here’s what you do if you want to get ahead success is about focusing on what
ahead success is about focusing on what
ahead success is about focusing on what you want not on what you don’t want
you want not on what you don’t want
you want not on what you don’t want nobody owes me no one owes you anything
nobody owes me no one owes you anything
nobody owes me no one owes you anything wherever I am on my journey I’m loving
wherever I am on my journey I’m loving
wherever I am on my journey I’m loving it okay I love the journey he’s the
it okay I love the journey he’s the
it okay I love the journey he’s the co-founder and executive producer for
co-founder and executive producer for
co-founder and executive producer for real social dynamics
real social dynamics
real social dynamics he’s been the creative mastermind and
he’s been the creative mastermind and
he’s been the creative mastermind and main speaker at hundreds of RSD seminars
main speaker at hundreds of RSD seminars
main speaker at hundreds of RSD seminars worldwide the foundational principles of
worldwide the foundational principles of
worldwide the foundational principles of real social dynamics comes from
real social dynamics comes from
real social dynamics comes from analyzing male and female interactions
analyzing male and female interactions
analyzing male and female interactions he’s Owen cook or RSD Tyler and here’s
he’s Owen cook or RSD Tyler and here’s
he’s Owen cook or RSD Tyler and here’s my take on his top ten rules for success
my take on his top ten rules for success
my take on his top ten rules for success rule number three is my personal
rule number three is my personal
rule number three is my personal favorite I make sure to stick around all
favorite I make sure to stick around all
favorite I make sure to stick around all the way to the end for some special
the way to the end for some special
the way to the end for some special bonus clips and as always if he’s saying
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here’s what you do if you want to get a
here’s what you do if you want to get a head completely cut out everything okay
head completely cut out everything okay
head completely cut out everything okay everything that doesn’t support you any
everything that doesn’t support you any
everything that doesn’t support you any type of food that doesn’t support you
type of food that doesn’t support you
type of food that doesn’t support you don’t eat it every type of influence
don’t eat it every type of influence
don’t eat it every type of influence like television or on the
like television or on the
like television or on the Internet
Internet
Internet don’t look at it okay it’s like Medusa
don’t look at it okay it’s like Medusa
don’t look at it okay it’s like Medusa it will turn you to stone don’t look at
it will turn you to stone don’t look at
it will turn you to stone don’t look at it when I see people looking at this I’m
it when I see people looking at this I’m
it when I see people looking at this I’m just like you’re out of your mind you’re
just like you’re out of your mind you’re
just like you’re out of your mind you’re crazy okay don’t look at it that’s
crazy okay don’t look at it that’s
crazy okay don’t look at it that’s basically for failures okay TV is like
basically for failures okay TV is like
basically for failures okay TV is like TV gossip time wasting is the
TV gossip time wasting is the
TV gossip time wasting is the consolation prize for being a failure if
consolation prize for being a failure if
consolation prize for being a failure if you’re a failure you just get to sit
you’re a failure you just get to sit
you’re a failure you just get to sit there going oh we’re coil man who’s
there going oh we’re coil man who’s
there going oh we’re coil man who’s gonna win oh hey Susie so this is the
gonna win oh hey Susie so this is the
gonna win oh hey Susie so this is the office do they did okay what I hear this
office do they did okay what I hear this
office do they did okay what I hear this it’s like I’m hearing charlie brush your
it’s like I’m hearing charlie brush your
it’s like I’m hearing charlie brush your barber her I’m just like what are you
barber her I’m just like what are you
barber her I’m just like what are you like I’m Alyssa I’m looking at a crazy
like I’m Alyssa I’m looking at a crazy
like I’m Alyssa I’m looking at a crazy person like what the are you doing okay
person like what the are you doing okay
person like what the are you doing okay pretty much then what you do is you
pretty much then what you do is you
pretty much then what you do is you limit your emotions down to only the
limit your emotions down to only the
limit your emotions down to only the ones that will help you okay so if you
ones that will help you okay so if you
ones that will help you okay so if you have an emotion that doesn’t help you
have an emotion that doesn’t help you
have an emotion that doesn’t help you you just get rid of it it’s gone success
you just get rid of it it’s gone success
you just get rid of it it’s gone success is about focusing on what you want not
is about focusing on what you want not
is about focusing on what you want not on what you don’t want do you guys
on what you don’t want do you guys
on what you don’t want do you guys notice how most of your friends or
notice how most of your friends or
notice how most of your friends or people you know who are failures
people you know who are failures
people you know who are failures perpetually focused on what they don’t
perpetually focused on what they don’t
perpetually focused on what they don’t want you guys ever seen that do you guys
want you guys ever seen that do you guys
want you guys ever seen that do you guys ever read comments online maybe in my
ever read comments online maybe in my
ever read comments online maybe in my videos or say RC nation where people are
videos or say RC nation where people are
videos or say RC nation where people are always focused on their looks and no
always focused on their looks and no
always focused on their looks and no matter how many videos they see me and
matter how many videos they see me and
matter how many videos they see me and Jeff pimping it they can’t they don’t
Jeff pimping it they can’t they don’t
Jeff pimping it they can’t they don’t get it
get it
get it that their looks are not an excuse you
that their looks are not an excuse you
that their looks are not an excuse you guys ever seen that because they’re
guys ever seen that because they’re
guys ever seen that because they’re focused on what they don’t want right
focused on what they don’t want right
focused on what they don’t want right they’re focused on what they don’t want
they’re focused on what they don’t want
they’re focused on what they don’t want when they go to approach your girl
when they go to approach your girl
when they go to approach your girl they’re not thinking of having hot sex
they’re not thinking of having hot sex
they’re not thinking of having hot sex with her or how it be fun even they’re
with her or how it be fun even they’re
with her or how it be fun even they’re just thinking about not getting rejected
just thinking about not getting rejected
just thinking about not getting rejected and how much it hurts and how much they
and how much it hurts and how much they
and how much it hurts and how much they can’t take it they can’t take the pain
can’t take it they can’t take the pain
can’t take it they can’t take the pain they can’t take the embarrassment they
they can’t take the embarrassment they
they can’t take the embarrassment they can’t take the discipline it takes to
can’t take the discipline it takes to
can’t take the discipline it takes to actually put themselves out there they
actually put themselves out there they
actually put themselves out there they can’t take it and so you know they focus
can’t take it and so you know they focus
can’t take it and so you know they focus on what they don’t want
on what they don’t want
on what they don’t want well success is about focusing on what
well success is about focusing on what
well success is about focusing on what you want and not focusing on what you
you want and not focusing on what you
you want and not focusing on what you don’t want
don’t want
don’t want sess is about punching through the wall
sess is about punching through the wall
sess is about punching through the wall not punching at the wall you want to
not punching at the wall you want to
not punching at the wall you want to think of your average of your journey
think of your average of your journey
think of your average of your journey like it’s almost like you see that light
like it’s almost like you see that light
like it’s almost like you see that light at the end of the tunnel but you also
at the end of the tunnel but you also
at the end of the tunnel but you also want to think of it like a narrow road
want to think of it like a narrow road
want to think of it like a narrow road you want to think of success as a narrow
you want to think of success as a narrow
you want to think of success as a narrow road so you are walking that line of
road so you are walking that line of
road so you are walking that line of success but you have a more focused set
success but you have a more focused set
success but you have a more focused set of behaviors than most people and you’re
of behaviors than most people and you’re
of behaviors than most people and you’re constantly course-correcting so you’re
constantly course-correcting so you’re
constantly course-correcting so you’re learning from where you up and you’re
learning from where you up and you’re
learning from where you up and you’re taking the lesson and then course
taking the lesson and then course
taking the lesson and then course correcting again and again and again and
correcting again and again and again and
correcting again and again and again and again Martin Luther King tried to commit
again Martin Luther King tried to commit
again Martin Luther King tried to commit suicide twice you guys see no design
suicide twice you guys see no design
suicide twice you guys see no design here
here
here JFK went through periods of deep illness
JFK went through periods of deep illness
JFK went through periods of deep illness deeply deeply ill where people thought
deeply deeply ill where people thought
deeply deeply ill where people thought he would die these types of things right
he would die these types of things right
he would die these types of things right Winston Churchill went through deep deep
Winston Churchill went through deep deep
Winston Churchill went through deep deep depressions so you can become one of
depressions so you can become one of
depressions so you can become one of those people doesn’t mean you can come
those people doesn’t mean you can come
those people doesn’t mean you can come one of them because that’s I mean those
one of them because that’s I mean those
one of them because that’s I mean those guys are in their own universe but you
guys are in their own universe but you
guys are in their own universe but you know you can become somebody of great
know you can become somebody of great
know you can become somebody of great power if you’ve gone through that
power if you’ve gone through that
power if you’ve gone through that because you’ve been hardened do you guys
because you’ve been hardened do you guys
because you’ve been hardened do you guys see it I mean here if you’ve been
see it I mean here if you’ve been
see it I mean here if you’ve been through that kind of bullsh then if
through that kind of bullsh then if
through that kind of bullsh then if you’ve conditioned yourself to pull
you’ve conditioned yourself to pull
you’ve conditioned yourself to pull yourself out of something like that if
yourself out of something like that if
yourself out of something like that if the world gets offered up you while all
the world gets offered up you while all
the world gets offered up you while all the other people they’re used to
the other people they’re used to
the other people they’re used to happiness they’re like whoa happy
happiness they’re like whoa happy
happiness they’re like whoa happy they’re like my happy world’s falling
they’re like my happy world’s falling
they’re like my happy world’s falling apart my happy world it’s falling apart
apart my happy world it’s falling apart
apart my happy world it’s falling apart gets off double your sight it’s all good
gets off double your sight it’s all good
gets off double your sight it’s all good baby yeah yeah yeah you don’t care
baby yeah yeah yeah you don’t care
baby yeah yeah yeah you don’t care because you’re adjusted to it so you’re
because you’re adjusted to it so you’re
because you’re adjusted to it so you’re a jet you have taken conscious control
a jet you have taken conscious control
a jet you have taken conscious control do you guys see it I mean okay so
do you guys see it I mean okay so
do you guys see it I mean okay so there’s benefits being a hard case
there’s benefits being a hard case
there’s benefits being a hard case newbie means that you can be better than
newbie means that you can be better than
newbie means that you can be better than any of the guys that had it easily it’ll
any of the guys that had it easily it’ll
any of the guys that had it easily it’ll be harder to get but you can excel to a
be harder to get but you can excel to a
be harder to get but you can excel to a higher level than all the people that
higher level than all the people that
higher level than all the people that were naturally good if you choose to but
were naturally good if you choose to but
were naturally good if you choose to but for you it will be a life of commitment
for you it will be a life of commitment
for you it will be a life of commitment in the same way that a guy that wants to
in the same way that a guy that wants to
in the same way that a guy that wants to get kind of big in the gym if he’s going
get kind of big in the gym if he’s going
get kind of big in the gym if he’s going to be big in the gym and he’s a hard
to be big in the gym and he’s a hard
to be big in the gym and he’s a hard gainer a little skinny dude he’s gonna
gainer a little skinny dude he’s gonna
gainer a little skinny dude he’s gonna have a higher commitment level to get to
have a higher commitment level to get to
have a higher commitment level to get to that level you’re gonna have a higher
that level you’re gonna have a higher
that level you’re gonna have a higher command level you’re not going to get to
command level you’re not going to get to
command level you’re not going to get to average as easily and sometimes even
average as easily and sometimes even
average as easily and sometimes even striving to state average won’t work for
striving to state average won’t work for
striving to state average won’t work for you because you slip back so you have to
you because you slip back so you have to
you because you slip back so you have to you have to really commit you have to
you have to really commit you have to
you have to really commit you have to you have to take your foot off the
you have to take your foot off the
you have to take your foot off the parking brake man you have to you have
parking brake man you have to you have
parking brake man you have to you have to burn the boats as they say and just
to burn the boats as they say and just
to burn the boats as they say and just go for it
go for it
go for it it’s a hard case movie if you do that
it’s a hard case movie if you do that
it’s a hard case movie if you do that you can slowly build those willpower
you can slowly build those willpower
you can slowly build those willpower muscles
muscles
muscles slowly react lament your body to
slowly react lament your body to
slowly react lament your body to positivity build up friends build up
positivity build up friends build up
positivity build up friends build up abundance build an amazing situation for
abundance build an amazing situation for
abundance build an amazing situation for some of you amazing amazing things
some of you amazing amazing things
some of you amazing amazing things another thing that you can do is never
another thing that you can do is never
another thing that you can do is never ever complain but when I say people
ever complain but when I say people
ever complain but when I say people complaining I’m just like what are you
complaining I’m just like what are you
complaining I’m just like what are you what are you doing like your life is so
what are you doing like your life is so
what are you doing like your life is so short are you really gonna sit you’re
short are you really gonna sit you’re
short are you really gonna sit you’re complaining let me put this in
complaining let me put this in
complaining let me put this in perspective okay I’m 34
perspective okay I’m 34
perspective okay I’m 34 okay I’m 34 now in my 20s I didn’t know
okay I’m 34 now in my 20s I didn’t know
okay I’m 34 now in my 20s I didn’t know that many people that died okay as you
that many people that died okay as you
that many people that died okay as you start to hit 30 people start to die okay
start to hit 30 people start to die okay
start to hit 30 people start to die okay I had a friend that died last week okay
I had a friend that died last week okay
I had a friend that died last week okay people are just gonna start dying okay
people are just gonna start dying okay
people are just gonna start dying okay I’ve also almost died myself a couple
I’ve also almost died myself a couple
I’ve also almost died myself a couple times who here in this room has almost
times who here in this room has almost
times who here in this room has almost died before put your hands up look at
died before put your hands up look at
died before put your hands up look at that look at that crowd now if that many
that look at that crowd now if that many
that look at that crowd now if that many people have almost died let me be a
people have almost died let me be a
people have almost died let me be a little more than freaked out here how
little more than freaked out here how
little more than freaked out here how many people here weren’t here to put
many people here weren’t here to put
many people here weren’t here to put their hands up there’s probably like
their hands up there’s probably like
their hands up there’s probably like little ghosts of people I actually did
little ghosts of people I actually did
little ghosts of people I actually did die like right in this crowd right now
die like right in this crowd right now
die like right in this crowd right now that is going to be you okay you are
that is going to be you okay you are
that is going to be you okay you are gonna be dead soon enough so don’t waste
gonna be dead soon enough so don’t waste
gonna be dead soon enough so don’t waste your time complaining okay don’t waste
your time complaining okay don’t waste
your time complaining okay don’t waste your time complaining is the terrible
your time complaining is the terrible
your time complaining is the terrible terrible idea all right so basically
terrible idea all right so basically
terrible idea all right so basically what you want to do is like never come
what you want to do is like never come
what you want to do is like never come never be negative never complain I
never be negative never complain I
never be negative never complain I consider myself to be a walking
consider myself to be a walking
consider myself to be a walking breathing example of the sort of things
breathing example of the sort of things
breathing example of the sort of things that people talk about in books like
that people talk about in books like
that people talk about in books like Napoleon Hill Think and Grow Rich the
Napoleon Hill Think and Grow Rich the
Napoleon Hill Think and Grow Rich the secret any of those books where somebody
secret any of those books where somebody
secret any of those books where somebody has a vision of where they want to get
has a vision of where they want to get
has a vision of where they want to get to and they walk that path the reason
to and they walk that path the reason
to and they walk that path the reason that this works for me is that I have my
that this works for me is that I have my
that this works for me is that I have my internal compass lined up so strongly at
internal compass lined up so strongly at
internal compass lined up so strongly at what I want that every part of me is
what I want that every part of me is
what I want that every part of me is moving in that direction every single
moving in that direction every single
moving in that direction every single part of me so say that I go out to a
part of me so say that I go out to a
part of me so say that I go out to a nightclub and I see some guy there who’s
nightclub and I see some guy there who’s
nightclub and I see some guy there who’s got girls all around him looks like you
got girls all around him looks like you
got girls all around him looks like you know he’s pimp he’s looking cool I’m
know he’s pimp he’s looking cool I’m
know he’s pimp he’s looking cool I’m seeing Matt and I’m looking at it you
seeing Matt and I’m looking at it you
seeing Matt and I’m looking at it you know what who knows what a success is I
know what who knows what a success is I
know what who knows what a success is I don’t really know but there might be
don’t really know but there might be
don’t really know but there might be something about him the way he carries
something about him the way he carries
something about him the way he carries himself the energy that he has I look at
himself the energy that he has I look at
himself the energy that he has I look at that and I think I want to be moving
that and I think I want to be moving
that and I think I want to be moving towards that I’m meeting other people
towards that I’m meeting other people
towards that I’m meeting other people that are good with women and I’m
that are good with women and I’m
that are good with women and I’m thinking I want to be moving towards
thinking I want to be moving towards
thinking I want to be moving towards that and I’m moving towards it always
that and I’m moving towards it always
that and I’m moving towards it always slow doesn’t happen over
slow doesn’t happen over
slow doesn’t happen over nine very slow process but the years go
nine very slow process but the years go
nine very slow process but the years go by get there and you really get there
by get there and you really get there
by get there and you really get there it’s like the coolest thing I could I
it’s like the coolest thing I could I
it’s like the coolest thing I could I could imagine that you could you could
could imagine that you could you could
could imagine that you could you could have a vision and you could realize it
have a vision and you could realize it
have a vision and you could realize it just through lining up your internal
just through lining up your internal
just through lining up your internal compass and walk in the path as it
compass and walk in the path as it
compass and walk in the path as it unfolds itself to you the rich get rich
unfolds itself to you the rich get rich
unfolds itself to you the rich get rich the poor get poor when I go out to the
the poor get poor when I go out to the
the poor get poor when I go out to the club in Hollywood people go hold
club in Hollywood people go hold
club in Hollywood people go hold oh and dude I love you hey bro come in
oh and dude I love you hey bro come in
oh and dude I love you hey bro come in with our table and let me in because I’m
with our table and let me in because I’m
with our table and let me in because I’m the pickup artist who made it right
the pickup artist who made it right
the pickup artist who made it right meanwhile the guy that wants to go in
meanwhile the guy that wants to go in
meanwhile the guy that wants to go in and learn no one wants to let him in
and learn no one wants to let him in
and learn no one wants to let him in they just shush him away like that no
they just shush him away like that no
they just shush him away like that no one wants to help the heart kiss you
one wants to help the heart kiss you
one wants to help the heart kiss you mean no one’s going to help you nobody
mean no one’s going to help you nobody
mean no one’s going to help you nobody owes you okay because you guys remember
owes you okay because you guys remember
owes you okay because you guys remember the first thing I said was that I knew I
the first thing I said was that I knew I
the first thing I said was that I knew I sucked I was willing to take my time and
sucked I was willing to take my time and
sucked I was willing to take my time and make slow progress but the other thing
make slow progress but the other thing
make slow progress but the other thing is I said nobody owes me no one owes you
is I said nobody owes me no one owes you
is I said nobody owes me no one owes you anything you have to get control of what
anything you have to get control of what
anything you have to get control of what you have going on okay because people
you have going on okay because people
you have going on okay because people are attracted to abundance and are
are attracted to abundance and are
are attracted to abundance and are repulsed by repelled and repulsed by
repulsed by repelled and repulsed by
repulsed by repelled and repulsed by scarcity right so when you’re someone
scarcity right so when you’re someone
scarcity right so when you’re someone with no friends no happiness you have a
with no friends no happiness you have a
with no friends no happiness you have a scarcity of friends a scarcity of
scarcity of friends a scarcity of
scarcity of friends a scarcity of happiness people feel a repulsion
happiness people feel a repulsion
happiness people feel a repulsion towards that we’re repulsion away from
towards that we’re repulsion away from
towards that we’re repulsion away from them you guys loads of friends are still
them you guys loads of friends are still
them you guys loads of friends are still low to happiness everyone wants to be
low to happiness everyone wants to be
low to happiness everyone wants to be your friend all of a sudden you’re in a
your friend all of a sudden you’re in a
your friend all of a sudden you’re in a downward spiral or upward spiral the
downward spiral or upward spiral the
downward spiral or upward spiral the hard case newbie he’s in the downward
hard case newbie he’s in the downward
hard case newbie he’s in the downward spiral he has to he has to recognize
spiral he has to he has to recognize
spiral he has to he has to recognize he’s in the downward spiral take action
he’s in the downward spiral take action
he’s in the downward spiral take action to cut it off and be willing to admit
to cut it off and be willing to admit
to cut it off and be willing to admit that to get back on his feet is going to
that to get back on his feet is going to
that to get back on his feet is going to take a long time it’s like a poor
take a long time it’s like a poor
take a long time it’s like a poor country in Africa for example that has
country in Africa for example that has
country in Africa for example that has civil strife people are cutting each
civil strife people are cutting each
civil strife people are cutting each other’s in arms off or differ diamonds
other’s in arms off or differ diamonds
other’s in arms off or differ diamonds and you know little warlords fighting
and you know little warlords fighting
and you know little warlords fighting each other and child soldiers to put
each other and child soldiers to put
each other and child soldiers to put that country back together is going to
that country back together is going to
that country back together is going to be difficult but probably it’s going to
be difficult but probably it’s going to
be difficult but probably it’s going to get is a country that’s dub is gonna get
get is a country that’s dub is gonna get
get is a country that’s dub is gonna get more poor more ravaged more desolate
more poor more ravaged more desolate
more poor more ravaged more desolate whereas a country that has an abundance
whereas a country that has an abundance
whereas a country that has an abundance of resources is probably get more and
of resources is probably get more and
of resources is probably get more and more and more and more and more because
more and more and more and more because
more and more and more and more because it’s an upward cycle so if you’re in
it’s an upward cycle so if you’re in
it’s an upward cycle so if you’re in that downward cycle you have to leave to
that downward cycle you have to leave to
that downward cycle you have to leave to look at what’s causing the cycle all the
look at what’s causing the cycle all the
look at what’s causing the cycle all the different elements that are causing it
different elements that are causing it
different elements that are causing it look at that and say what can I do now I
look at that and say what can I do now I
look at that and say what can I do now I have always believed that success is a
have always believed that success is a
have always believed that success is a challenge to attain and it is fleeting
challenge to attain and it is fleeting
challenge to attain and it is fleeting once you have attained
once you have attained
once you have attained it success is challenging to get
it success is challenging to get
it success is challenging to get fleeting once you’ve attained it I think
fleeting once you’ve attained it I think
fleeting once you’ve attained it I think you should never take it for granted
you should never take it for granted
you should never take it for granted never should you take success for
never should you take success for
never should you take success for granted mediocrity is the norm I really
granted mediocrity is the norm I really
granted mediocrity is the norm I really really believe that and if you guys look
really believe that and if you guys look
really believe that and if you guys look at how I run or esteem
at how I run or esteem
at how I run or esteem I mean don’t listen to my words look at
I mean don’t listen to my words look at
I mean don’t listen to my words look at my behavior every week I’ve got my new
my behavior every week I’ve got my new
my behavior every week I’ve got my new content up every week I’ve got the new
content up every week I’ve got the new
content up every week I’ve got the new stuff I’m focused on I’ve got new
stuff I’m focused on I’ve got new
stuff I’m focused on I’ve got new projects on the go I’m put them banging
projects on the go I’m put them banging
projects on the go I’m put them banging it out I view it like a privilege that I
it out I view it like a privilege that I
it out I view it like a privilege that I get to teach pickup as a career that’s a
get to teach pickup as a career that’s a
get to teach pickup as a career that’s a privilege now most of you guys probably
privilege now most of you guys probably
privilege now most of you guys probably think my life is like a joke because you
think my life is like a joke because you
think my life is like a joke because you guys think that I’m like picking up hoes
guys think that I’m like picking up hoes
guys think that I’m like picking up hoes teaching it bragging about it online
teaching it bragging about it online
teaching it bragging about it online that’s probably what it looks like right
that’s probably what it looks like right
that’s probably what it looks like right I get it I would think that too and
I get it I would think that too and
I get it I would think that too and that’s a small element of it that’s the
that’s a small element of it that’s the
that’s a small element of it that’s the best part but no I work my ass off at
best part but no I work my ass off at
best part but no I work my ass off at this a lot of people say why do you
this a lot of people say why do you
this a lot of people say why do you still go out for two you know usually
still go out for two you know usually
still go out for two you know usually seven nights a week after 11 years why
seven nights a week after 11 years why
seven nights a week after 11 years why do you guys think I go out seven nights
do you guys think I go out seven nights
do you guys think I go out seven nights a week after eleven years you get out
a week after eleven years you get out
a week after eleven years you get out what you do because I appreciate that
what you do because I appreciate that
what you do because I appreciate that I’m in the position I’m in you know I
I’m in the position I’m in you know I
I’m in the position I’m in you know I say it’s a privilege it’s a thrill this
say it’s a privilege it’s a thrill this
say it’s a privilege it’s a thrill this is not some entitle Shh that’s a
is not some entitle Shh that’s a
is not some entitle Shh that’s a privilege to be in that position I’ve
privilege to be in that position I’ve
privilege to be in that position I’ve got a big audience here to listen to
got a big audience here to listen to
got a big audience here to listen to what I have to say about life success
what I have to say about life success
what I have to say about life success with women success that’s a privilege so
with women success that’s a privilege so
with women success that’s a privilege so I take that very seriously and I think
I take that very seriously and I think
I take that very seriously and I think that that success is something that is
that that success is something that is
that that success is something that is earned and re owned I think that in life
earned and re owned I think that in life
earned and re owned I think that in life you’re climbing up that mountain and you
you’re climbing up that mountain and you
you’re climbing up that mountain and you want to take breaks strategically but
want to take breaks strategically but
want to take breaks strategically but people think that you can climb up a
people think that you can climb up a
people think that you can climb up a mountain and just kind of stay there not
mountain and just kind of stay there not
mountain and just kind of stay there not really I view it like it’s like a muddy
really I view it like it’s like a muddy
really I view it like it’s like a muddy Mountain you climb up and you stay there
Mountain you climb up and you stay there
Mountain you climb up and you stay there you start to slide down and there’s a
you start to slide down and there’s a
you start to slide down and there’s a number of reasons why that happens I’ll
number of reasons why that happens I’ll
number of reasons why that happens I’ll talk about them today does that mean you
talk about them today does that mean you
talk about them today does that mean you should never take a break no I’m gonna
should never take a break no I’m gonna
should never take a break no I’m gonna take a little time off when I do my
take a little time off when I do my
take a little time off when I do my Miami events this year I’m gonna sit
Miami events this year I’m gonna sit
Miami events this year I’m gonna sit there eating sushi in South Beach and
there eating sushi in South Beach and
there eating sushi in South Beach and stare at my belly button and it’s gonna
stare at my belly button and it’s gonna
stare at my belly button and it’s gonna be great
be great
be great okay and I’ve got I’m looking forward to
okay and I’ve got I’m looking forward to
okay and I’ve got I’m looking forward to going out to the islands in Hawaii this
going out to the islands in Hawaii this
going out to the islands in Hawaii this summer and that’s the long ways off and
summer and that’s the long ways off and
summer and that’s the long ways off and when I’m suffering hard with the work
when I’m suffering hard with the work
when I’m suffering hard with the work that’s something I can look forward to
that’s something I can look forward to
that’s something I can look forward to and I’m going to sit beside a waterfall
and I’m going to sit beside a waterfall
and I’m going to sit beside a waterfall and I’m going to sit there convulsing
and I’m going to sit there convulsing
and I’m going to sit there convulsing while my body flushes the years where
while my body flushes the years where
while my body flushes the years where the court is all out of it that’s
the court is all out of it that’s
the court is all out of it that’s basically what I do um cool you know of
basically what I do um cool you know of
basically what I do um cool you know of course I believe in taking a break I
course I believe in taking a break I
course I believe in taking a break I think you should spend time with friends
think you should spend time with friends
think you should spend time with friends and take breaks but I also believe that
and take breaks but I also believe that
and take breaks but I also believe that success is something that has to be
success is something that has to be
success is something that has to be earned and re earned the world is a
earned and re earned the world is a
earned and re earned the world is a dynamic place the world is changing if
dynamic place the world is changing if
dynamic place the world is changing if you’re not changing along with it you’re
you’re not changing along with it you’re
you’re not changing along with it you’re probably being left behind it’s so crazy
probably being left behind it’s so crazy
probably being left behind it’s so crazy how like as an entrepreneur or somebody
how like as an entrepreneur or somebody
how like as an entrepreneur or somebody even who in their career wants to be at
even who in their career wants to be at
even who in their career wants to be at a high level you have to like boundary
a high level you have to like boundary
a high level you have to like boundary off so many behaviors and influences
off so many behaviors and influences
off so many behaviors and influences that other people would let in
that other people would let in
that other people would let in essentially somebody at a high level
essentially somebody at a high level
essentially somebody at a high level they’ve just made the choice to hey if
they’ve just made the choice to hey if
they’ve just made the choice to hey if there’s somebody who’s like overly
there’s somebody who’s like overly
there’s somebody who’s like overly dramatic or disruptive in my life you
dramatic or disruptive in my life you
dramatic or disruptive in my life you have to let them go right like super sad
have to let them go right like super sad
have to let them go right like super sad you don’t and you know if there’s like
you don’t and you know if there’s like
you don’t and you know if there’s like foods that are depleting me or habits
foods that are depleting me or habits
foods that are depleting me or habits that are depleting me or things that are
that are depleting me or things that are
that are depleting me or things that are making me plate or not on point or not
making me plate or not on point or not
making me plate or not on point or not have my life together I have to let
have my life together I have to let
have my life together I have to let those go
those go
those go essentially so a lot of it is like
essentially so a lot of it is like
essentially so a lot of it is like creating those boundaries and was funny
creating those boundaries and was funny
creating those boundaries and was funny then as people who are maybe not quite
then as people who are maybe not quite
then as people who are maybe not quite at that level they wish they could hang
at that level they wish they could hang
at that level they wish they could hang out with people at that level but they
out with people at that level but they
out with people at that level but they don’t realize it’s like it’s not that
don’t realize it’s like it’s not that
don’t realize it’s like it’s not that person that I got like a so-called
person that I got like a so-called
person that I got like a so-called higher level than you they just have
higher level than you they just have
higher level than you they just have stronger boundaries and is somebody with
stronger boundaries and is somebody with
stronger boundaries and is somebody with less boundaries is coming into that
less boundaries is coming into that
less boundaries is coming into that circle is like hey we’d love to have you
circle is like hey we’d love to have you
circle is like hey we’d love to have you here but just work on your boundaries a
here but just work on your boundaries a
here but just work on your boundaries a little bit
little bit
little bit you know we’d love to have you here
you know we’d love to have you here
you know we’d love to have you here right so that’s it’s like people think
right so that’s it’s like people think
right so that’s it’s like people think that like other people are holding them
that like other people are holding them
that like other people are holding them down but really actually a lot of time I
down but really actually a lot of time I
down but really actually a lot of time I think they kind of feel bad for them and
think they kind of feel bad for them and
think they kind of feel bad for them and hope they can do better
hope they can do better
hope they can do better you know everybody who’s at the top is
you know everybody who’s at the top is
you know everybody who’s at the top is hoping to see other people come up so
hoping to see other people come up so
hoping to see other people come up so there can be more cool people to kick it
there can be more cool people to kick it
there can be more cool people to kick it with I actually chose to end off this
with I actually chose to end off this
with I actually chose to end off this video pointing up at the very tall a
video pointing up at the very tall a
video pointing up at the very tall a Rockefeller Center to make the point
Rockefeller Center to make the point
Rockefeller Center to make the point about how when you start to develop
about how when you start to develop
about how when you start to develop yourself it can oftentimes make you feel
yourself it can oftentimes make you feel
yourself it can oftentimes make you feel even more insecure all right so a lot of
even more insecure all right so a lot of
even more insecure all right so a lot of time I’ll bring a friend of mine to the
time I’ll bring a friend of mine to the
time I’ll bring a friend of mine to the gym and let’s say it’s a girl bring out
gym and let’s say it’s a girl bring out
gym and let’s say it’s a girl bring out to the gym and she Rd feels really hot
to the gym and she Rd feels really hot
to the gym and she Rd feels really hot about herself but as she goes to the gym
about herself but as she goes to the gym
about herself but as she goes to the gym she begins to see her weak spots she
she begins to see her weak spots she
she begins to see her weak spots she begins to actually realize how far she
begins to actually realize how far she
begins to actually realize how far she has to go and paradoxically the very act
has to go and paradoxically the very act
has to go and paradoxically the very act of actually improving herself makes her
of actually improving herself makes her
of actually improving herself makes her feel even more insecure um you’ll see
feel even more insecure um you’ll see
feel even more insecure um you’ll see the same thing when guys actually try to
the same thing when guys actually try to
the same thing when guys actually try to get a little bit of money going or let’s
get a little bit of money going or let’s
get a little bit of money going or let’s say that they try to learn to be good
say that they try to learn to be good
say that they try to learn to be good with girls right let’s say you actually
with girls right let’s say you actually
with girls right let’s say you actually thought your money was okay
thought your money was okay
thought your money was okay and then you start improving your cash
and then you start improving your cash
and then you start improving your cash situation all of a sudden Iran’s damn if
situation all of a sudden Iran’s damn if
situation all of a sudden Iran’s damn if I want to get a good business going I
I want to get a good business going I
I want to get a good business going I want to get my career going with some
want to get my career going with some
want to get my career going with some good momentum I have a lot further to go
good momentum I have a lot further to go
good momentum I have a lot further to go than I realized
than I realized
than I realized likewise as far as girls go most guys
likewise as far as girls go most guys
likewise as far as girls go most guys actually walk around thinking like you
actually walk around thinking like you
actually walk around thinking like you know they can win any fight they can
know they can win any fight they can
know they can win any fight they can pick up any girl when you actually go
pick up any girl when you actually go
pick up any girl when you actually go and try to do in your eyes how much you
and try to do in your eyes how much you
and try to do in your eyes how much you suck it winds up making you feel even
suck it winds up making you feel even
suck it winds up making you feel even more insecure so just remember that the
more insecure so just remember that the
more insecure so just remember that the fact that you are trying to improve
fact that you are trying to improve
fact that you are trying to improve yourself it’s a paradox between
yourself it’s a paradox between
yourself it’s a paradox between self-improvement and self-acceptance
self-improvement and self-acceptance
self-improvement and self-acceptance because the very act of improving
because the very act of improving
because the very act of improving yourself sometimes can make you feel a
yourself sometimes can make you feel a
yourself sometimes can make you feel a little bit bad what’s the frame that I
little bit bad what’s the frame that I
little bit bad what’s the frame that I come from then how do I do all the
come from then how do I do all the
come from then how do I do all the self-improvement stuff and not feel
self-improvement stuff and not feel
self-improvement stuff and not feel terrible
terrible
terrible what would I do is I come from a basic
what would I do is I come from a basic
what would I do is I come from a basic frame and the basic frame is I’m already
frame and the basic frame is I’m already
frame and the basic frame is I’m already awesome and I’m just enjoying my journey
awesome and I’m just enjoying my journey
awesome and I’m just enjoying my journey becoming even more awesome so I remember
becoming even more awesome so I remember
becoming even more awesome so I remember back when I was first teaching boot
back when I was first teaching boot
back when I was first teaching boot camps one of the first ones ever taught
camps one of the first ones ever taught
camps one of the first ones ever taught us here in New York City I didn’t really
us here in New York City I didn’t really
us here in New York City I didn’t really have a lot of students we didn’t charge
have a lot of students we didn’t charge
have a lot of students we didn’t charge a lot of money and probably wasn’t the
a lot of money and probably wasn’t the
a lot of money and probably wasn’t the best teacher so you might not want to be
best teacher so you might not want to be
best teacher so you might not want to be at that boot camp but the point being
at that boot camp but the point being
at that boot camp but the point being was I was teaching boot camp into
was I was teaching boot camp into
was I was teaching boot camp into Starbucks I mean you know I’d sneak into
Starbucks I mean you know I’d sneak into
Starbucks I mean you know I’d sneak into like you know an HIV clinic and say that
like you know an HIV clinic and say that
like you know an HIV clinic and say that I had HIV or we break into a school
I had HIV or we break into a school
I had HIV or we break into a school building and do it on milk crates I’d be
building and do it on milk crates I’d be
building and do it on milk crates I’d be doing seminars in those environments and
doing seminars in those environments and
doing seminars in those environments and if you would have asked me if I thought
if you would have asked me if I thought
if you would have asked me if I thought what I was doing was cool I’d say yeah
what I was doing was cool I’d say yeah
what I was doing was cool I’d say yeah it’s cool right now I might teach like
it’s cool right now I might teach like
it’s cool right now I might teach like you know a 4 or 500 person seminar to a
you know a 4 or 500 person seminar to a
you know a 4 or 500 person seminar to a hotel you ask me if I think it’s cool I
hotel you ask me if I think it’s cool I
hotel you ask me if I think it’s cool I said I think is cool someday I could be
said I think is cool someday I could be
said I think is cool someday I could be teaching a 5,000 person audience in a
teaching a 5,000 person audience in a
teaching a 5,000 person audience in a big auditorium somewhere like some kind
big auditorium somewhere like some kind
big auditorium somewhere like some kind of you know Convention Center and if you
of you know Convention Center and if you
of you know Convention Center and if you ask me I think school I think that’s
ask me I think school I think that’s
ask me I think school I think that’s cool and I might run the whole damn
cool and I might run the whole damn
cool and I might run the whole damn planet I think that’s cool too wherever
planet I think that’s cool too wherever
planet I think that’s cool too wherever I am on my journey
I am on my journey
I am on my journey I’m loving it okay I love the journey
I’m loving it okay I love the journey
I’m loving it okay I love the journey because as far as I’m concerned the
because as far as I’m concerned the
because as far as I’m concerned the golden era is now the golden era is the
golden era is now the golden era is the
golden era is now the golden era is the present moment and wherever I am right
present moment and wherever I am right
present moment and wherever I am right like if you’re asking me now like you
like if you’re asking me now like you
like if you’re asking me now like you old you to suck when you talk to the
old you to suck when you talk to the
old you to suck when you talk to the programs but I get Starbucks know it was
programs but I get Starbucks know it was
programs but I get Starbucks know it was awesome
awesome
awesome I was already awesome and enjoy my
I was already awesome and enjoy my
I was already awesome and enjoy my journey become even more awesome right
journey become even more awesome right
journey become even more awesome right someday if I’m teaching 5,000 people who
someday if I’m teaching 5,000 people who
someday if I’m teaching 5,000 people who say I’ll teaching 500 people
say I’ll teaching 500 people
say I’ll teaching 500 people I was that too small of a crafty I said
I was that too small of a crafty I said
I was that too small of a crafty I said no I was just enjoying my journey I was
no I was just enjoying my journey I was
no I was just enjoying my journey I was awesome just enjoying being on the path
awesome just enjoying being on the path
awesome just enjoying being on the path even more awesome and understand that
even more awesome and understand that
even more awesome and understand that cultures brainwash you all the time to
cultures brainwash you all the time to
cultures brainwash you all the time to desire completion and this could be a 10
desire completion and this could be a 10
desire completion and this could be a 10 hour seminar on this one topic how
hour seminar on this one topic how
hour seminar on this one topic how literally how society brainwashes you to
literally how society brainwashes you to
literally how society brainwashes you to think that there will be completion yeah
think that there will be completion yeah
think that there will be completion yeah it’s like you know there’s no one trying
it’s like you know there’s no one trying
it’s like you know there’s no one trying to control you but just the way the
to control you but just the way the
to control you but just the way the society works out again it’s trying to
society works out again it’s trying to
society works out again it’s trying to be like you know like like the classic
be like you know like like the classic
be like you know like like the classic example that you’ll hear like in sander
example that you’ll hear like in sander
example that you’ll hear like in sander stuff like that is you know like you
stuff like that is you know like you
stuff like that is you know like you know you finish kindergarten you go to
know you finish kindergarten you go to
know you finish kindergarten you go to grade school finish grade school go to
grade school finish grade school go to
grade school finish grade school go to junior high finishing your high go to
junior high finishing your high go to
junior high finishing your high go to high school theoretically go to college
high school theoretically go to college
high school theoretically go to college get a job get promoted retire and then
get a job get promoted retire and then
get a job get promoted retire and then and yeah there is no there is no
and yeah there is no there is no
and yeah there is no there is no completion because you have to
completion because you have to
completion because you have to understand in the world sort of like a
understand in the world sort of like a
understand in the world sort of like a simple way of putting it very simple
simple way of putting it very simple
simple way of putting it very simple over some overly simple there’s like the
over some overly simple there’s like the
over some overly simple there’s like the wolves and the sheep okay again it’s a
wolves and the sheep okay again it’s a
wolves and the sheep okay again it’s a very overly simple way of putting it
very overly simple way of putting it
very overly simple way of putting it and the Sheep again in one way of
and the Sheep again in one way of
and the Sheep again in one way of looking at it among million different
looking at it among million different
looking at it among million different ways you could are the people who think
ways you could are the people who think
ways you could are the people who think there’s going to be completion and they
there’s going to be completion and they
there’s going to be completion and they are given a script by the Wolves who
are given a script by the Wolves who
are given a script by the Wolves who then eat them okay that’s sort of the
then eat them okay that’s sort of the
then eat them okay that’s sort of the gist of it
the reason why there’s many different
the reason why there’s many different reasons why we all want to be told what
reasons why we all want to be told what
reasons why we all want to be told what to do but and a lot of it could come
to do but and a lot of it could come
to do but and a lot of it could come down to that human beings are we have
down to that human beings are we have
down to that human beings are we have hierarchy we respond to hierarchy we
hierarchy we respond to hierarchy we
hierarchy we respond to hierarchy we come from tribe so there’s many
come from tribe so there’s many
come from tribe so there’s many different reasons that we all wish that
different reasons that we all wish that
different reasons that we all wish that we could be told what to do okay but I’m
we could be told what to do okay but I’m
we could be told what to do okay but I’m gonna focus on one reason here in
gonna focus on one reason here in
gonna focus on one reason here in particular women if they do we’re going
particular women if they do we’re going
particular women if they do we’re going to put the microscope on this one
to put the microscope on this one
to put the microscope on this one particular reason the reason why I think
particular reason the reason why I think
particular reason the reason why I think that we all wish that we could be tol
that we all wish that we could be tol
that we all wish that we could be tol what to do is because we’re all tired
what to do is because we’re all tired
what to do is because we’re all tired and we’re all scared okay I’m gonna say
and we’re all scared okay I’m gonna say
and we’re all scared okay I’m gonna say again we’re all tired and we’re all
again we’re all tired and we’re all
again we’re all tired and we’re all scared
scared
scared [Music]
[Music]
[Music] and because we’re tired and scared we
and because we’re tired and scared we
and because we’re tired and scared we just wish somebody would tell us it’s
just wish somebody would tell us it’s
just wish somebody would tell us it’s gonna be okay
gonna be okay
gonna be okay and give and just give us a direction
and give and just give us a direction
and give and just give us a direction just please give me a direction
just please give me a direction
just please give me a direction [Music]
[Music]
[Music] the wolves eat sheep and you got to
the wolves eat sheep and you got to
the wolves eat sheep and you got to realize that there is no completion
realize that there is no completion
realize that there is no completion there’s no completion here
there’s no completion here
there’s no completion here and the world is always changing life is
and the world is always changing life is
and the world is always changing life is always moving from out of out of
always moving from out of out of
always moving from out of out of disorder comes order out of order come
disorder comes order out of order come
disorder comes order out of order come disorder society thrive and implode
disorder society thrive and implode
disorder society thrive and implode relationships go awesome for a while and
relationships go awesome for a while and
relationships go awesome for a while and dissolve friendships are tight and in
dissolve friendships are tight and in
dissolve friendships are tight and in relationships between man and women are
relationships between man and women are
relationships between man and women are hot and passionate and can potentially
hot and passionate and can potentially
hot and passionate and can potentially end or if you follow certain rules you
end or if you follow certain rules you
end or if you follow certain rules you can make them last longer and certainly
can make them last longer and certainly
can make them last longer and certainly you do have a degree of control and that
you do have a degree of control and that
you do have a degree of control and that is why this particular business you
is why this particular business you
is why this particular business you should actually learn how good business
should actually learn how good business
should actually learn how good business works if you learn pickup and
works if you learn pickup and
works if you learn pickup and relationship you should learn how that
relationship you should learn how that
relationship you should learn how that works and you can definitely stretch
works and you can definitely stretch
works and you can definitely stretch things out and create a robust structure
things out and create a robust structure
things out and create a robust structure not a fragile structure is always
not a fragile structure is always
not a fragile structure is always falling apart
falling apart
falling apart well you’re in state of mind where you
well you’re in state of mind where you
well you’re in state of mind where you have complete self trust to respond to
have complete self trust to respond to
have complete self trust to respond to any situation or to make decisions to be
any situation or to make decisions to be
any situation or to make decisions to be a decision maker in the face of
a decision maker in the face of
a decision maker in the face of vagueness ambiguity to be a wolf
vagueness ambiguity to be a wolf
vagueness ambiguity to be a wolf the higher level of consciousness that’s
the higher level of consciousness that’s
the higher level of consciousness that’s like a different vibrational frequency
like a different vibrational frequency
like a different vibrational frequency as new Asian people recall it you’re
as new Asian people recall it you’re
as new Asian people recall it you’re more awake and the reward is the state
more awake and the reward is the state
more awake and the reward is the state of mind and the person who you become
of mind and the person who you become
of mind and the person who you become realize that the walls of the world
realize that the walls of the world
realize that the walls of the world simply embrace the ambiguity the wolf
simply embrace the ambiguity the wolf
simply embrace the ambiguity the wolf not the sheep realize that there never
not the sheep realize that there never
not the sheep realize that there never is a completion
thank you guys so much for watching I
thank you guys so much for watching I made this video because Sam Mac asked me
made this video because Sam Mac asked me
made this video because Sam Mac asked me to so if there’s a famous entrepreneur
to so if there’s a famous entrepreneur
to so if there’s a famous entrepreneur that you want me to profile next leave
that you want me to profile next leave
that you want me to profile next leave in the comments below and I’ll see what
in the comments below and I’ll see what
in the comments below and I’ll see what I can do
I can do
I can do I’d also love to know which of the top
I’d also love to know which of the top
I’d also love to know which of the top ten rules have the biggest impact on you
ten rules have the biggest impact on you
ten rules have the biggest impact on you and why what did you learn from this
and why what did you learn from this
and why what did you learn from this that you’re going to apply to your life
that you’re going to apply to your life
that you’re going to apply to your life or to your business please leave in the
or to your business please leave in the
or to your business please leave in the comments and I’m going to join in the
comments and I’m going to join in the
comments and I’m going to join in the discussion and finally I want to give a
discussion and finally I want to give a
discussion and finally I want to give a quick shout out to Antoine Clerk Renault
quick shout out to Antoine Clerk Renault
quick shout out to Antoine Clerk Renault thank you so much Antoine for picking up
thank you so much Antoine for picking up
thank you so much Antoine for picking up a cup of my book and sending that
a cup of my book and sending that
a cup of my book and sending that amazing tweet I really really really
amazing tweet I really really really
amazing tweet I really really really appreciate it so thank you guys again
appreciate it so thank you guys again
appreciate it so thank you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope you
for watching I believe in you I hope you
for watching I believe in you I hope you continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one where it is much love
whatever your one where it is much love
whatever your one where it is much love I’ll see you soon
if you look in the mirror right after a
if you look in the mirror right after a killer night or if you look in the
killer night or if you look in the
killer night or if you look in the mirror right after an amazing meditation
mirror right after an amazing meditation
mirror right after an amazing meditation session what you’ll find is you really
session what you’ll find is you really
session what you’ll find is you really like the way you look it’s almost like
like the way you look it’s almost like
like the way you look it’s almost like your face relaxes and you have this kind
your face relaxes and you have this kind
your face relaxes and you have this kind of look in your eyes it just makes you
of look in your eyes it just makes you
of look in your eyes it just makes you attractive meanwhile if you’re kind of
attractive meanwhile if you’re kind of
attractive meanwhile if you’re kind of you know insecure it’s like it just
you know insecure it’s like it just
you know insecure it’s like it just looks so different in the mirror and
looks so different in the mirror and
looks so different in the mirror and that’s because perception yourself is so
that’s because perception yourself is so
that’s because perception yourself is so subjective it’s incredible
subjective it’s incredible
subjective it’s incredible the most beautiful person can feel ugly
the most beautiful person can feel ugly
the most beautiful person can feel ugly the ugliest person can feel beautiful
the ugliest person can feel beautiful
the ugliest person can feel beautiful doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t you know
doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t you know
doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t you know go to the gym it doesn’t mean that you
go to the gym it doesn’t mean that you
go to the gym it doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t dress well but rather you must
shouldn’t dress well but rather you must
shouldn’t dress well but rather you must manage your self-image in my experience
manage your self-image in my experience
manage your self-image in my experience the guys that are most tortured are
the guys that are most tortured are
the guys that are most tortured are always the guys that are almost the
always the guys that are almost the
always the guys that are almost the societal standard right so it’s like
societal standard right so it’s like
societal standard right so it’s like it’s that guy was like five eight five
it’s that guy was like five eight five
it’s that guy was like five eight five nine who’s so tortured that he’s not six
nine who’s so tortured that he’s not six
nine who’s so tortured that he’s not six feet because he almost made it and every
feet because he almost made it and every
feet because he almost made it and every time he looks in the mirror is like
like that right try to imagine that he
like that right try to imagine that he looks a certain way right and those guys
looks a certain way right and those guys
looks a certain way right and those guys get tortured conversely guy was like
get tortured conversely guy was like
get tortured conversely guy was like like say five five like I got buddies
like say five five like I got buddies
like say five five like I got buddies that are like five five five four even
that are like five five five four even
that are like five five five four even five two those guys oftentimes are the
five two those guys oftentimes are the
five two those guys oftentimes are the most comfortable juices themselves that
most comfortable juices themselves that
most comfortable juices themselves that you’ve ever seen and the reason why is
you’ve ever seen and the reason why is
you’ve ever seen and the reason why is because they’re in non-resistance
because they’re in non-resistance
because they’re in non-resistance there’s no possibility lying to
there’s no possibility lying to
there’s no possibility lying to themselves they’re six feet sitting
themselves they’re six feet sitting
themselves they’re six feet sitting there in the mirror going like that is
there in the mirror going like that is
there in the mirror going like that is not going to do anything for them so
not going to do anything for them so
not going to do anything for them so they just let go except themselves have
they just let go except themselves have
they just let go except themselves have fun have successes build on it and love
fun have successes build on it and love
fun have successes build on it and love light if you can’t change your thinking
light if you can’t change your thinking
light if you can’t change your thinking patterns your thinking patterns are all
patterns your thinking patterns are all
patterns your thinking patterns are all dug rise above consciousness as Eckhart
dug rise above consciousness as Eckhart
dug rise above consciousness as Eckhart Tolle let’s say become present to the
Tolle let’s say become present to the
Tolle let’s say become present to the moment you don’t even need to change
moment you don’t even need to change
moment you don’t even need to change your thinking patterns if your present
your thinking patterns if your present
your thinking patterns if your present to the moment there’s a major reason why
to the moment there’s a major reason why
to the moment there’s a major reason why at car toll is the most profound
at car toll is the most profound
at car toll is the most profound influence in my life for me to change my
influence in my life for me to change my
influence in my life for me to change my thinking patterns is so difficult it is
thinking patterns is so difficult it is
thinking patterns is so difficult it is so hard the only way that I can fix it
so hard the only way that I can fix it
so hard the only way that I can fix it is to go above thought do you guys see
is to go above thought do you guys see
is to go above thought do you guys see it I’m saying here it’s that up see for
it I’m saying here it’s that up see for
it I’m saying here it’s that up see for a lot of you guys who have a more
a lot of you guys who have a more
a lot of you guys who have a more positive thinking pattern autopilot it’s
positive thinking pattern autopilot it’s
positive thinking pattern autopilot it’s actually harder for you to become
actually harder for you to become
actually harder for you to become present because you like your thoughts
present because you like your thoughts
present because you like your thoughts but then when they become negative it’s
but then when they become negative it’s
but then when they become negative it’s harder to deal with because you’re used
harder to deal with because you’re used
harder to deal with because you’re used to your thoughts and you’re attached to
to your thoughts and you’re attached to
to your thoughts and you’re attached to them for somebody like me it’s very easy
them for somebody like me it’s very easy
them for somebody like me it’s very easy to be present can you guys guess why
to be present can you guys guess why
to be present can you guys guess why what happens when I stop being present
what happens when I stop being present
what happens when I stop being present feel bad Sam up here nice and present
feel bad Sam up here nice and present
feel bad Sam up here nice and present and then I go back down to the thaad
like that right it’s like say that you
like that right it’s like say that you got hit in a bunch of car accidents your
got hit in a bunch of car accidents your
got hit in a bunch of car accidents your spines off nub but if you maintain
spines off nub but if you maintain
spines off nub but if you maintain perfect posture you’ll be good you’ll
perfect posture you’ll be good you’ll
perfect posture you’ll be good you’ll actually a better posture than someone
actually a better posture than someone
actually a better posture than someone who has average posture or even good
who has average posture or even good
who has average posture or even good posture because you’re the accent forced
posture because you’re the accent forced
posture because you’re the accent forced you to have perfect posture so if you’re
you to have perfect posture so if you’re
you to have perfect posture so if you’re hardcase newbie
hardcase newbie
hardcase newbie the hope for you is that you can
the hope for you is that you can
the hope for you is that you can actually become better than the guy that
actually become better than the guy that
actually become better than the guy that has an average Anthony Robbins says the
has an average Anthony Robbins says the
has an average Anthony Robbins says the enemy of the best is the good so if you
enemy of the best is the good so if you
enemy of the best is the good so if you use the leverage that your situation is
use the leverage that your situation is
use the leverage that your situation is so up and so lame and you use that as
so up and so lame and you use that as
so up and so lame and you use that as leverage you’ll wind up better than most
leverage you’ll wind up better than most
leverage you’ll wind up better than most guys people can look at me and it almost
guys people can look at me and it almost
guys people can look at me and it almost pisses them off that sounds like that
pisses them off that sounds like that
pisses them off that sounds like that guy gets results I’m pissed right and
guy gets results I’m pissed right and
guy gets results I’m pissed right and kind of pissed them off and then they
kind of pissed them off and then they
kind of pissed them off and then they got it like deny to themselves and stuff
got it like deny to themselves and stuff
got it like deny to themselves and stuff you know yeah they couldn’t even see
you know yeah they couldn’t even see
you know yeah they couldn’t even see videos everyone
videos everyone
videos everyone to actress it can’t be he’s uglier than
to actress it can’t be he’s uglier than
to actress it can’t be he’s uglier than me and he’s got a girl actress right no
me and he’s got a girl actress right no
me and he’s got a girl actress right no dude you just didn’t go out I didn’t you
dude you just didn’t go out I didn’t you
dude you just didn’t go out I didn’t you didn’t I’ve actually thought sometimes
didn’t I’ve actually thought sometimes
didn’t I’ve actually thought sometimes of creating a video called what I did
of creating a video called what I did
of creating a video called what I did while you didn’t do it
while you didn’t do it
while you didn’t do it or what I was doing while you were no no
or what I was doing while you were no no
or what I was doing while you were no no I was thinking calling out what I was
I was thinking calling out what I was
I was thinking calling out what I was doing while you were doing what you were
doing while you were doing what you were
doing while you were doing what you were doing and I was gonna like enact the
doing and I was gonna like enact the
doing and I was gonna like enact the whole thing so I feel like what you were
whole thing so I feel like what you were
whole thing so I feel like what you were doing like watching TV the like this
doing like watching TV the like this
doing like watching TV the like this what I was doing like me just kind of
what I was doing like me just kind of
what I was doing like me just kind of hustling through my life going through
hustling through my life going through
hustling through my life going through my boring little menial repetitive tasks
my boring little menial repetitive tasks
my boring little menial repetitive tasks that I do every day that improve me
0.000001 percent and that add up over
0.000001 percent and that add up over time I really think I should make a
time I really think I should make a
time I really think I should make a video myself just going through my day
video myself just going through my day
video myself just going through my day and just show me doing it every day so
and just show me doing it every day so
and just show me doing it every day so people can see the menial slow boring
people can see the menial slow boring
people can see the menial slow boring nature of progress because for every
nature of progress because for every
nature of progress because for every public victory you have you have a
public victory you have you have a
public victory you have you have a private victory you know for every
private victory you know for every
private victory you know for every kick-ass video I put up online there’s
kick-ass video I put up online there’s
kick-ass video I put up online there’s those hundreds of hours that I spent at
those hundreds of hours that I spent at
those hundreds of hours that I spent at home looking at my video footage looking
home looking at my video footage looking
home looking at my video footage looking at other speakers comparing it
at other speakers comparing it
at other speakers comparing it contrasting it and learning how to be a
contrasting it and learning how to be a
contrasting it and learning how to be a better speaker for every hot seat video
better speaker for every hot seat video
better speaker for every hot seat video that you see of me where I do some epic
that you see of me where I do some epic
that you see of me where I do some epic that blows your mind there’s all that
that blows your mind there’s all that
that blows your mind there’s all that time that I spent going out doing menial
time that I spent going out doing menial
time that I spent going out doing menial little approaches again and
little approaches again and
little approaches again and again and again and then going home and
again and again and then going home and
again and again and then going home and looking at what I did and how I could
looking at what I did and how I could
looking at what I did and how I could improve it and on and on for every
improve it and on and on for every
improve it and on and on for every kick-ass freaking out boot camp student
kick-ass freaking out boot camp student
kick-ass freaking out boot camp student that I have that loved the program
that I have that loved the program
that I have that loved the program there’s those 50 weekends a year that I
there’s those 50 weekends a year that I
there’s those 50 weekends a year that I went out and taught learn every little
went out and taught learn every little
went out and taught learn every little nuance of the thing again and again and
nuance of the thing again and again and
nuance of the thing again and again and again for a decade so you know that’s
again for a decade so you know that’s
again for a decade so you know that’s kind of like what success is like I hope
kind of like what success is like I hope
kind of like what success is like I hope that I’m that you know I provide an
that I’m that you know I provide an
that I’m that you know I provide an example of a guy who is untalented
example of a guy who is untalented
example of a guy who is untalented funny-looking and shouldn’t be able to
funny-looking and shouldn’t be able to
funny-looking and shouldn’t be able to do it and is stunting on all your faces
do it and is stunting on all your faces
do it and is stunting on all your faces and and um you know and that you can see
and and um you know and that you can see
and and um you know and that you can see that and say oh if that little
that and say oh if that little
that and say oh if that little dweeb can do it I can do it
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