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A Need For Community | David Opong-Wadee | TEDxGrinnellCollege


[Music]

[Music] air begins with me each of you are you

air begins with me each of you are you

air begins with me each of you are you afraid of me are you afraid of the big

afraid of me are you afraid of the big

afraid of me are you afraid of the big black man that’s standing in front of

black man that’s standing in front of

black man that’s standing in front of you when you see my last name do you

you when you see my last name do you

you when you see my last name do you understand that I’m more than just image

understand that I’m more than just image

understand that I’m more than just image could you predict that my mother is

could you predict that my mother is

could you predict that my mother is white there she is if you can’t tell we

white there she is if you can’t tell we

white there she is if you can’t tell we have pretty striking resemblance did you

have pretty striking resemblance did you

have pretty striking resemblance did you understand that my father and mother had

understand that my father and mother had

understand that my father and mother had clashing cultures throughout my life

clashing cultures throughout my life

clashing cultures throughout my life that made it impossible for me to

that made it impossible for me to

that made it impossible for me to understand who I was from the very

understand who I was from the very

understand who I was from the very beginning I remember my first day of

beginning I remember my first day of

beginning I remember my first day of kindergarten I had this sense of pride

kindergarten I had this sense of pride

kindergarten I had this sense of pride my father had this deep ganea knack sent

my father had this deep ganea knack sent

my father had this deep ganea knack sent and he always wanted me to understand

and he always wanted me to understand

and he always wanted me to understand where I came from I was Ashanti I was

where I came from I was Ashanti I was

where I came from I was Ashanti I was ganea I was more than just another

ganea I was more than just another

ganea I was more than just another person and so when i walked in i was

person and so when i walked in i was

person and so when i walked in i was excited just like any other

excited just like any other

excited just like any other five-year-old child I couldn’t wait for

five-year-old child I couldn’t wait for

five-year-old child I couldn’t wait for my opportunity start making friends and

my opportunity start making friends and

my opportunity start making friends and tell people all about who I was and how

tell people all about who I was and how

tell people all about who I was and how I like to play and so when it got to my

I like to play and so when it got to my

I like to play and so when it got to my turn to speak I stood proudly I said my

turn to speak I stood proudly I said my

turn to speak I stood proudly I said my name is none Aqua sea and for a moment I

name is none Aqua sea and for a moment I

name is none Aqua sea and for a moment I felt like I was on top of the world but

felt like I was on top of the world but

felt like I was on top of the world but in the next moment when another kid

in the next moment when another kid

in the next moment when another kid sitting right next to me pointed at me

sitting right next to me pointed at me

sitting right next to me pointed at me and said you’re just an African booty

and said you’re just an African booty

and said you’re just an African booty scratcher I immediately begun to break

scratcher I immediately begun to break

scratcher I immediately begun to break down you see I’ve lived in constant

down you see I’ve lived in constant

down you see I’ve lived in constant paranoia of not knowing who I am of

paranoia of not knowing who I am of

paranoia of not knowing who I am of understanding my purpose or

understanding my purpose or

understanding my purpose or understanding my ability to relay Who I

understanding my ability to relay Who I

understanding my ability to relay Who I am past what I’m wearing a constant

am past what I’m wearing a constant

am past what I’m wearing a constant paranoia of being pulled over by the

paranoia of being pulled over by the

paranoia of being pulled over by the wrong belief and so when I feel like I’m

wrong belief and so when I feel like I’m

wrong belief and so when I feel like I’m doing too much

doing too much

doing too much it’s really about protecting myself this

it’s really about protecting myself this

it’s really about protecting myself this three-piece suit is probably doing too

three-piece suit is probably doing too

three-piece suit is probably doing too much but it was like a bulletproof vest

much but it was like a bulletproof vest

much but it was like a bulletproof vest for me it made me feel comfortable it

for me it made me feel comfortable it

for me it made me feel comfortable it made me feel as if you could just listen

made me feel as if you could just listen

made me feel as if you could just listen to me and not focus on the color of my

you see my mother always called me fuzzy

you see my mother always called me fuzzy wuzzy and I felt like a teddy bear I

wuzzy and I felt like a teddy bear I

wuzzy and I felt like a teddy bear I mean are you afraid of me do I look like

mean are you afraid of me do I look like

mean are you afraid of me do I look like a teddy bear or am I threat I couldn’t

a teddy bear or am I threat I couldn’t

a teddy bear or am I threat I couldn’t understand by just being from where I

understand by just being from where I

understand by just being from where I was I didn’t always fit in with

was I didn’t always fit in with

was I didn’t always fit in with everybody I grew up with but very

everybody I grew up with but very

everybody I grew up with but very quickly post crack epidemic washington

quickly post crack epidemic washington

quickly post crack epidemic washington DC gave me tough skin and so when i

DC gave me tough skin and so when i

DC gave me tough skin and so when i matriculated to 7th through 12th grade

matriculated to 7th through 12th grade

matriculated to 7th through 12th grade along with the upper ten percent of the

along with the upper ten percent of the

along with the upper ten percent of the entire united states in washington DC at

entire united states in washington DC at

entire united states in washington DC at the marais school i felt as if i had

the marais school i felt as if i had

the marais school i felt as if i had been hardened already i felt as if i had

been hardened already i felt as if i had

been hardened already i felt as if i had a purpose and a mission I had to

a purpose and a mission I had to

a purpose and a mission I had to infiltrate the system and I had to make

infiltrate the system and I had to make

infiltrate the system and I had to make my way you see neither of my parents had

my way you see neither of my parents had

my way you see neither of my parents had gone to college at least traditionally

gone to college at least traditionally

gone to college at least traditionally my mother eventually did while taking

my mother eventually did while taking

my mother eventually did while taking care of her mother in her mid-twenties

care of her mother in her mid-twenties

care of her mother in her mid-twenties and so she went to college and she also

and so she went to college and she also

and so she went to college and she also happened to be working at the same time

happened to be working at the same time

happened to be working at the same time but for my family this was an

but for my family this was an

but for my family this was an opportunity so amazing so ridiculous so

opportunity so amazing so ridiculous so

opportunity so amazing so ridiculous so unfathomable that there were tears of

unfathomable that there were tears of

unfathomable that there were tears of joy tears of joy that was short-lived

joy tears of joy that was short-lived

joy tears of joy that was short-lived and the reason was because I couldn’t

and the reason was because I couldn’t

and the reason was because I couldn’t understand whether i need it to be fresh

understand whether i need it to be fresh

understand whether i need it to be fresh prince how many of you here have watched

prince how many of you here have watched

prince how many of you here have watched the freshman fidelity it’s based

the freshman fidelity it’s based

the freshman fidelity it’s based majority a majority of it is based on

majority a majority of it is based on

majority a majority of it is based on the difference between two main figures

the difference between two main figures

the difference between two main figures will and Carlton and will happens to be

will and Carlton and will happens to be

will and Carlton and will happens to be from an underserved community of west

from an underserved community of west

from an underserved community of west philadelphia born and raised

philadelphia born and raised

philadelphia born and raised and Carlton is a privilege and unable to

and Carlton is a privilege and unable to

and Carlton is a privilege and unable to really see the struggles that will is

really see the struggles that will is

really see the struggles that will is going through until much later as the

going through until much later as the

going through until much later as the seasons continue to develop and so I

seasons continue to develop and so I

seasons continue to develop and so I began to try to shield myself with

began to try to shield myself with

began to try to shield myself with things that my family couldn’t afford I

things that my family couldn’t afford I

things that my family couldn’t afford I had to have the pole I had to dress

had to have the pole I had to dress

had to have the pole I had to dress preppy I had to look like everybody else

preppy I had to look like everybody else

preppy I had to look like everybody else and my family quite frankly couldn’t

and my family quite frankly couldn’t

and my family quite frankly couldn’t afford it but my parents made a way for

afford it but my parents made a way for

afford it but my parents made a way for me to feel comfortable for me to have a

me to feel comfortable for me to have a

me to feel comfortable for me to have a shell for me to feel that sense of pride

shell for me to feel that sense of pride

shell for me to feel that sense of pride that my father had tried to instill in

that my father had tried to instill in

that my father had tried to instill in me when he told me your ashanti big an

me when he told me your ashanti big an

me when he told me your ashanti big an an and I remember very clearly all of a

an and I remember very clearly all of a

an and I remember very clearly all of a sudden I had all of these opportunities

sudden I had all of these opportunities

sudden I had all of these opportunities to do things that I wanted I could sing

to do things that I wanted I could sing

to do things that I wanted I could sing in the choir I could play sports and one

in the choir I could play sports and one

in the choir I could play sports and one particular day at the beginning of the

particular day at the beginning of the

particular day at the beginning of the fall football season in seventh grade I

fall football season in seventh grade I

fall football season in seventh grade I remember my little round self jogging

remember my little round self jogging

remember my little round self jogging out onto the field super excited to be

out onto the field super excited to be

out onto the field super excited to be able to play sports in full attire I

able to play sports in full attire I

able to play sports in full attire I mean I’ve been playing football in the

mean I’ve been playing football in the

mean I’ve been playing football in the street for years just tossing a pigskin

street for years just tossing a pigskin

street for years just tossing a pigskin in between oncoming cars but I finally

in between oncoming cars but I finally

in between oncoming cars but I finally had the opportunity to strap up and I

had the opportunity to strap up and I

had the opportunity to strap up and I felt like I was going to make a huge

felt like I was going to make a huge

felt like I was going to make a huge impact on my life I was headed to the

impact on my life I was headed to the

impact on my life I was headed to the NFL but I was immediately defeated

NFL but I was immediately defeated

NFL but I was immediately defeated because my coach started to put pieces

because my coach started to put pieces

because my coach started to put pieces of tape on everybody’s helmets the bats

of tape on everybody’s helmets the bats

of tape on everybody’s helmets the bats of their helmets so that he could

of their helmets so that he could

of their helmets so that he could remember our names and in so doing as

remember our names and in so doing as

remember our names and in so doing as you can see my last name is pretty long

you can see my last name is pretty long

you can see my last name is pretty long he started to write an acronym first the

he started to write an acronym first the

he started to write an acronym first the 0 then the w I thought a is he going to

0 then the w I thought a is he going to

0 then the w I thought a is he going to call me mr. Oh w but he added the two

call me mr. Oh w but he added the two

call me mr. Oh w but he added the two E’s at the end and began to I guess

E’s at the end and began to I guess

E’s at the end and began to I guess affectionately call me Alli now most of

affectionately call me Alli now most of

affectionately call me Alli now most of the people that I went to high school in

the people that I went to high school in

the people that I went to high school in middle school with think of that term as

middle school with think of that term as

middle school with think of that term as affectionate but it took me almost 12

affectionate but it took me almost 12

affectionate but it took me almost 12 years later to understand that I was

years later to understand that I was

years later to understand that I was different I wasn’t a Johnson I wasn’t

different I wasn’t a Johnson I wasn’t

different I wasn’t a Johnson I wasn’t Thompson I wasn’t someone who they could

Thompson I wasn’t someone who they could

Thompson I wasn’t someone who they could relate to immediately and so to be

relate to immediately and so to be

relate to immediately and so to be brought in I had to be given a title I

brought in I had to be given a title I

brought in I had to be given a title I wanted to be accepted and as i continue

wanted to be accepted and as i continue

wanted to be accepted and as i continue to develop i continue to understand that

to develop i continue to understand that

to develop i continue to understand that in order for me to be accepted i had to

in order for me to be accepted i had to

in order for me to be accepted i had to start changing my identity i had to be a

start changing my identity i had to be a

start changing my identity i had to be a different person than I was in my

different person than I was in my

different person than I was in my neighborhood but I still had to be cool

neighborhood but I still had to be cool

neighborhood but I still had to be cool and my father and I got into it severely

and my father and I got into it severely

and my father and I got into it severely so many times about me losing sight of

so many times about me losing sight of

so many times about me losing sight of who I was where I was from what the

who I was where I was from what the

who I was where I was from what the mission was at him again remember no one

mission was at him again remember no one

mission was at him again remember no one in my family and my nuclear family had

in my family and my nuclear family had

in my family and my nuclear family had gone to traditional college and so this

gone to traditional college and so this

gone to traditional college and so this was an opportunity that meant so much to

was an opportunity that meant so much to

was an opportunity that meant so much to our family but at what cost and so as I

our family but at what cost and so as I

our family but at what cost and so as I was making my way through I would have

was making my way through I would have

was making my way through I would have these back and forth with my dad I felt

these back and forth with my dad I felt

these back and forth with my dad I felt as if I was smarter he didn’t finish

as if I was smarter he didn’t finish

as if I was smarter he didn’t finish high school so he could never help me

high school so he could never help me

high school so he could never help me with my homework and my mother who had a

with my homework and my mother who had a

with my homework and my mother who had a different culture and was much more

different culture and was much more

different culture and was much more understanding had to supplement the cost

understanding had to supplement the cost

understanding had to supplement the cost of his disability and so we were talking

of his disability and so we were talking

of his disability and so we were talking past each other just within our home but

past each other just within our home but

past each other just within our home but when my father died when I turned 15 I

when my father died when I turned 15 I

when my father died when I turned 15 I was able to move past that towards the

was able to move past that towards the

was able to move past that towards the goal of getting to college and I very

goal of getting to college and I very

goal of getting to college and I very clearly remember the day when I got the

clearly remember the day when I got the

clearly remember the day when I got the call from the posse foundation and

call from the posse foundation and

call from the posse foundation and Grinnell College letting me know that I

Grinnell College letting me know that I

Grinnell College letting me know that I had been accepted that I would be on my

had been accepted that I would be on my

had been accepted that I would be on my way to school all tuition taking care of

way to school all tuition taking care of

way to school all tuition taking care of I’ve never cried more tears of joy in my

I’ve never cried more tears of joy in my

I’ve never cried more tears of joy in my life and that moment forever shaped by

life and that moment forever shaped by

life and that moment forever shaped by ability to then embark on my true life

by the time I’d got into college my

by the time I’d got into college my sense of being my purpose my

sense of being my purpose my

sense of being my purpose my representation for my younger brother

representation for my younger brother

representation for my younger brother overshadowed all of the fears that I had

overshadowed all of the fears that I had

overshadowed all of the fears that I had of being able to fall in line with

of being able to fall in line with

of being able to fall in line with people who were pretty much sure that

people who were pretty much sure that

people who were pretty much sure that they were going to college their entire

they were going to college their entire

they were going to college their entire life

life

life I had gone to private school and had

I had gone to private school and had

I had gone to private school and had this sense of an ability to be able to

this sense of an ability to be able to

this sense of an ability to be able to actually speak with and dine with and

actually speak with and dine with and

actually speak with and dine with and play with and go to harris with tons of

play with and go to harris with tons of

play with and go to harris with tons of different people from all over the world

different people from all over the world

different people from all over the world and so when Senator Tom Harkin appeared

and so when Senator Tom Harkin appeared

and so when Senator Tom Harkin appeared on my campus I wasn’t afraid I saw it as

on my campus I wasn’t afraid I saw it as

on my campus I wasn’t afraid I saw it as an opportunity I began to have more and

an opportunity I began to have more and

an opportunity I began to have more and more of those opportunities stacking

more of those opportunities stacking

more of those opportunities stacking them on top of each other but I also

them on top of each other but I also

them on top of each other but I also began to understand that my duality was

began to understand that my duality was

began to understand that my duality was taking a new form I was becoming the

taking a new form I was becoming the

taking a new form I was becoming the token black men I was becoming that

token black men I was becoming that

token black men I was becoming that voice of diversity the one that’s always

voice of diversity the one that’s always

voice of diversity the one that’s always great to hear were at the end of a

great to hear were at the end of a

great to hear were at the end of a conversation but never in the middle the

conversation but never in the middle the

conversation but never in the middle the ideas that would help to be more

ideas that would help to be more

ideas that would help to be more inclusive until they were too loud but I

inclusive until they were too loud but I

inclusive until they were too loud but I also began to understand that I had a

also began to understand that I had a

also began to understand that I had a purpose and the image of that plan and

purpose and the image of that plan and

purpose and the image of that plan and that purpose came through my inspiration

that purpose came through my inspiration

that purpose came through my inspiration to work for president barack obama you

to work for president barack obama you

to work for president barack obama you see I finally had someone to aspire to

see I finally had someone to aspire to

see I finally had someone to aspire to be like another biracial

be like another biracial

be like another biracial african-american man who is well

african-american man who is well

african-american man who is well educated and had beat the odd and so I

educated and had beat the odd and so I

educated and had beat the odd and so I embarked on a whole journey of

embarked on a whole journey of

embarked on a whole journey of understanding this purpose in the

understanding this purpose in the

understanding this purpose in the position of wanting to be a public

position of wanting to be a public

position of wanting to be a public servant and I took on a great

servant and I took on a great

servant and I took on a great opportunity of working for him in

opportunity of working for him in

opportunity of working for him in Dubuque Iowa shortly after graduating

Dubuque Iowa shortly after graduating

Dubuque Iowa shortly after graduating bunnell college and truly began to

bunnell college and truly began to

bunnell college and truly began to understand just how much potential I had

understand just how much potential I had

understand just how much potential I had in bringing different types of people

in bringing different types of people

in bringing different types of people together for a common goal you see I

together for a common goal you see I

together for a common goal you see I started to understand that my duality

started to understand that my duality

started to understand that my duality didn’t have to be one of a dichotomy I

didn’t have to be one of a dichotomy I

didn’t have to be one of a dichotomy I didn’t always have to switch my

didn’t always have to switch my

didn’t always have to switch my personality in fact I could be both and

personality in fact I could be both and

personality in fact I could be both and I started to punch in started to code

I started to punch in started to code

I started to punch in started to code set of code switch so when Freddie gray

set of code switch so when Freddie gray

set of code switch so when Freddie gray was killed mercilessly by people

was killed mercilessly by people

was killed mercilessly by people officers in 2014 I had the courage to

officers in 2014 I had the courage to

officers in 2014 I had the courage to lead a protest on the steps of the US

lead a protest on the steps of the US

lead a protest on the steps of the US House of Representatives with a number

House of Representatives with a number

House of Representatives with a number of other young people old people black

of other young people old people black

of other young people old people black people white people blue purple for this

people white people blue purple for this

people white people blue purple for this sense of connectedness boards human

sense of connectedness boards human

sense of connectedness boards human dignity black lives matter my life

dignity black lives matter my life

dignity black lives matter my life mattered but more importantly I refuse

mattered but more importantly I refuse

mattered but more importantly I refuse to sit on the sideline as I continued to

to sit on the sideline as I continued to

to sit on the sideline as I continued to see the recreation of the 60 but

see the recreation of the 60 but

see the recreation of the 60 but furthermore I had this interesting

furthermore I had this interesting

furthermore I had this interesting situation that I had to deal with

situation that I had to deal with

situation that I had to deal with individual after all I had made it so

individual after all I had made it so

individual after all I had made it so far out of my situation that how could I

far out of my situation that how could I

far out of my situation that how could I stop I mean this was an opportunity to

stop I mean this was an opportunity to

stop I mean this was an opportunity to get both publicity and conduct some

get both publicity and conduct some

get both publicity and conduct some public service in fact i can remember

public service in fact i can remember

public service in fact i can remember plenty of people who use it specifically

plenty of people who use it specifically

plenty of people who use it specifically for that but I understood that my

for that but I understood that my

for that but I understood that my purpose was deeper than so I continued

purpose was deeper than so I continued

purpose was deeper than so I continued to ask myself how do we grow I mean

to ask myself how do we grow I mean

to ask myself how do we grow I mean police brutality racism prejudice those

police brutality racism prejudice those

police brutality racism prejudice those aren’t new things and I was fortunate

aren’t new things and I was fortunate

aren’t new things and I was fortunate enough to have been educated through a

enough to have been educated through a

enough to have been educated through a pretty liberal and social education that

pretty liberal and social education that

pretty liberal and social education that allowed me to understand that you know

allowed me to understand that you know

allowed me to understand that you know equality existed I mean sometimes I ask

equality existed I mean sometimes I ask

equality existed I mean sometimes I ask myself how we could possibly still be

myself how we could possibly still be

myself how we could possibly still be fighting over a national anthem that

fighting over a national anthem that

fighting over a national anthem that celebrates slavery I mean it’s in the

celebrates slavery I mean it’s in the

celebrates slavery I mean it’s in the third stanza of course that no one else

third stanza of course that no one else

third stanza of course that no one else really learns these days but how far

really learns these days but how far

really learns these days but how far have we really come you see the problem

have we really come you see the problem

have we really come you see the problem begins with those who have in those who

begins with those who have in those who

begins with those who have in those who don’t and understanding our ability to

don’t and understanding our ability to

don’t and understanding our ability to get what we would like starts at a very

get what we would like starts at a very

get what we would like starts at a very fundamental level we’re supposed to be

fundamental level we’re supposed to be

fundamental level we’re supposed to be the best nation in the world but 32

the best nation in the world but 32

the best nation in the world but 32 million adults in the u.s. can’t read

million adults in the u.s. can’t read

million adults in the u.s. can’t read and in DC we’re on from nine percent of

and in DC we’re on from nine percent of

and in DC we’re on from nine percent of true DC residents which happened to be

true DC residents which happened to be

true DC residents which happened to be seventy-five percent

seventy-five percent

seventy-five percent of color don’t even finish college in

of color don’t even finish college in

of color don’t even finish college in six years I had an opportunity but how

six years I had an opportunity but how

six years I had an opportunity but how would I move forth without looking back

would I move forth without looking back

would I move forth without looking back and I also began to understand that I

and I also began to understand that I

and I also began to understand that I was up against a completely new beasts

was up against a completely new beasts

was up against a completely new beasts see the internet had given the younger

see the internet had given the younger

see the internet had given the younger generation a sense of an ability to make

generation a sense of an ability to make

generation a sense of an ability to make things happen at a much quicker pace and

things happen at a much quicker pace and

things happen at a much quicker pace and so I had this frustration through social

so I had this frustration through social

so I had this frustration through social media your snapchat through Facebook a

media your snapchat through Facebook a

media your snapchat through Facebook a sense of purpose the sense of urge that

sense of purpose the sense of urge that

sense of purpose the sense of urge that needed to be gratified instantly and I

needed to be gratified instantly and I

needed to be gratified instantly and I would fight and our toil all kinds of

would fight and our toil all kinds of

would fight and our toil all kinds of people that I would work with or under

people that I would work with or under

people that I would work with or under because they looked at me as the short

because they looked at me as the short

because they looked at me as the short side of millennial I mean sure my points

side of millennial I mean sure my points

side of millennial I mean sure my points were great but how was I going to see

were great but how was I going to see

were great but how was I going to see things through how could they possibly

things through how could they possibly

things through how could they possibly pass the torch to someone like me when

pass the torch to someone like me when

pass the torch to someone like me when they couldn’t even retire they were

they couldn’t even retire they were

they couldn’t even retire they were focusing on things like social security

focusing on things like social security

focusing on things like social security and I are raised never quite thinking

and I are raised never quite thinking

and I are raised never quite thinking about investing into our bench into our

about investing into our bench into our

about investing into our bench into our future moreover how was I going to fight

future moreover how was I going to fight

future moreover how was I going to fight this chain of conservatism that I found

this chain of conservatism that I found

this chain of conservatism that I found myself falling into you how was I going

myself falling into you how was I going

myself falling into you how was I going to fight feeling better than the people

to fight feeling better than the people

to fight feeling better than the people that I’d grown up with but the community

that I’d grown up with but the community

that I’d grown up with but the community surrounding me constantly but I began to

surrounding me constantly but I began to

surrounding me constantly but I began to understand that my opportunity was more

understand that my opportunity was more

understand that my opportunity was more than just for me someone else had

than just for me someone else had

than just for me someone else had invested in my human dignity someone

invested in my human dignity someone

invested in my human dignity someone else had seen me as more than just that

else had seen me as more than just that

else had seen me as more than just that little black boy more than just the

little black boy more than just the

little black boy more than just the Ghanaians the half white male more than

Ghanaians the half white male more than

Ghanaians the half white male more than a teddy bear and even more than a threat

a teddy bear and even more than a threat

a teddy bear and even more than a threat they understood that that dignity that

they understood that that dignity that

they understood that that dignity that they gave me that I started to

they gave me that I started to

they gave me that I started to understand that resonated within me was

understand that resonated within me was

understand that resonated within me was a path to social mobility and if my path

a path to social mobility and if my path

a path to social mobility and if my path could be created so many other paths

could be created so many other paths

could be created so many other paths could be as well and so my network began

could be as well and so my network began

could be as well and so my network began to expand

to expand

to expand and even though I didn’t start off

and even though I didn’t start off

and even though I didn’t start off having a Bentley we’re going on all the

having a Bentley we’re going on all the

having a Bentley we’re going on all the cool trips that all of my friends did I

cool trips that all of my friends did I

cool trips that all of my friends did I had equity I could see the playing field

had equity I could see the playing field

had equity I could see the playing field that I was working and I had opportunity

that I was working and I had opportunity

that I was working and I had opportunity and I began to understand that with

and I began to understand that with

and I began to understand that with opportunity I was using my duality in

opportunity I was using my duality in

opportunity I was using my duality in all of these different circles to bring

all of these different circles to bring

all of these different circles to bring people together to innovate to talk with

people together to innovate to talk with

people together to innovate to talk with each other with the intent of listening

each other with the intent of listening

each other with the intent of listening but listening without a response you see

but listening without a response you see

but listening without a response you see I started to understand that I had

I started to understand that I had

I started to understand that I had directly benefited from equity sure laws

directly benefited from equity sure laws

directly benefited from equity sure laws can be made that say that everybody can

can be made that say that everybody can

can be made that say that everybody can walk through the same for boss can be

walk through the same for boss can be

walk through the same for boss can be made that ensure that every child has

made that ensure that every child has

made that ensure that every child has the opportunity to get to school but

the opportunity to get to school but

the opportunity to get to school but what about all of the other things what

what about all of the other things what

what about all of the other things what about all of the parents that can afford

about all of the parents that can afford

about all of the parents that can afford the tutor what about all of the parents

the tutor what about all of the parents

the tutor what about all of the parents that are able to put their kids into

that are able to put their kids into

that are able to put their kids into karate and basketball and ballet and

karate and basketball and ballet and

karate and basketball and ballet and piano but those factors possibly add to

piano but those factors possibly add to

piano but those factors possibly add to social capital could those factors have

social capital could those factors have

social capital could those factors have been the difference between my success

been the difference between my success

been the difference between my success and so many who had not made it out of

and so many who had not made it out of

and so many who had not made it out of my neighborhood but how do we advocate

my neighborhood but how do we advocate

my neighborhood but how do we advocate so often our fear has us wearing an

so often our fear has us wearing an

so often our fear has us wearing an invisible cloak where we just want to

invisible cloak where we just want to

invisible cloak where we just want to make it at least that’s how I feel where

make it at least that’s how I feel where

make it at least that’s how I feel where I want to be accepted where I want to be

I want to be accepted where I want to be

I want to be accepted where I want to be seen even and on an even playing field

seen even and on an even playing field

seen even and on an even playing field regardless of who else is with me my

regardless of who else is with me my

regardless of who else is with me my mindset obviously changed but so much of

mindset obviously changed but so much of

mindset obviously changed but so much of that unlearning and that hurt had to

that unlearning and that hurt had to

that unlearning and that hurt had to happen through my experiences and so as

happen through my experiences and so as

happen through my experiences and so as I worked in electoral politics with all

I worked in electoral politics with all

I worked in electoral politics with all different types of people and worked as

different types of people and worked as

different types of people and worked as a legislative assistant on Capitol Hill

a legislative assistant on Capitol Hill

a legislative assistant on Capitol Hill creating policies that I wanted to see

creating policies that I wanted to see

creating policies that I wanted to see come to fruition so that we could create

come to fruition so that we could create

come to fruition so that we could create better levels of equity I started to ask

better levels of equity I started to ask

better levels of equity I started to ask myself what can I do without a

myself what can I do without a

myself what can I do without a constituent how do I stand up to a

constituent how do I stand up to a

constituent how do I stand up to a corporation or a pack or international

corporation or a pack or international

corporation or a pack or international donor or billionaire or special

donor or billionaire or special

donor or billionaire or special interests that have nothing to do with

interests that have nothing to do with

interests that have nothing to do with human dignity but simply restoration you

human dignity but simply restoration you

human dignity but simply restoration you see I started to understand that I was

see I started to understand that I was

see I started to understand that I was getting ahead of myself I had to relearn

getting ahead of myself I had to relearn

getting ahead of myself I had to relearn and understand that our coexistence had

and understand that our coexistence had

and understand that our coexistence had to be more our our coexistence had to be

to be more our our coexistence had to be

to be more our our coexistence had to be one of collaboration I’m of the firm

one of collaboration I’m of the firm

one of collaboration I’m of the firm belief that we are at a time in our life

belief that we are at a time in our life

belief that we are at a time in our life where our electoral process our

where our electoral process our

where our electoral process our democracy our freedom our liberties and

democracy our freedom our liberties and

democracy our freedom our liberties and our overall belief in our nation are at

our overall belief in our nation are at

our overall belief in our nation are at stake see we can have the same outcomes

stake see we can have the same outcomes

stake see we can have the same outcomes that we’ve had for centuries and

that we’ve had for centuries and

that we’ve had for centuries and centuries rolling our feet in the mud

centuries rolling our feet in the mud

centuries rolling our feet in the mud trying to move something like Fred

trying to move something like Fred

trying to move something like Fred Flintstone or we can start to have

Flintstone or we can start to have

Flintstone or we can start to have conversations that expose the truth of

conversations that expose the truth of

conversations that expose the truth of America that the little black boy just

America that the little black boy just

America that the little black boy just might have ideas that the rich white boy

might have ideas that the rich white boy

might have ideas that the rich white boy doesn’t because I didn’t have and

doesn’t because I didn’t have and

doesn’t because I didn’t have and through that innovation through those

through that innovation through those

through that innovation through those conversations we can start to think

conversations we can start to think

conversations we can start to think about creating pathways we can start to

about creating pathways we can start to

about creating pathways we can start to think about innovation and technology

think about innovation and technology

think about innovation and technology that will move us to a place where our

that will move us to a place where our

that will move us to a place where our respect for each other is truly based on

respect for each other is truly based on

respect for each other is truly based on our ability to perform we can hover we

our ability to perform we can hover we

our ability to perform we can hover we can float they don’t always have to walk

can float they don’t always have to walk

can float they don’t always have to walk you see I believe that deconstructing

you see I believe that deconstructing

you see I believe that deconstructing prejudice is begins at home and in the

prejudice is begins at home and in the

prejudice is begins at home and in the school but more importantly it begins

school but more importantly it begins

school but more importantly it begins with neighbors having conversations and

with neighbors having conversations and

with neighbors having conversations and to take it a step further every single

to take it a step further every single

to take it a step further every single one of you all who are listening have to

one of you all who are listening have to

one of you all who are listening have to ask yourself have you ever been

ask yourself have you ever been

ask yourself have you ever been uncomfortable when you’re looking at

uncomfortable when you’re looking at

uncomfortable when you’re looking at someone who doesn’t look the same as you

someone who doesn’t look the same as you

someone who doesn’t look the same as you are you uncomfortable are you afraid

are you uncomfortable are you afraid

are you uncomfortable are you afraid those conversations are where we can lay

those conversations are where we can lay

those conversations are where we can lay the foundation for stronger conversation

the foundation for stronger conversation

the foundation for stronger conversation and as we get older we’ve got to

and as we get older we’ve got to

and as we get older we’ve got to understand that when we vote it’s not

understand that when we vote it’s not

understand that when we vote it’s not just about ticking a box we have to hold

just about ticking a box we have to hold

just about ticking a box we have to hold our local elected officials counter in

our local elected officials counter in

our local elected officials counter in order to have a rippling effect the

order to have a rippling effect the

order to have a rippling effect the President of the United States has very

President of the United States has very

President of the United States has very little ability to control your life but

little ability to control your life but

little ability to control your life but your city councilman who you can push to

your city councilman who you can push to

your city councilman who you can push to sit in police meetings or kindergarten

sit in police meetings or kindergarten

sit in police meetings or kindergarten classes or local food banks or even

classes or local food banks or even

classes or local food banks or even homes for the aging those are the people

homes for the aging those are the people

homes for the aging those are the people that can truly have an impact those are

that can truly have an impact those are

that can truly have an impact those are the people who can watch the investments

the people who can watch the investments

the people who can watch the investments that are being pulled together go to the

that are being pulled together go to the

that are being pulled together go to the right place go to people and not

right place go to people and not

right place go to people and not institution and not buildings and not

institution and not buildings and not

institution and not buildings and not based on your income you see community

based on your income you see community

based on your income you see community building can replace our fears with

building can replace our fears with

building can replace our fears with excitement and I believe that if all of

excitement and I believe that if all of

excitement and I believe that if all of us remember that we will start to form

us remember that we will start to form

us remember that we will start to form it will start to place those who are

it will start to place those who are

it will start to place those who are unable to see on our shoulder so that

unable to see on our shoulder so that

unable to see on our shoulder so that that fence is even and when enough of a

that fence is even and when enough of a

that fence is even and when enough of a stack each other on our shoulders we can

stack each other on our shoulders we can

stack each other on our shoulders we can make a puncture from with thank

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