first of all I have an apology to make right okay because after all that really
right okay because after all that really
right okay because after all that really kind introduction I am standing before
kind introduction I am standing before
kind introduction I am standing before you I have no idea what I’m here to say
you I have no idea what I’m here to say
you I have no idea what I’m here to say well that kind of reminded me of the
well that kind of reminded me of the
well that kind of reminded me of the very first TEDx that I was asked to do
very first TEDx that I was asked to do
very first TEDx that I was asked to do right about four years ago I was
right about four years ago I was
right about four years ago I was approached by TEDx KL and then
approached by TEDx KL and then
approached by TEDx KL and then essentially in a very very busy urology
essentially in a very very busy urology
essentially in a very very busy urology clinic I receive a phone call the phone
clinic I receive a phone call the phone
clinic I receive a phone call the phone call goes like this and it someone
call goes like this and it someone
call goes like this and it someone called me up and said professor Lee is
called me up and said professor Lee is
called me up and said professor Lee is it possible will you be interested in
it possible will you be interested in
it possible will you be interested in doing a TED talk it was so busy the only
doing a TED talk it was so busy the only
doing a TED talk it was so busy the only thing I heard was professor Lee is it
thing I heard was professor Lee is it
thing I heard was professor Lee is it possible if you can do a sex talk
something that is supposed to be a TED
something that is supposed to be a TED talk that will change your life and
talk that will change your life and
talk that will change your life and suddenly I misheard it as a sex talk
suddenly I misheard it as a sex talk
suddenly I misheard it as a sex talk right okay I’m a urologist and therefore
right okay I’m a urologist and therefore
right okay I’m a urologist and therefore you know I deal with sexual issues all
you know I deal with sexual issues all
you know I deal with sexual issues all the time and therefore I assume this was
the time and therefore I assume this was
the time and therefore I assume this was a sexed walk so throughout the few
a sexed walk so throughout the few
a sexed walk so throughout the few months I receive phone calls like you
months I receive phone calls like you
months I receive phone calls like you know saying would you like to do a voice
know saying would you like to do a voice
know saying would you like to do a voice coaching body you know you know posture
coaching body you know you know posture
coaching body you know you know posture monitoring look I do sex talk every
monitoring look I do sex talk every
monitoring look I do sex talk every single day so I really don’t need any
single day so I really don’t need any
single day so I really don’t need any coaching for this so the night before
coaching for this so the night before
coaching for this so the night before the actual TED talks TEDx care in all ug
the actual TED talks TEDx care in all ug
the actual TED talks TEDx care in all ug I suddenly receive a phone call when I
I suddenly receive a phone call when I
I suddenly receive a phone call when I was having dinner with my kids so my
was having dinner with my kids so my
was having dinner with my kids so my daughter was in front of me and then I
daughter was in front of me and then I
daughter was in front of me and then I received this phone cause it excuse me
received this phone cause it excuse me
received this phone cause it excuse me professor Lee you have to come here for
professor Lee you have to come here for
professor Lee you have to come here for a rehearsal then I said look I don’t
a rehearsal then I said look I don’t
a rehearsal then I said look I don’t know who you are but I do sex talk every
know who you are but I do sex talk every
know who you are but I do sex talk every single day I know how to deal with that
single day I know how to deal with that
single day I know how to deal with that and then so I put out the phone my
and then so I put out the phone my
and then so I put out the phone my daughter asked me Dad who’s that I said
daughter asked me Dad who’s that I said
daughter asked me Dad who’s that I said someone called Ted
my daughter said that hang on a minute
my daughter said that hang on a minute te d Ted like this is like an idea worth
te d Ted like this is like an idea worth
te d Ted like this is like an idea worth spreading and then we is we is
spreading and then we is we is
spreading and then we is we is broadcasted to 500 million people in the
broadcasted to 500 million people in the
broadcasted to 500 million people in the world you are a penis doctor why would
world you are a penis doctor why would
world you are a penis doctor why would they ask you I was like te d stands for
they ask you I was like te d stands for
they ask you I was like te d stands for technology and education and design I
technology and education and design I
technology and education and design I say which part of penis doctor are you
say which part of penis doctor are you
say which part of penis doctor are you now I say young lady you’d be careful
now I say young lady you’d be careful
now I say young lady you’d be careful those penises pay for your school fees
those penises pay for your school fees
those penises pay for your school fees okay anyway I said look dad can be quite
okay anyway I said look dad can be quite
okay anyway I said look dad can be quite techno savvy as well I said dad come on
techno savvy as well I said dad come on
techno savvy as well I said dad come on there was once we were in a restaurant
there was once we were in a restaurant
there was once we were in a restaurant someone came to you and said professor
someone came to you and said professor
someone came to you and said professor Lee can I do a selfie with you and I
Lee can I do a selfie with you and I
Lee can I do a selfie with you and I said what selfie now here in front of my
said what selfie now here in front of my
said what selfie now here in front of my children
children
children right I said I named my daughter sit dad
right I said I named my daughter sit dad
right I said I named my daughter sit dad want you to see what are you thinking
want you to see what are you thinking
want you to see what are you thinking she just wants to take a picture with
she just wants to take a picture with
she just wants to take a picture with you Oh selfie sir she really didn’t know
you Oh selfie sir she really didn’t know
you Oh selfie sir she really didn’t know what I was thinking at that time when I
what I was thinking at that time when I
what I was thinking at that time when I was being asked what selfie was anyway
was being asked what selfie was anyway
was being asked what selfie was anyway several years founder line yeah that’s
several years founder line yeah that’s
several years founder line yeah that’s quite funny right
quite funny right
quite funny right yeah several years down the line I
yeah several years down the line I
yeah several years down the line I become quite techno savvy now right okay
become quite techno savvy now right okay
become quite techno savvy now right okay this is a picture of me going back to
this is a picture of me going back to
this is a picture of me going back to Cambridge right okay
Cambridge right okay
Cambridge right okay I am quite techno-savvy so you know that
I am quite techno-savvy so you know that
I am quite techno-savvy so you know that you can see like you know Instagram dr.
you can see like you know Instagram dr.
you can see like you know Instagram dr. Josh Lee so because I got a bit hurt my
Josh Lee so because I got a bit hurt my
Josh Lee so because I got a bit hurt my daughter told me that I actually not was
daughter told me that I actually not was
daughter told me that I actually not was to techno-savvy so I went for a job with
to techno-savvy so I went for a job with
to techno-savvy so I went for a job with my son and this is outside Senate house
my son and this is outside Senate house
my son and this is outside Senate house in Cambridge 27 years after I graduated
in Cambridge 27 years after I graduated
in Cambridge 27 years after I graduated and then my son asked me dad stop I
and then my son asked me dad stop I
and then my son asked me dad stop I didn’t take a picture erection
didn’t take a picture erection
didn’t take a picture erection specialist and my dad sit at my son sit
specialist and my dad sit at my son sit
specialist and my dad sit at my son sit that’s you dad he was being right okay
that’s you dad he was being right okay
that’s you dad he was being right okay and then from my Monash University you
and then from my Monash University you
and then from my Monash University you know students actually say nice shot
know students actually say nice shot
know students actually say nice shot trough and your name as well is there
trough and your name as well is there
trough and your name as well is there you can see Josh is written there well
you can see Josh is written there well
you can see Josh is written there well looking anyway coming back to my TED
looking anyway coming back to my TED
looking anyway coming back to my TED talk so when I appear in front of 3,000
talk so when I appear in front of 3,000
talk so when I appear in front of 3,000 people in TEDx KL suddenly I prepare a
people in TEDx KL suddenly I prepare a
people in TEDx KL suddenly I prepare a sex talk so I suddenly got really
sex talk so I suddenly got really
sex talk so I suddenly got really worried because I suddenly thought look
worried because I suddenly thought look
worried because I suddenly thought look what exactly do they want to hear from
what exactly do they want to hear from
what exactly do they want to hear from me is it because of my pharmacological
me is it because of my pharmacological
me is it because of my pharmacological career in Cambridge or is it because of
career in Cambridge or is it because of
career in Cambridge or is it because of my transplant career in Oxford or is it
my transplant career in Oxford or is it
my transplant career in Oxford or is it because of Imperial College or is it
because of Imperial College or is it
because of Imperial College or is it because of my clinical associate
because of my clinical associate
because of my clinical associate professor role at Monash insolently I
professor role at Monash insolently I
professor role at Monash insolently I thought you know what they might just be
thought you know what they might just be
thought you know what they might just be interested in what I do because one of
interested in what I do because one of
interested in what I do because one of the things that I do as a urologist is
the things that I do as a urologist is
the things that I do as a urologist is actually learning from patients to find
actually learning from patients to find
actually learning from patients to find out why there is a differences between
out why there is a differences between
out why there is a differences between male and female treatment seeking
male and female treatment seeking
male and female treatment seeking behavior because in many ways many of
behavior because in many ways many of
behavior because in many ways many of you will know that life expectancy
you will know that life expectancy
you will know that life expectancy between men and women is markedly
between men and women is markedly
between men and women is markedly different because across the world from
different because across the world from
different because across the world from Swaziland to Japan you will see that men
Swaziland to Japan you will see that men
Swaziland to Japan you will see that men actually the short change by women by at
actually the short change by women by at
actually the short change by women by at least five years in their life
least five years in their life
least five years in their life expectancy some of you but the reality
expectancy some of you but the reality
expectancy some of you but the reality is men seeking help they always seek
is men seeking help they always seek
is men seeking help they always seek help a little bit this TEDx talk
help a little bit this TEDx talk
help a little bit this TEDx talk told them how I learn from my Asian
told them how I learn from my Asian
told them how I learn from my Asian experience in order to change because I
experience in order to change because I
experience in order to change because I feel that that is a very important part
feel that that is a very important part
feel that that is a very important part of my career in order to find out why is
of my career in order to find out why is
of my career in order to find out why is there a treatment seeking behavior
there a treatment seeking behavior
there a treatment seeking behavior between men and women because I think
between men and women because I think
between men and women because I think mankind is not too kind to men that’s
mankind is not too kind to men that’s
mankind is not too kind to men that’s pretty good right come on right okay
anyway that TEDx went really well apart
anyway that TEDx went really well apart from I was being told off for mentioning
from I was being told off for mentioning
from I was being told off for mentioning penises about two years later I receive
penises about two years later I receive
penises about two years later I receive another phone calls this time is TEDx
another phone calls this time is TEDx
another phone calls this time is TEDx Petaling Street and I was going yeah
Petaling Street and I was going yeah
Petaling Street and I was going yeah yeah yeah I know what to do now I know
yeah yeah I know what to do now I know
yeah yeah I know what to do now I know what to do and then until I turn up I
what to do and then until I turn up I
what to do and then until I turn up I said I even want to give you the title
said I even want to give you the title
said I even want to give you the title of my talk it’s called the gift of fear
of my talk it’s called the gift of fear
of my talk it’s called the gift of fear that sounds really good when I turn up
that sounds really good when I turn up
that sounds really good when I turn up there were about 2,000 people on this
there were about 2,000 people on this
there were about 2,000 people on this location I suddenly realized that it’s
location I suddenly realized that it’s
location I suddenly realized that it’s not the title or the topic I got wrong
not the title or the topic I got wrong
not the title or the topic I got wrong suddenly I realized that this is a TEDx
suddenly I realized that this is a TEDx
suddenly I realized that this is a TEDx in Mandarin remember I prepare the TEDx
in Mandarin remember I prepare the TEDx
in Mandarin remember I prepare the TEDx in English however facing with adversity
in English however facing with adversity
in English however facing with adversity with the title on my top the gif of fear
with the title on my top the gif of fear
with the title on my top the gif of fear I needed to face and confront my fear
I needed to face and confront my fear
I needed to face and confront my fear and deal with that adversity and so I
and deal with that adversity and so I
and deal with that adversity and so I did it
did it
did it well I guess some people quite
well I guess some people quite
well I guess some people quite with style but I did it the right okay
with style but I did it the right okay
with style but I did it the right okay oh that’s pretty good I speak well I’m
oh that’s pretty good I speak well I’m
oh that’s pretty good I speak well I’m from Kota Bharu I went to a really small
from Kota Bharu I went to a really small
from Kota Bharu I went to a really small Chinese school you know my Chinese is
Chinese school you know my Chinese is
Chinese school you know my Chinese is still not too bad
still not too bad
still not too bad so I delivered the talk in Mandarin and
so I delivered the talk in Mandarin and
so I delivered the talk in Mandarin and the crunch of the tall essentially it’s
the crunch of the tall essentially it’s
the crunch of the tall essentially it’s about my fear it’s about a fear that
about my fear it’s about a fear that
about my fear it’s about a fear that actually has been haunting me for years
actually has been haunting me for years
actually has been haunting me for years and years I have this fear of death a
and years I have this fear of death a
and years I have this fear of death a lot of us have fear of death but I have
lot of us have fear of death but I have
lot of us have fear of death but I have this really probably disproportionate
this really probably disproportionate
this really probably disproportionate fear of death because when I was a kid
fear of death because when I was a kid
fear of death because when I was a kid my dad is a very superstitious man
my dad is a very superstitious man
my dad is a very superstitious man worked out all these kind of like as
worked out all these kind of like as
worked out all these kind of like as fortune teller things and all of us had
fortune teller things and all of us had
fortune teller things and all of us had got all our little problems that we may
got all our little problems that we may
got all our little problems that we may face according to my dad you know
face according to my dad you know
face according to my dad you know fortune teller and for mine I was told I
fortune teller and for mine I was told I
fortune teller and for mine I was told I was going to die on my birthday and then
was going to die on my birthday and then
was going to die on my birthday and then so the interesting things that every
so the interesting things that every
so the interesting things that every birthday you wonder whether this is your
birthday you wonder whether this is your
birthday you wonder whether this is your last birthday so interestingly the talk
last birthday so interestingly the talk
last birthday so interestingly the talk that I was giving was not about my
that I was giving was not about my
that I was giving was not about my birthday it’s about an experience I had
birthday it’s about an experience I had
birthday it’s about an experience I had when I I’ve been back to Malaysia for
when I I’ve been back to Malaysia for
when I I’ve been back to Malaysia for about ten years now on my seventh year
about ten years now on my seventh year
about ten years now on my seventh year in Malaysia I had burglary at home in
in Malaysia I had burglary at home in
in Malaysia I had burglary at home in the middle of the night about four
the middle of the night about four
the middle of the night about four thirty eight I remember it well because
thirty eight I remember it well because
thirty eight I remember it well because my face was pinned to the floor I had
my face was pinned to the floor I had
my face was pinned to the floor I had three people came to my house they
three people came to my house they
three people came to my house they basically tied me up beat the crap out
basically tied me up beat the crap out
basically tied me up beat the crap out of me
of me
of me can I see crap they said yeah I said it
can I see crap they said yeah I said it
can I see crap they said yeah I said it anyway so okay and then basically tie me
anyway so okay and then basically tie me
anyway so okay and then basically tie me up and then was demanding money I had
up and then was demanding money I had
up and then was demanding money I had 200 ringgit at home and at that time I
200 ringgit at home and at that time I
200 ringgit at home and at that time I scream and asked what my wife was
scream and asked what my wife was
scream and asked what my wife was sleeping with my daughter to say run the
sleeping with my daughter to say run the
sleeping with my daughter to say run the first thing my wife did was I open the
first thing my wife did was I open the
first thing my wife did was I open the balcony and jump off and then well it’s
balcony and jump off and then well it’s
balcony and jump off and then well it’s not very tall building so she jumped off
not very tall building so she jumped off
not very tall building so she jumped off and asked for help so it was Brad down
and asked for help so it was Brad down
and asked for help so it was Brad down all the way to the kitchen had a big
all the way to the kitchen had a big
all the way to the kitchen had a big paring and my neck and then the only
paring and my neck and then the only
paring and my neck and then the only thing they decided to do was to say who
thing they decided to do was to say who
thing they decided to do was to say who no laughs so that’s a moment that I
no laughs so that’s a moment that I
no laughs so that’s a moment that I don’t think any one of you would have
don’t think any one of you would have
don’t think any one of you would have experienced in your life to say in that
experienced in your life to say in that
experienced in your life to say in that final moment
final moment
final moment what are you thinking so that was what I
what are you thinking so that was what I
what are you thinking so that was what I was writing down and delivering in my
was writing down and delivering in my
was writing down and delivering in my TED talk when my daughter asked me dead
TED talk when my daughter asked me dead
TED talk when my daughter asked me dead what exactly were you thinking of course
what exactly were you thinking of course
what exactly were you thinking of course I told her I was thinking about you
I told her I was thinking about you
I told her I was thinking about you darling
darling
darling right okay but the reality was that the
right okay but the reality was that the
right okay but the reality was that the only thing I was thinking was that the
only thing I was thinking was that the
only thing I was thinking was that the week before that I had the burglary I
week before that I had the burglary I
week before that I had the burglary I went to Petra and then the only thing
went to Petra and then the only thing
went to Petra and then the only thing that flashed across my mind was I
that flashed across my mind was I
that flashed across my mind was I haven’t been to it the pyramid
haven’t been to it the pyramid
haven’t been to it the pyramid maybe next time laughs right and then
maybe next time laughs right and then
maybe next time laughs right and then strangely enough there’s a strange thing
strangely enough there’s a strange thing
strangely enough there’s a strange thing that came across because at that time
that came across because at that time
that came across because at that time you knew it was going to be the last
you knew it was going to be the last
you knew it was going to be the last moment of your life and then suddenly
moment of your life and then suddenly
moment of your life and then suddenly think of something else
think of something else
think of something else so that was an interesting TED talk that
so that was an interesting TED talk that
so that was an interesting TED talk that a year but the crutch of the story was
a year but the crutch of the story was
a year but the crutch of the story was at the end of that burglary the police
at the end of that burglary the police
at the end of that burglary the police started taking statement and the police
started taking statement and the police
started taking statement and the police asked me is it painful bleeding down my
asked me is it painful bleeding down my
asked me is it painful bleeding down my skull it asked me whether it’s painful
skull it asked me whether it’s painful
skull it asked me whether it’s painful okay and then the next thing he asked me
okay and then the next thing he asked me
okay and then the next thing he asked me was that did you lose a lot I said look
was that did you lose a lot I said look
was that did you lose a lot I said look you know I I lost watch my ya know my
you know I I lost watch my ya know my
you know I I lost watch my ya know my dad gave me and then they said don’t
dad gave me and then they said don’t
dad gave me and then they said don’t worry lie in the other place they killed
worry lie in the other place they killed
worry lie in the other place they killed the other guy you know come on you only
the other guy you know come on you only
the other guy you know come on you only lost a watch if the if you treat this as
lost a watch if the if you treat this as
lost a watch if the if you treat this as taxation then you feel better the last
taxation then you feel better the last
taxation then you feel better the last thing he said to me was that don’t worry
thing he said to me was that don’t worry
thing he said to me was that don’t worry LA if you don’t really like living in
LA if you don’t really like living in
LA if you don’t really like living in Malaysia you always have a choice to go
Malaysia you always have a choice to go
Malaysia you always have a choice to go to Singapore at that time was a hangry I
to Singapore at that time was a hangry I
to Singapore at that time was a hangry I was really really angry for six months I
was really really angry for six months I
was really really angry for six months I really was struggling because I was in
really was struggling because I was in
really was struggling because I was in fear I kept thinking about wanting to go
fear I kept thinking about wanting to go
fear I kept thinking about wanting to go back to Cambridge and I really was angry
back to Cambridge and I really was angry
back to Cambridge and I really was angry until something changed my life one day
until something changed my life one day
until something changed my life one day my son saw how depressed I was because
my son saw how depressed I was because
my son saw how depressed I was because was six months I lived in hell
was six months I lived in hell
was six months I lived in hell constantly I heard things I live in a
constantly I heard things I live in a
constantly I heard things I live in a bird bird cage that the shutter was
bird bird cage that the shutter was
bird bird cage that the shutter was shutting down every single night and one
shutting down every single night and one
shutting down every single night and one day my son said to me dad I used to in
day my son said to me dad I used to in
day my son said to me dad I used to in pain I said well no not really but I’m
pain I said well no not really but I’m
pain I said well no not really but I’m in fear my son said dad but the thing is
in fear my son said dad but the thing is
in fear my son said dad but the thing is it’s not that bad right what we’re still
it’s not that bad right what we’re still
it’s not that bad right what we’re still together so it could be a lot worse in
together so it could be a lot worse in
together so it could be a lot worse in reality I was here
reality I was here
reality I was here different things when the police said it
different things when the police said it
different things when the police said it the police said that look they killed
the police said that look they killed
the police said that look they killed the other guy they didn’t kill you but
the other guy they didn’t kill you but
the other guy they didn’t kill you but when you hear it from your son they
when you hear it from your son they
when you hear it from your son they actually say it’s not that bad right
actually say it’s not that bad right
actually say it’s not that bad right because they kill the other guy or you
because they kill the other guy or you
because they kill the other guy or you know they didn’t kill you and you’re
know they didn’t kill you and you’re
know they didn’t kill you and you’re still with us and my son my son asked me
still with us and my son my son asked me
still with us and my son my son asked me a second question
a second question
a second question did we lose many things I say a lot of
did we lose many things I say a lot of
did we lose many things I say a lot of watch that your dad gave me it’s a
watch that your dad gave me it’s a
watch that your dad gave me it’s a sentimental value and my son said maybe
sentimental value and my son said maybe
sentimental value and my son said maybe granddad thinks that this will actually
granddad thinks that this will actually
granddad thinks that this will actually buy you your life maybe he knows
buy you your life maybe he knows
buy you your life maybe he knows therefore you have to give this watch a
therefore you have to give this watch a
therefore you have to give this watch a way to buy your life so it’s just like
way to buy your life so it’s just like
way to buy your life so it’s just like taxation laughs right okay the last
taxation laughs right okay the last
taxation laughs right okay the last thing is said that if you truly are
thing is said that if you truly are
thing is said that if you truly are unhappy then we can always move back to
unhappy then we can always move back to
unhappy then we can always move back to England and that moment really changed
England and that moment really changed
England and that moment really changed my life because suddenly I realized that
my life because suddenly I realized that
my life because suddenly I realized that when you’re faced with adversity or fear
when you’re faced with adversity or fear
when you’re faced with adversity or fear or the fear of death suddenly you can
or the fear of death suddenly you can
or the fear of death suddenly you can look at how unlucky you are or how lucky
look at how unlucky you are or how lucky
look at how unlucky you are or how lucky you are
you are
you are and therefore subsequently we have been
and therefore subsequently we have been
and therefore subsequently we have been living in the same house living normally
living in the same house living normally
living in the same house living normally I’m actually quite happy something like
I’m actually quite happy something like
I’m actually quite happy something like that happened to me because from that
that happened to me because from that
that happened to me because from that day onwards I live like very differently
day onwards I live like very differently
day onwards I live like very differently because suddenly I realized that I live
because suddenly I realized that I live
because suddenly I realized that I live like if this was ever going to be the
like if this was ever going to be the
like if this was ever going to be the very last day today I might not see
very last day today I might not see
very last day today I might not see tomorrow again therefore I make the full
tomorrow again therefore I make the full
tomorrow again therefore I make the full use of it and make it as rewarding as
use of it and make it as rewarding as
use of it and make it as rewarding as possible
possible
possible oh come on that deserve round the pores
then TEDx Monash University called me
then TEDx Monash University called me and said can you do another today’s then
and said can you do another today’s then
and said can you do another today’s then I was just thinking at that time I was
I was just thinking at that time I was
I was just thinking at that time I was actually in Cambridge and then I was
actually in Cambridge and then I was
actually in Cambridge and then I was actually attending a play and then I
actually attending a play and then I
actually attending a play and then I said what is your topic is gonna be they
said what is your topic is gonna be they
said what is your topic is gonna be they asked me and then I heard this is it let
asked me and then I heard this is it let
asked me and then I heard this is it let me embrace the sava adversity for wise
me embrace the sava adversity for wise
me embrace the sava adversity for wise men say it does wisest cause Sonny I
men say it does wisest cause Sonny I
men say it does wisest cause Sonny I said okay I’m going to do stat or I’m
said okay I’m going to do stat or I’m
said okay I’m going to do stat or I’m gonna call the power of adversity I’m
gonna call the power of adversity I’m
gonna call the power of adversity I’m gonna tell you a last story that going
gonna tell you a last story that going
gonna tell you a last story that going to highlight what I mean by that okay so
to highlight what I mean by that okay so
to highlight what I mean by that okay so the power adversity for the talk today
the power adversity for the talk today
the power adversity for the talk today I’m gonna give you is in other problems
I’m gonna give you is in other problems
I’m gonna give you is in other problems I faced in my life you might think I’m
I faced in my life you might think I’m
I faced in my life you might think I’m absolutely accident-prone right always
absolutely accident-prone right always
absolutely accident-prone right always end up in trouble I will show you a
end up in trouble I will show you a
end up in trouble I will show you a picture of me right okay this is if you
picture of me right okay this is if you
picture of me right okay this is if you if you if anyone of you actually look at
if you if anyone of you actually look at
if you if anyone of you actually look at my wet sir this is a picture I put up
my wet sir this is a picture I put up
my wet sir this is a picture I put up this is a bike my mom bought for you
this is a bike my mom bought for you
this is a bike my mom bought for you have a fifty-year-old I still get gifts
have a fifty-year-old I still get gifts
have a fifty-year-old I still get gifts on my mom right okay that’s quite
on my mom right okay that’s quite
on my mom right okay that’s quite interesting it’s safety on 99-88 my mum
interesting it’s safety on 99-88 my mum
interesting it’s safety on 99-88 my mum bought this best part for me I’m really
bought this best part for me I’m really
bought this best part for me I’m really loved by King but this is something that
loved by King but this is something that
loved by King but this is something that I feel like I really enjoy so one day I
I feel like I really enjoy so one day I
I feel like I really enjoy so one day I actually took this bike I live in Mount
actually took this bike I live in Mount
actually took this bike I live in Mount Kyra I work at Gleneagles and I wrote
Kyra I work at Gleneagles and I wrote
Kyra I work at Gleneagles and I wrote all this bike all the way to mount er to
all this bike all the way to mount er to
all this bike all the way to mount er to blend Eagles and after seeing the
blend Eagles and after seeing the
blend Eagles and after seeing the patients me load my ward round this was
patients me load my ward round this was
patients me load my ward round this was only 18 months ago I drove back and then
only 18 months ago I drove back and then
only 18 months ago I drove back and then I said goodbye to patients I drove back
I said goodbye to patients I drove back
I said goodbye to patients I drove back and I hit a pothole and I fell into the
and I hit a pothole and I fell into the
and I hit a pothole and I fell into the pothole the bike landed on my chest and
pothole the bike landed on my chest and
pothole the bike landed on my chest and I was lying in the street thinking this
I was lying in the street thinking this
I was lying in the street thinking this is it it’s not my birthday
and I was lying there the cars kept
and I was lying there the cars kept passing me I was thinking if I’m not
passing me I was thinking if I’m not
passing me I was thinking if I’m not going to die because of accident
going to die because of accident
going to die because of accident someone’s gonna trust me to death here I
someone’s gonna trust me to death here I
someone’s gonna trust me to death here I better come up so I woke up I tried to
better come up so I woke up I tried to
better come up so I woke up I tried to kick-start the bite again it didn’t work
kick-start the bite again it didn’t work
kick-start the bite again it didn’t work so suddenly I thought I was going to
so suddenly I thought I was going to
so suddenly I thought I was going to over to the hospital right okay I pick
over to the hospital right okay I pick
over to the hospital right okay I pick up my phone my phone was smashed
up my phone my phone was smashed
up my phone my phone was smashed so I did what I did was that I actually
so I did what I did was that I actually
so I did what I did was that I actually just walked home walk back to the
just walked home walk back to the
just walked home walk back to the hospital is 20 minutes walk I kept
hospital is 20 minutes walk I kept
hospital is 20 minutes walk I kept walking back because at that time the
walking back because at that time the
walking back because at that time the only thing he said I don’t want this to
only thing he said I don’t want this to
only thing he said I don’t want this to be today and I walk back when I was in
be today and I walk back when I was in
be today and I walk back when I was in accident emergency I got a phone from my
accident emergency I got a phone from my
accident emergency I got a phone from my colleague and said I need to call my
colleague and said I need to call my
colleague and said I need to call my wife when I call my wife my wife said
wife when I call my wife my wife said
wife when I call my wife my wife said okay do I have time to head hair wash
okay do I have time to head hair wash
okay do I have time to head hair wash Birds or are you really that serious
I couldn’t breathe I really couldn’t
I couldn’t breathe I really couldn’t breathe so I said to my colleague guys
breathe so I said to my colleague guys
breathe so I said to my colleague guys put me into the CT scanner then they
put me into the CT scanner then they
put me into the CT scanner then they said no no no you probably have a
said no no no you probably have a
said no no no you probably have a pneumothorax which is punctured your
pneumothorax which is punctured your
pneumothorax which is punctured your lung let me put a chest drain in and
lung let me put a chest drain in and
lung let me put a chest drain in and everything I said guys no seriously then
everything I said guys no seriously then
everything I said guys no seriously then eventually they’re convinced they say
eventually they’re convinced they say
eventually they’re convinced they say actually put me through the CT scanner
actually put me through the CT scanner
actually put me through the CT scanner they said to me do you want a good news
they said to me do you want a good news
they said to me do you want a good news or do you want a bad news I said both
or do you want a bad news I said both
or do you want a bad news I said both please they said the good news if you
please they said the good news if you
please they said the good news if you don’t have a punctured lung the bad news
don’t have a punctured lung the bad news
don’t have a punctured lung the bad news is you just ruptured your spleen and you
is you just ruptured your spleen and you
is you just ruptured your spleen and you just torn your liver and you have about
just torn your liver and you have about
just torn your liver and you have about 1 and 1/2 liters of blood in your
1 and 1/2 liters of blood in your
1 and 1/2 liters of blood in your abdomen so I said ok they’re all hit ok
abdomen so I said ok they’re all hit ok
abdomen so I said ok they’re all hit ok they said we need to push you to ICU sir
they said we need to push you to ICU sir
they said we need to push you to ICU sir because we might need to take you to
because we might need to take you to
because we might need to take you to operating theatre so they pushed me to
operating theatre so they pushed me to
operating theatre so they pushed me to ICU the patient I’ve just seen I wave hi
ICU the patient I’ve just seen I wave hi
ICU the patient I’ve just seen I wave hi to her and the only thing she said was
to her and the only thing she said was
to her and the only thing she said was it so who’s gonna see me tomorrow oh
it so who’s gonna see me tomorrow oh
it so who’s gonna see me tomorrow oh come on that’s good right so I was lying
come on that’s good right so I was lying
come on that’s good right so I was lying there and then I suddenly realized that
there and then I suddenly realized that
there and then I suddenly realized that I might die because my colleague came in
I might die because my colleague came in
I might die because my colleague came in and said you have 30% chance of dying at
and said you have 30% chance of dying at
and said you have 30% chance of dying at that moment I picked up a notebook I
that moment I picked up a notebook I
that moment I picked up a notebook I wrote down all my account number and
wrote down all my account number and
wrote down all my account number and passwords I give to my wife and said
passwords I give to my wife and said
passwords I give to my wife and said enjoy your life and she said thank you
enjoy your life and she said thank you
enjoy your life and she said thank you oh not bad right ok so at this moment I
oh not bad right ok so at this moment I
oh not bad right ok so at this moment I really was ready Isis no it felt like
really was ready Isis no it felt like
really was ready Isis no it felt like look sometimes life is just like that it
look sometimes life is just like that it
look sometimes life is just like that it might be your last day already so you
might be your last day already so you
might be your last day already so you just have to accept it so for some
just have to accept it so for some
just have to accept it so for some whatever run-run reasons you can just
whatever run-run reasons you can just
whatever run-run reasons you can just read any medical textbook there’s no
read any medical textbook there’s no
read any medical textbook there’s no splenic injury that nuts does not need
splenic injury that nuts does not need
splenic injury that nuts does not need an operation and suddenly within 24
an operation and suddenly within 24
an operation and suddenly within 24 hours my bleeding stopped
hours my bleeding stopped
hours my bleeding stopped and then suddenly I could wake up and
and then suddenly I could wake up and
and then suddenly I could wake up and then I was pushed to the wall and I was
then I was pushed to the wall and I was
then I was pushed to the wall and I was ok don’t knows what happened right
ok don’t knows what happened right
ok don’t knows what happened right only thing that I found out was that I
only thing that I found out was that I
only thing that I found out was that I really was struggling because I was in
really was struggling because I was in
really was struggling because I was in pain I was in so much pain
pain I was in so much pain
pain I was in so much pain because my lung was stuck to my spleen
because my lung was stuck to my spleen
because my lung was stuck to my spleen and I couldn’t breathe and when I was in
and I couldn’t breathe and when I was in
and I couldn’t breathe and when I was in the hospital ward I fell off the bed
the hospital ward I fell off the bed
the hospital ward I fell off the bed because I suddenly realized that I have
because I suddenly realized that I have
because I suddenly realized that I have no use of my hand I still have scars on
no use of my hand I still have scars on
no use of my hand I still have scars on my hands
my hands
my hands I suddenly realized that I was in so
I suddenly realized that I was in so
I suddenly realized that I was in so much pain but I’m alive
much pain but I’m alive
much pain but I’m alive what should I do should I feel sorry for
what should I do should I feel sorry for
what should I do should I feel sorry for myself or should I move on and that was
myself or should I move on and that was
myself or should I move on and that was a moment I suddenly remember a patient
a moment I suddenly remember a patient
a moment I suddenly remember a patient said something to me a testicular
said something to me a testicular
said something to me a testicular patient said something to me to say
patient said something to me to say
patient said something to me to say sometimes adversity in your life
sometimes adversity in your life
sometimes adversity in your life actually make you a stronger person and
actually make you a stronger person and
actually make you a stronger person and it changed the course of your life and
it changed the course of your life and
it changed the course of your life and that is something called the power of
that is something called the power of
that is something called the power of adversity so I suddenly realized that
adversity so I suddenly realized that
adversity so I suddenly realized that the bleeding stopped I was given a
the bleeding stopped I was given a
the bleeding stopped I was given a second chance I stood up I actually
second chance I stood up I actually
second chance I stood up I actually caught my driver went home and told my
caught my driver went home and told my
caught my driver went home and told my wife that I’m okay now of course she was
wife that I’m okay now of course she was
wife that I’m okay now of course she was a bit disappointed and then the
a bit disappointed and then the
a bit disappointed and then the following day I went back to work I
following day I went back to work I
following day I went back to work I started operating two days after
started operating two days after
started operating two days after house-painting injury and since then I
house-painting injury and since then I
house-painting injury and since then I actually have not looked back so ladies
actually have not looked back so ladies
actually have not looked back so ladies and gentlemen I started telling you a
and gentlemen I started telling you a
and gentlemen I started telling you a story about how adversity can change
story about how adversity can change
story about how adversity can change your life this is a picture that was
your life this is a picture that was
your life this is a picture that was taken two weeks before my accident I was
taken two weeks before my accident I was
taken two weeks before my accident I was 108 kilo at that time suddenly this is a
108 kilo at that time suddenly this is a
108 kilo at that time suddenly this is a picture that was taken last week in my
picture that was taken last week in my
picture that was taken last week in my new Instagram that’s not my new wife
new Instagram that’s not my new wife
new Instagram that’s not my new wife that’s my splice I co-instructor right
that’s my splice I co-instructor right
that’s my splice I co-instructor right okay I have lost I have now ha I’m now
okay I have lost I have now ha I’m now
okay I have lost I have now ha I’m now 82 kilo and I’m counting I suddenly
82 kilo and I’m counting I suddenly
82 kilo and I’m counting I suddenly realized that I love my life
realized that I love my life
realized that I love my life I begin to enjoy everything I begin to
I begin to enjoy everything I begin to
I begin to enjoy everything I begin to change everything I don’t to leave you
change everything I don’t to leave you
change everything I don’t to leave you with something that I learned from my
with something that I learned from my
with something that I learned from my patient in life we faced with adversity
patient in life we faced with adversity
patient in life we faced with adversity and is the strongest people
and is the strongest people
and is the strongest people actually rise from all that adversity
actually rise from all that adversity
actually rise from all that adversity and make good use of your life and don’t
and make good use of your life and don’t
and make good use of your life and don’t waste it just like what Victor Hugo said
waste it just like what Victor Hugo said
waste it just like what Victor Hugo said adversity makes men and Prosperity makes
adversity makes men and Prosperity makes
adversity makes men and Prosperity makes monster on that note thank you very much
monster on that note thank you very much
monster on that note thank you very much [Applause]
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