however not everyone watching thank you so much for featuring my ideas my
so much for featuring my ideas my
so much for featuring my ideas my thoughts I’ve been following you for a
thoughts I’ve been following you for a
thoughts I’ve been following you for a long long time so I’m really excited to
long long time so I’m really excited to
long long time so I’m really excited to see this come together a weed is the
see this come together a weed is the
see this come together a weed is the intention that you don’t want and the
intention that you don’t want and the
intention that you don’t want and the problem is sometimes you’ve let it grow
problem is sometimes you’ve let it grow
problem is sometimes you’ve let it grow so much the weed looks like the plant
so much the weed looks like the plant
so much the weed looks like the plant you can take a fish out of water and
you can take a fish out of water and
you can take a fish out of water and give it a beautiful mansion and a
give it a beautiful mansion and a
give it a beautiful mansion and a Bentley and all the money in the world
Bentley and all the money in the world
Bentley and all the money in the world but it would die and that’s what we are
but it would die and that’s what we are
but it would die and that’s what we are like our environment I realized that if
like our environment I realized that if
like our environment I realized that if you really want to be good at something
you really want to be good at something
you really want to be good at something you have to invest in it with all your
you have to invest in it with all your
you have to invest in it with all your life you have to become addicted and
life you have to become addicted and
life you have to become addicted and absorb to improvement and growth need
absorb to improvement and growth need
absorb to improvement and growth need motivation watch a top tenant believe
motivation watch a top tenant believe
motivation watch a top tenant believe nation what’s up at seven my one word is
nation what’s up at seven my one word is
nation what’s up at seven my one word is believe and I believe in you I believe
believe and I believe in you I believe
believe and I believe in you I believe you have an amazing gift inside you that
you have an amazing gift inside you that
you have an amazing gift inside you that I want to see exploded onto the world so
I want to see exploded onto the world so
I want to see exploded onto the world so let’s get your motivation to attend and
let’s get your motivation to attend and
let’s get your motivation to attend and get you believing in you grab a snack
get you believing in you grab a snack
get you believing in you grab a snack and chew on today’s lessons from a man
and chew on today’s lessons from a man
and chew on today’s lessons from a man who went from being bullied as a child
who went from being bullied as a child
who went from being bullied as a child for being overweight and nerdy to
for being overweight and nerdy to
for being overweight and nerdy to traveling and living as a monk in India
traveling and living as a monk in India
traveling and living as a monk in India and across Europe and being one of the
and across Europe and being one of the
and across Europe and being one of the most viewed people on the internet he’s
most viewed people on the internet he’s
most viewed people on the internet he’s Jay Shetty and here’s my take on his top
Jay Shetty and here’s my take on his top
Jay Shetty and here’s my take on his top ten rules of success the joy
alright let’s kick things off with rule
alright let’s kick things off with rule number one be exposed to new experiences
number one be exposed to new experiences
number one be exposed to new experiences at 18 I was really fortunate when I met
at 18 I was really fortunate when I met
at 18 I was really fortunate when I met a monk
a monk
a monk and this monk was invited to speak and I
and this monk was invited to speak and I
and this monk was invited to speak and I kind of just went because one of my
kind of just went because one of my
kind of just went because one of my friends forced me to at that time I was
friends forced me to at that time I was
friends forced me to at that time I was listening to CEOs and entrepreneurs and
listening to CEOs and entrepreneurs and
listening to CEOs and entrepreneurs and business people and marketers who who I
business people and marketers who who I
business people and marketers who who I thought that’s what I was aspiring to be
thought that’s what I was aspiring to be
thought that’s what I was aspiring to be like and then I hear this monk and he
like and then I hear this monk and he
like and then I hear this monk and he captivated me like no one had ever
captivated me like no one had ever
captivated me like no one had ever captivated me before it was like staring
captivated me before it was like staring
captivated me before it was like staring at the most beautiful woman on the
at the most beautiful woman on the
at the most beautiful woman on the planet you know I was completely fixated
planet you know I was completely fixated
planet you know I was completely fixated on him and his message see we live in
on him and his message see we live in
on him and his message see we live in echo chambers we’re just surrounded by
echo chambers we’re just surrounded by
echo chambers we’re just surrounded by the same thinking how often do you bump
the same thinking how often do you bump
the same thinking how often do you bump into a monk you know it just doesn’t
into a monk you know it just doesn’t
into a monk you know it just doesn’t happen you don’t have no one has a
happen you don’t have no one has a
happen you don’t have no one has a dinner party and goes oh yeah written by
dinner party and goes oh yeah written by
dinner party and goes oh yeah written by the monk you know from a town like the
the monk you know from a town like the
the monk you know from a town like the local monk like no one ever does that
local monk like no one ever does that
local monk like no one ever does that and so you meet people who are just like
and so you meet people who are just like
and so you meet people who are just like us most of the time and we talked about
us most of the time and we talked about
us most of the time and we talked about this in business bulletin if you want to
this in business bulletin if you want to
this in business bulletin if you want to be a billionaire spend time with
be a billionaire spend time with
be a billionaire spend time with billionaires if you want to be a
billionaires if you want to be a
billionaires if you want to be a millionaire spent on millionaires if you
millionaire spent on millionaires if you
millionaire spent on millionaires if you want to be a tech startup spend time
want to be a tech startup spend time
want to be a tech startup spend time with you know that’s that’s the common
with you know that’s that’s the common
with you know that’s that’s the common rhetoric that we hear all the time but
rhetoric that we hear all the time but
rhetoric that we hear all the time but what if you want to find purpose and
what if you want to find purpose and
what if you want to find purpose and master the mind there’s no one better
master the mind there’s no one better
master the mind there’s no one better than a monk who’s mastered the mind so
than a monk who’s mastered the mind so
than a monk who’s mastered the mind so for me the first step is just opening
for me the first step is just opening
for me the first step is just opening yourself up to new experiences and new
yourself up to new experiences and new
yourself up to new experiences and new role models because most of us can’t see
role models because most of us can’t see
role models because most of us can’t see ourselves in people so then we try and
ourselves in people so then we try and
ourselves in people so then we try and fit ourselves into the boxes that we do
fit ourselves into the boxes that we do
fit ourselves into the boxes that we do see and and I mean there’s this
see and and I mean there’s this
see and and I mean there’s this beautiful quote that I’ve been saying it
beautiful quote that I’ve been saying it
beautiful quote that I’ve been saying it everywhere and I wish I wrote it but I
everywhere and I wish I wrote it but I
everywhere and I wish I wrote it but I didn’t so it’s by a philosopher and
didn’t so it’s by a philosopher and
didn’t so it’s by a philosopher and writer named Cooley and he said that
writer named Cooley and he said that
writer named Cooley and he said that today I’m not what I think I am I’m not
today I’m not what I think I am I’m not
today I’m not what I think I am I’m not what you think I am I am what I think
what you think I am I am what I think
what you think I am I am what I think you think I am I understand that blow
you think I am I understand that blow
you think I am I understand that blow your mind for me it’s so powerful I’m
your mind for me it’s so powerful I’m
your mind for me it’s so powerful I’m not what I think I am I’m not what you
not what I think I am I’m not what you
not what I think I am I’m not what you think I am I am what I think you think I
think I am I am what I think you think I
think I am I am what I think you think I am so we live in this perception of a
am so we live in this perception of a
am so we live in this perception of a perception of ourselves
perception of ourselves
perception of ourselves hence my identity is made by what my
hence my identity is made by what my
hence my identity is made by what my parents think I should be my identity is
parents think I should be my identity is
parents think I should be my identity is made up by what my college or university
made up by what my college or university
made up by what my college or university thinks
thinks
thinks should achieve while you’re living in
should achieve while you’re living in
should achieve while you’re living in that bubble and that echo chamber
that bubble and that echo chamber
that bubble and that echo chamber getting to what you really want to do is
getting to what you really want to do is
getting to what you really want to do is impossible because maybe that just
impossible because maybe that just
impossible because maybe that just doesn’t fit and I think so many people
doesn’t fit and I think so many people
doesn’t fit and I think so many people feel that way today but they don’t fit
feel that way today but they don’t fit
feel that way today but they don’t fit into the current education system they
into the current education system they
into the current education system they don’t fit with the three or four or five
don’t fit with the three or four or five
don’t fit with the three or four or five careers that you’re taught exist so that
careers that you’re taught exist so that
careers that you’re taught exist so that process of self excavation and
process of self excavation and
process of self excavation and actualization first requires being
actualization first requires being
actualization first requires being exposed you can’t be what you can’t see
exposed you can’t be what you can’t see
exposed you can’t be what you can’t see if I never saw a monk I would never have
if I never saw a monk I would never have
if I never saw a monk I would never have wanted to be a monk if I never meet a
wanted to be a monk if I never meet a
wanted to be a monk if I never meet a billionaire I wouldn’t want to be one
billionaire I wouldn’t want to be one
billionaire I wouldn’t want to be one because I wouldn’t know what that feels
because I wouldn’t know what that feels
because I wouldn’t know what that feels like I don’t know what it looks like I
like I don’t know what it looks like I
like I don’t know what it looks like I don’t know what it takes and and I think
don’t know what it takes and and I think
don’t know what it takes and and I think that’s the biggest challenge of our
that’s the biggest challenge of our
that’s the biggest challenge of our society that we’re not exposed so that’s
society that we’re not exposed so that’s
society that we’re not exposed so that’s the first step being exposed to unique
the first step being exposed to unique
the first step being exposed to unique experiences and role models second step
experiences and role models second step
experiences and role models second step is finding that experience of role model
is finding that experience of role model
is finding that experience of role model that you’re passionate about and exactly
that you’re passionate about and exactly
that you’re passionate about and exactly like you said taking it seriously shadow
like you said taking it seriously shadow
like you said taking it seriously shadow the network with them spend time with
the network with them spend time with
the network with them spend time with them observe them even from afar it
them observe them even from afar it
them observe them even from afar it takes that observation being addicted to
takes that observation being addicted to
takes that observation being addicted to observing that person’s lifestyle and
observing that person’s lifestyle and
observing that person’s lifestyle and then the third step is growing yes or no
then the third step is growing yes or no
then the third step is growing yes or no does that work for me not everyone who’s
does that work for me not everyone who’s
does that work for me not everyone who’s gonna go off from the camera monkeys
gonna go off from the camera monkeys
gonna go off from the camera monkeys gonna feel like the way I did and that’s
gonna feel like the way I did and that’s
gonna feel like the way I did and that’s cool but not everyone is gonna go and
cool but not everyone is gonna go and
cool but not everyone is gonna go and follow and shadow a billion anger that’s
follow and shadow a billion anger that’s
follow and shadow a billion anger that’s exactly the lifestyle I want they may
exactly the lifestyle I want they may
exactly the lifestyle I want they may want the result but do they want the
want the result but do they want the
want the result but do they want the hard work that goes with it and so for
hard work that goes with it and so for
hard work that goes with it and so for me that’s the third step its observing
me that’s the third step its observing
me that’s the third step its observing focusing shadowing getting as close to
focusing shadowing getting as close to
focusing shadowing getting as close to the process of that individual and then
the process of that individual and then
the process of that individual and then going yes or no do I want that process
going yes or no do I want that process
going yes or no do I want that process not do I want the result everyone wants
not do I want the result everyone wants
not do I want the result everyone wants to be that monk who’s fully enlightened
to be that monk who’s fully enlightened
to be that monk who’s fully enlightened you know can walk through as an
you know can walk through as an
you know can walk through as an incredible or that people just gravitate
incredible or that people just gravitate
incredible or that people just gravitate towards but when you realize he has to
towards but when you realize he has to
towards but when you realize he has to wake up at 2:00 a.m. every day and
wake up at 2:00 a.m. every day and
wake up at 2:00 a.m. every day and stitch about four to six hours you’re
stitch about four to six hours you’re
stitch about four to six hours you’re like ah you know I don’t want to like me
like ah you know I don’t want to like me
like ah you know I don’t want to like me rule number two my personal favorite
rule number two my personal favorite
rule number two my personal favorite believe the second thing we usually get
believe the second thing we usually get
believe the second thing we usually get wrong is that we don’t believe in what
wrong is that we don’t believe in what
wrong is that we don’t believe in what we’re sharing I’ve realized that I’ve
we’re sharing I’ve realized that I’ve
we’re sharing I’ve realized that I’ve grown much more confident about speaking
grown much more confident about speaking
grown much more confident about speaking in front of people and even in front of
in front of people and even in front of
in front of people and even in front of you right now on video because I talk
you right now on video because I talk
you right now on video because I talk but stuff that’s really meaningful to me
but stuff that’s really meaningful to me
but stuff that’s really meaningful to me that’s really purposeful to me I only
that’s really purposeful to me I only
that’s really purposeful to me I only choose to share messages that truly
choose to share messages that truly
choose to share messages that truly resonate with my heart and my head and
resonate with my heart and my head and
resonate with my heart and my head and my intelligence and things that I’ve
my intelligence and things that I’ve
my intelligence and things that I’ve immersed myself in for a number of years
immersed myself in for a number of years
immersed myself in for a number of years everything I’m sharing these stories
everything I’m sharing these stories
everything I’m sharing these stories these ideas they aren’t just made up to
these ideas they aren’t just made up to
these ideas they aren’t just made up to sound good these are things that I
sound good these are things that I
sound good these are things that I really truly try and live and practice
really truly try and live and practice
really truly try and live and practice and embody in my own day-to-day life and
and embody in my own day-to-day life and
and embody in my own day-to-day life and therefore if you don’t really believe in
therefore if you don’t really believe in
therefore if you don’t really believe in what you’re speaking about if you don’t
what you’re speaking about if you don’t
what you’re speaking about if you don’t really understand it if you haven’t
really understand it if you haven’t
really understand it if you haven’t tried to live it then you’re always
tried to live it then you’re always
tried to live it then you’re always going to struggle trying to articulate
going to struggle trying to articulate
going to struggle trying to articulate it and even if you get away with
it and even if you get away with
it and even if you get away with articulating something perfectly that
articulating something perfectly that
articulating something perfectly that you don’t believe in you’ll feel empty
you don’t believe in you’ll feel empty
you don’t believe in you’ll feel empty inside and that’s why sales rolls
inside and that’s why sales rolls
inside and that’s why sales rolls usually end up making people feel quite
usually end up making people feel quite
usually end up making people feel quite empty because they’re selling stuff and
empty because they’re selling stuff and
empty because they’re selling stuff and products that they don’t think will
products that they don’t think will
products that they don’t think will change your life make sure if you’re
change your life make sure if you’re
change your life make sure if you’re trying to communicate a message for your
trying to communicate a message for your
trying to communicate a message for your brand if you’re trying to sell a product
brand if you’re trying to sell a product
brand if you’re trying to sell a product if you’re sharing insights and ideas
if you’re sharing insights and ideas
if you’re sharing insights and ideas they have to be things that genuinely
they have to be things that genuinely
they have to be things that genuinely connect with you internally this feels
connect with you internally this feels
connect with you internally this feels weird for you are you sure this is legal
weird for you are you sure this is legal
weird for you are you sure this is legal rule number three refine your intention
rule number three refine your intention
rule number three refine your intention my daily practice is to refine my
my daily practice is to refine my
my daily practice is to refine my intention that the biggest weeds that we
intention that the biggest weeds that we
intention that the biggest weeds that we all get is an i intention so when I say
all get is an i intention so when I say
all get is an i intention so when I say intention I mean my current intention is
intention I mean my current intention is
intention I mean my current intention is to use everything I’ve been given
to use everything I’ve been given
to use everything I’ve been given everything that I have in the service of
everything that I have in the service of
everything that I have in the service of others so I want to use the following
others so I want to use the following
others so I want to use the following that I have to help people I want to use
that I have to help people I want to use
that I have to help people I want to use the money that I have to help people I
the money that I have to help people I
the money that I have to help people I want to use the network that I have to
want to use the network that I have to
want to use the network that I have to help people but every day that intention
help people but every day that intention
help people but every day that intention which is a beautiful little plant that’s
which is a beautiful little plant that’s
which is a beautiful little plant that’s growing gets weeds around it no do it
growing gets weeds around it no do it
growing gets weeds around it no do it for the money right – for the face just
for the money right – for the face just
for the money right – for the face just do it for the fame do it for the
do it for the fame do it for the
do it for the fame do it for the followers do it for this all these weeds
followers do it for this all these weeds
followers do it for this all these weeds are like going around my real intention
are like going around my real intention
are like going around my real intention every day every day that’s a weed a weed
every day every day that’s a weed a weed
every day every day that’s a weed a weed is the intention that you don’t want and
is the intention that you don’t want and
is the intention that you don’t want and the problem is sometimes you’ve let it
the problem is sometimes you’ve let it
the problem is sometimes you’ve let it grow so much the weed looks like the
grow so much the weed looks like the
grow so much the weed looks like the plant right weed looks like your
plant right weed looks like your
plant right weed looks like your intention and you start believing it’s
intention and you start believing it’s
intention and you start believing it’s the same thing so for me my daily
the same thing so for me my daily
the same thing so for me my daily practice is going back in reflecting on
practice is going back in reflecting on
practice is going back in reflecting on what is my voice right now in my head
what is my voice right now in my head
what is my voice right now in my head what am I saying to myself and I’m
what am I saying to myself and I’m
what am I saying to myself and I’m hearing make that deal
hearing make that deal
hearing make that deal a lot of money do this do that do this
a lot of money do this do that do this
a lot of money do this do that do this more followers Fame all that stuff and
more followers Fame all that stuff and
more followers Fame all that stuff and I’m cutting it down I’m cutting that
I’m cutting it down I’m cutting that
I’m cutting it down I’m cutting that weed every day and you’ve got to do it
weed every day and you’ve got to do it
weed every day and you’ve got to do it every day because the more you’re
every day because the more you’re
every day because the more you’re surrounded by that energy right the more
surrounded by that energy right the more
surrounded by that energy right the more it’s gonna keep creeping in like a
it’s gonna keep creeping in like a
it’s gonna keep creeping in like a creeper weed rule number four know your
creeper weed rule number four know your
creeper weed rule number four know your element environment and energy so for me
element environment and energy so for me
element environment and energy so for me my three e’s are element environment and
my three e’s are element environment and
my three e’s are element environment and energy every one has an element that
energy every one has an element that
energy every one has an element that they thrive in if you take someone out
they thrive in if you take someone out
they thrive in if you take someone out of it their element they won’t be the
of it their element they won’t be the
of it their element they won’t be the same modern-day example would be Michael
same modern-day example would be Michael
same modern-day example would be Michael Jordan he was incredible at basketball
Jordan he was incredible at basketball
Jordan he was incredible at basketball he took him at a basketball put him in a
he took him at a basketball put him in a
he took him at a basketball put him in a baseball no one remembers his career we
baseball no one remembers his career we
baseball no one remembers his career we talk about one the best athletes of all
talk about one the best athletes of all
talk about one the best athletes of all time your environment is the environment
time your environment is the environment
time your environment is the environment around you you can take a fish out of
around you you can take a fish out of
around you you can take a fish out of water and give it a beautiful mansion
water and give it a beautiful mansion
water and give it a beautiful mansion and a Bentley and all the money in the
and a Bentley and all the money in the
and a Bentley and all the money in the world but it would die and that’s what
world but it would die and that’s what
world but it would die and that’s what we are like our environment everyone is
we are like our environment everyone is
we are like our environment everyone is an environment which they thrive which
an environment which they thrive which
an environment which they thrive which we have to craft your boss if you’re at
we have to craft your boss if you’re at
we have to craft your boss if you’re at work is never gonna ask you what
work is never gonna ask you what
work is never gonna ask you what environment you succeed in right like
environment you succeed in right like
environment you succeed in right like that never happens so we have to create
that never happens so we have to create
that never happens so we have to create an environment where we thrive and then
an environment where we thrive and then
an environment where we thrive and then finally it’s energy we some of us love
finally it’s energy we some of us love
finally it’s energy we some of us love high energy environments high pressure
high energy environments high pressure
high energy environments high pressure some of us succeed in lower energy
some of us succeed in lower energy
some of us succeed in lower energy environments and low pressure figuring
environments and low pressure figuring
environments and low pressure figuring out your energy and the frequency on
out your energy and the frequency on
out your energy and the frequency on which you operate best will help you
which you operate best will help you
which you operate best will help you thrive as well so for me those are the
thrive as well so for me those are the
thrive as well so for me those are the three e’s to really create a thriving
three e’s to really create a thriving
three e’s to really create a thriving environment know your element know your
environment know your element know your
environment know your element know your environment and know your energy and so
environment and know your energy and so
environment and know your energy and so on all times if I see anything going
on all times if I see anything going
on all times if I see anything going wrong I’m going is my element out of
wrong I’m going is my element out of
wrong I’m going is my element out of alignment is my environment out of
alignment is my environment out of
alignment is my environment out of alignment or is my energy out of
alignment or is my energy out of
alignment or is my energy out of alignment that’s a great three question
alignment that’s a great three question
alignment that’s a great three question test you can do to yourself when you
test you can do to yourself when you
test you can do to yourself when you don’t think things are going right and
don’t think things are going right and
don’t think things are going right and all you have to do is bring that back
all you have to do is bring that back
all you have to do is bring that back into alignment rule number five practice
into alignment rule number five practice
into alignment rule number five practice you usually don’t practice enough I
you usually don’t practice enough I
you usually don’t practice enough I realized that if you really want to be
realized that if you really want to be
realized that if you really want to be good at something you have to invest in
good at something you have to invest in
good at something you have to invest in it with all your life you have to become
it with all your life you have to become
it with all your life you have to become addicted and absorb to improvement and
addicted and absorb to improvement and
addicted and absorb to improvement and growth that means being open to feedback
growth that means being open to feedback
growth that means being open to feedback that means being open to what the
that means being open to what the
that means being open to what the experts have to say about you
experts have to say about you
experts have to say about you not being attached to your ego and how
not being attached to your ego and how
not being attached to your ego and how you feel about yourself but opening up
you feel about yourself but opening up
you feel about yourself but opening up yourself to an expert group of people to
yourself to an expert group of people to
yourself to an expert group of people to give you insights on how you can grow
give you insights on how you can grow
give you insights on how you can grow evolve and perform at a higher rate and
evolve and perform at a higher rate and
evolve and perform at a higher rate and linked to that is practice practice
linked to that is practice practice
linked to that is practice practice practice it’s literally impossible to do
practice it’s literally impossible to do
practice it’s literally impossible to do something perfectly the first time you
something perfectly the first time you
something perfectly the first time you do it the more you do it the better you
do it the more you do it the better you
do it the more you do it the better you get and we think practice is a cliche
get and we think practice is a cliche
get and we think practice is a cliche that we hear all the time but actually
that we hear all the time but actually
that we hear all the time but actually it’s that truth it’s so simple you might
it’s that truth it’s so simple you might
it’s that truth it’s so simple you might miss it did I miss something here rule
miss it did I miss something here rule
miss it did I miss something here rule number six make it happen right now I’d
number six make it happen right now I’d
number six make it happen right now I’d like you to fast forward to seventy
like you to fast forward to seventy
like you to fast forward to seventy eighty ninety years old right fast
eighty ninety years old right fast
eighty ninety years old right fast forward in your mind to that age 70 80
forward in your mind to that age 70 80
forward in your mind to that age 70 80 90 100 110 if you’re really optimistic
90 100 110 if you’re really optimistic
90 100 110 if you’re really optimistic whichever one it is and I’d like you to
whichever one it is and I’d like you to
whichever one it is and I’d like you to write down what will be the things that
write down what will be the things that
write down what will be the things that you’ll regret that you didn’t do
you’ll regret that you didn’t do
you’ll regret that you didn’t do imagine you’re that age ask yourself the
imagine you’re that age ask yourself the
imagine you’re that age ask yourself the question what would I regret that I
question what would I regret that I
question what would I regret that I didn’t do know what you did do about
didn’t do know what you did do about
didn’t do know what you did do about what you didn’t do
what you didn’t do
what you didn’t do write it down make a long list right now
write it down make a long list right now
write it down make a long list right now get a pen and paper out and write it
get a pen and paper out and write it
get a pen and paper out and write it down don’t do on your phone don’t do on
down don’t do on your phone don’t do on
down don’t do on your phone don’t do on your laptop actually get a pen and paper
your laptop actually get a pen and paper
your laptop actually get a pen and paper and write down your answers and what
and write down your answers and what
and write down your answers and what will be the things that you regret that
will be the things that you regret that
will be the things that you regret that you didn’t do right really think about
you didn’t do right really think about
you didn’t do right really think about it would it be you know learning a new
it would it be you know learning a new
it would it be you know learning a new language will it be moving home will it
language will it be moving home will it
language will it be moving home will it be telling someone you love them what
be telling someone you love them what
be telling someone you love them what will it be what would have been write it
will it be what would have been write it
will it be what would have been write it down right now now the incredible thing
down right now now the incredible thing
down right now now the incredible thing about this question is that you’re using
about this question is that you’re using
about this question is that you’re using the future to empower the past whatever
the future to empower the past whatever
the future to empower the past whatever answer you have in that question
answer you have in that question
answer you have in that question whatever your answer is you can do it
whatever your answer is you can do it
whatever your answer is you can do it right now today starting today because
right now today starting today because
right now today starting today because you’re not that age and if you’re even
you’re not that age and if you’re even
you’re not that age and if you’re even if you’re 64 and you’re tuning in 70 80
if you’re 64 and you’re tuning in 70 80
if you’re 64 and you’re tuning in 70 80 90 you’re still there right it’s still
90 you’re still there right it’s still
90 you’re still there right it’s still possible you can start doing that right
possible you can start doing that right
possible you can start doing that right now it’s empowering the present with the
now it’s empowering the present with the
now it’s empowering the present with the future there is nothing stopping you
future there is nothing stopping you
future there is nothing stopping you from making it happen right now you
from making it happen right now you
from making it happen right now you don’t have to feel that way when you’re
don’t have to feel that way when you’re
don’t have to feel that way when you’re 70 you don’t have to feel that way when
70 you don’t have to feel that way when
70 you don’t have to feel that way when you’re 80 you never ever have to feel
you’re 80 you never ever have to feel
you’re 80 you never ever have to feel that way if you start doing it right now
that way if you start doing it right now
that way if you start doing it right now and you can do it right now even if it
and you can do it right now even if it
and you can do it right now even if it feels impossible you can stop working on
feels impossible you can stop working on
feels impossible you can stop working on it right now you can start trying right
it right now you can start trying right
it right now you can start trying right now you can start making plans right now
now you can start making plans right now
now you can start making plans right now because you’re not there yet and this is
because you’re not there yet and this is
because you’re not there yet and this is where you
where you
where you this is where you start making it happen
this is where you start making it happen
this is where you start making it happen it’s all in the now rule number seven
it’s all in the now rule number seven
it’s all in the now rule number seven find your passion so how do I find my
find your passion so how do I find my
find your passion so how do I find my passion my simple model which is the
passion my simple model which is the
passion my simple model which is the Dharma model it also dharma means
Dharma model it also dharma means
Dharma model it also dharma means eternal duty in the Vedic tradition it’s
eternal duty in the Vedic tradition it’s
eternal duty in the Vedic tradition it’s very similar to what a key guy is being
very similar to what a key guy is being
very similar to what a key guy is being spoken about today which is a Japanese
spoken about today which is a Japanese
spoken about today which is a Japanese version of reason for being why do we
version of reason for being why do we
version of reason for being why do we live where is meaning coming from and it
live where is meaning coming from and it
live where is meaning coming from and it talks about an intersect of four areas
talks about an intersect of four areas
talks about an intersect of four areas what am I good at what do I love what is
what am I good at what do I love what is
what am I good at what do I love what is the world need and how do I get paid for
the world need and how do I get paid for
the world need and how do I get paid for it to me those four help you unlock your
it to me those four help you unlock your
it to me those four help you unlock your passion when you find the intersect
passion when you find the intersect
passion when you find the intersect across all of those four you’re making
across all of those four you’re making
across all of those four you’re making your passion your purpose you’ll unlock
your passion your purpose you’ll unlock
your passion your purpose you’ll unlock your passion you’ll find your purpose
your passion you’ll find your purpose
your passion you’ll find your purpose this is path one there’s two paths path
this is path one there’s two paths path
this is path one there’s two paths path one I find my skill set and I engage it
one I find my skill set and I engage it
one I find my skill set and I engage it to help other people and become better
to help other people and become better
to help other people and become better at it so I’m becoming better at what I’m
at it so I’m becoming better at what I’m
at it so I’m becoming better at what I’m good at and I’m using it to help other
good at and I’m using it to help other
good at and I’m using it to help other people because I’m aware of what I’m
people because I’m aware of what I’m
people because I’m aware of what I’m quite good at and I know what more
quite good at and I know what more
quite good at and I know what more knowledge I have what skills I have I
knowledge I have what skills I have I
knowledge I have what skills I have I have some self-awareness the other path
have some self-awareness the other path
have some self-awareness the other path that people often miss is actually I
that people often miss is actually I
that people often miss is actually I just start serving people I just start
just start serving people I just start
just start serving people I just start helping people and I start to notice
helping people and I start to notice
helping people and I start to notice what I enjoy about that and what I’m
what I enjoy about that and what I’m
what I enjoy about that and what I’m good at helping people with so that’s
good at helping people with so that’s
good at helping people with so that’s Gandhi’s path Gandhi said that you find
Gandhi’s path Gandhi said that you find
Gandhi’s path Gandhi said that you find yourself when you lose yourself in the
yourself when you lose yourself in the
yourself when you lose yourself in the service of others so for me those are
service of others so for me those are
service of others so for me those are the two paths of how do I find my
the two paths of how do I find my
the two paths of how do I find my passion and finding the intersect
passion and finding the intersect
passion and finding the intersect between those four areas rule number
between those four areas rule number
between those four areas rule number eight overcome challenges you have to
eight overcome challenges you have to
eight overcome challenges you have to remind yourself that it’s okay to feel
remind yourself that it’s okay to feel
remind yourself that it’s okay to feel the way you feel when you’re going for a
the way you feel when you’re going for a
the way you feel when you’re going for a difficult time it’s okay to feel weak
difficult time it’s okay to feel weak
difficult time it’s okay to feel weak it’s okay to want to cry it’s okay to
it’s okay to want to cry it’s okay to
it’s okay to want to cry it’s okay to feel overwhelmed just reminding yourself
feel overwhelmed just reminding yourself
feel overwhelmed just reminding yourself that it’s okay this is my number one way
that it’s okay this is my number one way
that it’s okay this is my number one way of how to find strength in difficult
of how to find strength in difficult
of how to find strength in difficult times is reminding yourself that the way
times is reminding yourself that the way
times is reminding yourself that the way you feel is okay to honor that feeling
you feel is okay to honor that feeling
you feel is okay to honor that feeling to accept that feeling to actually be
to accept that feeling to actually be
to accept that feeling to actually be okay with that what we see or what we
okay with that what we see or what we
okay with that what we see or what we perceive to be a weakness what we
perceive to be a weakness what we
perceive to be a weakness what we perceive to let us down or what we
perceive to let us down or what we
perceive to let us down or what we perceive is a sign of you know
perceive is a sign of you know
perceive is a sign of you know instability or insecurity we’ve got to
instability or insecurity we’ve got to
instability or insecurity we’ve got to remind ourselves that when things are
remind ourselves that when things are
remind ourselves that when things are tough it’s okay to feel that way there’s
tough it’s okay to feel that way there’s
tough it’s okay to feel that way there’s nothing wrong with that any difficulty I
nothing wrong with that any difficulty I
nothing wrong with that any difficulty I go to I look to mom
go to I look to mom
go to I look to mom in history where people have enjoyed the
in history where people have enjoyed the
in history where people have enjoyed the same pain if not more extreme and
same pain if not more extreme and
same pain if not more extreme and analyzed absorb and connect with how
analyzed absorb and connect with how
analyzed absorb and connect with how they got through it I like to see what
they got through it I like to see what
they got through it I like to see what they were thinking I like to see what
they were thinking I like to see what
they were thinking I like to see what they did I like to see how they
they did I like to see how they
they did I like to see how they structured themselves I like to look at
structured themselves I like to look at
structured themselves I like to look at how they organized I looked like to look
how they organized I looked like to look
how they organized I looked like to look at who they were speaking to I like to
at who they were speaking to I like to
at who they were speaking to I like to look at what was going through their
look at what was going through their
look at what was going through their mind at that time because you’ve got to
mind at that time because you’ve got to
mind at that time because you’ve got to remember that any challenge we’re facing
remember that any challenge we’re facing
remember that any challenge we’re facing today we’ve faced it before as a as
today we’ve faced it before as a as
today we’ve faced it before as a as humanity right beyond ethnicities beyond
humanity right beyond ethnicities beyond
humanity right beyond ethnicities beyond color race creed beyond backgrounds
color race creed beyond backgrounds
color race creed beyond backgrounds beyond all walks of life as human beings
beyond all walks of life as human beings
beyond all walks of life as human beings we’ve been through challenges before and
we’ve been through challenges before and
we’ve been through challenges before and we’ve got through them and therefore
we’ve got through them and therefore
we’ve got through them and therefore reconnecting with how that’s been done
reconnecting with how that’s been done
reconnecting with how that’s been done before is a beautiful way of learning
before is a beautiful way of learning
before is a beautiful way of learning how to overcome current challenges so
how to overcome current challenges so
how to overcome current challenges so you can either look at your past but
you can either look at your past but
you can either look at your past but real wisdom lies in looking at the past
real wisdom lies in looking at the past
real wisdom lies in looking at the past the people who made a difference you
the people who made a difference you
the people who made a difference you look at people like Martin Luther King
look at people like Martin Luther King
look at people like Martin Luther King you look at people like Gandhi you look
you look at people like Gandhi you look
you look at people like Gandhi you look at people who made world-changing
at people who made world-changing
at people who made world-changing differences not single-handedly but
differences not single-handedly but
differences not single-handedly but influenced from a single perspective
influenced from a single perspective
influenced from a single perspective from a single point of view and really
from a single point of view and really
from a single point of view and really connecting with the powerful moments in
connecting with the powerful moments in
connecting with the powerful moments in history I’ve said this quote many times
history I’ve said this quote many times
history I’ve said this quote many times I’ve read it many times and this quote
I’ve read it many times and this quote
I’ve read it many times and this quote actually is is unbelievable and the
actually is is unbelievable and the
actually is is unbelievable and the quote says that they fought they buried
quote says that they fought they buried
quote says that they fought they buried us they didn’t know we were seeds right
us they didn’t know we were seeds right
us they didn’t know we were seeds right it’s a Mexican proverb they thought they
it’s a Mexican proverb they thought they
it’s a Mexican proverb they thought they borrowed us they didn’t know we were
borrowed us they didn’t know we were
borrowed us they didn’t know we were seeds and I was thinking these when you
seeds and I was thinking these when you
seeds and I was thinking these when you tell yourself that story
tell yourself that story
tell yourself that story you start thinking much more differently
you start thinking much more differently
you start thinking much more differently right a seed is buried – it’s incredible
right a seed is buried – it’s incredible
right a seed is buried – it’s incredible that the seed goes through the same
that the seed goes through the same
that the seed goes through the same process as anything else it’s put deep
process as anything else it’s put deep
process as anything else it’s put deep underground right all of this mud is put
underground right all of this mud is put
underground right all of this mud is put on top of it it gets rained on it gets
on top of it it gets rained on it gets
on top of it it gets rained on it gets snowed on all these kind of things but
snowed on all these kind of things but
snowed on all these kind of things but it knows that it’s a seed so it knows
it knows that it’s a seed so it knows
it knows that it’s a seed so it knows that it can grow so there anything’s
that it can grow so there anything’s
that it can grow so there anything’s possible and it grows through and you
possible and it grows through and you
possible and it grows through and you see even plants growing through concrete
see even plants growing through concrete
see even plants growing through concrete sometimes right it’s unbelievable how
sometimes right it’s unbelievable how
sometimes right it’s unbelievable how much power a seed has so changing the
much power a seed has so changing the
much power a seed has so changing the stories we tell ourselves we can either
stories we tell ourselves we can either
stories we tell ourselves we can either look at challenging situations as
look at challenging situations as
look at challenging situations as opportunities for growth as an
opportunities for growth as an
opportunities for growth as an opportunity to learn as
opportunity to learn as
opportunity to learn as opportunity to change be the change we
opportunity to change be the change we
opportunity to change be the change we can look at them and and really fool
can look at them and and really fool
can look at them and and really fool down now that that second part is okay
down now that that second part is okay
down now that that second part is okay we can even feel like that right but we
we can even feel like that right but we
we can even feel like that right but we have to recognize it’s not permanent
have to recognize it’s not permanent
have to recognize it’s not permanent we’ve gotta accept that none of our
we’ve gotta accept that none of our
we’ve gotta accept that none of our feelings are permanent they don’t need
feelings are permanent they don’t need
feelings are permanent they don’t need to be permanent it’s a choice so if you
to be permanent it’s a choice so if you
to be permanent it’s a choice so if you need to vent vent I was saying to
need to vent vent I was saying to
need to vent vent I was saying to someone yesterday if you need a vent
someone yesterday if you need a vent
someone yesterday if you need a vent vent if you need to run run if you need
vent if you need to run run if you need
vent if you need to run run if you need to complain complain if you need to
to complain complain if you need to
to complain complain if you need to share how you feel do that but recognize
share how you feel do that but recognize
share how you feel do that but recognize that those feelings are not permanent
that those feelings are not permanent
that those feelings are not permanent and it’ll be amazing when we’ve realized
and it’ll be amazing when we’ve realized
and it’ll be amazing when we’ve realized we are seeds right that is the most
we are seeds right that is the most
we are seeds right that is the most powerful way of finding strength rule
powerful way of finding strength rule
powerful way of finding strength rule number nine redefine failure in the
number nine redefine failure in the
number nine redefine failure in the middle of 2009 he was the software
middle of 2009 he was the software
middle of 2009 he was the software engineer that no one wanted to hire he
engineer that no one wanted to hire he
engineer that no one wanted to hire he had 12 years of experience at Yahoo but
had 12 years of experience at Yahoo but
had 12 years of experience at Yahoo but he was rejected by Facebook and then
he was rejected by Facebook and then
he was rejected by Facebook and then rejected by Twitter
rejected by Twitter
rejected by Twitter he’d been to a great university he had a
he’d been to a great university he had a
he’d been to a great university he had a great CV but he decided to team up with
great CV but he decided to team up with
great CV but he decided to team up with one of his alumni members at Yahoo and
one of his alumni members at Yahoo and
one of his alumni members at Yahoo and started to create an app and focus on
started to create an app and focus on
started to create an app and focus on the startup space in five years time he
the startup space in five years time he
the startup space in five years time he sold that out for 19 billion dollars to
sold that out for 19 billion dollars to
sold that out for 19 billion dollars to Facebook believe it or not that was
Facebook believe it or not that was
Facebook believe it or not that was Brian Acton the co-founder of whatsapp
Brian Acton the co-founder of whatsapp
Brian Acton the co-founder of whatsapp when he was rejected from Facebook he
when he was rejected from Facebook he
when he was rejected from Facebook he said it was a great opportunity to
said it was a great opportunity to
said it was a great opportunity to connect with some fantastic people I
connect with some fantastic people I
connect with some fantastic people I look forward to life’s next adventure
look forward to life’s next adventure
look forward to life’s next adventure when he was rejected by Twitter he
when he was rejected by Twitter he
when he was rejected by Twitter he responded by saying worked-out ills by a
responded by saying worked-out ills by a
responded by saying worked-out ills by a long commute it’s so interesting to see
long commute it’s so interesting to see
long commute it’s so interesting to see that someone rejected from two of the
that someone rejected from two of the
that someone rejected from two of the top internet companies actually
top internet companies actually
top internet companies actually responded with humor and actually
responded with humor and actually
responded with humor and actually responded with positivity this lady was
responded with positivity this lady was
responded with positivity this lady was diagnosed with clinical depression her
diagnosed with clinical depression her
diagnosed with clinical depression her marriage had failed and she was jobless
marriage had failed and she was jobless
marriage had failed and she was jobless with a dependent child she was on a
with a dependent child she was on a
with a dependent child she was on a four-hour delayed train journey from
four-hour delayed train journey from
four-hour delayed train journey from Manchester to London when she came up
Manchester to London when she came up
Manchester to London when she came up with this idea and she started to write
with this idea and she started to write
with this idea and she started to write this book about this wizard and as she
this book about this wizard and as she
this book about this wizard and as she started writing she then finished her
started writing she then finished her
started writing she then finished her manuscript to get the 12 publishers and
manuscript to get the 12 publishers and
manuscript to get the 12 publishers and was rejected by all 12 believe it or not
was rejected by all 12 believe it or not
was rejected by all 12 believe it or not that’s JK Rowling this man watched his
that’s JK Rowling this man watched his
that’s JK Rowling this man watched his first company crumble he was a Harvard
first company crumble he was a Harvard
first company crumble he was a Harvard University dropout and his first
University dropout and his first
University dropout and his first company’s demo didn’t even work he went
company’s demo didn’t even work he went
company’s demo didn’t even work he went on to build Microsoft his name’s bill
on to build Microsoft his name’s bill
on to build Microsoft his name’s bill therefore failure is just a sign that we
therefore failure is just a sign that we
therefore failure is just a sign that we need to widen our scope we need to be
need to widen our scope we need to be
need to widen our scope we need to be ready and build ourselves up for the
ready and build ourselves up for the
ready and build ourselves up for the next level actually what we end up
next level actually what we end up
next level actually what we end up achieving is far greater than what we’d
achieving is far greater than what we’d
achieving is far greater than what we’d envisioned for ourselves and this divine
envisioned for ourselves and this divine
envisioned for ourselves and this divine plan this orchestration can’t be
plan this orchestration can’t be
plan this orchestration can’t be happening without this intervention that
happening without this intervention that
happening without this intervention that occurs because if we had it our way we
occurs because if we had it our way we
occurs because if we had it our way we just settle we just accept what we
just settle we just accept what we
just settle we just accept what we thought was our goal what we thought we
thought was our goal what we thought we
thought was our goal what we thought we were chasing but actually I’ve noticed
were chasing but actually I’ve noticed
were chasing but actually I’ve noticed that when you don’t get that later down
that when you don’t get that later down
that when you don’t get that later down the line you look back and you reflect
the line you look back and you reflect
the line you look back and you reflect and realize that what you’ve gained is
and realize that what you’ve gained is
and realize that what you’ve gained is so much greater failures are only
so much greater failures are only
so much greater failures are only failures when we don’t learn from them
failures when we don’t learn from them
failures when we don’t learn from them because when we learn from them they
because when we learn from them they
because when we learn from them they become lessons and we actually extract a
become lessons and we actually extract a
become lessons and we actually extract a lay all of these teachings and actually
lay all of these teachings and actually
lay all of these teachings and actually get more insight into how we can improve
get more insight into how we can improve
get more insight into how we can improve the way we work and how we can actually
the way we work and how we can actually
the way we work and how we can actually drive with a different energy the
drive with a different energy the
drive with a different energy the challenge we have is that we only talk
challenge we have is that we only talk
challenge we have is that we only talk about people’s failures when they
about people’s failures when they
about people’s failures when they succeed and that’s why they become this
succeed and that’s why they become this
succeed and that’s why they become this taboo or we feel like their failures
taboo or we feel like their failures
taboo or we feel like their failures never happened we need to share these
never happened we need to share these
never happened we need to share these stories earlier we need to bring out
stories earlier we need to bring out
stories earlier we need to bring out these stories and experiences on the
these stories and experiences on the
these stories and experiences on the journey so that people who are on the
journey so that people who are on the
journey so that people who are on the journey can actually follow in those
journey can actually follow in those
journey can actually follow in those footsteps
footsteps
footsteps and that’s why Steve Jobs said you can’t
and that’s why Steve Jobs said you can’t
and that’s why Steve Jobs said you can’t connect the dots moving forward
connect the dots moving forward
connect the dots moving forward you only can when you’re looking
you only can when you’re looking
you only can when you’re looking backwards and rule number 10 the last
backwards and rule number 10 the last
backwards and rule number 10 the last one before the bonus Clips is decide to
one before the bonus Clips is decide to
one before the bonus Clips is decide to be a pilot in life you’re either a
be a pilot in life you’re either a
be a pilot in life you’re either a passenger or a pilot you’ve got that
passenger or a pilot you’ve got that
passenger or a pilot you’ve got that choice this is one of the biggest
choice this is one of the biggest
choice this is one of the biggest choices you’ll ever make are you
choices you’ll ever make are you
choices you’ll ever make are you defining what direction you’re moving in
defining what direction you’re moving in
defining what direction you’re moving in or
or
or you letting other people make the
you letting other people make the
you letting other people make the biggest decisions of where you’re going
biggest decisions of where you’re going
biggest decisions of where you’re going see it first is more comfortable being
see it first is more comfortable being
see it first is more comfortable being the passenger you sit back relax have
the passenger you sit back relax have
the passenger you sit back relax have people serve you it feels easier it
people serve you it feels easier it
people serve you it feels easier it feels more natural but then as time goes
feels more natural but then as time goes
feels more natural but then as time goes by you look outside the window and you
by you look outside the window and you
by you look outside the window and you realize you’ve ended up somewhere that
realize you’ve ended up somewhere that
realize you’ve ended up somewhere that you didn’t want to be then you start
you didn’t want to be then you start
you didn’t want to be then you start blaming people around you blaming people
blaming people around you blaming people
blaming people around you blaming people who made those decisions for you blaming
who made those decisions for you blaming
who made those decisions for you blaming people who should take responsibility
people who should take responsibility
people who should take responsibility for what you’ve ended up sometimes you
for what you’ve ended up sometimes you
for what you’ve ended up sometimes you feel lost confused and wonder how you
feel lost confused and wonder how you
feel lost confused and wonder how you ever got there and in that moment at
ever got there and in that moment at
ever got there and in that moment at that time you’ve got this important
that time you’ve got this important
that time you’ve got this important choice to make you can either switch
choice to make you can either switch
choice to make you can either switch seats grab hold of the steering wheel
seats grab hold of the steering wheel
seats grab hold of the steering wheel and start guiding your life or remain a
and start guiding your life or remain a
and start guiding your life or remain a passenger you can’t be both which one
passenger you can’t be both which one
passenger you can’t be both which one are you
are you
are you heaven and everyone watching thank you
heaven and everyone watching thank you
heaven and everyone watching thank you so much for featuring my ideas and my
so much for featuring my ideas and my
so much for featuring my ideas and my thoughts I’ve been following you for a
thoughts I’ve been following you for a
thoughts I’ve been following you for a long long time so I’m really excited to
long long time so I’m really excited to
long long time so I’m really excited to see this come together and for every one
see this come together and for every one
see this come together and for every one of you watching he’s picked some
of you watching he’s picked some
of you watching he’s picked some incredible clips and I’m really grateful
incredible clips and I’m really grateful
incredible clips and I’m really grateful for that and I hope that these bytes of
for that and I hope that these bytes of
for that and I hope that these bytes of wisdom these insights truly transform
wisdom these insights truly transform
wisdom these insights truly transform and touch your lives I come I feel to
and touch your lives I come I feel to
and touch your lives I come I feel to see them thank you so much see you soon
now I’ve got three very special jay
now I’ve got three very special jay Shetty bonus clips on how to use your
Shetty bonus clips on how to use your
Shetty bonus clips on how to use your head and your heart how to use regret to
head and your heart how to use regret to
head and your heart how to use regret to fuel you and how to find happiness but
fuel you and how to find happiness but
fuel you and how to find happiness but before that I want to get to the
before that I want to get to the
before that I want to get to the commitment of the day you watch this
commitment of the day you watch this
commitment of the day you watch this video I don’t want you to just watch it
video I don’t want you to just watch it
video I don’t want you to just watch it on the video and not take action after
on the video and not take action after
on the video and not take action after watching all of these clips what
watching all of these clips what
watching all of these clips what commitment are you making to improve in
commitment are you making to improve in
commitment are you making to improve in your business or your life leave it down
your business or your life leave it down
your business or your life leave it down the comments below I’m excited to see
the comments below I’m excited to see
the comments below I’m excited to see your commitment thank you guys so much
your commitment thank you guys so much
your commitment thank you guys so much for watching I believe in you I hope you
for watching I believe in you I hope you
for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one where it is much love
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so in an ideal life for me is a life and
so in an ideal life for me is a life and this applies to a company and
this applies to a company and
this applies to a company and organization and institution for me is
organization and institution for me is
organization and institution for me is an ideal life is when we all have a head
an ideal life is when we all have a head
an ideal life is when we all have a head a heart and a hand all three elements
a heart and a hand all three elements
a heart and a hand all three elements together working in alignment without
together working in alignment without
together working in alignment without one or the other we start to lose
one or the other we start to lose
one or the other we start to lose something if you only are the head in a
something if you only are the head in a
something if you only are the head in a heart you find that life is stable and
heart you find that life is stable and
heart you find that life is stable and defined yes yeah sure sure sure sure so
defined yes yeah sure sure sure sure so
defined yes yeah sure sure sure sure so ahead is the clarity of vision what you
ahead is the clarity of vision what you
ahead is the clarity of vision what you want what you want knowing what you want
want what you want knowing what you want
want what you want knowing what you want the way you picture life and being able
the way you picture life and being able
the way you picture life and being able to navigate make the decisions to get
to navigate make the decisions to get
to navigate make the decisions to get that that’s a good head a good heart is
that that’s a good head a good heart is
that that’s a good head a good heart is being able to understand what your
being able to understand what your
being able to understand what your intuition and heart ones being able to
intuition and heart ones being able to
intuition and heart ones being able to connect and tap into that understanding
connect and tap into that understanding
connect and tap into that understanding deeper and beyond the vision you may
deeper and beyond the vision you may
deeper and beyond the vision you may have painted for yourself so I often say
have painted for yourself so I often say
have painted for yourself so I often say to people that you get to where you want
to people that you get to where you want
to people that you get to where you want in life just not in the way you imagined
in life just not in the way you imagined
in life just not in the way you imagined and that’s because the path that’s paved
and that’s because the path that’s paved
and that’s because the path that’s paved up and down is far different to the path
up and down is far different to the path
up and down is far different to the path we pave so you can have a great head and
we pave so you can have a great head and
we pave so you can have a great head and a great vision and a great mission and
a great vision and a great mission and
a great vision and a great mission and know where you want to go but if your
know where you want to go but if your
know where you want to go but if your heart’s not able to have that resilience
heart’s not able to have that resilience
heart’s not able to have that resilience and be able to adapt and and have
and be able to adapt and and have
and be able to adapt and and have compassion and care and all of that then
compassion and care and all of that then
compassion and care and all of that then then you’re not going to be able to make
then you’re not going to be able to make
then you’re not going to be able to make the toughest decisions without your
the toughest decisions without your
the toughest decisions without your heart but to be able to realize that we
heart but to be able to realize that we
heart but to be able to realize that we need to care and be sustainable and
need to care and be sustainable and
need to care and be sustainable and long-lasting requires a heart and a hand
long-lasting requires a heart and a hand
long-lasting requires a heart and a hand is that service wanting to pass that on
is that service wanting to pass that on
is that service wanting to pass that on that which you have wanting to give it
that which you have wanting to give it
that which you have wanting to give it forward pay it forward the idea of
forward pay it forward the idea of
forward pay it forward the idea of serving with what you have I often say
serving with what you have I often say
serving with what you have I often say to people your passion is for you your
to people your passion is for you your
to people your passion is for you your purpose is for others your passion makes
purpose is for others your passion makes
purpose is for others your passion makes you happy but when you use your passion
you happy but when you use your passion
you happy but when you use your passion to make a difference in someone else’s
to make a difference in someone else’s
to make a difference in someone else’s life that’s a service that’s a purpose
life that’s a service that’s a purpose
life that’s a service that’s a purpose and that’s the hand so those are my
and that’s the hand so those are my
and that’s the hand so those are my three elements of an ideal life one of
three elements of an ideal life one of
three elements of an ideal life one of the things that when things don’t work
the things that when things don’t work
the things that when things don’t work out one of the things I’ve been telling
out one of the things I’ve been telling
out one of the things I’ve been telling myself and also thinking about a lot is
myself and also thinking about a lot is
myself and also thinking about a lot is apart from the fact of learning which
apart from the fact of learning which
apart from the fact of learning which we’ll go into is just that space I’m
we’ll go into is just that space I’m
we’ll go into is just that space I’m actually understanding that there may be
actually understanding that there may be
actually understanding that there may be a different route see we get so attached
a different route see we get so attached
a different route see we get so attached to having one
to having one
to having one one method one way of working we believe
one method one way of working we believe
one method one way of working we believe that there’s only one pathway to where
that there’s only one pathway to where
that there’s only one pathway to where we want to be there’s this conveyor belt
we want to be there’s this conveyor belt
we want to be there’s this conveyor belt of things we have to do whether it’s you
of things we have to do whether it’s you
of things we have to do whether it’s you know get a degree find a partner buy a
know get a degree find a partner buy a
know get a degree find a partner buy a house you know play golf whatever it is
house you know play golf whatever it is
house you know play golf whatever it is like this conveyor belt of efficiency
like this conveyor belt of efficiency
like this conveyor belt of efficiency and productivity that we hear that
and productivity that we hear that
and productivity that we hear that becomes a part of our natural
becomes a part of our natural
becomes a part of our natural progression and when that breaks apart
progression and when that breaks apart
progression and when that breaks apart that’s when we start to worry that’s
that’s when we start to worry that’s
that’s when we start to worry that’s when we start to think but notice that
when we start to think but notice that
when we start to think but notice that then actually it’s a lot better when
then actually it’s a lot better when
then actually it’s a lot better when that happens earlier in life see regret
that happens earlier in life see regret
that happens earlier in life see regret has some really important roles the
has some really important roles the
has some really important roles the first one is that it helps us make sense
first one is that it helps us make sense
first one is that it helps us make sense of the world from our perspective for
of the world from our perspective for
of the world from our perspective for one of the first time see most of us
one of the first time see most of us
one of the first time see most of us have spent our lives learning what’s
have spent our lives learning what’s
have spent our lives learning what’s important to us based on maybe what
important to us based on maybe what
important to us based on maybe what families or what communities – what
families or what communities – what
families or what communities – what parents do what education – whatever it
parents do what education – whatever it
parents do what education – whatever it is when you star ragrange something a
is when you star ragrange something a
is when you star ragrange something a new thing you did something wrong when
new thing you did something wrong when
new thing you did something wrong when you start thinking that I could have
you start thinking that I could have
you start thinking that I could have done something differently you’re making
done something differently you’re making
done something differently you’re making sense of the world from your perspective
sense of the world from your perspective
sense of the world from your perspective it’s crazy how powerful this is right
it’s crazy how powerful this is right
it’s crazy how powerful this is right you’re starting to make sense of the
you’re starting to make sense of the
you’re starting to make sense of the world from your perspective the second
world from your perspective the second
world from your perspective the second thing is it allows you to avoid future
thing is it allows you to avoid future
thing is it allows you to avoid future negative behavior if you know you
negative behavior if you know you
negative behavior if you know you regretted something why don’t you write
regretted something why don’t you write
regretted something why don’t you write it down right now
it down right now
it down right now right if you regret something write it
right if you regret something write it
right if you regret something write it down right now because it will teach you
down right now because it will teach you
down right now because it will teach you so much in the future and you’ve got to
so much in the future and you’ve got to
so much in the future and you’ve got to write down the lesson you learn now
write down the lesson you learn now
write down the lesson you learn now otherwise next time when you think
otherwise next time when you think
otherwise next time when you think you’re making another tough decision
you’re making another tough decision
you’re making another tough decision you’re gonna say to yourself oh what did
you’re gonna say to yourself oh what did
you’re gonna say to yourself oh what did I do last time how did I not make myself
I do last time how did I not make myself
I do last time how did I not make myself regret that and then you’re gonna be
regret that and then you’re gonna be
regret that and then you’re gonna be upset you’re gonna regret that you
upset you’re gonna regret that you
upset you’re gonna regret that you didn’t write it down
didn’t write it down
didn’t write it down so write it down right now we need to
so write it down right now we need to
so write it down right now we need to define what success means for us we need
define what success means for us we need
define what success means for us we need to redefine what success means let’s not
to redefine what success means let’s not
to redefine what success means let’s not make happiness and success about the
make happiness and success about the
make happiness and success about the size of our homes but about the size of
size of our homes but about the size of
size of our homes but about the size of our heart let’s not make it about
our heart let’s not make it about
our heart let’s not make it about gratification but gratitude we speak
gratification but gratitude we speak
gratification but gratitude we speak about being healthy and our well being
about being healthy and our well being
about being healthy and our well being but we act more like human doings than
but we act more like human doings than
but we act more like human doings than we do like human beings and therefore
we do like human beings and therefore
we do like human beings and therefore instead of to-do list
instead of to-do list
instead of to-do list need to be lists instead of continue
need to be lists instead of continue
need to be lists instead of continue about what you want to do think about
about what you want to do think about
about what you want to do think about who you want to be if you want to be
who you want to be if you want to be
who you want to be if you want to be more self-aware deem to be more
more self-aware deem to be more
more self-aware deem to be more conscious even to be a better person you
conscious even to be a better person you
conscious even to be a better person you want to be a difference in the world we
want to be a difference in the world we
want to be a difference in the world we need to move away from what we want to
need to move away from what we want to
need to move away from what we want to do in situations to really want to be in
do in situations to really want to be in
do in situations to really want to be in situations the three most common things
situations the three most common things
situations the three most common things that we forget when we’re rushing out of
that we forget when we’re rushing out of
that we forget when we’re rushing out of our homes is our keys our wallet or our
our homes is our keys our wallet or our
our homes is our keys our wallet or our mobile phone and it’s absolutely
mobile phone and it’s absolutely
mobile phone and it’s absolutely hilarious how you run back inside you’ll
hilarious how you run back inside you’ll
hilarious how you run back inside you’ll open all your drawers we look in your
open all your drawers we look in your
open all your drawers we look in your desk you make a mess sometimes and then
desk you make a mess sometimes and then
desk you make a mess sometimes and then how many times have you had it that you
how many times have you had it that you
how many times have you had it that you realize it was actually in your back
realize it was actually in your back
realize it was actually in your back pocket sometimes even in your hand and
pocket sometimes even in your hand and
pocket sometimes even in your hand and it’s funny that our experience of
it’s funny that our experience of
it’s funny that our experience of happiness is so similar to this we run
happiness is so similar to this we run
happiness is so similar to this we run around trying to find it in absolutely
around trying to find it in absolutely
around trying to find it in absolutely every place but actually when we come
every place but actually when we come
every place but actually when we come back
back
back find out that it’s within what would see
find out that it’s within what would see
find out that it’s within what would see was wolves volume yeah the most
was wolves volume yeah the most
was wolves volume yeah the most important work ever if you had to think
important work ever if you had to think
important work ever if you had to think of one word that’s most important to you
of one word that’s most important to you
of one word that’s most important to you or that sums you Apple that would be
or that sums you Apple that would be
or that sums you Apple that would be collect a little beacon pay believe
collect a little beacon pay believe
collect a little beacon pay believe nation if you want to know what the most
nation if you want to know what the most
nation if you want to know what the most important one word is for Tony Robbins
important one word is for Tony Robbins
important one word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am
Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am
Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard Schultz I have a very special
and Howard Schultz I have a very special
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