicates this

image first of all want this

image stood under a beautiful

calendar with a famous phrase of cerci

that said he says he does not always change

it is equivalent to improving but to improve

I have to change this phase

chased for months before tackling

this change

until then I said the arrived

moment

silvia are ready you are ready and everything

this being ready starts from what

but it starts from a choice that comes

still upstream starts with a choice

but that was still many years ago

choose you choose what you want

to do in life

what role if he wants to have in life but

above all you choose if you say yes

he wants to be amazed

yes, I have chosen to be in the world

to amaze me but why I chose this

because I noticed in the years that

there is reason to be amazed

every day every day if we know

look at the world with the eyes of the

fabulous world that teach us fairy tales and

tell cartoons

I was born and raised with fairy tales

with stories and this they have me

taught again I feed on fairy tales of

stories and cartoons and this

they teach me that you can be amazed

wonder every day why

the identification with the hero in the

princess who never has us

made by children I can not believe that

none of you has never done it

reading or listening to a story

identify with a fantastic role e

fabulous helps make life easier and makes us

deal with things in a much more way

simple that what belongs to the

world of fairy tales at the time of fairy tales

but then it can also be done

to everyday life

fairy tales we should take it in hand a

all as adults and therefore not only

educating children is very simple with

the children much more direct to us from

adults we have to take back the hands

fairy tales or watch more cartoons

because fairy tales cartoons have a lot to do

much to send us all this

surely it’s a part that anyway

I think it’s a bit innate in me since always and

so all of this is innate in me

this world this feel

to belong both to the real world but

also to something fabulous that it is not

tangible

definitely in innate mera and this

being innate then leaves no space

delay and then when the time comes

it ‘s time to act

I would also like to tell you this that dreaming

with open eyes it does not mean being

out of the world values ​​also emphasize

if I have been told by many

years often and willingly but what does it do

this never crazy but what an idea in mind but

who makes him do it

I heard it over and over again

say he agrees

ok I let it run I stopped

keep hearing stop at

same to hear these voices and I thought

simply to follow what was

inside me what he told me

instinct silvia your world and that

try to make it come back to it

concrete and so I did I realized

a place where the adult people are

and children meet we create projects

we create growth proposals for

well being and people are fine

they are so good that they really are there

I guarantee the time passes but there is not

realizes how much time

actually going through and then

basically why not

why not do it because you do not create

something beautiful that makes you feel good

people

a yes when and yes is answered to a

the other one is seen this way and this part

yet from a personal path of mine that

then I bring this into this together

space together that started ten

years ago when I left for the

Japan for an experience of

volunteering known by chance because

I accidentally met the service

international civilization and this country from

he always called me because then it happens

even so, things call you and then

you have to actually follow them and so

I did

I left for this country that from

years called me but I did not want to go in

this country as a classic tourist and

especially for everything I could not even

afford it

because a rather challenging country e

so I said sparto and many people

my mother understood it, they thought

God this does not come back this remains

the but no I left I did

this beautiful experience of

I volunteered and I came back with my own

what I needed was the

engine to return reacts here in the

My country that country knows what it has

basically taught me

taught a beautiful thing that is the

sense of gratitude

I have to thank them for being one

extremely fortunate lucky person

because I received a lot and in the first place I have

received I always had the chance

to choose to choose what

I wanted to do that is a great one

freedom to choose that experience

to choose which work to do

and this freedom is certainly not from

everyone is a freedom that anyway also

one is conquered, one is conquered also

with tears and with some closed door

in the face more than one is a freedom that

then in time, however, then once

became a mother

alas I have to say I felt less because

at that time I became a mother and I was

freelancer and be a mother and

freelancer together is not then

I have also been a walk

lucky because I had two

fabulous grandmothers I still could

guarantee a support that not all

objectively , however, I guarantee you

that leave your child to three

months for having to go back to work

because this was not what it was

simple

so it will be little to be enchanted

from the look of your child does not

there was time and inside of me it started

just at that moment I believe to be born

this desire to create some

something of a different level of work where

we could combine family time

the necessities that a family a nor a

genius parent to with a child

especially small with a size

work that allows you to live

together with his son and this is

possible therefore in which in this space

of work that I have created is possible

work and at the same time for whom

he wants to have his own son in the age of

nest a few steps from your office

with an educator in a space throughout

safety

but your child’s size and then

work serenely

with the times and the desire for motherhood is

possible this should be more

can more reality more

companies and basically this is it

it was because because it has always been there

a thought in me

built over time by the experiences of

volunteering that I then also opened

a voluntary association and for

ten years we have not dealt with

parenting support projects

and childhood

now this association grows and yes

develops every day inside the space of

work that I created because I believe

basically that the profit world of the

non-profit world must be together

to create development and planning

new because if we spread beautiful things

the world takes care of bringing things

even better and that’s right

in my life it has always been like this or

widespread I created many beautiful things

of which people still thank me today

but I always got a lot of them

more for this than I have to say thank you

every day and I actually say it

I say thank you for all I have

received thanks for the possibilities that

they are coming to me and for the people who

I’m together with me who believe in

this way of being together because

this is possible

so this space together can

come from a dream from a dream that penn

site enough that one of you dreams like I have

made me inspire you by looking at the

sky looking at the moon then pro

go back to your silence and look at it

earth because dreams can be

to achieve

so I really hope to have

even just a little contagious someone of

you because maybe those who know it in the

next days in the coming months

some of you really can

realize your dreams as I have

I made it

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thanks for listening to me take care

take your time from your dreams

because dreams need time

to be then made thanks

[Applause]

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