if you’re watching this and you feel lost it’s better to just sit down and be
lost it’s better to just sit down and be
lost it’s better to just sit down and be like I’m lost because the day you admit
like I’m lost because the day you admit
like I’m lost because the day you admit you’re lost is the day you allow
you’re lost is the day you allow
you’re lost is the day you allow yourself to be found by people who can
yourself to be found by people who can
yourself to be found by people who can give you a tip everybody doesn’t win and
give you a tip everybody doesn’t win and
give you a tip everybody doesn’t win and the sooner you wake up to that that
the sooner you wake up to that that
the sooner you wake up to that that biology is ruthless man then you get a
biology is ruthless man then you get a
biology is ruthless man then you get a little fear in you
little fear in you
little fear in you and when you get a little fear in you
and when you get a little fear in you
and when you get a little fear in you you start listening because if you’re
you start listening because if you’re
you start listening because if you’re truly afraid you listen everybody’s lost
truly afraid you listen everybody’s lost
truly afraid you listen everybody’s lost and the world is the blind leading the
and the world is the blind leading the
and the world is the blind leading the blind so the ultimate adventure to me is
blind so the ultimate adventure to me is
blind so the ultimate adventure to me is not just like bungee jumping or
not just like bungee jumping or
not just like bungee jumping or something like that are going to the
something like that are going to the
something like that are going to the Amish it’s trying to get insight and see
Amish it’s trying to get insight and see
Amish it’s trying to get insight and see life as a puzzle and your goal in life
life as a puzzle and your goal in life
life as a puzzle and your goal in life is to seek the adventures that piece the
is to seek the adventures that piece the
is to seek the adventures that piece the puzzle together so that at the end of
puzzle together so that at the end of
puzzle together so that at the end of your life you like kind of get get it
your life you like kind of get get it
your life you like kind of get get it you kind of get it I feel like most
you kind of get it I feel like most
you kind of get it I feel like most people don’t get what life is like think
people don’t get what life is like think
people don’t get what life is like think about is like what is life like why do
about is like what is life like why do
about is like what is life like why do are we driven with some basic instincts
are we driven with some basic instincts
are we driven with some basic instincts what’s the purpose you know alright so I
what’s the purpose you know alright so I
what’s the purpose you know alright so I know that you actually have a definition
know that you actually have a definition
know that you actually have a definition of the good life around the four pillars
of the good life around the four pillars
of the good life around the four pillars what are the four pillars and how does
what are the four pillars and how does
what are the four pillars and how does it play into everything so yeah I always
it play into everything so yeah I always
it play into everything so yeah I always say health wealth love happiness like
say health wealth love happiness like
say health wealth love happiness like kind of in that order
kind of in that order
kind of in that order if you’re not healthy you won’t care
if you’re not healthy you won’t care
if you’re not healthy you won’t care about anything so I figured health is
about anything so I figured health is
about anything so I figured health is the trump card and then the thing the
the trump card and then the thing the
the trump card and then the thing the reason I put money second over love it
reason I put money second over love it
reason I put money second over love it doesn’t mean like you should try to get
doesn’t mean like you should try to get
doesn’t mean like you should try to get rich before love if you look at Maslow’s
rich before love if you look at Maslow’s
rich before love if you look at Maslow’s hierarchy of needs a classic kind of way
hierarchy of needs a classic kind of way
hierarchy of needs a classic kind of way to be happy there’s five levels to
to be happy there’s five levels to
to be happy there’s five levels to meselson at the bottom one is
meselson at the bottom one is
meselson at the bottom one is physiological or physical needs have to
physiological or physical needs have to
physiological or physical needs have to be met food shelter water the second one
be met food shelter water the second one
be met food shelter water the second one is safety
is safety
is safety you have to feel safe the third one is
you have to feel safe the third one is
you have to feel safe the third one is love and because if you don’t have
love and because if you don’t have
love and because if you don’t have physical and safety right you don’t care
physical and safety right you don’t care
physical and safety right you don’t care about love and if you don’t believe me
about love and if you don’t believe me
about love and if you don’t believe me look up the number one reason people get
look up the number one reason people get
look up the number one reason people get divorced its financial issues so I just
divorced its financial issues so I just
divorced its financial issues so I just figured money doesn’t bring happiness
figured money doesn’t bring happiness
figured money doesn’t bring happiness but the absence of money brings
but the absence of money brings
but the absence of money brings unhappiness
unhappiness
unhappiness so health wealth and then love and then
so health wealth and then love and then
so health wealth and then love and then if you get those three that’s how you
if you get those three that’s how you
if you get those three that’s how you get happiness like happiness there’s so
get happiness like happiness there’s so
get happiness like happiness there’s so many books now about happiness there’s a
many books now about happiness there’s a
many books now about happiness there’s a good one called happiness hypothesis by
good one called happiness hypothesis by
good one called happiness hypothesis by Jonathan ie but at the core thing to me
Jonathan ie but at the core thing to me
Jonathan ie but at the core thing to me happiness is like soup it’s like if you
happiness is like soup it’s like if you
happiness is like soup it’s like if you make chicken noodle soup but you forget
make chicken noodle soup but you forget
make chicken noodle soup but you forget to chicken it’s not chicken noodle soup
to chicken it’s not chicken noodle soup
to chicken it’s not chicken noodle soup if you forget to put the broth in it’s
if you forget to put the broth in it’s
if you forget to put the broth in it’s just chicken and noodles if you forget
just chicken and noodles if you forget
just chicken and noodles if you forget the noodles so that’s what I mean like
the noodles so that’s what I mean like
the noodles so that’s what I mean like happiness is a compilation of a whole
happiness is a compilation of a whole
happiness is a compilation of a whole bunch of stuff you do right so the real
bunch of stuff you do right so the real
bunch of stuff you do right so the real truth is hard work is 25% of the formula
truth is hard work is 25% of the formula
truth is hard work is 25% of the formula because diligence is known in the common
because diligence is known in the common
because diligence is known in the common language as hard work okay so if you
language as hard work okay so if you
language as hard work okay so if you just think diligence alone will get you
just think diligence alone will get you
just think diligence alone will get you success you’re like a basketball player
success you’re like a basketball player
success you’re like a basketball player that thing she’ll play in the NBA cuz
that thing she’ll play in the NBA cuz
that thing she’ll play in the NBA cuz you could shoot free-throws
you could shoot free-throws
you could shoot free-throws ah there’s you ever seen the best
ah there’s you ever seen the best
ah there’s you ever seen the best free-throw shooter in the world they’re
free-throw shooter in the world they’re
free-throw shooter in the world they’re old 70 year old men who shoot
old 70 year old men who shoot
old 70 year old men who shoot underhanded but they don’t play in the
underhanded but they don’t play in the
underhanded but they don’t play in the NBA because the NBA is not all about
NBA because the NBA is not all about
NBA because the NBA is not all about free-throws
free-throws
free-throws so NBA is scoring defense free throws
so NBA is scoring defense free throws
so NBA is scoring defense free throws maybe is one component rebounding
maybe is one component rebounding
maybe is one component rebounding assists there’s a lot of components so
assists there’s a lot of components so
assists there’s a lot of components so the other three you have to get good at
the other three you have to get good at
the other three you have to get good at the first one is perfectionism people
the first one is perfectionism people
the first one is perfectionism people you have to know how to double check
you have to know how to double check
you have to know how to double check your work
your work
your work it’s that simple it doesn’t mean you’re
it’s that simple it doesn’t mean you’re
it’s that simple it doesn’t mean you’re always a perfectionist but it means when
always a perfectionist but it means when
always a perfectionist but it means when it’s important when you’re a pilot of an
it’s important when you’re a pilot of an
it’s important when you’re a pilot of an airplane double check before you go they
airplane double check before you go they
airplane double check before you go they if you get on a plane you hear the
if you get on a plane you hear the
if you get on a plane you hear the pilots double checking the co-pilot
pilots double checking the co-pilot
pilots double checking the co-pilot going you know hydraulics and the guy
going you know hydraulics and the guy
going you know hydraulics and the guy goes hydraulics that and that’s why
goes hydraulics that and that’s why
goes hydraulics that and that’s why planes don’t crash and it’s called Six
planes don’t crash and it’s called Six
planes don’t crash and it’s called Six Sigma it’s three defects per million
Sigma it’s three defects per million
Sigma it’s three defects per million your goal in business and in life on the
your goal in business and in life on the
your goal in business and in life on the important things is to make three
important things is to make three
important things is to make three mistakes per million transactions in the
mistakes per million transactions in the
mistakes per million transactions in the only way you do that is by being a
only way you do that is by being a
only way you do that is by being a perfectionist in terms of
perfectionist in terms of
perfectionist in terms of double-checking so that’s 25% the next
double-checking so that’s 25% the next
double-checking so that’s 25% the next one is organization I can’t tell you how
one is organization I can’t tell you how
one is organization I can’t tell you how much better my life is and anybody
much better my life is and anybody
much better my life is and anybody watching this will be if you wake up
watching this will be if you wake up
watching this will be if you wake up every single day and you take ten
every single day and you take ten
every single day and you take ten minutes I have yellow notepad sitting
minutes I have yellow notepad sitting
minutes I have yellow notepad sitting all around my house I got that from Bill
all around my house I got that from Bill
all around my house I got that from Bill Gates Bill Gates Bill Microsoft at 17 by
Gates Bill Gates Bill Microsoft at 17 by
Gates Bill Gates Bill Microsoft at 17 by locking himself in a hotel room was six
locking himself in a hotel room was six
locking himself in a hotel room was six yellow notepads and he wrote out the
yellow notepads and he wrote out the
yellow notepads and he wrote out the whole basic
whole basic
whole basic odhh for daus and things that built
odhh for daus and things that built
odhh for daus and things that built Microsoft okay he became the richest man
Microsoft okay he became the richest man
Microsoft okay he became the richest man in the world 18 years straight because
in the world 18 years straight because
in the world 18 years straight because he was organized enough to lock himself
he was organized enough to lock himself
he was organized enough to lock himself in a room and think through his day and
in a room and think through his day and
in a room and think through his day and so what I try to do and whenever I do
so what I try to do and whenever I do
so what I try to do and whenever I do this I have a great day whenever I don’t
this I have a great day whenever I don’t
this I have a great day whenever I don’t I notice it be organized a little bit
I notice it be organized a little bit
I notice it be organized a little bit ten minutes I actually have this little
ten minutes I actually have this little
ten minutes I actually have this little couch thing outside of my shower and I
couch thing outside of my shower and I
couch thing outside of my shower and I put a notepad by it I take a shower when
put a notepad by it I take a shower when
put a notepad by it I take a shower when I wake up I walk over to that I kind of
I wake up I walk over to that I kind of
I wake up I walk over to that I kind of sit there and I just write out I mean it
sit there and I just write out I mean it
sit there and I just write out I mean it can be as little as three main projects
can be as little as three main projects
can be as little as three main projects you want to get done that day so
you want to get done that day so
you want to get done that day so organization is the other 25% so now and
organization is the other 25% so now and
organization is the other 25% so now and then you have diligence which is hard
then you have diligence which is hard
then you have diligence which is hard work hustle and perseverance but the
work hustle and perseverance but the
work hustle and perseverance but the last one is the kicker and this is what
last one is the kicker and this is what
last one is the kicker and this is what I was talking about the rewiring that
I was talking about the rewiring that
I was talking about the rewiring that has to happen the last one is something
has to happen the last one is something
has to happen the last one is something called prudence scientists call this
called prudence scientists call this
called prudence scientists call this prudence prudence is the ability to make
prudence prudence is the ability to make
prudence prudence is the ability to make the right decision and I can’t tell you
the right decision and I can’t tell you
the right decision and I can’t tell you how many entrepreneurs and non
how many entrepreneurs and non
how many entrepreneurs and non entrepreneurs even me at times – I’m not
entrepreneurs even me at times – I’m not
entrepreneurs even me at times – I’m not special I’m lumping all of us in this
special I’m lumping all of us in this
special I’m lumping all of us in this because of our upbringing in society our
because of our upbringing in society our
because of our upbringing in society our goal is let’s say our goal is like that
goal is let’s say our goal is like that
goal is let’s say our goal is like that camera right there so let’s assume
camera right there so let’s assume
camera right there so let’s assume that’s north so I have this compass in
that’s north so I have this compass in
that’s north so I have this compass in my brain and my goal is to go right
my brain and my goal is to go right
my brain and my goal is to go right there let’s say it’s a mile away so
there let’s say it’s a mile away so
there let’s say it’s a mile away so north what happens if society my
north what happens if society my
north what happens if society my upbringing in school wired my compass
upbringing in school wired my compass
upbringing in school wired my compass exactly backwards so I think let’s say I
exactly backwards so I think let’s say I
exactly backwards so I think let’s say I can’t see that camera but I know I want
can’t see that camera but I know I want
can’t see that camera but I know I want to go north so I pull out like my
to go north so I pull out like my
to go north so I pull out like my compass and it points that way so I just
compass and it points that way so I just
compass and it points that way so I just take off walking and I do it in an
take off walking and I do it in an
take off walking and I do it in an organized fashion I do it in a
organized fashion I do it in a
organized fashion I do it in a perfectionist manner I’m perfecting my
perfectionist manner I’m perfecting my
perfectionist manner I’m perfecting my steps in my posture I’m also working on
steps in my posture I’m also working on
steps in my posture I’m also working on you know hard work and hustle keep
you know hard work and hustle keep
you know hard work and hustle keep walking towards your goal well the truth
walking towards your goal well the truth
walking towards your goal well the truth is if you go south when you should go
is if you go south when you should go
is if you go south when you should go north you could have gone one mile but
north you could have gone one mile but
north you could have gone one mile but the earth is about 24,000 miles in
the earth is about 24,000 miles in
the earth is about 24,000 miles in circumference so you get to walk 24,000
circumference so you get to walk 24,000
circumference so you get to walk 24,000 miles and you’ll come up on the backside
miles and you’ll come up on the backside
miles and you’ll come up on the backside and you will get your goal that’s most
and you will get your goal that’s most
and you will get your goal that’s most entrepreneurs the average person takes
entrepreneurs the average person takes
entrepreneurs the average person takes 20 years to become a millionaire
20 years to become a millionaire
20 years to become a millionaire the problem is art is long but life is
the problem is art is long but life is
the problem is art is long but life is short the art of living and getting to
short the art of living and getting to
short the art of living and getting to your objective is long but he
your objective is long but he
your objective is long but he doesn’t have to be it’s long if your
doesn’t have to be it’s long if your
doesn’t have to be it’s long if your compass is backwards so the whole point
compass is backwards so the whole point
compass is backwards so the whole point of what I’m saying about adventure at
of what I’m saying about adventure at
of what I’m saying about adventure at the beginning is I’m trying to take
the beginning is I’m trying to take
the beginning is I’m trying to take myself and point it to the true north
myself and point it to the true north
myself and point it to the true north and you have to learn that from books
and you have to learn that from books
and you have to learn that from books and mentors and a life experience and
and mentors and a life experience and
and mentors and a life experience and listening and finding in-person mentors
listening and finding in-person mentors
listening and finding in-person mentors and all those things they help adjust
and all those things they help adjust
and all those things they help adjust your compass and most people are gonna
your compass and most people are gonna
your compass and most people are gonna get what they want just about 40 years
get what they want just about 40 years
get what they want just about 40 years longer you know you asked me one of the
longer you know you asked me one of the
longer you know you asked me one of the rewiring things we have to do in this
rewiring things we have to do in this
rewiring things we have to do in this world I’ll tell you one you ever heard
world I’ll tell you one you ever heard
world I’ll tell you one you ever heard this myth everything happens for a
this myth everything happens for a
this myth everything happens for a reason so just accept it well there’s
reason so just accept it well there’s
reason so just accept it well there’s kind of truth to that if I jump off a
kind of truth to that if I jump off a
kind of truth to that if I jump off a building and break my legs yes
building and break my legs yes
building and break my legs yes everything happened for a reason
everything happened for a reason
everything happened for a reason the reason was gravity like that’s why
the reason was gravity like that’s why
the reason was gravity like that’s why you break your legs and physics legs
you break your legs and physics legs
you break your legs and physics legs brittle concrete not brittle so that but
brittle concrete not brittle so that but
brittle concrete not brittle so that but people interpret everything happens for
people interpret everything happens for
people interpret everything happens for a reason be like well I was meant to
a reason be like well I was meant to
a reason be like well I was meant to learn from that thing and then BS read
learn from that thing and then BS read
learn from that thing and then BS read Richard Dawkins The Selfish Gene one of
Richard Dawkins The Selfish Gene one of
Richard Dawkins The Selfish Gene one of the most important books written in the
the most important books written in the
the most important books written in the last century he says organisms that only
last century he says organisms that only
last century he says organisms that only learn through trial and error lose to
learn through trial and error lose to
learn through trial and error lose to organisms that can learn through other
organisms that can learn through other
organisms that can learn through other peoples at Rylander is anybody here we
peoples at Rylander is anybody here we
peoples at Rylander is anybody here we got a little live audience anybody here
got a little live audience anybody here
got a little live audience anybody here ever had to be hit by a car to learn to
ever had to be hit by a car to learn to
ever had to be hit by a car to learn to look both ways I did it I kind of
look both ways I did it I kind of
look both ways I did it I kind of learned from just somebody telling me
learned from just somebody telling me
learned from just somebody telling me big car two tons velocity smash dead and
big car two tons velocity smash dead and
big car two tons velocity smash dead and I now always look both ways so if your
I now always look both ways so if your
I now always look both ways so if your myth is that the only way you’re gonna
myth is that the only way you’re gonna
myth is that the only way you’re gonna learn is just through massive mistakes
learn is just through massive mistakes
learn is just through massive mistakes and trial and error you have a red
and trial and error you have a red
and trial and error you have a red Richards talking book if you believe in
Richards talking book if you believe in
Richards talking book if you believe in evolution or even you don’t you believe
evolution or even you don’t you believe
evolution or even you don’t you believe in creationism or whatever why do we
in creationism or whatever why do we
in creationism or whatever why do we have big brains because we do have the
have big brains because we do have the
have big brains because we do have the biggest brains on planet earth not
biggest brains on planet earth not
biggest brains on planet earth not always use them but we got the biggest
always use them but we got the biggest
always use them but we got the biggest potential it’s to be able to what
potential it’s to be able to what
potential it’s to be able to what Richard Dawkins called project so you
Richard Dawkins called project so you
Richard Dawkins called project so you can literally sit in this chair and
can literally sit in this chair and
can literally sit in this chair and predict outcomes without having to do
predict outcomes without having to do
predict outcomes without having to do them like so I can predict if I don’t
them like so I can predict if I don’t
them like so I can predict if I don’t listen to Tom’s advice on how to do a
listen to Tom’s advice on how to do a
listen to Tom’s advice on how to do a physical snack bar and get it in the
physical snack bar and get it in the
physical snack bar and get it in the stores or a physical product bye-bye
stores or a physical product bye-bye
stores or a physical product bye-bye playing hard-to-get for a year like you
playing hard-to-get for a year like you
playing hard-to-get for a year like you did then I can predict most likely it’s
did then I can predict most likely it’s
did then I can predict most likely it’s gonna not go well for me but I can
gonna not go well for me but I can
gonna not go well for me but I can predict that if I download what you did
predict that if I download what you did
predict that if I download what you did it’s gonna go better for me
it’s gonna go better for me
it’s gonna go better for me statistically and that skill makes you a
statistically and that skill makes you a
statistically and that skill makes you a powerful person it wasn’t meant to
powerful person it wasn’t meant to
powerful person it wasn’t meant to happen yes everything happens for a
happen yes everything happens for a
happen yes everything happens for a reason you made a bad choice but it
reason you made a bad choice but it
reason you made a bad choice but it didn’t have to be that way and the
didn’t have to be that way and the
didn’t have to be that way and the second you build up pain and this by the
second you build up pain and this by the
second you build up pain and this by the way is not my opinion if you talk to
way is not my opinion if you talk to
way is not my opinion if you talk to guys like dr. David buss top 10 most
guys like dr. David buss top 10 most
guys like dr. David buss top 10 most cited psychologist in history okay he’s
cited psychologist in history okay he’s
cited psychologist in history okay he’s one of my main mentors he told me I said
one of my main mentors he told me I said
one of my main mentors he told me I said do adults change like we do all this
do adults change like we do all this
do adults change like we do all this self-help videos and podcast I said am I
self-help videos and podcast I said am I
self-help videos and podcast I said am I wasting my time he goes yeah kind of I
wasting my time he goes yeah kind of I
wasting my time he goes yeah kind of I said why he said well after 25 it’s very
said why he said well after 25 it’s very
said why he said well after 25 it’s very hard to teach old dogs new tricks by the
hard to teach old dogs new tricks by the
hard to teach old dogs new tricks by the way that’s why I’ve changed most of my
way that’s why I’ve changed most of my
way that’s why I’ve changed most of my stuff targets people 18 to 25 that’s why
stuff targets people 18 to 25 that’s why
stuff targets people 18 to 25 that’s why I do snapchat and all that because
I do snapchat and all that because
I do snapchat and all that because there’s hope for 18 to 25 oh now if
there’s hope for 18 to 25 oh now if
there’s hope for 18 to 25 oh now if you’re over 25 before you get depressed
you’re over 25 before you get depressed
you’re over 25 before you get depressed he told me but I have good news for you
he told me but I have good news for you
he told me but I have good news for you time I said what he said adults learn
time I said what he said adults learn
time I said what he said adults learn through massive trauma so you will learn
through massive trauma so you will learn
through massive trauma so you will learn you have to let in some trauma into your
you have to let in some trauma into your
you have to let in some trauma into your life and that’s rough but no pain no
life and that’s rough but no pain no
life and that’s rough but no pain no gain like if you are 100 pounds
gain like if you are 100 pounds
gain like if you are 100 pounds overweight and you want to be able to
overweight and you want to be able to
overweight and you want to be able to play basketball here’s my news for you
play basketball here’s my news for you
play basketball here’s my news for you everything happened for a reason you got
everything happened for a reason you got
everything happened for a reason you got fat cause you ate too much and you
fat cause you ate too much and you
fat cause you ate too much and you didn’t exercise so welcome to the gym
didn’t exercise so welcome to the gym
didn’t exercise so welcome to the gym and the first year is gonna be hell but
and the first year is gonna be hell but
and the first year is gonna be hell but that pain hopefully will reprogram your
that pain hopefully will reprogram your
that pain hopefully will reprogram your brain that every time you want to eat
brain that every time you want to eat
brain that every time you want to eat that nasty thing go wait I don’t want to
that nasty thing go wait I don’t want to
that nasty thing go wait I don’t want to go through that pinion so I think one of
go through that pinion so I think one of
go through that pinion so I think one of the myths of societies we won’t let pain
the myths of societies we won’t let pain
the myths of societies we won’t let pain in we just excuse it all the way like
in we just excuse it all the way like
in we just excuse it all the way like nah that wasn’t meant to happen
nah that wasn’t meant to happen
nah that wasn’t meant to happen oh you wasted 20 years of life married
oh you wasted 20 years of life married
oh you wasted 20 years of life married the wrong person in the wrong career no
the wrong person in the wrong career no
the wrong person in the wrong career no tom it wasn’t happy and I was lucky
tom it wasn’t happy and I was lucky
tom it wasn’t happy and I was lucky enough to sit next to Kobe Bryant for
enough to sit next to Kobe Bryant for
enough to sit next to Kobe Bryant for the last like three games of his career
the last like three games of his career
the last like three games of his career not the very last one with the three
not the very last one with the three
not the very last one with the three ones so I sat at the end of the Lakers
ones so I sat at the end of the Lakers
ones so I sat at the end of the Lakers bench right next door one his players I
bench right next door one his players I
bench right next door one his players I won’t say who was having a bad game
won’t say who was having a bad game
won’t say who was having a bad game free throws they’re lined up the whole
free throws they’re lined up the whole
free throws they’re lined up the whole stadium is quiet Kobe Bryant yells out
stadium is quiet Kobe Bryant yells out
stadium is quiet Kobe Bryant yells out of him he goes dude you suck and he
of him he goes dude you suck and he
of him he goes dude you suck and he wasn’t joking okay it was shocking to me
wasn’t joking okay it was shocking to me
wasn’t joking okay it was shocking to me no one could hear it unless you’re right
no one could hear it unless you’re right
no one could hear it unless you’re right now but Kobe turned to Metta World Peace
now but Kobe turned to Metta World Peace
now but Kobe turned to Metta World Peace Ron Artest who was sitting next to when
Ron Artest who was sitting next to when
Ron Artest who was sitting next to when he goes this positive reinforcement
he goes this positive reinforcement
he goes this positive reinforcement thing is way overrated people need to
thing is way overrated people need to
thing is way overrated people need to hear the truth
hear the truth
hear the truth Brian Kelly he turned around and looked
Brian Kelly he turned around and looked
Brian Kelly he turned around and looked at caught Kobe and I was so impressed he
at caught Kobe and I was so impressed he
at caught Kobe and I was so impressed he said I know he literally sat down and
said I know he literally sat down and
said I know he literally sat down and said yep I’m lost this game and I kid
said yep I’m lost this game and I kid
said yep I’m lost this game and I kid you not the rest of the game he had an e
you not the rest of the game he had an e
you not the rest of the game he had an e excelled
excelled
excelled he scored like 1012 points off the bench
he scored like 1012 points off the bench
he scored like 1012 points off the bench after that and I was I was like see this
after that and I was I was like see this
after that and I was I was like see this Kobe guy gets it he’s a winner you can’t
Kobe guy gets it he’s a winner you can’t
Kobe guy gets it he’s a winner you can’t always just bring pleasure and Pat
always just bring pleasure and Pat
always just bring pleasure and Pat everybody up he didn’t say yo Kelly
everybody up he didn’t say yo Kelly
everybody up he didn’t say yo Kelly you’re kind of not playing well but you
you’re kind of not playing well but you
you’re kind of not playing well but you know it’s all happening for a reason
know it’s all happening for a reason
know it’s all happening for a reason buddy relax no pressure he just said
buddy relax no pressure he just said
buddy relax no pressure he just said dude you suck it was like that and I’m
dude you suck it was like that and I’m
dude you suck it was like that and I’m just going okay this is the real Kobe
just going okay this is the real Kobe
just going okay this is the real Kobe and because we’re all narcissists
and because we’re all narcissists
and because we’re all narcissists because of society and Instagram and all
because of society and Instagram and all
because of society and Instagram and all this and I’m guilty of that too we don’t
this and I’m guilty of that too we don’t
this and I’m guilty of that too we don’t like to be uncomfortable because a
like to be uncomfortable because a
like to be uncomfortable because a narcissist story to themselves is you’re
narcissist story to themselves is you’re
narcissist story to themselves is you’re the best and so you know you your
the best and so you know you your
the best and so you know you your worldview is messed up that’s a wiring
worldview is messed up that’s a wiring
worldview is messed up that’s a wiring issue let me put it this way I meet
issue let me put it this way I meet
issue let me put it this way I meet people who think they’re smart okay what
people who think they’re smart okay what
people who think they’re smart okay what it really tells me is they’ve never been
it really tells me is they’ve never been
it really tells me is they’ve never been around actually smart people if you’re
around actually smart people if you’re
around actually smart people if you’re really smart watching this let’s say you
really smart watching this let’s say you
really smart watching this let’s say you have 155 IQ that’s what Bill Gates has
have 155 IQ that’s what Bill Gates has
have 155 IQ that’s what Bill Gates has an Albert Einstein or up there my step
an Albert Einstein or up there my step
an Albert Einstein or up there my step grandfather had 155 IQ he speaks 14
grandfather had 155 IQ he speaks 14
grandfather had 155 IQ he speaks 14 language fluently he can write Chinese
language fluently he can write Chinese
language fluently he can write Chinese he’s a chess master he can play three
he’s a chess master he can play three
he’s a chess master he can play three other chess masters without looking at
other chess masters without looking at
other chess masters without looking at the board while may look at the board
the board while may look at the board
the board while may look at the board and beat all them if you’re smart you
and beat all them if you’re smart you
and beat all them if you’re smart you can do that if you’re not I got good
can do that if you’re not I got good
can do that if you’re not I got good news for you
news for you
news for you Warren Buffett says you only need about
Warren Buffett says you only need about
Warren Buffett says you only need about a 125 IQ to be very successful but it’s
a 125 IQ to be very successful but it’s
a 125 IQ to be very successful but it’s better to stay in your lane and just go
better to stay in your lane and just go
better to stay in your lane and just go I’m not that smart but you can hire 150
I’m not that smart but you can hire 150
I’m not that smart but you can hire 150 like use find somebody that you look at
like use find somebody that you look at
like use find somebody that you look at them and you go this is a person of
them and you go this is a person of
them and you go this is a person of discipline motivation self motivation
discipline motivation self motivation
discipline motivation self motivation they don’t need external motivation
they don’t need external motivation
they don’t need external motivation they’re motivated from within and spend
they’re motivated from within and spend
they’re motivated from within and spend all the time you can around it then you
all the time you can around it then you
all the time you can around it then you learn what to do from them and the sad
learn what to do from them and the sad
learn what to do from them and the sad thing is if you start a business and
thing is if you start a business and
thing is if you start a business and your first business doesn’t succeed the
your first business doesn’t succeed the
your first business doesn’t succeed the way your brain works you have dopamine
way your brain works you have dopamine
way your brain works you have dopamine receptors they now scientists have found
receptors they now scientists have found
receptors they now scientists have found that dopamine receptor is an add or
that dopamine receptor is an add or
that dopamine receptor is an add or subtract so dopamine is the hormone or
subtract so dopamine is the hormone or
subtract so dopamine is the hormone or the chemical in your brain that is the
the chemical in your brain that is the
the chemical in your brain that is the reward chemical there’s multiple one
reward chemical there’s multiple one
reward chemical there’s multiple one neuro up enough wind oxytocin all these
neuro up enough wind oxytocin all these
neuro up enough wind oxytocin all these but whais dopamine works is like when
but whais dopamine works is like when
but whais dopamine works is like when you go shopping and buy cool shoes and
you go shopping and buy cool shoes and
you go shopping and buy cool shoes and you feel good that’s the dopamine and
you feel good that’s the dopamine and
you feel good that’s the dopamine and dopamine drives us and what happens is
dopamine drives us and what happens is
dopamine drives us and what happens is when you fail your body
when you fail your body
when you fail your body they’re like little hairs they’re not
they’re like little hairs they’re not
they’re like little hairs they’re not actually hairs but we’ll pretend they
actually hairs but we’ll pretend they
actually hairs but we’ll pretend they are in your brain they fall off you get
are in your brain they fall off you get
are in your brain they fall off you get less of them and the penalty for having
less of them and the penalty for having
less of them and the penalty for having less dopamine receptors is you become
less dopamine receptors is you become
less dopamine receptors is you become less ambitious you have this huge vision
less ambitious you have this huge vision
less ambitious you have this huge vision you jump up seven stairs you trip the
you jump up seven stairs you trip the
you jump up seven stairs you trip the fall hit your nose and most people never
fall hit your nose and most people never
fall hit your nose and most people never come back you know win-win when you can
come back you know win-win when you can
come back you know win-win when you can even if it’s small wins it’s better for
even if it’s small wins it’s better for
even if it’s small wins it’s better for the better for the brain
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