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How to Find What You REALLY Want – #BelieveLife


c’mon elimination my name is Evan

c’mon elimination my name is Evan Carmichael my one word is both Eve and I

Carmichael my one word is both Eve and I

Carmichael my one word is both Eve and I believe that US firms will solve all of

believe that US firms will solve all of

believe that US firms will solve all of the we took off from the world so to

the we took off from the world so to

the we took off from the world so to help you on here at your today we’re to

help you on here at your today we’re to

help you on here at your today we’re to talk about how you can figure out what

talk about how you can figure out what

talk about how you can figure out what you using anymore

you using anymore

you using anymore rule number four is my personal favorite

rule number four is my personal favorite

rule number four is my personal favorite and I’d love to know which one you guys

and I’d love to know which one you guys

and I’d love to know which one you guys like the best and I was always there

like the best and I was always there

like the best and I was always there watching you hear something that’s

watching you hear something that’s

watching you hear something that’s really aggressive each of you please

really aggressive each of you please

really aggressive each of you please leave it down below quotes around other

leave it down below quotes around other

leave it down below quotes around other needs to be inspired like win a prize –

needs to be inspired like win a prize –

needs to be inspired like win a prize – and I’m going to write it down much more

and I’m going to write it down much more

and I’m going to write it down much more likely to stick for yourself describe to

likely to stick for yourself describe to

likely to stick for yourself describe to us

us

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the point I want to share with you is

the point I want to share with you is when I was growing up my dad took out

when I was growing up my dad took out

when I was growing up my dad took out this poem and he translated it from Sun

this poem and he translated it from Sun

this poem and he translated it from Sun script into English and it was a poem

script into English and it was a poem

script into English and it was a poem from the Bengali poet Rabindranath

from the Bengali poet Rabindranath

from the Bengali poet Rabindranath Tagore and allow me to share it with you

Tagore and allow me to share it with you

Tagore and allow me to share it with you it simply said spring has passed summer

it simply said spring has passed summer

it simply said spring has passed summer has gone and winter is here and the song

has gone and winter is here and the song

has gone and winter is here and the song I’m meant to sing remains unsung for

I’m meant to sing remains unsung for

I’m meant to sing remains unsung for I’ve spent my days stringing and I’m

I’ve spent my days stringing and I’m

I’ve spent my days stringing and I’m stringing my instrument and my brother

stringing my instrument and my brother

stringing my instrument and my brother and I used to look at it every morning

and I used to look at it every morning

and I used to look at it every morning before we go out to school but I never

before we go out to school but I never

before we go out to school but I never really understood it and so when I got a

really understood it and so when I got a

really understood it and so when I got a little older I said dad you know that

little older I said dad you know that

little older I said dad you know that poem you had on our refrigerator door

poem you had on our refrigerator door

poem you had on our refrigerator door what was it all about

what was it all about

what was it all about and my dad looked at me said he said

and my dad looked at me said he said

and my dad looked at me said he said Robin that was a poem written by a man

Robin that was a poem written by a man

Robin that was a poem written by a man whose heart was filled with the regret

whose heart was filled with the regret

whose heart was filled with the regret over a life half lived

over a life half lived

over a life half lived he said Robin that was a poem written by

he said Robin that was a poem written by

he said Robin that was a poem written by a man who postponed his life he always

a man who postponed his life he always

a man who postponed his life he always wanted to do something special he always

wanted to do something special he always

wanted to do something special he always wanted to do important work he always

wanted to do important work he always

wanted to do important work he always wanted to be loving in the world he

wanted to be loving in the world he

wanted to be loving in the world he always wanted to be creative he always

always wanted to be creative he always

always wanted to be creative he always wanted to see the world but it got busy

wanted to see the world but it got busy

wanted to see the world but it got busy being busy are you being busy being busy

being busy are you being busy being busy

being busy are you being busy being busy have you lost that connection to the

have you lost that connection to the

have you lost that connection to the life you wanted to live when you were a

life you wanted to live when you were a

life you wanted to live when you were a little kid are you so busy stringing

little kid are you so busy stringing

little kid are you so busy stringing your instrument that the song that your

your instrument that the song that your

your instrument that the song that your life was meant to sing has died or is

life was meant to sing has died or is

life was meant to sing has died or is dormant within you and my challenge to

dormant within you and my challenge to

dormant within you and my challenge to you is simply this to do whatever takes

you is simply this to do whatever takes

you is simply this to do whatever takes before you sleep tonight to reconnect

before you sleep tonight to reconnect

before you sleep tonight to reconnect with the best within you that you may

with the best within you that you may

with the best within you that you may have lost because one of the things I’ve

have lost because one of the things I’ve

have lost because one of the things I’ve noticed is this there are too many

noticed is this there are too many

noticed is this there are too many amongst us walking the planet today who

amongst us walking the planet today who

amongst us walking the planet today who are sort of in a waking sleep they have

are sort of in a waking sleep they have

are sort of in a waking sleep they have lost a sense of who they truly are and

lost a sense of who they truly are and

lost a sense of who they truly are and your life will never work if there’s a

your life will never work if there’s a

your life will never work if there’s a huge space between who you truly are

huge space between who you truly are

huge space between who you truly are and the person you know you’re meant to

and the person you know you’re meant to

and the person you know you’re meant to be your life will never be flooded with

be your life will never be flooded with

be your life will never be flooded with energy creativity productivity and

energy creativity productivity and

energy creativity productivity and happiness if there is a large space

happiness if there is a large space

happiness if there is a large space between your life right now and your

between your life right now and your

between your life right now and your unlived life and my request and

unlived life and my request and

unlived life and my request and encouragement and challenge to you is

encouragement and challenge to you is

encouragement and challenge to you is truly that you make the

truly that you make the

truly that you make the happen so that the person you are

happen so that the person you are

happen so that the person you are starting tomorrow is more of who you

starting tomorrow is more of who you

starting tomorrow is more of who you know you truly are it makes me think of

know you truly are it makes me think of

know you truly are it makes me think of George Bernard Shaw he was asked on his

George Bernard Shaw he was asked on his

George Bernard Shaw he was asked on his deathbed what would you do if you could

deathbed what would you do if you could

deathbed what would you do if you could live your life over again and he replied

live your life over again and he replied

live your life over again and he replied after a long pause I wish I could become

after a long pause I wish I could become

after a long pause I wish I could become the person I know I was meant to be and

the person I know I was meant to be and

the person I know I was meant to be and I suggest to you it’s never too late for

I suggest to you it’s never too late for

I suggest to you it’s never too late for you to become the person you’ve always

you to become the person you’ve always

you to become the person you’ve always wanted to be

wanted to be

wanted to be but don’t postpone it for next year

but don’t postpone it for next year

but don’t postpone it for next year don’t postpone it for next month start

don’t postpone it for next month start

don’t postpone it for next month start being that person that human being that

being that person that human being that

being that person that human being that creative force that business builder

creative force that business builder

creative force that business builder that mother or father that athlete that

that mother or father that athlete that

that mother or father that athlete that humanitarian that force of good that you

humanitarian that force of good that you

humanitarian that force of good that you have always wanted to be beginning right

have always wanted to be beginning right

have always wanted to be beginning right now if you’re familiar with my work you

now if you’re familiar with my work you

now if you’re familiar with my work you know for the last 34 years I’ve been

know for the last 34 years I’ve been

know for the last 34 years I’ve been just obsessed with wanting to know what

just obsessed with wanting to know what

just obsessed with wanting to know what makes the difference and the quality

makes the difference and the quality

makes the difference and the quality people’s lives why is it so many people

people’s lives why is it so many people

people’s lives why is it so many people are big dreams but such a small number

are big dreams but such a small number

are big dreams but such a small number of people ever make those dreams a

of people ever make those dreams a

of people ever make those dreams a reality and for those that do make it a

reality and for those that do make it a

reality and for those that do make it a reality what is it get them not only to

reality what is it get them not only to

reality what is it get them not only to follow through but then to enjoy what

follow through but then to enjoy what

follow through but then to enjoy what they have I don’t know if you’ve ever

they have I don’t know if you’ve ever

they have I don’t know if you’ve ever had the experience of achieving

had the experience of achieving

had the experience of achieving something that you’ve always wanted and

something that you’ve always wanted and

something that you’ve always wanted and then afterwards thinking to yourself is

then afterwards thinking to yourself is

then afterwards thinking to yourself is this all there is some of the worst

this all there is some of the worst

this all there is some of the worst feelings the worst it’s almost worse

feelings the worst it’s almost worse

feelings the worst it’s almost worse than than failing because when you say

than than failing because when you say

than than failing because when you say at least you know hair can still find a

at least you know hair can still find a

at least you know hair can still find a way to make it happen but when you

way to make it happen but when you

way to make it happen but when you succeed and you’re not happy you’re not

succeed and you’re not happy you’re not

succeed and you’re not happy you’re not fulfilled then you got a real problem

fulfilled then you got a real problem

fulfilled then you got a real problem there’s two things that control

there’s two things that control

there’s two things that control everything in your life every thought

everything in your life every thought

everything in your life every thought every feeling every emotion every action

every feeling every emotion every action

every feeling every emotion every action you have in your life what you’re

you have in your life what you’re

you have in your life what you’re wearing today whether you’re going to

wearing today whether you’re going to

wearing today whether you’re going to turn this off within a few minutes or

turn this off within a few minutes or

turn this off within a few minutes or whether you’re going to stick with me

whether you’re going to stick with me

whether you’re going to stick with me here for two or three minutes it’s all

here for two or three minutes it’s all

here for two or three minutes it’s all controlled by two things your beliefs

controlled by two things your beliefs

controlled by two things your beliefs and your values whatever you believe if

and your values whatever you believe if

and your values whatever you believe if you think life is just a waste of time

you think life is just a waste of time

you think life is just a waste of time doesn’t matter what you do or you know

doesn’t matter what you do or you know

doesn’t matter what you do or you know you’re big-boned then obviously you’re

you’re big-boned then obviously you’re

you’re big-boned then obviously you’re not going to go for it you’re not going

not going to go for it you’re not going

not going to go for it you’re not going to try to lose weight you’re not going

to try to lose weight you’re not going

to try to lose weight you’re not going to go push for that next level of your

to go push for that next level of your

to go push for that next level of your career or your finances or or your

career or your finances or or your

career or your finances or or your relationship or anything else beliefs

relationship or anything else beliefs

relationship or anything else beliefs control us but some of our values some

control us but some of our values some

control us but some of our values some people you know value just kicking back

people you know value just kicking back

people you know value just kicking back some people value making it happen some

some people value making it happen some

some people value making it happen some people value their family the most some

people value their family the most some

people value their family the most some people value love but you know the real

people value love but you know the real

people value love but you know the real challenge is we have not using conflict

challenge is we have not using conflict

challenge is we have not using conflict when you really want to make a

when you really want to make a

when you really want to make a difference in the world or you really

difference in the world or you really

difference in the world or you really want to do well for your family or you

want to do well for your family or you

want to do well for your family or you really want to do well financially but

really want to do well financially but

really want to do well financially but simultaneously you know you don’t want

simultaneously you know you don’t want

simultaneously you know you don’t want upset anybody you want to be totally

upset anybody you want to be totally

upset anybody you want to be totally honest you want to make everybody happy

honest you want to make everybody happy

honest you want to make everybody happy when we have conflicts between what we

when we have conflicts between what we

when we have conflicts between what we want and what we think we can have or

want and what we think we can have or

want and what we think we can have or you know you have a goal of what you

you know you have a goal of what you

you know you have a goal of what you really want to make happen but then you

really want to make happen but then you

really want to make happen but then you have this other belief inside that says

have this other belief inside that says

have this other belief inside that says damn stuff never doesn’t work those

damn stuff never doesn’t work those

damn stuff never doesn’t work those inner conflicts are what keep people

inner conflicts are what keep people

inner conflicts are what keep people from using all of their energy it’s kind

from using all of their energy it’s kind

from using all of their energy it’s kind of like taking two steps forward and

of like taking two steps forward and

of like taking two steps forward and three steps back you know it used to be

three steps back you know it used to be

three steps back you know it used to be people kind of ran on kind of seven-year

people kind of ran on kind of seven-year

people kind of ran on kind of seven-year cycles it’s kind of an arbitrary number

cycles it’s kind of an arbitrary number

cycles it’s kind of an arbitrary number but think about it from 17 to 24 is kind

but think about it from 17 to 24 is kind

but think about it from 17 to 24 is kind of a stage of life for a lot of people

of a stage of life for a lot of people

of a stage of life for a lot of people from 24 really till about 3

from 24 really till about 3

from 24 really till about 3 that’s another stage of life 32 to 39 or

that’s another stage of life 32 to 39 or

that’s another stage of life 32 to 39 or 40 years old in other states 42 47

40 years old in other states 42 47

40 years old in other states 42 47 another stage and those are random

another stage and those are random

another stage and those are random numbers but what I mean is people can

numbers but what I mean is people can

numbers but what I mean is people can have an idea but they think life’s about

have an idea but they think life’s about

have an idea but they think life’s about it’s my kids it’s building my business

it’s my kids it’s building my business

it’s my kids it’s building my business it’s making money it’s god it’s family

it’s making money it’s god it’s family

it’s making money it’s god it’s family it’s whatever it is and then they go for

it’s whatever it is and then they go for

it’s whatever it is and then they go for it for a period of time three four or

it for a period of time three four or

it for a period of time three four or five six seven years whatever maybe ten

five six seven years whatever maybe ten

five six seven years whatever maybe ten but then there’s a time in which people

but then there’s a time in which people

but then there’s a time in which people begin to question they begin to look at

begin to question they begin to look at

begin to question they begin to look at their life and the begin to say is this

their life and the begin to say is this

their life and the begin to say is this really what I want could you found

really what I want could you found

really what I want could you found yourself with that at any time and then

yourself with that at any time and then

yourself with that at any time and then they do one of two things

they do one of two things

they do one of two things they either recommit and they go for

they either recommit and they go for

they either recommit and they go for another seven years and they take it to

another seven years and they take it to

another seven years and they take it to another level or they make a strategic

another level or they make a strategic

another level or they make a strategic decision that shifts the direction of

decision that shifts the direction of

decision that shifts the direction of their life either way your decisions

their life either way your decisions

their life either way your decisions control your destiny and if you don’t

control your destiny and if you don’t

control your destiny and if you don’t choose that’s a choice as well some

choose that’s a choice as well some

choose that’s a choice as well some people just kind of stay in the middle

people just kind of stay in the middle

people just kind of stay in the middle of that lukewarm place not shirring what

of that lukewarm place not shirring what

of that lukewarm place not shirring what not sure what they really want so

not sure what they really want so

not sure what they really want so there’s kind of off the cuff what I’m

there’s kind of off the cuff what I’m

there’s kind of off the cuff what I’m really trying to say to you is maybe the

really trying to say to you is maybe the

really trying to say to you is maybe the question asked is what I want my life to

question asked is what I want my life to

question asked is what I want my life to be today and what am I really going what

be today and what am I really going what

be today and what am I really going what is my destiny what’s going to fill me up

is my destiny what’s going to fill me up

is my destiny what’s going to fill me up what’s going to give me the meaning for

what’s going to give me the meaning for

what’s going to give me the meaning for my life that’s going to give me joy in

my life that’s going to give me joy in

my life that’s going to give me joy in my life not just achievement but real

my life not just achievement but real

my life not just achievement but real enjoyment a sense of meaning and

enjoyment a sense of meaning and

enjoyment a sense of meaning and aliveness seven billion plus people on

aliveness seven billion plus people on

aliveness seven billion plus people on the planet you’re different than every

the planet you’re different than every

the planet you’re different than every single one of them there’s a unique

single one of them there’s a unique

single one of them there’s a unique aspect to your personality your style

aspect to your personality your style

aspect to your personality your style your intentions your actions your habits

your intentions your actions your habits

your intentions your actions your habits your beliefs who you are and the way

your beliefs who you are and the way

your beliefs who you are and the way that you think is unique from everybody

that you think is unique from everybody

that you think is unique from everybody else we can measure it by science we can

else we can measure it by science we can

else we can measure it by science we can measure it by observation we can measure

measure it by observation we can measure

measure it by observation we can measure just by simply asking people to basic

just by simply asking people to basic

just by simply asking people to basic questions to discover it everyone’s got

questions to discover it everyone’s got

questions to discover it everyone’s got their own opinion everyone’s got their

their own opinion everyone’s got their

their own opinion everyone’s got their own worldview and because of that then

own worldview and because of that then

own worldview and because of that then we have to ask well am i living my life

we have to ask well am i living my life

we have to ask well am i living my life uniquely you know am i expressing who I

uniquely you know am i expressing who I

uniquely you know am i expressing who I genuinely am or my expressions genuine

genuinely am or my expressions genuine

genuinely am or my expressions genuine and authentic and spontaneous to Who I

and authentic and spontaneous to Who I

and authentic and spontaneous to Who I am as a person or am i living asad you

am as a person or am i living asad you

am as a person or am i living asad you know am I trying to be somebody else to

know am I trying to be somebody else to

know am I trying to be somebody else to please somebody else to gain acceptance

please somebody else to gain acceptance

please somebody else to gain acceptance or love over here or am I truly being

or love over here or am I truly being

or love over here or am I truly being true to myself to

true to myself to

true to myself to unique self to the inner side of who I

unique self to the inner side of who I

unique self to the inner side of who I really am and what I want to show to the

really am and what I want to show to the

really am and what I want to show to the world because a lot of people really you

world because a lot of people really you

world because a lot of people really you know struggle with this and the reason

know struggle with this and the reason

know struggle with this and the reason they start setting out to look for their

they start setting out to look for their

they start setting out to look for their purpose in their life is one day they

purpose in their life is one day they

purpose in their life is one day they woke up and they realize they’re not

woke up and they realize they’re not

woke up and they realize they’re not living their life they’re living their

living their life they’re living their

living their life they’re living their parents like that professors life their

parents like that professors life their

parents like that professors life their teachers life they’re they’re living the

teachers life they’re they’re living the

teachers life they’re they’re living the life that society or their culture or

life that society or their culture or

life that society or their culture or their norms told them to live one day

their norms told them to live one day

their norms told them to live one day they wake up say whoa

they wake up say whoa

they wake up say whoa why have I conformed to the point where

why have I conformed to the point where

why have I conformed to the point where I want to know who I am anymore

I want to know who I am anymore

I want to know who I am anymore and they start this journey sometimes to

and they start this journey sometimes to

and they start this journey sometimes to look for life’s to purpose because

look for life’s to purpose because

look for life’s to purpose because they’re trying to find themselves

they’re trying to find themselves

they’re trying to find themselves they’re not looking for a big purpose

they’re not looking for a big purpose

they’re not looking for a big purpose they’re looking for themselves and

they’re looking for themselves and

they’re looking for themselves and sometimes when we can tap back into that

sometimes when we can tap back into that

sometimes when we can tap back into that uniqueness of who we are then the magic

uniqueness of who we are then the magic

uniqueness of who we are then the magic of life comes alive again you know that

of life comes alive again you know that

of life comes alive again you know that requires us to not only exude who we are

requires us to not only exude who we are

requires us to not only exude who we are to the world but to genuinely express

to the world but to genuinely express

to the world but to genuinely express who we are what we think what we desire

who we are what we think what we desire

who we are what we think what we desire of life what we need how we truly feel

of life what we need how we truly feel

of life what we need how we truly feel and think about the people in our lives

and think about the people in our lives

and think about the people in our lives the things that we are doing with our

the things that we are doing with our

the things that we are doing with our lives the places and directions we’re

lives the places and directions we’re

lives the places and directions we’re going we have to do that if we want to

going we have to do that if we want to

going we have to do that if we want to sense that full uniqueness of ourselves

sense that full uniqueness of ourselves

sense that full uniqueness of ourselves and often it is by suppressing ourselves

and often it is by suppressing ourselves

and often it is by suppressing ourselves that we begin to suffer and we have to

that we begin to suffer and we have to

that we begin to suffer and we have to again ask well then what is the point of

again ask well then what is the point of

again ask well then what is the point of all this is it to live as a you know as

all this is it to live as a you know as

all this is it to live as a you know as a carbon copy of everybody else or to

a carbon copy of everybody else or to

a carbon copy of everybody else or to fully with full intention and aliveness

fully with full intention and aliveness

fully with full intention and aliveness animate the best of who we are uniquely

animate the best of who we are uniquely

animate the best of who we are uniquely I think that you being yourself is a

I think that you being yourself is a

I think that you being yourself is a grand purpose a brain tattoo I love

grand purpose a brain tattoo I love

grand purpose a brain tattoo I love sharing with my audiences is this one a

sharing with my audiences is this one a

sharing with my audiences is this one a job is only just a job if you see it as

job is only just a job if you see it as

job is only just a job if you see it as a job and so why would you lose the

a job and so why would you lose the

a job and so why would you lose the opportunity to leverage what you do

opportunity to leverage what you do

opportunity to leverage what you do every day to grow your happiness to grow

every day to grow your happiness to grow

every day to grow your happiness to grow your energy to allow you to release more

your energy to allow you to release more

your energy to allow you to release more your talents in the world to allow you

your talents in the world to allow you

your talents in the world to allow you to help more people why would you miss

to help more people why would you miss

to help more people why would you miss that opportunity by falling into the

that opportunity by falling into the

that opportunity by falling into the trap of thinking this is my job I’m just

trap of thinking this is my job I’m just

trap of thinking this is my job I’m just getting up in the morning working 9:00

getting up in the morning working 9:00

getting up in the morning working 9:00 to 5:00 going down to the coal mine

to 5:00 going down to the coal mine

to 5:00 going down to the coal mine every day and you could say well Robin

every day and you could say well Robin

every day and you could say well Robin this doesn’t apply to me you know I just

this doesn’t apply to me you know I just

this doesn’t apply to me you know I just have a ordinary job well I’ve got to

have a ordinary job well I’ve got to

have a ordinary job well I’ve got to tell you I’ve met taxi drivers who feel

tell you I’ve met taxi drivers who feel

tell you I’ve met taxi drivers who feel their work is incredibly meaningful I

their work is incredibly meaningful I

their work is incredibly meaningful I mean I was at LaGuardia and I remember

mean I was at LaGuardia and I remember

mean I was at LaGuardia and I remember you know being in a taxi cab and the man

you know being in a taxi cab and the man

you know being in a taxi cab and the man had this white shirt and his cab was

had this white shirt and his cab was

had this white shirt and his cab was perfection and I said you know your

perfection and I said you know your

perfection and I said you know your attitude is great your passion is

attitude is great your passion is

attitude is great your passion is awesome you your cab is perfect you’ve

awesome you your cab is perfect you’ve

awesome you your cab is perfect you’ve got this fresh newspaper for me to read

got this fresh newspaper for me to read

got this fresh newspaper for me to read what is your psychology that allows you

what is your psychology that allows you

what is your psychology that allows you to do this and he said Robin this is not

to do this and he said Robin this is not

to do this and he said Robin this is not a dirty job it’s an important job I get

a dirty job it’s an important job I get

a dirty job it’s an important job I get to make a difference I remember being

to make a difference I remember being

to make a difference I remember being Johannesburg meeting the janitor in the

Johannesburg meeting the janitor in the

Johannesburg meeting the janitor in the Johannesburg men’s room or WC who worked

Johannesburg men’s room or WC who worked

Johannesburg men’s room or WC who worked like he was the Elon Musk of what he did

like he was the Elon Musk of what he did

like he was the Elon Musk of what he did because he worked like Pavarotti saying

because he worked like Pavarotti saying

because he worked like Pavarotti saying and so my point is simply this it’s

and so my point is simply this it’s

and so my point is simply this it’s really your choice as to how you will

really your choice as to how you will

really your choice as to how you will view the work you do every day and even

view the work you do every day and even

view the work you do every day and even in the most quote-unquote ordinary of

in the most quote-unquote ordinary of

in the most quote-unquote ordinary of work you can find gold and if you

work you can find gold and if you

work you can find gold and if you connect with the gold you connect with

connect with the gold you connect with

connect with the gold you connect with the meaning and if you connect with the

the meaning and if you connect with the

the meaning and if you connect with the meaning you connect with your talents

meaning you connect with your talents

meaning you connect with your talents then you connect with your talent you

then you connect with your talent you

then you connect with your talent you connect with the best within you and if

connect with the best within you and if

connect with the best within you and if you check with the best within you you

you check with the best within you you

you check with the best within you you go to work every day

go to work every day

go to work every day and you are this shining star of

and you are this shining star of

and you are this shining star of world-class and you become the Picasso

world-class and you become the Picasso

world-class and you become the Picasso of your industry and everything else

of your industry and everything else

of your industry and everything else takes care of itself I just can’t

takes care of itself I just can’t

takes care of itself I just can’t explain to everybody like clear when you

explain to everybody like clear when you

explain to everybody like clear when you figure out who you are and do all that

figure out who you are and do all that

figure out who you are and do all that you win if you’re great a painting pink

you win if you’re great a painting pink

you win if you’re great a painting pink and hire a partner to be your

and hire a partner to be your

and hire a partner to be your salesperson if so many at 20 years old

salesperson if so many at 20 years old

salesperson if so many at 20 years old made me their business partner as a

made me their business partner as a

made me their business partner as a painter they’d be the most famous

painter they’d be the most famous

painter they’d be the most famous painter in the world yet most painters

painter in the world yet most painters

painter in the world yet most painters want to be the salesmen and businessmen

want to be the salesmen and businessmen

want to be the salesmen and businessmen and women as well as the painter and

and women as well as the painter and

and women as well as the painter and there’s a problem

there’s a problem

there’s a problem 85% of painting 90% of people that are

85% of painting 90% of people that are

85% of painting 90% of people that are great a painting are artists and don’t

great a painting are artists and don’t

great a painting are artists and don’t have the DNA to sell and vice versa all

have the DNA to sell and vice versa all

have the DNA to sell and vice versa all my sales for

my sales for

my sales for and the business friends that want to

and the business friends that want to

and the business friends that want to start all these businesses around

start all these businesses around

start all these businesses around something creative I’ve got news for you

something creative I’ve got news for you

something creative I’ve got news for you Joel you know you can be a great

Joel you know you can be a great

Joel you know you can be a great salesman but your pottery sucks and so

salesman but your pottery sucks and so

salesman but your pottery sucks and so that’s that so like it’s really that’s a

that’s that so like it’s really that’s a

that’s that so like it’s really that’s a very funny analogy for the following

very funny analogy for the following

very funny analogy for the following figure out who you are don’t apologize

figure out who you are don’t apologize

figure out who you are don’t apologize for who you are and then become even

for who you are and then become even

for who you are and then become even greater than you naturally are at what

greater than you naturally are at what

greater than you naturally are at what you are that’s the whole the whole game

you are that’s the whole the whole game

you are that’s the whole the whole game is broken because everybody’s too tied

is broken because everybody’s too tied

is broken because everybody’s too tied up into other people’s opinions I only

up into other people’s opinions I only

up into other people’s opinions I only care about my opinion myself and I care

care about my opinion myself and I care

care about my opinion myself and I care what my mom and wife and kids and the

what my mom and wife and kids and the

what my mom and wife and kids and the world think just not as much as I care

world think just not as much as I care

world think just not as much as I care about the way I think about myself and I

about the way I think about myself and I

about the way I think about myself and I and that’s it just that slight advantage

and that’s it just that slight advantage

and that’s it just that slight advantage and I think most of you care more about

and I think most of you care more about

and I think most of you care more about what other people think and what you

what other people think and what you

what other people think and what you think about yourself and or you actually

think about yourself and or you actually

think about yourself and or you actually don’t feel good about yourself right the

don’t feel good about yourself right the

don’t feel good about yourself right the thing that made me smile when you just

thing that made me smile when you just

thing that made me smile when you just introduced me you said I’m one of the

introduced me you said I’m one of the

introduced me you said I’m one of the most motivational people in the world ,

most motivational people in the world ,

most motivational people in the world , and everybody I know that madam said

and everybody I know that madam said

and everybody I know that madam said he’s the nicest guy there’s no

he’s the nicest guy there’s no

he’s the nicest guy there’s no comparison to the better feeling of

comparison to the better feeling of

comparison to the better feeling of people that have actually gotten to know

people that have actually gotten to know

people that have actually gotten to know me say that versus millions hundreds of

me say that versus millions hundreds of

me say that versus millions hundreds of thousands tens of thousands thinking I’m

thousands tens of thousands thinking I’m

thousands tens of thousands thinking I’m the coolest and and and that’s it I mean

the coolest and and and that’s it I mean

the coolest and and and that’s it I mean that’s it and that’s why and that’s why

that’s it and that’s why and that’s why

that’s it and that’s why and that’s why it’s easy for me to feel good about

it’s easy for me to feel good about

it’s easy for me to feel good about myself right and so I think a lot of

myself right and so I think a lot of

myself right and so I think a lot of people need to start with themselves

people need to start with themselves

people need to start with themselves maybe the reason they don’t have more

maybe the reason they don’t have more

maybe the reason they don’t have more confidence in themselves or care about

confidence in themselves or care about

confidence in themselves or care about their opinion about themselves versus

their opinion about themselves versus

their opinion about themselves versus others is because they know they’re

others is because they know they’re

others is because they know they’re doing things they don’t like so they

doing things they don’t like so they

doing things they don’t like so they need to work on that I get offered and

need to work on that I get offered and

need to work on that I get offered and emailed 5,000 different requests for

emailed 5,000 different requests for

emailed 5,000 different requests for podcasts and shows and what’s what I

podcasts and shows and what’s what I

podcasts and shows and what’s what I think my friend here on what’s his name

think my friend here on what’s his name

think my friend here on what’s his name Evan

Evan

Evan buh buh let’s send it in bow I’m sorry

buh buh let’s send it in bow I’m sorry

buh buh let’s send it in bow I’m sorry Evan Carmichael introduce me to bow will

Evan Carmichael introduce me to bow will

Evan Carmichael introduce me to bow will bows figure it out this time at the

bows figure it out this time at the

bows figure it out this time at the asset and so if you want Kevin Hart or

asset and so if you want Kevin Hart or

asset and so if you want Kevin Hart or the rock or or Beyonce or

the rock or or Beyonce or

the rock or or Beyonce or rule or Richard Branson or Tony Hsieh or

rule or Richard Branson or Tony Hsieh or

rule or Richard Branson or Tony Hsieh or Sheryl Sandberg on your podcast maybe

Sheryl Sandberg on your podcast maybe

Sheryl Sandberg on your podcast maybe you should start the 122nd podcast and

you should start the 122nd podcast and

you should start the 122nd podcast and then you got to be creative in trying to

then you got to be creative in trying to

then you got to be creative in trying to figure out how do you get maybe you

figure out how do you get maybe you

figure out how do you get maybe you create the one question video show that

create the one question video show that

create the one question video show that well shows one question promise you a

well shows one question promise you a

well shows one question promise you a lot of people that you want to guess if

lot of people that you want to guess if

lot of people that you want to guess if they see in the headline I just need

they see in the headline I just need

they see in the headline I just need four minutes of your time for the one

four minutes of your time for the one

four minutes of your time for the one question show a lot more to say yes then

question show a lot more to say yes then

question show a lot more to say yes then can you be on my podcast for now and

can you be on my podcast for now and

can you be on my podcast for now and have how do you know when you are on the

have how do you know when you are on the

have how do you know when you are on the right path you and what dream belongs to

right path you and what dream belongs to

right path you and what dream belongs to you or what husband belongs to you or

you or what husband belongs to you or

you or what husband belongs to you or what job belongs to you you know you’re

what job belongs to you you know you’re

what job belongs to you you know you’re on the right path here’s your clue

on the right path here’s your clue

on the right path here’s your clue you’re not beat you’re not put in a

you’re not beat you’re not put in a

you’re not beat you’re not put in a position to betray yourself you don’t

position to betray yourself you don’t

position to betray yourself you don’t betray yourself anymore you don’t

betray yourself anymore you don’t

betray yourself anymore you don’t you’re not put in a position where you

you’re not put in a position where you

you’re not put in a position where you feel like you have to negotiate your

feel like you have to negotiate your

feel like you have to negotiate your sense of integrity hmm which is an act

sense of integrity hmm which is an act

sense of integrity hmm which is an act of betrayal your heart an active

of betrayal your heart an active

of betrayal your heart an active betrayal mm-hmm you don’t feel like you

betrayal mm-hmm you don’t feel like you

betrayal mm-hmm you don’t feel like you have to compromise who you are it feels

have to compromise who you are it feels

have to compromise who you are it feels right you can fully I got that it’s like

right you can fully I got that it’s like

right you can fully I got that it’s like if you’re at a job you know you’re

if you’re at a job you know you’re

if you’re at a job you know you’re really gifted and talented people are

really gifted and talented people are

really gifted and talented people are not paying you for what you value

not paying you for what you value

not paying you for what you value yourself to be you come into work every

yourself to be you come into work every

yourself to be you come into work every day feeling like I’m really not valued

day feeling like I’m really not valued

day feeling like I’m really not valued I’m not being respected for what I do or

I’m not being respected for what I do or

I’m not being respected for what I do or my boss is unkind or whatever the

my boss is unkind or whatever the

my boss is unkind or whatever the situation might be there’s an uneasy

situation might be there’s an uneasy

situation might be there’s an uneasy ring with you that’s right yeah and so

ring with you that’s right yeah and so

ring with you that’s right yeah and so when you have more respect for yourself

when you have more respect for yourself

when you have more respect for yourself put yourself in a position where you can

put yourself in a position where you can

put yourself in a position where you can you know fill your sense of value or

you know fill your sense of value or

you know fill your sense of value or worth right that turns around that’s

worth right that turns around that’s

worth right that turns around that’s right and that’s how you know you know

right and that’s how you know you know

right and that’s how you know you know you know because you don’t feel like

you know because you don’t feel like

you know because you don’t feel like this isn’t costing me my power

this isn’t costing me my power

this isn’t costing me my power this isn’t costing me my psyche this

this isn’t costing me my psyche this

this isn’t costing me my psyche this isn’t costing me my soul this is really

isn’t costing me my soul this is really

isn’t costing me my soul this is really this is costing me my sense of I don’t

this is costing me my sense of I don’t

this is costing me my sense of I don’t feel confused in some deep level

feel confused in some deep level

feel confused in some deep level I’m not drained I can be tired after a

I’m not drained I can be tired after a

I’m not drained I can be tired after a day’s work but I’m

day’s work but I’m

day’s work but I’m that’s psychically drained where I feel

that’s psychically drained where I feel

that’s psychically drained where I feel like I’m losing life and losing myself

like I’m losing life and losing myself

like I’m losing life and losing myself and losing money but a lot I’ll say I’m

and losing money but a lot I’ll say I’m

and losing money but a lot I’ll say I’m losing my myself why because I’m I’m

losing my myself why because I’m I’m

losing my myself why because I’m I’m betraying myself in some way what is the

betraying myself in some way what is the

betraying myself in some way what is the difference because I have a lot of

difference because I have a lot of

difference because I have a lot of married friends I’ve interviewed a lot

married friends I’ve interviewed a lot

married friends I’ve interviewed a lot of people over the years who are married

of people over the years who are married

of people over the years who are married and everybody talks about how difficult

and everybody talks about how difficult

and everybody talks about how difficult I’ll you know it’s work or relationship

I’ll you know it’s work or relationship

I’ll you know it’s work or relationship is were divorced or what is the

is were divorced or what is the

is were divorced or what is the difference between betraying yourself

difference between betraying yourself

difference between betraying yourself and compromising because that’s what I

and compromising because that’s what I

and compromising because that’s what I have to do to get along I’d say that a

have to do to get along I’d say that a

have to do to get along I’d say that a compromise mmm-hmm compromise is when

compromise mmm-hmm compromise is when

compromise mmm-hmm compromise is when you willingly willingly willingly

you willingly willingly willingly

you willingly willingly willingly willingly and out of love say that’s

willingly and out of love say that’s

willingly and out of love say that’s alright a little this little that little

alright a little this little that little

alright a little this little that little this little that but in a compromise

this little that but in a compromise

this little that but in a compromise you don’t go away feeling like I

you don’t go away feeling like I

you don’t go away feeling like I betrayed myself I betrayed myself I’ve

betrayed myself I betrayed myself I’ve

betrayed myself I betrayed myself I’ve allowed myself I’ve put poison in my

allowed myself I’ve put poison in my

allowed myself I’ve put poison in my mouth here okay it goes back to exactly

mouth here okay it goes back to exactly

mouth here okay it goes back to exactly what you said earlier that every choice

what you said earlier that every choice

what you said earlier that every choice is either going to enhance your spirit

is either going to enhance your spirit

is either going to enhance your spirit or it’s going to drain your spirit you

or it’s going to drain your spirit you

or it’s going to drain your spirit you have been compromised to the point where

have been compromised to the point where

have been compromised to the point where you feel drained or depleted right then

you feel drained or depleted right then

you feel drained or depleted right then you’ve betrayed yourself you have I mean

you’ve betrayed yourself you have I mean

you’ve betrayed yourself you have I mean again I got and the numbers of times

again I got and the numbers of times

again I got and the numbers of times someone will say to themselves I want to

someone will say to themselves I want to

someone will say to themselves I want to get out of this circumstance but I’m too

get out of this circumstance but I’m too

get out of this circumstance but I’m too afraid to take care of myself so I will

afraid to take care of myself so I will

afraid to take care of myself so I will lie about how happy I am in this

lie about how happy I am in this

lie about how happy I am in this marriage

marriage

marriage I will I will put up a front I will lie

I will I will put up a front I will lie

I will I will put up a front I will lie about this but they’re betraying

about this but they’re betraying

about this but they’re betraying everything that’s in their heart to

everything that’s in their heart to

everything that’s in their heart to betray everything when they say to me my

betray everything when they say to me my

betray everything when they say to me my on the right path here’s what’s true

on the right path here’s what’s true

on the right path here’s what’s true you’re on your right path you’re just

you’re on your right path you’re just

you’re on your right path you’re just not managing it that well right now

not managing it that well right now

not managing it that well right now you’re never on the wrong now on the

you’re never on the wrong now on the

you’re never on the wrong now on the wrong path you just not managing it well

wrong path you just not managing it well

wrong path you just not managing it well you’re making choices that are harming

you’re making choices that are harming

you’re making choices that are harming you uh-huh and that’s why it’s hurting

you uh-huh and that’s why it’s hurting

you uh-huh and that’s why it’s hurting right now you’re making unwise choices

right now you’re making unwise choices

right now you’re making unwise choices and your intuition is trying to tell me

and your intuition is trying to tell me

and your intuition is trying to tell me the unwise choices

the unwise choices

the unwise choices including the passage Iran right right

including the passage Iran right right

including the passage Iran right right and the way you’re managing the path you

and the way you’re managing the path you

and the way you’re managing the path you run and it’s harming you okay and when

run and it’s harming you okay and when

run and it’s harming you okay and when your life path begins to harm you then

your life path begins to harm you then

your life path begins to harm you then we have to sit back and say you’ve taken

we have to sit back and say you’ve taken

we have to sit back and say you’ve taken a detour you know I just had an aha

a detour you know I just had an aha

a detour you know I just had an aha listening to you I love it when that

listening to you I love it when that

listening to you I love it when that happens to me I’ve often thought that

happens to me I’ve often thought that

happens to me I’ve often thought that and it’s because of your use of the word

and it’s because of your use of the word

and it’s because of your use of the word betrayal I’ve often thought having

betrayal I’ve often thought having

betrayal I’ve often thought having experienced being betrayed by a close

experienced being betrayed by a close

experienced being betrayed by a close member my family years ago thinking you

member my family years ago thinking you

member my family years ago thinking you that was the worst that there’s no

that was the worst that there’s no

that was the worst that there’s no nothing worse than being betrayed and

nothing worse than being betrayed and

nothing worse than being betrayed and just hearing you talk about it today I

just hearing you talk about it today I

just hearing you talk about it today I think there’s nothing worse than

think there’s nothing worse than

think there’s nothing worse than betraying yourself that the worst most

betraying yourself that the worst most

betraying yourself that the worst most ultimate betrayal is the betrayal to

ultimate betrayal is the betrayal to

ultimate betrayal is the betrayal to yourself you’re right yeah

thank you guys so much for watching I’d

thank you guys so much for watching I’d love to know what do you do to this

love to know what do you do to this

love to know what do you do to this video what did you take from it you’re

video what did you take from it you’re

video what did you take from it you’re going to immunity applies because like

going to immunity applies because like

going to immunity applies because like 40 degrees is somehow please share

40 degrees is somehow please share

40 degrees is somehow please share because there are comments below I’m

because there are comments below I’m

because there are comments below I’m really excited to see what you have I

really excited to see what you have I

really excited to see what you have I want to give a quick shout it just gets

want to give a quick shout it just gets

want to give a quick shout it just gets prettier and stiff thank you so much

prettier and stiff thank you so much

prettier and stiff thank you so much your finger up with my folks your one

your finger up with my folks your one

your finger up with my folks your one board and doing some review on your

board and doing some review on your

board and doing some review on your website as well as posting it to Twitter

website as well as posting it to Twitter

website as well as posting it to Twitter thank you so much as a support base and

thank you so much as a support base and

thank you so much as a support base and I’m really happy to join them

I’m really happy to join them

I’m really happy to join them thank you guys so much watching Isis

thank you guys so much watching Isis

thank you guys so much watching Isis even you know to get you to believe in

even you know to get you to believe in

even you know to get you to believe in yourself and whatever your whatever it

yourself and whatever your whatever it

yourself and whatever your whatever it is much love have an amazing day

I wake up every single morning with a

I wake up every single morning with a very clear sense of purpose it’s to

very clear sense of purpose it’s to

very clear sense of purpose it’s to inspire people to do what inspires them

inspire people to do what inspires them

inspire people to do what inspires them so together we can change our world and

so together we can change our world and

so together we can change our world and I have a very clear vision of the world

I have a very clear vision of the world

I have a very clear vision of the world I want to live it I would like to live

I want to live it I would like to live

I want to live it I would like to live in a world in which the vast majority of

in a world in which the vast majority of

in a world in which the vast majority of people wake up every single morning

people wake up every single morning

people wake up every single morning inspired to go to work they feel safe

inspired to go to work they feel safe

inspired to go to work they feel safe when they’re there and they come home at

when they’re there and they come home at

when they’re there and they come home at the end of the day fulfilled by the work

the end of the day fulfilled by the work

the end of the day fulfilled by the work that they do and I’ve committed all of

that they do and I’ve committed all of

that they do and I’ve committed all of my work and it doesn’t matter what form

my work and it doesn’t matter what form

my work and it doesn’t matter what form it takes or the speaking or writing or

it takes or the speaking or writing or

it takes or the speaking or writing or teaching or advising or doesn’t even

teaching or advising or doesn’t even

teaching or advising or doesn’t even matter what form it takes in some way

matter what form it takes in some way

matter what form it takes in some way shape or form to help advance that

shape or form to help advance that

shape or form to help advance that vision and move closer and closer to it

vision and move closer and closer to it

vision and move closer and closer to it all what do I do with my life question

all what do I do with my life question

all what do I do with my life question implied that adulthood is this

implied that adulthood is this

implied that adulthood is this monolithic creature that like you

monolithic creature that like you

monolithic creature that like you acquire your job and your spouse and

acquire your job and your spouse and

acquire your job and your spouse and then you just ride it out until times

then you just ride it out until times

then you just ride it out until times winged chariot shows up I thought this

winged chariot shows up I thought this

winged chariot shows up I thought this when I was younger too and it’s not our

when I was younger too and it’s not our

when I was younger too and it’s not our fault because how does every single

fault because how does every single

fault because how does every single happily-ever-after movie and with

happily-ever-after movie and with

happily-ever-after movie and with finding your one true love and kissing

finding your one true love and kissing

finding your one true love and kissing them occasionally marrying them at the

them occasionally marrying them at the

them occasionally marrying them at the very latest having a child with them 95%

very latest having a child with them 95%

very latest having a child with them 95% of romantic stories end with partners

of romantic stories end with partners

of romantic stories end with partners committing to each other because

committing to each other because

committing to each other because everything after that is just the blank

everything after that is just the blank

everything after that is just the blank terrifying morass of adulthood this

terrifying morass of adulthood this

terrifying morass of adulthood this monotonous grind in which the only real

monotonous grind in which the only real

monotonous grind in which the only real excitement in your life is occasionally

excitement in your life is occasionally

excitement in your life is occasionally finding a truly ripe avocado at the

finding a truly ripe avocado at the

finding a truly ripe avocado at the grocery store

grocery store

grocery store no it’s make I’m not going to lie to you

no it’s make I’m not going to lie to you

no it’s make I’m not going to lie to you I get very excited when I find a truly

I get very excited when I find a truly

I get very excited when I find a truly ripe avocado at the grocery store but

ripe avocado at the grocery store but

ripe avocado at the grocery store but it’s not the only excitement in my life

it’s not the only excitement in my life

it’s not the only excitement in my life and let me submit that one of the

and let me submit that one of the

and let me submit that one of the reasons you’re so terrified about

reasons you’re so terrified about

reasons you’re so terrified about figuring out what you’re going to do

figuring out what you’re going to do

figuring out what you’re going to do with your life is that you think you’re

with your life is that you think you’re

with your life is that you think you’re only going to be able to do one thing

only going to be able to do one thing

only going to be able to do one thing like if someone told you that in four

like if someone told you that in four

like if someone told you that in four years you were going to have to pick one

years you were going to have to pick one

years you were going to have to pick one musical note to listen to for the rest

musical note to listen to for the rest

musical note to listen to for the rest of your life you would spend a lot of

of your life you would spend a lot of

of your life you would spend a lot of time being super anxious about which

time being super anxious about which

time being super anxious about which note to pick and the various total

note to pick and the various total

note to pick and the various total qualities of different notes but that’s

qualities of different notes but that’s

qualities of different notes but that’s not what life is like you will always be

not what life is like you will always be

not what life is like you will always be figuring out what to do with your life

figuring out what to do with your life

figuring out what to do with your life and you’ll get to do lots of different

and you’ll get to do lots of different

and you’ll get to do lots of different things and your decisions will be unmade

things and your decisions will be unmade

things and your decisions will be unmade by circumstance like your wife’s gets a

by circumstance like your wife’s gets a

by circumstance like your wife’s gets a job in Kuala Lumpur you’re staring at

job in Kuala Lumpur you’re staring at

job in Kuala Lumpur you’re staring at the night sky one night and decide you

the night sky one night and decide you

the night sky one night and decide you want to get a PhD and astrophysics or

want to get a PhD and astrophysics or

want to get a PhD and astrophysics or your uncle dies and there’s no one to

your uncle dies and there’s no one to

your uncle dies and there’s no one to take over as junkyard or your little

take over as junkyard or your little

take over as junkyard or your little brother starts a freaking video

brother starts a freaking video

brother starts a freaking video conference just like your life now

conference just like your life now

conference just like your life now adulthood will have all this tension

adulthood will have all this tension

adulthood will have all this tension between idealism and practicality and

between idealism and practicality and

between idealism and practicality and you’ll have to balance competing desires

you’ll have to balance competing desires

you’ll have to balance competing desires and you don’t have to do just one thing

and you don’t have to do just one thing

and you don’t have to do just one thing you can be an electrical engineer who

you can be an electrical engineer who

you can be an electrical engineer who volunteers on archaeological digs

volunteers on archaeological digs

volunteers on archaeological digs William Carlos Williams was both a poet

William Carlos Williams was both a poet

William Carlos Williams was both a poet and a doctor Julia

and a doctor Julia

and a doctor Julia I’ll decide from being an extraordinary

I’ll decide from being an extraordinary

I’ll decide from being an extraordinary chef was also a freakin spy for the

chef was also a freakin spy for the

chef was also a freakin spy for the United States I mean Hank if you told my

United States I mean Hank if you told my

United States I mean Hank if you told my college self that I’d one day be a

college self that I’d one day be a

college self that I’d one day be a novelist with the side gig putting my

novelist with the side gig putting my

novelist with the side gig putting my mustachioed face on the torsos of

mustachioed face on the torsos of

mustachioed face on the torsos of strangers I would have been duly

strangers I would have been duly

strangers I would have been duly surprised and you studied organic

surprised and you studied organic

surprised and you studied organic fracking chemistry before writing songs

fracking chemistry before writing songs

fracking chemistry before writing songs about Harry Potter so here’s my advice

about Harry Potter so here’s my advice

about Harry Potter so here’s my advice study broadly and without fear we’re in

study broadly and without fear we’re in

study broadly and without fear we’re in a language if you can because that will

a language if you can because that will

a language if you can because that will make your life more interesting read a

make your life more interesting read a

make your life more interesting read a little bit every day but most

little bit every day but most

little bit every day but most importantly try to surround yourself

importantly try to surround yourself

importantly try to surround yourself with people you like and make cool stuff

with people you like and make cool stuff

with people you like and make cool stuff with them in the end at least in my

with them in the end at least in my

with them in the end at least in my experience what you do isn’t going to be

experience what you do isn’t going to be

experience what you do isn’t going to be nearly as interesting or important as

nearly as interesting or important as

nearly as interesting or important as who you do it with a lot of people ask

who you do it with a lot of people ask

who you do it with a lot of people ask me how do I know what my true purpose is

me how do I know what my true purpose is

me how do I know what my true purpose is the answer is the difference between a

the answer is the difference between a

the answer is the difference between a career and a calling is the difference

career and a calling is the difference

career and a calling is the difference between satisfaction and fulfillment it

between satisfaction and fulfillment it

between satisfaction and fulfillment it is the difference between an interest

is the difference between an interest

is the difference between an interest and a passion what is the difference

and a passion what is the difference

and a passion what is the difference between an interest and a passion so

between an interest and a passion so

between an interest and a passion so many people are interested in is

many people are interested in is

many people are interested in is interested in that but see when you go

interested in that but see when you go

interested in that but see when you go to marry somebody you don’t get down on

to marry somebody you don’t get down on

to marry somebody you don’t get down on one knee and say baby would you marry me

one knee and say baby would you marry me

one knee and say baby would you marry me I am interested in you nut no you don’t

I am interested in you nut no you don’t

I am interested in you nut no you don’t do that unless you want to get smacked

do that unless you want to get smacked

do that unless you want to get smacked in the face and then left you got to say

in the face and then left you got to say

in the face and then left you got to say baby I’m passionate about you you

baby I’m passionate about you you

baby I’m passionate about you you complete me I can actually live this

complete me I can actually live this

complete me I can actually live this life without you without us together

life without you without us together

life without you without us together that’s operated from the heart

that’s operated from the heart

that’s operated from the heart and if you don’t operate from the heart

and if you don’t operate from the heart

and if you don’t operate from the heart I can guarantee you’ll live a life

I can guarantee you’ll live a life

I can guarantee you’ll live a life climbing a ladder and if you get to the

climbing a ladder and if you get to the

climbing a ladder and if you get to the top you will realize that it was lame

top you will realize that it was lame

top you will realize that it was lame against the wrong wall they say never

against the wrong wall they say never

against the wrong wall they say never become too good at something you hate or

become too good at something you hate or

become too good at something you hate or they will make you do it for the rest of

they will make you do it for the rest of

they will make you do it for the rest of your life so live ask yourself these

your life so live ask yourself these

your life so live ask yourself these three questions

three questions

three questions what are your natural talents what is

what are your natural talents what is

what are your natural talents what is something you enjoy doing what is

something you enjoy doing what is

something you enjoy doing what is something that you can’t shut up about

something that you can’t shut up about

something that you can’t shut up about you got to read write and talk about it

you got to read write and talk about it

you got to read write and talk about it that’s how you get closer and closer to

that’s how you get closer and closer to

that’s how you get closer and closer to your mission or purpose in life still

your mission or purpose in life still

your mission or purpose in life still confused okay so I believe that the best

confused okay so I believe that the best

confused okay so I believe that the best teacher of how to live life is dead

teacher of how to live life is dead

teacher of how to live life is dead legend has it and when we are on our

legend has it and when we are on our

legend has it and when we are on our death beds we will be visited my ghost

death beds we will be visited my ghost

death beds we will be visited my ghost these are the ghosts of our ideas dreams

these are the ghosts of our ideas dreams

these are the ghosts of our ideas dreams abilities talents given to us my life

abilities talents given to us my life

abilities talents given to us my life and if we never acted on that idea never

and if we never acted on that idea never

and if we never acted on that idea never pursue that dream never worked on those

pursue that dream never worked on those

pursue that dream never worked on those skills used or voice or wrote that book

skills used or voice or wrote that book

skills used or voice or wrote that book then those ghosts will say we came to

then those ghosts will say we came to

then those ghosts will say we came to you and only you could have given us

you and only you could have given us

you and only you could have given us life but now we must die with you

life but now we must die with you

life but now we must die with you forever so ask yourself this question my

forever so ask yourself this question my

forever so ask yourself this question my friends engage this thought experiment

friends engage this thought experiment

friends engage this thought experiment if you have one year to live 365 days

if you have one year to live 365 days

if you have one year to live 365 days and whatever you chose to do you were

and whatever you chose to do you were

and whatever you chose to do you were guaranteed to succeed that what would

guaranteed to succeed that what would

guaranteed to succeed that what would you do

you do

you do chances are that is what you should be

chances are that is what you should be

chances are that is what you should be doing right now

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