scary yes nightmare in hospice to work all
the process of dying is dying
all journalists come first
ask you please could we please
tell what people think before
all are afraid of death
in the hospice was a small concert
chamber concert when the hall is taken out
patients and one of the musicians is playing
for them it is absolutely not necessary
there must be some great musicians
If only music was recognizable if only
it was nice to lie and listen because
of course most know most likely
this is the last music and the last concert
at one of these concerts was
married couple left a very devoted husband
the wife stood by his hand
such know gentle very well-groomed
thin woman in a pink blouse
linen from such women was visible
who absolutely do not understand how they
manage to always be such
Even in a situation where
hospice go away your favorite person she
Hold his hand for the whole concert and when
concert ended they went together in
ward and I somehow asked her
want to talk then into the office simply
chat
said and forgot and probably hours through
one and a half after that, I suddenly came in on
her mind immediately realized that her husband had not gone
that she was crying and at that moment or
somehow depressed entered no
relaxed but being sasha my friend died
you died just at the concert as well
so you understand, we stopped in the room I
sat down on his bed
he held out his hand and wanted to raise it to me
We took his hand very weak
patients for them to raise their hands sometimes too
the whole thing I took his hand to
to help him he says I do not need him and
put my hand here on my blouse and
began to unfasten the jacket of the button
in that hand so slid down he died people
here and those whom they love about their beloved woman
or think about those whom they once loved and
who will return
such an important character in my life
baba beckoning grandmother from the village of Nikitin
where I have come all my life and come
now every year in the summer she died at 104
year has died as in books write
know at home in your hut
with her already very elderly daughter behind her
courted and to the end remained in his
mind and shortly before her death she came
I went from house to house in the village sat
on the mantel just to relax
sometimes the account said specifically already know
when I became violently for no one is in 90
did not pay attention to it altogether
about the collective farm farm revolution and
suddenly I’m a little slowed down by her
because here it is what is interesting
that she says Yaroslavl region
there the Howard is so specific and she
burning is not tired oh my, you think about this
Only my pomer was not 21 years old I was pregnant
and he fatigued me to death by the military
the young one was skewed towards me
she is sitting with felt boots
healthy legs of them thin stick out
such a dress is frayed
Well, what I do not know the standard
village kolkhoz shawl
thin as a spider web white spit out
was and my lyoshi me men no longer
was not you how do you think I’m to him
get
a young woman or in such an ass saggy
so people think about their loved ones
think about being remembered
most recently in Moscow to the center
palliative care
a 16-year-old boy from the center of Dima
Rogacheva because it happens that you can not
cure but you can help it pretty
I quickly understood that the conditions are not the same as in
The hospital can all be understood that
ahead of frank discussions with
he was not when he was told a demo
do you want to smoke in the corner and beer
Well, smoking a beer is very easy
organized but further in general syrup
of course not so fun all the mom is right next to
Mama cries
with someone from the doctors formed more
confidential relations the day before
days off he said that we really need
to do one thing is important but what is important
it is necessary to buy a chain and a kulonchik
heart and here are a few people from
center for palliative care
ran on Moscow weekends and brought
he has a choice on Monday many different
You know the heart of a heart
arrow single heart heart
double heart broken he chose
heart
when he left my mother took this heart
will give
the girl he thought about and I think
that this girl who probably
living in such deep deep and remote places
and in poverty in simplicity in such
tiny city where
average man
becomes an alcoholic who dies in
30-32
will marry a village well, not an alcoholic
Harm will then be agreed and in such
leopard goloshes sunflower seeds
his whole life will be this kulonchik
she will remember her whole life
a fantastic romantic story
which in no other woman there is no more there
she will remember this dimus and we have everything
employees will remember Dima because
if the doctor alleviates the suffering of the patient
buy a pendant with a heart it
some incredible medical help
palliative care
is called hospice in order to have
man was able to put his hand
on the chest of a beloved woman
buy a pendant for this, too, need
some conditions that he was himself
It should not hurt him
scary not alone before it all was
naturally earlier people were preparing for
care of life is now rarely in any
families talk about it but sometimes they say
I was lucky with both of my parents
it was said, and my beard on
for managed to remain themselves to
end of the mom who founded the hospice and and
in general, the main feature is always
cared about someone she said to herself
Anya said I did not and that’s it I’m leaving
standard already ubbi worked in hospice
I quite standard for myself asked her
questions mom you drink do not want to drink
it is here and the last moments of life all
it was obviously very
she quickly died that you were cold
not cold not hurt hurt raided
that but there must be some
standard things people think about before
death
water who will give a glass of water to drink
wants
and she says valokordin dad drunk
this is a fantastic person here can
to remain oneself
then when everything is said then when
all orders are given I went to the kitchen
opened the refrigerator door at us
many probably just in the refrigerator
worth valokordin and my mother heard this one
specific ringing bottles from
door refrigerator
the last words that I hear from her
not there at the sink and when through
a few years after that dad died
Dad is a very modest man with a wonderful
sense of humor and very fond of music
I loved music all my life I grew up in this
music , including Schnittke which I
I hate since I read it
testament in the will was written
the last phrase was written by me in
condition
sober mind and memory to the sounds
classical music and here he was dying
four days died in the hospital at the end he
was already practically unconscious we all
were near and very much my favorite
niece of his granddaughter wanting him
it was good she was dedul music we will
listen he closed his eyes will be what
to say he can not go on like this
the alphabet of Chaikovsky and Prokofiev
Rachmaninov same shnitke adjacent bed
Man for the screen but for now nothing to say
maybe our already say Shufutinsky
here dad we open our eyes so from
Last year’s forces are not Shufutinsky and I’m here
I understand that the sheet is a niece who
Remained and the memory of the death of his grandfather
will be as bright as you have now
with laughter, not Shufutinsky need not be better
How correctly is it right?
what to think correctly correctly
it does not happen at all but very well
when those who leave are thought of those who
remains the same, we remain with you
sense of guilt, and then we are left and
the most terrible quarrel that can
happen is 40 which occurs on
funeral or in a quarrel quarrel that
is due to the fact that people do not
said how to do what to do what to
call someone not to call my grandmother from
that generation is a man of 11 years of age
all my life between Vilnius and Moscow she
traveled with a suitcase and said this
a suitcase with my funeral is
The suitcase stood behind our cupboard in
room when she was in Moscow most
my great desire in childhood was
wait for grandmother to fall asleep so that
I have not slept yet and climb into this
suitcase but because there are treasures
flint
Well, that funeral that does not go
always at last I opened this suitcase
secretly there was clothing which she did not
It is necessary to put on a grandmother than modestly dressed
there was a fabulous sarafan plaid
black White
very beautiful and it was so strange to me but
why does she carry what nonsense this
sarafan is not present and for some reason this sarafan
was cut at the back straight with scissors
I completely cut myself off when in hospice already
began to work here is this degree of care
about her loved ones she has a very hard life
She lived and she understood what to wear
dead quite difficult and incision
the best dress for your children of course
in order to be correct for this
need time for this we are not with you
should be afraid to ask questions
Do not be afraid to give answers
because if someone asks you
or someone tells you to listen there too
me keeper if I die here answer yes
you will outlive me something you
you ‘ll catch a cold at my funeral
of course, but everyone was unhappy with this
did not say what I would like to not know what
Then you need to quarrel at a funeral
you’ll be sorry, and that’s it, honestly I
this preparation is said, this is what
gives you the opportunity not to experience
The feeling of guilt is actually the same gives
you can remain yourself
and this also gives you the opportunity to suddenly
Suddenly honestly talking about their
Words here are important words honestly you
only then can you put it right
priorities to determine what is important when you
know the deadline is it really so if
you know when you leave you will have time
to do exactly what you need and do not do
nonsense
If you know when the exam will take you
At least somehow prepare, if you do not know
will be terribly scary because it is not very
understand grubble render if you
know your diagnosis and know what you have
there are three months or three years left
most likely you are very correct
prioritize
and in the hospice where medicine finally
connects with a person joins
to man
where everything is done so that it was not
painfully not a terrible idea is not alone in
hospice opens unexpected
The possibility of these crazy lives being
honest with themselves with their loved ones
honestly say what you want something
people want before death wish herring
want to smoke a recent guy alone with
Multiple sclerosis he wanted a woman
Well, in fact, there is nothing impossible
for the head of the institution if the patient
wants
You can also provide a beautiful woman
a woman more than once will come to us I’m sure
modest desires and desires asked another
There are such parties completely but such
touching twisted in unnecessary
little things because the desire that was
It is written on a piece of paper in the box in
one of the Moscow hospices at all
recently touch the ciscaridze
nothing laughs you imagine a woman
A young dying person who understands that she has
that she no longer looks good that she
the yellow pale pipe here is here
the tube here flows here it smells bad.
wants to touch the age through
two days he comes to her with such a bouquet
roses sits beside her bed they
she actually talks
stable
Well two weeks, in our opinion, it should
there was still to come
natural and all photographed
naturally, she prettles herself before
by her arrival, naturally, she bathed
it is difficult for a seriously ill person
to swim this matter, he left in the evening
she died unexpectedly for all
because the person himself feels when
he lived what he wanted to live and
probably we will know
does not die until he lives
something that should have lived very long in
the first Moscow hospice was a woman and
it was completely unclear what kind of
fantastic torture why not
keeps alive why it does not go away in her
son lived in Georgia, some problems with
documents did not allow him to come we
wrote to the consul there consuls here
attracted some sort of human rights defenders
Well, no, and all the documents are not in order
it is impossible probably in some months
letters from volunteers
I’m worried there’s no more strength to endure it
attempt
the only thing she wants to see
son and I turned to
Sofiko Shevardnadze, which in turn
Ministry of Foreign Affairs through
a few days all the same done a visa and to
her son came and everyone in the hospice thought
that maybe that’s probably it’s hers
the last day she waited a day later
I came to expect to hear that she
worsened, they tell me to go to the ward
go in the wildebeest
she sits with her son I lie not drink wine
but she waited
he left for Georgia she left after that and
this is also indicative that she left 1
because when we really love our
we keep them close do not let me go
It does not control somehow very many
think that you need to live up to the new year and
The peak of death is due to this
period
Christmas and New Year’s very many
want to wait when the granddaughter for the sake of
great-grandson
when there will be 50th anniversary of the wedding, we
we can control much more
than it seems and
if everything is spoken and honest
if everyone is ready if everyone knows the truth then
then it turns out we can
control your simple desires we
we can suddenly and smilt a smile
but this is also funny ciscaridze is the same
bold desire simp she was healthy
A gabe did not come to mind
You know, if it’s not painful, do not be scared.
lonely is all that culturological
has always been with us in this country
was in this culture
if it turned out to be done then
it turns out that there is time
fantastic precious time of it
sometimes you do not need a lot of it enough
for some people it takes days but it’s
some time to say
5 main things to each other you to me very much
roads
I love you
forgive me I forgive you and I’m with you
say goodbye
these desires and the possibilities of their
realize these are the very five things they
blur out like a troll dad
valokordin buy her a pendant outstretched
Hand to the buttons on the chest of your beloved wife
these are the five things if everything is clear
and you can be sincere then you can
it turns out to be bolder in our stupid
ridiculous life where we are overcrowded
conventions until the blind young
leaving woman says I know all
Life dreamed and could never
I dare want such a manicure to
each nail bright and colorful can be
she blind have done this manicure
she lay with her hands on the blanket and
each member of the house of a relative
or have a sister she asked to be named
popova color as every nail
to be sure with every new person
that she really has every nail
time and openness and
help that removes the pain of what we are
most afraid before death pain
which deprives us of the opportunity
remain a person
kills the opportunity to think and does not give
the ability to share a close yes yes
give if we have all cleaned it up then
please, we can be ourselves and we
we can want anything but completely
just do not think before death and death
we think about the life of hospice is an opportunity
from terrible thoughts to go away and if you know
The truth is when we are healthy
if you prepare and stop being afraid
obvious that it is obvious and certain
will happen to everyone much more clearly
than the birth of children of marriage institution
divorce do not know anything
Then you can already think about what you are
want to think before you die and then
I will thank you
[applause]
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