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Adventures of a Cultural Nomad | Dipti Kumar | TEDxMonashUniversityMalaysia


in early 2015 Jack Ma the founder of

in early 2015 Jack Ma the founder of Alibaba said that more than 34 percent

Alibaba said that more than 34 percent

Alibaba said that more than 34 percent of their senior management are women and

of their senior management are women and

of their senior management are women and is the secret sauce of the company that

is the secret sauce of the company that

is the secret sauce of the company that year

year

year Alibaba recorded a five point five

Alibaba recorded a five point five

Alibaba recorded a five point five billion US dollar profit while Amazon

billion US dollar profit while Amazon

billion US dollar profit while Amazon reporter 241 million dollar loss Alibaba

reporter 241 million dollar loss Alibaba

reporter 241 million dollar loss Alibaba has always been regarded as an industry

has always been regarded as an industry

has always been regarded as an industry leader and has proven itself by being

leader and has proven itself by being

leader and has proven itself by being kind of a filter over the years Jack Ma

kind of a filter over the years Jack Ma

kind of a filter over the years Jack Ma Ocwen attributes its success to

Ocwen attributes its success to

Ocwen attributes its success to embracing diversity of all kinds

embracing diversity of all kinds

embracing diversity of all kinds including gender this visionary was able

including gender this visionary was able

including gender this visionary was able to see the true value in embracing

to see the true value in embracing

to see the true value in embracing diversity to provide all of this big and

diversity to provide all of this big and

diversity to provide all of this big and efficient solutions diversity is defined

efficient solutions diversity is defined

efficient solutions diversity is defined as the condition or instance of being

as the condition or instance of being

as the condition or instance of being composed of different elements so what

composed of different elements so what

composed of different elements so what is it about the diversity right we get

is it about the diversity right we get

is it about the diversity right we get it

it

it that’s a diversity of everything gender

that’s a diversity of everything gender

that’s a diversity of everything gender sexuality personalities food you know

sexuality personalities food you know

sexuality personalities food you know big Malaysians color we hear the word

big Malaysians color we hear the word

big Malaysians color we hear the word diversity all the time and if that most

diversity all the time and if that most

diversity all the time and if that most of us formulations come from a very

of us formulations come from a very

of us formulations come from a very diverse land and exposed to it so Jana

diverse land and exposed to it so Jana

diverse land and exposed to it so Jana why are we not excellent at it yet the

why are we not excellent at it yet the

why are we not excellent at it yet the key words here are embracing diversity

key words here are embracing diversity

key words here are embracing diversity to embrace these to do more than merely

to embrace these to do more than merely

to embrace these to do more than merely accept something to accept it is just to

accept something to accept it is just to

accept something to accept it is just to do things you know walk around it to

do things you know walk around it to

do things you know walk around it to embrace it is to live with it to work

embrace it is to live with it to work

embrace it is to live with it to work with it and to be part of it but people

with it and to be part of it but people

with it and to be part of it but people ask why why should i erase diversity why

ask why why should i erase diversity why

ask why why should i erase diversity why can I just stick with my Punjabi friends

can I just stick with my Punjabi friends

can I just stick with my Punjabi friends my female colleagues my entire sexual

my female colleagues my entire sexual

my female colleagues my entire sexual classmates logical question why should I

classmates logical question why should I

classmates logical question why should I put in extra effort to go and do things

put in extra effort to go and do things

put in extra effort to go and do things I normally don’t do with people I don’t

I normally don’t do with people I don’t

I normally don’t do with people I don’t only hang out

only hang out

only hang out Immanuel Kant an 18th century German

Immanuel Kant an 18th century German

Immanuel Kant an 18th century German philosopher once said that enlightenment

philosopher once said that enlightenment

philosopher once said that enlightenment is man’s emergence from his

is man’s emergence from his

is man’s emergence from his could immaturity cut in trying to

could immaturity cut in trying to

could immaturity cut in trying to understand what success means to him and

understand what success means to him and

understand what success means to him and the human race theorized on what purpose

the human race theorized on what purpose

the human race theorized on what purpose we are capable of achieving and super

we are capable of achieving and super

we are capable of achieving and super beings in his walk Kant devises an

beings in his walk Kant devises an

beings in his walk Kant devises an unrealized future state of the human

unrealized future state of the human

unrealized future state of the human world not defined by federalism state is

world not defined by federalism state is

world not defined by federalism state is seeking individualism with a sense of

seeking individualism with a sense of

seeking individualism with a sense of moral and cultural maturity this ideal

moral and cultural maturity this ideal

moral and cultural maturity this ideal society is not something he created

society is not something he created

society is not something he created based on one who has seen the world or

based on one who has seen the world or

based on one who has seen the world or some ideal dreams that we had but this

some ideal dreams that we had but this

some ideal dreams that we had but this future society was depicted by him based

future society was depicted by him based

future society was depicted by him based on a casual and rigid study of sociology

on a casual and rigid study of sociology

on a casual and rigid study of sociology human behavior and the history of the

human behavior and the history of the

human behavior and the history of the human development for the time of course

human development for the time of course

human development for the time of course no more sitting in a pod careful study

no more sitting in a pod careful study

no more sitting in a pod careful study we don’t see that Kant’s theory had a

we don’t see that Kant’s theory had a

we don’t see that Kant’s theory had a major factor guess what diversity this

major factor guess what diversity this

major factor guess what diversity this theory had human beings who embraced and

theory had human beings who embraced and

theory had human beings who embraced and lived within diversity seeing it as

lived within diversity seeing it as

lived within diversity seeing it as valuable and important in helping each

valuable and important in helping each

valuable and important in helping each other develop and grow despite some –

other develop and grow despite some –

other develop and grow despite some – downsides and challenges along the way

downsides and challenges along the way

downsides and challenges along the way this seems a successful model with all

this seems a successful model with all

this seems a successful model with all sectors of the economy and society

sectors of the economy and society

sectors of the economy and society benefiting this is what we’re talking

benefiting this is what we’re talking

benefiting this is what we’re talking about today everywhere achieving a

about today everywhere achieving a

about today everywhere achieving a united wholesome society that embraces

united wholesome society that embraces

united wholesome society that embraces diversity the diversity that keeps

diversity the diversity that keeps

diversity the diversity that keeps growing and being able to do away with

growing and being able to do away with

growing and being able to do away with our individual reserves and arbitrary

our individual reserves and arbitrary

our individual reserves and arbitrary borders that we call countries we talk

borders that we call countries we talk

borders that we call countries we talk about world peace all the time we here

about world peace all the time we here

about world peace all the time we here will peace all time inequality poverty

will peace all time inequality poverty

will peace all time inequality poverty slowly but surely

slowly but surely

slowly but surely yes we’re getting there but we’re not

yes we’re getting there but we’re not

yes we’re getting there but we’re not there yet and we’re far from it only

there yet and we’re far from it only

there yet and we’re far from it only with us you and I human beings as

with us you and I human beings as

with us you and I human beings as individuals see the true value diversity

individuals see the true value diversity

individuals see the true value diversity and the immaturity in our defensive

and the immaturity in our defensive

and the immaturity in our defensive stance towards fellow humans who are

stance towards fellow humans who are

stance towards fellow humans who are just different we will progress a lot

just different we will progress a lot

just different we will progress a lot further not me in terms of my

further not me in terms of my

further not me in terms of my but I mean a lot further right

but I mean a lot further right

but I mean a lot further right holistically economically mentally our

holistically economically mentally our

holistically economically mentally our mental and physical health and the

mental and physical health and the

mental and physical health and the general happiness of human beings if

general happiness of human beings if

general happiness of human beings if human beings are built to be able to

human beings are built to be able to

human beings are built to be able to reach this state in our social

reach this state in our social

reach this state in our social development why not in this busy day in

development why not in this busy day in

development why not in this busy day in age of mobile phones

age of mobile phones

age of mobile phones well success startup war and

well success startup war and

well success startup war and interconnectedness human beings are so

interconnectedness human beings are so

interconnectedness human beings are so consumed with the world that we created

consumed with the world that we created

consumed with the world that we created ourselves right we are not superficially

ourselves right we are not superficially

ourselves right we are not superficially the world not about gadgets technologies

the world not about gadgets technologies

the world not about gadgets technologies water dams Wi-Fi networks

water dams Wi-Fi networks

water dams Wi-Fi networks none of it mean a thing it only means

none of it mean a thing it only means

none of it mean a thing it only means something to human beings am I the train

something to human beings am I the train

something to human beings am I the train from a young age to be consumed by our

from a young age to be consumed by our

from a young age to be consumed by our personal lives we always had something

personal lives we always had something

personal lives we always had something to do finish something it you need an

to do finish something it you need an

to do finish something it you need an assignment but we’re not given the space

assignment but we’re not given the space

assignment but we’re not given the space and the time to think about what defines

and the time to think about what defines

and the time to think about what defines us as individuals and what defines us as

us as individuals and what defines us as

us as individuals and what defines us as people right this is the self-incurred

people right this is the self-incurred

people right this is the self-incurred immaturity that Kant was talking about

immaturity that Kant was talking about

immaturity that Kant was talking about and he said the key to making this

and he said the key to making this

and he said the key to making this change is reason true success is in

change is reason true success is in

change is reason true success is in living a full and complete life being

living a full and complete life being

living a full and complete life being transformed weathers and transforming

transformed weathers and transforming

transformed weathers and transforming others lives as children or the 21st

others lives as children or the 21st

others lives as children or the 21st century when diversity is becoming more

century when diversity is becoming more

century when diversity is becoming more and more corporate catchphrase you share

and more corporate catchphrase you share

and more corporate catchphrase you share it all the time everywhere embracing

it all the time everywhere embracing

it all the time everywhere embracing diversity as a species is imminent and

diversity as a species is imminent and

diversity as a species is imminent and necessary and it will come it has to

necessary and it will come it has to

necessary and it will come it has to happen whether through bloodshed of

happen whether through bloodshed of

happen whether through bloodshed of peaceful conciliation and now is the

peaceful conciliation and now is the

peaceful conciliation and now is the time for you to embrace diversity and

time for you to embrace diversity and

time for you to embrace diversity and those who don’t do it first will not

those who don’t do it first will not

those who don’t do it first will not reap rewards as much as possible first

reap rewards as much as possible first

reap rewards as much as possible first they will reap the rewards

they will reap the rewards

they will reap the rewards multiple now allow me to share with you

multiple now allow me to share with you

multiple now allow me to share with you my little story of being the token

my little story of being the token

my little story of being the token diversity person the adventures of a

diversity person the adventures of a

diversity person the adventures of a cultural go man I have a cute family of

cultural go man I have a cute family of

cultural go man I have a cute family of three kids the middle child born and

three kids the middle child born and

three kids the middle child born and bred in Bangkok Oliver for I had a fun

bred in Bangkok Oliver for I had a fun

bred in Bangkok Oliver for I had a fun childhood for most of it I come from a

childhood for most of it I come from a

childhood for most of it I come from a single

single

single and I have always enjoyed the

and I have always enjoyed the

and I have always enjoyed the completeness of my as the up child I had

completeness of my as the up child I had

completeness of my as the up child I had the privilege to attend many classes

the privilege to attend many classes

the privilege to attend many classes belly to piano classes and get white

belly to piano classes and get white

belly to piano classes and get white eggs together person fighting classes

eggs together person fighting classes

eggs together person fighting classes swimming drama and reading goes on and

swimming drama and reading goes on and

swimming drama and reading goes on and actually I see well it’s not part

actually I see well it’s not part

actually I see well it’s not part financial challenges what a common issue

financial challenges what a common issue

financial challenges what a common issue as we had what only one so great winner

as we had what only one so great winner

as we had what only one so great winner I started learning at the age of 13

I started learning at the age of 13

I started learning at the age of 13 giving tuition to the neighborhood kids

giving tuition to the neighborhood kids

giving tuition to the neighborhood kids I never took an allowance with my mom

I never took an allowance with my mom

I never took an allowance with my mom funny part of my own meals my own

funny part of my own meals my own

funny part of my own meals my own expenditure and I never felt a lack

expenditure and I never felt a lack

expenditure and I never felt a lack something the one thing though that my

something the one thing though that my

something the one thing though that my mother always ensured was that my

mother always ensured was that my

mother always ensured was that my education never suffered she would save

education never suffered she would save

education never suffered she would save in many other ways but she would always

in many other ways but she would always

in many other ways but she would always ensure our access to books stationery

ensure our access to books stationery

ensure our access to books stationery the internet safe wormed good food it’s

the internet safe wormed good food it’s

the internet safe wormed good food it’s always available I went to school I

always available I went to school I

always available I went to school I would speak normally I was invested in I

would speak normally I was invested in I

would speak normally I was invested in I would never complete my homework

would never complete my homework

would never complete my homework how do percent of the time guys and for

how do percent of the time guys and for

how do percent of the time guys and for most of my secondary school I was out of

most of my secondary school I was out of

most of my secondary school I was out of class in the stairways you know what’s

class in the stairways you know what’s

class in the stairways you know what’s cool whooping whooping class yeah

cool whooping whooping class yeah

cool whooping whooping class yeah studies wise I did pretty well suppose

studies wise I did pretty well suppose

studies wise I did pretty well suppose today I never wanted to stand up the

today I never wanted to stand up the

today I never wanted to stand up the thing is about my life I didn’t stand up

thing is about my life I didn’t stand up

thing is about my life I didn’t stand up I’m kajaani the people could understand

I’m kajaani the people could understand

I’m kajaani the people could understand why I never had a core behind my name

why I never had a core behind my name

why I never had a core behind my name and I feel them in Punjabi Hindu you see

and I feel them in Punjabi Hindu you see

and I feel them in Punjabi Hindu you see they like you

they like you

they like you what’s up with your skin color I’m like

what’s up with your skin color I’m like

what’s up with your skin color I’m like me okay

me okay

me okay I’ve always been it’s my personality

I’ve always been it’s my personality

I’ve always been it’s my personality many teachers could not stand my style

many teachers could not stand my style

many teachers could not stand my style and hated the way I ask questions all

and hated the way I ask questions all

and hated the way I ask questions all the time at the age of 14 I was told

the time at the age of 14 I was told

the time at the age of 14 I was told that I would have to find a way to find

that I would have to find a way to find

that I would have to find a way to find my own education or risk not studying

my own education or risk not studying

my own education or risk not studying financial challenges I had heard of a

financial challenges I had heard of a

financial challenges I had heard of a girl from my community to receive the

girl from my community to receive the

girl from my community to receive the JPA scholarship

JPA scholarship

JPA scholarship abroad and from that moment everything I

abroad and from that moment everything I

abroad and from that moment everything I did intuitions in school was get up

did intuitions in school was get up

did intuitions in school was get up towards this I always used to miss

towards this I always used to miss

towards this I always used to miss classes always but I used to make up for

classes always but I used to make up for

classes always but I used to make up for it

it

it studied on my own I need my own style I

studied on my own I need my own style I

studied on my own I need my own style I walked smiled but not that time I

walked smiled but not that time I

walked smiled but not that time I initiate the projects at school I got

initiate the projects at school I got

initiate the projects at school I got involved in societies for my CV I

involved in societies for my CV I

involved in societies for my CV I received the JPA scholarship many as

received the JPA scholarship many as

received the JPA scholarship many as make the income star by immigrants I

make the income star by immigrants I

make the income star by immigrants I attended a youth camp where I was told

attended a youth camp where I was told

attended a youth camp where I was told that I’m a conductor

that I’m a conductor

that I’m a conductor I don’t deserve to be here and I

I don’t deserve to be here and I

I don’t deserve to be here and I shouldn’t be here as a student who

shouldn’t be here as a student who

shouldn’t be here as a student who always miss classes in school and

always miss classes in school and

always miss classes in school and college the teachers and lecturers grew

college the teachers and lecturers grew

college the teachers and lecturers grew to be here in doubt me

to be here in doubt me

to be here in doubt me just before sitting my final physics a

just before sitting my final physics a

just before sitting my final physics a level exam my lecturer told me to pray

level exam my lecturer told me to pray

level exam my lecturer told me to pray really hard to bring my failure to a

really hard to bring my failure to a

really hard to bring my failure to a pass I was like well thank you for the

pass I was like well thank you for the

pass I was like well thank you for the support of my own I did not need because

support of my own I did not need because

support of my own I did not need because I was so confused with in all these

I was so confused with in all these

I was so confused with in all these different labels of every scheme right

different labels of every scheme right

different labels of every scheme right the challenges of unwittingly haven’t

the challenges of unwittingly haven’t

the challenges of unwittingly haven’t faced adversity made it hard to find

faced adversity made it hard to find

faced adversity made it hard to find sense of belonging in an identity to go

sense of belonging in an identity to go

sense of belonging in an identity to go with it you know

with it you know

with it you know over the years I learned I went abroad

over the years I learned I went abroad

over the years I learned I went abroad King’s College London completed my hobby

King’s College London completed my hobby

King’s College London completed my hobby I was exposed to a very cosmopolitan

I was exposed to a very cosmopolitan

I was exposed to a very cosmopolitan city that spoke 300 languages dating I

city that spoke 300 languages dating I

city that spoke 300 languages dating I had to figure my way around work

had to figure my way around work

had to figure my way around work part-time in a foreign country where

part-time in a foreign country where

part-time in a foreign country where English was spoken the normal way and my

English was spoken the normal way and my

English was spoken the normal way and my English was weird

English was weird

English was weird someone asked me Malaysia was where we

someone asked me Malaysia was where we

someone asked me Malaysia was where we still live with trees and I’m like yeah

still live with trees and I’m like yeah

still live with trees and I’m like yeah that’s why we’re healthy the new guys

I had a tough time explaining how a

I had a tough time explaining how a Malaysian despite looking Indian and

Malaysian despite looking Indian and

Malaysian despite looking Indian and having ethnic roots I get stopped at

having ethnic roots I get stopped at

having ethnic roots I get stopped at every single Airport I go through every

every single Airport I go through every

every single Airport I go through every single Airport July 13 London Nepal

single Airport July 13 London Nepal

single Airport July 13 London Nepal everywhere like what are you were you

everywhere like what are you were you

everywhere like what are you were you from like well I’m just me during law

from like well I’m just me during law

from like well I’m just me during law school I could never focus for more than

school I could never focus for more than

school I could never focus for more than 10 minutes so I miss not are many things

10 minutes so I miss not are many things

10 minutes so I miss not are many things that lecturers have discussed here my

that lecturers have discussed here my

that lecturers have discussed here my friends around we got everything so fast

friends around we got everything so fast

friends around we got everything so fast I’m sure a lot of you here I had to work

I’m sure a lot of you here I had to work

I’m sure a lot of you here I had to work nicely about to get even close to what

nicely about to get even close to what

nicely about to get even close to what was necessary and I suffered crippling

was necessary and I suffered crippling

was necessary and I suffered crippling depression in my first year of

depression in my first year of

depression in my first year of university without even knowing it my

university without even knowing it my

university without even knowing it my friend should not come I go up to get me

friend should not come I go up to get me

friend should not come I go up to get me out for dinner and I would not answer I

was always so out of place and I need to

was always so out of place and I need to be in my own skin why did I stand up why

be in my own skin why did I stand up why

be in my own skin why did I stand up why did I not feel a sense of belonging to

did I not feel a sense of belonging to

did I not feel a sense of belonging to any community but it’s not that my

any community but it’s not that my

any community but it’s not that my master at King’s again I decided with

master at King’s again I decided with

master at King’s again I decided with some prodding from my best friend to pay

some prodding from my best friend to pay

some prodding from my best friend to pay a visit to the disability service and I

a visit to the disability service and I

a visit to the disability service and I did and much to my dismay at that time I

did and much to my dismay at that time I

did and much to my dismay at that time I was diagnosed with ADHD wait and so I

was diagnosed with ADHD wait and so I

was diagnosed with ADHD wait and so I had ADHD for 24 years and I didn’t know

had ADHD for 24 years and I didn’t know

had ADHD for 24 years and I didn’t know it he was going on here well that was

it he was going on here well that was

it he was going on here well that was the cause of my lack of attendance in

the cause of my lack of attendance in

the cause of my lack of attendance in classes you know then ability to write

classes you know then ability to write

classes you know then ability to write fast invite long messages my hatred to

fast invite long messages my hatred to

fast invite long messages my hatred to my daughter greed and my struggles

my daughter greed and my struggles

my daughter greed and my struggles throughout University trying to pay

throughout University trying to pay

throughout University trying to pay attention and be be present so this

attention and be be present so this

attention and be be present so this diagnosis meant that I could see I could

diagnosis meant that I could see I could

diagnosis meant that I could see I could not read long passages viral messages of

not read long passages viral messages of

not read long passages viral messages of focus for more than 10 minutes how I got

focus for more than 10 minutes how I got

focus for more than 10 minutes how I got again I feel like I’ve always had to

again I feel like I’ve always had to

again I feel like I’ve always had to work extra hard to achieve what others

work extra hard to achieve what others

work extra hard to achieve what others could in half the effort I felt like a

could in half the effort I felt like a

could in half the effort I felt like a whipping to the world right

whipping to the world right

whipping to the world right I had another label now to my diversity

I had another label now to my diversity

I had another label now to my diversity portfolio through it all there’ll be a

portfolio through it all there’ll be a

portfolio through it all there’ll be a random passerby on my journey would

random passerby on my journey would

random passerby on my journey would appear and just show me meant an

appear and just show me meant an

appear and just show me meant an unconditional support and faith in my

unconditional support and faith in my

unconditional support and faith in my potential of me just some random person

potential of me just some random person

potential of me just some random person who does

who does

who does know who she is I found a mentor and a

know who she is I found a mentor and a

know who she is I found a mentor and a random on TV who will help me find many

random on TV who will help me find many

random on TV who will help me find many answers to big spiritual questions like

answers to big spiritual questions like

answers to big spiritual questions like what is life why do we just no meeting

what is life why do we just no meeting

what is life why do we just no meeting tonight I had a cousin brother give me

tonight I had a cousin brother give me

tonight I had a cousin brother give me career advice I had a best friend who’s

career advice I had a best friend who’s

career advice I had a best friend who’s right here today who helped me learn how

right here today who helped me learn how

right here today who helped me learn how to love myself a lecturer at the

to love myself a lecturer at the

to love myself a lecturer at the University who stopped eventually he

University who stopped eventually he

University who stopped eventually he recommended me for a job way beyond my

recommended me for a job way beyond my

recommended me for a job way beyond my years

years

years the feeling of empowerment and

the feeling of empowerment and

the feeling of empowerment and confidence this gave me was newfound in

confidence this gave me was newfound in

confidence this gave me was newfound in a career these people educated me they

a career these people educated me they

a career these people educated me they changed my life these are the

changed my life these are the

changed my life these are the individuals who helped me stay strong

individuals who helped me stay strong

individuals who helped me stay strong and what I believed in having no sense

and what I believed in having no sense

and what I believed in having no sense of belonging made it difficult to deal

of belonging made it difficult to deal

of belonging made it difficult to deal with all the bits of microaggressions of

with all the bits of microaggressions of

with all the bits of microaggressions of being the token diversity person I owned

being the token diversity person I owned

being the token diversity person I owned it and lived through it I fought for it

it and lived through it I fought for it

it and lived through it I fought for it and I keep fighting every day but not

and I keep fighting every day but not

and I keep fighting every day but not with others with myself when I was

with others with myself when I was

with others with myself when I was informed that I would not have any

informed that I would not have any

informed that I would not have any financial support was SPM

financial support was SPM

financial support was SPM I thought I applied for scholarships and

I thought I applied for scholarships and

I thought I applied for scholarships and college competitions that offered

college competitions that offered

college competitions that offered scholarships and what my first

scholarships and what my first

scholarships and what my first scholarship at the age of 15 the dream

scholarship at the age of 15 the dream

scholarship at the age of 15 the dream is pure results came out I was not

is pure results came out I was not

is pure results came out I was not outside of reading with my friends but I

outside of reading with my friends but I

outside of reading with my friends but I was at home in front of the desktop that

was at home in front of the desktop that

was at home in front of the desktop that was really slow using the TM that three

was really slow using the TM that three

was really slow using the TM that three weeks connection applying for all 150

weeks connection applying for all 150

weeks connection applying for all 150 scholarships that were available I just

scholarships that were available I just

scholarships that were available I just needed one come on in a box physics exam

needed one come on in a box physics exam

needed one come on in a box physics exam never actually said I would fail I

never actually said I would fail I

never actually said I would fail I received 100% score experiencing

received 100% score experiencing

received 100% score experiencing depression in my first day in university

depression in my first day in university

depression in my first day in university I dealt with it by taking small steps

I dealt with it by taking small steps

I dealt with it by taking small steps each day just a post piece for today

each day just a post piece for today

each day just a post piece for today even when I could not believe in that

even when I could not believe in that

even when I could not believe in that thought for the death of me I signed up

thought for the death of me I signed up

thought for the death of me I signed up for therapy and many years later I’m

for therapy and many years later I’m

for therapy and many years later I’m proud to tell you that I don’t know the

proud to tell you that I don’t know the

proud to tell you that I don’t know the combination law student in the UK for a

combination law student in the UK for a

combination law student in the UK for a year

two years later when I was diagnosed

two years later when I was diagnosed with ADHD took me a while to come to

with ADHD took me a while to come to

with ADHD took me a while to come to terms with this new label you know and

terms with this new label you know and

terms with this new label you know and it personally so it frustrated me so

it personally so it frustrated me so

it personally so it frustrated me so much after all diversity exists because

much after all diversity exists because

much after all diversity exists because of the labels and categorizations that

of the labels and categorizations that

of the labels and categorizations that we give each other we human beings have

we give each other we human beings have

we give each other we human beings have created these systems and these

created these systems and these

created these systems and these categorizations aware from who you are

categorizations aware from who you are

categorizations aware from who you are where you belong to me after some

where you belong to me after some

where you belong to me after some current research on ADHD in a corner

current research on ADHD in a corner

current research on ADHD in a corner that Michael Phelps American swimmer was

that Michael Phelps American swimmer was

that Michael Phelps American swimmer was diagnosed with severe ADHD as a child

diagnosed with severe ADHD as a child

diagnosed with severe ADHD as a child and what his parents do they put in for

and what his parents do they put in for

and what his parents do they put in for swimming and he became the best swimmer

swimming and he became the best swimmer

swimming and he became the best swimmer in the US during his time I mean he

in the US during his time I mean he

in the US during his time I mean he could do it

could do it

could do it look what he made out of it I had to

look what he made out of it I had to

look what he made out of it I had to conceive I’m sure I could do it some

conceive I’m sure I could do it some

conceive I’m sure I could do it some renewed hope somebody and I played for a

renewed hope somebody and I played for a

renewed hope somebody and I played for a fund to purchase the software they

fund to purchase the software they

fund to purchase the software they converted textbooks and weakened text to

converted textbooks and weakened text to

converted textbooks and weakened text to an audio voice format it costs some

an audio voice format it costs some

an audio voice format it costs some money about 700 pounds but how was I

money about 700 pounds but how was I

money about 700 pounds but how was I going to read 10,000 pages of legal

going to read 10,000 pages of legal

going to read 10,000 pages of legal journals

journals

journals a week having ADHD when I knew I

a week having ADHD when I knew I

a week having ADHD when I knew I struggled the past four years

struggled the past four years

struggled the past four years well I’m so glad as it turned out I got

well I’m so glad as it turned out I got

well I’m so glad as it turned out I got the fund I got the software me really

the fund I got the software me really

the fund I got the software me really well and three I’m so proud to share

well and three I’m so proud to share

well and three I’m so proud to share with you that I was topping my course

with you that I was topping my course

with you that I was topping my course full of international finance he must

guys I still don’t know how I did it

guys I still don’t know how I did it buddy it somehow

buddy it somehow

buddy it somehow yeah just to let you know attendance was

yeah just to let you know attendance was

yeah just to let you know attendance was only 10% in university so got your back

only 10% in university so got your back

only 10% in university so got your back hey could you I got your back nice there

hey could you I got your back nice there

hey could you I got your back nice there are service jacks out there who those

are service jacks out there who those

are service jacks out there who those who embrace diversity encourage each

who embrace diversity encourage each

who embrace diversity encourage each other to flourish

other to flourish

other to flourish these are those riding the wave of 21st

these are those riding the wave of 21st

these are those riding the wave of 21st century and doing it with heart feel

century and doing it with heart feel

century and doing it with heart feel compelled by those who helped me

compelled by those who helped me

compelled by those who helped me throughout my journey my biggest passion

throughout my journey my biggest passion

throughout my journey my biggest passion it’s an empowering others access to

it’s an empowering others access to

it’s an empowering others access to education because that’s what I got and

education because that’s what I got and

education because that’s what I got and that’s why I’m here today when I was 16

that’s why I’m here today when I was 16

that’s why I’m here today when I was 16 I started tutoring at a local orphanage

I started tutoring at a local orphanage

I started tutoring at a local orphanage for young children academic challenges

for young children academic challenges

for young children academic challenges and before I left to pursue my degree

and before I left to pursue my degree

and before I left to pursue my degree abroad I posted a status on Facebook

abroad I posted a status on Facebook

abroad I posted a status on Facebook asking if anyone could mentor them and

asking if anyone could mentor them and

asking if anyone could mentor them and some continuity in that method she would

some continuity in that method she would

some continuity in that method she would have been good I got 150 responses this

have been good I got 150 responses this

have been good I got 150 responses this was my chance I said over rocha because

was my chance I said over rocha because

was my chance I said over rocha because I everyone’s availabilities match time

I everyone’s availabilities match time

I everyone’s availabilities match time to children in the home and suddenly a

to children in the home and suddenly a

to children in the home and suddenly a teetering project was born this project

teetering project was born this project

teetering project was born this project continued a few years and Wallace in

continued a few years and Wallace in

continued a few years and Wallace in London

London

London I met her local children with character

I met her local children with character

I met her local children with character development change challenges in my free

development change challenges in my free

development change challenges in my free time I still needed something more of

time I still needed something more of

time I still needed something more of life I decided to save up and hid in a

life I decided to save up and hid in a

life I decided to save up and hid in a pal per month you know chill out it’s pH

pal per month you know chill out it’s pH

pal per month you know chill out it’s pH life work on a volunteer project I had

life work on a volunteer project I had

life work on a volunteer project I had enough not knowing what to expect and

enough not knowing what to expect and

enough not knowing what to expect and the next three months taught me a lot

the next three months taught me a lot

the next three months taught me a lot about life each other late today being

about life each other late today being

about life each other late today being Punjabi and he knew who grown up in Asia

Punjabi and he knew who grown up in Asia

Punjabi and he knew who grown up in Asia listen to English and Hindi songs and

listen to English and Hindi songs and

listen to English and Hindi songs and had some basic knowledge of mentoring I

had some basic knowledge of mentoring I

had some basic knowledge of mentoring I should write it through this place my

should write it through this place my

should write it through this place my ability to embrace diversity from a

ability to embrace diversity from a

ability to embrace diversity from a young age helped me to connect with all

young age helped me to connect with all

young age helped me to connect with all these people far away I start a social

these people far away I start a social

these people far away I start a social enterprise project there that in Surrey

enterprise project there that in Surrey

enterprise project there that in Surrey drug users educate and feed homeless

drug users educate and feed homeless

drug users educate and feed homeless children now fast forward a year later

children now fast forward a year later

children now fast forward a year later one fine day I received an email

one fine day I received an email

one fine day I received an email United Nations in Geneva offered me an

United Nations in Geneva offered me an

United Nations in Geneva offered me an opportunity to be part of a new team now

opportunity to be part of a new team now

opportunity to be part of a new team now thank what rubbish spam but it wasn’t

thank what rubbish spam but it wasn’t

thank what rubbish spam but it wasn’t actually spam folder and I got another

actually spam folder and I got another

actually spam folder and I got another email the next day we turns out do not

email the next day we turns out do not

email the next day we turns out do not cut the next day the next week it turns

cut the next day the next week it turns

cut the next day the next week it turns out the United Nations finally realized

out the United Nations finally realized

out the United Nations finally realized that there in each organisation and

that there in each organisation and

that there in each organisation and either develop into the young people so

either develop into the young people so

either develop into the young people so they intended to create a youth win for

they intended to create a youth win for

they intended to create a youth win for policymaking and there was somebody else

policymaking and there was somebody else

policymaking and there was somebody else running I remember that lecture I told

running I remember that lecture I told

running I remember that lecture I told you who helped me out he recommended me

you who helped me out he recommended me

you who helped me out he recommended me for this role in spite filming in my

for this role in spite filming in my

for this role in spite filming in my second year it’s very full time who was

second year it’s very full time who was

second year it’s very full time who was a full time role ladies and gentlemen

a full time role ladies and gentlemen

a full time role ladies and gentlemen that was the first time I learned to

that was the first time I learned to

that was the first time I learned to consciously value my origins and stand

consciously value my origins and stand

consciously value my origins and stand up for who I am despite being always

up for who I am despite being always

up for who I am despite being always food I was wrong I stood it from the UN

food I was wrong I stood it from the UN

food I was wrong I stood it from the UN Human Rights Council and defended the

Human Rights Council and defended the

Human Rights Council and defended the rights the education of young children

rights the education of young children

rights the education of young children it might not have had any impact but it

it might not have had any impact but it

it might not have had any impact but it made me feel better about myself cause I

made me feel better about myself cause I

made me feel better about myself cause I knew who I was and that it was worth of

knew who I was and that it was worth of

knew who I was and that it was worth of jihad changemakers which I engage young

jihad changemakers which I engage young

jihad changemakers which I engage young people from around the globe to draft

people from around the globe to draft

people from around the globe to draft policies which means rich from democracy

policies which means rich from democracy

policies which means rich from democracy youth leadership corruption technology

youth leadership corruption technology

youth leadership corruption technology education my words who graduated and I

education my words who graduated and I

education my words who graduated and I had an impact I was respected but why

had an impact I was respected but why

had an impact I was respected but why because I respected myself and

because I respected myself and

because I respected myself and experiencing life as a token diversity

experiencing life as a token diversity

experiencing life as a token diversity person helped me learn self-respect

person helped me learn self-respect

person helped me learn self-respect which means I could help myself be

which means I could help myself be

which means I could help myself be myself and be confident about myself

myself and be confident about myself

myself and be confident about myself well being able to treat all others the

well being able to treat all others the

well being able to treat all others the same that I would treat myself despite

same that I would treat myself despite

same that I would treat myself despite us being so very fundamentally different

us being so very fundamentally different

us being so very fundamentally different I believe did my passion I worked for it

I believe did my passion I worked for it

I believe did my passion I worked for it even women agree here nothing to do this

even women agree here nothing to do this

even women agree here nothing to do this business I received another surprise

business I received another surprise

business I received another surprise I was headhunted by the royal family in

I was headhunted by the royal family in

I was headhunted by the royal family in England it was the Queen’s Diamond

England it was the Queen’s Diamond

England it was the Queen’s Diamond Jubilee meaning she was 60s be Queen and

Jubilee meaning she was 60s be Queen and

Jubilee meaning she was 60s be Queen and she had allocated sum of money to

she had allocated sum of money to

she had allocated sum of money to empower young and Canada the previous

empower young and Canada the previous

empower young and Canada the previous people in Commonwealth countries and

people in Commonwealth countries and

people in Commonwealth countries and they were looking for a young person to

they were looking for a young person to

they were looking for a young person to be in here

be in here

be in here and based on my story they offered me a

and based on my story they offered me a

and based on my story they offered me a full time role it’s usually

full time role it’s usually

full time role it’s usually fire altar I was a bit nervous but this

fire altar I was a bit nervous but this

fire altar I was a bit nervous but this was definitely not because of my law

was definitely not because of my law

was definitely not because of my law degree or my results not because of my

degree or my results not because of my

degree or my results not because of my university this was not because of some

university this was not because of some

university this was not because of some random context and you owe me a job

random context and you owe me a job

random context and you owe me a job somewhere no this is because he knew me

somewhere no this is because he knew me

somewhere no this is because he knew me for who I was

for who I was

for who I was he saw me for me the work I do the

he saw me for me the work I do the

he saw me for me the work I do the passion I carry in the luck that I share

passion I carry in the luck that I share

passion I carry in the luck that I share needless to say I forgot this role in a

needless to say I forgot this role in a

needless to say I forgot this role in a few years ago now here I’m standing here

few years ago now here I’m standing here

few years ago now here I’m standing here today and excerpts an advisor to a

today and excerpts an advisor to a

today and excerpts an advisor to a Majesty Queen Elizabeth the second the

Majesty Queen Elizabeth the second the

Majesty Queen Elizabeth the second the royal family I don’t consider when I’m

royal family I don’t consider when I’m

royal family I don’t consider when I’m success I’m on a journey with so much

success I’m on a journey with so much

success I’m on a journey with so much more to learn and explore and I’m loving

more to learn and explore and I’m loving

more to learn and explore and I’m loving it so far I think so many ups and downs

it so far I think so many ups and downs

it so far I think so many ups and downs on a daily basis and this journey has

on a daily basis and this journey has

on a daily basis and this journey has made it easier for me to embrace

made it easier for me to embrace

made it easier for me to embrace diversity and embrace the people and

diversity and embrace the people and

diversity and embrace the people and experiences around me I hope that

experiences around me I hope that

experiences around me I hope that sharing my humble adventures as cultural

sharing my humble adventures as cultural

sharing my humble adventures as cultural Nomad has given you something take back

Nomad has given you something take back

Nomad has given you something take back with you as children of today’s world

with you as children of today’s world

with you as children of today’s world and bracing average is both inevitable

and bracing average is both inevitable

and bracing average is both inevitable and very beneficial

and very beneficial

and very beneficial the more you allow it is your life the

the more you allow it is your life the

the more you allow it is your life the more you will get out of it you know I

more you will get out of it you know I

more you will get out of it you know I was drawn into the depths of it and I

was drawn into the depths of it and I

was drawn into the depths of it and I did not have a choice you have a choice

did not have a choice you have a choice

did not have a choice you have a choice and embracing diversity yes they are

and embracing diversity yes they are

and embracing diversity yes they are buckwheat challenges and downsides to

buckwheat challenges and downsides to

buckwheat challenges and downsides to diversity as there is for everything

diversity as there is for everything

diversity as there is for everything it’s about taking the good and leaving

it’s about taking the good and leaving

it’s about taking the good and leaving the bed I owned it and it made me who I

the bed I owned it and it made me who I

the bed I owned it and it made me who I am today and it gives me so much hope so

am today and it gives me so much hope so

am today and it gives me so much hope so many dreams and hopes to work on you

many dreams and hopes to work on you

many dreams and hopes to work on you have a choice whether to embrace

have a choice whether to embrace

have a choice whether to embrace diversity diversity of everything ideas

diversity diversity of everything ideas

diversity diversity of everything ideas races sexuality gender people ought to

races sexuality gender people ought to

races sexuality gender people ought to reject it those who fail to ride this

reject it those who fail to ride this

reject it those who fail to ride this wave will bring more inconvenience to

wave will bring more inconvenience to

wave will bring more inconvenience to their personal and professional lives

their personal and professional lives

their personal and professional lives and like to get a society I believe

and like to get a society I believe

and like to get a society I believe you’re all fighting our battles and we

you’re all fighting our battles and we

you’re all fighting our battles and we can do it better when we have embracing

can do it better when we have embracing

can do it better when we have embracing differences

differences

differences around us so we can focus our energy on

around us so we can focus our energy on

around us so we can focus our energy on bettering ourselves rather than focusing

bettering ourselves rather than focusing

bettering ourselves rather than focusing our energies on being different and

our energies on being different and

our energies on being different and drawing boundaries whether that’s

drawing boundaries whether that’s

drawing boundaries whether that’s individually in schools in universities

individually in schools in universities

individually in schools in universities in countries across the globe in the

in countries across the globe in the

in countries across the globe in the water can’t dare to be wise on that note

water can’t dare to be wise on that note

water can’t dare to be wise on that note thank you for everyone thank you for

thank you for everyone thank you for

thank you for everyone thank you for listening to me everyone for spending

listening to me everyone for spending

listening to me everyone for spending your time please feel free to get in

your time please feel free to get in

your time please feel free to get in touch on Facebook Duque Kumar morning

touch on Facebook Duque Kumar morning

touch on Facebook Duque Kumar morning [Applause]

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