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geordie of overseas adoptees from korea

geordie of overseas adoptees from korea beginning from the 1950s went to the US

beginning from the 1950s went to the US

beginning from the 1950s went to the US the rest went to different european

the rest went to different european

the rest went to different european countries especially scandinavia some

countries especially scandinavia some

countries especially scandinavia some went to your some went to Canada and

went to your some went to Canada and

went to your some went to Canada and Australia Adam is one of two hundred

Australia Adam is one of two hundred

Australia Adam is one of two hundred thousand Korean overseas adoptees two

thousand Korean overseas adoptees two

thousand Korean overseas adoptees two hundred thousand in November 2016 just

hundred thousand in November 2016 just

hundred thousand in November 2016 just before Thanksgiving Adam arrived in

before Thanksgiving Adam arrived in

before Thanksgiving Adam arrived in Korea for the first time since he was

Korea for the first time since he was

Korea for the first time since he was adopted he had been deported from the

adopted he had been deported from the

adopted he had been deported from the very country he was adopted into as a

very country he was adopted into as a

very country he was adopted into as a young child all his life he lived as an

young child all his life he lived as an

young child all his life he lived as an American citizen on paper he never was

American citizen on paper he never was

American citizen on paper he never was he was met at the airport by officials

he was met at the airport by officials

he was met at the airport by officials and a representative from global

and a representative from global

and a representative from global overseas this link and ngoen career

overseas this link and ngoen career

overseas this link and ngoen career working for adoptees he had a pet to

working for adoptees he had a pet to

working for adoptees he had a pet to sleep in a place to call home even if it

sleep in a place to call home even if it

sleep in a place to call home even if it were against his will

were against his will

were against his will unlike Adam the other deported adoptees

unlike Adam the other deported adoptees

unlike Adam the other deported adoptees who were right before him were dropped

who were right before him were dropped

who were right before him were dropped at the airport and left alone by the

at the airport and left alone by the

at the airport and left alone by the immigration officers who escorted them

immigration officers who escorted them

immigration officers who escorted them from the u.s. they were left without any

from the u.s. they were left without any

from the u.s. they were left without any money without any knowledge of Korean

money without any knowledge of Korean

money without any knowledge of Korean language without any friends not knowing

language without any friends not knowing

language without any friends not knowing where they were where to go or how to

where they were where to go or how to

where they were where to go or how to get anywhere most have experienced

get anywhere most have experienced

get anywhere most have experienced homelessness some eventually ending up

homelessness some eventually ending up

homelessness some eventually ending up committing a crime in desperation to

committing a crime in desperation to

committing a crime in desperation to survive as of 2018 Adam and all the

survive as of 2018 Adam and all the

survive as of 2018 Adam and all the other deported adoptees among the 18,000

other deported adoptees among the 18,000

other deported adoptees among the 18,000 Korean overseas adoptees without

Korean overseas adoptees without

Korean overseas adoptees without citizenship or unverified citizenship of

citizenship or unverified citizenship of

citizenship or unverified citizenship of adopter country many adoptees have since

adopter country many adoptees have since

adopter country many adoptees have since the late 1980s returned to Korea showed

the late 1980s returned to Korea showed

the late 1980s returned to Korea showed a long-term the longest term comes more

a long-term the longest term comes more

a long-term the longest term comes more than two decades solid statistics are

than two decades solid statistics are

than two decades solid statistics are very difficult to identify but empiric

very difficult to identify but empiric

very difficult to identify but empiric experiences in the community of adoptees

experiences in the community of adoptees

experiences in the community of adoptees in Korea show that the trend of adoptees

in Korea show that the trend of adoptees

in Korea show that the trend of adoptees resettling shorter long term continues

resettling shorter long term continues

resettling shorter long term continues and that the strong continues and ever

and that the strong continues and ever

and that the strong continues and ever changeable community of adoptees in

changeable community of adoptees in

changeable community of adoptees in korea is permanent so what does this

korea is permanent so what does this

korea is permanent so what does this mean I like other adoptees felt on to

mean I like other adoptees felt on to

mean I like other adoptees felt on to come here for reasons I can’t articulate

come here for reasons I can’t articulate

come here for reasons I can’t articulate I did not come here because I find my

I did not come here because I find my

I did not come here because I find my birth family or wish to find them I have

birth family or wish to find them I have

birth family or wish to find them I have a mass of law and I worked for the

a mass of law and I worked for the

a mass of law and I worked for the Danish public authorities for 12 years I

Danish public authorities for 12 years I

Danish public authorities for 12 years I had a nice apartment in the heart of

had a nice apartment in the heart of

had a nice apartment in the heart of hipster Copenhagen and I had a salary

hipster Copenhagen and I had a salary

hipster Copenhagen and I had a salary high enough to travel overseas twice a

high enough to travel overseas twice a

high enough to travel overseas twice a year and trips within Europe in between

year and trips within Europe in between

year and trips within Europe in between I grew up in the happiest country in the

I grew up in the happiest country in the

I grew up in the happiest country in the world and yet I said goodbye to the

world and yet I said goodbye to the

world and yet I said goodbye to the comfort of my old lifestyle and

comfort of my old lifestyle and

comfort of my old lifestyle and exchanged it for an insecure income

exchanged it for an insecure income

exchanged it for an insecure income unstable job situation and without any

unstable job situation and without any

unstable job situation and without any prospects of making a career what I

prospects of making a career what I

prospects of making a career what I gained instead it’s the opportunity to

gained instead it’s the opportunity to

gained instead it’s the opportunity to try to make a difference for fellow

try to make a difference for fellow

try to make a difference for fellow adoptees like Adam through my work at an

adoptees like Adam through my work at an

adoptees like Adam through my work at an NGO providing assistance for adoptees

NGO providing assistance for adoptees

NGO providing assistance for adoptees creating awareness and enabling adoptees

creating awareness and enabling adoptees

creating awareness and enabling adoptees to live in korea organizations for

to live in korea organizations for

to live in korea organizations for Korean adoptees in Denmark France

Korean adoptees in Denmark France

Korean adoptees in Denmark France Belgium Italy the Netherlands the US and

Belgium Italy the Netherlands the US and

Belgium Italy the Netherlands the US and many more countries akf adopted Korean

many more countries akf adopted Korean

many more countries akf adopted Korean Association celebrated its 30th

Association celebrated its 30th

Association celebrated its 30th anniversary in Sweden in 2016 I grew up

anniversary in Sweden in 2016 I grew up

anniversary in Sweden in 2016 I grew up in the happiest country in the world yet

in the happiest country in the world yet

in the happiest country in the world yet I

I

I chose to say goodbye to the comfort of

chose to say goodbye to the comfort of

chose to say goodbye to the comfort of my old lifestyle and exchanged it for an

my old lifestyle and exchanged it for an

my old lifestyle and exchanged it for an unstable job situation insecure income

unstable job situation insecure income

unstable job situation insecure income and without any prospects of making a

and without any prospects of making a

and without any prospects of making a career what again instead of the

career what again instead of the

career what again instead of the standard of my Danish high standard of

standard of my Danish high standard of

standard of my Danish high standard of life was the opportunity to try and make

life was the opportunity to try and make

life was the opportunity to try and make a difference for fellow adoptees like

a difference for fellow adoptees like

a difference for fellow adoptees like Adam through my work at an NGO working

Adam through my work at an NGO working

Adam through my work at an NGO working for adoptees creating awareness and

for adoptees creating awareness and

for adoptees creating awareness and enabling adoptees to live in Korea in

enabling adoptees to live in Korea in

enabling adoptees to live in Korea in Korean society community and belonging

Korean society community and belonging

Korean society community and belonging acorus Confucianism still influences

acorus Confucianism still influences

acorus Confucianism still influences society strongly meaning that every

society strongly meaning that every

society strongly meaning that every Korean person knows his suburb blood

Korean person knows his suburb blood

Korean person knows his suburb blood type and can trace the family family

type and can trace the family family

type and can trace the family family roots many generations back on the

roots many generations back on the

roots many generations back on the family registry and adoptees registry

family registry and adoptees registry

family registry and adoptees registry there’s us only us in Korea with

there’s us only us in Korea with

there’s us only us in Korea with foreigners but we’re not.we Korean but

foreigners but we’re not.we Korean but

foreigners but we’re not.we Korean but we’re not deported here or here by our

we’re not deported here or here by our

we’re not deported here or here by our own free choice Adam I and all the other

own free choice Adam I and all the other

own free choice Adam I and all the other Korean overseas adoptees are the are

Korean overseas adoptees are the are

Korean overseas adoptees are the are outsiders and with that commonality we

outsiders and with that commonality we

outsiders and with that commonality we created our own society and with that

created our own society and with that

created our own society and with that commonality we created our own community

commonality we created our own community

commonality we created our own community the NGO I work for was founded 20 years

the NGO I work for was founded 20 years

the NGO I work for was founded 20 years ago by American and European adoptees

ago by American and European adoptees

ago by American and European adoptees seeking a space to belong in Korea their

seeking a space to belong in Korea their

seeking a space to belong in Korea their organizations for Korean adoptees in

organizations for Korean adoptees in

organizations for Korean adoptees in Denmark France Belgium Italy the

Denmark France Belgium Italy the

Denmark France Belgium Italy the Netherlands Switzerland Australia the US

Netherlands Switzerland Australia the US

Netherlands Switzerland Australia the US and many more countries in the

and many more countries in the

and many more countries in the late-1990s and international gathering

late-1990s and international gathering

late-1990s and international gathering for international for international

for international for international

for international for international Korean overseas adoptees was held for

Korean overseas adoptees was held for

Korean overseas adoptees was held for the first time in Washington then in

the first time in Washington then in

the first time in Washington then in Oslo then in Seoul over the years these

Oslo then in Seoul over the years these

Oslo then in Seoul over the years these gatherings have taken place every 30 and

gatherings have taken place every 30 and

gatherings have taken place every 30 and Seoul and Europe and US and between the

Seoul and Europe and US and between the

Seoul and Europe and US and between the biggest gather more than 500 adoptees

biggest gather more than 500 adoptees

biggest gather more than 500 adoptees and the families before the internet

and the families before the internet

and the families before the internet existed these groups were the only way

existed these groups were the only way

existed these groups were the only way to

to

to connect with other overseas Korean

connect with other overseas Korean

connect with other overseas Korean adoptees to exchange experiences about

adoptees to exchange experiences about

adoptees to exchange experiences about adoptee identity searching for and being

adoptee identity searching for and being

adoptee identity searching for and being reunited with birth family the

reunited with birth family the

reunited with birth family the organization’s host cultural events

organization’s host cultural events

organization’s host cultural events create a compile experiences and create

create a compile experiences and create

create a compile experiences and create social networks as the community grows

social networks as the community grows

social networks as the community grows older the organization’s expand the

older the organization’s expand the

older the organization’s expand the focus to families children and

focus to families children and

focus to families children and grandchildren of adoptees who want to

grandchildren of adoptees who want to

grandchildren of adoptees who want to learn Korean and eat kimchi but these

learn Korean and eat kimchi but these

learn Korean and eat kimchi but these groups created 30 years ago has become

groups created 30 years ago has become

groups created 30 years ago has become something very powerful in Korea we’re

something very powerful in Korea we’re

something very powerful in Korea we’re working with the government and creating

working with the government and creating

working with the government and creating a system that enables Adam and the other

a system that enables Adam and the other

a system that enables Adam and the other deported adoptees have a somewhat decent

deported adoptees have a somewhat decent

deported adoptees have a somewhat decent life here we’re working on changing

life here we’re working on changing

life here we’re working on changing policies and legislation we support each

policies and legislation we support each

policies and legislation we support each other and other groups in society

other and other groups in society

other and other groups in society disconnected from the mainstream younger

disconnected from the mainstream younger

disconnected from the mainstream younger overseas adoptees come to us

overseas adoptees come to us

overseas adoptees come to us Korean overseas adoptees now asking how

Korean overseas adoptees now asking how

Korean overseas adoptees now asking how we created the community we have wanting

we created the community we have wanting

we created the community we have wanting to research it explore it and become a

to research it explore it and become a

to research it explore it and become a part of it because they have the same

part of it because they have the same

part of it because they have the same need to belong National Assembly finally

need to belong National Assembly finally

need to belong National Assembly finally realized that the petition of adoptees

realized that the petition of adoptees

realized that the petition of adoptees is an issue when another deported

is an issue when another deported

is an issue when another deported adoptee who came years before Adam

adoptee who came years before Adam

adoptee who came years before Adam finally had enough and jumped from a

finally had enough and jumped from a

finally had enough and jumped from a building in May 2017 I and other

building in May 2017 I and other

building in May 2017 I and other representatives from the adopted

representatives from the adopted

representatives from the adopted community Harry Phillips coffin despite

community Harry Phillips coffin despite

community Harry Phillips coffin despite protests from the funeral house employee

protests from the funeral house employee

protests from the funeral house employee because women do not usually do this in

because women do not usually do this in

because women do not usually do this in Korea an adoptee from NGO transported

Korea an adoptee from NGO transported

Korea an adoptee from NGO transported Phillips ashes to the US and returned

Phillips ashes to the US and returned

Phillips ashes to the US and returned them to his adoptive parents so he

them to his adoptive parents so he

them to his adoptive parents so he should not have to rest in a country he

should not have to rest in a country he

should not have to rest in a country he did not wish to be in sadly we failed in

did not wish to be in sadly we failed in

did not wish to be in sadly we failed in preventing

preventing

preventing Stud but the community heard when adam

Stud but the community heard when adam

Stud but the community heard when adam desperately called out for help on

desperately called out for help on

desperately called out for help on social media when american immigration

social media when american immigration

social media when american immigration officers knocked on the door to his home

officers knocked on the door to his home

officers knocked on the door to his home three years ago adoptive groups in the

three years ago adoptive groups in the

three years ago adoptive groups in the u.s. tried to help him by rallying for

u.s. tried to help him by rallying for

u.s. tried to help him by rallying for changes in the citizenship legislation

changes in the citizenship legislation

changes in the citizenship legislation in korea we were able to notify

in korea we were able to notify

in korea we were able to notify officials under the government who had

officials under the government who had

officials under the government who had no clue that his removal case have been

no clue that his removal case have been

no clue that his removal case have been initiated the removal process took

initiated the removal process took

initiated the removal process took almost two years we made sure other

almost two years we made sure other

almost two years we made sure other adoptees visited Adam while he was in

adoptees visited Adam while he was in

adoptees visited Adam while he was in detention detention centers are prison

detention detention centers are prison

detention detention centers are prison like facilities are managed by American

like facilities are managed by American

like facilities are managed by American immigration you have no right to see a

immigration you have no right to see a

immigration you have no right to see a judge you have no right to legal

judge you have no right to legal

judge you have no right to legal representation and you can be held

representation and you can be held

representation and you can be held indefinitely at worst as I heard it from

indefinitely at worst as I heard it from

indefinitely at worst as I heard it from Adam the tension is pretty horrible and

Adam the tension is pretty horrible and

Adam the tension is pretty horrible and you will do anything to get out of there

Adam was picked up at Incheon Airport by

Adam was picked up at Incheon Airport by faces that by then had become familiar

faces that by then had become familiar

faces that by then had become familiar to him from visits in detention he has

to him from visits in detention he has

to him from visits in detention he has been taken care of by an organization

been taken care of by an organization

been taken care of by an organization under the government and NGOs including

under the government and NGOs including

under the government and NGOs including mine the other deported adoptees who

mine the other deported adoptees who

mine the other deported adoptees who came before him did not know about the

came before him did not know about the

came before him did not know about the community of Korean overseas adoptees so

community of Korean overseas adoptees so

community of Korean overseas adoptees so for the first time ever in the history

for the first time ever in the history

for the first time ever in the history of adoptees being deported back to Korea

of adoptees being deported back to Korea

of adoptees being deported back to Korea Adam was the first who had a community

Adam was the first who had a community

Adam was the first who had a community when he came here he’s still mourning

when he came here he’s still mourning

when he came here he’s still mourning the loss of his American life watching

the loss of his American life watching

the loss of his American life watching his daughter’s grow up to Skype he gets

his daughter’s grow up to Skype he gets

his daughter’s grow up to Skype he gets frustrated by the hoops he must jump

frustrated by the hoops he must jump

frustrated by the hoops he must jump through in order to keep a roof over his

through in order to keep a roof over his

through in order to keep a roof over his head he’s still trying to figure out

head he’s still trying to figure out

head he’s still trying to figure out what it means I’ve been reunited with

what it means I’ve been reunited with

what it means I’ve been reunited with birth family and how to manage when

birth family and how to manage when

birth family and how to manage when well-meaning people tell him how lucky

well-meaning people tell him how lucky

well-meaning people tell him how lucky he is by going public with his story he

he is by going public with his story he

he is by going public with his story he everything at stake but he also became

everything at stake but he also became

everything at stake but he also became part of our community and he has paved

part of our community and he has paved

part of our community and he has paved the way for other adoptees and similar

the way for other adoptees and similar

the way for other adoptees and similar situations creating awareness that there

situations creating awareness that there

situations creating awareness that there is a community of us who are willing to

is a community of us who are willing to

is a community of us who are willing to do what we can to help you

do what we can to help you

do what we can to help you just because we’re overseas Korean

just because we’re overseas Korean

just because we’re overseas Korean adoptees Adam wasn’t the first who

adoptees Adam wasn’t the first who

adoptees Adam wasn’t the first who needed our community

needed our community

needed our community unfortunately I’m sure he will not be

unfortunately I’m sure he will not be

unfortunately I’m sure he will not be the last thank you

the last thank you

the last thank you [Applause]

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