good morning believe nation its Evan my one word is believe I believe in you and
one word is believe I believe in you and
one word is believe I believe in you and I want to see that awesome thing that
I want to see that awesome thing that
I want to see that awesome thing that you have inside you explode out into the
you have inside you explode out into the
you have inside you explode out into the universe to have a major impact so to
universe to have a major impact so to
universe to have a major impact so to help you on your journey today’s message
help you on your journey today’s message
help you on your journey today’s message is take command over to you Tony Robbins
is take command over to you Tony Robbins
is take command over to you Tony Robbins [Music]
what makes you a leader is your ability
what makes you a leader is your ability to make a decision who’s with me on this
to make a decision who’s with me on this
to make a decision who’s with me on this right and anybody can make the easy
right and anybody can make the easy
right and anybody can make the easy decision right so what makes you a
decision right so what makes you a
decision right so what makes you a leader is you can make the tough
leader is you can make the tough
leader is you can make the tough decisions and what makes you a leader is
decisions and what makes you a leader is
decisions and what makes you a leader is you make the decision what makes you
you make the decision what makes you
you make the decision what makes you great leaders you know I may be wrong
great leaders you know I may be wrong
great leaders you know I may be wrong but I’ll have to wait till everything’s
but I’ll have to wait till everything’s
but I’ll have to wait till everything’s resolved nothing’s gonna get resolved so
resolved nothing’s gonna get resolved so
resolved nothing’s gonna get resolved so I’m gonna make a decision if I make a
I’m gonna make a decision if I make a
I’m gonna make a decision if I make a decision and it’s wrong I’ll find out
decision and it’s wrong I’ll find out
decision and it’s wrong I’ll find out quicker than if I sit on the fence while
quicker than if I sit on the fence while
quicker than if I sit on the fence while my life goes by I remember I I’ve showed
my life goes by I remember I I’ve showed
my life goes by I remember I I’ve showed this with maybe a few of you before but
this with maybe a few of you before but
this with maybe a few of you before but years and years ago when we had the big
years and years ago when we had the big
years and years ago when we had the big Gulf War generals you know Norman
Gulf War generals you know Norman
Gulf War generals you know Norman Schwarzkopf some friend of mine and
Schwarzkopf some friend of mine and
Schwarzkopf some friend of mine and passed away three years ago and I used
passed away three years ago and I used
passed away three years ago and I used to bring him in to talk about leadership
to bring him in to talk about leadership
to bring him in to talk about leadership and one of the first times I ever asked
and one of the first times I ever asked
and one of the first times I ever asked him I said how do you define leadership
him I said how do you define leadership
him I said how do you define leadership you know how do you know what a person
you know how do you know what a person
you know how do you know what a person is really leader and he said well they
is really leader and he said well they
is really leader and he said well they can make decisions he said I can
can make decisions he said I can
can make decisions he said I can remember when I was he was an assistant
remember when I was he was an assistant
remember when I was he was an assistant to a to a general and I forgot what the
to a to a general and I forgot what the
to a to a general and I forgot what the exact position is but he said he was
exact position is but he said he was
exact position is but he said he was responsible for reading all the briefs
responsible for reading all the briefs
responsible for reading all the briefs and this generals highest generals in
and this generals highest generals in
and this generals highest generals in the Army and it was a decision that need
the Army and it was a decision that need
the Army and it was a decision that need to be made and had to deal with ten
to be made and had to deal with ten
to be made and had to deal with ten years of going back and forth with the
years of going back and forth with the
years of going back and forth with the Pentagon trying to figure out well if
Pentagon trying to figure out well if
Pentagon trying to figure out well if they’re gonna make a go one direction or
they’re gonna make a go one direction or
they’re gonna make a go one direction or another was a gigantic decision that was
another was a gigantic decision that was
another was a gigantic decision that was gonna affect the way the army was
gonna affect the way the army was
gonna affect the way the army was structured how money was gonna be
structured how money was gonna be
structured how money was gonna be divided what resources are gonna go
divided what resources are gonna go
divided what resources are gonna go where and he said they brought in this
where and he said they brought in this
where and he said they brought in this group of twenty people in and they had
group of twenty people in and they had
group of twenty people in and they had this two-hour meeting and everybody got
this two-hour meeting and everybody got
this two-hour meeting and everybody got up and pitched their side of what they
up and pitched their side of what they
up and pitched their side of what they thought was right and at the end when it
thought was right and at the end when it
thought was right and at the end when it was completely done the general said as
was completely done the general said as
was completely done the general said as everyone said their piece he said yes he
everyone said their piece he said yes he
everyone said their piece he said yes he said do this it was plan a and a plan B
said do this it was plan a and a plan B
said do this it was plan a and a plan B whatever it was out of the three choices
whatever it was out of the three choices
whatever it was out of the three choices the head and everybody said okay usually
the head and everybody said okay usually
the head and everybody said okay usually okay generals saluted him and ran off to
okay generals saluted him and ran off to
okay generals saluted him and ran off to go implement this thing and and swartz
go implement this thing and and swartz
go implement this thing and and swartz cop said he was freaking out because he
cop said he was freaking out because he
cop said he was freaking out because he knew there’s no way that general could
knew there’s no way that general could
knew there’s no way that general could have read everything even he’d read
have read everything even he’d read
have read everything even he’d read and this was such a complex piece and
and this was such a complex piece and
and this was such a complex piece and there was only two hours and everybody
there was only two hours and everybody
there was only two hours and everybody gave their best but my god there’s so
gave their best but my god there’s so
gave their best but my god there’s so many things to consider and so he
many things to consider and so he
many things to consider and so he finally he got up enough courage he said
finally he got up enough courage he said
finally he got up enough courage he said to go the general said general salute
to go the general said general salute
to go the general said general salute permission to speak freely
permission to speak freely
permission to speak freely he said he’s speak freely he said
he said he’s speak freely he said
he said he’s speak freely he said general there is so much information
general there is so much information
general there is so much information here and there’s so much here no one’s
here and there’s so much here no one’s
here and there’s so much here no one’s can really gonna know for sure how the
can really gonna know for sure how the
can really gonna know for sure how the how could you just make that decision
how could you just make that decision
how could you just make that decision like that
like that
like that he said because someone had to make it
he said because someone had to make it
he said because someone had to make it he said because it’s been going around
he said because it’s been going around
he said because it’s been going around for 10 years back and forth and no one
for 10 years back and forth and no one
for 10 years back and forth and no one being able to make a decision he said
being able to make a decision he said
being able to make a decision he said what if you’re wrong he said if I’m
what if you’re wrong he said if I’m
what if you’re wrong he said if I’m wrong we’ll find out quicker if I’m
wrong we’ll find out quicker if I’m
wrong we’ll find out quicker if I’m right the job will be done next question
right the job will be done next question
right the job will be done next question right it’s like when you’re put in
right it’s like when you’re put in
right it’s like when you’re put in charge take command I love this message
charge take command I love this message
charge take command I love this message and what I would add to it is it’s not
and what I would add to it is it’s not
and what I would add to it is it’s not just when you’re in charge you take
just when you’re in charge you take
just when you’re in charge you take command but to always be looking for
command but to always be looking for
command but to always be looking for opportunities to take your mind it’s an
opportunities to take your mind it’s an
opportunities to take your mind it’s an essential skill to learn as an
essential skill to learn as an
essential skill to learn as an entrepreneur how to be a leader and
entrepreneur how to be a leader and
entrepreneur how to be a leader and you’re not just given leadership
you’re not just given leadership
you’re not just given leadership opportunities a lot a lot of times you
opportunities a lot a lot of times you
opportunities a lot a lot of times you have to step up and take command where
have to step up and take command where
have to step up and take command where you see a void now that doesn’t mean
you see a void now that doesn’t mean
you see a void now that doesn’t mean that everybody should always try to be
that everybody should always try to be
that everybody should always try to be taking command right if everybody’s
taking command right if everybody’s
taking command right if everybody’s trying to be a commander and there’s
trying to be a commander and there’s
trying to be a commander and there’s nobody else to actually do the work
nobody else to actually do the work
nobody else to actually do the work that’s a problem but when you see a void
that’s a problem but when you see a void
that’s a problem but when you see a void when you see that there’s a vacuum when
when you see that there’s a vacuum when
when you see that there’s a vacuum when you see that there’s this hole where
you see that there’s this hole where
you see that there’s this hole where you’re walking in circles and you’re
you’re walking in circles and you’re
you’re walking in circles and you’re going around and the decision needs to
going around and the decision needs to
going around and the decision needs to be made and nobody wants to make that
be made and nobody wants to make that
be made and nobody wants to make that decision that’s we need to step up and
decision that’s we need to step up and
decision that’s we need to step up and do it even if somebody else may have
do it even if somebody else may have
do it even if somebody else may have been appointed in charge I think of a
been appointed in charge I think of a
been appointed in charge I think of a story here at TDS where Alex who helps
story here at TDS where Alex who helps
story here at TDS where Alex who helps me run the school was downstairs and two
me run the school was downstairs and two
me run the school was downstairs and two guys started fighting it broke out into
guys started fighting it broke out into
guys started fighting it broke out into some fight don’t know what the cause was
some fight don’t know what the cause was
some fight don’t know what the cause was and as a security guard right next to
and as a security guard right next to
and as a security guard right next to them and you didn’t do anything he’s
them and you didn’t do anything he’s
them and you didn’t do anything he’s just kind of watching along like that
just kind of watching along like that
just kind of watching along like that guys supposed to be the guy in charge
guys supposed to be the guy in charge
guys supposed to be the guy in charge right like you’re in charge of security
right like you’re in charge of security
right like you’re in charge of security you’re supposed to keep the place safe
you’re supposed to keep the place safe
you’re supposed to keep the place safe break up fights put it in yours just
break up fights put it in yours just
break up fights put it in yours just watching and so Alex and seeing that
watching and so Alex and seeing that
watching and so Alex and seeing that decided to step in and break the two
decided to step in and break the two
decided to step in and break the two guys up and stop the fight and so if you
guys up and stop the fight and so if you
guys up and stop the fight and so if you see conflict if you see inaction if you
see conflict if you see inaction if you
see conflict if you see inaction if you get frustrated with something even if
get frustrated with something even if
get frustrated with something even if there is somebody else in charge you’re
there is somebody else in charge you’re
there is somebody else in charge you’re supposed to be in charge and they’re not
supposed to be in charge and they’re not
supposed to be in charge and they’re not doing it I encourage you to step up and
doing it I encourage you to step up and
doing it I encourage you to step up and take command do the right thing where
take command do the right thing where
take command do the right thing where most people will do is
most people will do is
most people will do is they’ll go home and complain right or
they’ll go home and complain right or
they’ll go home and complain right or complaining their friends oh there was
complaining their friends oh there was
complaining their friends oh there was this big fight and the security guard
this big fight and the security guard
this big fight and the security guard did nothing you know I can’t believe
did nothing you know I can’t believe
did nothing you know I can’t believe that guy didn’t do anything and you put
that guy didn’t do anything and you put
that guy didn’t do anything and you put a lot of blame and responsibility on him
a lot of blame and responsibility on him
a lot of blame and responsibility on him well where were you like what did you do
well where were you like what did you do
well where were you like what did you do that make the situation better instead
that make the situation better instead
that make the situation better instead of complaining out reliefs look inwardly
of complaining out reliefs look inwardly
of complaining out reliefs look inwardly instead of complaining that nothing
instead of complaining that nothing
instead of complaining that nothing happens at your company or with your
happens at your company or with your
happens at your company or with your boss or with your customers instead of
boss or with your customers instead of
boss or with your customers instead of complaining them blaming them for not
complaining them blaming them for not
complaining them blaming them for not taking enough action look inward solve
taking enough action look inward solve
taking enough action look inward solve the problem and being the leader and
the problem and being the leader and
the problem and being the leader and taking command often sucks because maybe
taking command often sucks because maybe
taking command often sucks because maybe you make the wrong call because you’re
you make the wrong call because you’re
you make the wrong call because you’re making a decisions based off incomplete
making a decisions based off incomplete
making a decisions based off incomplete information because if something goes
information because if something goes
information because if something goes wrong you’re the one who made that call
wrong you’re the one who made that call
wrong you’re the one who made that call and we’re so afraid of getting the the
and we’re so afraid of getting the the
and we’re so afraid of getting the the failure happened and being placed on us
failure happened and being placed on us
failure happened and being placed on us instead of also looking at hey what if
instead of also looking at hey what if
instead of also looking at hey what if what if this thing actually turns out
what if this thing actually turns out
what if this thing actually turns out for the positive we don’t want to risk
for the positive we don’t want to risk
for the positive we don’t want to risk making a mistake in front of other
making a mistake in front of other
making a mistake in front of other people so we don’t do anything we’re so
people so we don’t do anything we’re so
people so we don’t do anything we’re so afraid of making the wrong call in front
afraid of making the wrong call in front
afraid of making the wrong call in front of other people and so we make zero call
of other people and so we make zero call
of other people and so we make zero call but that’s the point of a leader you
but that’s the point of a leader you
but that’s the point of a leader you make the best decision that you can with
make the best decision that you can with
make the best decision that you can with the information that you have and you
the information that you have and you
the information that you have and you take some action and so I would
take some action and so I would
take some action and so I would encourage you the next time you feel
encourage you the next time you feel
encourage you the next time you feel frustrated next time you feel upset
frustrated next time you feel upset
frustrated next time you feel upset angry things are not happening as I
angry things are not happening as I
angry things are not happening as I showed things you’re taking too long
showed things you’re taking too long
showed things you’re taking too long things are going around in circles you
things are going around in circles you
things are going around in circles you see of a vacuum you see a void of
see of a vacuum you see a void of
see of a vacuum you see a void of leadership in your own business or in a
leadership in your own business or in a
leadership in your own business or in a group that you’re in or on the street or
group that you’re in or on the street or
group that you’re in or on the street or with your friends you see a void of
with your friends you see a void of
with your friends you see a void of leadership even though it’s not your
leadership even though it’s not your
leadership even though it’s not your responsibility even though you haven’t
responsibility even though you haven’t
responsibility even though you haven’t been appointed as the one in charge to
been appointed as the one in charge to
been appointed as the one in charge to commit solve the problem make it right
commit solve the problem make it right
commit solve the problem make it right stop complaining and do something about
stop complaining and do something about
stop complaining and do something about so the question today today is I’m
so the question today today is I’m
so the question today today is I’m curious when was the last time you took
curious when was the last time you took
curious when was the last time you took command in a situation you weren’t
command in a situation you weren’t
command in a situation you weren’t liking how things are going and you said
liking how things are going and you said
liking how things are going and you said this is what we’re gonna do really
this is what we’re gonna do really
this is what we’re gonna do really curious to find out leave it down in the
curious to find out leave it down in the
curious to find out leave it down in the comments below I also want to give a
comments below I also want to give a
comments below I also want to give a quick shout out to Vicky shim Vicky
quick shout out to Vicky shim Vicky
quick shout out to Vicky shim Vicky thank you so much for picking up a cup
thank you so much for picking up a cup
thank you so much for picking up a cup of my book your one word it really
of my book your one word it really
of my book your one word it really really means a lot to me and I hope
really means a lot to me and I hope
really means a lot to me and I hope you’re enjoying the read thank you guys
you’re enjoying the read thank you guys
you’re enjoying the read thank you guys again for watching I hope you have an
again for watching I hope you have an
again for watching I hope you have an amazing day I believe in you I hope we
amazing day I believe in you I hope we
amazing day I believe in you I hope we continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and
continue to believe in yourself and whatever you’re one where it is much
whatever you’re one where it is much
whatever you’re one where it is much love and I’ll see you again tomorrow
love and I’ll see you again tomorrow
love and I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for another shot of espresso
and I I mean personally I always try to
and I I mean personally I always try to listen because I might be not and maybe
listen because I might be not and maybe
listen because I might be not and maybe I’m not getting something I always try
I’m not getting something I always try
I’m not getting something I always try and take everybody’s because it’s
and take everybody’s because it’s
and take everybody’s because it’s important to listen to everyone as many
important to listen to everyone as many
important to listen to everyone as many people as you can and get their input
people as you can and get their input
people as you can and get their input but then finally you have to make your
but then finally you have to make your
but then finally you have to make your own decision about what you’re gonna do
own decision about what you’re gonna do
own decision about what you’re gonna do and that’s it that’s what you feel and
and that’s it that’s what you feel and
and that’s it that’s what you feel and that’s it and that that’s the most
that’s it and that that’s the most
that’s it and that that’s the most important thing I think the most
important thing I think the most
important thing I think the most important thing because that’s where the
important thing because that’s where the
important thing because that’s where the uniqueness comes in because it’s you
uniqueness comes in because it’s you
uniqueness comes in because it’s you you’ve done it it’s your thing it’s not
you’ve done it it’s your thing it’s not
you’ve done it it’s your thing it’s not anybody else’s it’s your choice one
anybody else’s it’s your choice one
anybody else’s it’s your choice one other thing I learned particularly in
other thing I learned particularly in
other thing I learned particularly in Japan that from time to time making
Japan that from time to time making
Japan that from time to time making quick decision it’s gonna hurt the
quick decision it’s gonna hurt the
quick decision it’s gonna hurt the execution of the decision because I
execution of the decision because I
execution of the decision because I think what do you want when you make a
think what do you want when you make a
think what do you want when you make a decision what you want you want to
decision what you want you want to
decision what you want you want to transform reality you don’t want to make
transform reality you don’t want to make
transform reality you don’t want to make a decision for the sake of making a
a decision for the sake of making a
a decision for the sake of making a decision you make a decision because you
decision you make a decision because you
decision you make a decision because you want something to change so your goal is
want something to change so your goal is
want something to change so your goal is the thing changed that should go so now
the thing changed that should go so now
the thing changed that should go so now the question is when should you make the
the question is when should you make the
the question is when should you make the decision in order to make sure that this
decision in order to make sure that this
decision in order to make sure that this thing has changed in the fastest period
thing has changed in the fastest period
thing has changed in the fastest period of time so from time to time you have to
of time so from time to time you have to
of time so from time to time you have to wait to make the decision because you’re
wait to make the decision because you’re
wait to make the decision because you’re preparing people to execute from time to
preparing people to execute from time to
preparing people to execute from time to time you need to make the decision very
time you need to make the decision very
time you need to make the decision very early from time to time a little bit
early from time to time a little bit
early from time to time a little bit late but when I say this is eveness mean
late but when I say this is eveness mean
late but when I say this is eveness mean capacity to take the decision at the
capacity to take the decision at the
capacity to take the decision at the appropriate time because at the end of
appropriate time because at the end of
appropriate time because at the end of the day what you need is reality changes
the day what you need is reality changes
the day what you need is reality changes that’s that’s your goal if you had to
that’s that’s your goal if you had to
that’s that’s your goal if you had to think of one word that’s most important
think of one word that’s most important
think of one word that’s most important to you or that sums you Apple
to you or that sums you Apple
to you or that sums you Apple that would be collect a little beacon
that would be collect a little beacon
that would be collect a little beacon pay believe nation if you want to know
pay believe nation if you want to know
pay believe nation if you want to know what the most important one word is for
what the most important one word is for
what the most important one word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah
Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah
Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.i.am and Howard Schultz I
Winfrey will.i.am and Howard Schultz I
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