
January 15th is the cutoff statistics show that 95% of the people
statistics show that 95% of the people
statistics show that 95% of the people that actually made a New Year’s
that actually made a New Year’s
that actually made a New Year’s resolution have already broken it by
resolution have already broken it by
resolution have already broken it by today and that’s if you even made a
today and that’s if you even made a
today and that’s if you even made a resolution now if you’re the exception
resolution now if you’re the exception
resolution now if you’re the exception to that I’m thrilled for you and I
to that I’m thrilled for you and I
to that I’m thrilled for you and I support you and I say keep rocking it
support you and I say keep rocking it
support you and I say keep rocking it but if you’ve missed maybe I could drop
but if you’ve missed maybe I could drop
but if you’ve missed maybe I could drop you a quick little message or two here
you a quick little message or two here
you a quick little message or two here that can help you not only recover but
that can help you not only recover but
that can help you not only recover but get way beyond just making some new
get way beyond just making some new
get way beyond just making some new year’s resolution and make some real
year’s resolution and make some real
year’s resolution and make some real lasting change in your life I mean think
lasting change in your life I mean think
lasting change in your life I mean think about it most people don’t even make a
about it most people don’t even make a
about it most people don’t even make a resolution anymore why because they’ve
resolution anymore why because they’ve
resolution anymore why because they’ve made them from years and years and years
made them from years and years and years
made them from years and years and years and they know they’re not gonna follow
and they know they’re not gonna follow
and they know they’re not gonna follow through so after a while who wants to
through so after a while who wants to
through so after a while who wants to disappoint yourself who wants to be
disappoint yourself who wants to be
disappoint yourself who wants to be upset with yourself why even bother to
upset with yourself why even bother to
upset with yourself why even bother to set a new standard for this year you
set a new standard for this year you
set a new standard for this year you know it’s gonna be the same as last year
know it’s gonna be the same as last year
know it’s gonna be the same as last year if you’re the kind of person watching
if you’re the kind of person watching
if you’re the kind of person watching this right now and you’ve actually
this right now and you’ve actually
this right now and you’ve actually opened this email and you haven’t shut
opened this email and you haven’t shut
opened this email and you haven’t shut me off already then obviously that’s not
me off already then obviously that’s not
me off already then obviously that’s not you so the question is you know what is
you so the question is you know what is
you so the question is you know what is it that makes us even want to make a
it that makes us even want to make a
it that makes us even want to make a resolution interesting question why is
resolution interesting question why is
resolution interesting question why is it at the beginning of the year we have
it at the beginning of the year we have
it at the beginning of the year we have this tradition but it goes beyond
this tradition but it goes beyond
this tradition but it goes beyond tradition it’s something inside of us
tradition it’s something inside of us
tradition it’s something inside of us that makes us want to make things better
that makes us want to make things better
that makes us want to make things better and I think part of it is the calendar
and I think part of it is the calendar
and I think part of it is the calendar gives us this idea that we could have a
gives us this idea that we could have a
gives us this idea that we could have a fresh start that we can start from fresh
fresh start that we can start from fresh
fresh start that we can start from fresh and have this great victory and it’s
and have this great victory and it’s
and have this great victory and it’s really the calendar itself is quite
really the calendar itself is quite
really the calendar itself is quite arbitrary it’s wonderful to use it but
arbitrary it’s wonderful to use it but
arbitrary it’s wonderful to use it but if you didn’t use it effectively let’s
if you didn’t use it effectively let’s
if you didn’t use it effectively let’s use the calendar to serve you today
use the calendar to serve you today
use the calendar to serve you today let’s just see what does it really take
let’s just see what does it really take
let’s just see what does it really take to make this thing happen because
to make this thing happen because
to make this thing happen because there’s no denying that inside of you
there’s no denying that inside of you
there’s no denying that inside of you the only thing that’s gonna make you
the only thing that’s gonna make you
the only thing that’s gonna make you happy and the your head and the decades
happy and the your head and the decades
happy and the your head and the decades ahead it’s gonna be having you of an
ahead it’s gonna be having you of an
ahead it’s gonna be having you of an experience where on a regular basis you
experience where on a regular basis you
experience where on a regular basis you feel like your life is making progress
feel like your life is making progress
feel like your life is making progress if there’s one thing I teach and I wanna
if there’s one thing I teach and I wanna
if there’s one thing I teach and I wanna remind you of it it’s really simple
remind you of it it’s really simple
remind you of it it’s really simple things getting things is not gonna make
things getting things is not gonna make
things getting things is not gonna make you happy that’s good news in a tough
you happy that’s good news in a tough
you happy that’s good news in a tough economy it’s a good reminder you know it
economy it’s a good reminder you know it
economy it’s a good reminder you know it doesn’t matter what you get doesn’t
doesn’t matter what you get doesn’t
doesn’t matter what you get doesn’t matter whether it be money or
matter whether it be money or
matter whether it be money or opportunity all those things might
opportunity all those things might
opportunity all those things might excite you for the moment you know even
excite you for the moment you know even
excite you for the moment you know even a relationship as magnificent it may be
a relationship as magnificent it may be
a relationship as magnificent it may be might be exciting for a while but if you
might be exciting for a while but if you
might be exciting for a while but if you don’t keep growing that relationship
don’t keep growing that relationship
don’t keep growing that relationship isn’t gonna stay exciting so the secret
isn’t gonna stay exciting so the secret
isn’t gonna stay exciting so the secret to real happiness is progress progress
to real happiness is progress progress
to real happiness is progress progress equals happiness and if we can make
equals happiness and if we can make
equals happiness and if we can make progress on a regular basis we feel
progress on a regular basis we feel
progress on a regular basis we feel alive and that’s why at the beginning of
alive and that’s why at the beginning of
alive and that’s why at the beginning of the year we get this thing like okay I
the year we get this thing like okay I
the year we get this thing like okay I can have this fresh
can have this fresh
can have this fresh I could really do what my soul desires I
I could really do what my soul desires I
I could really do what my soul desires I could expand I can grow I can improve I
could expand I can grow I can improve I
could expand I can grow I can improve I could change or maybe better than change
could change or maybe better than change
could change or maybe better than change I could progress see think about that
I could progress see think about that
I could progress see think about that progress isn’t aliveness to it doesn’t
progress isn’t aliveness to it doesn’t
progress isn’t aliveness to it doesn’t it you don’t don’t work at changing
it you don’t don’t work at changing
it you don’t don’t work at changing people say all the time that allow I’m
people say all the time that allow I’m
people say all the time that allow I’m working on changing don’t worry about it
working on changing don’t worry about it
working on changing don’t worry about it if the work on unchanging changes
if the work on unchanging changes
if the work on unchanging changes automatic your body’s gonna change
automatic your body’s gonna change
automatic your body’s gonna change whether you want it or not as the years
whether you want it or not as the years
whether you want it or not as the years go by you no matter how hard you work
go by you no matter how hard you work
go by you no matter how hard you work there’s gonna be some changes going on
there’s gonna be some changes going on
there’s gonna be some changes going on there and the economy is gonna change no
there and the economy is gonna change no
there and the economy is gonna change no matter what you want it to do the
matter what you want it to do the
matter what you want it to do the weather is gonna change relationships
weather is gonna change relationships
weather is gonna change relationships are gonna change everything in life is
are gonna change everything in life is
are gonna change everything in life is always changing we’ll have to work on
always changing we’ll have to work on
always changing we’ll have to work on change change is automatic but progress
change change is automatic but progress
change change is automatic but progress is not so if you want to make real
is not so if you want to make real
is not so if you want to make real progress then you really got to look at
progress then you really got to look at
progress then you really got to look at your life in a different way you gotta
your life in a different way you gotta
your life in a different way you gotta say I gotta take control of this process
say I gotta take control of this process
say I gotta take control of this process and not just hope that’s gonna work out
and not just hope that’s gonna work out
and not just hope that’s gonna work out like people do who make a resolution cuz
like people do who make a resolution cuz
like people do who make a resolution cuz really isn’t that what they’re really
really isn’t that what they’re really
really isn’t that what they’re really doing at the beginning of the year
doing at the beginning of the year
doing at the beginning of the year they’re saying well here’s my
they’re saying well here’s my
they’re saying well here’s my resolutions for the year and they really
resolutions for the year and they really
resolutions for the year and they really basically tell you their wishes it’s
basically tell you their wishes it’s
basically tell you their wishes it’s their wish list it’s what they hope it
their wish list it’s what they hope it
their wish list it’s what they hope it all comes together and then they call it
all comes together and then they call it
all comes together and then they call it a resolution but they don’t know what a
a resolution but they don’t know what a
a resolution but they don’t know what a resolution is when you resolve something
resolution is when you resolve something
resolution is when you resolve something to have a resolution is to resolve it
to have a resolution is to resolve it
to have a resolution is to resolve it when you’ve resolved this is how it’s
when you’ve resolved this is how it’s
when you’ve resolved this is how it’s gonna be that’s when you cut off any
gonna be that’s when you cut off any
gonna be that’s when you cut off any possibility except the thing you’ve
possibility except the thing you’ve
possibility except the thing you’ve committed to it’s like the old adage if
committed to it’s like the old adage if
committed to it’s like the old adage if you want to take the island and you burn
you want to take the island and you burn
you want to take the island and you burn the boats because when you burn those
the boats because when you burn those
the boats because when you burn those boats there’s no going back you’re gonna
boats there’s no going back you’re gonna
boats there’s no going back you’re gonna find a way to make things work and most
find a way to make things work and most
find a way to make things work and most people they’re standing what they hope
people they’re standing what they hope
people they’re standing what they hope will come together and if it doesn’t
will come together and if it doesn’t
will come together and if it doesn’t happen then they’re disappointed but
happen then they’re disappointed but
happen then they’re disappointed but they’re not too disappointed cuz they’re
they’re not too disappointed cuz they’re
they’re not too disappointed cuz they’re not too vested what does it take to
not too vested what does it take to
not too vested what does it take to successfully create a lasting change in
successfully create a lasting change in
successfully create a lasting change in your life to not only have a new year’s
your life to not only have a new year’s
your life to not only have a new year’s resolution you follow through on but
resolution you follow through on but
resolution you follow through on but really have a lasting change well the
really have a lasting change well the
really have a lasting change well the first step for lasting change is very
first step for lasting change is very
first step for lasting change is very much like making a new year’s resolution
much like making a new year’s resolution
much like making a new year’s resolution fundamentally it’s the same the first
fundamentally it’s the same the first
fundamentally it’s the same the first step is you got to have a vision a
step is you got to have a vision a
step is you got to have a vision a vision for what it is you really truly
vision for what it is you really truly
vision for what it is you really truly want not what you think you want or what
want not what you think you want or what
want not what you think you want or what you should have I mean one of most
you should have I mean one of most
you should have I mean one of most people’s New Year’s resolutions I’m
people’s New Year’s resolutions I’m
people’s New Year’s resolutions I’m gonna stop eating sugar you know I’m
gonna stop eating sugar you know I’m
gonna stop eating sugar you know I’m gonna stop smoking I’m gonna lose 10
gonna stop smoking I’m gonna lose 10
gonna stop smoking I’m gonna lose 10 pounds table that is it’s not very
pounds table that is it’s not very
pounds table that is it’s not very inspiring for most people you know it’s
inspiring for most people you know it’s
inspiring for most people you know it’s not telling you what you’re gonna get
not telling you what you’re gonna get
not telling you what you’re gonna get it’s only what you’re not gonna do it’s
it’s only what you’re not gonna do it’s
it’s only what you’re not gonna do it’s kind of hard to have you move
kind of hard to have you move
kind of hard to have you move with that a vision is about what you’re
with that a vision is about what you’re
with that a vision is about what you’re here to create a vision that really
here to create a vision that really
here to create a vision that really works as one that excites you if you say
works as one that excites you if you say
works as one that excites you if you say well my you know my resolution my goal
well my you know my resolution my goal
well my you know my resolution my goal my outcome for this month this week this
my outcome for this month this week this
my outcome for this month this week this year is to lose X number of pounds
year is to lose X number of pounds
year is to lose X number of pounds that’s okay but it’s not very compelling
that’s okay but it’s not very compelling
that’s okay but it’s not very compelling it has to be a compelling vision it’s
it has to be a compelling vision it’s
it has to be a compelling vision it’s gotta have something has the power to
gotta have something has the power to
gotta have something has the power to pull you not something you have to push
pull you not something you have to push
pull you not something you have to push yourself to do those are two different
yourself to do those are two different
yourself to do those are two different kinds of motivation push requires
kinds of motivation push requires
kinds of motivation push requires willpower and willpower never lasts what
willpower and willpower never lasts what
willpower and willpower never lasts what will last is pull having something so
will last is pull having something so
will last is pull having something so exciting so attractive so somebody who
exciting so attractive so somebody who
exciting so attractive so somebody who desires so much that you have a hard
desires so much that you have a hard
desires so much that you have a hard time going to sleep at night and gets so
time going to sleep at night and gets so
time going to sleep at night and gets so up early in the morning to rock it and
up early in the morning to rock it and
up early in the morning to rock it and take it to the next level that’s what
take it to the next level that’s what
take it to the next level that’s what you’re looking at great and that wasn’t
you’re looking at great and that wasn’t
you’re looking at great and that wasn’t easy to get but one of the reasons we do
easy to get but one of the reasons we do
easy to get but one of the reasons we do seminars and events and be saying you
seminars and events and be saying you
seminars and events and be saying you know why do that why isn’t why not just
know why do that why isn’t why not just
know why do that why isn’t why not just read a book or something is because when
read a book or something is because when
read a book or something is because when you give it an environment where you’re
you give it an environment where you’re
you give it an environment where you’re with people that are being put in a peak
with people that are being put in a peak
with people that are being put in a peak state like when you’re going to a
state like when you’re going to a
state like when you’re going to a sporting event if you watch the sporting
sporting event if you watch the sporting
sporting event if you watch the sporting event at home it might have a certain
event at home it might have a certain
event at home it might have a certain level of excitement but when you’re in a
level of excitement but when you’re in a
level of excitement but when you’re in a stadium with 50,000 people suddenly it
stadium with 50,000 people suddenly it
stadium with 50,000 people suddenly it has a whole different level of intensity
has a whole different level of intensity
has a whole different level of intensity when we feel that and the bottom line of
when we feel that and the bottom line of
when we feel that and the bottom line of our follow-through comes down to our
our follow-through comes down to our
our follow-through comes down to our emotional intensity in a different state
emotional intensity in a different state
emotional intensity in a different state of mind you’re gonna come up with a much
of mind you’re gonna come up with a much
of mind you’re gonna come up with a much better and more exciting vision than if
better and more exciting vision than if
better and more exciting vision than if you’re sitting the couch gun okay what
you’re sitting the couch gun okay what
you’re sitting the couch gun okay what am i new resolutions for this year and
am i new resolutions for this year and
am i new resolutions for this year and you’re doing it the morning after the
you’re doing it the morning after the
you’re doing it the morning after the new year started and you’re a little
new year started and you’re a little
new year started and you’re a little inebriated and the football games on in
inebriated and the football games on in
inebriated and the football games on in the background probably not gonna have
the background probably not gonna have
the background probably not gonna have the power of focus they’re probably not
the power of focus they’re probably not
the power of focus they’re probably not gonna have the power the energy to
gonna have the power the energy to
gonna have the power the energy to create something that’s gonna pull you
create something that’s gonna pull you
create something that’s gonna pull you for this year and you got to do that so
for this year and you got to do that so
for this year and you got to do that so it’s got to be a vision that’s
it’s got to be a vision that’s
it’s got to be a vision that’s compelling something that you know it’s
compelling something that you know it’s
compelling something that you know it’s gonna be a gift to make sure that it
gonna be a gift to make sure that it
gonna be a gift to make sure that it happens and also along with that
happens and also along with that
happens and also along with that compelling vision you gotta have strong
compelling vision you gotta have strong
compelling vision you gotta have strong enough reasons that you’re gonna follow
enough reasons that you’re gonna follow
enough reasons that you’re gonna follow through and the going gets tough that’s
through and the going gets tough that’s
through and the going gets tough that’s one of the biggest things missing for
one of the biggest things missing for
one of the biggest things missing for most people they said this is what I
most people they said this is what I
most people they said this is what I want to do it’s not very exciting it’s
want to do it’s not very exciting it’s
want to do it’s not very exciting it’s not very compelling but most importantly
not very compelling but most importantly
not very compelling but most importantly they don’t have strong enough reasons to
they don’t have strong enough reasons to
they don’t have strong enough reasons to push themselves through what’s going to
push themselves through what’s going to
push themselves through what’s going to be necessary to get that dream to get
be necessary to get that dream to get
be necessary to get that dream to get that goal when the inevitable challenges
that goal when the inevitable challenges
that goal when the inevitable challenges come up when you’re starving hungry and
come up when you’re starving hungry and
come up when you’re starving hungry and you’re trying to go on a diet right when
you’re trying to go on a diet right when
you’re trying to go on a diet right when you got no time you’re stressed out and
you got no time you’re stressed out and
you got no time you’re stressed out and you haven’t worked out still that’s what
you haven’t worked out still that’s what
you haven’t worked out still that’s what you’re supposed to do when the economy
you’re supposed to do when the economy
you’re supposed to do when the economy gets tight
gets tight
gets tight and what you thought you’re gonna do it
and what you thought you’re gonna do it
and what you thought you’re gonna do it doesn’t work and so you give up on the
doesn’t work and so you give up on the
doesn’t work and so you give up on the goal instead of finding another way to
goal instead of finding another way to
goal instead of finding another way to get there you don’t let the fear take
get there you don’t let the fear take
get there you don’t let the fear take you over if you got strong enough
you over if you got strong enough
you over if you got strong enough reasons those reasons can be positive or
reasons those reasons can be positive or
reasons those reasons can be positive or those reasons can also be negative they
those reasons can also be negative they
those reasons can also be negative they can be if I don’t do this this it’s
can be if I don’t do this this it’s
can be if I don’t do this this it’s gonna cost me and if I do to this this
gonna cost me and if I do to this this
gonna cost me and if I do to this this is what I’m gonna gain in my life
is what I’m gonna gain in my life
is what I’m gonna gain in my life reasons come first answers come second
reasons come first answers come second
reasons come first answers come second if you get a compelling vision and you
if you get a compelling vision and you
if you get a compelling vision and you got strong enough reasons that will push
got strong enough reasons that will push
got strong enough reasons that will push you through the tough times you’re gonna
you through the tough times you’re gonna
you through the tough times you’re gonna do things other people don’t do instead
do things other people don’t do instead
do things other people don’t do instead of collapsing even if you get off target
of collapsing even if you get off target
of collapsing even if you get off target you won’t go oh I blew it you’ll get
you won’t go oh I blew it you’ll get
you won’t go oh I blew it you’ll get right back on target make the change
right back on target make the change
right back on target make the change make things happen and I know you’ve
make things happen and I know you’ve
make things happen and I know you’ve done this in many areas your life just
done this in many areas your life just
done this in many areas your life just think about it again I’m not teaching
think about it again I’m not teaching
think about it again I’m not teaching you something really new here today I
you something really new here today I
you something really new here today I just want to remind you what your soul
just want to remind you what your soul
just want to remind you what your soul knows you got a change you got to
knows you got a change you got to
knows you got a change you got to improve and you’ve got to go through a
improve and you’ve got to go through a
improve and you’ve got to go through a simple process fundamentally to make
simple process fundamentally to make
simple process fundamentally to make that progress first step vision that’s
that progress first step vision that’s
that progress first step vision that’s compelling second step make sure that
compelling second step make sure that
compelling second step make sure that they’re strong enough reason to follow
they’re strong enough reason to follow
they’re strong enough reason to follow through third step you got to review it
through third step you got to review it
through third step you got to review it and feel it every day I mean anything
and feel it every day I mean anything
and feel it every day I mean anything have you ever had this happen in your
have you ever had this happen in your
have you ever had this happen in your life has there been anything in your
life has there been anything in your
life has there been anything in your life that you’ve ever wanted so badly
life that you’ve ever wanted so badly
life that you’ve ever wanted so badly you were so desirous of it yeah it’s
you were so desirous of it yeah it’s
you were so desirous of it yeah it’s such a hunger for it that you couldn’t
such a hunger for it that you couldn’t
such a hunger for it that you couldn’t stop thinking about it could been a
stop thinking about it could been a
stop thinking about it could been a career move could have been when you’re
career move could have been when you’re
career move could have been when you’re a kid a car it could have been a
a kid a car it could have been a
a kid a car it could have been a relationship that could have been
relationship that could have been
relationship that could have been anything but you were obsessed you
anything but you were obsessed you
anything but you were obsessed you wanted to make this happen you wanted to
wanted to make this happen you wanted to
wanted to make this happen you wanted to attract this to your life you wanna you
attract this to your life you wanna you
attract this to your life you wanna you just wanted something and you didn’t
just wanted something and you didn’t
just wanted something and you didn’t even know how to get it but it was so
even know how to get it but it was so
even know how to get it but it was so compelling to you kept thinking about it
compelling to you kept thinking about it
compelling to you kept thinking about it every day and visioning and imagining it
every day and visioning and imagining it
every day and visioning and imagining it feeling it and then stuff happened and
feeling it and then stuff happened and
feeling it and then stuff happened and suddenly you started attract people or
suddenly you started attract people or
suddenly you started attract people or situations to your life and it just came
situations to your life and it just came
situations to your life and it just came together like you didn’t even have a
together like you didn’t even have a
together like you didn’t even have a total plan it was just that it was so a
total plan it was just that it was so a
total plan it was just that it was so a part of your focus with so much
part of your focus with so much
part of your focus with so much intensity and emotion so often that it
intensity and emotion so often that it
intensity and emotion so often that it sensitize you to notice anything that
sensitize you to notice anything that
sensitize you to notice anything that could get you there there’s a part of
could get you there there’s a part of
could get you there there’s a part of your brain called the reticular
your brain called the reticular
your brain called the reticular activating system for short we call it
activating system for short we call it
activating system for short we call it the RAS that part of your brain
the RAS that part of your brain
the RAS that part of your brain determines what you notice in the world
determines what you notice in the world
determines what you notice in the world and it’s really important because when
and it’s really important because when
and it’s really important because when you set a goal when you get really clear
you set a goal when you get really clear
you set a goal when you get really clear in a vision they’re strong enough
in a vision they’re strong enough
in a vision they’re strong enough reasons and you review it enough and it
reasons and you review it enough and it
reasons and you review it enough and it becomes a part of you that part of your
becomes a part of you that part of your
becomes a part of you that part of your brain says anything that relates to this
brain says anything that relates to this
brain says anything that relates to this I need to notice
I need to notice
I need to notice it’s like did you ever buy a certain
it’s like did you ever buy a certain
it’s like did you ever buy a certain kind of car or maybe a certain outfit
kind of car or maybe a certain outfit
kind of car or maybe a certain outfit and suddenly you see that car everywhere
and suddenly you see that car everywhere
and suddenly you see that car everywhere those outfits everywhere you know the
those outfits everywhere you know the
those outfits everywhere you know the cars were always around but why do you
cars were always around but why do you
cars were always around but why do you see it now because your Ras knows this
see it now because your Ras knows this
see it now because your Ras knows this is important this is part of my world
is important this is part of my world
is important this is part of my world now
now
now similarly when you really get clear and
similarly when you really get clear and
similarly when you really get clear and it’s compelling and you’re reviewing it
it’s compelling and you’re reviewing it
it’s compelling and you’re reviewing it every day got strong reasons you’re
every day got strong reasons you’re
every day got strong reasons you’re viewing it every day and you’re feeling
viewing it every day and you’re feeling
viewing it every day and you’re feeling it the brain becomes incredibly acute at
it the brain becomes incredibly acute at
it the brain becomes incredibly acute at noticing anything to get you to move
noticing anything to get you to move
noticing anything to get you to move forward and so that’s the power of this
forward and so that’s the power of this
forward and so that’s the power of this so you know what do people do with a new
so you know what do people do with a new
so you know what do people do with a new year’s resolution they come up with
year’s resolution they come up with
year’s resolution they come up with something they kind of want it’s not a
something they kind of want it’s not a
something they kind of want it’s not a compelling vision they don’t really have
compelling vision they don’t really have
compelling vision they don’t really have strong enough reasons and they never
strong enough reasons and they never
strong enough reasons and they never review it again and tell to notice that
review it again and tell to notice that
review it again and tell to notice that they broke what they said they really
they broke what they said they really
they broke what they said they really want to have make happen because they
want to have make happen because they
want to have make happen because they didn’t really resolve if you resolve you
didn’t really resolve if you resolve you
didn’t really resolve if you resolve you got the vision it’s compelling you
got the vision it’s compelling you
got the vision it’s compelling you review it daily and you feel it you
review it daily and you feel it you
review it daily and you feel it you envision it and you experience it simple
envision it and you experience it simple
envision it and you experience it simple as it sounds now ultimately what is this
as it sounds now ultimately what is this
as it sounds now ultimately what is this really about ultimately if you’re gonna
really about ultimately if you’re gonna
really about ultimately if you’re gonna have lasting change in anything you’re
have lasting change in anything you’re
have lasting change in anything you’re really talking about just raising your
really talking about just raising your
really talking about just raising your standards I mean I always tell people if
standards I mean I always tell people if
standards I mean I always tell people if you want to know how to change your life
you want to know how to change your life
you want to know how to change your life and give it to you in three words boring
and give it to you in three words boring
and give it to you in three words boring as it sounds raise your standards and
as it sounds raise your standards and
as it sounds raise your standards and what does that mean corny as it sounds
what does that mean corny as it sounds
what does that mean corny as it sounds raise your standards I’ll thank you for
raise your standards I’ll thank you for
raise your standards I’ll thank you for the breakthrough thought Tony I mean
the breakthrough thought Tony I mean
the breakthrough thought Tony I mean I’ve wasted my time watching this little
I’ve wasted my time watching this little
I’ve wasted my time watching this little email with you but think about it
email with you but think about it
email with you but think about it lasting change is different than a goal
lasting change is different than a goal
lasting change is different than a goal you don’t always get your goals but you
you don’t always get your goals but you
you don’t always get your goals but you always get your standards maybe it’ll
always get your standards maybe it’ll
always get your standards maybe it’ll help you is to think about it this way I
help you is to think about it this way I
help you is to think about it this way I try to explain standards to people with
try to explain standards to people with
try to explain standards to people with a different set of words think of it as
a different set of words think of it as
a different set of words think of it as everybody in life gets their must they
everybody in life gets their must they
everybody in life gets their must they don’t get their right think about
don’t get their right think about
don’t get their right think about it you must be above a list of shits no
it you must be above a list of shits no
it you must be above a list of shits no they don’t you have a list of the
they don’t you have a list of the
they don’t you have a list of the shoulds things you should do you should
shoulds things you should do you should
shoulds things you should do you should follow through on I I should lose some
follow through on I I should lose some
follow through on I I should lose some weight I should work out more I should
weight I should work out more I should
weight I should work out more I should make more calls I should respond more
make more calls I should respond more
make more calls I should respond more rapidly to my email whatever you know I
rapidly to my email whatever you know I
rapidly to my email whatever you know I should get into the office earlier I
should get into the office earlier I
should get into the office earlier I should be you know more confident
should be you know more confident
should be you know more confident whatever your list is people love
whatever your list is people love
whatever your list is people love to have their should list make me net
to have their should list make me net
to have their should list make me net but it’s kind of like New Year’s
but it’s kind of like New Year’s
but it’s kind of like New Year’s resolutions if it does it’s really
resolutions if it does it’s really
resolutions if it does it’s really exciting but if it doesn’t which is most
exciting but if it doesn’t which is most
exciting but if it doesn’t which is most the time it’s a little disappointing but
the time it’s a little disappointing but
the time it’s a little disappointing but you kind of know it’s not gonna happen
you kind of know it’s not gonna happen
you kind of know it’s not gonna happen but when you decide something as a must
but when you decide something as a must
but when you decide something as a must for you an absolute must when you cut up
for you an absolute must when you cut up
for you an absolute must when you cut up any possible you say I’m gonna find the
any possible you say I’m gonna find the
any possible you say I’m gonna find the way I’m gonna make the
way I’m gonna make the
way I’m gonna make the human beings when they resolve things
human beings when they resolve things
human beings when they resolve things and they have make a real resolution
and they have make a real resolution
and they have make a real resolution inside themselves which is they raised
inside themselves which is they raised
inside themselves which is they raised the standard they make it a must they
the standard they make it a must they
the standard they make it a must they find the way think about in your own
find the way think about in your own
find the way think about in your own life happens you had some area of your
life happens you had some area of your
life happens you had some area of your life where you raise your standard and
life where you raise your standard and
life where you raise your standard and your life has never been the same maybe
your life has never been the same maybe
your life has never been the same maybe at one time your life you use smoke
at one time your life you use smoke
at one time your life you use smoke cigarettes or you did something and you
cigarettes or you did something and you
cigarettes or you did something and you did it for years
did it for years
did it for years and you kept trying to change it trying
and you kept trying to change it trying
and you kept trying to change it trying to change it and kept telling yourself I
to change it and kept telling yourself I
to change it and kept telling yourself I should and then one day something
should and then one day something
should and then one day something happened something just clicked you over
happened something just clicked you over
happened something just clicked you over something took you over that kind of
something took you over that kind of
something took you over that kind of tipping point and inside yourself you
tipping point and inside yourself you
tipping point and inside yourself you said no more it was a very very
said no more it was a very very
said no more it was a very very different experience wasn’t it something
different experience wasn’t it something
different experience wasn’t it something inside of you shifted and what was a
inside of you shifted and what was a
inside of you shifted and what was a should became a must and you’ve never
should became a must and you’ve never
should became a must and you’ve never gone back is there an area like that in
gone back is there an area like that in
gone back is there an area like that in your life you could think of again I
your life you could think of again I
your life you could think of again I ever smoked cigarettes did you ever eat
ever smoked cigarettes did you ever eat
ever smoked cigarettes did you ever eat a certain way drink a certain form of
a certain way drink a certain form of
a certain way drink a certain form of alcohol and then finally say no more and
alcohol and then finally say no more and
alcohol and then finally say no more and you just don’t go back and notice this
you just don’t go back and notice this
you just don’t go back and notice this it doesn’t really take any willpower
it doesn’t really take any willpower
it doesn’t really take any willpower anymore because somewhere when we make
anymore because somewhere when we make
anymore because somewhere when we make this click we make something a must we
this click we make something a must we
this click we make something a must we attach ourselves to it it becomes part
attach ourselves to it it becomes part
attach ourselves to it it becomes part of our identity the one thing I’ve
of our identity the one thing I’ve
of our identity the one thing I’ve learned in the last gosh 33 years at
learned in the last gosh 33 years at
learned in the last gosh 33 years at working with people from now over 100
working with people from now over 100
working with people from now over 100 countries four million people is human
countries four million people is human
countries four million people is human beings absolutely follow through on who
beings absolutely follow through on who
beings absolutely follow through on who they believe they are and you said said
they believe they are and you said said
they believe they are and you said said to me well I’m really gonna work hard to
to me well I’m really gonna work hard to
to me well I’m really gonna work hard to stop smoking but you know I’ve been a
stop smoking but you know I’ve been a
stop smoking but you know I’ve been a smoker my whole life and I’m you know I
smoker my whole life and I’m you know I
smoker my whole life and I’m you know I am a smoker I know your days are
am a smoker I know your days are
am a smoker I know your days are numbered you gonna be back smoking
numbered you gonna be back smoking
numbered you gonna be back smoking cigarettes again because we all act
cigarettes again because we all act
cigarettes again because we all act consistent with who we believe we are
consistent with who we believe we are
consistent with who we believe we are I tell people the strongest force in the
I tell people the strongest force in the
I tell people the strongest force in the whole human personality is this need to
whole human personality is this need to
whole human personality is this need to stay consistent with how we define
stay consistent with how we define
stay consistent with how we define ourselves
ourselves
ourselves if you define yourself as somebody who
if you define yourself as somebody who
if you define yourself as somebody who is really conservative you’re not gonna
is really conservative you’re not gonna
is really conservative you’re not gonna be crazy and act nuts unless you’re
be crazy and act nuts unless you’re
be crazy and act nuts unless you’re really drunk or something and then you
really drunk or something and then you
really drunk or something and then you can say it’s the alcohol when it really
can say it’s the alcohol when it really
can say it’s the alcohol when it really does you finally getting permission to
does you finally getting permission to
does you finally getting permission to be yourself the alcohol is your excuse
be yourself the alcohol is your excuse
be yourself the alcohol is your excuse if you’re a really crazy person you act
if you’re a really crazy person you act
if you’re a really crazy person you act crazy outrageous playful you don’t act
crazy outrageous playful you don’t act
crazy outrageous playful you don’t act conservative because it’s not who you
conservative because it’s not who you
conservative because it’s not who you are
are
are burn often people say well I can’t do
burn often people say well I can’t do
burn often people say well I can’t do that I’m not that kind of person and I
that I’m not that kind of person and I
that I’m not that kind of person and I always say to people really
always say to people really
always say to people really when did you define yourself I mean
when did you define yourself I mean
when did you define yourself I mean really how many years ago did you come
really how many years ago did you come
really how many years ago did you come up with what you could and couldn’t do
up with what you could and couldn’t do
up with what you could and couldn’t do in your life how many years ago most
in your life how many years ago most
in your life how many years ago most people if they really look at how
people if they really look at how
people if they really look at how they’re living their life today it’s
they’re living their life today it’s
they’re living their life today it’s based on a set of standards a set of
based on a set of standards a set of
based on a set of standards a set of beliefs that they made choices about 10
beliefs that they made choices about 10
beliefs that they made choices about 10 20 30 or more years ago I mean very
20 30 or more years ago I mean very
20 30 or more years ago I mean very often we made decisions in our youth or
often we made decisions in our youth or
often we made decisions in our youth or very young about what to believe about
very young about what to believe about
very young about what to believe about what we were capable of about who we are
what we were capable of about who we are
what we were capable of about who we are as a person and that becomes the glass
as a person and that becomes the glass
as a person and that becomes the glass ceiling a few well that controls us
ceiling a few well that controls us
ceiling a few well that controls us there’s a corny metaphor but it’s true I
there’s a corny metaphor but it’s true I
there’s a corny metaphor but it’s true I remember one time I was with my family
remember one time I was with my family
remember one time I was with my family at the circus and there’s a person there
at the circus and there’s a person there
at the circus and there’s a person there and they had this big giant elephant and
and they had this big giant elephant and
and they had this big giant elephant and you look at this elephant and they take
you look at this elephant and they take
you look at this elephant and they take this little rope put it around the
this little rope put it around the
this little rope put it around the health and snack and they drive the
health and snack and they drive the
health and snack and they drive the stake into the ground and I mean you
stake into the ground and I mean you
stake into the ground and I mean you look at this you know that elephant
look at this you know that elephant
look at this you know that elephant could rip down the entire tent with
could rip down the entire tent with
could rip down the entire tent with almost no effort and yet the elephant
almost no effort and yet the elephant
almost no effort and yet the elephant doesn’t struggle doesn’t try why cuz the
doesn’t struggle doesn’t try why cuz the
doesn’t struggle doesn’t try why cuz the elephant’s conditioned and they take
elephant’s conditioned and they take
elephant’s conditioned and they take that elephant conditioned the elephant
that elephant conditioned the elephant
that elephant conditioned the elephant when it’s a baby elephant that’s how
when it’s a baby elephant that’s how
when it’s a baby elephant that’s how they train them when it’s a little baby
they train them when it’s a little baby
they train them when it’s a little baby elephant and it doesn’t have the power
elephant and it doesn’t have the power
elephant and it doesn’t have the power yet they put a big rope around it and
yet they put a big rope around it and
yet they put a big rope around it and they drive this huge stake in the ground
they drive this huge stake in the ground
they drive this huge stake in the ground and your elephant fights and fights and
and your elephant fights and fights and
and your elephant fights and fights and fights and one day finally that often
fights and one day finally that often
fights and one day finally that often decides I’m not capable of pulling this
decides I’m not capable of pulling this
decides I’m not capable of pulling this out and once that becomes the definition
out and once that becomes the definition
out and once that becomes the definition of an identity of anyone and elephants
of an identity of anyone and elephants
of an identity of anyone and elephants in this case they don’t even try anymore
in this case they don’t even try anymore
in this case they don’t even try anymore it’s just who I am that’s how it is
it’s just who I am that’s how it is
it’s just who I am that’s how it is that’s just the way it is in my life I’d
that’s just the way it is in my life I’d
that’s just the way it is in my life I’d like to ask you to take a look at any
like to ask you to take a look at any
like to ask you to take a look at any place you’ve got a limitation ask
place you’ve got a limitation ask
place you’ve got a limitation ask yourself when did I decide to accept
yourself when did I decide to accept
yourself when did I decide to accept that limitation and you may not even see
that limitation and you may not even see
that limitation and you may not even see it as a limitation you might see there
it as a limitation you might see there
it as a limitation you might see there just that’s who I am but so often our
just that’s who I am but so often our
just that’s who I am but so often our lives we’ve adapted to be a certain way
lives we’ve adapted to be a certain way
lives we’ve adapted to be a certain way so that we don’t fail or so that people
so that we don’t fail or so that people
so that we don’t fail or so that people will like us or respect us but it’s not
will like us or respect us but it’s not
will like us or respect us but it’s not necessarily who we are joy comes when
necessarily who we are joy comes when
necessarily who we are joy comes when you’re spontaneous it’s really hard to
you’re spontaneous it’s really hard to
you’re spontaneous it’s really hard to be truly happy when you’re not being
be truly happy when you’re not being
be truly happy when you’re not being yourself and most of us have no clue who
yourself and most of us have no clue who
yourself and most of us have no clue who we are and so a big part of my work if
we are and so a big part of my work if
we are and so a big part of my work if you’ve ever been to an event you know is
you’ve ever been to an event you know is
you’ve ever been to an event you know is to get people and do things
to get people and do things
to get people and do things spontaneously without thinking because
spontaneously without thinking because
spontaneously without thinking because that’s when the real you shows up that’s
that’s when the real you shows up that’s
that’s when the real you shows up that’s when the energy comes alive and when you
when the energy comes alive and when you
when the energy comes alive and when you do that when you start to connect your
do that when you start to connect your
do that when you start to connect your true nature suddenly there’s energy
true nature suddenly there’s energy
true nature suddenly there’s energy available for you to set a higher
available for you to set a higher
available for you to set a higher standard for what you want in your life
standard for what you want in your life
standard for what you want in your life that’s what this is really all about
that’s what this is really all about
that’s what this is really all about and when I talk about standards when I
and when I talk about standards when I
and when I talk about standards when I talk about you know shoulds versus muss
talk about you know shoulds versus muss
talk about you know shoulds versus muss think about your own life I know there
think about your own life I know there
think about your own life I know there have been areas in your life where some
have been areas in your life where some
have been areas in your life where some point in time you just shift it and you
point in time you just shift it and you
point in time you just shift it and you raise the standard in your life change
raise the standard in your life change
raise the standard in your life change because whatever people have their
because whatever people have their
because whatever people have their identity attached to they live we live
identity attached to they live we live
identity attached to they live we live who we believe we are that’s just how it
who we believe we are that’s just how it
who we believe we are that’s just how it works it’s just kind of like I give an
works it’s just kind of like I give an
works it’s just kind of like I give an example look at your physical body your
example look at your physical body your
example look at your physical body your physical body today is an absolute
physical body today is an absolute
physical body today is an absolute reflection of only one thing
reflection of only one thing
reflection of only one thing not your goals not your desires but your
not your goals not your desires but your
not your goals not your desires but your standards the identity you have for
standards the identity you have for
standards the identity you have for yourself if your standard is you’re an
yourself if your standard is you’re an
yourself if your standard is you’re an athlete
athlete
athlete then there’s a certain amount of
then there’s a certain amount of
then there’s a certain amount of strength a muscle tone and energy that’s
strength a muscle tone and energy that’s
strength a muscle tone and energy that’s available in your body on a regular
available in your body on a regular
available in your body on a regular basis because that’s who you are and so
basis because that’s who you are and so
basis because that’s who you are and so you do whatever is necessary to maintain
you do whatever is necessary to maintain
you do whatever is necessary to maintain that identity again the strongest force
that identity again the strongest force
that identity again the strongest force and the human personality is this need
and the human personality is this need
and the human personality is this need to stay consistent with how we define
to stay consistent with how we define
to stay consistent with how we define ourselves because if you don’t know who
ourselves because if you don’t know who
ourselves because if you don’t know who you are you would know how to act once
you are you would know how to act once
you are you would know how to act once you lock in on that identity your brain
you lock in on that identity your brain
you lock in on that identity your brain finds a way to keep you there if you say
finds a way to keep you there if you say
finds a way to keep you there if you say you know man I’m overweight I’ve always
you know man I’m overweight I’ve always
you know man I’m overweight I’ve always been overweight I’m big-boned and that’s
been overweight I’m big-boned and that’s
been overweight I’m big-boned and that’s the story you’ve got then you’re gonna
the story you’ve got then you’re gonna
the story you’ve got then you’re gonna always find a way to get back there
always find a way to get back there
always find a way to get back there that’s you’re settling point that’s your
that’s you’re settling point that’s your
that’s you’re settling point that’s your identity that’s where things lock in if
identity that’s where things lock in if
identity that’s where things lock in if you see somebody who’s a really great
you see somebody who’s a really great
you see somebody who’s a really great shape you ask him do you work out you
shape you ask him do you work out you
shape you ask him do you work out you know the answer yes how often and
know the answer yes how often and
know the answer yes how often and they’ll tell you three times four times
they’ll tell you three times four times
they’ll tell you three times four times five times a week whatever in a seven
five times a week whatever in a seven
five times a week whatever in a seven our last people who here works out at
our last people who here works out at
our last people who here works out at least five days a week and I’m stand-up
least five days a week and I’m stand-up
least five days a week and I’m stand-up and you look around that room and you
and you look around that room and you
and you look around that room and you know that they work out five times a
know that they work out five times a
know that they work out five times a week as you can see their body you don’t
week as you can see their body you don’t
week as you can see their body you don’t just get a result without some kind of
just get a result without some kind of
just get a result without some kind of action without some form of ritual
action without some form of ritual
action without some form of ritual ritual meaning actions you do
ritual meaning actions you do
ritual meaning actions you do consistently now do you think you knows
consistently now do you think you knows
consistently now do you think you knows people that are out there working out
people that are out there working out
people that are out there working out five days a week do they have more time
five days a week do they have more time
five days a week do they have more time than you do or I have for anybody else
than you do or I have for anybody else
than you do or I have for anybody else of course none is that a wife less busy
of course none is that a wife less busy
of course none is that a wife less busy of course not it’s just a must for them
of course not it’s just a must for them
of course not it’s just a must for them they must work out that way and they’ve
they must work out that way and they’ve
they must work out that way and they’ve made that turn their life change so I’m
made that turn their life change so I’m
made that turn their life change so I’m not saying you have to work out five
not saying you have to work out five
not saying you have to work out five days a week I’m just saying whatever you
days a week I’m just saying whatever you
days a week I’m just saying whatever you really want once don’t get met
really want once don’t get met
really want once don’t get met consistently standards do whatever you
consistently standards do whatever you
consistently standards do whatever you identify this is Who I am and so it’s
identify this is Who I am and so it’s
identify this is Who I am and so it’s not so much about changing your identity
not so much about changing your identity
not so much about changing your identity as theirs
as theirs
as theirs standing it you know deciding that you
standing it you know deciding that you
standing it you know deciding that you know instead of your goals to lose ten
know instead of your goals to lose ten
know instead of your goals to lose ten pounds which is not compelling what if
pounds which is not compelling what if
pounds which is not compelling what if your vision was to get back to my
your vision was to get back to my
your vision was to get back to my fighting weight you know this this year
fighting weight you know this this year
fighting weight you know this this year this month this next 90 days I’m gonna
this month this next 90 days I’m gonna
this month this next 90 days I’m gonna transform my body I’m gonna take on a
transform my body I’m gonna take on a
transform my body I’m gonna take on a new challenge I’m gonna find some
new challenge I’m gonna find some
new challenge I’m gonna find some technique or strategy there’s a million
technique or strategy there’s a million
technique or strategy there’s a million of them that can reframe myself or I’m
of them that can reframe myself or I’m
of them that can reframe myself or I’m gonna feel a younger stronger more
gonna feel a younger stronger more
gonna feel a younger stronger more vibrant than ever before here’s my
vibrant than ever before here’s my
vibrant than ever before here’s my reasons because I want the energy to
reasons because I want the energy to
reasons because I want the energy to really make my life work because it’s
really make my life work because it’s
really make my life work because it’s tough out there and I want to be
tough out there and I want to be
tough out there and I want to be stronger than I’ve ever been before I
stronger than I’ve ever been before I
stronger than I’ve ever been before I don’t think Oh in front of mirror and if
don’t think Oh in front of mirror and if
don’t think Oh in front of mirror and if I’m naked not you know want to laugh I
I’m naked not you know want to laugh I
I’m naked not you know want to laugh I will look there and take a good look and
will look there and take a good look and
will look there and take a good look and go yeah no basics that if you start to
go yeah no basics that if you start to
go yeah no basics that if you start to shift it everything else will shift in
shift it everything else will shift in
shift it everything else will shift in your life as well some people by the way
your life as well some people by the way
your life as well some people by the way have to have more than enough money to
have to have more than enough money to
have to have more than enough money to do what they want when they want where
do what they want when they want where
do what they want when they want where they want with whomever they want
they want with whomever they want
they want with whomever they want contribute the way they want if that’s
contribute the way they want if that’s
contribute the way they want if that’s there must they find a way I know that
there must they find a way I know that
there must they find a way I know that sounds overly simplistic but it’s true
sounds overly simplistic but it’s true
sounds overly simplistic but it’s true now somebody once said you can take all
now somebody once said you can take all
now somebody once said you can take all the money in the world out of the hands
the money in the world out of the hands
the money in the world out of the hands of everybody out of all the wealthy
of everybody out of all the wealthy
of everybody out of all the wealthy people in the world who are really
people in the world who are really
people in the world who are really successful given other people it
successful given other people it
successful given other people it wouldn’t take too long those people that
wouldn’t take too long those people that
wouldn’t take too long those people that have it back in their hands it’s not
have it back in their hands it’s not
have it back in their hands it’s not because they’re manipular it’s because
because they’re manipular it’s because
because they’re manipular it’s because they have a standard some are manipulate
they have a standard some are manipulate
they have a standard some are manipulate don’t get me wrong but they’ve got a
don’t get me wrong but they’ve got a
don’t get me wrong but they’ve got a standard of what they’re gonna find a
standard of what they’re gonna find a
standard of what they’re gonna find a way to make happen I’m just simply
way to make happen I’m just simply
way to make happen I’m just simply saying to you take those three magic
saying to you take those three magic
saying to you take those three magic words and live them raise your standard
words and live them raise your standard
words and live them raise your standard if you really want to do it then I’ll
if you really want to do it then I’ll
if you really want to do it then I’ll tell you the most important secret have
tell you the most important secret have
tell you the most important secret have you ever done this have you ever told
you ever done this have you ever told
you ever done this have you ever told yourself you’re raised you’re saying
yourself you’re raised you’re saying
yourself you’re raised you’re saying okay I’m gonna go make this happen I’m
okay I’m gonna go make this happen I’m
okay I’m gonna go make this happen I’m gonna go make this much money I’m gonna
gonna go make this much money I’m gonna
gonna go make this much money I’m gonna transform my kids I’m gonna create the
transform my kids I’m gonna create the
transform my kids I’m gonna create the ultimate relationship of my life I’m
ultimate relationship of my life I’m
ultimate relationship of my life I’m gonna transform my body whatever it is
gonna transform my body whatever it is
gonna transform my body whatever it is and then you don’t have strong enough
and then you don’t have strong enough
and then you don’t have strong enough reasons and you don’t lose use it you
reasons and you don’t lose use it you
reasons and you don’t lose use it you don’t follow through it’s because you
don’t follow through it’s because you
don’t follow through it’s because you didn’t back up your standards with what
didn’t back up your standards with what
didn’t back up your standards with what makes those standards real and that’s
makes those standards real and that’s
makes those standards real and that’s rituals rituals all of the power is
rituals rituals all of the power is
rituals rituals all of the power is whenever we do our Robbins results
whenever we do our Robbins results
whenever we do our Robbins results coaching and we did Robbins equals
coaching and we did Robbins equals
coaching and we did Robbins equals results late we get results with people
results late we get results with people
results late we get results with people it’s the same way if you listen to my
it’s the same way if you listen to my
it’s the same way if you listen to my ultimate edge programmer back in the old
ultimate edge programmer back in the old
ultimate edge programmer back in the old days personal power or if you went to
days personal power or if you went to
days personal power or if you went to one of my seminars you know what I do is
one of my seminars you know what I do is
one of my seminars you know what I do is I take these huge challenges you got and
I take these huge challenges you got and
I take these huge challenges you got and we break them down into little
we break them down into little
we break them down into little bite-sized steps little things you do
bite-sized steps little things you do
bite-sized steps little things you do each day that after you do them you get
each day that after you do them you get
each day that after you do them you get so much momentum that it’s easy to
so much momentum that it’s easy to
so much momentum that it’s easy to succeed you’re not overwhelmed
succeed you’re not overwhelmed
succeed you’re not overwhelmed you have these victory day after day
you have these victory day after day
you have these victory day after day after day on little things if you’d went
after day on little things if you’d went
after day on little things if you’d went to ultimate edge I’m sure you learned
to ultimate edge I’m sure you learned
to ultimate edge I’m sure you learned about the hour of power or to 15 minutes
about the hour of power or to 15 minutes
about the hour of power or to 15 minutes to be able to be fulfilled or 30 minutes
to be able to be fulfilled or 30 minutes
to be able to be fulfilled or 30 minutes to thrive where you literally just
to thrive where you literally just
to thrive where you literally just conditioned your body and emotion with a
conditioned your body and emotion with a
conditioned your body and emotion with a couple little rituals so it doesn’t
couple little rituals so it doesn’t
couple little rituals so it doesn’t matter what’s going on in your world you
matter what’s going on in your world you
matter what’s going on in your world you feel that strength and it’s not fake
feel that strength and it’s not fake
feel that strength and it’s not fake it’s not some pump up it’s coming from
it’s not some pump up it’s coming from
it’s not some pump up it’s coming from inside you and it works rituals define
inside you and it works rituals define
inside you and it works rituals define us see all the results in your life are
us see all the results in your life are
us see all the results in your life are coming from your rituals they start with
coming from your rituals they start with
coming from your rituals they start with a standard and then have rituals that
a standard and then have rituals that
a standard and then have rituals that follow it up like for example if you are
follow it up like for example if you are
follow it up like for example if you are where you want to be physically you have
where you want to be physically you have
where you want to be physically you have very different rituals than if you’re
very different rituals than if you’re
very different rituals than if you’re not where you want to be physically if
not where you want to be physically if
not where you want to be physically if you’re overweight you and I both know
you’re overweight you and I both know
you’re overweight you and I both know you got a different ritual than if
you got a different ritual than if
you got a different ritual than if you’re physically fit completely
you’re physically fit completely
you’re physically fit completely different you get up in the morning
different you get up in the morning
different you get up in the morning what’s the first thing you do if you’re
what’s the first thing you do if you’re
what’s the first thing you do if you’re fit your shoes are there you roll over
fit your shoes are there you roll over
fit your shoes are there you roll over the minute you feel you put on your
the minute you feel you put on your
the minute you feel you put on your shoes you lace and you start walking or
shoes you lace and you start walking or
shoes you lace and you start walking or whatever that ritual is if you’re
whatever that ritual is if you’re
whatever that ritual is if you’re overweight you roll over and you have a
overweight you roll over and you have a
overweight you roll over and you have a very different ritual you might roll
very different ritual you might roll
very different ritual you might roll over several times to turn the alarm
over several times to turn the alarm
over several times to turn the alarm clock off you go in and get your mocha
clock off you go in and get your mocha
clock off you go in and get your mocha mocha whatever you know special coffee
mocha whatever you know special coffee
mocha whatever you know special coffee you stop by at Starbucks or over the
you stop by at Starbucks or over the
you stop by at Starbucks or over the case maybe you have your nice sugar
case maybe you have your nice sugar
case maybe you have your nice sugar muffin you know it’s supposed to be
muffin you know it’s supposed to be
muffin you know it’s supposed to be really nice for you whatever you do it’s
really nice for you whatever you do it’s
really nice for you whatever you do it’s a different ritual if you have a great
a different ritual if you have a great
a different ritual if you have a great passionate relationship you have very
passionate relationship you have very
passionate relationship you have very different rituals and how you come home
different rituals and how you come home
different rituals and how you come home than if you have a lousy relationship we
than if you have a lousy relationship we
than if you have a lousy relationship we come home and the first thing you do is
come home and the first thing you do is
come home and the first thing you do is you’re tweeting somebody or you’re
you’re tweeting somebody or you’re
you’re tweeting somebody or you’re emailing or flipping on the news or you
emailing or flipping on the news or you
emailing or flipping on the news or you don’t even come home and what are the
don’t even come home and what are the
don’t even come home and what are the rituals whenever I study people that are
rituals whenever I study people that are
rituals whenever I study people that are successful well I look for is what’s the
successful well I look for is what’s the
successful well I look for is what’s the standard they hold himself to and then
standard they hold himself to and then
standard they hold himself to and then what are all those little rituals that
what are all those little rituals that
what are all those little rituals that up because think about it success and
up because think about it success and
up because think about it success and failure are not giant events they don’t
failure are not giant events they don’t
failure are not giant events they don’t just show up you don’t just suddenly
just show up you don’t just suddenly
just show up you don’t just suddenly become successful or suddenly have this
become successful or suddenly have this
become successful or suddenly have this cataclysmic event that makes you fail it
cataclysmic event that makes you fail it
cataclysmic event that makes you fail it may look that way but failure comes from
may look that way but failure comes from
may look that way but failure comes from all the little things
all the little things
all the little things it’s failure to make the call its
it’s failure to make the call its
it’s failure to make the call its failure to check the books its failure
failure to check the books its failure
failure to check the books its failure to say I’m sorry
to say I’m sorry
to say I’m sorry it’s failure to push yourself to do
it’s failure to push yourself to do
it’s failure to push yourself to do things physically that you don’t want to
things physically that you don’t want to
things physically that you don’t want to do and all those little failures day
do and all those little failures day
do and all those little failures day after day come together until one day
after day come together until one day
after day come together until one day some Cataclysm event happens you blame
some Cataclysm event happens you blame
some Cataclysm event happens you blame that that event
that that event
that that event happen because you missed all the little
happen because you missed all the little
happen because you missed all the little stuff do you agree with me and success
stuff do you agree with me and success
stuff do you agree with me and success by the way is not some overnight event
by the way is not some overnight event
by the way is not some overnight event it’s all these little things success is
it’s all these little things success is
it’s all these little things success is having a vision success is making it
having a vision success is making it
having a vision success is making it compelling
compelling
compelling success is really seeing it feeling it
success is really seeing it feeling it
success is really seeing it feeling it every day was strong enough reasons
every day was strong enough reasons
every day was strong enough reasons success is feeling the sense that I’m
success is feeling the sense that I’m
success is feeling the sense that I’m here to grow I’m here to give something
here to grow I’m here to give something
here to grow I’m here to give something to the world more than just myself
to the world more than just myself
to the world more than just myself success is caring about other people
success is caring about other people
success is caring about other people success is calling and saying I love you
success is calling and saying I love you
success is calling and saying I love you in the middle of day for no damn reason
in the middle of day for no damn reason
in the middle of day for no damn reason or sending a note that will change your
or sending a note that will change your
or sending a note that will change your relationship how to ritual of something
relationship how to ritual of something
relationship how to ritual of something funny playful or a surprise you do how
funny playful or a surprise you do how
funny playful or a surprise you do how many relationships are dead today
many relationships are dead today
many relationships are dead today because they have no surprise rituals
because they have no surprise rituals
because they have no surprise rituals anymore you need to have some rituals
anymore you need to have some rituals
anymore you need to have some rituals some cool things you do that nobody else
some cool things you do that nobody else
some cool things you do that nobody else does that gives you a better life than
does that gives you a better life than
does that gives you a better life than anybody else has all the little stuff
anybody else has all the little stuff
anybody else has all the little stuff that’s where success comes from in
that’s where success comes from in
that’s where success comes from in business it comes from delivering more
business it comes from delivering more
business it comes from delivering more than anybody could imagine all those
than anybody could imagine all those
than anybody could imagine all those little things add up people go wow
little things add up people go wow
little things add up people go wow that’s who I want to do business with
that’s who I want to do business with
that’s who I want to do business with it’s true in any area of your life so if
it’s true in any area of your life so if
it’s true in any area of your life so if you look at somebody’s really successful
you look at somebody’s really successful
you look at somebody’s really successful in you think wow I mean they’re so
in you think wow I mean they’re so
in you think wow I mean they’re so amazing there’s such a genius you got to
amazing there’s such a genius you got to
amazing there’s such a genius you got to dig underneath you got to remember
dig underneath you got to remember
dig underneath you got to remember something people are rewarded in public
something people are rewarded in public
something people are rewarded in public from what they’ve practiced for years in
from what they’ve practiced for years in
from what they’ve practiced for years in private myself and my business people
private myself and my business people
private myself and my business people say how are you get up and speaking of
say how are you get up and speaking of
say how are you get up and speaking of nono-chan you go for three days and
nono-chan you go for three days and
nono-chan you go for three days and nights and the room is like it’s wired
nights and the room is like it’s wired
nights and the room is like it’s wired and it’s incredible if like a rock
and it’s incredible if like a rock
and it’s incredible if like a rock concert how do you do that how do you
concert how do you do that how do you
concert how do you do that how do you have that confidence at home and you
have that confidence at home and you
have that confidence at home and you know it’s not confidence it’s experience
know it’s not confidence it’s experience
know it’s not confidence it’s experience now but I did so much behind the scenes
now but I did so much behind the scenes
now but I did so much behind the scenes and I still do to make things right I
and I still do to make things right I
and I still do to make things right I mean how many people would know that
mean how many people would know that
mean how many people would know that since the time I was 17 years old before
since the time I was 17 years old before
since the time I was 17 years old before I walk on him stage still do to this day
I walk on him stage still do to this day
I walk on him stage still do to this day wouldn’t need to do it but I still do it
wouldn’t need to do it but I still do it
wouldn’t need to do it but I still do it I never walk out there without being in
I never walk out there without being in
I never walk out there without being in an absolute peak state of mind you know
an absolute peak state of mind you know
an absolute peak state of mind you know there are days my back is hurting my
there are days my back is hurting my
there are days my back is hurting my throat was hurting or I made a have a
throat was hurting or I made a have a
throat was hurting or I made a have a challenger my father passed away and
challenger my father passed away and
challenger my father passed away and I’ve still got a deliver for these
I’ve still got a deliver for these
I’ve still got a deliver for these people because my standard is give my
people because my standard is give my
people because my standard is give my all every time everything has to be
all every time everything has to be
all every time everything has to be better talk to anybody who’s been to our
better talk to anybody who’s been to our
better talk to anybody who’s been to our events for 5-10 years some of our
events for 5-10 years some of our
events for 5-10 years some of our trainers I don’t say I don’t know he
trainers I don’t say I don’t know he
trainers I don’t say I don’t know he does it he’s always finds a way to make
does it he’s always finds a way to make
does it he’s always finds a way to make it better that’s not an ego thing that’s
it better that’s not an ego thing that’s
it better that’s not an ego thing that’s a standard in me I have to find the way
a standard in me I have to find the way
a standard in me I have to find the way and my ritual though is I prepare I
and my ritual though is I prepare I
and my ritual though is I prepare I think I gather new information I figure
think I gather new information I figure
think I gather new information I figure out how to put something across better
out how to put something across better
out how to put something across better wood
wood
wood people need I spend time with our
people need I spend time with our
people need I spend time with our customers I see what’s going on and
customers I see what’s going on and
customers I see what’s going on and before I get on stage each time I have
before I get on stage each time I have
before I get on stage each time I have this little ritual to put myself in a
this little ritual to put myself in a
this little ritual to put myself in a state of mind and I did it starting like
state of mind and I did it starting like
state of mind and I did it starting like 17 years old I started doing that say I
17 years old I started doing that say I
17 years old I started doing that say I now command my subconscious mind and I
now command my subconscious mind and I
now command my subconscious mind and I say this out loud several times this
say this out loud several times this
say this out loud several times this little phrase set of phrases as an
little phrase set of phrases as an
little phrase set of phrases as an incantation to kind of condition my mind
incantation to kind of condition my mind
incantation to kind of condition my mind and body and I’d say I now command my
and body and I’d say I now command my
and body and I’d say I now command my subconscious mind to direct me and
subconscious mind to direct me and
subconscious mind to direct me and helping as many people as possible today
helping as many people as possible today
helping as many people as possible today by giving me the strength and the
by giving me the strength and the
by giving me the strength and the emotion and the humor and the brevity
emotion and the humor and the brevity
emotion and the humor and the brevity whatever it takes to show this person
whatever it takes to show this person
whatever it takes to show this person and help this person change their life
and help this person change their life
and help this person change their life now and I started that with a person
now and I started that with a person
now and I started that with a person when I work with people one on one I
when I work with people one on one I
when I work with people one on one I would do that for 45 minutes driving in
would do that for 45 minutes driving in
would do that for 45 minutes driving in my Volkswagen to go serve and coach
my Volkswagen to go serve and coach
my Volkswagen to go serve and coach somebody for the first time now I don’t
somebody for the first time now I don’t
somebody for the first time now I don’t say that person I say these people and I
say that person I say these people and I
say that person I say these people and I can go out in the room of 10,000 people
can go out in the room of 10,000 people
can go out in the room of 10,000 people and deliver for 50 hours and I do it
and deliver for 50 hours and I do it
and deliver for 50 hours and I do it every time I come back on stage
every time I come back on stage
every time I come back on stage it’s a ritual a ritual to go into peak
it’s a ritual a ritual to go into peak
it’s a ritual a ritual to go into peak stay Peaks they don’t just show up it’ll
stay Peaks they don’t just show up it’ll
stay Peaks they don’t just show up it’ll interrupt you great ideas doing the
interrupt you great ideas doing the
interrupt you great ideas doing the laughter you got to pursue them I talked
laughter you got to pursue them I talked
laughter you got to pursue them I talked to Michael Jordan I’ll never forget dad
to Michael Jordan I’ll never forget dad
to Michael Jordan I’ll never forget dad the peak of his career and got to watch
the peak of his career and got to watch
the peak of his career and got to watch his final game saw him backstage and
his final game saw him backstage and
his final game saw him backstage and spent some time with them and there’s
spent some time with them and there’s
spent some time with them and there’s pretty exciting time his greatest
pretty exciting time his greatest
pretty exciting time his greatest basketball player and I think that ever
basketball player and I think that ever
basketball player and I think that ever lived and hazzard who lived and I asked
lived and hazzard who lived and I asked
lived and hazzard who lived and I asked him I say you know what sets you apart
him I say you know what sets you apart
him I say you know what sets you apart Michael you know what is it and is it
Michael you know what is it and is it
Michael you know what is it and is it god-given talent ability skill what does
god-given talent ability skill what does
god-given talent ability skill what does it need to tell me you know said I can
it need to tell me you know said I can
it need to tell me you know said I can shoot you straight you know it’s not you
shoot you straight you know it’s not you
shoot you straight you know it’s not you know me trying to act humble he goes I
know me trying to act humble he goes I
know me trying to act humble he goes I have a lot of talent lot of god-given
have a lot of talent lot of god-given
have a lot of talent lot of god-given talent lot of skill I worked really hard
talent lot of skill I worked really hard
talent lot of skill I worked really hard but he said really it’s my standards he
but he said really it’s my standards he
but he said really it’s my standards he said every day I demand more for myself
said every day I demand more for myself
said every day I demand more for myself than anybody else could humanly expect
than anybody else could humanly expect
than anybody else could humanly expect I’m not competing with somebody else I’m
I’m not competing with somebody else I’m
I’m not competing with somebody else I’m competing with while I’m capable of hmm
competing with while I’m capable of hmm
competing with while I’m capable of hmm magic formula because most of us lower
magic formula because most of us lower
magic formula because most of us lower our standards why because who you spend
our standards why because who you spend
our standards why because who you spend time with my friends is who you become
time with my friends is who you become
time with my friends is who you become one of the biggest reasons I started
one of the biggest reasons I started
one of the biggest reasons I started going to seminars when I was like 17 is
going to seminars when I was like 17 is
going to seminars when I was like 17 is I had nobody around me is a great role
I had nobody around me is a great role
I had nobody around me is a great role model I could read about somebody but
model I could read about somebody but
model I could read about somebody but being around people being in that
being around people being in that
being around people being in that environment was very different finding
environment was very different finding
environment was very different finding way to go to work with someone who lived
way to go to work with someone who lived
way to go to work with someone who lived that standard life was very different
that standard life was very different
that standard life was very different you get around people at low standards
you get around people at low standards
you get around people at low standards and you compete with it you don’t need
and you compete with it you don’t need
and you compete with it you don’t need to compete with it it’s like okay I mean
to compete with it it’s like okay I mean
to compete with it it’s like okay I mean number Jerry Springer I know if he’s
number Jerry Springer I know if he’s
number Jerry Springer I know if he’s still in the air but you know I remember
still in the air but you know I remember
still in the air but you know I remember used to get people on the show I thought
used to get people on the show I thought
used to get people on the show I thought where would he
where would he
where would he these people and why would people watch
these people and why would people watch
these people and why would people watch off any what they watch they watch these
off any what they watch they watch these
off any what they watch they watch these people go my life so pretty darn good
people go my life so pretty darn good
people go my life so pretty darn good come here that person look at them you
come here that person look at them you
come here that person look at them you don’t have to change your life all you
don’t have to change your life all you
don’t have to change your life all you have to do is find somebody with a lower
have to do is find somebody with a lower
have to do is find somebody with a lower standard you’ll feel good about yourself
standard you’ll feel good about yourself
standard you’ll feel good about yourself but if you feel that good feeling it’s
but if you feel that good feeling it’s
but if you feel that good feeling it’s an illusion the only thing that’s gonna
an illusion the only thing that’s gonna
an illusion the only thing that’s gonna make you happy milliseconds hundredth of
make you happy milliseconds hundredth of
make you happy milliseconds hundredth of a second he pushed himself just beyond
a second he pushed himself just beyond
a second he pushed himself just beyond his competitor but you know how about
his competitor but you know how about
his competitor but you know how about Michael Phelps what allow them be able
Michael Phelps what allow them be able
Michael Phelps what allow them be able push beyond that moment is this rituals
push beyond that moment is this rituals
push beyond that moment is this rituals go steady the guy most people who swim
go steady the guy most people who swim
go steady the guy most people who swim have these unbelievable workouts he does
have these unbelievable workouts he does
have these unbelievable workouts he does two and three of the workout sessions a
two and three of the workout sessions a
two and three of the workout sessions a day all the other swimmers in the
day all the other swimmers in the
day all the other swimmers in the beginning thought he was insane you can
beginning thought he was insane you can
beginning thought he was insane you can over train you can’t do that it’s not
over train you can’t do that it’s not
over train you can’t do that it’s not physically possible but he had a
physically possible but he had a
physically possible but he had a standard and the rituals to back it up
standard and the rituals to back it up
standard and the rituals to back it up so here’s my final message to you
so here’s my final message to you
so here’s my final message to you because I’ve gotten carried away I was
because I’ve gotten carried away I was
because I’ve gotten carried away I was gonna send you like a five-minute
gonna send you like a five-minute
gonna send you like a five-minute message but you can see there’s no
message but you can see there’s no
message but you can see there’s no script here it’s just me going a little
script here it’s just me going a little
script here it’s just me going a little crazy with you but I want to really see
crazy with you but I want to really see
crazy with you but I want to really see you get what you want this year don’t
you get what you want this year don’t
you get what you want this year don’t let this year be like last and if last
let this year be like last and if last
let this year be like last and if last year was great still don’t let it be
year was great still don’t let it be
year was great still don’t let it be that way raise the standard if your life
that way raise the standard if your life
that way raise the standard if your life is perfect and extraordinary you darn
is perfect and extraordinary you darn
is perfect and extraordinary you darn well know you’re not gonna be happy
well know you’re not gonna be happy
well know you’re not gonna be happy unless you keep making it better that’s
unless you keep making it better that’s
unless you keep making it better that’s what makes us feel alive it’s not what
what makes us feel alive it’s not what
what makes us feel alive it’s not what we get that make us happy it’s who we
we get that make us happy it’s who we
we get that make us happy it’s who we become and what we’re able to give
become and what we’re able to give
become and what we’re able to give because we’ve become more that sense of
because we’ve become more that sense of
because we’ve become more that sense of contribution is what creates the deepest
contribution is what creates the deepest
contribution is what creates the deepest meaning so here’s my assignment for if
meaning so here’s my assignment for if
meaning so here’s my assignment for if you want one if you want to go from
you want one if you want to go from
you want one if you want to go from conversation to some action your simple
conversation to some action your simple
conversation to some action your simple thing to do
thing to do
thing to do what’s an air your life right now that
what’s an air your life right now that
what’s an air your life right now that you really want improve well it’s an
you really want improve well it’s an
you really want improve well it’s an area that’s important to improve if your
area that’s important to improve if your
area that’s important to improve if your body’s great how about your curve
body’s great how about your curve
body’s great how about your curve careers great how about your
careers great how about your
careers great how about your relationship intimate one especially or
relationship intimate one especially or
relationship intimate one especially or your kids or your relationship with your
your kids or your relationship with your
your kids or your relationship with your creative spiritual side of your life or
creative spiritual side of your life or
creative spiritual side of your life or is it your finances figure an area that
is it your finances figure an area that
is it your finances figure an area that really matters decide on that area
really matters decide on that area
really matters decide on that area number one write down what your life is
number one write down what your life is
number one write down what your life is like in that area right now specifically
like in that area right now specifically
like in that area right now specifically as possible so you might say well I’m
as possible so you might say well I’m
as possible so you might say well I’m 13.5 pounds overweight you know whatever
13.5 pounds overweight you know whatever
13.5 pounds overweight you know whatever the weight is whatever the situation is
the weight is whatever the situation is
the weight is whatever the situation is or my body fat like this or wake up
or my body fat like this or wake up
or my body fat like this or wake up exhausted in the morning and you write
exhausted in the morning and you write
exhausted in the morning and you write the truth of where you are right now so
the truth of where you are right now so
the truth of where you are right now so you’re real clear or I’m not in a
you’re real clear or I’m not in a
you’re real clear or I’m not in a relationship I say I want a relationship
relationship I say I want a relationship
relationship I say I want a relationship but I I’m not in one I don’t seem to
but I I’m not in one I don’t seem to
but I I’m not in one I don’t seem to find them all the good ones seem to be
find them all the good ones seem to be
find them all the good ones seem to be gone is my belief you know and I really
gone is my belief you know and I really
gone is my belief you know and I really you want one but I don’t have it
you want one but I don’t have it
you want one but I don’t have it whatever your definition I’m in a
whatever your definition I’m in a
whatever your definition I’m in a relationship and god I wish I wasn’t in
relationship and god I wish I wasn’t in
relationship and god I wish I wasn’t in a relationship I’m planning my escape
a relationship I’m planning my escape
a relationship I’m planning my escape wherever you are or I have a wonderful
wherever you are or I have a wonderful
wherever you are or I have a wonderful relationship we love each other but
relationship we love each other but
relationship we love each other but there just isn’t enough passion just
there just isn’t enough passion just
there just isn’t enough passion just like the truth of where you are the area
like the truth of where you are the area
like the truth of where you are the area you want to change what right how it is
you want to change what right how it is
you want to change what right how it is and then the second step is that’s where
and then the second step is that’s where
and then the second step is that’s where you I’ll be really honest with yourself
you I’ll be really honest with yourself
you I’ll be really honest with yourself what are the rituals that have put me
what are the rituals that have put me
what are the rituals that have put me there
there
there because whatever results you’re getting
because whatever results you’re getting
because whatever results you’re getting even if you don’t like the results
even if you don’t like the results
even if you don’t like the results there’s some rituals that are keeping
there’s some rituals that are keeping
there’s some rituals that are keeping you in that place there’s some rituals
you in that place there’s some rituals
you in that place there’s some rituals of what you eat or don’t eat how you
of what you eat or don’t eat how you
of what you eat or don’t eat how you move or don’t move how you sleep or
move or don’t move how you sleep or
move or don’t move how you sleep or don’t sleep there’s some rituals and the
don’t sleep there’s some rituals and the
don’t sleep there’s some rituals and the lack of variety or spice or energy or
lack of variety or spice or energy or
lack of variety or spice or energy or focus in an area there’s something
focus in an area there’s something
focus in an area there’s something you’re doing and it’s usually not one
you’re doing and it’s usually not one
you’re doing and it’s usually not one thing it’s a bunch of little things they
thing it’s a bunch of little things they
thing it’s a bunch of little things they kind of do consistently whenever you
kind of do consistently whenever you
kind of do consistently whenever you think about getting in a relationship
think about getting in a relationship
think about getting in a relationship whenever you think about working out
whenever you think about working out
whenever you think about working out whenever you think about money and get
whenever you think about money and get
whenever you think about money and get yourself in a state of overwhelm you
yourself in a state of overwhelm you
yourself in a state of overwhelm you start thinking about all the things you
start thinking about all the things you
start thinking about all the things you can’t control just write down all the
can’t control just write down all the
can’t control just write down all the rituals you have and then here’s the
rituals you have and then here’s the
rituals you have and then here’s the third step what do you want what’s your
third step what do you want what’s your
third step what do you want what’s your vision and be really specific I want to
vision and be really specific I want to
vision and be really specific I want to be my fighting weight I want to be the
be my fighting weight I want to be the
be my fighting weight I want to be the strongest I’ve ever felt I want to be
strongest I’ve ever felt I want to be
strongest I’ve ever felt I want to be I’m gonna turn my whatever it is be
I’m gonna turn my whatever it is be
I’m gonna turn my whatever it is be specific and then last step number four
specific and then last step number four
specific and then last step number four what are the rituals that’ll get you
what are the rituals that’ll get you
what are the rituals that’ll get you there what would you need to differently
there what would you need to differently
there what would you need to differently each morning if you’re gonna be that
each morning if you’re gonna be that
each morning if you’re gonna be that kind of energy that kind of strength how
kind of energy that kind of strength how
kind of energy that kind of strength how would you have to happen would you work
would you have to happen would you work
would you have to happen would you work out what days would you work out what
out what days would you work out what
out what days would you work out what time a ritual is something you do
time a ritual is something you do
time a ritual is something you do consistently usually at a specific time
consistently usually at a specific time
consistently usually at a specific time so becomes automatic let me tell you
so becomes automatic let me tell you
so becomes automatic let me tell you something willpower doesn’t last
something willpower doesn’t last
something willpower doesn’t last but rituals can last a lifetime I bet
but rituals can last a lifetime I bet
but rituals can last a lifetime I bet you have some rituals in your life right
you have some rituals in your life right
you have some rituals in your life right now you’ve been doing for years even
now you’ve been doing for years even
now you’ve been doing for years even though some of them don’t serve you I’m
though some of them don’t serve you I’m
though some of them don’t serve you I’m just saying wake yourself up make if you
just saying wake yourself up make if you
just saying wake yourself up make if you want a new year and a new life you don’t
want a new year and a new life you don’t
want a new year and a new life you don’t need to start in January first start
need to start in January first start
need to start in January first start today start with this little video and
today start with this little video and
today start with this little video and just begin to see what happens and see
just begin to see what happens and see
just begin to see what happens and see how easy it is to just do a few little
how easy it is to just do a few little
how easy it is to just do a few little rituals don’t do them all just do two or
rituals don’t do them all just do two or
rituals don’t do them all just do two or three new things and you know what
three new things and you know what
three new things and you know what happens you’ll get momentum coz once you
happens you’ll get momentum coz once you
happens you’ll get momentum coz once you discipline yourself in one area life you
discipline yourself in one area life you
discipline yourself in one area life you feel yourself doing it other areas as
feel yourself doing it other areas as
feel yourself doing it other areas as well I always say something that my
well I always say something that my
well I always say something that my original teacher taught me I always
original teacher taught me I always
original teacher taught me I always remind people there’s always two pains
remind people there’s always two pains
remind people there’s always two pains in life there’s the pain of discipline
in life there’s the pain of discipline
in life there’s the pain of discipline or is the pain of regret
or is the pain of regret
or is the pain of regret and discipline weighs ounces is my
and discipline weighs ounces is my
and discipline weighs ounces is my friend Jim Rohn taught me regret weighs
friend Jim Rohn taught me regret weighs
friend Jim Rohn taught me regret weighs tons you don’t have regret so right now
tons you don’t have regret so right now
tons you don’t have regret so right now what do you want to change what’s it
what do you want to change what’s it
what do you want to change what’s it really like what are the rituals that
really like what are the rituals that
really like what are the rituals that got you there that will take a little
got you there that will take a little
got you there that will take a little homework if you’re not sure ask the
homework if you’re not sure ask the
homework if you’re not sure ask the people around you they’ll tell you what
people around you they’ll tell you what
people around you they’ll tell you what your rituals are what do I really want
your rituals are what do I really want
your rituals are what do I really want in depth where the rituals they’ll get
in depth where the rituals they’ll get
in depth where the rituals they’ll get me there and then get yourself to start
me there and then get yourself to start
me there and then get yourself to start a few those actions and lock them in
a few those actions and lock them in
a few those actions and lock them in place
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