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Asperger’s: Not Being Afraid Anymore | Richard Coffey | TEDxChathamKent


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how many of you remember your first day

how many of you remember your first day of high school do you remember what you

of high school do you remember what you

of high school do you remember what you felt like on that day you might have

felt like on that day you might have

felt like on that day you might have come to school all excited maybe a

come to school all excited maybe a

come to school all excited maybe a little nervous you might even have

little nervous you might even have

little nervous you might even have because you maybe saw one your old

because you maybe saw one your old

because you maybe saw one your old friends but then you walk in those big

friends but then you walk in those big

friends but then you walk in those big front doors for the first time and

front doors for the first time and

front doors for the first time and suddenly you’re alone you become one

suddenly you’re alone you become one

suddenly you’re alone you become one person in a sea of students sure you’re

person in a sea of students sure you’re

person in a sea of students sure you’re maybe knew a couple people but on that

maybe knew a couple people but on that

maybe knew a couple people but on that very first day you wouldn’t have known

very first day you wouldn’t have known

very first day you wouldn’t have known anything about hundreds to thousands of

anything about hundreds to thousands of

anything about hundreds to thousands of people you don’t know what they like

people you don’t know what they like

people you don’t know what they like what they don’t like if they talk or act

what they don’t like if they talk or act

what they don’t like if they talk or act a certain way but over time you meet

a certain way but over time you meet

a certain way but over time you meet people and you get to know them and hang

people and you get to know them and hang

people and you get to know them and hang out with them so by the time you

out with them so by the time you

out with them so by the time you graduate or when you graduated you might

graduate or when you graduated you might

graduate or when you graduated you might go for having known one person to

go for having known one person to

go for having known one person to knowing 100 for someone like me though

knowing 100 for someone like me though

knowing 100 for someone like me though is a little different you see I have

is a little different you see I have

is a little different you see I have Asperger syndrome so for someone like me

Asperger syndrome so for someone like me

Asperger syndrome so for someone like me more often but not I’m stuck in what I

more often but not I’m stuck in what I

more often but not I’m stuck in what I like to call first-day mode I’m gonna

like to call first-day mode I’m gonna

like to call first-day mode I’m gonna explain what that means but first I want

explain what that means but first I want

explain what that means but first I want to tell you a little bit about my story

to tell you a little bit about my story

to tell you a little bit about my story so when I was about 4 years old I was

so when I was about 4 years old I was

so when I was about 4 years old I was diagnosed with Asperger syndrome if you

diagnosed with Asperger syndrome if you

diagnosed with Asperger syndrome if you haven’t heard of it

haven’t heard of it

haven’t heard of it Asperger’s syndrome is defined as a

Asperger’s syndrome is defined as a

Asperger’s syndrome is defined as a lifelong personality disorder ever

lifelong personality disorder ever

lifelong personality disorder ever evident from childhood and regarded as a

evident from childhood and regarded as a

evident from childhood and regarded as a mild form of autism

mild form of autism

mild form of autism no doesn’t mean that we’re all geniuses

no doesn’t mean that we’re all geniuses

no doesn’t mean that we’re all geniuses like Einstein or savants like Rain Man

like Einstein or savants like Rain Man

like Einstein or savants like Rain Man it’s disorder characterized by

it’s disorder characterized by

it’s disorder characterized by difficulty with social interactions an

difficulty with social interactions an

difficulty with social interactions an exhibiting a restricted range of

exhibiting a restricted range of

exhibiting a restricted range of interests and or repetitive behaviors an

interests and or repetitive behaviors an

interests and or repetitive behaviors an Asperger’s is everywhere now 1 in 68

Asperger’s is everywhere now 1 in 68

Asperger’s is everywhere now 1 in 68 people are diagnosed with it which

people are diagnosed with it which

people are diagnosed with it which actually statistically suggests I

actually statistically suggests I

actually statistically suggests I shouldn’t even be the only person in

shouldn’t even be the only person in

shouldn’t even be the only person in this room with Asperger’s it’s anybody

this room with Asperger’s it’s anybody

this room with Asperger’s it’s anybody out there no ok

my story with Asperger’s is probably not

my story with Asperger’s is probably not unlike one you may have heard before

unlike one you may have heard before

unlike one you may have heard before when when I was younger especially I did

when when I was younger especially I did

when when I was younger especially I did struggle to make friends and to get

struggle to make friends and to get

struggle to make friends and to get people to like me and want to be around

people to like me and want to be around

people to like me and want to be around me but to be fair when you’re 6 years

me but to be fair when you’re 6 years

me but to be fair when you’re 6 years old and you’re in love with the weather

old and you’re in love with the weather

old and you’re in love with the weather network it’s not really have a lot to go

network it’s not really have a lot to go

network it’s not really have a lot to go off when it comes to making friends

off when it comes to making friends

off when it comes to making friends I was lucky though in elementary school

I was lucky though in elementary school

I was lucky though in elementary school because for three years I got to attend

because for three years I got to attend

because for three years I got to attend what was that what was essentially

what was that what was essentially

what was that what was essentially social to his class whereas like in math

social to his class whereas like in math

social to his class whereas like in math class you learn your times tables I got

class you learn your times tables I got

class you learn your times tables I got to learn all about things like sarcasm

to learn all about things like sarcasm

to learn all about things like sarcasm and body language and facial expressions

and body language and facial expressions

and body language and facial expressions and so many things that most people

and so many things that most people

and so many things that most people don’t even realize they already

don’t even realize they already

don’t even realize they already understand when I hit high school though

understand when I hit high school though

understand when I hit high school though that’s a different story we’re talking

that’s a different story we’re talking

that’s a different story we’re talking having to go classroom to classroom

having to go classroom to classroom

having to go classroom to classroom really crowded hallways and lunch rooms

really crowded hallways and lunch rooms

really crowded hallways and lunch rooms different teachers with a lot more

different teachers with a lot more

different teachers with a lot more students than me and new faces so many

students than me and new faces so many

students than me and new faces so many new faces in my school alone there over

new faces in my school alone there over

new faces in my school alone there over 2,000 students enrolled

2,000 students enrolled

2,000 students enrolled that means over 2,000 faces to analyze

that means over 2,000 faces to analyze

that means over 2,000 faces to analyze and thousands possible conversations to

and thousands possible conversations to

and thousands possible conversations to plan for well you might be saying well

plan for well you might be saying well

plan for well you might be saying well that’s crazy I want you to plan for

that’s crazy I want you to plan for

that’s crazy I want you to plan for conversations they don’t going to happen

conversations they don’t going to happen

conversations they don’t going to happen but you see when you’re an Aspie like me

but you see when you’re an Aspie like me

but you see when you’re an Aspie like me you don’t necessarily get the ability to

you don’t necessarily get the ability to

you don’t necessarily get the ability to just talk to somebody I know myself

just talk to somebody I know myself

just talk to somebody I know myself especially I don’t know the person I

especially I don’t know the person I

especially I don’t know the person I have to stop analyze the situation

have to stop analyze the situation

have to stop analyze the situation analyze everything that’s going on to be

analyze everything that’s going on to be

analyze everything that’s going on to be able to understand what’s go what’s what

able to understand what’s go what’s what

able to understand what’s go what’s what to say next now probably does make a ton

to say next now probably does make a ton

to say next now probably does make a ton of sense so I researched I found an

of sense so I researched I found an

of sense so I researched I found an analogy but I think makes a little bit

analogy but I think makes a little bit

analogy but I think makes a little bit simpler understand think what this you

simpler understand think what this you

simpler understand think what this you take a baby and the baby grows up in

take a baby and the baby grows up in

take a baby and the baby grows up in Spain that baby’s gonna learn how to

Spain that baby’s gonna learn how to

Spain that baby’s gonna learn how to speak Spanish just by listening to the

speak Spanish just by listening to the

speak Spanish just by listening to the world around it whereas you take

world around it whereas you take

world around it whereas you take somebody who’s never spoken Spanish

somebody who’s never spoken Spanish

somebody who’s never spoken Spanish ain’t dropped them in the middle of

ain’t dropped them in the middle of

ain’t dropped them in the middle of Madrid and they’re gonna have a problem

Madrid and they’re gonna have a problem

Madrid and they’re gonna have a problem and it works the same way somebody

and it works the same way somebody

and it works the same way somebody without Asperger’s learn social skills

without Asperger’s learn social skills

without Asperger’s learn social skills naturally just by listening to the world

naturally just by listening to the world

naturally just by listening to the world around them but for someone like me

around them but for someone like me

around them but for someone like me going to high school can feel like

going to high school can feel like

going to high school can feel like dropping me in the middle of Madrid it’s

dropping me in the middle of Madrid it’s

dropping me in the middle of Madrid it’s a foreign place where I don’t know a lot

a foreign place where I don’t know a lot

a foreign place where I don’t know a lot of people that don’t speak the same

of people that don’t speak the same

of people that don’t speak the same language so

language so

language so someone without Asperger’s or someone

someone without Asperger’s or someone

someone without Asperger’s or someone from Spain communicate be as simple as

from Spain communicate be as simple as

from Spain communicate be as simple as speaking in Spanish but for someone like

speaking in Spanish but for someone like

speaking in Spanish but for someone like me I have to look at everything going on

me I have to look at everything going on

me I have to look at everything going on beyond just what’s being said be able to

beyond just what’s being said be able to

beyond just what’s being said be able to understand and you know it can be

understand and you know it can be

understand and you know it can be frustrating having Asperger’s in high

frustrating having Asperger’s in high

frustrating having Asperger’s in high school because you’re almost stuck in a

school because you’re almost stuck in a

school because you’re almost stuck in a sort of no-man’s land meaning on the

sort of no-man’s land meaning on the

sort of no-man’s land meaning on the outside you look normal enough because

outside you look normal enough because

outside you look normal enough because you don’t necessarily stick out like

you don’t necessarily stick out like

you don’t necessarily stick out like such as people who have lower

such as people who have lower

such as people who have lower functioning autism that people would

functioning autism that people would

functioning autism that people would think that socially you should be able

think that socially you should be able

think that socially you should be able to act like everyone else but you’re

to act like everyone else but you’re

to act like everyone else but you’re still on the autistic spectrum enough

still on the autistic spectrum enough

still on the autistic spectrum enough but it’s hard to do that and that’s what

but it’s hard to do that and that’s what

but it’s hard to do that and that’s what life often felt would feel like it still

life often felt would feel like it still

life often felt would feel like it still feels like sometimes I’d be sitting in

feels like sometimes I’d be sitting in

feels like sometimes I’d be sitting in class my teacher will be explaining an

class my teacher will be explaining an

class my teacher will be explaining an assignment and because on the outside I

assignment and because on the outside I

assignment and because on the outside I look normal enough I look like I knew it

look normal enough I look like I knew it

look normal enough I look like I knew it was going on but I know my brain is

was going on but I know my brain is

was going on but I know my brain is functioned so it’s set up so that I need

functioned so it’s set up so that I need

functioned so it’s set up so that I need to have a physical copy of written

to have a physical copy of written

to have a physical copy of written instruction stead of just having it

instruction stead of just having it

instruction stead of just having it verbally explained so even though I

verbally explained so even though I

verbally explained so even though I looked like a new it was going on well

looked like a new it was going on well

looked like a new it was going on well you know like those when a computer has

you know like those when a computer has

you know like those when a computer has too many functions and it goes into

too many functions and it goes into

too many functions and it goes into overload that’s what my brain will be

overload that’s what my brain will be

overload that’s what my brain will be going like and I think that’s what first

going like and I think that’s what first

going like and I think that’s what first day mode that was talking about earlier

day mode that was talking about earlier

day mode that was talking about earlier is if you tried to point out the person

is if you tried to point out the person

is if you tried to point out the person with Asperger’s in high school you

with Asperger’s in high school you

with Asperger’s in high school you couldn’t because the outside nothing

couldn’t because the outside nothing

couldn’t because the outside nothing seems out of the ordinary just like the

seems out of the ordinary just like the

seems out of the ordinary just like the grade nines in the first day of high

grade nines in the first day of high

grade nines in the first day of high school they come in all excited to be

school they come in all excited to be

school they come in all excited to be there but secretly they’re scared

there but secretly they’re scared

there but secretly they’re scared because don’t know what to say who to

because don’t know what to say who to

because don’t know what to say who to talk to

talk to

talk to well they’re saying this to this first

well they’re saying this to this first

well they’re saying this to this first will make that person upset and it’s

will make that person upset and it’s

will make that person upset and it’s scary you have to remember for someone

scary you have to remember for someone

scary you have to remember for someone like me I faced first day mode basically

like me I faced first day mode basically

like me I faced first day mode basically every day I wanted to come in and just

every day I wanted to come in and just

every day I wanted to come in and just have normal conversations with people

have normal conversations with people

have normal conversations with people but I didn’t know what to say to them I

but I didn’t know what to say to them I

but I didn’t know what to say to them I was scared I was especially scared to

was scared I was especially scared to

was scared I was especially scared to just mention it at all they had

just mention it at all they had

just mention it at all they had Asperger’s so what this did was it put

Asperger’s so what this did was it put

Asperger’s so what this did was it put me into two separate worlds one hand had

me into two separate worlds one hand had

me into two separate worlds one hand had the one world I showed people the one

the one world I showed people the one

the one world I showed people the one through social classes and analysis and

through social classes and analysis and

through social classes and analysis and observation constantly that

observation constantly that

observation constantly that could relatively get by socially

could relatively get by socially

could relatively get by socially basically the one you’re seeing right

basically the one you’re seeing right

basically the one you’re seeing right now but on the other hand I had the one

now but on the other hand I had the one

now but on the other hand I had the one I the world I didn’t show people the one

I the world I didn’t show people the one

I the world I didn’t show people the one that was constantly analyzing and

that was constantly analyzing and

that was constantly analyzing and observing and trying to keep up

observing and trying to keep up

observing and trying to keep up socially everyone else the one that was

socially everyone else the one that was

socially everyone else the one that was terrified that if anybody knew he’d

terrified that if anybody knew he’d

terrified that if anybody knew he’d Asperger’s did anybody know he was

Asperger’s did anybody know he was

Asperger’s did anybody know he was different but that would be it his life

different but that would be it his life

different but that would be it his life would be over

would be over

would be over you’d be an outcast forever he’d be

you’d be an outcast forever he’d be

you’d be an outcast forever he’d be finished and you might be saying what’s

finished and you might be saying what’s

finished and you might be saying what’s crazy but because don’t don’t they tell

crazy but because don’t don’t they tell

crazy but because don’t don’t they tell you in school that it’s okay to be

you in school that it’s okay to be

you in school that it’s okay to be different and don’t try and make

different and don’t try and make

different and don’t try and make yourself normal and it’s sad to say but

yourself normal and it’s sad to say but

yourself normal and it’s sad to say but that that works on a motivational poster

that that works on a motivational poster

that that works on a motivational poster but if we’re being honest in high school

but if we’re being honest in high school

but if we’re being honest in high school were all afraid to be different we’re

were all afraid to be different we’re

were all afraid to be different we’re scared about people we don’t know think

scared about people we don’t know think

scared about people we don’t know think of us and were terrified of what our

of us and were terrified of what our

of us and were terrified of what our friends will think of us and I think

friends will think of us and I think

friends will think of us and I think that’s why as an Aspie I wanted to be

that’s why as an Aspie I wanted to be

that’s why as an Aspie I wanted to be normal so badly because normal was safe

normal so badly because normal was safe

normal so badly because normal was safe normal was a box I could put myself in

normal was a box I could put myself in

normal was a box I could put myself in closed off on all sides nobody could

closed off on all sides nobody could

closed off on all sides nobody could hurt me I got to keep the friends that I

hurt me I got to keep the friends that I

hurt me I got to keep the friends that I had that I worked so hard to get so what

had that I worked so hard to get so what

had that I worked so hard to get so what allow it is feeling for years until one

allow it is feeling for years until one

allow it is feeling for years until one day I was sitting in the cafeteria with

day I was sitting in the cafeteria with

day I was sitting in the cafeteria with one of my friends and I don’t remember

one of my friends and I don’t remember

one of my friends and I don’t remember the actual conversation but I just

the actual conversation but I just

the actual conversation but I just remember he turns to me and he goes hey

remember he turns to me and he goes hey

remember he turns to me and he goes hey man he believed that that guy so

man he believed that that guy so

man he believed that that guy so autistic and kids in my school have

autistic and kids in my school have

autistic and kids in my school have talked have talked with us all the time

talked have talked with us all the time

talked have talked with us all the time and for the most part I just I just

and for the most part I just I just

and for the most part I just I just ignored it but for some reason I could I

ignored it but for some reason I could I

ignored it but for some reason I could I couldn’t tell you why if I with a

couldn’t tell you why if I with a

couldn’t tell you why if I with a million talks but for some reason on

million talks but for some reason on

million talks but for some reason on that day I decided to say something so I

that day I decided to say something so I

that day I decided to say something so I just I got really really angry and I

just I got really really angry and I

just I got really really angry and I told them dude that’s really not cool

told them dude that’s really not cool

told them dude that’s really not cool well I said some other stuff I can’t

well I said some other stuff I can’t

well I said some other stuff I can’t stay here

and you got really surprised he was

and you got really surprised he was what’s what’s up why I said because I

what’s what’s up why I said because I

what’s what’s up why I said because I have autism and that was the first time

have autism and that was the first time

have autism and that was the first time I’d ever personally told somebody about

I’d ever personally told somebody about

I’d ever personally told somebody about having autism and you don’t my friend

having autism and you don’t my friend

having autism and you don’t my friend did nobody did he said that’s great and

did nobody did he said that’s great and

did nobody did he said that’s great and I went right back to eating his lunch

I went right back to eating his lunch

I went right back to eating his lunch and you guys have to understand what

and you guys have to understand what

and you guys have to understand what such a simple moment did for me I was so

such a simple moment did for me I was so

such a simple moment did for me I was so afraid the longest time that even just

afraid the longest time that even just

afraid the longest time that even just talking about having Asperger’s about

talking about having Asperger’s about

talking about having Asperger’s about being different would ruin me but what I

being different would ruin me but what I

being different would ruin me but what I learned is is people don’t care that

learned is is people don’t care that

learned is is people don’t care that that sounded a lot better in my head no

that sounded a lot better in my head no

that sounded a lot better in my head no and I think this is the point that

and I think this is the point that

and I think this is the point that people with conditions beyond Asperger’s

people with conditions beyond Asperger’s

people with conditions beyond Asperger’s don’t often really often don’t realize

don’t often really often don’t realize

don’t often really often don’t realize whatever condition or problem or

whatever condition or problem or

whatever condition or problem or challenge that you have that you have in

challenge that you have that you have in

challenge that you have that you have in your life but you’re not telling people

your life but you’re not telling people

your life but you’re not telling people doesn’t change who you are to them your

doesn’t change who you are to them your

doesn’t change who you are to them your friends won’t stop being your friends

friends won’t stop being your friends

friends won’t stop being your friends just because you opened up part of your

just because you opened up part of your

just because you opened up part of your life to them a challenge for you is you

life to them a challenge for you is you

life to them a challenge for you is you have to be willing to help them learn

have to be willing to help them learn

have to be willing to help them learn about it and actually have to experience

about it and actually have to experience

about it and actually have to experience this from the other side of that about

this from the other side of that about

this from the other side of that about about a year ago because but a year ago

about a year ago because but a year ago

about a year ago because but a year ago I was speaking I was invited to speak in

I was speaking I was invited to speak in

I was speaking I was invited to speak in a competition and speech competition and

a competition and speech competition and

a competition and speech competition and I decided to speak about having

I decided to speak about having

I decided to speak about having Asperger’s and after the competition

Asperger’s and after the competition

Asperger’s and after the competition another kid who it had spoken came out

another kid who it had spoken came out

another kid who it had spoken came out to me I told me he liked my story he

to me I told me he liked my story he

to me I told me he liked my story he also told me that he had a brother who

also told me that he had a brother who

also told me that he had a brother who had Asperger’s and he didn’t understand

had Asperger’s and he didn’t understand

had Asperger’s and he didn’t understand how to talk to him so he asked me if it

how to talk to him so he asked me if it

how to talk to him so he asked me if it I had any advice so I thought about it

I had any advice so I thought about it

I had any advice so I thought about it then I thought what’s the one simple

then I thought what’s the one simple

then I thought what’s the one simple thing that happened to me it changed

thing that happened to me it changed

thing that happened to me it changed everything

everything

everything so I told him just sit down with your

so I told him just sit down with your

so I told him just sit down with your brother and just talk to him just ask

brother and just talk to him just ask

brother and just talk to him just ask him a few questions

him a few questions

him a few questions you may say nothing he may ramble on for

you may say nothing he may ramble on for

you may say nothing he may ramble on for 20 minutes about the TV show he saw last

20 minutes about the TV show he saw last

20 minutes about the TV show he saw last night which it might be irrelevant but

night which it might be irrelevant but

night which it might be irrelevant but just knowing that you’re there that you

just knowing that you’re there that you

just knowing that you’re there that you want to listen and to understand that

want to listen and to understand that

want to listen and to understand that can be enough the point of why I’m up

can be enough the point of why I’m up

can be enough the point of why I’m up here today the point of why I decided to

here today the point of why I decided to

here today the point of why I decided to do this is really simple nobody deserves

do this is really simple nobody deserves

do this is really simple nobody deserves to feel scared to feel ashamed to feel

to feel scared to feel ashamed to feel

to feel scared to feel ashamed to feel alone because they’re different and this

alone because they’re different and this

alone because they’re different and this is what I want to leave you with today

is what I want to leave you with today

is what I want to leave you with today just two words so that nobody has to

just two words so that nobody has to

just two words so that nobody has to feel scared feel ashamed or feel alone

feel scared feel ashamed or feel alone

feel scared feel ashamed or feel alone talk more

talk more

talk more what does talk more mean it means just

what does talk more mean it means just

what does talk more mean it means just taking five minutes out of your day to

taking five minutes out of your day to

taking five minutes out of your day to just talk to somebody five minutes it

just talk to somebody five minutes it

just talk to somebody five minutes it may seem simple but just because talking

may seem simple but just because talking

may seem simple but just because talking to somebody may not feel like it’s

to somebody may not feel like it’s

to somebody may not feel like it’s changing your life you talking to them

changing your life you talking to them

changing your life you talking to them might be what’s changing there’s we all

might be what’s changing there’s we all

might be what’s changing there’s we all have challenges in our lives and just

have challenges in our lives and just

have challenges in our lives and just talking to somebody can make it so much

talking to somebody can make it so much

talking to somebody can make it so much better talking to somebody could make it

better talking to somebody could make it

better talking to somebody could make it they make them feel like they’re wanted

they make them feel like they’re wanted

they make them feel like they’re wanted look like they don’t have to hide who

look like they don’t have to hide who

look like they don’t have to hide who they are to people because even just for

they are to people because even just for

they are to people because even just for five minutes for someone there to listen

five minutes for someone there to listen

five minutes for someone there to listen to them to understand why they feel

to them to understand why they feel

to them to understand why they feel scared they feel ashamed they feel alone

forgetting with this let’s go back for

forgetting with this let’s go back for one minute to that first day of high

one minute to that first day of high

one minute to that first day of high school what happens if someone in that

school what happens if someone in that

school what happens if someone in that school sees that little grade 9 walking

school sees that little grade 9 walking

school sees that little grade 9 walking around scared not knowing what to do

around scared not knowing what to do

around scared not knowing what to do what to say and instead of ignoring them

what to say and instead of ignoring them

what to say and instead of ignoring them just takes five minutes it just talks to

just takes five minutes it just talks to

just takes five minutes it just talks to them helps to understand where they’re

them helps to understand where they’re

them helps to understand where they’re going

going

going maybe maybe introduces them to one of

maybe maybe introduces them to one of

maybe maybe introduces them to one of their friends that I know somebody know

their friends that I know somebody know

their friends that I know somebody know what happens if we take that school and

what happens if we take that school and

what happens if we take that school and we make it anywhere on earth

we make it anywhere on earth

we make it anywhere on earth we take our scared little grade 9 let me

we take our scared little grade 9 let me

we take our scared little grade 9 let me make it anybody on earth

make it anybody on earth

make it anybody on earth what happens if today you go up to that

what happens if today you go up to that

what happens if today you go up to that lonely kid in the cafeteria or the guy

lonely kid in the cafeteria or the guy

lonely kid in the cafeteria or the guy at the office

at the office

at the office nobody seems to want to talk to you and

nobody seems to want to talk to you and

nobody seems to want to talk to you and just said hi just started a simple

just said hi just started a simple

just said hi just started a simple conversation just taking five minutes to

conversation just taking five minutes to

conversation just taking five minutes to talk to that person and listen to what

talk to that person and listen to what

talk to that person and listen to what they have to say talk more it’s two

they have to say talk more it’s two

they have to say talk more it’s two simple words but when we do it we we

simple words but when we do it we we

simple words but when we do it we we break down those boxes that we build up

break down those boxes that we build up

break down those boxes that we build up to protect ourselves because they’re not

to protect ourselves because they’re not

to protect ourselves because they’re not needed anymore because we don’t have to

needed anymore because we don’t have to

needed anymore because we don’t have to be afraid anymore

be afraid anymore

be afraid anymore just talk more that’s why I won’t leave

just talk more that’s why I won’t leave

just talk more that’s why I won’t leave you guys with today thank you

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