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Achieving your dreams whilst being a student! | Bejay Mulenga | TEDxHSG


good morning everyone and by show of

good morning everyone and by show of hands how many people in the room under

hands how many people in the room under

hands how many people in the room under age 25 amazing um so about 95 percent of

age 25 amazing um so about 95 percent of

age 25 amazing um so about 95 percent of us in this room over on age 25 so I’m

us in this room over on age 25 so I’m

us in this room over on age 25 so I’m I’m 22 now the host Riley showed you and

I’m 22 now the host Riley showed you and

I’m 22 now the host Riley showed you and and told you I started business when I

and told you I started business when I

and told you I started business when I was age 12 and over the last 10 years I

was age 12 and over the last 10 years I

was age 12 and over the last 10 years I have learned a few things and I’ve also

have learned a few things and I’ve also

have learned a few things and I’ve also run away from a few things so the title

run away from a few things so the title

run away from a few things so the title of my talk today is dreams and obstacles

of my talk today is dreams and obstacles

of my talk today is dreams and obstacles I suppose a great place to start in

I suppose a great place to start in

I suppose a great place to start in sharing my story because we’re here to

sharing my story because we’re here to

sharing my story because we’re here to tell stories right a great place to

tell stories right a great place to

tell stories right a great place to start is I was a kid who aged 10 11 12

start is I was a kid who aged 10 11 12

start is I was a kid who aged 10 11 12 used to dream vividly about what I

used to dream vividly about what I

used to dream vividly about what I wanted to do and every other week I

wanted to do and every other week I

wanted to do and every other week I should tell my parents different things

should tell my parents different things

should tell my parents different things I was thinking depending on what I was

I was thinking depending on what I was

I was thinking depending on what I was watching on TV so there was one time I

watching on TV so there was one time I

watching on TV so there was one time I wanted to be a football manager there

wanted to be a football manager there

wanted to be a football manager there was one time I wanted to be an astronaut

was one time I wanted to be an astronaut

was one time I wanted to be an astronaut there was one time I wanted to be a

there was one time I wanted to be a

there was one time I wanted to be a hotel manager can I go a show her hands

hotel manager can I go a show her hands

hotel manager can I go a show her hands in the room if anyone’s had the same

in the room if anyone’s had the same

in the room if anyone’s had the same experiences between age 10 and 12 cool

experiences between age 10 and 12 cool

experiences between age 10 and 12 cool that’s what a 50% of you now the story

that’s what a 50% of you now the story

that’s what a 50% of you now the story I’m about to tell you and the tips I’m

I’m about to tell you and the tips I’m

I’m about to tell you and the tips I’m about to give you are going to be things

about to give you are going to be things

about to give you are going to be things that I think are really important for

that I think are really important for

that I think are really important for people our age and in our generation to

people our age and in our generation to

people our age and in our generation to take forward yesterday whilst being at

take forward yesterday whilst being at

take forward yesterday whilst being at the speaker dinner I realized that a lot

the speaker dinner I realized that a lot

the speaker dinner I realized that a lot of the students here and I starting to

of the students here and I starting to

of the students here and I starting to think about what they want to do when

think about what they want to do when

think about what they want to do when they graduate next summer and the year

they graduate next summer and the year

they graduate next summer and the year after that and I think it’s quite timely

after that and I think it’s quite timely

after that and I think it’s quite timely to actually share some stories that I’ve

to actually share some stories that I’ve

to actually share some stories that I’ve actually heard myself and maybe end up

actually heard myself and maybe end up

actually heard myself and maybe end up with some tips if you guys don’t mind so

with some tips if you guys don’t mind so

with some tips if you guys don’t mind so I’m gonna need you guys to participate

I’m gonna need you guys to participate

I’m gonna need you guys to participate with me when I call upon it so I’m gonna

with me when I call upon it so I’m gonna

with me when I call upon it so I’m gonna split this room in half and this side of

split this room in half and this side of

split this room in half and this side of the room is gonna be team a and this

the room is gonna be team a and this

the room is gonna be team a and this side of the room is gonna be team B

side of the room is gonna be team B

side of the room is gonna be team B there’s no prize for participating

there’s no prize for participating

there’s no prize for participating except for my smile but I’m gonna need

except for my smile but I’m gonna need

except for my smile but I’m gonna need to play with me before I get started I

to play with me before I get started I

to play with me before I get started I like for you guys to turn to the person

like for you guys to turn to the person

like for you guys to turn to the person next to you on your right and smile at

next to you on your right and smile at

next to you on your right and smile at them and say hi

that’s that felt that felt nice right I

that’s that felt that felt nice right I felt very comfortable now I want you to

felt very comfortable now I want you to

felt very comfortable now I want you to look at the person on your left and this

look at the person on your left and this

look at the person on your left and this time you ain’t going to smile I want you

time you ain’t going to smile I want you

time you ain’t going to smile I want you to look at them with the coldest

to look at them with the coldest

to look at them with the coldest expression you can virtually have and I

expression you can virtually have and I

expression you can virtually have and I want to I want you to tell them no you

want to I want you to tell them no you

want to I want you to tell them no you can’t sit next to me come on

all right now I don’t know how that felt

all right now I don’t know how that felt for some of you guys in the room but for

for some of you guys in the room but for

for some of you guys in the room but for me those two emotions that I just made

me those two emotions that I just made

me those two emotions that I just made you guys give out to the person on the

you guys give out to the person on the

you guys give out to the person on the right in person the left were things

right in person the left were things

right in person the left were things that I had to deal with a lot between

that I had to deal with a lot between

that I had to deal with a lot between age of 12 and 14 and depending on where

age of 12 and 14 and depending on where

age of 12 and 14 and depending on where you are from and depending on what kind

you are from and depending on what kind

you are from and depending on what kind of parenting you had how you react to

of parenting you had how you react to

of parenting you had how you react to someone telling you no you can’t sit

someone telling you no you can’t sit

someone telling you no you can’t sit next to them and no you can’t come into

next to them and no you can’t come into

next to them and no you can’t come into this establishment plays a massive part

this establishment plays a massive part

this establishment plays a massive part as whoever you go and ascertain your

as whoever you go and ascertain your

as whoever you go and ascertain your dream and when someone does give you a

dream and when someone does give you a

dream and when someone does give you a big smile especially in day and age we

big smile especially in day and age we

big smile especially in day and age we live today you start to wonder whether

live today you start to wonder whether

live today you start to wonder whether they actually mean it generally or

they actually mean it generally or

they actually mean it generally or whether they want something now I’m a

whether they want something now I’m a

whether they want something now I’m a young person who grew up in East London

young person who grew up in East London

young person who grew up in East London obviously we’re in Switzerland today but

obviously we’re in Switzerland today but

obviously we’re in Switzerland today but in East London

in East London

in East London my parents had emigrated in their 30s my

my parents had emigrated in their 30s my

my parents had emigrated in their 30s my mom was 40 and my dad was very free and

mom was 40 and my dad was very free and

mom was 40 and my dad was very free and when they both had me they weren’t

when they both had me they weren’t

when they both had me they weren’t Londoners or British by any any any

Londoners or British by any any any

Londoners or British by any any any means and when I grew up actually learnt

means and when I grew up actually learnt

means and when I grew up actually learnt to speak the language French before I

to speak the language French before I

to speak the language French before I spoke the language English so going into

spoke the language English so going into

spoke the language English so going into school one of the first obstacles I

school one of the first obstacles I

school one of the first obstacles I faced quite clearly aged 2 3 4 years old

faced quite clearly aged 2 3 4 years old

faced quite clearly aged 2 3 4 years old was speech therapy I used to stutter

was speech therapy I used to stutter

was speech therapy I used to stutter when I spoke English and that was a

when I spoke English and that was a

when I spoke English and that was a massive barrier to me being able to

massive barrier to me being able to

massive barrier to me being able to communicate with my other friends in

communicate with my other friends in

communicate with my other friends in class even though I was born in the

class even though I was born in the

class even though I was born in the country and growing up now I’ve realized

country and growing up now I’ve realized

country and growing up now I’ve realized that there’s many first generation

that there’s many first generation

that there’s many first generation children whose parents had emigrated in

children whose parents had emigrated in

children whose parents had emigrated in the country who hadn’t had the

the country who hadn’t had the

the country who hadn’t had the opportunity to actually mingle with kids

opportunity to actually mingle with kids

opportunity to actually mingle with kids their own age from the local

their own age from the local

their own age from the local neighborhood and when they entered a

neighborhood and when they entered a

neighborhood and when they entered a school establishment there’s normally

school establishment there’s normally

school establishment there’s normally this barrier that they get faced with

this barrier that they get faced with

this barrier that they get faced with and the way I overcame it was by

and the way I overcame it was by

and the way I overcame it was by speaking really fast if I started to

speaking really fast if I started to

speaking really fast if I started to speak the way I normally speak you guys

speak the way I normally speak you guys

speak the way I normally speak you guys might not be able to understand me

might not be able to understand me

might not be able to understand me because my English to me quite fast like

because my English to me quite fast like

because my English to me quite fast like right now but that was something that

right now but that was something that

right now but that was something that really played up with me when I was a

really played up with me when I was a

really played up with me when I was a young person and it often led to me

young person and it often led to me

young person and it often led to me being in trouble because I’d be in class

being in trouble because I’d be in class

being in trouble because I’d be in class and I could understand what the teacher

and I could understand what the teacher

and I could understand what the teacher was saying at times or I wanted to try

was saying at times or I wanted to try

was saying at times or I wanted to try to be cool and started to play gay

to be cool and started to play gay

to be cool and started to play gay and it wasn’t the time to play games and

and it wasn’t the time to play games and

and it wasn’t the time to play games and not understanding where you are and how

not understanding where you are and how

not understanding where you are and how to communicate was a barrier for me and

to communicate was a barrier for me and

to communicate was a barrier for me and I know it’s been about for many people

I know it’s been about for many people

I know it’s been about for many people that I’ve been around moving forward 10

that I’ve been around moving forward 10

that I’ve been around moving forward 10 years so from age two to age 12 by the

years so from age two to age 12 by the

years so from age two to age 12 by the time I was in the second year of

time I was in the second year of

time I was in the second year of secondary school I had been excluded

secondary school I had been excluded

secondary school I had been excluded from my class over 40 times and one I

from my class over 40 times and one I

from my class over 40 times and one I cannot make here now I had a couple of

cannot make here now I had a couple of

cannot make here now I had a couple of grasps being excluded 40 times in an

grasps being excluded 40 times in an

grasps being excluded 40 times in an academic year is not a fun feat at all

academic year is not a fun feat at all

academic year is not a fun feat at all it is something that disturbs your

it is something that disturbs your

it is something that disturbs your progress it disturbs your attitude and

progress it disturbs your attitude and

progress it disturbs your attitude and aptitude to learn and it definitely

aptitude to learn and it definitely

aptitude to learn and it definitely disturbs your ability to reach those

disturbs your ability to reach those

disturbs your ability to reach those dreams especially for me who kept on

dreams especially for me who kept on

dreams especially for me who kept on having these wild dreams that were just

having these wild dreams that were just

having these wild dreams that were just not attainable if I wasn’t in class to

not attainable if I wasn’t in class to

not attainable if I wasn’t in class to move it forward

move it forward

move it forward it wasn’t until I sat down and I was

it wasn’t until I sat down and I was

it wasn’t until I sat down and I was excluded from class for three months and

excluded from class for three months and

excluded from class for three months and put in a detention center and I was left

put in a detention center and I was left

put in a detention center and I was left to my own devices to read books that I

to my own devices to read books that I

to my own devices to read books that I realized that if I kept going the way I

realized that if I kept going the way I

realized that if I kept going the way I was going there was going to be no end

was going there was going to be no end

was going there was going to be no end in sight for me in actually achieving

in sight for me in actually achieving

in sight for me in actually achieving the dreams I wanted to achieve being in

the dreams I wanted to achieve being in

the dreams I wanted to achieve being in such an environment is something that

such an environment is something that

such an environment is something that many naughty kids across Europe across

many naughty kids across Europe across

many naughty kids across Europe across the world have probably faced can I get

the world have probably faced can I get

the world have probably faced can I get a whoop or show hands for people who’ve

a whoop or show hands for people who’ve

a whoop or show hands for people who’ve been have ever been no illness in this

been have ever been no illness in this

been have ever been no illness in this room yeah I’ve got some people there

room yeah I’ve got some people there

room yeah I’ve got some people there some people there that’s not a good

some people there that’s not a good

some people there that’s not a good finger however this is a reality that

finger however this is a reality that

finger however this is a reality that many teenagers face when they sometimes

many teenagers face when they sometimes

many teenagers face when they sometimes don’t have the right role models in

don’t have the right role models in

don’t have the right role models in their environment I was the first child

their environment I was the first child

their environment I was the first child so I didn’t have a big brother or big

so I didn’t have a big brother or big

so I didn’t have a big brother or big sister to tell me BJ get in line you

sister to tell me BJ get in line you

sister to tell me BJ get in line you need to fix up often times when I got in

need to fix up often times when I got in

need to fix up often times when I got in trouble I went back home to my parents

trouble I went back home to my parents

trouble I went back home to my parents and they’ve turned me off I knew the

and they’ve turned me off I knew the

and they’ve turned me off I knew the moment where I messed up but I couldn’t

moment where I messed up but I couldn’t

moment where I messed up but I couldn’t obviously fix that because I’d really

obviously fix that because I’d really

obviously fix that because I’d really made a mistake but being able to sit at

made a mistake but being able to sit at

made a mistake but being able to sit at home and watch TV shows and read books

home and watch TV shows and read books

home and watch TV shows and read books whilst on detention

whilst on detention

whilst on detention I had an epiphany age 12 which is quite

I had an epiphany age 12 which is quite

I had an epiphany age 12 which is quite weird but it maybe was my greatest dream

weird but it maybe was my greatest dream

weird but it maybe was my greatest dream at the time and that PIFAN II was if I

at the time and that PIFAN II was if I

at the time and that PIFAN II was if I kept going the way I was going I was

kept going the way I was going I was

kept going the way I was going I was going to end

going to end

going to end up in only one or two places I have a

up in only one or two places I have a

up in only one or two places I have a dead or in prison London in 2007 when I

dead or in prison London in 2007 when I

dead or in prison London in 2007 when I was age 12 was the first time the knife

was age 12 was the first time the knife

was age 12 was the first time the knife crime became a reality by mass crime I

crime became a reality by mass crime I

crime became a reality by mass crime I mean we’re talking about young men

mean we’re talking about young men

mean we’re talking about young men mainly VME so black minorities and aged

mainly VME so black minorities and aged

mainly VME so black minorities and aged women are E’s stabbing each other at

women are E’s stabbing each other at

women are E’s stabbing each other at school in the area based on the area

school in the area based on the area

school in the area based on the area code that they’re from i luckily wasn’t

code that they’re from i luckily wasn’t

code that they’re from i luckily wasn’t allowed in class so i didn’t get

allowed in class so i didn’t get

allowed in class so i didn’t get involved in any arguments at the time

involved in any arguments at the time

involved in any arguments at the time that led to me being involved in that

that led to me being involved in that

that led to me being involved in that but by the time i was integrated back

but by the time i was integrated back

but by the time i was integrated back into class i already had over five cases

into class i already had over five cases

into class i already had over five cases of friends who had been stabbed and over

of friends who had been stabbed and over

of friends who had been stabbed and over four friends had been indicted to go and

four friends had been indicted to go and

four friends had been indicted to go and serve junior sentences that’s a reality

serve junior sentences that’s a reality

serve junior sentences that’s a reality shock being age 12 and realizing that

shock being age 12 and realizing that

shock being age 12 and realizing that slotted game no more you don’t come to

slotted game no more you don’t come to

slotted game no more you don’t come to school to sit down laugh and make jokes

school to sit down laugh and make jokes

school to sit down laugh and make jokes you actually have to be serious that was

you actually have to be serious that was

you actually have to be serious that was something that was actually something

something that was actually something

something that was actually something that really hit me and i understood at

that really hit me and i understood at

that really hit me and i understood at that point that I needed to pick a dream

that point that I needed to pick a dream

that point that I needed to pick a dream of mine one of these dreams I kept

of mine one of these dreams I kept

of mine one of these dreams I kept having and make it really the dream I

having and make it really the dream I

having and make it really the dream I chose to choose and to follow was being

chose to choose and to follow was being

chose to choose and to follow was being a businessman at a time in England we

a businessman at a time in England we

a businessman at a time in England we had the apprentice Maga Kaluga was a

had the apprentice Maga Kaluga was a

had the apprentice Maga Kaluga was a host and watching it every week when my

host and watching it every week when my

host and watching it every week when my dad and my cousin was quite inspiring

dad and my cousin was quite inspiring

dad and my cousin was quite inspiring because of watching many people from

because of watching many people from

because of watching many people from different races achieving goals weekly

different races achieving goals weekly

different races achieving goals weekly and the winner of the Prentiss was young

and the winner of the Prentiss was young

and the winner of the Prentiss was young black man called tim campbell at a time

black man called tim campbell at a time

black man called tim campbell at a time and to see someone like me on TV made me

and to see someone like me on TV made me

and to see someone like me on TV made me have hope that could be that person one

have hope that could be that person one

have hope that could be that person one day especially coming from a place where

day especially coming from a place where

day especially coming from a place where as I mentioned my parents had emigrated

as I mentioned my parents had emigrated

as I mentioned my parents had emigrated the country so I didn’t have any cousins

the country so I didn’t have any cousins

the country so I didn’t have any cousins or family members who’d been successful

or family members who’d been successful

or family members who’d been successful in their careers in the UK next steps

in their careers in the UK next steps

in their careers in the UK next steps for me with back epiphany I had and the

for me with back epiphany I had and the

for me with back epiphany I had and the stuff I learned from my TV show was to

stuff I learned from my TV show was to

stuff I learned from my TV show was to try to find someone to make it happen I

try to find someone to make it happen I

try to find someone to make it happen I decided to go to my local youth club my

decided to go to my local youth club my

decided to go to my local youth club my youth club is kind of like my Italian

youth club is kind of like my Italian

youth club is kind of like my Italian Chocolate Factory moment it’s an

Chocolate Factory moment it’s an

Chocolate Factory moment it’s an establishment in East London it has a

establishment in East London it has a

establishment in East London it has a music and fashion event a fashion venue

music and fashion event a fashion venue

music and fashion event a fashion venue it has a large auditorium

it has a large auditorium

it has a large auditorium kind of like this where people do plays

kind of like this where people do plays

kind of like this where people do plays and to keep myself out of trouble I

and to keep myself out of trouble I

and to keep myself out of trouble I would go there Monday to Friday after

would go there Monday to Friday after

would go there Monday to Friday after school and do music on Mondays and

school and do music on Mondays and

school and do music on Mondays and Tuesday learn how to cut and so on

Tuesday learn how to cut and so on

Tuesday learn how to cut and so on Wednesdays on Thursdays and on Friday

Wednesdays on Thursdays and on Friday

Wednesdays on Thursdays and on Friday learn how to act and play hence why I’m

learn how to act and play hence why I’m

learn how to act and play hence why I’m here sat and ready to talk to you and

here sat and ready to talk to you and

here sat and ready to talk to you and playing around and you all understand it

playing around and you all understand it

playing around and you all understand it because I’ve been on the stage for many

because I’ve been on the stage for many

because I’ve been on the stage for many times I understand when you get people’s

times I understand when you get people’s

times I understand when you get people’s attention you need to just perform but

attention you need to just perform but

attention you need to just perform but being in that environment really made me

being in that environment really made me

being in that environment really made me not have an option to get attention no

not have an option to get attention no

not have an option to get attention no more cause out of purpose I taught me to

more cause out of purpose I taught me to

more cause out of purpose I taught me to be there’s a few things that happen to

be there’s a few things that happen to

be there’s a few things that happen to me that I want to share with you that

me that I want to share with you that

me that I want to share with you that made me take my dreams forever and as a

made me take my dreams forever and as a

made me take my dreams forever and as a few obstacles that I’ve faced the first

few obstacles that I’ve faced the first

few obstacles that I’ve faced the first element of my dream that I achieved was

element of my dream that I achieved was

element of my dream that I achieved was building a first play and talent show

building a first play and talent show

building a first play and talent show with my local friend Christian we were

with my local friend Christian we were

with my local friend Christian we were age 12 13 we sold out a venue of over

age 12 13 we sold out a venue of over

age 12 13 we sold out a venue of over 300 attendees and we put on a talent

300 attendees and we put on a talent

300 attendees and we put on a talent show where over 20 acts performed and

show where over 20 acts performed and

show where over 20 acts performed and that was a penny drop moment when I

that was a penny drop moment when I

that was a penny drop moment when I realized that you can have an idea of

realized that you can have an idea of

realized that you can have an idea of putting on a play and a talent show you

putting on a play and a talent show you

putting on a play and a talent show you have to then organize the team you have

have to then organize the team you have

have to then organize the team you have to then put a plan together get

to then put a plan together get

to then put a plan together get permission make sure the event runs

permission make sure the event runs

permission make sure the event runs correct have merchandise in place and

correct have merchandise in place and

correct have merchandise in place and then turn up on the actual day kind of

then turn up on the actual day kind of

then turn up on the actual day kind of like how your peers are doing today and

like how your peers are doing today and

like how your peers are doing today and running this event and actually deliver

running this event and actually deliver

running this event and actually deliver and the penny drops and I realized

and the penny drops and I realized

and the penny drops and I realized anything I put my mind to I could

anything I put my mind to I could

anything I put my mind to I could actually achieve and that was quite a a

actually achieve and that was quite a a

actually achieve and that was quite a a big moment for me as a twelve-year-old

big moment for me as a twelve-year-old

big moment for me as a twelve-year-old to experience the fact that we could

to experience the fact that we could

to experience the fact that we could actually create something and people

actually create something and people

actually create something and people will turn up and pay money to come and

will turn up and pay money to come and

will turn up and pay money to come and see us do a project was amazing for me

see us do a project was amazing for me

see us do a project was amazing for me the next project I took on after that

the next project I took on after that

the next project I took on after that was age 13 and that was working with the

was age 13 and that was working with the

was age 13 and that was working with the local council to approach the young

local council to approach the young

local council to approach the young mayor to release some funds to help

mayor to release some funds to help

mayor to release some funds to help improve the derelict studio space and

improve the derelict studio space and

improve the derelict studio space and rehearsal space we had the place that we

rehearsal space we had the place that we

rehearsal space we had the place that we rehearsed was nice and fun but there

rehearsed was nice and fun but there

rehearsed was nice and fun but there were definitely rooms that needed to be

were definitely rooms that needed to be

were definitely rooms that needed to be improved we raised thirty five thousand

improved we raised thirty five thousand

improved we raised thirty five thousand pounds to rebuild a studio and the

pounds to rebuild a studio and the

pounds to rebuild a studio and the dressing rooms now I don’t know about

dressing rooms now I don’t know about

dressing rooms now I don’t know about you guys but for me as a 13 year old

you guys but for me as a 13 year old

you guys but for me as a 13 year old that was a another big moment where I

that was a another big moment where I

that was a another big moment where I realized if you can put together the

realized if you can put together the

realized if you can put together the right plan there are people out there in

right plan there are people out there in

right plan there are people out there in the world who will financially support

the world who will financially support

the world who will financially support you but it only happens if

you but it only happens if

you but it only happens if put a plan together so this was all

put a plan together so this was all

put a plan together so this was all happening and it’s exciting and back at

happening and it’s exciting and back at

happening and it’s exciting and back at school I’m finally working hard and age

school I’m finally working hard and age

school I’m finally working hard and age fourteen I take all my GCC’s so

fourteen I take all my GCC’s so

fourteen I take all my GCC’s so decencies are where we condense our

decencies are where we condense our

decencies are where we condense our subjects and we start to choose subjects

subjects and we start to choose subjects

subjects and we start to choose subjects we want we want to put we want to

we want we want to put we want to

we want we want to put we want to specialize in

specialize in

specialize in I decided to choose Business Studies

I decided to choose Business Studies

I decided to choose Business Studies history drama and French history drama

history drama and French history drama

history drama and French history drama and French were amazing great I liked it

and French were amazing great I liked it

and French were amazing great I liked it I enjoyed it but with Business Studies

I enjoyed it but with Business Studies

I enjoyed it but with Business Studies in particular I thought it was going to

in particular I thought it was going to

in particular I thought it was going to be a little bit more special especially

be a little bit more special especially

be a little bit more special especially since I’ve done all these things outside

since I’ve done all these things outside

since I’ve done all these things outside of school for the last two years twelve

of school for the last two years twelve

of school for the last two years twelve fourteen in putting on the shows and

fourteen in putting on the shows and

fourteen in putting on the shows and bidding for funds and winning it I

bidding for funds and winning it I

bidding for funds and winning it I thought that in business class you know

thought that in business class you know

thought that in business class you know we’re gonna have some talks and we’re

we’re gonna have some talks and we’re

we’re gonna have some talks and we’re gonna be able to make some cash and

gonna be able to make some cash and

gonna be able to make some cash and we’re gonna be able to do some branding

we’re gonna be able to do some branding

we’re gonna be able to do some branding and logos make some websites do some

and logos make some websites do some

and logos make some websites do some films and really have some fun but that

films and really have some fun but that

films and really have some fun but that wasn’t the reality I know you guys

wasn’t the reality I know you guys

wasn’t the reality I know you guys laughing could immerse your business

laughing could immerse your business

laughing could immerse your business students right so in my business class

students right so in my business class

students right so in my business class what I had faced was an environment

what I had faced was an environment

what I had faced was an environment where we had a lecturer and they would

where we had a lecturer and they would

where we had a lecturer and they would give us a program but it was no tangible

give us a program but it was no tangible

give us a program but it was no tangible real life projects for us to get

real life projects for us to get

real life projects for us to get involved in now this frustrated me and I

involved in now this frustrated me and I

involved in now this frustrated me and I had another epiphany at the time and it

had another epiphany at the time and it

had another epiphany at the time and it was the fact that in schools in England

was the fact that in schools in England

was the fact that in schools in England in particular my school at break times

in particular my school at break times

in particular my school at break times just before lunch

just before lunch

just before lunch people don’t get snacks anymore at break

people don’t get snacks anymore at break

people don’t get snacks anymore at break there’s only water and a couple of

there’s only water and a couple of

there’s only water and a couple of little flapjacks but there’s a black

little flapjacks but there’s a black

little flapjacks but there’s a black market that was underlined in the

market that was underlined in the

market that was underlined in the environment where certain kids in the

environment where certain kids in the

environment where certain kids in the school would come into school with their

school would come into school with their

school would come into school with their backpacks namely the older kids were 16

backpacks namely the older kids were 16

backpacks namely the older kids were 16 15 and they will have chocolate sweets

15 and they will have chocolate sweets

15 and they will have chocolate sweets drinks in their backpack and they’ll

drinks in their backpack and they’ll

drinks in their backpack and they’ll give it to the young eleven and twelve

give it to the young eleven and twelve

give it to the young eleven and twelve year olds and they will leave school

year olds and they will leave school

year olds and they will leave school with 10 20 30 50 100 pounds sometimes

with 10 20 30 50 100 pounds sometimes

with 10 20 30 50 100 pounds sometimes but I figured caught by a teacher I got

but I figured caught by a teacher I got

but I figured caught by a teacher I got confiscated and they were putting

confiscated and they were putting

confiscated and they were putting attention so it’s kind of like a black

attention so it’s kind of like a black

attention so it’s kind of like a black market it’s not meant to happen and I

market it’s not meant to happen and I

market it’s not meant to happen and I realized that is potentially a market I

realized that is potentially a market I

realized that is potentially a market I would like to delve in in school but I

would like to delve in in school but I

would like to delve in in school but I wouldn’t want to be in a black market

wouldn’t want to be in a black market

wouldn’t want to be in a black market especially since I’m doing so good

especially since I’m doing so good

especially since I’m doing so good outside of school so I try to convince

outside of school so I try to convince

outside of school so I try to convince my head teacher free occasions the Ben

my head teacher free occasions the Ben

my head teacher free occasions the Ben it’s of having the school official

it’s of having the school official

it’s of having the school official tuckshop an environment where me and my

tuckshop an environment where me and my

tuckshop an environment where me and my other business students could actually

other business students could actually

other business students could actually run our own shop and be able to earn

run our own shop and be able to earn

run our own shop and be able to earn money whilst learning about cashflow

money whilst learning about cashflow

money whilst learning about cashflow learning about his melia product

learning about his melia product

learning about his melia product especially as winter was coming up

especially as winter was coming up

especially as winter was coming up learning about team management and

learning about team management and

learning about team management and budgeting in a real life way and as only

budgeting in a real life way and as only

budgeting in a real life way and as only when I started to use the business

when I started to use the business

when I started to use the business terminology I was learning that they

terminology I was learning that they

terminology I was learning that they gave me the green light to go ahead so

gave me the green light to go ahead so

gave me the green light to go ahead so we set up a shop and I didn’t have that

we set up a shop and I didn’t have that

we set up a shop and I didn’t have that market so we can clap for that it’s kind

market so we can clap for that it’s kind

market so we can clap for that it’s kind of a good thing and as soon as I set up

of a good thing and as soon as I set up

of a good thing and as soon as I set up the shop I had to put processes in place

the shop I had to put processes in place

the shop I had to put processes in place to actually make sure that I ran

to actually make sure that I ran

to actually make sure that I ran efficiently and the results that we got

efficiently and the results that we got

efficiently and the results that we got were quite profound for the age of your

were quite profound for the age of your

were quite profound for the age of your app so we would make 100 to 300 pounds a

app so we would make 100 to 300 pounds a

app so we would make 100 to 300 pounds a day from selling cookies and sweets by

day from selling cookies and sweets by

day from selling cookies and sweets by the time we ended academic year and we

the time we ended academic year and we

the time we ended academic year and we were 14 we made over 15,000 pounds and

were 14 we made over 15,000 pounds and

were 14 we made over 15,000 pounds and that was another moment where I realized

that was another moment where I realized

that was another moment where I realized actually sometimes you can be in

actually sometimes you can be in

actually sometimes you can be in situations where you don’t understand

situations where you don’t understand

situations where you don’t understand how you’re going to learn and move

how you’re going to learn and move

how you’re going to learn and move things forward but it’s not only until

things forward but it’s not only until

things forward but it’s not only until you take action yourself that you

you take action yourself that you

you take action yourself that you actually realize the potential and you

actually realize the potential and you

actually realize the potential and you can actually do things and that help you

can actually do things and that help you

can actually do things and that help you to New York your course forward

to New York your course forward

to New York your course forward I totally younger year the following

I totally younger year the following

I totally younger year the following year how to run their own shop and the

year how to run their own shop and the

year how to run their own shop and the smile on their faces when they were a

smile on their faces when they were a

smile on their faces when they were a making money but be learning about

making money but be learning about

making money but be learning about business in a fun dynamic way or

business in a fun dynamic way or

business in a fun dynamic way or something that was absolutely priceless

something that was absolutely priceless

something that was absolutely priceless to me

to me

to me by the time I reach 18 I decided to have

by the time I reach 18 I decided to have

by the time I reach 18 I decided to have grown that shop project into a national

grown that shop project into a national

grown that shop project into a national franchise and at 18 I had worked over

franchise and at 18 I had worked over

franchise and at 18 I had worked over 5,000 students in over 100 schools and

5,000 students in over 100 schools and

5,000 students in over 100 schools and put them out all her to run her own

put them out all her to run her own

put them out all her to run her own shops as a way to learn our business in

shops as a way to learn our business in

shops as a way to learn our business in a more dynamic way now age 22 the last

a more dynamic way now age 22 the last

a more dynamic way now age 22 the last four years I’ve done a multitude of

four years I’ve done a multitude of

four years I’ve done a multitude of things that have gone away from the

things that have gone away from the

things that have gone away from the touch of experience and it’s led to me

touch of experience and it’s led to me

touch of experience and it’s led to me creating the UK’s first pop-up market

creating the UK’s first pop-up market

creating the UK’s first pop-up market teaching young people how to run their

teaching young people how to run their

teaching young people how to run their own stores outside of school has led to

own stores outside of school has led to

own stores outside of school has led to me working with the United Nations on a

me working with the United Nations on a

me working with the United Nations on a live project that required me to talk

live project that required me to talk

live project that required me to talk with nine cities at the same time and

with nine cities at the same time and

with nine cities at the same time and learn how to do partnerships and I now

learn how to do partnerships and I now

learn how to do partnerships and I now run an agency where I get to the

run an agency where I get to the

run an agency where I get to the Marketing activity with brands globally

Marketing activity with brands globally

Marketing activity with brands globally and working of influence as an Instagram

and working of influence as an Instagram

and working of influence as an Instagram on YouTube now there’s been a few things

on YouTube now there’s been a few things

on YouTube now there’s been a few things that have happened across those eight

that have happened across those eight

that have happened across those eight years from 16 to 22 or 14 to 22 that I

years from 16 to 22 or 14 to 22 that I

years from 16 to 22 or 14 to 22 that I haven’t told you yet and this is where

haven’t told you yet and this is where

haven’t told you yet and this is where I’m going to need you guys to

I’m going to need you guys to

I’m going to need you guys to participate Group A and Group B now I

participate Group A and Group B now I

participate Group A and Group B now I realized that there’s a few things you

realized that there’s a few things you

realized that there’s a few things you can do when you’re operating the fields

can do when you’re operating the fields

can do when you’re operating the fields and your young person the first thing

and your young person the first thing

and your young person the first thing you’re going to come up against is the

you’re going to come up against is the

you’re going to come up against is the obstacles not being taken seriously I’m

obstacles not being taken seriously I’m

obstacles not being taken seriously I’m sure a lot of us in the room have

sure a lot of us in the room have

sure a lot of us in the room have probably read or seen the video that’s

probably read or seen the video that’s

probably read or seen the video that’s gone viral that were a generation of

gone viral that were a generation of

gone viral that were a generation of entitled young people we’re generation

entitled young people we’re generation

entitled young people we’re generation of people who expect everything now

of people who expect everything now

of people who expect everything now we’re Instagram generation we want to be

we’re Instagram generation we want to be

we’re Instagram generation we want to be seen and not do the hard work I know

seen and not do the hard work I know

seen and not do the hard work I know that I’m not an anomaly I know that

that I’m not an anomaly I know that

that I’m not an anomaly I know that there are other young people who’ve done

there are other young people who’ve done

there are other young people who’ve done amazing work just like myself and I felt

amazing work just like myself and I felt

amazing work just like myself and I felt in particular with doing this talk

in particular with doing this talk

in particular with doing this talk especially as the rooms full of business

especially as the rooms full of business

especially as the rooms full of business students what would the gems from my

students what would the gems from my

students what would the gems from my business journey be that would actually

business journey be that would actually

business journey be that would actually enable you next summer and moving

enable you next summer and moving

enable you next summer and moving forward to actually move forward to

forward to actually move forward to

forward to actually move forward to write progress and what I have actually

write progress and what I have actually

write progress and what I have actually brought this down to is two things from

brought this down to is two things from

brought this down to is two things from the story that I’ve said I’ve always had

the story that I’ve said I’ve always had

the story that I’ve said I’ve always had this kind of penny drop moment in a

this kind of penny drop moment in a

this kind of penny drop moment in a moment when a penny drops and I realized

moment when a penny drops and I realized

moment when a penny drops and I realized aha this is what I need to do and

aha this is what I need to do and

aha this is what I need to do and sometimes a penny drops and I don’t push

sometimes a penny drops and I don’t push

sometimes a penny drops and I don’t push forward with it and it’s like all be jet

forward with it and it’s like all be jet

forward with it and it’s like all be jet you should have done that you know and

you should have done that you know and

you should have done that you know and there’s a few things I want to share

there’s a few things I want to share

there’s a few things I want to share with you that sit in both sides now from

with you that sit in both sides now from

with you that sit in both sides now from a side I want you guys to do are can we

a side I want you guys to do are can we

a side I want you guys to do are can we try R and B can I get all so

try R and B can I get all so

try R and B can I get all so when I started my businesses and I’ve

when I started my businesses and I’ve

when I started my businesses and I’ve done projects and I haven’t researched

done projects and I haven’t researched

done projects and I haven’t researched and I’ve gone to present and I’ve made a

and I’ve gone to present and I’ve made a

and I’ve gone to present and I’ve made a mistake I realized that it was a however

mistake I realized that it was a however

mistake I realized that it was a however when I have prepared and I’ve been on

when I have prepared and I’ve been on

when I have prepared and I’ve been on point I’ve made a plan I’ve had her and

point I’ve made a plan I’ve had her and

point I’ve made a plan I’ve had her and I’ve smashed what I tried to do there’s

I’ve smashed what I tried to do there’s

I’ve smashed what I tried to do there’s been times when I have tried to hire

been times when I have tried to hire

been times when I have tried to hire people who are my friends and I haven’t

people who are my friends and I haven’t

people who are my friends and I haven’t set the boundaries because I think

set the boundaries because I think

set the boundaries because I think they’re going to do whatever they want

they’re going to do whatever they want

they’re going to do whatever they want to do and I’ve had a however when I plan

to do and I’ve had a however when I plan

to do and I’ve had a however when I plan and I make the right steps and hire the

and I make the right steps and hire the

and I make the right steps and hire the right talent I have a certain Beach and

right talent I have a certain Beach and

right talent I have a certain Beach and I think you guys can do what I’m gonna

I think you guys can do what I’m gonna

I think you guys can do what I’m gonna do I’m wishing you guys the best of luck

do I’m wishing you guys the best of luck

do I’m wishing you guys the best of luck next time when you graduate and the

next time when you graduate and the

next time when you graduate and the following year and I hope I’ve been able

following year and I hope I’ve been able

following year and I hope I’ve been able to inspire one of you guys with the

to inspire one of you guys with the

to inspire one of you guys with the stories of how to make it happen the

stories of how to make it happen the

stories of how to make it happen the main thing I want to say is that moment

main thing I want to say is that moment

main thing I want to say is that moment when the penny drops and whatever you’re

when the penny drops and whatever you’re

when the penny drops and whatever you’re trying to do just make sure you make a

trying to do just make sure you make a

trying to do just make sure you make a plan take baby steps keep consistent

plan take baby steps keep consistent

plan take baby steps keep consistent that’s the most important thing I’ve

that’s the most important thing I’ve

that’s the most important thing I’ve learned and understand that no one’s out

learned and understand that no one’s out

learned and understand that no one’s out here to hurt you and you’re the only

here to hurt you and you’re the only

here to hurt you and you’re the only champion for yourself and the momentum

champion for yourself and the momentum

champion for yourself and the momentum will build as you build thank you

will build as you build thank you

will build as you build thank you [Applause]

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